This should be a larger channel (I’m first comment)
@josh.campbell
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for being part of the humble beginnings, but most importantly - hope this served you!
@eowynsalvador
3 ай бұрын
Oh no! There’s no sources cited in the description! Did you forget to put them? Help me out here
@josh.campbell
3 ай бұрын
- www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/#:~:text=Lack%20of%20commitment%20is%20the,Infidelity%2055%25 Singles and divorcees experienced poorer mental well-being, especially in men. www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352827321000495 www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5696487/ CDC, Of boys and Men. As you wish...
@FlorianHWave
3 ай бұрын
I’m depressed because this is happening to me. I’m almost 30 and all of my friends are married and have children and no one has time to hang out anymore and I’m drowning in loneliness. I’ve never had a relationship or any kind of intimacy and often even get rejected because of that, so I can’t get any experience. I’ve been trying to get a girlfriend for so long that I feel like I’m burnt out from searching. My lack of experience prevents me from ever getting close to a girl, it’s gotten to point where I feel like the only way out of this is a prostitute…although that scares me too and I know it’s not the same. I’m scared of dying alone.
@josh.campbell
3 ай бұрын
Hi bud, thanks for sharing vulnerably. A few questions for you; have you tried looking in the "right places" - apps/hobbies/meetups? Have you gotten comfortable with rejection and having the more vulnerable conversations? Have you built resilience to the fear to be the one making an introduction or getting a follow-up meet? All of this takes a lot of courage, it's tough. But begin with cultivating a feeling of choosing yourself first. From there organically, you'll be exponentially more attractive. Women want a man that believes in himself - for life will be a test they depend on him for it. Make sense? You're not alone!
@FlorianHWave
3 ай бұрын
@@josh.campbell I have used apps for a long time but I feel like I'm just burnt out from swiping through thousands of girls and always having to come up with something interesting to write and when she responds, trying to keep the conversation alive. It's exhausting. I'm not necessarily afraid of rejection per se, but of her reaction when she finds out that I have zero experience, both in relationships and any kind of intimacy. I've been rejected and even laughed at a few times because of it. I tried to lie about it a few times but that has put me under even more pressure and make me more nervous because then they have expectations I can't fulfill. This is why I can't get close to girls. My lack of experience and therefore fear of intimacy. So all of my dates are nothing more than a a normal meeting between two friends.
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