Hi Emery, I've been watching your videos for about 2 years now but I've just subscribed to your channel. I'm a person who has spent the last 4 years trying to figure out whether I'm trans or not, and really struggling with it, I just wanted to let you know that I've always found inspiration and strength and good vibes in your videos and you've inspired me to start a yoga and meditation routine. I just want to say thank you. Thank you very much.
@k62011
8 жыл бұрын
I was still getting misgendered on the phone when I was ~4 years on T. (Granted, the misgendering happened rarely, but it was still irritating.) After my hysterectomy/oophorectomy, my voice seemed to drop again, and I haven't been misgendered on the phone in years. In person and on the phone, people always call me "sir." Anyway, I don't think your voice sounds bad. It's not the deepest voice I've ever heard, but if you're happy with the way you sound, there's no reason to change it. Plus, you're obviously being perceived as male in person, and I think that's a lot more important than what you sound like on the phone when you're talking to a stranger.
@paran315
8 жыл бұрын
Hey, I think it's the 'accent' rather than the depth of your voice that makes someone misgender you. There are plenty women with deep voice and men with high voice, but people usually subconsciously guess the gender from the accent or tone or whatever. That's why many boy characters in cartoons are voiced by adult female voice actresses but people usually can't tell at first glance.
@lukem284
8 жыл бұрын
Let me just pause the middle of your video to shout OH MY GOD I'M INCREASING ZOLOFT TOO (generic zoloft, samalamadumalaprazine or whatever) I was going to write out this long email to you, but whatever, let me do it here. I'm trying to do homework, staying up late, being all anxious and shit. Having a teheeeeeerrible week oh my god. So much work, so little willpower. Finally chewed out my roommate/exfriend? and now stuff is blowing up and I have to have this long talk with him before I go to sleep, but I have to email this short story out to my entire class first, and I want to go for a walk before bed. And I have a 9:50 class I have to ride a bus to in the morning. Anyway. I haven't watched you in months. A year? A long time. I'm a year and a half on T. Love it. Since I've climbed out of the anxiety hole and come to college, stuff has been kind of better for me and I've not been spending so much time on the interwebs, but here I am with my computer all nostalgic and looking you up. I just watched that totally depressed "response to anon" video that you did a lil while ago, and I've been fantasizing about happening across you irl (on the East Coast, so v. likely), telling you how great you are, how no it's NOT your fault that you're sad and how I think it sucks that someone is making you feel like you need to defend that, and giving you a hug. Passing is weird. Dysphoria is weird. You are gorgeous, btw, though of course it doesn't matter what I or anyone thinks. I was just talking to my friend about my voice, who asked when it changed, and to whom I played my voice memos, since I don't even remember. Turns out it was two months, incontrovertible at three. Everybody queer person I've met this year has commented on how deep my voice is. I'm never misgendered. Then you got to the part where you're like "but it also doesn't sound bad?" and I'm like YES! I love your voice! And your jawline is ridic. I'm sitting here thinking how lucky you are to have that. The sides of my jaw are almost concave. Then I started thinking about height. My DMAB until-recently-identified-as-gay-male friend was talking about wanting to be taller earlier tonight, and I was thinking, meh, I don't care. I wouldn't trade my voice for ten inches (I'm 5'1"). You don't need to have everything. I was thinking you were tall, then I realized I have no idea how tall you are. You just have a tall face. Maybe it's your killer jaw. Whatever. I'm sorry I just procrastijournaled into your comments section, and God bless you if you've read this far. Love you. You're a strong, independent human, and you don't need no anon to approve of your emotional tone. You do you. Also, I want to move to the west coast and live in the forest. God.
@forestfolk1122
7 жыл бұрын
Hey! Ramiel Nagel's book "Cure Tooth Decay" has been a really amazing wealth of information to me with regard to oral issues. Also, using passionflower tincture, St. John's wort tincture, and skullcap tincture have been super effective anti-depressants/anti-anxiety herbal substitutions for Wellbutrin and pharmaceutical drugs for me. ✌🏼️❤️
@tobyr3
8 жыл бұрын
I hope you manage to get that tooth taken care of. Sorry to hear about all that misgendering. As a non-trans guy I often find I'm misgendered on the phone. Interesting editing and collection of topics.
@sabrinamae1080
8 жыл бұрын
So In Love 😭💘
@myrkflinn4331
3 жыл бұрын
I kinda have people avoid pronouns as I'm a year in. Beforez had them misgender me up to 8 months almost indefinitely. Now it's more of a confusing thing for them but when I say sir, they do go along with it more easily. I'm curious as I'm about a year and a half in.
@melliecresta5348
8 жыл бұрын
You are so handsome. just had to say that. And your personality is awesome too.
@Janesays85
5 жыл бұрын
Mellie Cresta yes, very
@DerpyTheElf
8 жыл бұрын
Dude, I think your voice sounds fine don't sound female to me either. Keep on being rad :D
@cluelessclauless9964
8 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know where he lives? It seems so beautiful and peaceful. (am I the only one who barely hears something?)
@ao6bl
8 жыл бұрын
Hi-ya love your videos. You are brave guy. Have you experienced hair loss from Testosterone?
@kristinasiegfried736
8 жыл бұрын
I love you your so amazing and such a beautiful soul...
@xoLaraLee
7 жыл бұрын
😍
@NightStormGoddess
8 жыл бұрын
You don't sound like a female to me.....
@kittibby4611
8 жыл бұрын
because T makes your voice deeper
@myrkflinn4331
3 жыл бұрын
There is deeper and the tone itself. Sometimes, a voice can be deep, but soft. Both males and females have these two aspects of their voice. Soft or rough, bass or high pitched, etc. On the phone, without appearance, people take a guess. I have had heard about voice distortions on the phone too which causes sound to be different. But in this video, I agree. He sounds fine. Just more gentle.
@Prettyboysmallz
8 жыл бұрын
may 2nd is my birthday!
@PappuDas-fq1ll
5 ай бұрын
What a funny video 😂
@adrianl577
7 жыл бұрын
You sound like my 10th grade geometry teacher and kinda look like him too 0.0 it's weird.
@rocknroll6332
8 жыл бұрын
Do you live near the ocean?
@emQism
8 жыл бұрын
+Ramya Hegde yes but i feel like this is a set up.... lol
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