As a web developer "why is the website not working?" is not a simple question.
@D_U_N_E
Ай бұрын
As a non-web developer. I agree. I have no idea what is happening, but if I light these scented candles, make sure my view of the moon is precisely offset at 3*, the website will work for 5 seconds before I must reset preperations. That or it finally loaded and I hit refresh at the wrong time.
@busterval
Ай бұрын
Most of the time problem is between keyboard and chair.
@bite-sizedshorts9635
Ай бұрын
@@busterval The sheriff's office would sometimes refer to drunks as a short circuit between the steering wheel and gas pedal.
@Outcast-0033
Ай бұрын
Have you tried turning it off and on?
@projectdeveloper9311
Ай бұрын
Ngl it could be so much, maybe even at the same time, that I would just go with "I have no fucking idea lol"
@sktrudel
Ай бұрын
They're actually treating you like a competent adult capable of learning, rather than a child you have to do everything for.
@ES-os7ko
Ай бұрын
Most women are like children. Zero accountability. Even their feelings of insecurity when you explain something to them is your fault.
@savm-7252i
Ай бұрын
Exactly, people who say "don't mansplain" are children who can't cooperate with others.
@treacherousjslither6920
Ай бұрын
Well put.
@sbwlearning1372
Ай бұрын
That was their big mistake. As was allowing them into workplaces
@bigcauc7530
Ай бұрын
@@sbwlearning1372 hot take that everyone is afraid of liking but they know this is an issue. Lol. Certain fields, they are good in. Many others, they are nothing but a problem. There are some really smart, logical women out there, though, and they belong in the work place.
@moontreecollective6718
29 күн бұрын
The irony of “don’t treat me like a child”, then DEMANDING a simple, child-like answer because she can’t handle complex things like an adult
@chingizzhylkybayev8575
22 күн бұрын
But he didn't give her the answer in this hypothetical example. He just gave her the web browsing 101 lecture for no good reason.
@Ryooken
20 күн бұрын
@@chingizzhylkybayev8575 Actually he did give her an answer, it's just not the answer she wanted and he helped her fix the problem. First of all she assumed that the website wasn't working instead of understanding that her computer had caused a log jam. He showed her how to clear that log jam, explaining why it happened. Her problem is that she assumed that she had framed a simple question. What she really did was just make a wrong assumption. The simple question would have been, can you access the website because I can't. and his answer would probably been yes.
@Tyodi1
20 күн бұрын
@@chingizzhylkybayev8575having worked in IT for a number of years, you have no idea how computer illiterate most people are.... Having to explain a keyboard has to be plugged in, in order for it to work, that unplugging a PC to use the hoover whilst working at home will shut your PC down.....or that no, your mouse is not likely to work after you put it in the dishwasher because it was sticky, is not an IT fault..... Yeah..... Over time, you do stop treating people a little like they have a clue, as you come across soooooo many who don't....each and every single day..... In this instance he just explained why the issue had occurred, if she was IT savvy, she'd have known this herself, anyone who knows anything about computers understands you occasionally need to clear caches and things, she didn't, and as such he could have just fixed it, only to find himself back there doing it again a few months down the line... So annoyed as she might feel at this, at least she learnt something, and chances are, bet your last penny, a colleague will have this same.issue, and she will use that knowledge to fix the problem, and show how "IT savvy" she is to her colleagues lol 😂
@fabianstriebeck8054
19 күн бұрын
100%
@jaegrant6441
19 күн бұрын
This skit does not provide an example of the mansplaining thing. It is the getting a child like answer that is the main part of the mansplain concept annoyance.
@analogludite9575
Ай бұрын
He should have just woman-splained and said, "It's all your fault." Simple and to the point.
@darknessLordCC
23 күн бұрын
Pardon me but I disagree, a woman-splaining would be "If you cared enough you'd know!"
@Luciana_McC_99
22 күн бұрын
@@darknessLordCCor you don't think I'm pretty anymore.
@sheolcodemonkey4027
21 күн бұрын
"Why isn't my website working?" "It's fine."
@ML98837bob
18 күн бұрын
Hilarious!!
@tigershark7155
11 күн бұрын
This should not be as funny as it is...
@gerythechameleon4944
Ай бұрын
"He talks to me like I'm a child" Proceeds to act like a child
@theperfectbeing
Ай бұрын
*pouts* *crosses arms* *rolls eyes*
@jameswest9261
28 күн бұрын
But women are like children. Ask one to take responsibility for their actions.
@Ironic1950
27 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MarcioColona
25 күн бұрын
Worst than a child*
@fabianstriebeck8054
19 күн бұрын
100%
@SuperMattMan03
Ай бұрын
“Mansplaining” is a word almost as overused as “narcissist”.
@pureevilhotsauce6490
Ай бұрын
Or racist
@Rob2068
Ай бұрын
You mean how everyone says trump is a narcissist? 😂
@ryanhernandez4135
Ай бұрын
@@Rob2068💀💀💀bro what?! Aww nah bros trying to instigate 💀
@325figgy
Ай бұрын
And Toxic
@Rickycharles812
Ай бұрын
You forgot about Insecure 😂 Whenever they run out of. arguments they pull the insecure card. I don't let my girl dress as a thot, INSECURE 😂 it literally lost it's meaning
@gabrielrocha5319
12 күн бұрын
“Didn’t mean to Man-splain how you’re wrong”!!! Gold.
@anthonyferguson9282
Ай бұрын
"Why isn't this website working?" "It's probably user error, you're welcome."
@Apeiron242
21 күн бұрын
PEBKAC
@mattdonlan7745
Ай бұрын
Men talk to each other this way. It's called problem solving and informing.
@thorbeneK
28 күн бұрын
Men don’t just talk to each other this way. Men talk to each and every serious people this way.
@natcoo8153
26 күн бұрын
Lol my cousin is this way of not being able to get the informing part. Unless it's cars and sports, anything you explain is s sloppy spaghetti. He asked me years ago is 100mb home Internet good Internet. I said it's a lie bcuz those speeds exist in big markets(cities) like NYC ,La , Houston. But they all run enough for two Netflix TV's so yeah. 😂 he had to ask again.... Is it good?
@andreacosta7248
26 күн бұрын
Nah we don't talk to men like that cause we think they already know the part
@martinkuliza
25 күн бұрын
The fact this comments section exist is stupid. if a person speaks normally, you don't need an entire comments section to dissect it and agree with it. I took a shit today, Are we going to create a comment section to deliberate if i did it correctly ?
@stonelion99
24 күн бұрын
@@martinkuliza People talk about shared experiences. That's what makes us human. If you don't like it, that's on you.
