Mam i am a doctor a resident of emergency medicine. Please don't stop advocating women's rights. Sir Junaid please invite her more in your podcasts. I am feeling thankful to both of you. You are doing great job
@feloniousjunk4702
4 ай бұрын
I saw intro, I got angry because I am a man, but as I listened I couldn't agree more with her. She's right. This is how the society is this is how my mother got stripped of her education despite she had 3 masters. She couldn't pursue her career. I hope I won't let this happen to my sisters. Feminism isn't about stripped clothes, or cigarette / drinking women. Its about women rights and she's right about it.
@hirajawad1078
4 ай бұрын
3 masters!!! 😮 how did they convince your mom to give all that up?!
@eaststreets
4 ай бұрын
whats the reason for you getting mad at the intro? just asking
@feloniousjunk4702
4 ай бұрын
@@hirajawad1078 Convince nae situations he ese bana di gayen Ke unko chorna para. Phir domestic violence God my Childhood though was beautiful and I miss it a lot but it was Terrible AF because of domestic Violence
@feloniousjunk4702
4 ай бұрын
@@eaststreets 1-2 cheeze the 1) Not everyone sees woman as a sexual object 2) Not everyone considers a dr BV a trophy. So start felt a bit offending as it was more of a generalized statement. At the end of the day she's a human too. She is wrong and right at the same time. Phir (5 saal ke bachi apko kese tempting nazar aagaye) I thought ke it was also tragetted at all the men. Khair it was out of context. But my way of perceiving things have changed a lot after this video, it helped me understanding women's perspective and the life my mom has lived. Felt sorry for her. Will do what I can to make it better IN SHA ALLAH.
@hirajawad1078
4 ай бұрын
@@feloniousjunk4702 did you ever confront your father about domestic violence ? Now that you've grown up
@fahadyousafzi
4 ай бұрын
I'm a 21-year-old guy from Peshawar, and from what I've seen, I agree with her. this whole male-dominated thing here is just out of control. The way girls are treated, it's just not right. I see how girls around me get discouraged from aiming high or following their passions. there's this unspoken rule that says women shouldn't be out there doing jobs, and get discouraged even from playing sports. It's frustrating to see how much patriarchy holds us back. Violence is getting normalized, and that's scary.
@AmeyVikram16
4 ай бұрын
I agree bro. I’m from UP, India. Here it is also a male dominated society, where women face problems in education, jobs, dating and marriage. Almost all aspects of women’s lives are controlled by their husbands or fathers. Even expressing their opinions or having a choice or hobby if their own is frowned upon. That, along with sexual harassment and violence against women. It is a terrible situation for them. Needs to improve.
@basedhuzaifa
4 ай бұрын
dont lie ffs, i am from peshawar too
@aawishkhan
4 ай бұрын
@@basedhuzaifaI am also from Peshawar and he is 100% right. Women in Pakistan, especially KP face incredible discrimination in all walks of life.
@Kamrankhan34996
4 ай бұрын
@@basedhuzaifahe is right don't cover your shitt
@basedhuzaifa
4 ай бұрын
@@Kamrankhan34996 ain't covering anything, if its happening in your homes it doesn't mean its everywhere. Liberandus just need opportunities to spread lies.
@bleh_ik
3 ай бұрын
If i had a dollar for everytime a guy has told me that women's religious responsibility is to take care of home, her family and her children and they shouldn't work unless they need to support their husbands, I'll be a millionaire. This statement and everything discussed on this podcast just serves men's life. Women are born to serve these men. When they don't they are forced and shamed to do so.
@redpanther9380
Ай бұрын
Okay go and serve your boss so that you can afford a house and food which the man was providing you anyways
@bleh_ik
Ай бұрын
^ case in point ladies! These are the kind of men you must ignore
@dreamer4515
4 ай бұрын
I am a 18 year old boy in Lahore and I have looked around, I have observed this masculine society and I totally agree with her. The amount of violence that is just normalized by this society is horrifying, not only towards women but also towards children.
@shahiduk1
4 ай бұрын
Little boy .. your 18... concentrate on your studies... don't burden yourself with misinformation
@TheDartholiver
4 ай бұрын
You have empathy. You wil be better than most Pakistani men
@specktyplays4467
4 ай бұрын
agreed! 💯
@AmeyVikram16
4 ай бұрын
@@shahiduk1This isn’t misinformation, it is social awareness.
@Khan-tq9rf
4 ай бұрын
You have empathy, good. But this isn't limited to Pakistan, happens around the world. Even in First world countries
@aishaahsan4961
4 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this woman. This is how a woman should be. So confident. So outspoken. Total bindass.
@prb392
4 ай бұрын
Doesn't islam allowed? To marry a baby when she start her MC? Doesn't islam allow marry cousin sister or step mom/dad.......why nobody dares to speak it?
@ejazesultani3026
4 ай бұрын
I'll pray that allah give you a wife like her
@vineetdeorari8017
4 ай бұрын
Aurat mard ki kheti hoti hai… said allah.. simply following sunnat 😂😂😂
@legendaryhound5261
4 ай бұрын
@@prb392total rubbish propaganda...i already explained to u before....
@prb392
4 ай бұрын
@@legendaryhound5261 bro stop explaing to me explain to your scholars who had grow their beard white by studying islam who advocate marrying child........also you should study first before "explanation" we have references of your holy siht.........
@saroshbhojani4946
4 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree with her more. My mom is a successful entrepreneur in Pakistan who built her business from scratch. After my dad's business crashed, she defied societal norms and, despite facing insults from some family members for starting her business to support the family, she persevered. The majority of men in Pakistan can be so negative and egoistic that they struggle to tolerate women's success. We must strive to eliminate this toxic culture and support the empowerment of women in all aspects of life
@dr.tushar5222
4 ай бұрын
Ask your Holy book....as to what it says about this matter?
