The eldest daughter is probably always prepared because she knows she can't rely on her own mother to be there for her or help her
@babysugar1592
2 жыл бұрын
I do hope the last story has an update and the update is how she’s not welcome to the wedding anymore. If the way you feel about your daughter is that “you barely know the woman” you don’t deserve to be in her life.
@kirstenmckelvey2637
2 жыл бұрын
PLEASE let us know if the mother responds. i need to hear her say “i have been neglecting my oldest daughter and i feel so guilty. i’m ashamed of myself and i’m sorry.”
@n0terin117
2 жыл бұрын
All I want to say that last story makes me sad. It’s very obvious she is that type of mother who favorites the child that tolerates her. In reality the youngest probably only sees her mother as a bank account. Plus A 10K WEDDING DRESS???? My sister in laws was 800+?? Are they buying Gucci? If you can pay for an entire wedding that takes place 3 months in the future than you can pay for a wedding dress for you oldest daughter. All in all if the lady sees this message you might want to try and repair that relationship before she puts you in a retirement home.
@Wishexe
2 жыл бұрын
Erika and Christian’s reactions to the mom story is literally every emotion and facial expression I went thru hearing that story.
@arceuslover12
2 жыл бұрын
I had to find this episode after seeing the clip on tiktok that’s how upset this “mom” made me. This woman honestly sounds horrible. I’m not going to guess what their home life is like, but this situation is messed up. She needs to apologize to her eldest and she better be paying either the same amount for the other dress, or make it up by covering her honeymoon or something. I hope she reads all these comments and sees how trashy her attitude is.
@sgheti
2 жыл бұрын
I genuinely hope that mom from the last story is going through all the comments too cause I truly and honestly believe that she sucks rocks :) if you “barely know” your oldest daughter then how about you start by not being insufferable towards her so that she’ll actually desire a relationship with you.
@IbelinnCreations
2 жыл бұрын
Omg “my priority is my little girl”…… are you f-in kidding me 😵💫 I can’t, this lady is horrible wtfffff
@KevBotWorkshop
2 жыл бұрын
Just listened to the podcast and I'm very upset about the last story. The favoritism is so blatant and im pretty shocked that it was a listener submission. I feel that people who take to the internet for AITA already know if they are or not and are looking for reassurance and/or defense. The way it is worded the mother feels they are not in the wrong at all and has no idea how poorly she is treating her eldest daughter. No parent has to pay for a child's wedding or even contribute IMO, though if you contribute to one, you should be ready to contribute equal amount to the others. I understand if there was financial issue in between childrens weddings over years but since these are being planned in the same time, you know what you need to account for. "I barely know the woman" this woman is your daughter and you make it sound like a stranger. You don't know her and clearly have not put the best foot forward to get to know her cause your younger bestie and now you want the rest of the family and us to agree with you. Sounds like you dont deserve an invite. How do you fix this? Contribute the same amount to the older daughter? I dont know about that. Seems like your words have already done damage. The younger daughter may come to feel guilty about this some day as her relationship with her sister is going to be tarnished and mother may have just lost a daughter because of something like this.
@justineg1056
2 жыл бұрын
That mom is awful and my heart goes out to the oldest daughter :(
@bug1442
2 жыл бұрын
Casually going through all the comments to see if the narcissist from the last story has responded
@ciarawilson8503
2 жыл бұрын
We need an update for the last story!!!
@afunctionaldisaster4058
2 жыл бұрын
Last story that mom is definitely ending up in a terrible retirement home 😬
@ZMich8
2 жыл бұрын
This is my first time watching it when it’s first posted and I just got to say that Mother is a horrible woman. Love y’all podcast so much
@igglypuv
2 жыл бұрын
okay but we need a circle jerdge only about the fights erika’s mom has gotten into
@abbijohnson6192
2 жыл бұрын
how is the last story real?? I feel absolutely horrible for the older sister!!! Also Ricky is GLOWING every episode, much love from a gen z avoiding college finals 🥰❤️🤙🏼
@rcbak4635
2 жыл бұрын
“Gen z avoiding college finals” really resonates with me. Me too, me too.