@spockskynet
Ай бұрын
women: "treat us the same as men" men: *treats woman like a man* women: **offended**
@lepathewarrior4445
Ай бұрын
You should almost never believe what woman says she wants, she usually doesn't even know it consciously and says the thing that creates cohesion in the group.
@theeclectic2919
Ай бұрын
@@lepathewarrior4445 You're using "cohesion" wrong.
@kbergmeister7000
Ай бұрын
Women ☕️
@doubleoblit
Ай бұрын
As a man, if I ask someone a question like this, I never get some longwinded tirade because other guys don't feel the need to impress me. I'm genuinely sorry for the people in your life if you respond to every question by dumping the contents of your brain onto them.
@kyuuketsukikun420
Ай бұрын
@@theeclectic2919unless they edited their comment, I think you are incorrect
@adudeontheinternet8658
Ай бұрын
As a man entering his 60's this culture is actually terrifying. I'm dealing with medical issues that might disable me. I shutter to think my care might be handled by these critical women. I'm not sure I want to stick around for that.
@paddington1670
23 күн бұрын
just pray for a Filipino woman, theyre great
@MrColdwilliam
11 күн бұрын
If it's a woman, make sure she's not western(ized). Best bet ever is to just try to get male caregiver. Safer for you, too (accusations).
@user-sc7fk5ys6x
4 күн бұрын
Unfortunately the alternative is not much better- in my experience most doctors these days are coming to America 🇺🇸 from an extremely patriarchal foreign background. As in, you don’t want your female relative to have to be alone in a room with that guy, no matter how many paper credentials he has on the wall.
@kirdref9431
3 күн бұрын
@@user-sc7fk5ys6xOh great , falsely accuse male doctors of being gerontophiles. Shameful.
@kirdref9431
3 күн бұрын
I agree, one more reason men die too young.
@PC_Simo
29 күн бұрын
If they talk to you like a child; chances are, you act like one.
@kevinzhang6623
26 күн бұрын
Chances are people who first begin to act like one are because they were mature people who are treated as such by egotistical individuals.
@PC_Simo
26 күн бұрын
@@kevinzhang6623 Yes. Truly mature, to regress to the level of a child, because of 1 incident/exchange, with 1 individual. Especially, when they probably treat most everyone like a child, or something about the ”mature” individual’s behaviour etc. warrants treating them like a child. 😅
@Monntauk
25 күн бұрын
@@kevinzhang6623 Right, because letting go of your better graces, because somebody mildly upset you. is the highest mark of maturity.
@PC_Simo
25 күн бұрын
@@Monntauk Indeed 👍🏻.
@TheProfessorExplains
Ай бұрын
There is no word I hate more than “mansplaining”. It was supposed to be when a man who knew less than a woman explained things she already knew (like a regular guy explaining surgery to a surgeon). Now, it’s any time a man tries to explain or teach a woman anything. A woman said I was mansplaining something to her once. I asked her what she did and she said marketing or something, and I responded with “ok, so if I was telling you about marketing, then that would be mansplaining. But since I’m talking about psychology, the field I studied for over a decade, hold three degrees in, and am a professor of, I’m not mansplaining, I’m teaching, and if you aren’t smart enough to understand the difference, I feel sorry for you.” There is nothing more satisfying than putting someone in their place.
@namenotfound2456
Ай бұрын
The best part is that you could probably understand why she was acting like a bitch and make fun of her for it😂
@BobTheTrueCactus
Ай бұрын
So you mansplained mansplaining to her? 😂:p
@oshawott4544
Ай бұрын
@@BobTheTrueCactus well technically no, because she obviously didn't know what it meant
@BobTheTrueCactus
Ай бұрын
@@oshawott4544 no sh*t. Although the original term is already set up to be understood the way she did.
@oshawott4544
Ай бұрын
@@BobTheTrueCactus I'm sorry if that came off wrong I'm just autistic
@boejiden7093
Ай бұрын
I got an HR complaint from a female intern that I “mansplained” something to her. It was how to run a basic report so that she could submit it to my VP’s. I explained it to her 3 times and the 4th time i made a pre recorded video and shared it with her. She said that i “mansplained” it to her in the video. I shared it with HR and they had a good laugh out of it.
@subratadhar7698
Ай бұрын
how long did she last on that role?
@boejiden7093
Ай бұрын
@@subratadhar7698 not very long
@jpmarc2005
Ай бұрын
You should've filed a harrassment complaint with HR.
@boejiden7093
Ай бұрын
@@jpmarc2005 she didnt last that long in the company 😂
@MALisBAD
Ай бұрын
And how would HR have treated it if you didn’t have video evidence? 😂
@willjeepforfood
Ай бұрын
this woman gets it. we ARE different and its beautiful. i dont get upset when my wife explains why i handled something wrong. i embrace her viewpoint because she is worth it and so is her opinion
@raven4k998
19 күн бұрын
man she is such a hot child🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jaybee4288
8 күн бұрын
I’m not sure if she’s a pick me or if she doesn’t understand what mansplaining is, but it’s not this and she doesn’t get it. Men are free to answer questions we ask them, mansplaining is specifically explaining something to a woman when she didn’t ask, and when she knows more about it than he does. Men do it all the time.
@williammendez5209
5 күн бұрын
@jaybee4288 First off, not every woman standing up for men is a “pick me”. Get your radical feminist head out of your ass for once. Secondly, what you just said is what she just addressed. Do you have any disabilities by any chance?
@saberint
14 күн бұрын
I just say “dunno, it’s your computer, what have you done?”
@jefflittle8913
Ай бұрын
"I don't care if it happens again. I am just trying to get my work done." That one physically hurt.
@shawarmaextratoum5637
Ай бұрын
"AND I TOOK THAT PERSONALLY"
@Scarletraven87
Ай бұрын
pick one lady, they're mutually exclusive
@akiriathorsteinson7611
Ай бұрын
…it’s somewhat understandable but at the same time… like tf? We are trying to teach you how to resolve the issue in case it happens again and that you can gain more independence instead of wasting time trying to figure it out on your own
@whenimmanicimgodly4228
Ай бұрын
@akiriathorsteinson7611 yea, especially if it's a simple problem. If I notice a solution to a problem we have e had at work and it's easy to fix, I'll try to teach others how to fix it when it occurs do that people learn over time...I don't see any problem with that. If it's simple enough to fix thst I can show anyone then it's not to hard to get yourself.
@chelsblue7370
Ай бұрын
@@akiriathorsteinson7611 trying to get her work done even if it means someone else doing it for her.... as a matter of course, that is
@richardblanco5455
Ай бұрын
The man was talking to her like a knowledgeable adult. But she is just a bored child.
@dave23024
Ай бұрын
Exactly. She only took offense because he wasn't an idiot.