@chemophile14
4 ай бұрын
Ok ok all women are free to work but what guarantee that there will be no harassment at work place
@haseebhabib920
4 ай бұрын
An individual man, who will define when and where to stop imposing religious thoughts on another person. Imposing culture should stop and it will ultimately stops harassment. Thats a simple things we as a man can adopt and convey to our children. We always should see ourselves that either we are practicing islam and strive to do better in religious practices.
@vineetdeorari8017
4 ай бұрын
Aurat mard ki kheti hoti hai😂😂😂😂 kisne sikhaya ye
@minhajraza6740
4 ай бұрын
Yes women empowerment is a must for society....
@bushraalmas5397
3 ай бұрын
Dr sahiba bilkul theek farma rahy hain,subko mera mashwara learn self love,learn self respect,respect your boundaries know your rights,learn to say know,heal your past trauma ,work on your codependency issues,my advise to all whether men or women
@saimshahzad8699
4 ай бұрын
Junaid bhai don't get dishearted by the low like ratio. Keep making such podcasts. This is one of the best podcasts you produced. This is my second favorite after the one with syed muzammil shah
@ExXxC4L1BUR
4 ай бұрын
Ok liberal
@diemanner7164
4 ай бұрын
YES!
@MaryamFarhan-hn9dc
4 ай бұрын
I'm a 23 yrs old girl & I don't wanna get married due 2 the amount of abuse I've observed in our society (specially after marriage). My sister & a lot of other girls I know don't wanna get married due 2 the same reason (not that we want 2 roam naked in the streets, it's just that we r scared)!!!! 😶😶
@mynmeisname4825
4 ай бұрын
Dude, not all men are monsters. Yes there are bad men, but feminist portray such that 99 percent of men in the world are bad. Don't be greedy, look for pious man with good character you'll be good ig
@MaryamFarhan-hn9dc
4 ай бұрын
@@mynmeisname4825 how am I being greedy bro? I know there r good men too but in Pakistan (due 2 the culture we follow, poor upbringing, no accountability from law or society, victim blaming) most men r either not treating their women (wife) good (domestic violence, threat of 2nd marriage) or r netral (when their mothers taunt or have unrealistic expectations then husbands instead of amking boundaries, tell their wives 2 indure it, as she is elder & "dill ki buri nahi hain mama" & craking jokes of 2nd marriage). I still believe that there are good men here too & honestly I want 2 have a good caring husband & 2 kids but the thing is I'm scared 2 end up like my mother or other women I've seen in my family. may be it's only common in my society or may be I've seen this since childhood so it's haunting me more.
@mynmeisname4825
4 ай бұрын
@@MaryamFarhan-hn9dcIm not calling u greedy, I'm saying that while looking husband for marriage don't be greedy as an advice. I pray that Allah gives you husband who is best for you Ameen
@AmeyVikram16
4 ай бұрын
@@mynmeisname4825Pray for her to be successful in life and have a good career and happy life. Husband is not necessary.
@TheCreatorsFootsteps
3 ай бұрын
If u think negative , god forbid negatives catches u
@mssgaming3197
4 ай бұрын
I have grown up in a Pakistani house, I have Pakistani relatives and I can tell you, she is not wrong. Incase you doubt that, go home and ask your mother how many times your dad made her wanna leave him but she could not because of the construct of the society. Women are being abused, sometimes its also mental.
@muhammadazhar4029
4 ай бұрын
Sorry , your mother had to go through that .
@mssgaming3197
4 ай бұрын
@@muhammadazhar4029based on your comment, i can imagine your wife will also go through it someday.
@vvk594
4 ай бұрын
In India it is better.
@bismariaz5446
4 ай бұрын
Same 😭
@laiba5312
4 ай бұрын
I still remember when my mother told me about one of my father's friend who did this post coital tear thing to his wife. My mother and father went back to their house with barat after doing dulhan's rukhsati and once my father's friend who was a very very aggressive man went inside to the room with dulhan. Just after 15 mins he came outside and told my father about what happened. My mother went inside and she couldn't believe the amount of bleeding and pain the poor woman who was only a few hours dulhan was enduring. They had to rush the bride to the emergency and she wasn't even present in her own valima. And yes it was an arranged marriage and I have seen the couple several times later during my childhood and the uncle was always extremely horrible to his wife who was a very innocent and decent woman and was always very kind to me and others.
@ayeshafareedsyed8560
3 ай бұрын
My god 😓
@Mahrooshay
2 ай бұрын
Ufffff, thanks it's a motivation for me to study more harder❤
@user-wo7wp4nh2r
4 ай бұрын
There is alot that I could not even imagine that she has discussed, has written and have confronted all her life with respect to upholding the prestige of a woman. Its a horrible world to be born in as a woman :'( cried my lungs out.. its hard hard to contain what is happening out there with women..
@maheenfatima5206
4 ай бұрын
Been following Dr. Tahira Kazmi for a long time, she's very intelligent and impressive personality.Only misogynistic and small mindsets disapprove her.
@hiraadieel6304
4 ай бұрын
This only happens in places of poverty. Instead of blaming the people look at the government policies. Education is the key to unlock a slavery mindset. The country itself is unislamic.
@maheenfatima5206
4 ай бұрын
@@hiraadieel6304 lol education is partially the problem. I can prove you illiteracy and awareness is matter of concern in all social classes.
