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@HoneyMack
Жыл бұрын
I will email you soon......
@msqui980
Жыл бұрын
Yes I have my story to tell
@tenaboutang5078
Жыл бұрын
I'm a 52 yr old woman and I have a story to tell. Watching your videos is giving me a little bit of courage with each one I watch. The day is coming when I to will share mine with the world.
@demontate4623
Жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for ppl that have been sexual abused.I just want this lady to start naming ppl .Like my brother got in my 🛌 etc or Uncle Joe etc.Not family member. Who???¿?
@genesekkross9128
11 ай бұрын
@@demontate4623 she’s not fully recovered from the trauma
@amandalove3951
Жыл бұрын
I was always told after my 3rd sexual assault that rape doesn't happen to someone 3 different times by 3 different people. I told my daughter I think why it happened to me so many times by different men, was because after my mom's brother molested me from age 3-7 it gave me an invisible mark only monsters could see. It told those other men that I was an easy target. Thank you so much for your bravery and sharing your remarkable story of your bravery. I hope you are healing and happy, maybe there is hope for me to.
@earthgirl4384
Жыл бұрын
Omg it happened to me 3 different men
@oshunthagreat
Жыл бұрын
I believe this too if people close to you do it it's a signal some people use to not respect you I don't believe though women attract this it's the norm of patriarchy how everyone goes on acting as if it's not is beyond me
@oshunthagreat
Жыл бұрын
Ideally the only way women can be "safe" in patriarchy is by marriage and dating a way of choosing a "lesser evil" because men can be possessing of property
@jessedevilbiss8436
Жыл бұрын
The young guys in prison are run through by hundreds of men.
@tharealcar-lee509
Жыл бұрын
Yes 3 different rapist and all of my relationships have been horribly abusive.
@brittanyhunter3331
Жыл бұрын
These abusers NEVER let go. Even if they’re in a new relationship with new children, married, and picture happy, THEY FOREVER WANT POWER AND CONTROL OVER A FORMER TARGET.
@ms.branch1207
Жыл бұрын
Yup
@mel...s
Жыл бұрын
I absolute hate when adults call children "grown" , "fast"... Women do this because theyve likely been abused and carry blame so they put the blame on a child who may seem precocious, a child that has likely been molested too. It's disgusting.
@maverickbull1909
Жыл бұрын
I doubt that’s why for 100% of cases and I also feel that to hate a term like that is over dramatic.
@robinwelch2265
Жыл бұрын
@@maverickbull1909 🌼That is exactly why the evil women do it. They're happy that it's not them now. This is an, "It's your turn now." mentality.
@litespeedway6538
Жыл бұрын
@@maverickbull1909 @mels is entitled to use whatever terms she chooses, also to express her opinion and what she says & the way she says it is valid and there is space for it here; hopefully a place for healing, acceptance, growth and very importantly open minds.🙏🏿
@annalove9593
Жыл бұрын
@@maverickbull1909 “Hate” is appropriate bc whn adult women turn thr noses up, roll thr eyes at, & talk about you, it’s traumatic and has long lasting consequences. I was a good girl but was shapely. Older female relatives body shamed & called me fass & sneaky (sneaky bc they never heard anything about me). I HATED my body & had many insecurities. Whn I look at old pics/videos, I was gorgeous. I wish I knew that then. My baby girl is just like me. Of course, here come blk women with thr toxicity, but I’m her 🦸🏾♀️ superhero. Because of my experiences, I’m aware of the signs. This is my response whn I feel that she is being judged for just existing, “It’s highly inappropriate, almost perverse for older women to look at & sexualize young girls. Don’t do that to my baby. We don’t body shame, over here.”
@No1superjuicey
Жыл бұрын
Why do I feel like many can relate to this, sad but true
@Aminus211
Жыл бұрын
I think her biological brothers were her abusers. Her older brother told his friend to come over and get her.
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
See why I don’t trust none them !!!
@robinwelch2265
Жыл бұрын
@@thawwtpoettt 🐞Yep, I keep my daughter away from situations like that.
@Flower-ck2bs
Жыл бұрын
@@robinwelch2265 It can happen anywhere. Those who do not experience that are lucky. We must protect but the abusers are sick in mind.