@dwightcrichlow9274
Ай бұрын
She just want him to listen to her bish and say go girl smh
@cookiedoodle0276
Ай бұрын
Yeah I would never speak to a kid about cookies and bugs and cache, unless that kid is genuinely interested in IT
@BenignAndaHalf
Ай бұрын
I’m glad people are finally understanding that “modern” women are overgrown children, something I’ve seen for over a decade now.
@noamcohen4181
Ай бұрын
@@cookiedoodle0276those things has little to do with IT
@RandyBaumery
27 күн бұрын
I wouldn't want to speak to any woman at work for too long in 2024. They may claim harassment after their mood swing kicks in.
@Lrd.Osiris
Ай бұрын
Got me in the first half, not gonna lie! 😂❤ And that loop is actually amazing! 🌟
@JS-fi7fl
Ай бұрын
I'm a man who works in IT Support. I generally try to educate the users about their issue instead of just fixing the problem, because next time they'll be able to fix it themselves which will be much quicker. If they can fix it themselves in a few minutes they'll be less downtime for them then if they have to wait for us because we may have a backlog and be busy. I'm trying to decrease downtime for them.
@BigHeadClan
Ай бұрын
Also work IT 100% agree. A small explanation usually saves you hours of calls in the future because now the clients you support are more knowledgeable about technology.
@Rievven
Ай бұрын
Ah but they want that downtime. You are taking away their getting paid to wait on IT time.
@nickcarroll8565
Ай бұрын
@@Rievvenexactly. And there are a lot of people who are simply too lazy to do anything for themselves anyhow and do not want to be educated.
@BigHeadClan
Ай бұрын
@@Rievven Those people are usually slacking across the board and are quickly looking for new jobs and make up a tiny percentage of people I actually encounter in my city. Also it’s generally just bad idea to waste the time or piss off the IT department. lol
@r.wallaby6490
Ай бұрын
I also do this, been doing it since I started work but 99% of the time, I'll still get a call going "it doesn't work"
@Antassium
Ай бұрын
"They're not speaking to you like a child. You're acting like one."
@michaelsmith3069
27 күн бұрын
I feel so heard. Not even joking, thank you. Such a simple video gives me such hope that people can understand one another if they try.
@rylenbarber711
4 күн бұрын
“Oh no! He gave me an answer to the question I asked! What ever shall I do!” 🙄
@antyxwg
Ай бұрын
Mansplaining, also commonly known as “when a man says more than a single sentence”
@louisthewolf0816
Ай бұрын
That's y some men rarely talks :(
@Sigart
Ай бұрын
Mansplaining is when a man explains something a woman already knows, and won't accept that she knows or in some cases even knows better. Explaining something, as a man to a woman, is not mansplaining. Butthurt idiots just like to commandeer the phrase to sound more entitled to their opinion.
@mc3331
Ай бұрын
@@louisthewolf0816 And they claimed that Men has lower communication skill.
@SchemingGoldberg
Ай бұрын
"How do you know if a man is mansplaining? His mouth is moving." -- every feminist
@Jdabomb93
Ай бұрын
Basically informing a woman on anything she doesn’t already know/believe.
@kriptoscorner1688
Ай бұрын
"I dont want to be mansplained to" So, why did you ask a MAN to explain something to you? 😅
@The3boyslll
Ай бұрын
For the sole purpose of adding to modern feminism
@rosen9425
Ай бұрын
so she could throw accusations like mansplaining around. Got to keep up with the circle-arguments man, illogical-think all day, every day :D
@dwightcrichlow9274
Ай бұрын
Cause women don't have the answers
@Aeternus_Nox
Ай бұрын
I was a superuser at my previous job. If anyone accused me of mansplaining when I was explaining basics so she didn't repeat the same dumb shit & need help again, I'd reply with "You're a strong independent woman, you don't need my help. I'm going back to my work."
@msjkramey
Ай бұрын
@@Aeternus_Noxso you're proving that you're condescending here. If one person calls you an a-hole, they're probably the a-hole. If everyone is doing it, it's probably you
@mikerayle6103
3 күн бұрын
I get this all the time when my wife asks what's wrong with her truck. And I try to give her the long answer and I get the I don't care as long as it gets fixed.
@bkruger377
29 күн бұрын
Billy Rae you always share great, constructive messages in your content. Thank you.
@HappyCatholicDane
Ай бұрын
He wasn’t speaking to her as he would a child, but assumed she was an adult. Clearly he was wrong, she is a child.
@SchemingGoldberg
Ай бұрын
I agree. Next time he should tell her: "website broken, very bad, we fix, please sit down and have a piece of candy"
@StarBellySneetch
Ай бұрын
and then they wonder why a woman or other culture does not get hired. HR complaints and lawsuits avoided.
@jamespruitt6718
Ай бұрын
@@StarBellySneetchActually the company I work for does hire more women even without the right qualifications because they want to meet a diversity quota over qualified candidates.
@danmac6185
Ай бұрын
@@jamespruitt6718 Ah, so you too know the pain of doing the work of three people, and getting a worse evaluation than the people whose slack you take up.
@boogityhoo7452
Ай бұрын
@@danmac6185yea that type of work environment is disgusting and there's no excuse as to why jobs are forced to hire unqualified ppl regardless of their gender just to fit certain quotas... I'm surprised they are able to keep anyone with legitimate skill if they are having to pick up that much slack .
@carmeltabby
Ай бұрын
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."--Eleanor Roosevelt
@JohnFeldman-ss8jo
2 күн бұрын
People like you are the reason men are still out there and have not given up. Thank you for existing. Have a great life.
@Bowie_8
2 күн бұрын
Bro this lady made me give up stfu 🙏🙏
@nimomemre6550
5 күн бұрын
This is the innate fatherly instinct of Men ........ they'll teach you how to solve your problems !
@GamerFromJump
Ай бұрын
Also women: “Men won’t mentor us anymore!” Um, yeah. Between this shit and the potential HR nightmare because she decided that “good morning” was over the line, men don’t want to be anywhere near the dice you’re asking them to roll. One thing to keep in mind is that if a guy is explaining the stuff already known, he _might_ just be rolling through his mental flowchart to reach the part that is causing trouble. Maybe let the dude cook a bit.
@Guardian582
Ай бұрын
yeah exactly, if i have a problem i start at the end i want working and work backwards at possible fail points to see what may or may not be working, and sometimes i have to say it out loud so i remember i did it
@mycroft16
Ай бұрын
@@Guardian582Yeah, you have to have the conversation with yourself. Hard to explain that, but I'm pretty sure every guy understands that.