@bbymoon
2 жыл бұрын
THAT POOR OLDEST DAUGHTER omfg my oldest sister is a gem, the most deserving human being, and that womans oldest daughter shouldnt be treated like a stranger, pushed awag. Gosh i hope that older sister is okay!!!
@carysfriend9853
2 жыл бұрын
for the last story, if you're not paying for one wedding don't pay for any, such awful thing to do and blatantly picking favourites actually just horrible I hope you see this comment
@Keplin1000
2 жыл бұрын
That last story is like the Disney fast pass but instead of getting the rides early it's getting into a nursing home and never thought of again.
@jpau2666
2 жыл бұрын
My mom would love it if I was able to see her once a week. Once a week is a lot on its own. I’d love to see my mom more but because of where I live I’m only able to visit my mom 1-2 times a year but it’s at least for a few days up to 2.5 weeks
@mysticalmushroom256
2 жыл бұрын
This podcast just radiates Sitcom energy
@tiffanypronk4312
2 жыл бұрын
We need update on the last storry
@lizbethguevara7
2 жыл бұрын
👏Traumatized 👏narcissistic👏family 👏 members.
@user-qr5te1fo5u
2 жыл бұрын
She doesn't get to call herself her mother she is a monster I'm disgusted
@jordenrayner1687
2 жыл бұрын
"Unfair to pay for bother their weddings" as far as we know, she just wants you to buy a dress and nithing else!!!! As an oldest child myself with a crappy mom, you better GROW UP and stop coddling yohr ither children. Speaking from thoughts of my own future, i can guarantee that after this wedding planning, she might start cutting you out, only talking to you bc of her father (assuming the dad and her have a good relationship)
@mundanepants
2 жыл бұрын
The last story is very Boomer Mom. The kids are either property or just these acquaintances that happen to live in the same house. Not your children that you have a parental relationship with.
@Navywalrus09
2 жыл бұрын
Hi. If the mom from the last story is reading this, I'd like you to know that you're a bad person and you deserve to never hear from your oldest daughter again
@samanthageorge6447
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone in the baby clothes story is insane lol. P.s, This is my favorite podcast of the year and i love rewatching old episodes while waiting for the new one each week.
@daniel-eg2oq
2 жыл бұрын
Yo I love this show. First episode I’ve seen. Came from tiktok
@TheJudgiesPodcast
2 жыл бұрын
😘
@princesslulu5795
2 жыл бұрын
Does this woman even like her oldest? People this selfish and cruel have no business having children
@andres55268
2 жыл бұрын
So in the last story, the oldest daughter wants a tiny wedding completely planned. And the “best friend and shadow” of this biased mother has an unplanned, giant wedding. Also is she independent or was the oldest child just forced to be independent because of lack of attention????????Plus where are the other 2 children she said she was a mom of 4 did they just not care or something
@placefantasy1821
2 жыл бұрын
I found your podcast through your TikTok about that last story and oh man hearing it again here hurts even more. The blatant favouritism from the mother reminds me of my own relationship with my mother. When I left home I even told my mom that I knew she wouldn’t consider me family anymore once we didn’t live under the same roof and I was right. I hope she cuts ties with her mother for her own sake. what a narcissist that can’t be healthy for her children oh god.
