I regret purchasing a range of clothes in the past. I have given away so much clothing and every year I still give away more. Not purchased any clothing at all for 5 years.
@Havanah2006
3 жыл бұрын
Sadly handbags and wallets - I was addicted. Proudly reformed nowdays. I have 1 x small cross bag I use daily & 1 backpack if I need to carry more.
@TheKrazyKoala
3 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed with getting older with less need for heels. I'm thinking to make this same video on my channel too. Let me write me in a separate thread
@flydazedator26
3 жыл бұрын
Makeup, skincare, electronics, and stationary
@BonBonHassan
3 жыл бұрын
Ooooo weeee where do I start lol
@ashaelfifa
3 жыл бұрын
My bad purchases is everything that I bought for my 'dream self' not for my real self
@andymagliulo
3 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I am so guilty of this! I project myself far into the future, but reality catches up quickly. Thank you for watching 😊
@Momma_AL
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@AskArianne
3 жыл бұрын
me too!
@annika9348
3 жыл бұрын
This!!! I'm literally looking at a handbag right now that's hanging across the room... I wanted to change my style and look more sophisticated but I haven't used it once.
@minikorsi
3 жыл бұрын
Regretted purchases happen because of: 1. Society’s pressure/fashion 2. Experimenting 3. Buying for fantasy self 4. Insecurities 5. Lack of information/knowledge My biggest regretted purchase is formal clothes ( now I’m selling half of my wardrobe on eBay :0) I was dressing my fantasy self: who has a high flying corporate job, gives lots of presentations and attends formal events every week.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
haha yes! I can relate to this. My fantasy self also worked in a high rise office in the city and travels every weekend and goes to fancy dinners :) my reality is soooo different from this scenario.
@ms.mccorrister5391
3 жыл бұрын
bags and purses! WHY do I feel the need to buy so many bags and purses!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
It was hard to resist bags and purses for me too. Meanwhile, I only use my fanny pack in my daily life haha
@mandiraexotic
3 жыл бұрын
Marketing.
@srishtihada1554
3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I have a big drawer full of bags and purses. 😭
@dinghui1130
3 жыл бұрын
I always forget things when switching bags, so I really just stick to one or two. Makes life a lot easier.
@olgaanisimova6916
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like I should buy the best quality I can afford which often means high price tag items. So I save for months to buy a purse. And then the pressure is on to get the one I won’t regret buying. This all leads to unnecessary stress
@hris9214
3 жыл бұрын
I love clothes as much as the next girl, now after decluttering, I wrote a list of why I decided to part ways with those clothes, eg bad material, 3 quarter sleeve lengths, fishtail skirts, loud prints etc, so that I can refer to this list (saved on my phone!) during future shopping trip 😌 to avoid buyers remorse / regrets
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this idea! You are doing yourself a favor by making the decision process easier for the future :) I should do the same. Thanks for sharing this idea
@athenameriamschannel6361
3 жыл бұрын
I regretted purchasing different shades of lipsticks when in fact I only wear two shades most of the time.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I had 10 very similar brownish nude lipstick 😅 you're not alone!!
@Megan_Marlene
3 жыл бұрын
Same! I have so many lipsticks wanting to be a lipstick girl but I'm just not
@Areutherehello
8 ай бұрын
I have so many lipsticks that it's insane. Pinks, nudes, brownish orange reds. I had over 40 tubes once. I realized it was such a tragedy money-wise when I knew that I only liked to wear around five of those lipsticks on a regular basis.
@sophia5001
2 жыл бұрын
I can give up everything except reading and collecting books. Moved from buying new to used books now that I’ve adapted minimalist thanks to your channel 🙏🏻
@MalamaLife
2 жыл бұрын
💕I'm so happy to hear that!
@jazzlayla
3 жыл бұрын
Buying good quality items is a good idea. I make leather bags for a living. They last a long time. I get some back after 20 years to replace the zippers then they’re good for a few more years. I made the mistake of buying a vegetable peeler at the dollar store that lasted about a week before it fell apart
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I would like to only invest in items that are timeless! I love how you see first hand that we can just maintain our items to prolong their life. I've had a similar experience buying things at the dollar store :D
@ailsaburns
3 жыл бұрын
Interesting that you mention the Kindle as I think a lot of minimalists are huge fans of the Kindle. It illustrates that we are all different and should do what is best for our lifestyle. I'm like you and although I have a Kindle, it is never charged when I reach for it haha because most of the time I read paperbacks. Thanks for the lovely video!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Completely agree Ailsa! I can see why minimalists would love the kindle. I really wanted to like it, but it's too bad it didn't work out. I have a niece who would love it, so she's getting mine for Christmas 😍❤
@vcook2825
Жыл бұрын
I too didn’t care for my Kindle…. it felt like too much ‘automation’ than what I cared for. Now, I buy used paperback books at thrift stores or Amazon.