@chanelcampbell3032
11 ай бұрын
I wonder why she didn’t say what relative
@genesekkross9128
11 ай бұрын
@@chanelcampbell3032 she’s not fully healed , or recovered from the trauma she suffered during her childhood years she still holding on…. The more she talked about it eventually she will say who it was.
@successmanifestation2769
Жыл бұрын
Black women, we need to normalize telling the truth about these toxic black male figures in our life. Stop trying to protect these abusive bandits and call them out on their foolishness.
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
You know that will never happen. Black women with sense should move away from majority blk areas
@corephobic
Жыл бұрын
Not just black women… ALL WOMAN AND MEN!! THOSE WHO HAVE SUFFERED LIKE THIS YOUNG WOMEN, CALL YOUR ABUSER(S) OUT!! WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!!
@Littlekitten_
Жыл бұрын
Us Latinas accept this behavior too! Its definitely a huge issue ! So sad
@successmanifestation2769
Жыл бұрын
@@corephobic It’s worse when it comes to black women bc black women are literally groomed from birth to not speak about anything a black man does. If we do, we get punished for it. Every black woman family member that I have has been molested or SA’d by a black man and that’s a problem. But yes. All men should be called out.
@PoliticalAbstract
Жыл бұрын
We’re talking about black women stop trying to shift the conversation from the topic at hand. Smh
@A.x3
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad that she can't even say it was her brothers that abused her and set her up to be raped
@ajwriter5699
Жыл бұрын
Right! She said, “my family member” let him in. AND she also said, “I screamed and my family member never came out of the room.” Come on! We all know that she’s trying hard to protect her brother, for whatever reason. I feel bad for her traumatic life. But I’m so glad she’s doing much better now!
@Valencia-y6u
Жыл бұрын
The truth is you kept getting raped because the rapists knew your family did not care about you. Sorry to say that and you did not deserve that, its very disturbing you went through all that, and Im so sorry you went through too much.
@kemibello6812
Жыл бұрын
The rapists were her family members
@miss0petersburg
Жыл бұрын
He wasn’t a “Great” father. He was horrible human being all around…I’m sorry ❤
@resilientwoman7331
Жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@jupitersworld244
Жыл бұрын
If you love your children then no matter how much you hate their mother when them kids are around you BOTH treat eachother with respect.. argue all you want while their not in the home. My parents were having marital issues for 15 years I never new until I was 25 when my mom came to me sat me down and said it’s time you know your dad and I have been broken up for a decade but stayed so yoh and your sister wouldn’t be affected! We truly never ever new they always acted married and loving around us! I’m so sorry they felt they had to stay together so my sister and I wouldn’t be affected but I’m grateful as a black women I grew up with both loving parents in the home
@miss0petersburg
Жыл бұрын
@@jupitersworld244 No such a thing dear!! I don’t know which one of them did, but somebody sacrificed their decade for you. You shouldn’t think that’s a great thing. And most that I know wouldn’t think their parents being unhappy for a decade is a great thing. As I said, I don’t know your parents, and I’m not Igoing to spill my own life like everybody likes to do, because personal experiences do not matter. Facts matter. You cant just ignore facts based on your own life. In the court of law, statistically, generally, women deal with cheating and abuse while sacrificing themselves for their kids. 90% Of the time that it’s always on a woman while men go out and live their lives. Why would you want your parents, either one, to lose who their are? Why would you want them to suffer silently? And just for your info, one can only do that when both do that… you can keep quiet only so long while the other half uses the kids to pick sides. This video isn’t about those who amicably, respectfully treat each other. This is about most where one parent does everything to cause chaos. WOMEN NEED TO VALUE THEMSELVES MORE…. You Can’t Abuse the person who gave you the kids and is raising them and at the same time say you LOVE those kids… Girls grow up thinking that it’s normal to give up who they are, that all men are violent and cheaters and end up in the same cycle. Plz read the statistics on how many live peacefully without knowing anything. VERY VERY small… Society is influencing the instability in families. When family’s aren’t valued, when one job isn’t enough to support, when throwing grandparents in the homes and childcare is through the roof. Education, healthcare… there’s is a lot more stresses on the family. This is why I’m norther Europe quality of life is better, because society prioritizes its citizens… Things aren’t all black and white…. There’s a huge grey area..
