"don't hit a man where he's weak, he will *never* forget"
@JamesMatthews-mc5bc
Жыл бұрын
Never ever
@lc7344
Жыл бұрын
He will not forget, I know
@rickymcdonald2669
Жыл бұрын
I damn show never forget. I will remember it until the day I die
@surya-hh5kl
Жыл бұрын
You mean on nuts? Will he alive after that🤷🏼♂️
@ghost_strucid6579
Жыл бұрын
@@surya-hh5kltis negro oolhe
@hookedonhifi2570
Жыл бұрын
We must protect this lady at all cost
@joshuadaniels3259
10 ай бұрын
Agreed
@raycooper2630
10 ай бұрын
Me too
@dibyanshudivy39
10 ай бұрын
Damn how good she can connect to what man faces
@hookedonhifi2570
10 ай бұрын
@@dibyanshudivy39 yeah man… hence why she needs to be protected at all cost
@ShardaRani-q5f
10 ай бұрын
Me too
@mahdiahmedibrahimibrahim6231
Жыл бұрын
Tears from eyes 😢she hit the nail on its head 😭 she spoke from the bottom of my ❤️ heart and expressed what I'm going through
@MrOMar1144
Жыл бұрын
She’s a part of the 0.1% of sisters that know this, bless her heart. The other 99.9% would say something along the lines of “ugh omg, just SPEAK, is it really that hard?”
@757bigj
Жыл бұрын
They know it
@Luke9s9
9 ай бұрын
This is a real woman 🙏❤️
@nem8725
Жыл бұрын
It’s more than a slap to the face. It feels like betrayal. A stab to the heart through the back while she hugged you.
@teachersteve1768
Жыл бұрын
she is the kind we looking for.... she gets it , talking to our friends is NOT THE SAME as talking to our BETTER HALF
@Honestandtruth007
Жыл бұрын
Totally Agree 👍💯
@TheRealPrinceCastro
Жыл бұрын
She too does it. You been fooled
@princimusprime
Жыл бұрын
You had me until BETTER half.
@warrendraw5142
9 ай бұрын
How could a Blackman not love this young Blackwoman, because us Blackmen know that she's telling the truth. Only foolish and/or ignorant women disagree with this Beatiful, intelligent , and loving Blackwoman.
@knowgo411
Жыл бұрын
This is deep on so many levels (well said)👍🏼💥🙌🏽💥👏🏼💥💯💯💯
@outatim3216
Жыл бұрын
this is nonsence this is why society is falling apart.
@solomonvenunye7309
Жыл бұрын
This girl was coached by her grandma she is not old enough to know what she is talking about. She is going to be a great wife.
@MasterMind-ye3bb
Жыл бұрын
Age is not knowledge!!!
@peterhoatson6954
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@DominguismeThesis
Жыл бұрын
Is going ? You don't know her, maybe she is already a true one with a real man !
@donnawashington5834
Жыл бұрын
I honestly think they have a lot of coached individuals on here. No I do not know this woman. But I know God. I know what a woman of God looks like. True followers do not conform to things of this world such as fake lashes, make up and face piercings. Vanity is not of God. A true woman of God will respect God and God's creations. They will love their natural state of being. They do not change God's creation to appease themselves and or other people of this world. True beauty is skin deep. I prefer a person to be able to accept their own truth 1st and have the confidence to show up as their true self.. Before trying to speak the truth.. Although what she is saying is true. I do not believe it to be her truth. I find it a little difficult for a woman wearing make up and fake lashes trying to keep it all the way real🤷🏽
@genog5791
10 ай бұрын
This is some real talk!
@shanekelly1374
Жыл бұрын
Having it thrown at me as a weapon, eff off. Not met a woman that I can trust with my heart.
@mbp32
Жыл бұрын
Likewise, unfortunately
@LarryPruitt
Жыл бұрын
that's the gag. They can never be trusted with your heart
@obukunmi
Жыл бұрын
Only trust God with your heart. Never give it to a flesh and blood being.
@i7abella
Жыл бұрын
Have you met Jesus? ..you can trust Him.. everything else will come from that relationship!
@Dannniellleee
Жыл бұрын
Idk… I think you only need that one, but make sure the relationship is blessed by GOD and she honors you. ❤️💛
@annaleevalfig1119
6 ай бұрын
I’m the opposite I listened with love I didn’t judge even if I didn’t agree, I always told him you have the right to feel however you feel, your feelings are yours and you have the right to express yourself no matter what anyone thinks even me.
@mrbrowne250
Жыл бұрын
That one time that I choose to talk that's the one time she chose to distance herself and ignored everything I was saying when I poured my heart out
@viewsfromthe7side171
Жыл бұрын
I’m tired of holding it in 😢😢
@starseedlifepath9
Жыл бұрын
Awww. I know the feeling I was dating a guy he love talking about his boring interests which I listen and engage but when I need to talk about real issues or sensitive topics in depth he tune out or interrupt or get rude. Thank God it's nothing serious bcus I end it before it got started or too far into a trap. Lol I thought it was personal but he was that way with ppl period . Holding passionate expression inside is miserable. They too surface and superficial.
@RebelMusic4Rebels
Жыл бұрын
Let it out fam! Honestly, I’ll tell a woman my deepest secrets with the understanding that one day she may use this against me… like you said, I gotta get it out!