@mynmeisname4825
4 ай бұрын
@@maheenfatima5206This slogan is so wrong "Mera jism meri marzi" don't they realise that a rapist can also defend himself saying this slogan, this slogan is atrocious if u look at the things it is justifying, this slogan justifies shirk,rape murder and etc Correct slogan should be "Mera jism Allah ki marzi" Also u don't have to be feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough. U can fight for women's rights calling yourself a Muslim, no need to call yourself a feminist because feminism doesn't agree with islam and I will prove it why. Feminism supports equality of rights between men and women While islam promotes equity/justice There is an important difference. For example: in islam 1 mans witness = 2 women (according to feminism it should've been 1:1) Most deserving of our good treatment amongst the people is our mother thrice then our father (According to feminism it should've been half mother half father) These are a few examples so the conclusion is Islam doesn't agree with feminism because men and women don't have equal rights but equity. Somewhere women are superior, somewhere men are superior in rights. But in Allah's sight both are equal, and none is superior to other except by taqwa. But feminism when talking about Equality it's talking about Equality of rights, not equality of status in front of Allah. No need to be a feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough. Islam gave more rights to women then feminism ever will, because answer this question. Is Allah not the most all knowing and most just? If yes then wouldn't he gave all the rights women should have through islam? Also from outside feminist looks like they are demanding women's rights But from inside it is a liberal agenda, which aim is to degrade men. It only fights for women's rights and not for mens rights because by definition it supports equality right so it should support both? No that doesn't happens,
@mariyak1411
4 ай бұрын
This episode should be played on a top local channel at prime time on repeat!🙌🏽
@ahsansiddique7496
4 ай бұрын
Feminist
@eaststreets
4 ай бұрын
@@ahsansiddique7496 subhuman
@minhajraza6740
4 ай бұрын
Agree 👍🏼💯
@farazzzahmed3624
4 ай бұрын
Ok 😂
@Amberian115
4 ай бұрын
Dr. Tahira is very humble lady. When I was in my FSc Pre Medical, I used to follow her on Facebook. She also gave very valuable advises. I thought that how come a very senior lady would reply a not-so-developed teenager but she did.... I just wanna salute her with both of my hands❤❤❤❤ More power to her... LONG LIVE GYNAE FEMINISM
@ShahZebkhanYT
4 ай бұрын
Tahira kazmi is being hated and trolled for just being TRUE.
@umroyaar
4 ай бұрын
Bilkul
@minhajraza6740
4 ай бұрын
Agree 👍🏼
@sehalpanyar2189
4 ай бұрын
As A twenty year Old Man I am totally agreed with her . And it’s a dark and sad reality of Islamic republic of Pakistan .
@zaksperspective
4 ай бұрын
بیس سال کا مرد ہوتا ہے ؟
@personalpr3723
4 ай бұрын
Than Immediately leave ISLAM and become Human
@sairakanwal2
4 ай бұрын
@@zaksperspectivesame question from him??
@zaksperspective
4 ай бұрын
@@sairakanwal2 you got the point right?
@sairakanwal2
4 ай бұрын
@@zaksperspective yes man.
@PoojaRawat-ef3iv
4 ай бұрын
God bless Pakistani womens. Be independent girls Love from India from A hindu girl
@jazzy.beeeee
4 ай бұрын
Chup urfi Javed 😂😂😂
@sharmeenismvlogs
4 ай бұрын
Junaid bhai k expressions dekhin he is feeling every single word Literally feeling proud k ek mard beth ker ye baat keraha hai wo bhi itni ehsas k sath I hope mard hazrat is se boht kuch seekhaingy
@mohammed_manish_joseph
4 ай бұрын
mard hazrat kuchh nhi seekhengey, religion is cancer, ulema aur qaziyo k brbad kr diya, free thinker bno aur philosophy pdho , syed muzammil ko suno, aur life m aage bdho 😊
@sharmeenismvlogs
4 ай бұрын
@@mohammed_manish_joseph Muzammil is my favourite, I regularly listen to his Podcast. He inspired me to start my own Podcast
@mohammed_manish_joseph
4 ай бұрын
@@sharmeenismvlogs good acha lgta h ap jaise k log v pak me exist krte h.. apni country k future k liye ache logo ko sunna chahiye.. muzammil best hai, i cant explain how much...ap sbse bdi bat ap mentally apang nhi h..jbki mominaye kuch sunne ko taiyar ni hoti so all the best for ur bright future...muzammil sir or ap jese k logo ka rhna bht jruri h is duniya me 🫶🫴🕊️
@somisid77
4 ай бұрын
This was an incredible podcast. I say the best among the serious ones. I salute you for addressing the taboos but discussing them and bringing it to the front. Some parts of the interview left me teary eyed. I respect her tremendously now. Proud to have strong and brave women like her who doesn’t back down and stays firm taking a stand.
@zeshanhk5
4 ай бұрын
She's speaking 💯 truth openly, iron lady mashallah, she's trying to spread awareness,hats off 🙏🏻
@HassieMalik
2 ай бұрын
I feel I am educated today so much about 'Mera Jism Meri Marzi'. One thing I wanted to talk about is that our men should be taught lot of things regarding women. Humari society aisy ha k mard ya larkay ko ni samjhaya jata how to respect women. Bas larka ha to kuch b krsakta ha or family males proudly accept b karlaity haan. Such a shame. And then kuch waqt k baad un mardo ko pata hi ni chalta k galat karny ma galati kya ha 😅 Abbay samjhaya ni gaya unko bachpan se hi. Humaye apny boys ko educate krny ki zrorat ha. Abhi is podcast ma mujy wallah kisi b chez ka ilm ni tha. Kabhi bataya hi ni gaya or ma apni sooch k andazay lagaya karta tha. Thank you Junaid Akram and Dr. Tahira apne muj jaisy jahil ko educate kya.
@amnakhan3943
4 ай бұрын
After listening to these traumatizing stories of what women go through, I am sickened to the stomach to see how men are still getting triggered on the word “feminism”. Shameless.
@untamedsoul876
4 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@rafiamustafa5326
4 ай бұрын
Not all men bht sy admiyo ma aqal ha or bht so ma aqal arahi ab wo en masayel ko samjh rhy or support kr rhy sach ko
@untamedsoul876
4 ай бұрын
@@rafiamustafa5326 sirf developed countries me women ke halat thik hain..200+ countries hain... Aur majority undeveloped aur developing countries ki hai. to socho kitne women ke sath galat ho rha hoga?????
@BROLY392
4 ай бұрын
@@untamedsoul876 Pakistan is neither underdeveloped and not developed Hum koi huts 🛖 mein Tou reh nai rahay, cement ke gharon mein hi reh rahay hain, Na Tou itna common hai jitna logon ne bna dia hai aur na hi itna rare hai.