@jomac3120
Жыл бұрын
The penis is probably the most violent weapon on the planet
@ggoodvibes23
Жыл бұрын
14:52 Please stop referring to this man and your father as a "great father". Great fathers don't abuse their wives and mothers of their children...
@MN-hv5xv
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad someone said it!! It’s weird that we still give endearing titles (dad,mom, etc) to real monsters!!! I’m glad this lady was able to share her story tho😊
@KK-mm8ms
Жыл бұрын
THIS is the problem. Story after story of neglectful or abusive fathers and mothers who accept this to have a man. What kind of man? Any man? Pedophilic men who are only with you for access to your daughter? What a joke. They think that's how all men act. Why do they think this? Because it's all they know. The stories of incest are freaking unbelievable. Statistically, a lot of these folks are going to go on to SA kids too. It's up to MOTHERS to protect children because the men don't...won't.
@RottenPeach0
11 ай бұрын
A lot of times children are pressured into saying this about lousy parents, also they think, because they clothed and housed them they're so great.🙁
@Mk-un3mp
Ай бұрын
How many are the great fathers in the world?
@alexe.8224
Жыл бұрын
So sad... I never want to get married or have children. I just want to take care of my own life and everyday society is getting worst. Horrific experiences...
@banyana6515
Жыл бұрын
Men are horrific to women. Animals. So many damaged women who have been targeted as little girls. All these women men complain about are victims of male savagery. Black men destroy homes.
@sarahgrace4768
Жыл бұрын
Such a good guy…….!!!!!!
@ladyl22
Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing now I see why my dad was and still overprotective of me people are just so evil
@SM-db8gx
Жыл бұрын
Y’all l! These brave people are telling their traumatic story to help us! Don’t let it be in vain. Talk to your kids about not speaking up when someone tries to touch them or act inappropriate with them or tries to make the kids touch/act inappropriately. Let them know it’s ok to say no to adult or older kids. Teach you kids to use their voice, to speak up with strength. Let them know that some may try to silence them with threats. Trust no one when it comes to kids!
@angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404
Жыл бұрын
All THIS! Thank You👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@larianyoyola1311
Жыл бұрын
I feel like the best way I can protect my daughter is to educate her about sex, about people, about not being intimidated into silence. They got a law now talking about kids can’t even talk about periods. N I got mines in elementary school. So I’m trying to teach her that early on to. Because I didn’t know what was happening to me. Another girl told me it’s your period go ask a teacher for a pad.
@tmay9049
Жыл бұрын
Your “family member” SET YOU UP to be gRAPED. I H8 that this happened to you. Much healing and great fortune to your soul.🙏🏼
@hildaelmore-cn9pc
Жыл бұрын
Thank God you got out we are survivors about seventeen years ago I had a boyfriend shot and killed himself in front of me try to kill me but thank God I'm still here and I am with a wonderful man now.
@sharonann4871
Жыл бұрын
I dont know you but i am Thankful your still here God bless you 🙏
@StarJohnnyProductions
Жыл бұрын
I don't know who you are, but I'm happy you're still alive.
@Jkd_77
Жыл бұрын
@@StarJohnnyProductions Same ❤
@jomomma1512
Жыл бұрын
Keep speaking your truth, so you can save others. Such a brave soul! Peace, love and blessing to you!!!
@djstorm40
Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you made it through all of that toxicity...no he wasn't a great dad,he was a great groomer.
@Gjfdyo5786
Жыл бұрын
Word.
@MSSHARIII
5 ай бұрын
Right. No good dad would abuse the mother of his children and expose his child to abuse.
@1Jesusismyworld
Жыл бұрын
I wish you were my sister. I would have never let any of these men abuse you. The three separate men that put hands on me ended up calling the police on me for their own protection 🤣. One actually drove to the police station to press charges on me 😂🤣. And, they hit me first. I have always been a fighter. More physical when I was younger. Now I fight with prayer. GOD bless you, in Jesus Christ mighty name. ❤️🙏🏾😇
@Reneesaidit
Жыл бұрын
Sad, til this day she's still protecting her in house abuser. Imma say it's her brother. He has gone on to victimize others. They ALWAYS do. Let's normalize outing abusers regardless of relationship. It would help so many others avoid being victimized.