@ComaAlpha
Ай бұрын
@@mycroft16pretty much thinking to yourself out loud. I'm guilty of that way too much. I think I'm crazy and that's one of the many signs.
@kurtamesbury6679
Ай бұрын
Best strategy - avoid women. Yes, they need your help. Don't give it to them. Let them be "strong and independent" - and figure it out themselves.
@abdul-kabiralegbe5660
29 күн бұрын
@@kurtamesbury6679Permit me to ask the classically appropriate question: who hurt you? 😆😆😆😆😆 I'm being sarcastic.
@MostlyBuicks
Ай бұрын
WAY before "mansplaining" became a term, I always said: "If you do not want the answer do not ask me the question."
@jaybee4288
8 күн бұрын
That’s not what mansplaining is. Mansplaining is when a man explains something we didn’t ask him to. Like I’m deciding between two dvd players and a random guy comes up to tell me which one is better and why.
@JohnathanMenezes-yb2ux
7 күн бұрын
whats wrong with learning?
@hunterjohnson6849
6 күн бұрын
@jaybee4288 maybe spend more time woman listening instead of complaining about problems that don't exist
@TheCyberguy101
29 күн бұрын
Yall have no idea how true this entire skit is.
@mgcmsn
11 күн бұрын
"I don't know" always does the trick!
@theriddleofsteel2479
Ай бұрын
I was an oil man for 20 years and I would get this exact attitude from women homeowners asking me why their furnace isn't working and what am I going to do to fix it. They would angrily demand these answers and as I would start to explain I would get cut off "I don't care about that! What are you going to do to fix it and make sure it doesn't happen again?" I would start answering that question and again be cut off demanding I explained why it happened in the first place. One woman did this to me so bad I eventually cut her off and told her that she should be happy that I am there because I am the person who found the problem that was caused by another company and I am now going to fix it so that her house will stay cozy warm and that she should be making a batch of those pancakes I could smell to thank me for saving her household from being cold. That's when her husband decided to speak up and shooed her away so that I could get to work on the furnace.
@soykike1991
Ай бұрын
I kinda get it, as a dev when I get asked about something I just give a very broad answer and try to stay away from specifics, until I know people are actually interested in the answer
@craterous
Ай бұрын
Um--- and they vote?
@udhavbhatia6424
Ай бұрын
That is the reason why you should talk to the guy
@jeredalmeida1880
Ай бұрын
She teased you with the aroma of pancakes!?! That alone is a crime. That's what the authorities call giving the "Dry Jemima".
@unmisfitminor101
Ай бұрын
Women don’t know the difference between a right and a privilege. The fact that he own husband had to shoo her away into the kitchen proves Feminism is a plague
@cosmicfails2053
Ай бұрын
"i was just venting" The fucking shudder of rage that shook my spine... When you try to help a problem but then they refuse the advice and your inquire why and then they just throw that line in your face like a cloud of sand to the eyes and run off
@goldenhate6649
Ай бұрын
If you want to just bitch for 15 minutes about life, please, for the love of god, preface the conversation with that.
@Distortia1994
Ай бұрын
I got a very strong urge to headbutt something when I heard that. I stopped listening to that part of my brain decades ago, but it still makes itself known sometimes.
@robby1816
Ай бұрын
I think it was "The Dadvocate" who said, women don't want an answer, they just want to be listened to while they complain. Don't offer an answer, just agree that it sucks.
@cosmicfails2053
Ай бұрын
@@robby1816 True but when you do that, Sometimes they then curve ball and you and berate you for NOT offering a solution, (Will say though, I love the Dadvocate, and it has helped me alot with communication with my partner, but damn some people just, suck.)
@John-ou4rm
Ай бұрын
She's incredibly rude, asks for help and then trash talks about him. Ungrateful *****
@musicman76enator
7 күн бұрын
This is why I always say "I don't know" or "I'm not sure" rather than telling them what could be wrong. You just can't solve people's problems anymore. Let them figure it out on their own.
@Mark-bu5up
2 күн бұрын
I love your understanding of men and women and your explanations. ❤❤
@ssjblueinfernape8524
Ай бұрын
That “i just wanted to vent” was real asf. I hate that shit. Basically trynna say “i didn’t want your feedback that doesn’t affirm my feelings” 😂
@techhelpportal7778
Ай бұрын
I honestly prefer journaling to venting. Journals don’t: blabber unless looked in, get angry, get burnt out, forget, or do anything other than be a writing surface.
@carmeltabby
Ай бұрын
@@techhelpportal7778 journals don't judge, they just let me judge myself
@JensenPalmer
Ай бұрын
“I just wanted to vent.” … Then word it differently because it sounds like you only said that because you got caught in your own argument when you realized the other party had a point.
@JustanotherYoutuber771
Ай бұрын
Nah but sometimes you just want to vent. Doesn’t apply when you’re completely wrong but sometimes the other person actually agrees with you and wants to help you find solutions. Which is nice of them but sometimes I have already thought about solutions and just want to let out my anger before moving on and putting them into action.
@Duke00x
Ай бұрын
99.999% of the time if a women goes to you with a problem or a complaint she is not looking to fix anything. At best she is looking to vent and normally she is just looking to have her thoughts and emotions validated and nothing else.
@nunyabidness117
Ай бұрын
So a guy teaching you something you didn't know is a bad thing? How dare he assume you were interested in knowledge, intelligent enough to understand, and bothering to take the time to explain it to you.
@revimfadli4666
Ай бұрын
Ikr? How dare he assume she's a strong independent woman willing to know how to fix the problem herself next time! How can she be a damsel in distress after that?
@ayu_chan69
Ай бұрын
Totally makes sense.
@CJFellowServant4288
Ай бұрын
So lesson learned, don't teach women anything. Just one word answers. Unless it's YOUR woman then open up just a little bit, and be emotional? With her? Idk man.
@kc270352
Ай бұрын
exactly, why ask in the first place lmao 🙄🤡
@AndRei-yc3ti
Ай бұрын
This is why you should default to treating women like children
@guitarholio
7 күн бұрын
Lol! Hit the nail on the Head. Good job!
@donnieolaughlin1758
2 күн бұрын
Sometimes we get carried away because we're excited that someone's talking to us
@donnieolaughlin1758
2 күн бұрын
I know people are going to find that pathetic
@kelvaris1
Ай бұрын
This is how men communicate with everyone, Even other men.
@thegrumpyfatcat5300
Ай бұрын
that's what i said the only difference is other men just listen instead of being pissed off we spent 2 minutes saying "so next time this happens do this because this is wrong and if it isn't come back and check with us"
@danielmiller5611
Ай бұрын
facts, this is how my brother and I communicate all the time.