@Patricia-fi9zo
3 жыл бұрын
I can see myself in many of these purchasing regrets... perfume, high heels, plants that are too high maintenance... you live and you learn :)
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Definitely learning so much 😊 I'm not sure why I felt the need to buy these things. Thanks Patricia ❤
@HaveWhatBringsMeJoy
3 жыл бұрын
After many years of hearing people say that you definitely need all this stuff, and witnessing wedding shower gifts that were enough to fill up a huge house, and after actually being inside houses that had so much stuff, it was refreshing to hear someone say that they wished they hadn't of bought all that stuff. I've bought my share of unnecessary stuff, but I'll never do it again. Now I only buy what I truly need. And I am so much happier.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your lovely thoughts! I completely agree with you. I am so much happier now and I don't enjoy buying random things for others or receiving unnecessary gifts. I would much rather enjoy a nice conversation over coffee or go for a nice beach walk :) Thank you so much for watching An.
@carlav8357
3 жыл бұрын
I relate to you so much, earlier I was decluttering and I'm so upset with myself spending unnecessary money on things I don't even wear. Thank GOD I'm realizing this so I can make the corrections I need to and change this unnecessary behavior!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I love that you said this! It's true. We can make mistakes, but we can also decide to move forward 🥰❤
@mhdayarathna4706
3 жыл бұрын
I'm also spent more in skin care products ,perfumes and unnecessary clothes and shoes. I'm trying to cut those things in my life
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear that you can relate! Yes these were so unnecessary for me 😊
@PilgrimKat
3 жыл бұрын
Haha I started the video thinking "hm, I don't think there's much that I regret buying" then immediately at the first point you got me. I've definitely spent too much money on plants that I didn't know how to care for 😅 This is a good reminder for intentional buying Sophie, thanks for sharing your experiences 🤗
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
When I was writing a list for this video, I didn't think I had so many purchases I regretted. It was actually difficult to narrow it down to just 10 :) I learned my lesson to start taking care of succulents and then move my way up. Thanks for watching Kat
@runnergirl450
3 жыл бұрын
You have the most beautiful hair!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much :)
@krupadnjya6995
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a medical student,what you said about supplements and food is absolutely correct dear
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for confirming it 😊 i didn't want to give anyone health advice, but just wanted to share my honest opinion ❤
@krupadnjya6995
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife hello, I'm trying to grow my hair and I love your hair can you make a video on haircare, maintenance and how you grew it ,plzzzz♥️♥️
@p.r.9982
3 жыл бұрын
It’s so weird, this week I decided to stop buying supplements after over 5 years of consuming them, and I’m watching this today and reading your comment. This is so timely, insane confirmation.
@sandrinebj7456
3 жыл бұрын
Hi! Just wanted to jump in and say that the reason why most of us have glass containers for dry food, etc is not only because it's beautiful but most of all because we buy in bulk. It saves a ton of plastic and it's even cheaper at some places
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Good point 😍 I totally understand. Thank you for watching!
@BonBonHassan
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been weaning myself off excessive shopping in preparation of my no buy year and I’m already so much happier!!! I’ve finally created a budget and I’m loving it ☺️
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
😍 that is incredible!! Good for you. I'm sure you feel so proud and accomplished. I am rooting for you ❤
@nataliemorrell3083
2 жыл бұрын
How has your no buy year been? :)
@theerarestjewel
3 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite quotes is" Your avatar you present to the world, is the reason for your anxiety or depression" To piggyback off that. There are many scriptures that state " Dont become the way of the world" Minimalism clears all that you truly become authentic.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Ah I love that quote so much! It resonates with me so much. It's crazy to think about the things that make me truly happy..it really doesn't require much
@pamelagilmour8060
3 жыл бұрын
Yes we buy things for the life we think we want. Thank you for the inspiration. You are so sweet and genuine. Your mother I’m sure is very proud.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Pamela 🥰 I appreciate that so much!
@ruanag8184
3 жыл бұрын
I was such a bad impulse shopper before , I always used a sale as an excuse to purchase items even multiples sometimes items I never even needed or used . So sad.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I was guilty of shopping sales too! It sounds too good to let it pass, but I always ended up spending more.