@seygra20
Жыл бұрын
I am getting that her abuser was her brother.
@m.b.33
Жыл бұрын
I guess too. 😓 Wish her nothing but love and light and sending prayers her way ❤
@tayscales7038
Жыл бұрын
I feel like whatever family member that was home with her, set her up.
@abdulhamidmohammad1974
Жыл бұрын
I am 60yrs old. This fine lady is the strongest woman I have ever known. May God bless this soul.
@christinadodd5780
Жыл бұрын
I've also been sexually and physically abused by men for a lot of my life. I told my aunt that I'd feel uncomfortable if a trans woman was in a locker room with me. I don't want trans women to be allowed into a female locker unless they completely transitioned and no longer had a penis. I told her if I walked in there and saw a naked, adult male standing there, it'd trigger my PTSD. It'd make me feel extremely vulnerable if I was dressing and a trans woman walked in. My aunt told me I was discriminating against trans women and that they'd be really hurt if they went into a male's locker room. I want trans people to feel safe, but I want to feel safe too. Is that discrimination towards them? My aunt has totally made me feel bad about it! I'm curious to hear what other abuse survivors think.
@Susan-zw3zm
Жыл бұрын
Its wrong hun your Aunty just wants you to not stand up for the truth cause she doesnt want to listen. Transgender are confused they dont even know where to be. This is an eye opener to me smh
@naomimay82
Жыл бұрын
No, you should not have to see full male genitalia in female spaces. Today’s society is creating rape culture by allowing perverts into female only spaces just because they claim to be trans. Newsflash!!! If they want to keep their male genitalia, they do not truly have gender dysphoria and are not truly trans. Women are being set up to be abused and raped with no protections.
@jomac3120
Жыл бұрын
The penis has been a violent weapon against women since time began (and children and men too) and I do not think anybody with a penis should be in a women’s space no matter how they “feel” ! Don’t feel bad for thinking about that. You’re the reason women need to stand up to this nonsense! Sending you love and 🙏🏻 prayers ❤
@MN-hv5xv
Жыл бұрын
Umm…your safety takes precedence over some randos feelings!! They need their own damn locker rooms, why dafuq do they NEED to be around women and girls in such a vulnerable position?? Your aunt is a weirdo 😊
@Armelleee
Жыл бұрын
@@jomac3120fact.
@soylentgreenispeople6029
Жыл бұрын
Its very sad. It seems black women are constantly SA by family and friends 😢
@bardnightingale
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, but any man who beats his child's mother is NOT a good father. That same man can turn on his child. My mom used to say the same thing about the guy she called my father and when I was 4 she protected me with her body the 1st time he went after me. Fortunately, we got away from him after that.
@crystalgothe246
Жыл бұрын
This sounds a lot like my family and after studying and praying! God showed me that my family has a generational curse of abuse. I heard stories from my mom saying how my grandfather was a molester and how he would beat my grandmother. My aunts and mom got into abusive relationships and my mom was raped. I started seeing the curse coming into my life so I started praying against it that the cycle will stop with me and my kids.
@jomac3120
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻 ❤❤
@MN-hv5xv
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes belonging to a family can be the source of all your traumas😢
@ginaverdi6101
Жыл бұрын
You were a beautiful baby girl! I'm sorry this happened to you! You deserved to be safe and loved,I hope you find some light during dark times!!
@Kirstenmarshall
Жыл бұрын
Boundaries learn boundaries, they're grooming you from the start.
@cece7biz
Жыл бұрын
You are an amazing person! So sorry this happened to you. 😢 very happy you got rescued and have turned your energy to being an activist against Child Marriage!!
@Michelle-lu3oj
Жыл бұрын
You are a strong, courageous and inspirational woman. Your story will help many!
@Yas-ju6fu
Жыл бұрын
I know it’s not a majority but how are there so many men like that? And how do they continue to get away with things?