@russe2711
Ай бұрын
Its also a conversation. If you know enough to say "ahh so my subnet on that computer is off" then we skip along to how to fix it or to the next issue.
@ThatsMrPencilneck2U
Ай бұрын
It's a very common problem when technically oriented men don't know to stop when your buffer is full. These nasty man-hating feminist make it out like this is some kind of misogynistic abuse, and I'm sick of it.
@Nocare89
Ай бұрын
Yep it's information transfer. Men teaching other men to fish. Women no longer left out I guess.
@bobbyharris1725
Ай бұрын
A significant number of women are upset that men avoid them at work now. No more mentoring.
@SchemingGoldberg
Ай бұрын
Good. They brought it upon themself. They deserve it. It's time for them to start learning equal consequences and equal accountability.
@Dietrich_Kaufmann
24 күн бұрын
*sigh* 😮💨 a part of me wants to help when asked because it’s the right thing to do also a part of me thinks they’re social hacking to take advantage of kindness to have someone else do their job for them 🧐 Yes/No answers as much as possible, and avoiding women coworkers especially if you are a man regardless of your sexual orientation
@NewVegasBadger
14 күн бұрын
Mentor a female co-worker? Why? They generally don't appreciate it. Seldom are they are they truely grateful. BTDT. And you run the risk of getting charged with sexual harassment. It is not worth it.
@jaybee4288
8 күн бұрын
It’s crazy that there are so many men in our offices anyway. Y’all need to get back out into the world and build roads and fight wars and stuff. We need to bring back national service, men really struggle without it. Office jobs are for women.
@stevesmith3556
22 сағат бұрын
Feel happy that they even know how to explain it. Especially if they know what they're talking about😊
@RANDassociatesinc
23 күн бұрын
They don’t care about “the bigger picture” because the “bigger picture” isn’t all about them.
@clonetrooperpostorder6669
Ай бұрын
My wife will ask me about why the car makes a funny sound and I give her a college-level essay on internal combustion 😂😂😂
@user-wv8oq3zx2t
Ай бұрын
Women NEED to stop femsplaining!
@joebloggs430
Ай бұрын
Not FemSplaining .. FemPlaining
@m.akif_khan
Ай бұрын
Both should stop explaining themselves. If they are normal, it will happen naturally.
@revimfadli4666
Ай бұрын
@@joebloggs430Womplaining?
@MrM6d
Ай бұрын
Isn't that emotional talk? My mansense (like spideysense) just tingled.
@zanyryan6417
Ай бұрын
It’s actually womansplaing (yeah, I didn’t know there was a word for it either at first, isn’t Google great? 😂)
@LukeLovesRose
19 күн бұрын
THANK YOU. We needed this 5 to 6 years ago when "mansplaining" became a thing
@TheHumanShitpost
Ай бұрын
You mean to say guys possess the communication skills to ensure you fully understand something you ask about? Shocker
@cheekfinesser
Ай бұрын
Women complain that we don’t communicate but when we do, it’s “mansplaining” lol
@therealgreg5653
Ай бұрын
@@cheekfinesser liberal women
@anvil3589
Ай бұрын
@@cheekfinesserand somehow THEY are always good at communicating. I pointed to my wife that she transmits, not communicates. She does not consider the concept of interference and reciever. In other words, a woman designed communication tower would transmit at a unique out of band frequency that is susceptable to most normal enviromental conditions that no reciever built can intercept and it will still be the man's fault.
@SwearWerdDebris
Ай бұрын
@@cheekfinesserno "women " don't, insecure/emotionally immature girls do in a woman's body.
@dafuqgusdafrey60
Ай бұрын
@@anvil3589basically yes, they only want one way "talking" that align with them If you disagree even slightly, they will somehow shift to "you not listening to me" But definitely depend on that person persona, my wife is a whole different species than girls I dated before
@AndrewFosterSheff69
Ай бұрын
Ex military here... if a squad member or officer asks a question, I give as full a sit-rep (situation report) as I can, in as few words as I can, so they are FULLY INFORMED and can therefore make BETTER DECISIONS QUICKLY. You don't like mansplaining? ... THEN STAY IGNORANT!
@hannahk.598
29 күн бұрын
So if an officer asks you why the showers aren't clean, you give a 30-minute explanation fo all the various reasons that COULD have led to the showers not being clean? I seriously doubt that...
@mikeuuby
28 күн бұрын
@@hannahk.598 them the shower cold be fixed faster in all next times that the problem appiers again.
@jameson1239
28 күн бұрын
@@hannahk.598why the showers aren’t working and why is this website not working are not simple questions there’s a massive variety of reasons why either could be broken
@lessanderfer7195
28 күн бұрын
@@hannahk.598 I guess you missed where he said, "as few words as I can"
@paulbeardsley4095
28 күн бұрын
I am so offended that you mansplained that "sit-rep" means "situation report". I mean, sure, I didn't know, and now I've learned something, but I'm still offended, right? (In case it's not obvious I'm being ironic.)
@kriswelsh3844
22 күн бұрын
“Asking men to change is like asking women to stop being emotional” Excellent statement 👍
@fabianstriebeck8054
19 күн бұрын
Hence why we get way more done when they are not in the office. No venting, no raging, no moaning, just working.
@matthewhuszarik4173
Ай бұрын
As a man with a wife and daughter who aren’t handy at all. I try to explain to them how to do everything they ask me to do. They say we have you for that. So I tell them you won’t always.
@abdul-kabiralegbe5660
29 күн бұрын
You can say that again.
@thenoodlebuddy
28 күн бұрын
Sounds like some spoilt brats you've got there pal. You should go on a holiday for a couple of weeks and leave them with a few problems to fix
@matthewhuszarik4173
27 күн бұрын
@@thenoodlebuddy I have, all that happens is they do the bare minimum until I get back. I tell them them they are going to end up like Grey Gardens.
@gy2045
Ай бұрын
This is what a man hears, "I don't want to learn how to solve MY problems I want YOU to come and solve the exact same problem every time" so strong, so independent...
@hannahk.598
29 күн бұрын
To be fair, is it HER problem? We don't have any background, don't know if she needs to use that website often or just very rarely to get some information. And generally: If a website is actually down, it's most likely not a problem with cookies. And if that website is down often, it's a company problem and not her job to play tech support every week I personally like to search for solutions first before I call tech support and I do ask if they want to teach me how to solve it if I know that this problem likely occurs again in the future. But I would be annoyed too if the tech support person goes in a 30 minute monologue about all the things that COULD be the problem if it's not even clear that I have to ever deal with that problem again. I don't need a 30 minute training session for a problem that might never occure again, I have my own job that doesn't include tech support training time slots. That's like me going to the hiring manager to give him a whole lecture about how social security works when he simply asked about a minor error in his salary slip.