@sherozeali1594
4 ай бұрын
Feminism is turning into a meme their are some valid points but some points are stupid 😂
@MrAromeremix
4 ай бұрын
junaid Bhai hats off to you on absorbing such information without crying, kon log hain hum yaar, hamara bohat sakht hisab hona hai aur humein samajh nahin a rahi hai , kudos to Dr tahira such a brave women
@minamaken4592
3 ай бұрын
After watching duration time I was going to skip it, then decided to watch first 5 minutes and now finished it in one sitting. Masha Allah impressed by her way of stating facts also wondering why the views are so low. I guess only few people have the courage to hear the truth. More power to Dr. Tahira Kazmi 🙌🏻
@noorsiddiqui6591
4 ай бұрын
This podcast is a great example of proving that women rather stay behind with a bear than a man!
@muhammadazhar4029
4 ай бұрын
Thanks God, be happy with a bear .
@shahzakanwal7634
4 ай бұрын
Sara time ye smjny mn lg gya k hasna hy ya rona Pr pir smj aie k facts rolany waly hen aur andaz e bayan hasanay wala Bht allaw mam❤ Infect i really don't have words to appreciate enough ❤
@abdullahdesigns00
4 ай бұрын
This podcast was full of insightful knowledge and featured powerful stories of resilience. Dr. Sahiba's bravery and advocacy on women's issues are truly admirable.
@Talhabashir14
4 ай бұрын
My mother Wants to go to park for walk in evening but she can't do that because men's see her with bad eyes and administration of park say that come in burqa. How can we do jogging in burqa 😢
@suchitaguria7157
4 ай бұрын
What the hell this is so annoying, this hit home bcz I love logging and I felt like how would I feel if I couldn't do that?
@Talhabashir14
4 ай бұрын
@@suchitaguria7157 yes your are right
@vineetdeorari8017
4 ай бұрын
Aurat mard ki kheti hoti hai… said allah.. simply following 😂😂😂
@MaryamFarhan-hn9dc
4 ай бұрын
@@vineetdeorari8017 u r a Hindu Indian, bro how can u interfere & make fun of such a complicated topic!!!
@vineetdeorari8017
4 ай бұрын
@@MaryamFarhan-hn9dc I’m an Indian and we have survived with Muslims 1209 years… we understand you better than westerners.
@shirinbukhari7250
4 ай бұрын
Dr Tahira Kazmi Zinda Baad endorsed your views Salute to you, Mr Junaid Akram Wonderful discussion🎉
@laraibabbasi797
4 ай бұрын
For those who think “not all men are the same” please have then sit alone in a room and have them take a truth test, I am pretty sure, all men would give the same answers if they’re from our society. No matter how progressive they can act within their households, they’re the same! Although i do disagree with a few things, Islam has granted women immense respect and women are considered strong too. In the end it all comes down to granting women equal “cerebral opportunity” rather than physical opportunities.
@MunazzaZulfiqar
4 ай бұрын
آپ کو کس نے بتایا ہے کہ یہ ہر مرد کی بات ہو رہی ہے؟ اپنے سے سوچ لیا ۔ کامن سینس کی بات ہے ان مردوں کی ہی بات ہو رہی ہے جو ظلم کرتے ہیں۔
@dr.tushar5222
4 ай бұрын
But ask your Holy book as to what it says about this matter. Societal values comes from your theological philosophy and in your case they all are theological dictats that must be considered as ideal human behaviour. لیکن اپنی مقدس کتاب سے پوچھو کہ وہ اس معاملے میں کیا کہتی ہے۔ معاشرتی اقدار آپ کے مذہبی فلسفے سے آتی ہیں اور آپ کے معاملے میں وہ تمام مذہبی احکام ہیں جنہیں مثالی انسانی رویے کے طور پر سمجھا جانا چاہیے۔
@SmileEvErydAy
4 ай бұрын
Phr in aunty ny aik martaba bhi ye q nhi kaha k yahan me saary mardon ki baat nhi kar rhi
@legendaryhound5261
4 ай бұрын
@@dr.tushar5222it says all that is important to maintain harmony in a society....But people interpret it wrongly
@legendaryhound5261
4 ай бұрын
@@dr.tushar5222That theological writings in Quran are absolutely correct...it's the wrong interpretation of people...
@tayyabafatima5584
3 ай бұрын
When I saw title, it seems like that it will too long to watch but when I started, I continue to listen because she is telling all the things which are in my heart except some misconceptions which may have better explanation but I agree 99% with her.
@Doragreat401
4 ай бұрын
She is so right and on point...surely large number people are going to offend by this talk
@famousfolks7074
4 ай бұрын
Luv this podcast,She stated all the truth.Most Pakistani men interpret islam in a wrong way and use it to their advantage.
@ripudamank9793
4 ай бұрын
Congratulations team for having podcast on thess multiple issues. All those who patronize you should share this podcast and all the esteemed guests who have been part of your podcasts in the past must share this to ensure it reaches a wider audience.... Hats off to the doctor who explained the issues in such an easy way. The way she is dealing with the people and their attitudes, it's certainly a big challenge.. still she was smiling throughout and trying her best to educate people. Hope people understand atleast the basics and try to bring in some change in them.
@Sheikhmuhammadzain
4 ай бұрын
I am a teacher and also a student, I also see such things with our society's female,even with my female students, colleagues and classmates, they are got discouraged to have a vision to contribute in the development of society, only timely marriage is the vision they have from their parents and other society members and because of this they don't be able to built their career and don't be able to contribute their part in the society. Their vision is only to be a housewife.
@user-ro1ip9zr8p
4 ай бұрын
Love u doctor.... I learned all of this when I went abroad.... Well long story short my wife is a military nurse n I am stay at home father...even I m accountant hehehe.. I unlearn everything when I left Pakistan..... My wife is from Philippines...😊
@faree38green
4 ай бұрын
I too had to unlearn many negative view points and behaviours... We grow up with such toxicity re women, children and minority groups. The ability to unlearn and re-learn is what enables an individual to grow...