@SuperKwame1
10 ай бұрын
As a man from Africa I approve this message!❤❤❤❤❤
@denisewilliams5681
7 ай бұрын
He didn’t give it to me you gave it to me remember yeah I belong together standing ovation
@KingslayerSTK
Жыл бұрын
Real talk men thought process is different 💯
@sweetwillow028_
11 ай бұрын
I think this not only apply to men. I think it’s important to create a safe atmosphere for people in your life when things get a little edgy… friendship or family members.
@chompsodanii4563
11 ай бұрын
GOD bless you woman🙏🏾 and peace be upon you 🎉❤🙏🏾🎉
@howardbutler3209
5 ай бұрын
Once a man opens up to a woman emotionally and she takes that information and weaponize it against him, he will never open himself up that way again to her. No matter how much he loves her.
@Man_like_eazy_d
11 ай бұрын
Using a man’s deepest secret against him is just cruel. The silence comes from hurt.
@jakedragon646
10 ай бұрын
Being a man is a dark lonely road. Noone cares about you and you have to be at the tip of the spear at all times. To be a protector and a provider comes with a burden unknown to women and children. We cherish our hard work and suffering by watching our children and our wives enjoy life and be happy.
@PamArtemi-lb3yc
9 ай бұрын
Now we only two strangers living separate lifes
@millionmiler
4 ай бұрын
It starts during child hood example Boy cries and he gets told not to be a crybaby and grow up Girl gets told and raised as a strong independent woman that dont need a man
@thomashowlin4353
11 ай бұрын
I personally talk to much, my woman, who I love with all my heart, doesn’t want to hear it. She is my heart, my mind, my soul,I miss her !
@vickiesherrill3771
10 ай бұрын
Amen! Lord help me to be open to my husband to talk to me.
@carogra1953
11 ай бұрын
It’s easy said than done!
@lillienaulls3914
6 ай бұрын
I teach my son that he should be open to his emotions however understand that you can't trust everyone to share your weaknesses I'm Just Saying ❤
@primeknowledge99
9 ай бұрын
Next level I Q , appreciate it ❤
@MAMABR3AD
10 ай бұрын
S***, I learned. I got it. It can happen. FR
@Fpskeny
2 ай бұрын
Me personally didn’t know the emotional side of things with females. They like to talk about things and you try to fix it but that’s not what they want. They want you to validate what they are feeling not fix it
@gtt2728
4 ай бұрын
Men don't talk - Men with Podcast- Talking
@keltonroberts-iu8vi
10 ай бұрын
My ex got mad at me because I never got mad..
@JasonYamada-hu2xs
6 ай бұрын
From Dust We Came 2 Dust We Shall Return ❤.
@Knoway1
5 ай бұрын
Father Son Holy Spirit Then Brothers Men wont talk to their partner Like you would expect you should Know
@JeremiahLewallen-o8r
4 ай бұрын
Why would we, when we open our mouths and we get redicule, eye rolls, and screams.
@TheNqobziNqobz
5 ай бұрын
Nope gents never open up, just do your things, provide for you family and live life to ensure you are secure. If you want to open up you will open up to Jesus not a women.
@geminitwinworld
9 ай бұрын
Finally!!! Someone who gets us marry me!!!
@juliathomas2807
10 ай бұрын
But likewise some men are very good at using your emotions against the women 😳
@adrianchandler7853
Жыл бұрын
I knew a woman that actually would listen to me, never threw my vulnerabilities in my face (no matter how heated the argument got), and she never looked at me as less of a man for crying around her. She passed not too long ago. She was a rare gem! I was so fortunate to have a woman like that in my life! I miss her so much! 🥺
@infinityinfinityinfi
Жыл бұрын
This world couldn't hold such a treasure. Sorry for your loss, my G.
@otiswhite7328
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that bro you know the good ones always go early i dont know why its sad blessings
@jwh648
Жыл бұрын
I would have loved a woman like that. I have a wife that likes to put me down. If I cry I'm soft. I have to be a man at all times. I have been married to her for 26 years. I finally realized let me be me. IT TOOK YEARS FOR ME TO LEARN THIS. I love me and I will do me and allow me to be vulnerable, thanks to my therapist. If your spouse loves you she will be there for you 💯. She will cry with you because men hurt too. This is deep..
@Bushido1089
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss brother. My prayers and blessings are sent your way along with that special soul. May her soul rest in peace 🙏
@shamimnansikombi6828
Жыл бұрын
Sry for yo loss and may the almighty Lord forgive her and grant her paradise
@monstarstevo7307
9 ай бұрын
Trust is the most important thing to a man. If he Trusts you . He will be open and honest. Be ready for thing's you don't want to hear but need to
@forrestoverin9462
Жыл бұрын
If you punish someone for being open with you, they'll stop being open with you.
@ronaldmorris4098
Жыл бұрын
I’ll never do it again. All of what I said was eventually used against me. So I’m good and quiet about what’s going on with me.
@CarlosHernandez-rl2wg
Жыл бұрын
@@ronaldmorris4098I know the feeling.
@TheKenndyMedia
Жыл бұрын
Like my ex would she would see me so weak when I tell her what's in my mind and heart...She would later tell me sth hurtful to my soul and ever since am always hurt
@marjorymsuku9312
Жыл бұрын
Anyone - man or woman - would not continue talking to you if you used what they told you in confidence against them. Why do we make it as if men as specially more hurt by this than women????
@forrestoverin9462
Жыл бұрын
Because women have fewer barriers to receiving emotional supporthan men do. Women aren't charged with being 'weak' for opening up, like men often are. @@marjorymsuku9312
@CrowdPleza16
10 ай бұрын
Whoever her man is..... He is a very blessed man.