@Rebel8MAC
4 күн бұрын
True, we see that the way through problems is to actually get through them
@thorbeneK
28 күн бұрын
Lovely. 😊 The way she demands mansplaining („give me a simple answer!“) is soooo adorable. 😊👍
@haroldfarquad6886
Ай бұрын
If you come to a man with a problem, his primary focus is to solve your problem and make sure it doesn't become his problem again in the future. It's not a complicated process. The quicker women can understand that mindset, the better things will be between us all.
@mycroft16
Ай бұрын
This, it's not mainsplaining... we aren't the idiot trying to teach the expert. We have knowledge and we want you to have it as well. We're trying to enable you to fix your own issues in the future. We're giving you tools you don't already have. Not because we think you're stupid, but because we respect your autonomy and ability to handle things... so here's how to do it, know when it comes up you can do it and know you did it, and tell others.
@johnharrison2511
Ай бұрын
They don't care. The point is they just like to denegrate men and boss them around while nagging, blaming and playing victim.
@johnharrison2511
Ай бұрын
"denegrate men" WHY is auto correct changing my words to change their meaning but any typo remains and then "edit" does not work ?! I feel like I am being harassed. Is it because I am male ?
@ComaAlpha
Ай бұрын
@@johnharrison2511I'm guessing your original comment got shadow deleted
@johnharrison2511
Ай бұрын
@@ComaAlphaYes, it did..Then I wrote some other ones against some trolls and got another warning !! Often the comments get scrubbed even when they are harmless or nice.
@scottc1200
Ай бұрын
I had a boss who is like that. And, he was a guy. He asked me a very specific yes or no question that he was going to use the answer of to base changing an entire production line on. The one word yes or no answer while accurate, without him knowing a bunch of other details would cause him to make completely the wrong decision! He literally became livid when I tried to tell him anything more than yes or no. So I gave him the yes or no answer, and he was off and running with it. It cost the company a huge amount of money, and many days of production work as a result. But, he made sure he only got a yes or no answer. Sometimes, what you want isn't what you need! Without fully understanding the situation, he made a huge problem for the company, as a result of running with his yes or no answer. Had he allowed me to explain it to him he could have avoided all of that!
@jeffreyzie
Ай бұрын
This right here. I needed to see this. I’m going thru this exact situation with someone I’ve hired (well he doesn’t get livid but I can see in his face that he’s annoyed a lil bit) And it had me wondering if my leadership style is just ass or was he just trippin? (It’s my first time leading in this capacity so I was genuinely wondering this) But reading your comment makes me realize it actually could be both. Maybe he’s overreacting at some of it but also maybe my leadership has been a little off at times too Thanks for sharing this man 🤝🏾
@0---RABB1T---0
28 күн бұрын
"asking them to change is like asking us to stop being emotional". literally the best way ive ever heard someone explain it, finna use this next time I need too.
@mcpribs
Ай бұрын
Thank you! For years I have been annoyed when people won’t take the time to understand the process, and just ask me the same questions over and over again.
@4Kandlez
Ай бұрын
Womansplaining is much worse than mansplaining, it's torture waiting for them to get to the point (a very long time)
@E4439Qv5
Ай бұрын
My mom is a verbal processor. Recently, I've taken to dragging her to _my_ point first, leaving absolutely no uncertainty in my wake, and then apologizing and smoothing things over after the fact. Repeating as necessary only until I've finally dug out all my old poisoned wells. Already a solid 80% of the way done now, I think. 🙂
@censorthispuertorican
28 күн бұрын
And then they accuse you of interrupting them after you've just let them drone on pointlessly for three minutes.
@E4439Qv5
28 күн бұрын
@@censorthispuertorican only worse when they do it to you, right?
@censorthispuertorican
28 күн бұрын
@@E4439Qv5 😁 so much of their complaints are pure projection.
@Wooster23
26 күн бұрын
It’s an oxymoron
@stultuses
Ай бұрын
Exactly, they want to give you everything you need to solve it yourself next time because guys are driven to be competent and assume others want to be competent too and not have to rely on others
@justkev1044
Ай бұрын
isnt that good tho? you learn to solve problems yourself. why would you wanna ask and get answered many times and end up still not understanding it?
@thegrumpyfatcat5300
Ай бұрын
@@justkev1044 because people are fucking stupid and arrogant and think that just because its someones job means they want to do it like they themselves aren't stuck in a dead-end job that pays minimum wage and treats them like shit
@straysoul1818
Ай бұрын
@@justkev1044I suppose some people just don’t want to learn.
@lastguardianofthedyinglight
Ай бұрын
Yeah, because asking for help when you could literally just do it yourself is called "laziness" and "indecency".
@straysoul1818
Ай бұрын
@@lastguardianofthedyinglight no. Asking for help is when you can’t figure out how to do it yourself. If you can do it yourself and you are allowed to, you do it yourself, that’s called being independent. If you ask someone to do it for you because you don’t want to do it, unless you literally lack time to do it, that’s not asking for help. That is being lazy. Sorry to break it to you. It must be far from indecent though, seeing how so many people do it without a care.
@EverydayMusician
6 күн бұрын
You speak man. Thank you for understanding.
@markdeffebach8112
27 күн бұрын
He was speaking to her like an adult, but she wanted a simple child's answer.
@wendull811
Ай бұрын
This is every single female I have worked with in the machine shop for the last 8 years. I have been there for 19 years now, and the first 8, they actually listened and executed what I have said. In the last 8 years, it is like pulling teeth to get them to listen. Then they keep asking the same question and wonder why I get upset or get an attitude and then tell management I am "hard to work with" None of the women have lasted more than 3 years in this shop.
@Sajgoniarz
28 күн бұрын
bruh, my sis works as team leader at huge corpo. She was once accused of mansplaining by her subordinate that had no clue what to do in her job. Sister told me that with every business specific word she used the girl was opening her mouth wider and wider :D
@kevinzhang6623
26 күн бұрын
@Sajgoniarz Whats your sister's logic? A subordinate has no know how, yet your sister explains with more and more "business words" she doesn't understand? Your sister is the one at fault for lacking communication skills. People like the subordinate are people you need to account for and find other ways of getting the point across by understanding what they expect.
@kevinzhang6623
26 күн бұрын
Every single one for 8 years. Yeah, hate to break it to you but not everyone working your job would have that issue, it lies on your communication skills with impatient, low-attention individuals - it is a reflection on you, not them. What does getting upset accomplish when you give the same answer to their repetitive questions instead of approaching it differently? Humans in general are entitled beings who blame others when they are not behaving the way they expect, we all have to deal with that.