@umitagupta9661
3 жыл бұрын
My regrets are - Bags and wallets Kindle Cute decor
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Similar to mine! glad you can relate
@Simon-je7ko
3 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to let you know that I apply what you say in your videos. I look at life and things differently. I think I really needed this. For me one cup of coffee from my Keurig and a good walk outside or being outside to listen to a river is enough to make me happy. I don't need a lot of things. I have enough. Thanks for everything.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope you know it means so much to me :)
@Lushhh
3 жыл бұрын
Please don't rub your wrists together when applying fragrance! It rubs away all of the top notes and the scent won't perform and develop as well as it should!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I had no idea! thank you for letting me know 🥰
@rachaelmt2984
3 жыл бұрын
haha i wouldnt know where to start - i have hundreds maybe thousands of regrets. I have started this minimalist journey a couple weeks ago - and have given away hundreds of items and i stilll have so much clutter. its a work in progress :D
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes definitely work in progress :) thank you so much for watching
@ModernGoddess81
3 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat
@alfs3
3 жыл бұрын
when i buy anything over the 20 yrs i always keep the original box and just put them in my attic bc i can turn around and resell them on amazon or ebay for pretty much what i paid for them as like new! #noregrets!
@jenniferpearce777
3 жыл бұрын
Apart from clothes and shoes my worst purchases that was expensive and wasteful is exercise equipment, treadmills, bikes exercise dvds that didn’t get used enough ☹️
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes! I can imagine bulky exercise equipment just taking up space if you are not getting use out of it. I hope that you can sell and make some cash back 😁❤
@jenniferpearce777
3 жыл бұрын
Just my thinking 🤔 but you lose so much money but I am thinking if I have not used it by March it is going but I am definitely not buying anymore lesson learned 🎄🥰
@ikaputrialfina527
3 жыл бұрын
I had always dreaming to have a treadmill or adjustable barbell at home. But now i feel enough and healty with just having one jump rope,one pair dumbbells and my smartphone to watch and do 10 minutes workout from youtube 😁😁
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
@@ikaputrialfina527 so simple I love it 🥰
@anashappydays
3 жыл бұрын
I have to say that in the last years I have been very good and I only buy things with lots of value for me, so I don’t regret buying 💙😋
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
that is amazing!! I bet that feel so good to say out loud 😁 That is exactly how I want to feel Ana
@theotherway1639
3 жыл бұрын
"30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels...a popular book online. Uses mindfulness.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I'll have to look into it 😍 I love getting other perspectives on this topic. Thanks for sharing!
@bethmathews8465
3 жыл бұрын
I totally relate! I’m in the process of donating and selling unnecessary items from my home. Things without actual function and things that don’t bring me ultimate joy. Great video!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I just love hearing that! I think it's so important to absorb information and content, but more important to take action :D amazing and inspiring! thank you so much for watching.
@DnAMcD
3 жыл бұрын
Aloha Sophie 🙋♀️ I regretted purchasing a 10 seater table for my dining area. Once we put it in the space it completely overpowered the room and was way too big. Luckily I purchased it used and was able to resell it without losing any money. Loving your channel and your content. Blessings from Queensland, Australia 🌞
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Aloha Amanda 😊 thank you so much for watching! After you mentioned your dining set, I am looking at mine and wondering why my husband and I needed a 6 seater table just for the two of us! I'm so glad you were able to resell it and get some money back 😁
@perhapslife5837
3 жыл бұрын
My instax camera. Only to realize that i cant afford to buy films and i am not going anywhere.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes! I also thought it was a good idea to get one. It is really hard to upkeep getting new films and I regret mine too 🤣 thanks for sharing!
@perhapslife5837
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thank you so much for your vlogs too. Im watching your vlogs this holiday seasons and I hope I can apply those words in my life slowly. Stay safe! ❤️
@alexperoff-investingessent8367
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, when you said high maintenance plants I had this imagine of a plant with a Louis Vuitton bag, a Burberry scarf, and some designer glasses saying something like "I ain't eaten no Miracle Grow! mmkay." I had the same experience with winter clothes when I moved to North Carolina. You certainly still need a jacket in winter, but I have this one gigantic winter coat for the few times I need to travel up North during the months of December through March...but I rarely use it. For that matter I have a ton of cloths that I just don't wear and frankly don't fit me. I remember my parents telling me to hold onto them because I'll "grow into them" which in my mind basically means I'll get fat when I get older...a reality I just have to accept. This winter holiday, I will definitely be decluttering. I'm taking a whole week off work to catchup on things and declutter. Great video Sophie! Like-357
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
hahaha you just made my day this comment! An orchid came to my mind when you described your version of a high maintenance plant. I have never been able to keep one alive for more than 2 weeks! I imagine if an orchid could talk, they would be sassy too :D I have so much clothes that also don't fit me as well. It's makes no sense, but somehow I've justified it in my mind. I will be doing the same this holiday season. Taking baby steps, but we'll get there. Happy Friday Alex