@PrinceCharming001
7 ай бұрын
Please do you know of any of her social media handles, channels or page? 🙏
@basilhenry-eyo6522
5 ай бұрын
Reall
@calvinbrown5597
4 ай бұрын
@@PrinceCharming001 lol
@applejack4225
Жыл бұрын
I hope every good man finds a good woman like this.
@TB-mj7gt
Жыл бұрын
No. Woman need to stop asking men to open up. Most times they can’t handle what’s eating you up inside.
@kimblinawai7255
Жыл бұрын
@applejack4225 not all videos reflect the heart of a person's actions, because I am sure that she isn't going to take any BS from a man.
@waterdragon2012
Жыл бұрын
A good woman doesn’t glue goofy eyelashes on her eyelids
@cedricbethea358
Жыл бұрын
@applejack 4225 you're so naive, imagine crying to her that you can't pay the rent. All that understanding will disappear.
@TB-mj7gt
Жыл бұрын
@@cedricbethea358 I can’t tell you how many times a girl wants to know and then feels sorry she ever asked
@TYPHONGAMINGOFFICIAL
11 ай бұрын
As a man, I certify those words are so true.
@tryinryan.2786
9 ай бұрын
I'm blown away!!! She is correct and in tune with us. Thank you!! Think I speak for a lot of us THANK YOU!!!
@anricquet
9 ай бұрын
... I believe you speak for us all, sirs!!!
@Sh00ta5k
9 ай бұрын
Y dont this comment have more thsn 1k likes..
@arielmunoz9835
7 ай бұрын
@@Sh00ta5kbecause what she saying yes it has some truth but it doesn't apply to every man.. it might seem to some like she's speaking from a personal experience..in other words maybe she went through an experience with her man or a male figure.
@marlonabrahams531
Жыл бұрын
WHO IS THIS WOMAN. Every word she speaks, resonates with me..I shut down emotionally after my divorce. I was hurt the exact way she explains. I brought everything to the table and shared everything about me. These things were used against me. I will not do that again with just anybody again. Maybe some day I will meet someone mature with the mentality like this beautiful lady.
@heatherberry01
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, I know how that feels. I hope you keep your heart open for the right one and remember you opening up was never the problem. Peace be with you 😇
@dominique046
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your transparency brother! You will meet that women one day and everything will start to make sense. 💯
@haggai3.477
Жыл бұрын
Women are supposed to be a Man's Emotional resting place. Men are Trees and Women are the SOIL. Men Produce Fruit that contain seeds. Every Seed is impotent until it enters the Right Soil. Soil quality determines whether or not the Tree Lives or Dies. Bear in mind that certain Trees only Flourish in their Native SOIL Therefore, when something or someone is placed into your care....... Do they grow, do they Flourish or do they Die? Women Worship Men that are Strong enough to be weak. Look at JESUS. Whereas Men adore Women that Celebrate them with their WORDS. Jesus Anointed by a Sinful Woman 36One of the Pharisees asked Jesus to have dinner with him, so Jesus went to his home and sat down to eat.h 37When a certain immoral woman from that city heard he was eating there, she brought a beautiful alabaster jar filled with expensive perfume. 38Then she knelt behind him at his feet, weeping. Her tears fell on his feet, and she wiped them off with her hair. Then she kept kissing his feet and putting perfume on them. 39When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would know what kind of woman is touching him. She’s a sinner!” 40Then Jesus answered his thoughts. “Simon,” he said to the Pharisee, “I have something to say to you.” “Go ahead, Teacher,” Simon replied. 41Then Jesus told him this story: “A man loaned money to two people-500 pieces of silveri to one and 50 pieces to the other. 42But neither of them could repay him, so he kindly forgave them both, canceling their debts. Who do you suppose loved him more after that?” 43Simon answered, “I suppose the one for whom he canceled the larger debt.” “That’s right,” Jesus said. 44Then he turned to the woman and said to Simon, “Look at this woman kneeling here. When I entered your home, you didn’t offer me water to wash the dust from my feet, but she has washed them with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45You didn’t greet me with a kiss, but from the time I first came in, she has not stopped kissing my feet. 46You neglected the courtesy of olive oil to anoint my head, but she has anointed my feet with rare perfume. 47“I tell you, her sins-and they are many-have been forgiven, so she has shown me much love. But a person who is forgiven little shows only little love.” 48Then Jesus said to the woman, “Your sins are forgiven.” 49The men at the table said among themselves, “Who is this man, that he goes around forgiving sins?” 50And Jesus said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.” LUKE 7: 36-50 NLT.
@RebelMusic4Rebels
Жыл бұрын
My man, I get it! As much as it hurts saying this, but all women are not the same, so keep showing love and affection to the ones that deserves it! I mean, like this sister here! Who is she???
@whatchandstudy7
Жыл бұрын
Let me give you the real advice. Never do that with any woman. Take those problems to your homies. Your own life proved that ish doesn't work. Try it again if you want to. You are her rock not the other way around.
@estebanrosado8885
Жыл бұрын
She is so right! God bless women that truly understand Men and are trying to educate. Thank you love
@movingon2081
Жыл бұрын
What did she say that was right not all men are the same and she grouped every man which shows her ignorance a man will open up when he ready u don’t have to create a vulnerable state etheir wait til she ready to talk or leave him because he won’t communicate
@cameroonbreezygoat903
Жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo you new age niggaz are too in touch with y’all feelings
@utilize3eyes
Жыл бұрын
That’s a real one, mature enough to know it’s not always about her
@kimmiet.8962
Жыл бұрын
And that no woman is not always right. She’s not the only one. Trust we exist. I’m fallible as hell, but I also don’t want to be discarded because I am.