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
It is the majority. If they are not after children 12 and under, they are after teens 13 to early 20s
@ensabahnur3104
Жыл бұрын
The thing is they are Not good fathers of they are abusing the mother, especially in front of the children.
@gabrielleabraham5773
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@amoramor5930
Жыл бұрын
My momma always told me she trust me .. but she DONT TRUST PPL.
@angelastewart6584
Жыл бұрын
This is astronomically insane and extremely sad that most of the men in her life either raped or molested her.
@GimmeDat-jc9qh
Жыл бұрын
🤔Now,"Why ;Did She Keep Opening The Door for these Different boys/Men "??? WHY 🤔
@LilianaLopezz
Жыл бұрын
I have a similar childhood story. I’m so happy you got out
@BossLadyTooU
Жыл бұрын
You are so strong! Thank you for sharing. Maybe one day I will be as brave as you to tell my story
@Teema95
Жыл бұрын
I was 19yrs old when I got into abusive relationship and he was older and controlling for 7 years it’s no joke to try to escape or leave 😮til this day it’s hard even been gone for a Year Single to get rid of the Trauma
@kidavis7024
Жыл бұрын
😢 I am so sorry for what people did to you. Because of your living nightmare, others will probably not have to go through that insanity. Evil exists.
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
These men are savages. But women still treat them like gold. Smdh
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
Our community covers for these men to make it seem like only other races of men are only creeps.
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
I hate these men. I rather deal with a biracial or wh!te man
@karawashington3645
Жыл бұрын
I love your confidence and honesty this will for sure touch many people. God Bless you Queen ❤
@nemofish3504
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this happens way too often, more than people want to acknowledge. It’s not just black or white thing ( which I’ve seen people claim), this happens it almost every family.
@oshunthagreat
Жыл бұрын
Im proud of her because so many women have rape happen multiple times throughout life it's so unfortunate
@toyscarbrough7339
Жыл бұрын
Don’t just leave my ass!! When someone puts their hands on you, you need to get the f*** on IMMEDIATELY! I will never understand how people stay & put up with that…
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
My parents abused their own children, made our Lives miserable, didn’t teach us how to survive, lacked knowledge about God, Health or anything else,; they didn’t have any plans nor expectations for their own children nor for themselves. Looking back, I come to the conclusions that they was mental, slow, naive, don’t have enough sense, too sweet when it comes to the relatives. They could have had head trauma/injuries and didn’t know it; they were orphans too and didn’t know it, they were lone wolves..
@UniquelyHerz
Жыл бұрын
So they really sat there & watched you get beat... 😞
@lindak1531
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for you you’ve been raped so many times by different family members and people that no your family members this is scary I don’t let my kids go anywhere because I was approached by a family member but I have since enough to run in to tell I hope it didn’t affect you too much in your Adult hood what happened to you in your childhood sad 😞
@dominiquepurvis541
Жыл бұрын
I went thru the same pain. Especially being called grown & hot at the age of 4yrs old and up by my tormentors and their siblings.
@kiara198923
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry.
@esmeraldabonita9683
Жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful soul inside and out. I am so sorry you had to go through this. You are a strong and brave woman. I wish you well.
@elaibesummers906
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you went through such a terrible childhood which lead to horrible incidents in your adult life. I could not listen to your story without tears rolling down my cheeks. Its not your fault. As a child the brain is not fully formed and you cannot make sense of the world around you. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. You did not confirm who the members of your family who were sexually abusing you. I believe you need to speak and let people know who they are. We need to protect other children from these dangerous predators. Your a beautiful, strong woman. I pray continuous healing over your family ❤❤🙏🏾
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
Makes wonder why Ilene Wornos is not here! They did that woman wrong. Wasn’t she abused by so many men??
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
I understand why she hates men. I truly do too
@PheonixBluez
Жыл бұрын
Listening to this I'm gonna want to go back to therapy 😪
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
Be strong. Bless up
@ShonSpoonNfork314
Жыл бұрын
Who was molesting her and who allowed the other guy in to rape her and didnt come out while she was screaming for help? Shes not saying who her rapists were. Was it her brothers? I feel she is still protecting her childhood abusers even though she is grown. Thats sad.