@Sajgoniarz
26 күн бұрын
@@kevinzhang6623 it was not a position for some greenhorn. My sister were looking for assistant ASAP and requirements were pretty high including diploma and some certification. She had to break down every definition for the new girl, while it was impossible to get certification without knowing them. Tools, flows etc. was also an industry standard. My sister could not believe how she could slip through interview. And in terms of communication... there is a reason why some "taskforces" are bring together based on communication types of individuals, since sometimes you can't afford miscommunication, or time required for putting everybody on the same page.
@senecaaurelius1811
24 күн бұрын
That coincides with the history of the proliferation and increase in social media use. Sad stuff.
@nickd2296
Ай бұрын
Lol. Don't ask for help if you don't want the solution
@AndRei-yc3ti
Ай бұрын
Youre speaking logic and accountability. Women arent fond of either
@xdarkwolf2255
Ай бұрын
It sounded like he was over explaining the solution and was totally guessing It's like asking why your phone ain't working to verizon and they give some long winded explanation about how the automatic updates didn't work as planned Okay cool, Idc please fix it already
@charlescannon2469
Ай бұрын
@@xdarkwolf2255Then don't ask WHY, just let people get on with their job.
@xdarkwolf2255
Ай бұрын
@@charlescannon2469 fair but it's a common thing for people to ask why instead of saying "how do I fix this?"
@poeticeclipse
Ай бұрын
The issue with her video is that mansplaining is when you don’t ask for help but someone gives it to you anyway and in a condescending tone.
@dereklord8503
Ай бұрын
"Didn't mean to mansplain how you're wrong" ❤
@williamedwards4151
19 күн бұрын
Woman: Asks why the website is not working. Man: Explains why the website is not working. Woman: How DARE he.
@profitgeoff4313
Ай бұрын
Well said. This is, in fact, exactly what we do. If we're actually condescending - not mansplaining, that's not a real thing - you will freaking KNOW it. You'll feel like someone swatted you one in the face. It would be very, very apparent. Totally blunt, impossible to mistake for anything else.
@ryskbotvladimirivanovic1767
Ай бұрын
Everytime someone tells me to stop mansplaining I just tell them to stop womenyapping and holy shit they explode.
@bryceneuberger3460
21 күн бұрын
When I was an IT guy, I came up through call center tech support. One of the criteria we were graded on was moments of silence. The way I handled this metric, was to explain to the customer what I was doing in order to fill silent gaps. We weren't allowed to have 30 seconds of silence, or else we would have failed our QA. Taking about a hundred calls a day, everyday for 8 years, this definitely built a speech pattern within my day-to-day life. So pretty much now anytime anyone needs help regardless of the topic, I have a habit of explaining things hardwired into me. Lol
@brianjones8673
8 сағат бұрын
As a person who infodumps ive just learned some people would resent it so i tell them to ask google
@FlorinG.
Ай бұрын
If he only fixed the problem and not talk to her, then she would have whinge why he is such an awkward creep. You just can’t win with these women.
@baltonus1120
Ай бұрын
If someone uses the word mansplaining, that's a huge red flag as coworker because she will be difficult in the most minimum cases and will play victim card.
@mcpribs
Ай бұрын
And will, in my experience, be a nearly worthless employee who everyone else will have to clean up after.
@E4439Qv5
Ай бұрын
...ok, but I do it ironically--
@Dietrich_Kaufmann
24 күн бұрын
Stick to yes and no answers as much as possible and avoid women coworkers 💯 It’s been working so far no issues here 🤠
@JPaterson8942
4 күн бұрын
I've got a coworker who 'gets a little long-winded.' I don't even remember the question I asked by an hour later he was telling me how to measure the threads on a bolt and how that changes effects plating it. I told him to keep being long-winded.
@kevinstoneburner1116
4 күн бұрын
Please understand that men communicate with each other like this too! If it’s too over the top, they’ll laugh and tease one another about it. “I asked you what time it is, and you taught me to build a watch!”
@TheSpicyLeg
Ай бұрын
I’m an industrial electrician who does side work occasionally. I’m used to speaking to men. A coworker of my wife asked if I could look at their remodel service so I went there and saw they had used one neutral through the whole shebang. I told her she can’t do that, she she asked why. I started to explain when she cuts me off to say it doesn’t matter, it’ll work, won’t it? Sure have it. The reason you don’t share neutrals is because of harmonics from computer processors. She didn’t listen, and overloaded the neutral which fried her smart TV and other devices. She was complaining to my wife that I didn’t tell her why she shouldn’t do that.
@angrydragonslayer
Ай бұрын
Just say "it can hurt stuff" Any more technical than that and they won't listen unless they're in the industry themselves (at which point, they listen better than men 😂)
@Nomo-sapiens
Ай бұрын
@@angrydragonslayer looks like we need to speak to them not like a child but like an ork.
@@Nomo-sapiens I've had to do this with managers and bosses at work. I'm a software engineer with IT knowledge and sometimes they hire managers who have ZERO knowledge at all. And yeah, you have to explain it like they're an orc. Even children grasp things better than some of the people I've had to work under. Thankfully, they usually don't grasp sarcasm very well either.
@joshuahunter7972
Ай бұрын
This is daily. "He talks to me like I am stupid", if you were not stupid you would not feel stupid.
@brag0001
Ай бұрын
Stupid people don't feel stupid. Only partially competent people do. Stupid people lack the core competencies required to even notice their stupidity ... that's called the Dunning-Kruger-Effect btw. 😂
@lstchance87
22 күн бұрын
People need to learn that just because the question is simple doesn't mean the answer is
@starweb443
23 күн бұрын
She asked, "Why is the website not working?" But what she wanted answered is, "When will the website be working?"
@robertsouth6971
Ай бұрын
I always make sure and read people's minds before I tell them anything, that way I don't tell them anything they already know.
@cts_corey1119
Ай бұрын
Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime.
@silentwater79
Ай бұрын
Women don't want to learn how to fish and to feed themselves. They want just the fish for free and someone feeds them the whole life if they demand it.
@ahapka
Ай бұрын
Teach a man to fish and he'll go out every night with a six pack and stay on the lake for hours:)
@captainhybrid4045
Ай бұрын
Saves me making the comment about giving a fish v teaching to fish.
@oshawott4544
Ай бұрын
Teach a woman to fish, she'll say she doesn't need you
@IFibreOpticI
Ай бұрын
Teach a woman to fish, and she'll accuse you of mansplaining.
@JimButler1234567890
Күн бұрын
He wasn't talking to her like a child.. He knows that a child wouldn't understand these things, but he did explain them to her.
@timberwolfdtproductions3890
6 күн бұрын
People who behave like children get spoken to like children.
