This is all facts. I watched my mom work her whole life and never invest her money. She avoided conversations about retirement and money. Now she’s older, became sick and was forced to sell her home…she lives with my sister now. People need to learn about money, and keep learning, and start investing now!!!! The time is passing fast. You look up one day and you’re 40. Also take care of yourself while you’re earning/investing. Exercise often, eat well, drink water, take your medication, go to doctor/dentist/optometrist once a year, sleep 7-8 hours a night and take your vacations.
@1anre
2 ай бұрын
That's sad to hear. Was your dad absent always or why was that a path she chose to work all through her life?
@EyeSpy-pg5cw
Ай бұрын
Your message touched me. Thank you for sharing it.
@lakeside4jesus
Ай бұрын
You said it all,Jah bless you❤
@TurinMatongo
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@johnadona3014
Ай бұрын
maybe because her loser son didnt make it.
@1anre
2 ай бұрын
Tetrahedral structure. - Settle your kids with great education - Settle your wife by making herself sufficient - Settle yourself by having investments that can protect and provide for you in your moonlight years without relying on your kids
@storyzamtaa
29 күн бұрын
Yess ❤😊
@David-fu9es
Ай бұрын
"I started very early punishing this body to prepare for my children" WOW 🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥
@superiorinsight2202
27 күн бұрын
YOUNG MEN, SETTLE YOUR SELVES FIRST.THE DYNAMICS OF HIS DAY & TIME HAVE CHANGED RADICALLY !!!
@Jack.254
24 күн бұрын
True, You settle her first and she leaves you. Actually, I settle myself and my children ONLY.
@Himothy704
22 күн бұрын
🤡
@horeshieevigoddess2972
20 күн бұрын
Kindly don’t marry somebody’s daughter sir. Create ur own woman nd put ur seeds there. And if u happen to have daughters think abt that man that is thinking like you think in her life. Selfish and Wicked generation!
@roseveltquarshie7898
11 күн бұрын
Depends on the kind of woman. If it is the kind who values hair nails and phones over being wife and mother, then there is no need settling her.
@s.akanteyagamu3773
Ай бұрын
"I am not your friend, I am your father. your father." hahahahaha
@GlennSapp
4 ай бұрын
Dr Apoki, It is an honor to comment on your offering of knowledge, experience and wisdom. I am in the US . I’m the son of a career criminal who died in prison. I grew up dirt poor and I too married early. Today I am 58 and have been married 38 years. I raised my children and the youngest is a medical doctor. I appreciate your gift of serious esoteric, worldly and spiritual guidance. I am the descendant of Africas in West Africa but I do not know my tribe or village thus a bit of my being is lost. Please be encouraged and continue your messages because across the ocean and world they are being received. Blessings.
@DrCharlesApoki
2 ай бұрын
Wow!
@EyeSpy-pg5cw
Ай бұрын
Your message touched me. Thank you for sharing it.
@VivSees
Ай бұрын
@GlennSapp you’re an inspiration too! Thank you for being a committed black American husband and father. We see/hear too little of it in usa.
@kweku144
18 күн бұрын
Who is a Career Criminal?
@kofiduku934
2 ай бұрын
Your channel is growing fast bcos you drop gems. Some of us our parents didn’t know the things you taught your children. We’re learning from you.
@ancientwisdom-ty4nb
2 ай бұрын
No church in your community?
@user-mt4nk6bi6m
2 ай бұрын
If the church leaders are a losers,they don't bother to teach others..
@Kingsdaughter68
20 күн бұрын
The Bible said parents leave inheritance for your children not the other way around. Well said sir 👍🏽
@etimspeed
4 ай бұрын
Older people in Nigeria had the opportunity to be whatever they wanted early. Today, young men are struggling to eat once a day.
@1anre
2 ай бұрын
Go and acquire skills. No man has an excuse not to fight for his welfare and wellbeing today. Do hardwork and know you won't remain in that same position forever
@homericrealty
Ай бұрын
Not true, we also have opportunities to become what we want to be via the Internet
@jumokea2274
Ай бұрын
I agree with you to an extent but there's a culture trending in the present generation. Lack of patience and no interest in pursuing skills other than western education. They want to rush to the top in a short space of time. Sometimes I wish they can ban all those entertainment social media to force them to reality.
@VivSees
Ай бұрын
@etimspeed you ingore the fact that Dr. Apoki grew up dirt poor and once lived in a mud hut. No excuses.