@utilize3eyes
Жыл бұрын
@@kimmiet.8962 have a blessed day!
@michaelswanigan2115
Жыл бұрын
The only to avoid this is to never give a woman your heart. You can care about them but keep them wayyyyy down the list of your priorities. This keeps your mind at ease and unbothered...lol
@AlwaysK2withD3
Жыл бұрын
Even in all that she's saying, trying to get a word in will be like playing double dutch with a broken leg 😂!
@RebelMusic4Rebels
Жыл бұрын
@@michaelswanigan2115True! But I love LOVE ❤
@Pericles777
Жыл бұрын
Shit, that’s usually the most unattractive thing to most women I’ve encountered. You start to open up you get dumped 😂😂
@E3litecompany
Жыл бұрын
Because women only care about you catering to their unstable emotions once you start showing yours they get the ick
@KoiAi_
Жыл бұрын
@@E3litecompanyuntrue, unhealed, self centered females don't care. The same with unhealed men making statements like the one you just made. The woman in the clip is the type of woman who understands that men are human too and we as women can shut them up for good by not handling our own emotions and projecting or getting angry at the man for opening up. Those of us who have some sense about us allow our partners to be human and open up without weaponizing their emotions against them, something a lot of the time gets weaponized against us and yet we still open up. So heal and mature before making those blanket statements.
@SELF9OF9SOURSE
Жыл бұрын
@@E3litecompanyBecause It's A Belief They Have Growing Up That's Normalized. It's Key To Learn About Each Other's Nature So We Can Cater To Each Other Better. Not Over Or Under Doing It.
@E3litecompany
Жыл бұрын
@@SELF9OF9SOURSE well said
@vernonmosely3213
Жыл бұрын
exactly my point. open up she would say I can't stand a weak ass man
@PhallicEnergy
Жыл бұрын
Men don’t talk because most women don’t listen. The best thing I’ve learned is never let anybody know what’s truly on your mind or everything that happened... it’s the only true way to keep yourself and keep others safe... From co-workers to friends, to family members.
@maddanks8180
Жыл бұрын
Real talk fam.
@Lil08103
Жыл бұрын
too many men dont talk to their friends either, so we can't just blame it all on women. this video is on point and i love that she challenges women to be more self-aware in creating safe space for men in their lives. but as men we also have to take responsibility for beliefs and habits we've learned that are not conducive to healthy relationships. a lot of us are simply poor communicators and not very self-aware/reflective.
@AlanaAyala-j2o
Жыл бұрын
@@Lil08103👏👏👏👏👍Thank you!
@Fucyourfeelings
Жыл бұрын
Never trust a woman with your feelings. You will regret it.
@darrensimmons7030
Жыл бұрын
100 I agree
@iggygirlsballersclub7819
11 ай бұрын
Speak it young sista!! Lets teach and learn from each other.❤
@lincolnward85
Жыл бұрын
you can't ask someone to speak then ignore then when they do. it's just that simple. me talking doesn't count ONLY when I'm saying what you want to hear.
@lgande11
Жыл бұрын
So True and Powerful
@thecaptain4420
Жыл бұрын
Most men in relationships plead the fifth for the same reasons as the so called “Miranda rights”: anything that you say can be used against you…think about it 🤔
@Dom-vo9ni
Жыл бұрын
And women just let out all the truth.😂.
@manicoallen9198
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@yankhobanda6853
Жыл бұрын
Strongly agree
@zoozagt5
Жыл бұрын
Hmmmm....I think I get it now 😮
@ifixeditmyself1926
Жыл бұрын
As a man, I love talking and I will communicate extensively. Talking about issues does many things for me: It helps to lay down burdens and not carry unnecessary stress that can make me angry or bitter. Talking also helps me to understand those around me who may be harming my energy and causing unwanted anxiety. Talking also helps me to enliven my conversations instead of holding my thoughts inside which allows others to experience my joy as well as my pain. I can go on and on about why I talk as a man and the healing process that occurs in doing so is absolutely necessary for my mental wellbeing and spiritual health.
@jaymkz3225
Жыл бұрын
Solid...big props brother. Keep being you bro
@ifixeditmyself1926
Жыл бұрын
@@jaymkz3225 Thanks brother!
@devinebeaut
Жыл бұрын
Amen. Healthy men talk.
@ifixeditmyself1926
Жыл бұрын
@@devinebeaut Thank you 💚
@Alexalexalexalexx
Жыл бұрын
Nice one ✅️
@keziacarr6375
10 ай бұрын
Women don't realise how much influence they play in a man's life. I'm a women and I acknowledge that❤
@Ahmuh312
Жыл бұрын
I talk. And I’m not changing. My woman throw something in my face . I’m leaving her ass. Simple
@codyp2808
Жыл бұрын
STAY SWAGGIFIED MY BROTHER JUST DON'T LET YOUR HEARTBREAK TURN IT TO STONE. True love wished upon you
@utilize3eyes
Жыл бұрын
You must be single
@tpatt513
Жыл бұрын
PREACH
@xunknown6073
Жыл бұрын
Gotdamn right.
@karla1579
Жыл бұрын
Im looking for a real man...what state you located? I'm in providence
@antrakt900
Жыл бұрын
Tell your woman about your struggles and it will overhelm her and made her think of a back up/escape plan.