@creativecorner4715
3 жыл бұрын
Clothes~300 pair n shoes~50 pair n even than nothing to wear... gifting a lot.. eating out daily ...I regret these things n Starbucks coffee though I enjoy coffee ..but this can be change in long run
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I regret having so many shoes. I only wear 3 of my favorite ones. thanks so much for watching :)
@LuuGolinski
3 жыл бұрын
I also haven't paid enough attention in the past when buying clothes and shoes. This year I decluttered (and mostly sold) quite a lot. I am going to try to keep in mind how much time and effort decluttering takes when considering spending my valuable money on an item. Also, considering if there is space for any item in my home is a good criteria, I agree! And yes, it's so sad if a plant dies :( I also try to carefullly choose plants for my home; and I like if I can get a plant by propagating, be it from a plant I already own or from someone else :)
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of propagating plants from others or from your existing plants :) it's quite easy and so incredible to watch it grow. I think it's so important to consider how much time and effort decluttering takes so that we can prevent more clutter. thanks so much for watching
@jeniefersarmiento4908
3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with #5..We have the same thought about this,,we dont need it if we spend money for the right/healthy and nutritious food..I love this video❤️❤️❤️
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you can relate 🥰
@thesecret8318
3 жыл бұрын
Hey loves your vedioes ... I am watching one after another ... I am from India and I realized want to adapt to minimalism ...but it's not easy to minimalist in my country as we celebrate so many festivals and family functions .... But still I have strong desire to live life as minimalist because I really want to simply my life and save more and more money for my future
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching my videos. I hope that you can find your own version of minimalism and incorporate it into your lifestyle 😊 the benefits have been truly life changing for me.
@azizah6177
3 жыл бұрын
Recently, I regret buying some vintage and nordic style posters for decoration. Turnout, I dont even like to see much thing hanging in my room.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I have been going through these realizations myself. Maybe it could be a Christmas gift idea for friend who will enjoy them? 😊
@azizah6177
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife whoaa nice idea. Thank you 🥰
@Jennifer-1724
3 жыл бұрын
I regret buying so many essential oils. I wish I would have bought a couple of really nice oils instead of 100 ok ones. I am working on giving them away to people that appreciate them and will use them. Less is more! BTW I am so grateful I found your channel I lost my son almost two years ago. Listing to you and other people like minded means more to me mentally than you will ever know my dear.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I cannot even imagine. But also happy that my videos are providing comfort in some way ❤ I also bought so many essential oils and only use 2 or 3 haha. Lesson learned! Thank you for supporting my channel
@ruanag8184
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Sophie 🤍 can you do a "what I buy more of as a minimalist" please 🙏
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this idea 😊 of course I'd love to and thank you for giving me the idea
@jessie9653
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife that would be a good one 👍
@NataliaCarmen
3 жыл бұрын
Love this beautiful video Sophie 💖 . I can totally relate to this, one thing that i use to spend a lot of money on was skin care. Due to my acne i was always trying to find the best cream out there. I have found that using less is better for my skin and sticking to the same routine has been helpful as well as self love + being kind to myself when i have a break out xo
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I've had acne all throughout my teenage years, and I know what you mean! I thought that there was a product that would solve all of my problems and wasted so much money on it. Thank you for sharing Natalia 🥰
@drc4168
Жыл бұрын
What saved me was Kristen Ma's amazing book on healing acne and skin through ayurveda. You might still be able to get a copy from your library, or - for a few small dollars - via a used bookstore!
@AndyJamerson
3 жыл бұрын
I highly agree on the kitchen tools. So tempting to get all of them on one IKEA run, but it most of the time turns out being sooo annoying to use. We recently got rid of a lot of cutlery and plates/dishes. Now we own almost all of one sort and it forces us to actually make sure we always clean the dishes ASAP.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! it is so simple and efficient to just have what we need then wash it to use it again :) so smart of you guys. I bet it saves so much time and space
@megaviles9901
Жыл бұрын
I regretted buying a lot of shoes and garments which is just stored in my closet. Now I'm trying to learn to declutter through your videos. Thank you!
@JustMeg29
2 жыл бұрын
I found out about your channel 2 days ago. I absolutely love your channel and your content and what you stand for. I was always a minimalist but never knew there was a name for it. It has taken me around 6 or 7 years to finally get rid of the clutter in my bedroom. It took me another year and a half to redecorate it just the way I always imagined it in my head. I am slowly but surely also changing my wardrobe too. This was a good video. I have never liked perfumes or body spray. I wear essential oils too as does my boyfriend. He actually buys me my oils. I have 2 or 3 that I wear all the time.
@sieunpark3436
2 жыл бұрын
"Minimalism is asking why before you buy." - For example, I am buying a set of pen because I am happy to use it daily:) "The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less." - The good circulation is giving up something instead of being afraid of.