@tegaedema548
22 күн бұрын
Its a lie. Big lies. Young men have more opportunities to make it big early age now.
@emmanueludensi2314
24 күн бұрын
I like this message. Any man thinking that his children will take care of all the cares about him at his old age should think again. The children will have their problems to deal with. Settle yourself before old age.
@idehenreosas3969
4 ай бұрын
The key facts- settle your kids and wife 💪
@k.dashbeatsbeats5150
2 ай бұрын
I completed 30 years old this year, and i passed the bar association exam(lawyer) here in my country mozambique , i need take my life very serious after i heard your video i know that im able to reach my potencial, only problem i have now i dont have a mentor that can help me to reach that level..
@lebosebete2299
19 күн бұрын
Find one. Find people who you aspire to be like in all aspects
@puretruthawaken
2 ай бұрын
Happiness is from God, but a fool finds joy in vanities of this earth!
@TheofanisTV
2 ай бұрын
Happiness is from god and so is wealth and financial intelligence, if you’re miserable and have money you’ll be more miserable, if you’re godly and happy while broke; with money you’ll be more godly and happy. Abraham was wealthy and left inheritances for Isaac and Jacob. He even invested in land to bury his wife.
@innocentobiegue6219
4 ай бұрын
Dr., Thanks for all your teachings. The family rules are not the same. Unlike you, I'm first in my family, all my juniors of a man and two ladies, are dead. I trained myself in universities to two masters degrees. I'm married with three boys and one girl. All these details are background study. Your wife must be very submissive. Before I married I had 12 buses doing transport business. My intention was to go into real estate later. I was a civil servant and also my wife. I had a shop where I stay until late in the night. I instructed my wife to bank money rendered by the drivers. She did not do that. She rather kept the money under bed where her brothers and sisters were using them to enjoy themselves. That was how my future got ruined. She is the type that would want to show off without any streams of incomes. All what I'm saying is that the race is not for the swift, ... time and chances happen to them all.
@1anre
2 ай бұрын
That's shocking. You didn't find that out early and take over the savings of the money yourself until old age?
@dapyday
4 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, many of us modern men don't present our women with responsibilities, but romance and entertainment. In the long run, the man becomes a mule laden with financial burden. It's always too late to know it and almost impossible to rectify.
@1anre
2 ай бұрын
If you ask them to pick up bills in the house, you start hearing that's misogyny. That that isn't the type of equality they asked for, and that if you were a "real" man, you'd be taking responsibility for everything and not allowing them to do anything at all. Then they come online and cry asking where the "real" men are
@DrCharlesApoki
2 ай бұрын
@@1anre 😂😂😂😂😂
@ojames1983
2 ай бұрын
@@1anre A wise man avoids those type of women. You're welcome.
@kinsdonn
28 күн бұрын
@@1anrethat’s not true, most households split the bill 50/50.
@cookiesfantasies3038
12 күн бұрын
@@1anrepick up bills or empower ur wife, listen to dr apoki
@jameskatuya5495
3 ай бұрын
Am a Malawian but these messages are impactful to my life
@thegospelsite
Ай бұрын
The key is in Starting Early, you're right Doc ✅️
@martinebinu6527
4 ай бұрын
Plain truth,thank you Dr Charles Apoki.I see old men who were top bankers struggling.The ones who prepared are living comfortably. Once again let's keep the channel hitting a million subscribers now now 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@DrCharlesApoki
4 ай бұрын
Amen. Thanks so much.
@emily_gemify123
4 ай бұрын
its not one million one billion jokers of people and content creator. he just decived his wife.
@DrCharlesApoki
4 ай бұрын
@@emily_gemify123 My wife is a rich and fulfilled independent woman proudly married to me for 39 years. She is so independent very few women enjoy the liberty she has.
@1anre
2 ай бұрын
@@DrCharlesApokilet wait for her reply now
@DrCharlesApoki
2 ай бұрын
@@1anre She has nothing to say because she did not watch the video to the end. She must have seen the recent video of my wife and I. You know out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Every comment reflects the content of the speaker. Please forgive her 😂😂😂
@MikeMendy-hj4gt
Ай бұрын
Blessed is the one who subscribes to this channel.
