This episode hit me in the feels,it's like watching myself as mikan. As children when we try to help sometimes we get pointed at for our mistakes instead of appreciating the things we actually did. Gradually the continuous picking and nagging we start to neglect things as well,like..why would I put efforts when I'd just be a bother to others anyways? I hope ppl try to be more kind and understanding,kids have tender minds,our smallest words or actions affect them alot.
@mysticlight_d36
9 ай бұрын
so true
@il0vTakoyaki
6 ай бұрын
I definitely understand that feeling, I remembered last time when I was 7, I managed to get like 75/100 for my maths which was like a biggest achievement to me at that time however when I showed it to my mom, she didn't care, rather, she asked me not to get in her way... It really destroyed my mood and passion to the point that my grades fell to the last place in my class. I was continously scolded for not studying and such but she herself has long forgotten that she was the one who made it happen in the first place with her lack of understanding of a child mind.
I kinda understand how Mikan feels though... There's no point in doing our best when people still get mad at us, pointing at our mistakes and no appreciating the good things we did. At least if we deliberately don't try hard, we do deserve to get mad at
This episode was so deep, so much deep. It talks about how we lose our spark growing up. What we are capable of doing and how we ended up being not the same. Just gets disconnected from things we love being a kid. Growing up theirs so much stuff, we just couldn't want to get onto or just feel like this ain't anything 'cause back in childhood, we haven't been appreciated with the same task. Instead of being rewarded were questioned and neglected for that. It's hurtful, painful. Maybe it's time for us to realize that it's okay, let's just assume the person who did bad with us or didn't appreciate us has not appreciated herself back in her days. Let us be kind to ourselves and others too
@user-mm5gn8mk7y
Жыл бұрын
終始気にかけてるお父さんが可愛い笑
@angel31356
Жыл бұрын
I understand Mikan because it really hurts a child when you react that way at their hard work, she is just lazy but I know that having adults react that way to your work can also affect a child while growing up. Instead, Mother should have told her "you did a really good job! But next time, only collect leaves from our portion, not the entire corridor". It would have a much more positive effect on a child
@arinapra5521
Жыл бұрын
Watching while learning a thing or two about parenting 😌😌
@bigfoxki
Жыл бұрын
You never know how some words sound harmless or joking can deals a serious damage on children. And sometimes it just happened because how the child interpret the words. Back then when I was a kid, I was very happy to meet a cousin I never met before, especially my family was really strict, so I don't have much playmate and playtime. My mother feared that I may be bothering the cousin, so she said I was being 飛擒大咬(directly translated into jump to grab something and take a huge bite), it meant something like I was being too "animalishly" friendly. I took it very hard and from then I became extremely reclusive. I was one of those always active and cheering kid, after then I felt more comfortable to sitting quietly at the corner.
Thats Daddy know everything but doing nothing. Why u cant fold the clothes or help to chabge the rubbish bag? Since you see it. Or at least, helping scold and teach your daughter. Its father job to dicipline a child -_-
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