@user-ro1ip9zr8p
4 ай бұрын
@@faree38green absolutely True ✌️
@smartmail6788
3 ай бұрын
Junaid bhai I am XYZ, and an well educated solo man from a backward society.. from interior Sindh… my sister is married and she was harassed by a her husbands brother.. and she just revealed this to my mom .. and both families decided to Rafa dads matter .. I work far distance from home .. as I returned home I found my sister was going through a trauma and and both families try best to not reach info to me but finally I found it and I started supporting my sister and punished the culprit bastard.. thank for this informative podcast and my sister and the society will take positive benefit from this podcast .. thank you once again
@shezzyomer5562
4 ай бұрын
Junaid uncle I applaud you for talking so openly about these issues… seriously meri nazar mein apki izzat bohot bhar Gaye….
@alinaakbarmalik
4 ай бұрын
This has been one of the most bold, empowering and strong podcast for me. Thank you Dr. Tahira, you are a force to reckon with. Thank you, Junaid, for this insightful and thought provoking talk.
@somiishaw2572
4 ай бұрын
After watchin this whole program m gettin a painful affect of emotional suffering of many girls n women she talked about.. I'm wondering if I should have watched it bc now i know these v. harsh traumatic things women go thru in thiz world which i never knew.. But one thing this program did is dat i now know how privileged I'm Alhumdulillah n many girls i know are.. I'll thank God whole my life abt it (bc its God's promise to increase a blessing which we're thankful for) that i couldn' imagine such things could exist in this world.. I got chills watchin it n cried for all those girls which I've never seen or heard of. Ya allah plz plz remove such a trauma or pain any girl or women is going thru. At some level i regret why i know this all even this knowing is v. painful
@hiraabbasi4426
4 ай бұрын
Having exact..same feeling.. feeling tremendously blessed and wishing you unwatch this podcast
@somiishaw2572
4 ай бұрын
, yeah😕😕
@amritanshusinghbhumihar
2 ай бұрын
I am not even from Pakistan...but this is outstanding podcast...this is very much true for majority of india too..but in india things are changing at a good pace..but still a majority of society is still left behind
@wajidali4356
4 ай бұрын
Mam we need a legislature for women rights and intimate partner violence. Please raise your voice for legislature regarding these issues
@sawaizali4329
10 күн бұрын
Best podcast as a 21 year old boy i observed that she is totally right. Everything she said that are totally in our nation. May Allah give hadayat to all of us.
@Justinly.
4 ай бұрын
We should accept the fact that women’s rights doesn’t exist here in pakistan😢
@MananShahid-fr1pf
4 ай бұрын
Human rights Nahi exist krte ap Women rights ki baat kr rahe 😂
@arsalankhan491
4 ай бұрын
Imran khan jail main hay, tum khusra right ki batain krty ho
@zainabbas4853
4 ай бұрын
I hope this Podcast will be a Kind of lesson to the audiance.BUNDLE OF THANKS to Dr.Tahira Kazmi
@MrMakermrmaker110pk
4 ай бұрын
Damnnnn! I consider myself a philosopher and I find hard to put my thoughts into words but she has done a great job at this and her thoughts will be a reference point for some of my theories.
@sadafaslam3226
4 ай бұрын
What an eye opening conversation! She is so amazing to be talking about so many difficult issues with such humor and grace. We have some ways to go. Salam to this lady and all brave feminist of Pakistan.
@niyajee
4 ай бұрын
What a brave lady. Bahut kuch seekhne ko mila madam se. Meri soch aaj change hui women's ke liye
@hirdaypandit5956
6 сағат бұрын
I admire Dr because she is bold and beautiful. I wonder how she dares to. be bold in Pakistan to express her views in conservative society. I salute her .
@muhammadnayabelahi7775
4 ай бұрын
This is first time I saw a new face of Faminisn. Junaid bhai great work !! Dr. Tahira Kamzi, keep up the good work you are doing a great job. May Allah bless you beyond what you expect.
@taharizvii
4 ай бұрын
Bravo… Hats off and more power to her. Longest podcast I have ever watched. @junaidakram you’re the best! Feeling ashamed of shitty society
@ajalikhanz
4 ай бұрын
A lot of hurt egos incoming in the comments 😂
@crypwzk
4 ай бұрын
Apki bhi lag rhi
@faristheknight_
4 ай бұрын
Exactly! Was thinking the same thing
@Be_consistent00
4 ай бұрын
@user-lz9vl8mo1y O Bhai ye anty apni khani suna rhi hy Pakistan me esa kuch nhi hota koi rare SE rare case me ho to pure world me hy na sirf Pakistan mePakistan
@ibadat786
4 ай бұрын
I guess they skipped that TRIGGER WARNING at the beginning of the video 😂
@ibadat786
4 ай бұрын
@@Be_consistent00if rare is 20%, count me in.
@mishiwihi
3 ай бұрын
mai nay 3 din laga kr ruk ruk kr ye video complete ki... amazing video.. sadly i didn't even knew about dr tahira. she's an amazing personality. truly inspiring 👍
@kys5515
4 ай бұрын
Im 18F living in abuse. My dad beats my mom, me and my younger siblings. Even though my mom is financially independent, she is not seeking divorce because...... log kia kahen ge? society kia kahay gi? This is why im feminist. If the domestic abuse bill had been allowed to pass, perhaps i would have gotten help.
@TheFaz793
4 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear. Fortunately, the percentage of such cases is very low. I know 2 families where the women have been abusing their husbands. Let's not put everyone in the same category.
@kys5515
4 ай бұрын
@@TheFaz793 its not low lmao look up the stats. just because it didnt happen to you doesnt mean it doesnt happen on a large scale. and i never put everyone in the same category. youre just delulu.