@shimreichona.shimray5307
3 жыл бұрын
I have been clearing my unnecessary purchases since last year but like you said it’s a never ending process 💕 HEELS of course is one of my worst spending 🥰🥰
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why I ever bought heels! neve liked them anyways 🥰 thank you for watching!
@georgelyden
3 жыл бұрын
In the past I would easily spend about $600 a month on drinking and smoking cigarettes! Not any more. I quit both years ago! Saved all that money and I'm much healthier! Mahalo for this wonderful video,you are always so honest:-)
@soyoonkim3372
3 жыл бұрын
It really works differently about kindle! I am a huge fan of it as I don’t need to buy paper books and also it helps me to improve my English too as an ESL. Anyway, i am so lucky to find your channel and learn things from you🤗🤗
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I love the idea and I think it's great for most people 😁👍
@daniellenicole8466
3 жыл бұрын
Yes $400 worth of a photography shoot that I wasn't completely in love with. I liked them but it was not worth the money. Also learning to use what we have to stop food waste.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes! that is something I regret too. We did an engagement photoshoot and it definitely wasn't necessary. Thanks for watching :)
@sandsduenas9353
3 жыл бұрын
I resonate so much with the PLANTS. 4 of my puppies died early last year and I compensated with buying so many plants that ended up dying.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Oh I am so sorry 😞 that must've been so difficult! Yes plants need lots of care and love too right?
@p.r.9982
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t even wear high heels anymore. I regret buying a kindle too. I want to finish the books I bought on it, and I decided to keep it to read the samples of the books I’m considering purchasing. If it still annoys me by the end of the year, I’ll give it to someone. Nice channel Sophie.
@goddessglow6996
3 жыл бұрын
Great video. I couldn’t stop myself of buying so many perfumes these last years, I will at least stop buying new ones until I finish my whole collection. Can you do a video on your DIY perfumes with essential oils?
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
That would be great 🥰 thanks for the suggestion!
@catharinab8860
2 жыл бұрын
One thing I’m happy for today is that I know what kind of clothes fit my body type. I’ve made some mistakes there in the past. today I have some wardrobe rules like no worn out or shabby items get to stay, everything must fit me (I have one bin of seasonal and/or to small items that I deem impossible to replace) and when I add something new it have to be quality items in natural materials. I never like a clothing item of artificial material after the first wash… 👚
@ih2439
3 жыл бұрын
Recently discovered your channel and love your content and delivery. Your videos have a soothing and cinematic quality! Great points and lessons across the board. One additional consideration that I try to give to kitchen items is whether I already own something that meets the want or need that I think I’m resolving by buying the new thing. In your cheeseboard/platter scenario, I’d think to any existing large plates/cutting boards/trays that could serve an equal purpose. I’ve also gotten rid of most of my one-trick ponies in the kitchen and it’s just so much easier that way.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I love that! Always think in terms of multipurpose. It is so true. I could have easily served a platter on a tray I already had. Thanks for sharing and for watching my videos 😊💕
@michaeldemetriou3043
3 жыл бұрын
I love growing plants from seeds. Watching seeds develop and joy in planting out into the Garden. Thanks Sophie ❤👍
@Tamily001
3 жыл бұрын
Kindle, hands down... I looove paper-backs.... Really mostly gadgets (electronics in general, personal, kitchen, bath, etc...), clothes that don't flatter (wrong shape or color, or clothes that needed "adjusting"!!!, same for shoes), kids' toys (even though I have kept all o my kids' LEGO kits), Seasonal stuff: mugs, knick-knacks, throws, pillows...
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with your list! I feel like I only have a handful of gadgets that I use on a regular basis. Clothes and shoes that are not comfortable or flatter my body are getting donated or sold this year :) Thanks Tamilla!
@scaredofmice8658
3 жыл бұрын
I have many regrets on purchase. It’s taken you KZitemrs to change me 👍👍
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! :)
@laurensmith6065
2 жыл бұрын
So glad you mentioned gifts I can relate! I could’ve saved so much money giving thoughtful, well picked gifts that are less expensive instead of buying $50 dollar gift card for every random event at the last minute.