@shaunajones3244
Жыл бұрын
A real woman will try to be the calm in your storm. I want my man to tell me what hurts him. Forget a back up plan. He is the plan
@Sara-q6j6d
Жыл бұрын
Back up plan😂😂😂
@antrakt900
Жыл бұрын
@@shaunajones3244 That's the healthy mindset.
@josbeam8550
Жыл бұрын
That is a red flag and not a real woman.She is not a wife.
@sylviasworld9397
Жыл бұрын
Totally depends on the type of woman, tbh.
@denniscole8634
Жыл бұрын
Now that's a real woman Alot of women need 2 take notes A real woman listen,she lift you up NOT disrespect you
@abdulazeezrauf7053
Жыл бұрын
Fact 💯
@Men-k4b
Жыл бұрын
Exactly you are a Real Man 😢🙂☺️😚☺️😎😎😎😎
@FabioSantos-cs2cf
Жыл бұрын
Biologically speaking women are just repulsed by a man who talks about his feelings to them. That’s what your brother, cousin or friends are for. Express your feelings to your girl and I promise you she won’t be sleeping with you
@DBSZ1990
Жыл бұрын
If I could love this post repeatedly over and over again I would❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@sigal5542
Жыл бұрын
Dont fall for this shit. Problem is, 99% of women agree with this Lady. They are very aware. They just arent hardwired that way. It is what it is. Dont open up and keep being a man.
@derrickhough5854
Жыл бұрын
"Never let anyone know what you are Thinking.... Women and children can be careless...not men" - Don Vito Corleone - the Godfather
@moneymitchamp
Жыл бұрын
Bingo
@Khammoor
Жыл бұрын
Nailed it
@MoPhiPulaBam
Жыл бұрын
Learned this the hard way...
@unapologetic1413
Жыл бұрын
😂 And the carelessness of "men in power" is why this ENTIRE WORLD is severely screwed up! Women were NEVER in charge men were in charge and look at the mess we're in as a society!🤣
@lefty577
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@kingkenyon5195
Жыл бұрын
Facts! A man opens up and then it's used back at him as ammo for a woman to use against him to degrade him.
@shahmianas8512
Жыл бұрын
Happens alot 💯
@lastmanstanding55
Жыл бұрын
Which is why men don't talk!
@jessebyrd2273
Жыл бұрын
I agree thank you for sharing!!!
@Dblue-rhino
Жыл бұрын
Perfecto!!!!!!
@liveinthebootheco3778
Жыл бұрын
Or to show him who he is
@romanmessiah32
Жыл бұрын
#FACTS!! MY EX WIFE ..... became my ex wife for weaponizing what I had trusted her with 😮😢..... Ruined the whole marriage & my trust for her FOREVER
@AlanaAyala-j2o
Жыл бұрын
That is so very sad to here😟 I don't know if my kids remember but, I be always said,pick ur words very carefully, U can never take them back;!! No matter what? I can apologize, u didn't mean it, u were just upset, etc.,etc., U still cannot undo the ugly horrible damage that words can do! I'm sure there's a few of us out here that can STILL here some of the worst words ever said to us just like it just happened!! I try so hard every day to make sure I don't say ugly things to any one!! Friend or foe! To see someone's eyes with nothing but pain cause what u just said to hurt them,il is oh,omg, is something I can't live with!;it's like grabbing there soul and looking into there eyes to see how bad u hurt them...........what is that? Who won ?? Sure wasn't me!! Even thought that's what I started off to do. To it's the most ugliest evil,scariest thing I've ever done. I'm crying right now . And the worst part is ......... ......I COULDN'T TAKE THOSE WORDS BACK!! Doesn't matter how hard u try.The DAMAGE is done, the words will always echo in the head. What ever u two both together at one time, is gone! Just like that, it only took seconds to destroy what took, months,years to build!,🥹😬🫥🙄🥶🥶💀🙄🫢😶🌫️😾🙊🙊❤💀👹🤡💔
@rayj.9568
Жыл бұрын
@user-xs4re4ik3o , You were very verbose.
@761shepard
Жыл бұрын
Don’t open up to women,simple. Only ya boys.
@mohamedbabajalloh4055
Жыл бұрын
You aren't alone brother I am still feeling idiotic and unmanly to have done that. I see every woman is a LIAR not potential but a LIAR and DECEIVER 😢😢
@acmmentorship5040
11 ай бұрын
Damn I needed to hear this!! My relationship just ended exactly because of this. Glad to hear a women saying and understanding it 🙏🏻
@adhdrockets
10 ай бұрын
Same here bro, it was a run of 3 years, i told her i don't love her, she dumped me. i loved her a lot, she was the first person receiving so much love from me. But when things happened, i got closed off. i received a lot of stress, my love for her faded away, i didn't want to talk anymore because i was too tired. I think you will be okay, yeah it's tough , but take in mind, you do deserve better!
@acmmentorship5040
10 ай бұрын
@@adhdrockets Same here my man! 3-year run. I did everything for her, I even moved to another country for her, bought a home for us, became the best I could at my new job and got promoted to a top position. Gave it all for her and for us, because all I wanted was peace and to create a family but she could never see the good things... only the bad. Now at 37 years old I have never felt so lonely with no friends around me or anyone to care for myself. It will get better for sure cos time heals everything. And you´re right, me and you and whoever is in this situation deserve better. Keep it strong brother!