@nicholestroup1770
Жыл бұрын
You are so strong and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story. Your very brave and I wish you nothing but love happiness and peace
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
So many of us manipulated and uninformed. Fathers should def teach their daughters how to protect themselves from predators but if they too busy doing wrong how could they?? Hold your head up women.
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
These fathers hate their kids.
@beautyishername4392
Жыл бұрын
@@kell-yh4ec definitely seems like it😢
@carmennunez364
Жыл бұрын
God bless you your a true Survivor, I could relate from my childhood till now thank you for sharing. Just watching you sharing your life trauma brought so many memories to me. Stay safe and God bless you you’re a warrior.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@babydollm2571
Жыл бұрын
She needs to seek some therapy for her mental health.Her parents were terrible humans and need to be in prison.Anybody who witnesses abuse and doesn’t report it also need to be in jail.Hopefully she is a better parent to her children than her ignorant ass parents were.Break this evil generational curse.Demonic.
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
Young people don’t need to date, just be friends; wait until you see/meet/ get to know somebody that you will like to marry..
@Gcolorina
Жыл бұрын
She didn't say who was molesting her while her father was in the home
@augustinesummage7488
Жыл бұрын
You are a strong woman, I don't know you , but I think God has a plan for your life , keep on educate ing other's,to watch out for there kids , because mom had to know something was wrong, behavior changes if nothing else and talk to you until she knew what was going on ,cont. To do what you do it my just save some ones life my God continue to bless your beautiful soul❤
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
After slavery ex-slaves were marrying their own cousins, and didn’t know it. Black people still marrying their own cousins and don’t know it. We have 100 thousand or more cousins that we don’t know about and never, couldn’t imagine it. You have cousins spreaded out all through the world because of the transatlantic slave trade and rape of slaves causing slaves to have many siblings that they never met. I received the Ancestry dna results may 14,2019 and was shocked to find out all of this. In Every state, country, continent, island, sea island even in the Soviet, Middle east, India you have forth (4th) to tenth (10th) or more cousins in which you would never have imagined..
@nenala7684
Жыл бұрын
What a STRONG WOMAN
@lakeshiasantos5960
Жыл бұрын
GOD was definitely with you
@ElviraMerriweather-tq6bs
9 ай бұрын
This is why I never wanted to go folks homes & didn't want them in & out of my home. I recognized the nightmares of these households even as a kid. Farther more, I knew if the women of these homes didn't protect their own family members, children, grandchildren, etc. A non family member was certainly doomed in these homes. Around any of these folks.😮😮 So, all I wanted was to be as far these environments as possible.
@teddybear-mm1zv
Жыл бұрын
its important to teach ethics and values to our children (boys) since they small
@KeepitLowLowQue
6 ай бұрын
I had to slip sleeping medication into my cooking for dinner and wait for him to fall asleep and grab my things and left at 3 am. Scariest time of my life , it was almost like a scary movie while he was sitting there sleeping and I’m packing my things. Praying he doesn’t wake up. I’m free now and in a great healthy relationship ❤❤❤
@TheRealDeal130
Жыл бұрын
Black parents, especially fathers, please love and protect your daughters the right way. Otherwise, you are breeding a broken race of men and women, who may never emerge from the effects of trauma.
@NopeToBroke
Жыл бұрын
I wonder if she ever stopped to think how many times her father called her mother crazy? And that her relationship with him was just to preserve his image and further isolate her mother.
@Kelly-cc4np
Жыл бұрын
You are Amazing!! ❤❤❤ Much love and blessings from Boston. God is good!! Jesus is good!! Blessings🙏🙏🙏🙏. All day
@Stressworker
Жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much it’s hard I’m still trying to cope and trying to deal with my childhood trauma
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
Best of luck. You hang in there. These crimes should be punishable by death It’s sickening.