@ifdanieldid
3 жыл бұрын
Damn! I ran out of popcorn 🍿 But I’ll watch regardless... Edit: I regret one purchase, and it’s my car. I bought it not because it was financially wise, but just because after years of struggle, I wanted to make a statement and ‘reward’ myself. Although I can afford it, I’ve come to find it totally unnecessary.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Haha I appreciate it even more then 😁
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I admire you so much for the lifestyle that you lead. Pretty awesome that you find having a car unnecessary! 😊 I want to live in a place where I can just bike everywhere
@markblado4282
3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting list Sophie! I can relate to the plants, kindle, and cheese board. We too bought all kinds of interesting plants that didn’t survive long. Was it us... or the plant? Maybe both! We have a small granite cheese board / wire cutter but we really prefer the smaller plastic boards with the cheese knife. We came close to purchasing a kindle because co workers had them. We realized we preferred paperbacks, magazines, and newspapers, especially if we lose them! We have bought our share of cheap kitchen utensils too. We bought some Pampered Chef( expensive) and they turned out to be good value. One of things we regret is the treadmill. It turned out to be a $300 dust collector that we seldom use since we prefer walking outside.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks when I think of all the plants that I have killed in the past. Orchids are so beautiful, but I have not been able to take care of them! Maybe in the future :) funny how you said cheeseboard too. I love a good charcuterie platter and thought I needed to buy, but it wasn't necessary. Thanks Mark Happy Friday to you
@markblado4282
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife Us too! Don’t think about the plants too much, we’ve all done that. Sometimes I think I’m better off with cactus 🌵😬🙄😅😂 Thanks for your honesty Sophie! It’s much appreciated! 🙏 You are a rare person. Have a great weekend too!! 😊😊
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
@@markblado4282 hahaha yes!! succulents are my best friends :) thanks so much Mark
@serirayna2789
3 жыл бұрын
I have too many regrets , one of which are fridge magnets, plates , frames of cities names nailed to my walls, not realising these are not easy to clean and make it very cluttered when you just want to see a plain wall. Thanks for sharing about ur kindle purchase....I had begun thinking of it but now I think it’s unnecessary. Books can be borrowed unless I really want it for work or study. Plants ! and cake sliced which I hv not used at all....the plants are dead ....just don’t buy anymore now....Freeing up the spaces in my flat feels amazing.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing :) i love that you said books can be borrowed. It is so true! we have libraries, book sharing services, free audiobooks that we can take advantage of. You are so right about freeing up the space in our homes. it is the best feeling
@srijarangarajan7628
3 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 I'm new subscriber... I'm 22 slowly starting my minimalist journey but decluttering u r videos so good .... thanks 😊
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for supporting my channel :) Appreciate it so much
@Gillan1792
2 жыл бұрын
For glass containers I just wash and reuse jars. Little tip for everyone. I so agree with perfume, just basic higyene is enough, I haven't bought it in a while. Also instead of shower gel I use just soap, it even makes my skin less dry and it lasts longer. Also heels as you get older as just less and less practical and just nice shoes are quite enough. For kitchen ustensiles unfortunately sometimes we have to buy cheap because we don't have enough money at the moment. What might help my parents and grandparents have a lot so I just take the things they don't need. What I also do if I really want something I wait a while to see if I would really use it and if this is something that I really must have. It can help with buyers remorse and more thoughful purchases. Good luck everyone!
@liquidusblue
3 жыл бұрын
Buy cheap, you buy twice - Last couple of years definitely bought fewer but higher cost quality items.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Wise words ❤🥰 it has been true for me
@lovelyn3822
3 жыл бұрын
Skin care and clothing from online! There was loads of regrets because I am a student and money is really hard for me to get.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I also remember in my college days when I would eat junk food, but save up to buy really nice skincare! I hope you are able to save a bit more money now :) Thanks for watching
@gracelaine
3 жыл бұрын
ahh this is awesome! i'm always trying to live more minimalistic & this is so fun to watch! i'm putting out a video about it on my channel next week too!!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! love connecting with other creators who also talk about minimalism
@yufitryyuyu4665
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the winter clothes ! I’ll move to new apartement and was thinking to buy some plants but Now I changed my mind 😂😂. Thank youuuu so much for this inspiring video ❤️❤️
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe only the easy to care plants :) they do make the house look so nice.