@imenehariri2139
2 жыл бұрын
I would love to see updates from the last story ,I hope the comments woke that terrible mother up because that baby did not deserve to be treated like that , she deserves an apology and a beautiful wedding dress
@marks_reptiles_and_inverts
2 жыл бұрын
Tie a fishing line to the carrot
@TheJudgiesPodcast
2 жыл бұрын
Don't give Erika ideas
@ursulajoni15
2 жыл бұрын
I saw that last one on Tik Tok I had to come here because what the f*** a period he thinks she barely knows her own daughter because she only sees her once a week I know people who don't see their best friends that often. There's also lots of red flags within the youngest relationship, she's only 21, she wants a giant wedding but it's rushing the wedding planning and she hasn't even lived with her future husband those might not be issues but altogether it gives me very little faith in the longevity of this relationship . also OP doesn't mention it but I wonder if the youngest in her future hubby have even been together that long also it's easy to see who the favorite is I wonder what mommy's precious princess is going to do once she moves out and actually has to do things for herself. I predict that if it even gets the wedding the youngest daughter is going to get married and spend a few months loving the attention of being a newlywed then throw a hissy fit when she discovers she actually has to do things herself now dump the husband and come back to live with Mommy at which point mommy is going to tell oldest daughter that she has to tone down her wedding because precious baby youngest daughter is going through a divorce and it's super hard for her
@hiimbobbyo631
2 жыл бұрын
Not a minute into it and I’m already dying laughing 😂
@jessicabouchard739
2 жыл бұрын
Erika’s attitude during the baby clothes story just makes it that much better 😂👏
@Lele56789
2 жыл бұрын
sweet potato pie is god tier erika you made the right choice.. p.s.- erika and my mom have the same name spelled the same way and its always better the the "K" not "C" I love this pod and binged it at work and long car rides for months (5 stars guys) wish i could appear for an episode man yall are hilarious
@rikabeau93
28 күн бұрын
I am also an Erika. 😊
@MikkelLilo
2 жыл бұрын
I know listeners are important but is there any way to BLOCK that mother from listening. She did NOT understand the assignment, nor the vibe. Wtf?!
@mikanwithagun8419
2 жыл бұрын
I mean on KZitem yeah but on other platforms idk
@TheMinahuna
2 жыл бұрын
I enjoy the energy we have brought to the studio today
@_worldnm
3 ай бұрын
that last story was so sad im mAD MAD
@sheeb6953
2 жыл бұрын
this is the most enjoyable podcast i watch(ed) yet its always so funny hearing the stories and im interested with the content def deserves more clout 😮💨
@hecknfrick4236
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you guys have a KZitem version! I loved watching you guys on tiktok, then went to your Spotify. Found this on KZitem and I'm so glad I can still have the visuals and the full podcast!
@applefrost6119
2 жыл бұрын
To the mom who sent in that last story. Not only are you TA you are a horrible parent as we can tell just by the way you talk about your oldest, you neglected her in favor of your youngest. Your favoritism is clear. Do better.
@annamay.1369
2 жыл бұрын
AITA: My brother is getting married in a few months and my entire family doesn't like his fiance. She is using him for his money. She pins my mom and dad against each other by making things up about the two of them or my step dad or my dad's girlfriend. My dad and I don't have the best relationship and she has told me or my mom things that my dad has said about me or done behind my back and when I confront him about it. Obviously we talk it out and figure out she is just making shit up. She even goes out of the way to rub it in my face when they spend time with my dad, because he only hangs out with me maybe four times a year and hangs out with my brother constantly. She has screwed my mom out of money and my brother knows absolutely nothing, because we don't want him to push us away, because she is so manipulative and very controlling to the point of her not trusting him to hang out with his friends or doesn't even let him hang out with me or my family alone or do pretty much anything without her. I haven't really spent anytime with my brother without her pretty much since they started dating 6 years ago. I just kind of want to know how to tell him or if we should talk to him at all?
@goodnotgr8
2 жыл бұрын
20:53 great sound byte
@Emily-pi8xe
2 жыл бұрын
You guys make my Mondays tolerable.
@_adrian_sean
5 ай бұрын
Had to come find this episode after seeing the story about the mom and the wedding dress on tiktok. I need an update 😮
@cr0nie
2 жыл бұрын
time to rewatch this all week until the next one comes out 🥰
@marywalsh9245
2 жыл бұрын
Ooh la la an upload at midnight..do not mind if I do 👄👁️👄
@rubyroberts539
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’ve caught up already 😭 I’ve been listening to this amazing pod for about 2 months now, slowly making my way through all the ‘sodes, and now I have to wait every week for a new one?!!! The audacity… How dare you three be so funny and intelligent. P.S.: Ricky I love you and you’re beautiful!