@BGT_LLC
Жыл бұрын
Your mother saying “here’s the phone, she’s tired”? 🙄 These Black mothers, are the worst❗️
@jupiterskiss3473
Жыл бұрын
Do you think this only happens in black families??? Yikes, I need you to live and understand this type if thing has NO color. 😢
@BGT_LLC
Жыл бұрын
@@jupiterskiss3473 you don’t need me to anything❗️ I said what I said❗️
@ladyl22
Жыл бұрын
Yup that’s true that’s why I’m glad I grew up around my dad and not my mom
@jupiterskiss3473
Жыл бұрын
@@BGT_LLC lol, typical angry response. Get over yourself. Lol 😆
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
Updated: 9/26/22, I had an experience one day in February, 1997, upon arriving home from work, entering the shower, when I was crying out to the Lord about some abusers, manipulators, Narcissists, control freaks, attention seekers and mental-health destroying leeches, liars, thieves and harassers in the workplace. So I heard an none audible voice in my belly saying “go into the Ministry”, so I finished showering and got out of the showers, stepping out in my studio living room, and the Holy Spirit continued to minister to me, was inside of me within my intermost being, spreading out all throughout me, sending me his Love, “lead my people”. It was an heavenly experience, felt good having the Holy Spirit visit me. The atmosphere changed, it became lighter where there weren’t a care in the world, then the atmosphere changed back to normal. I didn’t expect this event, if the churches would have warned us of this, then I would have been more prepared and asked questions of the Holy Spirit. I got Jesus, do you have Jesus??
@zoraidita2022
Жыл бұрын
That is the power of the Holy Spirit
@Bailemos888
Жыл бұрын
what a horrific life to be afraid as an 11 year old that your rapist is stalking you. Beating a woman in front of kids, this is why kids grow up to be abusive. We must sit kids down and tell them how to defend themselves from abuse, many times we dont talk to them about it. Dont tell your abuser you are leaving and where to. HIDE
@reneejohnson3423
10 ай бұрын
This. Woman, has demon's. That are attached to her energy ❤️. This can be removed ❤ this is so sad.😔😔
@christinafernandez623
Жыл бұрын
I'm soo sorry, where was your mother.why she didn't protect you 😔 ❤
@kiara198923
Жыл бұрын
She is so strong...
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
Write a book, to pass down to your descendants to let them know to be careful..
@brownsuga
Жыл бұрын
Smh.... I don't understand why she never told anyone
@jackiewiliams1510
Жыл бұрын
Bless you for this story, what an amazingly insightful woman, mother you are. I wish you all the contentment, peace of mind and happiness that you can find within 🧡🧡
@LeslieMaggard-hi5tb
Жыл бұрын
I never allowed my son around anyone but my mom and dad. I knew they were safe because i grew up in a safe home with 3 brothers. I never knew this was so common. So sickening.
@ERNIE555
Жыл бұрын
The only way to stop this, don’t breed more victims into this world of predators!
@pussygalore731
Жыл бұрын
Hillary was right they are Predators
@alaneofmyown
Жыл бұрын
I have one , I literally am considering not having anymore this world is NUTS
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
100. That’s why I didn’t. I won’t do it to another to another young woman.
@kell-yh4ec
Жыл бұрын
@@thawwtpoetttI pray that I dont have a daughter.
@nanararapiti
Жыл бұрын
@@kell-yh4ec it happens to men too. It's either you take the chance or you don't.
@Chachacha6040
Жыл бұрын
God Bless her soul 🙏🏽 lord keep blessing her to be strong and to help others.
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
This is your reminder to record your Momma. Record her around the kitchen, ask her why she used chicken broth instead of water, or why she does or doesn’t use velveeta and record that. Record her fussing about the same old stuff like she always does, prank her and record that. Record her funny sayings and her bits of advice. Ask her to tell you about the day you were born and record her face as she lights up remembering. Record her telling you to put some socks on that baby and when she tells you don’t go in her pots without washing your hands. Ask her questions, both serious and silly ones and record her answers. Play her favorite song and when she starts dancing/singing, yep, you guessed it… record it. Make her laugh… I mean REALLY laugh and for the love of God, record that too. And take lots of pictures of and WITH her, even when she tells you she’s not dressed for pictures. Take them anyway. Record it anyway. And when you get the chance, tell her you know she did her best with what she had and her best was always enough. And if you want, record that too. I hope this hits you in just the right spot and you take heed because the day will come when there is a longing so deep to just hear her voice, her laugh, see her as she was… and when that day comes, you’ll pull out your recordings & feel just a little bit of her again ❤️ *Copied & Pasted* I miss my mama everyday 🕊️😪💕.