@daenerys1480
3 жыл бұрын
I am a plant collector but I also have my list of them that I regret buying. Not because they’re not worth it, but because I did not research for plant care before purchasing them so I needed up wasting my money over a rotten plant. 😢
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I am the same! I have bought so many orchids and flowers, but I didn't know how to take care of them. But lesson learned right? :)
@gc9069
3 жыл бұрын
I bought several plants and they all dried up . I have also bought a lot of electronic gadgets and some have never been opened. Since I started decluttering, I have found new homes for the gadgets and my home is looking spacious. Other bad purchases are containers both glass and plastic, perfumes and hair products that I hardly use.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
It's such an amazing feeling to see the home become spacious again. It's a lot of work to declutter, sell and donate, but so worth it. I'm sure you made some money too 😁
@gc9069
3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to celebrate but I remembered I might end up buying something that I don't need 🤣🤣 so I kept the money in the bank . Your videos have helped me alot and am grateful 🙏.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Haha wise decision 😁 and thank you so much! That means so much to me
@TheKrazyKoala
3 жыл бұрын
Gosh. Don't want to mention the heels. As i'm getting older, i only wear flip flops hahaha. You know, especially in Singapore, thats what we wear. Now back in the Bay Area, I'm also flip flops everyday carrying the same habit. I don't have the cheeseboard at home, so i can't really comment on some of the items you have here. But i also hate owning winter clothes :) SG is same weather:) Thanks for sharing. It seems you released your video 1 day earlier than your scheduled? I believe it's Friday?? The reason why i am not doing 2 videos a week on my channel is that i'm afraid i cannot keep up with exactly the same date and timing every release. But i see you update on different dates every week. that gives me comfort to do 2 videos a week with less rigid schedules.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I only wear flip-flops too! It's not fashionable, but so comfy and convenient 😁 I used to upload Tuesday and Friday, but now I switched to twice a week. I was stressing out too much about the upload schedule and it showed in my video quality. Maybe I will go back to a strict schedule in the future :) but yes, you should post twice if you have content or just once if you are busy. I'm sure it'll be a nice surprise for your subscribers
@TheKrazyKoala
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife oh I think it was very stressful too. But if you upload at different timing every week, do u feel the performance is negatively impacted by algorithm? Or u think it still helps to push further?
@mojyoqueen350
2 жыл бұрын
High heels are the worst! I used to have two pairs, but whenever i wore them on any occasion, it was too painful. I get rid of them.
@MalamaLife
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I feel amazing in them for 5 minutes, but definitely not practical
@lovelymelody1138
3 жыл бұрын
Wow your voice is really soothing it would be best for an ASMR!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊❤ glad you think so
@DeandraStubbs
3 жыл бұрын
I had a nook for a number of years and realize I didn't pick it up as much a I thought I would; I've always love the feeling of turning a page in a book. (Simple Joy) Also supplements honestly I'm not a fan of them I rather drink bush/herbal medication and always gravitate towards the moringa tree. 😊🌱
@ifdanieldid
3 жыл бұрын
Moringa has so many health benefits! My dad planted a moringa tree years ago in our backyard, and I hear it still thrives. We sprinkled the leaves in just about anything 😄
@DeandraStubbs
3 жыл бұрын
@@ifdanieldid I dried the leaves and sprinkled it in some homemade flat bread and bam.....call me Chef Deandra 😅😅 ok maybe not, but it was so good.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I love turning the page too 🥰 it is calming and makes me feel so accomplished. Thank you for watching Deandra
@lapostropheATLA
3 жыл бұрын
I regret buying cheap kitchen appliances. There is a big a difference in durability and overall quality between the cheap one and the more expensive one. I bought a cheap mixers two times, the motor eventually worn out. I finally bought a more expensive mixer, and I’m happy with the quality and the durability.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! completely agree. I always wonder how it can be that cheap or affordable, but then surely after couple of months, it ends up not working. I think you were wise to invest in something durable especially because it has a motor :)
@jessie9653
3 жыл бұрын
I invested in some pampered chef pans a couple of years ago and have been sooo soooo happy with my purchase. Money well spent. I used to think people who spent that kind of money on pots and pans were just crazy 🤣. Now I'm crazy and love them LOL 😆
@juliebutler8241
3 жыл бұрын
The wrong man can be expensive. I regret a couple...