@kys5515
4 ай бұрын
@@TheFaz793 very low k bachay, ye dekho. takes one second to look it up. (and these are just reported cases) * **32% of women in Pakistan** have experienced violence. * **A study found 97% of women interviewed in hospital gynecology wards** had been victims of assault, ranging from verbal abuse to physical beatings and non-consensual sex. * **A UN study found that 50% of married women in Pakistan** have experienced sexual violence and 90% have been psychologically abused. * **Another study reported that 65% of women from a rural health center** had experienced domestic violence. * **The prevalence of physical abuse against women is 56% in rural areas**. * **In urban settings, the lifetime prevalence of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse is 57.6%, 54.5%, and 83.6% respectively**. * **A survey ranked Pakistan as the 6th most dangerous country for women, with 40% of women experiencing physical or emotional violence in their lifetime**. sources - ncbi.nlm, geo news, UN, WHO, Al Jazeera
@kys5515
4 ай бұрын
@@TheFaz793 * **32% of women in Pakistan** have experienced violence. * **A study found 97% of women interviewed in hospital gynecology wards** had been victims of assault, ranging from verbal abuse to physical beatings and non-consensual sex. * **A UN study found that 50% of married women in Pakistan** have experienced sexual violence and 90% have been psychologically abused. * **Another study reported that 65% of women from a rural health center** had experienced domestic violence. * **The prevalence of physical abuse against women is 56% in rural areas**. * **In urban settings, the lifetime prevalence of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse is 57.6%, 54.5%, and 83.6% respectively**. * **A survey ranked Pakistan as the 6th most dangerous country for women, with 40% of women experiencing physical or emotional violence in their lifetime**. sources - ncbi.nlm, geo news, UN, WHO, Al Jazeera
@TheRider..
4 ай бұрын
Alright, from now on whenever such a beating situation arises just recite the undermentioned Dua in your heart/mind NOT by tongue for Multiple times till the time the situation defuses n also tell you mom too. And after Namaz as a Dua too. And also offer 5 times Namaz too. CAUTION to be noted: Never read this Dua in your mind all the time. This Dua is only meant for worst scenario cases. رَبِّي إِنِّي مَغْلُوبٌ فَانْتَصِرْ Rabbi inni maghloobun fantasir Bookmark this page n do lemme know the positive results after few days In Sha Allah.
@XainabKhan053
4 ай бұрын
Amazing mindblowing fantastic podcast... amongst all the crap content....podcast like these are rare gems....This lady has addressed the very core issues of our society which even in 2024 literally exsist...plus kudos to junaid for being such a calm and composed host and his questions were amazing....plz keep uploading such sensible content.
@scholars-thinktank
4 ай бұрын
Only intellectuals and literates will listen this podcast.. And out of a million subscribers merely 1000 have liked this video
@minhajraza6740
4 ай бұрын
Sahi kaha 👍🏼 70k views and 2k likes.....The ratio tells a lot....
@bharatiya24
4 ай бұрын
One of the best and eye-opening podcasts ever. Keep up the amazing work Junaid Bhai and Dr. Tahira ji.
@ranarajput7368
4 ай бұрын
Pakistani maulanas and their followers rn is just boiling😂😂😂..
@RealSAAJUPLAYS
4 ай бұрын
when you don't read Quran but hate, true hatred to the core of heart.
@abcd-hj8kc
4 ай бұрын
Why everyone will read Quran? Do Muslims read every religion's scriptures? When Muslims judge other people based on their actions without reading their religious books then why can't other people do the same?
@abcd-hj8kc
4 ай бұрын
Why everyone will read Quran? Do you read every religious books?
@ranarajput7368
4 ай бұрын
@@RealSAAJUPLAYS when all the hate is written in your books...then focus goes only to that.....
@ranarajput7368
4 ай бұрын
@@abcd-hj8kc Actions done by peacefuls is written in quran
@shahrez141
2 ай бұрын
Amazing podcast, 100% agree, she is speaking FACTS
@STOS507
4 ай бұрын
The comments here exactly shows what she is saying is valid.
@noorsiddiqui6591
4 ай бұрын
Agreed! Yahan wohi shareef hay jisko Moka nahi mila abhi.
@a.bmin-ki3946
4 ай бұрын
Five fin are not equal If Yu think all women are sufferers Then I cannot argue with Yu Thank u
@uzairawan9423
4 ай бұрын
@@noorsiddiqui6591is ka mtlb ap k father ya bhai ko moqa mily ga to wo bhe ye sab kren gy??? Har koi aik jaisa nai hota
@TheFaz793
4 ай бұрын
@@noorsiddiqui6591sure, if we are that bad, don't get married, stay single, earn your living and enjoy your freedom!
@ReadnComment
16 күн бұрын
Hats off to Dr Tahira Kazmi. She showed mentality of Male to society. God Bless you.
@summraahmad8894
4 ай бұрын
Dr Tahira highlighted some of the very vital things that women face in today's world. Not all men are alike. But sadly majority men expect the woman to not have an opinion as long as it is not creating a conflict with the views of the said man. If she shows an opinion then she's belittled for it, her emotional intelligence is questioned big time, not by anyone else but the man who's supposed to listen to her when she shares/talks about something. Man can do and see what he wants. Why? Because he feel entitled of doing the exact thing he forbids his woman to do (just talking about the basic rights which can take a long list even). Its sad how our men think they are not answerable for their actions while in reality they are setting a wrong precedence for younger generations to come. Just hoping that the loop of male superiority complex would come to an end so things can become better.
@cheri7076
2 ай бұрын
An amazing,insightful and full of education conversation btwn these two personalities and especially Dr.Tahira Kazmi who highlighted all the sensitive and uncalled for issues of our society in such a smooth manner is just incredible.Hats off to this lady for providing us with her brain and intelligence.Looking forward to see her thrive even more
@MsSamsamsim
4 ай бұрын
I love how she speaks Punjabi from time to time. There is something sweet, loving and apnayat about it. ❤❤❤ I am urdu speaking.
@aeeshaw
4 ай бұрын
Facts!!! Love this lady! Thank you for bringing her on the podcast!