@stevenkinscherf6642
Ай бұрын
Loved the "Didn't mean to mansplain how you're wrong" at the end 😂👍
@theonionpirate1076
Ай бұрын
Thank you. The most frustrating part of the term "mansplaining" is that even if we try to explain ourselves, we can be accused of it. It's a trap.
@ky7299
Ай бұрын
No, the most frustrating part is that they used a gendered term to name a behaviour all genders do. I've been "mansplained" by female friends over house chores despite living alone for years. PS. The worst "mansplaining" is women telling men what a "real man" should do.
@dansnow4230
Күн бұрын
I feel like it's a lot of men seeing this when women need this message.
@musicmore5169
24 күн бұрын
Thank you and it's how we view you are babe, we're going to do WHATEVER YOU WANT, except that type of attitude 💔💔💔💔💯
@lucewithnootherideas553
Ай бұрын
"I was Just venting" "yes, and I was just directing that vent in a more positive direction"
@user-hn4ll3of9q
Ай бұрын
Just don’t help women that’s what I learn. Why bother? They don’t even appreciate it.
@Dapryor
Ай бұрын
Not all women are like that. Not all men are assholes, either. There’s variations of everything on planet Earth.
@alexisblack8921
Ай бұрын
@Dapryor As a woman: Thank you! I prefer to have the issue broken down for me so I can fix it later if it happens again. That way, I save time and money.
@Dapryor
Ай бұрын
@@alexisblack8921 I hate it when someone acts like anything in life is all or nothing. Not all cops are bad, not all dogs bite. And not all men are assholes just as not all women are gold diggers. It’s unintelligent to paint the world as black and white.
@Joshua-sw1bo
Ай бұрын
@@alexisblack8921BASED!
@user-hn4ll3of9q
Ай бұрын
@@alexisblack8921 That kind of woman or really that kind of person I do like to help. I am a lead senior network engineer. So I get people asking for my help often. Most of the time it’s something they can fix on their own & is not my responsibility. So I don’t mind telling them what to do. It’s only women that demand I fix it my self. Which isn’t my job & I don’t care. They want to learn how to fix it then self I will tell them. They demand I fix it go out in a ticket with the help desk. I have a whole company I am in charge of not your browser issue.
@hudsonmilbank
Ай бұрын
Asking him a question wastes him time when he's trying to work.
@1dcondave
29 күн бұрын
She didn't really want to know why it wasn't working. She just wanted him to fix it.
@tylerwright754
Ай бұрын
This is an excellent insight by a woman. And she is spot on for guys like me. My wife has accused of answering her “in a looooong round-about way”…I’m just trying my best to communicate…And giving the big picture WITH DETAILS matters.
@davidthereasonable
Ай бұрын
Are our wives related? LOL God forbid you cut them off or ask a question, mid explanation though, right?
@melaneephillips8721
28 күн бұрын
Absolutely true! However when my hubby dies he got a big enough insurance I can just hire an expert to get it fixed the next day instead of waiting 2 years for a 30 min job that he insisted on doing himself because it saves money. Meanwhile I have to conect and disconnect my car battery every time I drive because the battery keeps draining. Meanwhile I could explain till kingdom come how.to.sew a button or hem pants and he looks at me like I'm speaking mandarin. Believe me I love my hubby of 40 yrs and I'm happy to divide work according to our preferences and expertise but the procrastination is probably going to kill me. Anyway , If I die first I won't have to cook clean mend raising kids while tend grandkids etc. and he can hire the dozen people to replace me. I asked for a door for my living room to keep our kids cats. I asked if it was OK and got the nod. I wanted a slidding barn style ddor. 10 years later and multiple carpet accidents I'm waiting. No, I can't get rid of the cats. It would break my kids heart.
@CivilizedWarrior
28 күн бұрын
@@melaneephillips8721 you want to know the trick for that? Just start doing it yourself. Buy some wood and a track, and whatever parts you need, and start trying to build one yourself. As soon as he sees what you’re doing, his instincts will kick in, and he’ll criticize the job you’re doing, and then he’ll take it over himself. We men are all procrastinators, with a million excuses, and sometimes we need a guilt trip or a kick in the ass to get going. It’s like reverse psychology. My dad is the same way. When my mom has been waiting forever for something to get done, she calls me, I come over and start doing the job, he ends up feeling guilty about it, and finishes it himself, or helps me finish it. Works every single time, without fail. And if it’s something simple, like putting up a shelf, my mom will do it herself, incorrectly of course, and he’ll say “no, no, what are you doing? You didn’t even drill into a stud! Just give me the drill, I’ll do it.” Lol. You’re welcome. Enjoy your new barn door!
@ma-jp8bf
Ай бұрын
Mansplaining, a guy respects someone else enough to share his knowledge, often hard-won by making mistakes. He wants folks not to have to learn the hard way like they did. A couple women arguing over how to jump start a car didn't want my help/advice. Okey- dokey. A few minutes later I come back out of a store and they're trying to figure out why a bunch of electronics on the car they were trying to start no longer work. Probably looking at ~$500 bill. Sure ladies, learn it the hard way....
@goldenheartOh
Ай бұрын
Positive to positive (aka red to red). Black to frame of the car. I know modern car electronics are sensitive to jumper cables, but is there a better way to do it?
@ma-jp8bf
Ай бұрын
Those women found out positive to negative was definitely the wrong way.
@goldenheartOh
Ай бұрын
@ma-jp8bf Thanks for clarifying. I'm almost surprised they don't have diodes to prevent that damage.
@jessicacorsi8734
Ай бұрын
That's not mansplaining. It wouldn't have been mansplaining even if you had given your advice unsolicited because they didn't actually have expertise in the area. Words have meaning.
@AnujeetRoy09
Ай бұрын
@@jessicacorsi8734 key point.... knowing what is known to them. Men aren't bloody mind readers by design. So they generally err on the side of caution and explain in detail. And then women come along to classify a helpful gesture with a sexist term with an abstract meaning. If you would rather not know, just directly say that you don't want a detailed explanation. Just because I have built manufacturing processes in my career and know a car down to its tiny bits, doesn't make me freak out when my driver explains to me what the fuck is wrong with my car... I don't go out and start telling people that I am a victim of driversplaining.
@MrJustonemorevoice
10 күн бұрын
This is exactly how men talk to each other. We share information so we can fix problems.
@GunbladeKnight
Күн бұрын
I have learned to sit and wait for my mom to finish her story. Even if I just want to say "get to the point!"
@jamestalbot6916
Ай бұрын
Annoyance in response to another individual after they tell you stuff you had no idea about, is a symptom of pride. It hurts when somebody you thought beneath you starts teaching you.
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