@msd4743
Жыл бұрын
I hear you. I have one son who is 7. I took lots of pics of him and his dad when he was a baby. I never wanted to be in them because of how I looked. Still to this day I don't like pictures of myself. I wish I would have just taken more so he could see I was there and around. Same with the videos I took of them. You could only hear my voice
@cathywnukoski5843
Жыл бұрын
You are a survivor! Such a strong woman. God bless you.
@bernadettecrawford3656
Жыл бұрын
You are a strong woman now helping others who listen to you God bless you and your family
@doloreswinsbarrow1110
Жыл бұрын
Girl u been through a lot, but thanks to the Lord u got out, and brave enough to tell ur story. Keep trusting GOD He will heal ur pain and deliver u.
@lilpaulettenthegang7869
Жыл бұрын
I don't get this great father stuff from these terrible men that abuse in front of their children. Smfh
@gabrielleabraham5773
Жыл бұрын
Same
@winniekagombe5167
Жыл бұрын
This is clearly a spiritual problem not physical.Pray pray pray
@rebeccaoprea9917
Жыл бұрын
The truth always comes out so speak up!
@bernadettecrawford3656
Жыл бұрын
An evil preditors poor child
@Stressworker
Жыл бұрын
2:44 tbh I wish my mother did that when I was younger.. things where just like this aswell and it’s hard im only 15 now and I was taking care of my siblings in a young age. And In 2021 I got tooking into foster 😔
@litespeedway6538
Жыл бұрын
🙏 Thank you for telling you story - it is painful but I wish you healing and a hopeful example to others.💙 Yes, please keep telling the world your story.🕊
@feedupwithyoumotherfuckers2061
Жыл бұрын
How are all these rapes happening and not ever being reported something not right
@elaibesummers906
Жыл бұрын
Not everyone has the courage to report these heinous crimes. Also I am getting from this lady's story that she has grown up with people around her who turn a blind eye and did nothing to protect her. Can I say I was sexually abused when I was 9 years old, by an older half sibling, in a house with both parents. My dad found out and nothing was done. Growing up as a child, I felt at the time, that there is no one to protect me, not even my parents. There was an era where sexual abuse was not spoken about and swept under the carpet.
@esther.6965
Жыл бұрын
Because society tend to blame and shame victims which is just as traumatising so they think its better to be silent
@thawwtpoettt
Жыл бұрын
None of these lawmakers care. Some them doing shady stuff too.
@CloseYourWombs
Жыл бұрын
Tell the children the truth 😢
@MariaGonzalez-nv3nl
Жыл бұрын
I’m surprised she didn’t tell her father
@Texas_Made_
2 ай бұрын
Mammys are the worse..dangerous..always forgiving and loving black males who don't mean them any good🙄🙄
@ajwriter5699
8 ай бұрын
Renee, I’m SO glad you escaped that psycho. I’m sorry for everything those vile beasts put you through. You’re Glowing now and that makes me glad. Unfiltered Stories, the music isn’t needed. It’s Very Creepy and distracting.
@elizawybieraa7357
Жыл бұрын
Sadly I don’t think this stories will help a lot, because for a young girl to hear it its not gonna mean it would not happened to her. The only way this stories can work if you give details about his man, and if they will somehow serve justice. This man probably did this to many girl and woman and never had any consequences, so they probably just laughing. If they at least got shame from comunity if you can’t do it legally that will maybe do something. And to all mums, My mom also thought she was only one suffering from my dad abuse. Please leave of you can and be really careful sending your children to meat with dad and his family. Because they might not tell you what is going on either
@elizawybieraa7357
Жыл бұрын
And one more thing how great really was your father if he didn’t protect you from multiple sa ? If he was so great you would at least have a trust in him to say whats going on. And he wouldn’t allow grow as man sneaking into your room while you live with both of your parents. Honestly man like to scream so loud now how they are protectors of they family… so where is that protection ?
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