@raphaelamanpene1318
25 күн бұрын
This channel is gradually changing my mindset and way of thinking. Thank you Mr Appooki 🙏
@ananichukwuneku114
15 күн бұрын
I think is wrong to say all this without appreciating the wife, cos there would have been a breach no matter how intelligent you plan. It all came to success because your wife was also a good woman thank you
@fiyebosamson3182
4 күн бұрын
Thank you so much sir For this advice 🙌🙏
@prolificlife1710
4 ай бұрын
The hard truth as usual. God bless you sir
@paulnwafor68
Ай бұрын
You won life
@PendameBeats
Ай бұрын
I'm a young Malawian 25 years Old suffering from low self-esteem
@mezobernard
Ай бұрын
I hope you feel better as each day passes by , just be you , don’t live up to anyone’s expectations
@afrikaditm9519
Ай бұрын
Hit the gym Start working out And watch Purpose by Dr Myles munroe
@yahyeabukar
Ай бұрын
Do Nofap. Fapping 100% kills You self steam And Your confidence . Dont watch the porn videos
@Quality_Culture
Ай бұрын
Work and engage hard day by day over month years … paid or unpaid … self esteem will increase.
@michaelsuberu5548
Ай бұрын
Avoid social media, scrolling 247, reading comments and jumping through blog pages. IG, FB and tiktok will drain ur energy.. Hit the gym, be physically active, avoid porn or anything near it. In less than 1 month, you will feel different
@Bajsvsuevdj
2 ай бұрын
This some hard reality check 😢
@catherineumeike5830
4 ай бұрын
You are the best role model i have
@zion_dgaf
Ай бұрын
As men this is the reality and lifestyle we should aspire to live. Amazing video 🤙🏼
@garrickjames9199
22 күн бұрын
You are speaking all this because there's no spiritual force distorting your plans or your destiny. Many planned but because there are foundational principalities holding them back they couldn't achieve their goals. Sometimes in life we have to look from different angles, what worked for you may not work for the other person
@Bhagbe
7 күн бұрын
Very true
@septimuscogent6761
14 күн бұрын
I love you Dr Charles I'm from Sierra Leone I really like you wisdom towards we the young folks Just advice sir I want to connect with your seminars Please
@Kingdom-Doctor
13 күн бұрын
Thank you for the wisdom you are sharing Sir. You are a great blessing to us
@osazeeoghide4986
Ай бұрын
Dr Charles Apoki, your wisdom is a blessing to me. Thank you sir
@pearseseun7602
4 ай бұрын
My first encounter with you sir....since then I learnt what it means be FRUGAL. In your message you thought us the meaning of FRUGALITY!
@pearseseun7602
4 ай бұрын
I heard your message on FRUGALITY about 13yrs ago. I can never forget that day!
@Mr-Possibility1
12 күн бұрын
I appreciate your messages, sir. Thank you.
@s.akanteyagamu3773
Ай бұрын
I do not know if you have a video on this topic but I wish you would touch on it. How to not be trapped in family issues as a young man. I saw a video that talked about avoiding the desire to be a family hero and I feel you will do better justice to this. Thank you!
@olusegunjinadu5902
Ай бұрын
Hi, I read your post and thought I should recommend a video from another knowledgable man of God. Black Tax from Apostle Femi Lazarus, I hope it helps. You are welcome.
@TheLegend-uq1gz
4 ай бұрын
Wow. What I am learning from Dr Apoki , I did not learn most of them from my own father and all education I have had over the years. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us all.
@DrCharlesApoki
4 ай бұрын
Thanks. Please kindly share with other men.
@marvinphillips7075
2 ай бұрын
Big brother I really admire that you are still learning and gaining more knowledge. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@ezenwaodurukwe3221
4 ай бұрын
I love this channel. You have a message of good life in the twilight zone.
@leerocksmaphosa5377
4 ай бұрын
You are a really wise man. I never got a chance to learn this from my dad. Sir I thank you.
@i_ampco
27 күн бұрын
Great message.
@TheLegend-uq1gz
4 ай бұрын
This is priceless.
@marge2375
2 ай бұрын
i like your wisdom
@dorisenga4701
4 ай бұрын
You Are a Good Man.
@fitforexvirtualcollege5592
5 күн бұрын
Great message
@Realafricanlegends
24 күн бұрын
You sir are a changer of generations!!
@darrenm6120
Ай бұрын
Great video Dr Charles. Bless from the UK ✌️
@stevereid926
Ай бұрын
Words of wisdom.
@captaindipuo3931
19 күн бұрын
Well said.
@kelvinosemeshan7798
4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir, you doing well, God bless you for this valuable information.
@waedjradi
Ай бұрын
This man gets it. Thank you, Doctor Apoki.