@maemae4570
3 жыл бұрын
Lol true
@UpasanaDevchoudhury
3 жыл бұрын
I relate so much to this video :) As someone who is leaning towards minimalism and in the process of decluttering my home to start 2021 with a fresh new energy I found so many kitchen utilities that I bought impulsively thinking about making some fancy food which I never ended up making.I think that is a lesson I learnt to ask if it is necessary before buying and to create a space between our impulse and action.Thank you for sharing your experience here :)
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I love that you said "create space." Just taking a moment or two to pause and think rationally about my decisions really help. Thanks for watching :)
@trinitylace1101
3 жыл бұрын
You are so inspiring thank you so much for this video malama💕
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching 🥰
@Starslikediamonds
3 жыл бұрын
That's the prettiest version of jingle bells I've ever heard.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
So pretty :) it is on Epidemic sound
@lavenderpurp6610
2 жыл бұрын
Your an inspiration, cn u tell n show us ur purchses n life before the minimalist
@BonBonHassan
3 жыл бұрын
Wow I’m shocked you said kindle because I’ve been thinking of getting one to start reading again. I also love paperbacks but I was thinking I needed to cut down
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I really wanted to like the kindle, but it just didn't work for me. I listen to my audio books 24/7 and also love turning the pages of a real book 😊 but for you, you might love it because of its simplicity ❤
@maylife209
3 жыл бұрын
I regret to purchase my air fryer. It looked fancy and trendy appliance but it has the same result as my mini oven has. Your turquoise color earring looks so good on you. :)
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I really wanted to get an air fryer as well! It was really trendy for a while and i saw ads for it everywhere, but luckily I had no space for it in my kitchen 😊 thank you so much May. I actually got these earrings in Korea! From an art district in Seoul 😁
@kaleighsue8463
3 жыл бұрын
YASS! The glass container trend is so unnecessary!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
For me it definitely was! 🥰 thanks for watching
@erikaroldan4889
3 жыл бұрын
i reflected on all my purchases and expenses from last year and told myself that this year before i buy something i want to ask if it reflects my bad spending habits from last year or my good spending habits
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Such a good reminder! I love it 🥰
@seankirchner2378
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Sophie. I have 2 big regrets wasting money: 1st, is not starting saving sooner. When I was more materialistic, on payday I spent money first, and if anything was left, then I saved. Now I ALWAYS save first. I have a savings account attached to my checking account just for this purpose. 2nd was cashing out money from my retirement to buy my house with a 30 year mortgage. There was a huge tax penalty that hit the following April (at tax time). This was a terrible way to buy a home, costing over 2 times the purchase price of the house over time. I found out what an amoritization schedule actually is. I wasted thousands of dollars. Now I make principal payments, to pay it off earlier.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I was always paying all my bills and my expenses before I paid myself first. My thoughts were backwards and made me not motivated to work since I was essentially living paycheck to paycheck. Also, I am sorry to hear about the tax penalty. I can only imagine how surprised you were when April came around the corner. That's so awesome you make extra principal payments to pay off earlier. It just makes so much sense especially in the early years. Thanks for watching Sean.
@seankirchner2378
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife You're welcome. I appreciate you. I'm trying to teach my kids from these lessons that I've learned. They really should teach this in school.
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
@@seankirchner2378 I completely agree Sean! so amazing that you are teaching your kids these important values.
@thinkwithira5632
3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to see this! Thanks a ton for sharing your experience...love from India
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching ❤ glad it was helpful 😊
@JoseDelacruz-wo7ne
3 жыл бұрын
I really feel for the cheese platter so sad it had to go ! It reminds me of get togethers I've had at my friends home. His wife is French so it make sense for them. But I'd never use it either .
@dilnozanutfullayeva6275
Жыл бұрын
I regret buying lots of underwear ,footwear ,socks and books which I didn't read at all and still keeping them .I have very little space at my home because of the things I keep thinking one day I will need them...
@Ashamylove629
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sophie for the sermons🙏
@ajmaverick3620
2 жыл бұрын
I am in agreement with almost all points you have shared in this and your other videos . What I would love To know is what background/ experiences helped you be who you are ? How did get such clarity on very subtle points that most others don’t even notice ? How did you form this very Objective world view ? Books , experiences , observations ?
@martindurkin8837
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sophie, I had to chuckle over your cheese board I think nearly everyone I know is "guilty" on that one.
@layjustin1113
2 жыл бұрын
10 things , agree , ok !
@marciapestana3260
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutly love love love your videos. Big hug from Portugal :)
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Kisses from Maui :) thank you for watching my videos
@NinaMendia
10 ай бұрын
I regret buying the popular Hoka shoes. I found them to be too chunky and not an item that fit in my wardrobe or felt comfortable wearing 😞
@MalamaLife
10 ай бұрын
Oh I contemplated on buying hoka too!
@NinaMendia
10 ай бұрын
I really appreciate you commenting on our comments. It means a lot!
@lasanthavidyarathna7143
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your unique ideas🥰❤️
@tlais4883
6 ай бұрын
Nail polish & etc. fashion jewelry
@jhunabon
3 жыл бұрын
Me and my Wife really love your video. 💖
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching :) I really appreciate it!
@jhunabon
3 жыл бұрын
@@MalamaLife 💖💖
@sadieserrano8886
3 жыл бұрын
Regret buying a high end diaper bag it’s so heavy and uncomfortable that I don’t even use it’s seats in my closet .,and snuggle pillow for my baby that he hates .,
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
I can imagine being so excited for the baby and buying all the cute accessories! I would be guilty of that too haha
@alfs3
3 жыл бұрын
buy the best quality you can afford once vs buying cheap junk over and over again that end up costing more!
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Yes so true!
@tomlambert915
Жыл бұрын
I would buy all of her girl scout cookies in a heartbeat.
@yoshitarao8388
3 жыл бұрын
to 5 out of the 10 items u listed,i went "yeah me too.. :D
@MalamaLife
3 жыл бұрын
Haha glad you could relate. I could keep going with the list 😆 there are so many more
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