@adhdrockets
10 ай бұрын
@@acmmentorship5040 now its the time to give it all to yourself, i gave her a lot too but not so much as you did. Instinctively i knew that i shouldnt do that. Your case may be less subtle, but for now you have to give it all to yourself. You can even attract something better
@calvinwhitney3010
10 ай бұрын
Same man marriage is ending. Going to keep keeping to myself.
@calvinwhitney3010
10 ай бұрын
@acmmentorship5040 dude the same exact thing with me bro exept her and i have kids together I know what you're going through it's tough bro, keep your head up.
@MrDarkNutz
Жыл бұрын
"Speak your mind" "What's bothering you" As soon as I start to talk I'd get cut off and somehow whatever was said was flipped back to me on top of not being heard Silence became one of my greatest friends
@McSliksOnline
Жыл бұрын
I know, I understand. I can only ever talk to other men about certain things. Because I know their opinion will be more logical & realistic.
@johnnyhellsink6124
Жыл бұрын
I don't have any one to talk to. Now I'm a single dad with a 2yo daughter and I have to figure out how to show my daughter she can talk to me. Her mother left us and is dying and there's nothing more I can do about it. Although I tried so hard obviously not hard enough. We don't always get second chances. Sometimes there is nothing left to do but to watch destruction take place. I can't protect my daughter from watching her mother die. I had to protect her from her mother and it has taken time to not feel guilty even though I wasn't the one at fault. Anyway ill just keep moving along, thanks for hearing Mr out I guess.
@gabrielkayope7303
Жыл бұрын
Women are like weather
@gabrielkayope7303
Жыл бұрын
A dog is more loyal than the other gender
@jaleelmahrouf6981
Жыл бұрын
And I may never share to heal with her, I'll need to seek therapy.
@ntpy7005
11 ай бұрын
She was definitely loved by her parents as a child and understood the meaning of true love. Respect.
@joypadbandit624
Жыл бұрын
"Anything you say, can and WILL be used against you." 😢 #TheLockedSafe
@KelechiJoshuaNwankwo
Жыл бұрын
Sadly enough, they sure end up "using it against us"
@mikerharrison5104
Жыл бұрын
Most excellent, I like that a lot, made me laugh, thanks.
@dragoonxgamer
Жыл бұрын
Don't tell your friend what your enemy should know ~i Don't Remember
@tonystark701
Жыл бұрын
"...in the court of hurt."
@ttrah8485
Жыл бұрын
Totally....
@blackapples4744
11 ай бұрын
I learned to listen to my husband by watching. Basically, I’m already a thoughtful respectful and quiet person myself. He and I were a perfect match. He’s with Christ now.🕊🙏🏾
@crissiepurple
10 ай бұрын
im sorry for your loss.
@nkosinathingwenyareacts
10 ай бұрын
May he rest in peace
@DrMacMaal
10 ай бұрын
My condolences.
@argentinacastillo3135
10 ай бұрын
Sad😢
@harsha7123
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂he is with christ means I thought he went to other town, y can't u say god?
@trinity-hopetricia3241
Жыл бұрын
Thank God for this woman need more like her 🏆🐐🎯🙏
@Caramel9487
Жыл бұрын
🙄y’all will get one and still cheat on her/leave her with the same women y’all complain about
@behealthywithme9178
Жыл бұрын
@@Caramel9487hahahaha yeah right
@juliansearcie1758
Жыл бұрын
@@Caramel9487y'all? ..
@KevoM945
Жыл бұрын
I love the sincerity in this queens eyes and voice. Wise woman. A woman is more powerful than a nuclear missile. A woman can make or break a guy. A woman can cause two great empires to go to war and have massive casualties. To all the women out there, know this and handle yourself responsibly and respectfully. Men do everything in life just to see their queen and children happy and safe. A lot of pressure is placed on the woman just giving birth which has got to be the craziest experience ever to have a human grow inside of oneself. Love you ladies but know how to respect yourself and how to respect your man so that he can perform at his best giving you the life that you deserve
@hyronharrison8127
Жыл бұрын
Look for bible verses on wise women, and good women....itll all make sense
@souadharbi4163
Жыл бұрын
well said
@KtotheG
Жыл бұрын
Women only have as much power as men give them. If men stop sympin', women become powerless. Oh, and Helen of Troy was a myth.
@gloriousjohnson1807
Жыл бұрын
: Amen.
@thursdaygrape
Жыл бұрын
No woman can make or break any man who has worked on himself. Women are breaking themselves over why their alone. Its simple. Modern men aren't putting up with bullshit anymore from women who complain constantly don't appreciate men who make less than six figures dont listen want to compete with men and stupidly think we need them to survive
@blackwell2322
Жыл бұрын
As a man I can say that every woman I've been around from my mom to my girlfriends to friends talking about issues always do this. They hijack the conversation. Either with tears or by saying, yeah but what about....there is very rarely the space where I get support from women. I am terrified to share what I really think and feel about what I need because I will always end up having to comfort instead of being comforted.
@jeshurunhazelton7789
Жыл бұрын
N they say women are the most empathetic n understanding yea right dumb people think women are kinder cause they're softer n more emotional but being soft n emotional doesn't equate to being empathetic they say women are more loving even tho it's men who throughout history have sacrificed themselves for women especially their woman real love is sacrifice not coddling I believe more men understand wat love is n are more selfless compared to women not to say there aren't selfless living women out there I'm no misogynist but I can't ignore wat I've noticed
@BravoGarcia-e8v
Жыл бұрын
Even my mom told me never open yourself to a woman cuz they will use it against you!