@pankajpadmashali9898
4 ай бұрын
Brother, this is not about Pakistan, the situation is the same here too. I salute you for this interview.. kudos to Dr Tahira ji .. lots of love form Ahmedabad Gujarat India 🙏🏻
@HumayunMirza-s8f
3 ай бұрын
Its always good to hear from an intelligent independently thinking woman, on the dismal situation of women in our society. Much conversation research n analysis is needed to bring awareness on better changes. Due to very strong patriarchal traditions cemeted with hadiths based religious doctrine, poor education, poverty n expliotative political n social system etc the changes r gradual n may take time. Keep it up its important n vital.
@a.bmin-ki3946
4 ай бұрын
What about men??? Men having a luxury life??? When Yu say things Say for both Let's see when will mr. J Akram will invite someone who will talk on men mental health and suffering But he will not Because phr dekhe ga Kon is ko Plus thumbnail itself says Pakistani mard which is generalizing all men So........ I cannot say much
@hamzashahid7910
4 ай бұрын
It's like apni problem khud bna k rona, bhai wo bh patriarchy ki waja sy hy
@a.bmin-ki3946
4 ай бұрын
@@hamzashahid7910 boss mard ko to insan hi nahi samjha jata naa Sara duniya k zulm sirf aurat pa hi ho Rahe hain Kya??? Jo mard apni aurton ki waja sa pareshan Hain ya in ki aurtain pareshan kr rahi Hain To Kya un ki BAAT nahi honi chahye Kya??? Ek tarfa agar zyada bola jaye to daali kaali wali misaal sahi ha phrr Ab is ne aurat pa program kar diya Ab dekhte Hain k men k problems pa ya kab baat karae ga Let's see Aurton pa zulm Hite Hain G bilkul hote Hain Kya sari aurtain Shareef Hain To nahi saari aurtain Shareef nahi Hain Aur na hi Sara mard bura
@a.bmin-ki3946
4 ай бұрын
@@hamzashahid7910 o Bhai Insaf ka taqaza ye ha k baat hamesha puri karo Ab aurtain sari to sharif Hain nahi To lehaza baat hamesha puri krni chahye Ek tarfa baat nahi Hoti kabhi bhi Thank you
@MohiHash
4 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful human being. Thanks for inviting her on the podcast.
@leenasamar6089
4 ай бұрын
Behtareen Podcast Junaid Bhai, much needed topic💜💯. May Allah keep you in amaan🤲
@URWATULKHAN
3 ай бұрын
this is an extremely brilliant podcast. kudos
@MuhammadHuzaifa-ff2wr
4 ай бұрын
All (wheather its male or female )should be accountable for their action and all provlems will be solved
@MuhammadHuzaifa-ff2wr
4 ай бұрын
Problems
@asifahasan8876
3 ай бұрын
Brilliant episode. Rich in content, informative and entertaining. Dr kazmi is brilliant and brave at the same time. To speak truth to Pakistani audience, in this case Pakistani men is definitely super human feat. Kudos to her, may Allah increase her knowledge and strength. Junaid Akram, we love what you are doing. May Allah give immense barakah in your life and work. Much love and respect to you both.
@mukeshkumar-ww6ep
4 ай бұрын
There are many negative comments on your podcast on this topic but i appreciate it. Truth is bitter for these people
@mynmeisname4825
4 ай бұрын
This slogan is so wrong "Mera jism meri marzi" don't they realise that a rapist can also defend himself saying this slogan, this slogan is atrocious if u look at the things it is justifying, this slogan justifies shirk,rape murder and etc Correct slogan should be "Mera jism Allah ki marzi" Also u don't have to be feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough. U can fight for women's rights calling yourself a Muslim, no need to call yourself a feminist because feminism doesn't agree with islam and I will prove it why. Feminism supports equality of rights between men and women While islam promotes equity/justice There is an important difference. For example: in islam 1 mans witness = 2 women (according to feminism it should've been 1:1) Most deserving of our good treatment amongst the people is our mother thrice then our father (According to feminism it should've been half mother half father) These are a few examples so the conclusion is Islam doesn't agree with feminism because men and women don't have equal rights but equity. Somewhere women are superior, somewhere men are superior in rights. But in Allah's sight both are equal, and none is superior to other except by taqwa. But feminism when talking about Equality it's talking about Equality of rights, not equality of status in front of Allah. No need to be a feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough. Islam gave more rights to women then feminism ever will, because answer this question. Is Allah not the most all knowing and most just? If yes then wouldn't he gave all the rights women should have through islam? Also from outside feminist looks like they are demanding women's rights But from inside it is a liberal agenda, which aim is to degrade men. It only fights for women's rights and not for mens rights because by definition it supports equality right so it should support both? No that doesn't happens,
@zainish99
3 ай бұрын
Lovely positive thinker and iron lady, so inspirational for me. God bless you ma'am.
@Real-Khan
4 ай бұрын
You missed the opportunity to ask your guest about her own life experiences as a daughter, sister, mother, student, and colleague, etc. It would be interesting to know how Pakistani men treated her and her mother in these capacities. This would have provided some context to her blanket remarks about Pakistani men treating their women.
@TheFaz793
4 ай бұрын
Super comment!
@ORTSOUNDS
4 ай бұрын
Exactly, she's just talking about some handful incidents there are problems in the society but she have some special hatred towards men that's why she didn't spoke about her father 9r brother like that if
@sydefias
4 ай бұрын
It looks like you haven’t listened to the podcast at all. She has been talking about her own experiences all through the podcast. This outspoken and confident woman is the product of good parents who both uplifted her. And then she states how women from the lowest to the highest statuses were treated right in front of her eyes. Examples of the educated doctor who is beaten by her husband and of the poorer women who are abused at homes.
@Real-Khan
4 ай бұрын
@@sydefias She delicately alluded to her personal experiences, indicating that Pakistani men treated her exceptionally well, contrasting with the blanket statements she made defining Pakistani men.
@sydefias
4 ай бұрын
@@Real-Khan The whole podcast is really about women’s experience with their own family. Dr. Kazmi talks neither about her nor other women’s experience with strangers. The whole podcast is about how women’s families and their in-laws treat them. You might not be treating your family’s women badly but that doesn’t mean the rest of the people are too.