@sanusitaiwo5185
Ай бұрын
You are full of wisdom sir
@j.b402
4 ай бұрын
Sound wisdom
@connectionsconnections819
4 ай бұрын
Thanks
@renzo9648
2 ай бұрын
Yes Sir🙏🏽🧘🏾♂️🙏🏽 Settle with obedience a blessing always follows .Eliminate distractions, negative people, places, and things that block our blessings Settle home A lot of boundaries that we're missing are the boundaries that we need with ourselves, around how we operate in our (The most important thing is how you feel and think about yourself purposefully focusing on goals and dreams to help sell your family in the right direction ✅relationships with other people, and how we operate in our relationship with ourselves."peace of mind all else will follow. Use boundaries on yourself and eliminate distractions, confusion, chaos negative people, places, and things that will block your blessings .peace of mind From boundaries are for your well being and healthy relationships from parasites.Yes.protect yourself Positive mental health =Boundaries on yourself discipline and emotional self control protects freedom peace of mind Stops negativity’s from blocking your blessings 🤨With peace of mind all else follows 🙏🏽 we're missing are the boundaries that we need with ourselves, around how we operate in our relationships with other people, and how we operate in our relationship with ourselves."😊
@manqobathomo
Ай бұрын
Your knowledge is worth diamomds
@chituruoji8939
2 ай бұрын
Dr Apoki, you are a blessing to this generation. I love watching your videos.
@josiahm.muriuki916
17 күн бұрын
Wisdom!! This is amazing.
@anujomjude6323
4 ай бұрын
Thanks Dr
@kingjames5856
Ай бұрын
thank you sir,i was watching you with my father in mind
@sirjay5646
Ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this words of wisdom.
@Mr.O.Cardenas
Ай бұрын
Glory to the Most High. Great information Dr. I’m taking notes
@magirimwandau2610
4 ай бұрын
This presentation is an eye opener especially to young men who still have the time to apply the principles Thank Dr Apoki
@Lungiswa.
22 күн бұрын
Wow.. he is so knowledgeable
@ThaAlfaMale
2 ай бұрын
Men. Nigerian men. Listen! This is wisdom.
@owowenukingsley4135
17 күн бұрын
Na Nigeria woman dey talk so...men men men ...
@djsnoopafrohouse1115
Ай бұрын
Amen, may God bless you and keep sharing the knowledge of life.
@Kenmusaudev
Ай бұрын
Dr Charles Apoki. You are my new friend. Your are dropping gems.
@kwakufaith9984
4 ай бұрын
Thank you Doctor, you are a Blessing ...
@glorysalami1792
4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir
@colettefelix5194
Ай бұрын
Thank you sir for your wise counsel.
@too.each.is.own.
2 ай бұрын
Yes sir unk Much love n respect I love learning from my elder
@tommyy5041
17 күн бұрын
This man is an embodiment of practical wisdom. Thank you Sir. My opinion is that for some people who couldnt start family early, you can set up account with insurances in the name of those children so that their education is secured all through weather you are there or not. Such insurance also has the capacity to pay you some level of interest depending on your capital and duration. Thank you Doc.
@Higlorynwaneri
18 күн бұрын
I love listening to you Sir.. you’ve changed my perspective to life. Thank you ✨
@user-or2ct2vd3m
22 күн бұрын
You sound like my dad, my father is my role model because of how he settled us all
@dorothymakumba6742
4 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much Doc. Listening from 🇿🇲🇿🇲
@sihlemasondo2898
4 ай бұрын
DR Apoki thank u sir
@owowenukingsley4135
17 күн бұрын
Me, i have this already in my 20years plan. I read over 100 books outside academics in 1 year during my nysc year. Atleast, live a good and comfortable life
@drimzmjeshii4701
20 күн бұрын
Dr Charles I see you as a friend en a father to me your so inspiring God bless you
@ebueemma9617
22 күн бұрын
Wise man
@collinsfemmville1067
27 күн бұрын
GOD bless you sir, Your messages touches every men regardless of their age, May you grace be reknewed
@Zainab-ts4mj
4 ай бұрын
Thank you doctor Apoki for sharing your wisdom with us,,, be blessed!
@christopherhambly2874
Ай бұрын
Thank you very much. Listening from South Africa. Not to old learn.