@udochukwunwagboso7384
10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@solidwegy61
10 ай бұрын
That sucks dude cause she probably did that herself. Instead of showing you what to look for in a woman she chose to put fear into you.
@vijayVijay-qp2br
10 ай бұрын
True 💯
@commelepapillon9743
10 ай бұрын
Thé same for a man
@vanessablanc4774
10 ай бұрын
Luckily, all won’t be the same, but it will be hard to find that few
@denises3779
11 ай бұрын
Both men and women should be single. The main problem in realationships are unhealed trauma, unhealthy/toxic programming & upbringing, the lack of self awareness/reflection. Men talk alot, they rather talk to other men that's lacking realationship advice/the understanding of loving a woman and my favorite the women they're cheating on you with. The side piece know more about your man than you.....sometimes it isn't about the woman it's the man. Men breakdown when they have emotions and love for a woman. Instead of communication he lashes out. Never waste your years/or youth on any man that's not emotionally mature. With men they hurt women constantly she's still there BUT 1 mistake he uses it to leave. Men are taught in life it's only about how many ppl you sleep with and money. You will never be able to love on no one like that until they learn about what partnership is and being equally yoked. Both men and women now only care about what they can get out of the relationship instead of respecting the relationship/coming together
@kamed.
10 ай бұрын
Finally! A balanced approach to the subject matter. Most men are NOT honest! They open up to everyone BUT their significant other. (In most cases) As women we generally want to PLEASE our men. We can't do that if they don't communicate with us. In addition. There is usually A LOT of trauma that men are experiencing, or have experienced that we AREN'T always aware of. They refuse to get HELP/THERAPY. None of these things create an environment for a healthy/thriving relationship . We all have to do better. (Men&Women)
@___Manish___
10 ай бұрын
Let me rephrase it, do you mean that a men is always suppose to be mature but it's not necessary for a women to be mature? And if you think you are mature one in the relationship than it's a solution in it's own. You should be one to make effort in order to understand him. I am not saying it's women's duty but it's the duty of someone who is mature. That is exactly why 90% of relationship during schools and colleges never last longer because they lack maturity.
@___Manish___
10 ай бұрын
@koqui114Communication is indeed a multifaceted process, encompassing verbal and non-verbal elements. Studies suggest that words contribute only a small portion (around 7%) to overall communication, emphasizing the importance of non-verbal cues. Effective communication involves thoughtful expression, active listening, and understanding beyond just words. It's not solely about speaking but fostering meaningful connections.
@___Manish___
10 ай бұрын
@koqui114 I hope this clarifies the actual meaning of communication.
@Rana.M521
Жыл бұрын
She is a gem!! Please God help me find a girl like that.
@KavenDonald
11 ай бұрын
A Gemstone
@BigRobby-t3b
Жыл бұрын
That's what we are taught, talk only when it's necessary. Hear this from a man we have a way of talking to our selves in silence,in case you don't know we cry 😢 too.
@Bran-cq2nb
Жыл бұрын
Talk for yourself, my guy
@marlonabrahams531
Жыл бұрын
I am a 55 year old guy and Its perfectly okay for me to embrace both my femininity and masculinity. My super power is LOVE. I find it very hard to hurt,harm or hate another My life, my path is different to another. I don't normally talk about this BUT THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMEN'S WORDS HAS BROUGHT ME TO TEARS AND TRIGGERED ME TO SAY A FEW WORDS. ❤❤
@Christine-d7r
Жыл бұрын
Good for you! Let your feelings Free! 🤗 I tell everyone I know we cry tears for a reason - soul cleansing ❤
@heinrichmenzel7163
Жыл бұрын
Nice words man
@mizal215
Жыл бұрын
You mean sensitivity not femininity but I understand!
@RebelMusic4Rebels
Жыл бұрын
She is a special one! ❤
@unapologetic1413
Жыл бұрын
🌬️💨💨💨 WE NEED MORE MEN IN THE WORLD LIKE YOU...I Respect your honesty! You are not "too macho" to embrace all sides and a man who can do that is a man that deserves RESPECT because he's SECURE with his masculinity.
@KayWorldSoLow
Жыл бұрын
Her voice is so settling and peaceful... Plus she's spitting facts...
@Kekebusinessmogul
Жыл бұрын
My man talks to me, communicates very well with me. I would NEVER use anything against him he has shared with me.
@steelesharpensteele6252
Жыл бұрын
u will trust me u will
@jephtawallace2135
Жыл бұрын
@@steelesharpensteele6252I don’t know this lady/ wife but brother you can’t and shouldn’t throw those words into the universe. Best and wisest thing that can be done is accept she won’t, she’s possibly the exception, and if so god bless there marriage.
@michaelabrakson2919
Жыл бұрын
How long have y'all been together?
@RebelMusic4Rebels
Жыл бұрын
…because you’re doing something right! Bless the both of y’all! #Ilovelove
@MasterTigro
Жыл бұрын
You a real woman, something that is so hard to find God bless you.
@4rel2
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes, silence is golden; especially doing a potential argument, that's your partner is trying to draw you into an argument, for an unjustifiable purpose.
@luzluna6808
Жыл бұрын
She's absolutely right. Such grace and wisdom, she has a beautiful soul.
@smdygk
Жыл бұрын
She’s a 💎 we need more women like this 💯
@slimesix3407
Жыл бұрын
We don’t need women at all
@vuklazarmargic6651
Жыл бұрын
@@slimesix3407I hope thats joke
@chidubem8071
Жыл бұрын
@@slimesix3407sure we do. If we don't want our specie to go extinct .