@bb2680
4 ай бұрын
Good that you gave her time to speak it is important we allow people speaking about rights to speak more. This was a captivating talk , felt like we were finally speaking with someone ready to talk about truth and sachay maslay
@htc4118
4 ай бұрын
As a Pakistani I'm proud to support Dr Tahira kazmi😊
@fasihakiran4079
2 ай бұрын
I went through all sorts of abuse working as an NHS doctor in UK, and you are totally right word by word.
@lizz34
2 ай бұрын
You face abuse by uk people or Pakistani ?
@taibanasir
4 ай бұрын
What a fantastic podcast, it is pertinent to understand the perspective of a woman based on her experience in life with men. Some lunatics in this comment section will not bother listening to the entire podcast but will pass a judgment having their egos erect as their thing down there. We need more discussions and need more women and sensible and educated men to engage in conversation so this becomes a pathway in reshaping the policies of the country and have the country safe for all genders, whether men, women or trans.
@solaris6462
4 ай бұрын
I remember when aurat march first started i used to troll these women on social media with my "boys", i grew up in conservative area the concept of women coming out on streets and demanding their rights was new to me and i was obviously against it with a typical thinking that they are promoting "behayai", but with time i also started noticing the injusticies women face in our society everyday and it has been a painfull journey ever since,hopefully things get better in coming decades but lives of women already ruined by this oppression will remain a tragedy of time.
@MuhammadAhmad-rh8ec
4 ай бұрын
Andrew tate sons are coming with their pathetic logics
@HaroonRasheed-wb3jp
4 ай бұрын
Andrew tate kaha se aagya idhr?
@AmeyVikram16
4 ай бұрын
Bhai yeh sirf Andrew Tate fans nahi hain. There are also people who are saying things in the name of tradition.
@basheerwayne69
4 ай бұрын
Logic donon sides ke paas kuch theek hota hai kich ghalat.iss tarah kehne se Jo mananay wali baat hai woh bhi koi nai manega.
@a.bmin-ki3946
4 ай бұрын
Atleast tate is not munafiq .while feminists are
@ChefbyMistake
4 ай бұрын
AT is not related to our region.
@tanweermanzoor3860
4 ай бұрын
Totally agree with the facts she shared. We need to work on the society, start on our own kids, and make Pakistan a better place for all of us.
@riazali8408
4 ай бұрын
I really like this podcast. Specially Dr Tahira kazmi she did cover what happening in Pakistan with women 🇵🇰 and it’s reality SO SAD 😞
@AmeyVikram16
4 ай бұрын
Yeah. This is a true reality in India and Bangladesh as well.
@riazali8408
4 ай бұрын
@@AmeyVikram16 originally I am from Pakistan 🇵🇰 but now days I am In United States 🇺🇸 past 23 years as a men I always respect my wife. Take care of her even when she was delivering my first child 👦 I was with her to support her and that day very painful for me and her.we always should respect women
@AmeyVikram16
4 ай бұрын
@@riazali8408 You are absolutely right. Women are not our private property, they are independent individuals. They deserve respect, care and loyalty as much as men do. Very good on you for doing that. I’m from India btw, here in Indian cities situation is still better, but villages have a lot of discrimination.
@AsmaLicious
4 ай бұрын
I just love her the way she's spitting the true facts. She's speaking 10000000% right on all the nodes. Hats off to her 👏 ❤
@Talhabashir14
4 ай бұрын
As a teenager, i also see this in society women are totally harassed in Pakistan.
@zuhamalik7686
4 ай бұрын
I needed to hear all this to understand my identity. These days I just couldn't define myself as a woman living in such a society despite being so accomplished. Now it all just makes sense, its not me who is the issue, its them.
@AhmedAli-hx6vl
4 ай бұрын
Amazing amazing amazing mara pass alfaz Nahin hain iss khatoon ki boldness par Kash hamara mulk ki aurotoon ko samahaj a Jai (salute ha ap logon ko)
@ray-fs1lj
4 ай бұрын
Can't believe we have to explain to Pakistani men why women should be treated like humans. So much for Islamic republic of Pakistan. Can see why Iqbal said mujhe islam west mai zyada nzr ata hai 😭
@zaibali254
4 ай бұрын
Today a female teacher passed a comment saying "Is class me aik bhi dhang ka larka nazar nahi aya mujhe jis se koi larki shaadi krna chaahe" man had the genders been swapped it would have become a huge controversy lekin larko ki to khair he ragro inhe har trha.
@aamna189
4 ай бұрын
although I agree with you..... but u know all these comments are not made in isolation.... there is always history behind it
@faristheknight_
4 ай бұрын
Bro the problem is Mard aur aurat dono ki mard, le rhe hain!
@Aliillustrations
4 ай бұрын
I say the same to my students. It really is the truth.
@hassandilbar0075
4 ай бұрын
تو یہ کمنٹ پہلے بھی دس جگہوں پہ کرچکا ہے باسی ہوگئی یہ ٹیچر والی بات۔
@muhammadahmed1462
4 ай бұрын
Whyu feel like that is most common reason is badiklaq?@@Aliillustrations
@fatimahusayn
4 ай бұрын
After watching this I am thinking of never getting married because men around us we don't know kaun kesa ho
@rishiraaj.580
4 ай бұрын
These type of podcast will spread awareness. It's Eye Opening. 👍
@kchikyab
4 ай бұрын
Wow ! Huge respect to Dr. Tahira kazmi. She is very brave and honest speaking the truth in the country like Pakistan.
@alithesuperb
4 ай бұрын
I’m 32 I agree with her. We must respect women and girls in all aspects. Thanks to her and Junaid to raise such a important topic.
@IqraKhan-qb5uu
4 ай бұрын
ohh My God.. this was amazing everything she said was 100/100 or maybe more every word she said i could relate to and constant tears in my eyes listening to her amazing have no more words just brilliant Junaid bhai thanks for doing this 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@imtiaz4201
4 ай бұрын
I totally support Women rights ❤
@rasa8600
4 ай бұрын
Loved Listening to this lady ! She’s opinionated & witty!!
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