@kingbadel2023
21 күн бұрын
I really appreciate you sir for sharing your life experiences
@nobleidowu4919
2 ай бұрын
So, fascinating facts. Day after day, I learn something new. Thank you sir
@madhusudan6129
4 ай бұрын
Apoki 🤗
@mahvenblaise3666
29 күн бұрын
Daddy Dr. Charles Apoki, Thank you immensely for sharing your wisdom with us. I did listen to you from Cameroon and I am grateful. My God the Almighty continue to bless you as you bless others with your wisdom and more.
@mhlonishwabiyase5532
4 ай бұрын
Ur wise
@ibrahimdavidy2719
29 күн бұрын
Thank you sir. For making your self available for God and for making yourself a manual for our generation, God bless you Dr. Charles Apoki
@akaninyenethompson1173
16 күн бұрын
Dr.Akpoki is a great blessing to young and mature people. God bless you sir.
@samuelonimisi7393
2 ай бұрын
I wish i watched many of your Videos in the last 10years. I have learnt many wisdom and lessons of life from you that need rapid adjustment. Thank You Sir for your word of Wisdom!
@oceanicsms
4 ай бұрын
I'm in Benin republik, i just find your youtube. God bless you. Health Health and Health for what you are doing. I will plan to visiting you in your farm by sur.
@kenkim6403
4 ай бұрын
Listening from Kenya🇰🇪
@Zainab-ts4mj
4 ай бұрын
@Kenkim6403 wacha tupate wasia huku. Very inspirational 😅
@Jack.254
24 күн бұрын
Usisettle Njoki ama Njeri kwanza, atakutema. Hii ni Nigeria, tena kitambo.
@letsgo5713
25 күн бұрын
I can see that our priorities in this world is different, what are u going to gain in the end sacrifisen all ur life settling ppl why not just make it easy enjoy ur life and settle ur self simple carrying all this bagages of kids n wife which will end up unfinish chasing of wealth which in the will left u as the man alone bcos all of them will b with their family and far away in europe or america. What do u gain as a man? Service society n feeding ur ego🤔 "oh my childrens are abroad while old age u are mostlikely to be alone. Guys life is short enjoy wat u can n avoide too much of burden b simple as a minimalist bcos all this this things he said if u follow it u aint gonna enjoy ur youth n dats all u have or u wanna sacrofise all ur life for ppl till u grow old, think about it.
@cookiesfantasies3038
12 күн бұрын
Open ur own platform and say that, ur mind is very small and there’s no problem with that alllow him do his thing, he has done a lot for himself
@user-ed1uu9sz5g
Ай бұрын
Wiseman
@DS-gn5vu
21 күн бұрын
Subscribed
@joshrobertson3419
Ай бұрын
Thank you Dr. Apoki for your words for wisdom. I am a 23 year old young man in the United States who has lost his way in life since teenage years. I grew up in a single mother household without close connection to my father & I am now realizing the effects of this since hitting my adolescent years during my transition to independent manhood. Your words are a helpful guidance to me in finding a way to build a respectable life for myself and I hope that you continue to spread your wisdom. You are doing a great thing! God bless you sir.
@MusikAfrica.01
27 күн бұрын
I'm 23 too,
@bradmiller7741
2 ай бұрын
Mann💯💯💯
@user-Whiteshadow
Ай бұрын
Nice one doc. This was also my resolution. I’ve seen many old folks especially old & lonely men & I don’t want to end up like them. One must plan & invest wisely. So what investment options are there for young Nigerians? Soon man go clock 40.
@GoldenBeetl3
Ай бұрын
You are right but its only valuable for a man who want to live long and old. Some people only want to live fast and with a lot of adventures and die at an early age. I mean its important to explain the difference. I personally have no interest to reach your age but I totally understand your point
@80zplug
Ай бұрын
why don’t yu wanna live his age?
@GoldenBeetl3
Ай бұрын
@@80zplug Im not suicidal, I enjoy life. I just don’t feel the need to live long because its a boring cycle repeating itself. Im not really into materialistic stuff like have a family, have a house, have a job so I don’t need to prepare for these things. Im living in the present and ready to go at any moment. I totally respect what this man i saying but its his truth not the same for everybody.
@80zplug
Ай бұрын
@@GoldenBeetl3 okay okay I respect that bro❤❤
@tidittii4383
8 күн бұрын
Plays well in ×1.25 speed
@bahpapajarmjackson
Ай бұрын
I live in Australia. The elders here give very bad advice because the times were very good to them. Things have changed. It is harder for younger people in Australia to be truely successful in comparison with boomers.
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