@Hamcroqueta
Жыл бұрын
Bro I said the same thing..
@smdygk
Жыл бұрын
@@slimesix3407 I understand what u saying but we kinda do
@kyserwillams4244
Жыл бұрын
Especially when you gonna tell your friends then my conversation spreads like wildfire fires. So it was never an intimate vibe. 💯
@permazero
Жыл бұрын
Regardless if they come to you with empathy fellas - still don't talk. Trust me. 😂
@tabbylathan
Жыл бұрын
Creating a a safe place has to be reciprocated on both ends in order for a relationship to truly flourish. Everyone soul deserves to be nourished in the right atmosphere and I pray we all find that sacred place ❤
@PMMM7
Жыл бұрын
Attaway to take away from men. I don’t get you women. Everything is not about you
@tabbylathan
Жыл бұрын
@@PMMM7 God Bless you
@PMMM7
Жыл бұрын
@@tabbylathan hopefully he blesses you to see the point. No disrespect
@tabbylathan
Жыл бұрын
@@PMMM7 Amen, same to you 🙏
@alphansomatthie393
Жыл бұрын
Say it my sista, God will continue to give you the strength to speak the truth.
@hakimdmhakimdm3282
11 ай бұрын
Say Allah , it's better Because some other religions they start using GOD a lot lately You know how they be , they need to talk like Muslim and do what Muslim does Because the truth is coming up fast
@amarrevolver4452
Жыл бұрын
We don't talk or be vulnerable because we know that it doesn't matter what our women say they'll definitely judge us and we'll fall in their eyes, i know I'll be more confortable if i keep my shit to myself even if something is eating me from the inside. I know that women really want to listen and be supportive but when that shit goes down something will change and they can't help it and we can feel it. Plus women in big fights have this tendency to go directly to our insecurities and try to hurt us with everything they archived so it's better to keep as much as we can to ourselves.. Ps: if you go for your man's insecurities and try to bring them down and hurt them you better leave that relationship behind because even if things calmed down we can't help but even the score when you don't expect it because you opened the door and the empathy we had towards you is gone and everything now is game..
@NBAclipsHere
Жыл бұрын
Smartest Woman Alive
@YasheaAdabond
Жыл бұрын
Man she just spoke so much volume in that short video I pray it reaches a lot of you woman 🙏🙌❤️
@carolynwilli213x
Жыл бұрын
Don't say shxt fellas just bite that shxt and know you got brothers who got your back out here 💯
@suvrachakravarty
Жыл бұрын
Affirmative ❤
@thebridge5483
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@amarrevolver4452
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@duece-rv3fp
Жыл бұрын
Why don’t women understand that we’re different
@mihabrilj152
Жыл бұрын
Trust a snake to be a snake.
@Tedious_T
Жыл бұрын
That’s a Beautiful Woman, so smart and genuine.
@JesusBenavidez-p2s
Жыл бұрын
True that's why I don't trust nobody
@chrtyhwrd
Жыл бұрын
Well, I don't do this to him, but he very well does this to me. Everything I open up to him about, and be vulnerable. He throws it right in my face when we are arguing. 😔
@coreykendrick9615
Жыл бұрын
U got ah weak one dats why
@rachael7060
Жыл бұрын
A real experience!😢
@mjelombilini7628
Жыл бұрын
I wish that could change for the better brother.
@TiraFlecha777
Жыл бұрын
@@coreykendrick9615💯
@Jerry-rt6ut
Жыл бұрын
What do y'all argue about? It's probably petty
@amadeyo4727
Жыл бұрын
This woman know her shit, thanks for putting words on something I couldn't vocalize.
@Bee37351
9 ай бұрын
There’s nothing more beautiful than when a man finally opens us and talks…
@amiravdic7451
6 ай бұрын
Why the word “beautiful” to describe it when opening up is usually used against us? Makes me assume u find beauty in sadism behind it cuz you’re malicious. Corrent me if I’m wrong n elaborate
@Bee37351
6 ай бұрын
@@amiravdic7451 k… well sorry it’s been used against you in the past… i obviously didn’t mean it that way
@amiravdic7451
6 ай бұрын
@@Bee37351 She’s a covert narcissist n if ur not one then it’s nothing against u. I’m still traumatized by her
@rayashines12
Жыл бұрын
I've been learning this in my own marriage!! What she says is pure facts❤️
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
Жыл бұрын
as soon you get angry, his opening up to you would be weaponized against him. Women are terrible children and are very selfish.
@marshallduvall4251
Жыл бұрын
You'll be divorced soon.
@Sadhinota_songram
Жыл бұрын
Girl you are a real woman❤️
@abomination7243
Жыл бұрын
Sad, but true. 💯
@RamseyThompson-x3j
Жыл бұрын
Knot sad at all BUT ABSOLUTELY TRUE💯
@brucegauld5141
Жыл бұрын
Never open up guys. They will use it against you when you are down guys. Don't do it ever.
@maccharlesobani9521
Жыл бұрын
First time of seeing a woman who actually cares 🥺❤️
@Men-k4b
Жыл бұрын
Hey I second that 😰😎😎😛😎
@Pius.M.D.
Жыл бұрын
May we find women like this...who truly understands
@TheFirstEmpireKing
Жыл бұрын
She got an honest and really good father
@peterhoatson6954
Жыл бұрын
Yes, this wonderful behaviour will come from her parents
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