@twilightmemoryfox
2 жыл бұрын
The cost of replacing a mattress is so high, I don't know where my line is
@reillypagel9745
2 жыл бұрын
"Matrimony" is the word he was looking for.
@TheJudgiesPodcast
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gavin8981
2 жыл бұрын
I think burlesque is only with underwear and a bra on I'm not sure though
@aubriehobbs5778
2 жыл бұрын
y’all are my favorite i’ve been listening for months. y’all all crack me up but erica’s definitely the best
@dadwrestler
2 жыл бұрын
Every episode is a gem
@quinnhawkins8545
2 жыл бұрын
Amazing as always! Is there a way to watch the jackbox stream?
@janaytravis-landrum4778
6 ай бұрын
Mom should just say she doesn't like her daughter & move on. Playing the victim is ridiculous at this point!
@leslyrodr
2 жыл бұрын
I got to have the link to the first story I am dying to see if there’s an update
@JoJoJungle1
2 жыл бұрын
Can you guys please ask for a update on the daughter's wedding dress
@aileenrodriguez6798
2 жыл бұрын
If there is an update, I'd love to know about it
@Megan-xg4ui
2 жыл бұрын
Josh I just want you to know that I laughed at your brown sheets joke at 12:18 even though Erika and Christian completely ignored it
@TheJudgiesPodcast
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥️
@samueltabor3405
2 жыл бұрын
I’m gay but my favorite thing to say is mommy milkers
@zerochill1403
2 жыл бұрын
Okay I will switch to KZitem from the audio. You win.
@readerminion6743
2 жыл бұрын
Okay I came here for the last story. Since it was a listener's submission I hope she reads these comments. Instead of just insulting you I want to say this your oldest daughter will resent you if you keep this energy. She will likely cut you off and you will deserve it. You will likely need someone to take care of you in the future and while your youngest may be there if she is as bad at planning and caring for her own life as you describe her it will be up to your oldest to care for you in your old age. If you keep up this treatment she likely won't and if she does it will just be putting you in a nursing home and forgetting about you. Also you are putting unwarranted stress on her relationship with her younger sister as well by picking favorites and separating them like this. YOU are the issue here. You are not acting like a mother nor like you even like your oldest daughter let alone love her. She deserves more and like it or not you are the ah. You need to change and quickly or you might just find yourself having only one child (assuming no other siblings not mentioned).
@reggiepollock4669
2 жыл бұрын
Brooo what the fuck is that last story, that is not a good parent
@chelizacrawford6599
2 жыл бұрын
Where do you go to get merch North? South? actually you go Weast ( love the new direction josh is taking the pod lol)
@LetEmEatShorts
6 ай бұрын
I just came here from Instagram, someone please tell me there was an update.
@princesslulu5795
2 жыл бұрын
Anyone who spends 10 thousand dollars on a dress you wear once for someone else is an idiot imho. Also your child is NOT your friend & it’s disgusting for you to treat her like that especially at the expense of your other child.
@claireriepe7056
2 жыл бұрын
Great job Frank. Abiding by federal law.
@frederickox
2 жыл бұрын
Not me, an Arkansas viewer… 😂
@chrisprice7356
2 жыл бұрын
The aunt story isn’t wrong . He isn’t an asshole he jsut brought the same energy that she did 🤷🏻♂️
@kreuger2062
2 жыл бұрын
Holy fuck that listener submission. Just wow. 👄👁👄
@hecknfrick4236
2 жыл бұрын
I hate sweet potato pie, bit I don't really like pumpkin pie either. The flavor of pumpkin pie is not bad, but the texture of both is awful and the flavor of sweet potato pie is not good at all
@cynschaos2
2 жыл бұрын
Frank won for following the law... go Frank.
@hiimbobbyo631
2 жыл бұрын
There’s no doubt in my mind that he was definitely I/o too those pics 😒 why’d he have them out on screen or keep them in the first place like omg hahah I kinda wish there was an update.
@imdookie4
2 жыл бұрын
@lexidae
2 жыл бұрын
The breastfeeding story AS IM BREASTFEEDING 🥲😭 I just can’t deal with that whole story.
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