as a woman this video feels very accurate, I have friends who are big into hookup culture and movers and I very much recommend to away from them in dating. even if they say they’ve changed, unless it’s been years I would not mess with that because 9 times out of 10 they’re still going to be like that when anything goes the slightest bit wrong. dating right now is horrible to be honest if you don’t like hookup culture. shy girls are the most likely to be “untouched,” problem is you probably won’t meet these girls because they don’t put themselves out there, best bet is through mutual friends or something. pretty much everyone else is going to be very experienced unless they have more traditional values or something
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Really appreciate your thoughts. It’s definitely tough for the ‘lovers’ out there.
@ksm-7184
7 ай бұрын
Thank you brother, for your channel and videos. They make me feel less lonely and less afraid to reach out. Keep spreading the message man. You got the silent majority of us behind ya. Love from Asia.
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Love & appreciation brother. Thanks for this comment.
@Hexecutable
3 ай бұрын
Love your video style man. Youre pretty talented!
@Monoqor
3 ай бұрын
🤝🏾
@rishijusia3050
7 ай бұрын
I can't date multiple people at the same time and when I discovered that was normal for most women I didn't know what to do. It's weird checking if people are playing the whole field while I just focus on 1 and if it doesn't work out just move on. But feeling like an option in a market where you only treat others like the potential future partner they could be just doesn't work. I even had a girl let me "date" her while she was actively trying to hide her boyfriend she was trying to break up with but needed to monkey branch because she was sharing rent with him and couldn't support herself. I was young but those type of situations just put me off taking dating serious and putting in effort. I stopped dating, and moved on to just casual sex. Much simpler, intentions are clear and I don't care how many other dudes are on your roster as I don't put the strings of future partnership on the relationship. Morals, communication and clear intentions are incredibly rare to find and I can't understand why. Solid video man, keep it up.
@thestrengthreport7517
3 ай бұрын
Casual sex isn’t the solution tho. If anything it just contributes to the problem. That sinful sleeping around culture will just eventually suck your soul after awhile. That’s if you still have one, I lived that life before. It’s not fulfilling. At this point I’m just getting my passport to date overseas.
@jeffreymassey5541
3 ай бұрын
Very good and levelheaded analysis good brother. 💯💯✅✅👍🏾👍🏾
@Dgb1180
3 ай бұрын
Great video!
@Starclap92
7 ай бұрын
Dude, you are so smart. Wish i had this knowledge when I was in my teens. Thanks.
@Nam3lessd
7 ай бұрын
I'm shocked your videos don't have more views. I watched your "live on your own terms" video then this. Your content is raw and real, and presented simple yet drives the point home easily. Wish I had a friend like you in life that sees everything for what it is. You have another subscriber. Keep grinding bro, you're channel will be big🤙
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Definitely framing comments like this. Much appreciation 🤝🏾
@JamesbeenunlimitedOfficial
7 ай бұрын
Glad I tune into this video another banger to watch while I’m at work ☀️
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Salute bro ✊🏾
@JamesbeenunlimitedOfficial
7 ай бұрын
@@Monoqor I also do KZitem as well so it’s amazing seeing content like this
@DeathSensei
7 ай бұрын
Nah he spitting straight facts. I've been recently single for the past 5 months as a relatively attractive man and idk dawg that shit be shallow as hell.
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Real talk 💯
@erosillustrates
7 ай бұрын
really interesting as a young teenager consuming this. thx for the value! i resonate with ur perspective.
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Always good to get a full picture 💯
@theinfamousop2691
7 ай бұрын
Ima keep it a buck man enjoy that teenage love while u can like fully the f out of it
@moto3463
7 ай бұрын
I’m 24 plan to live life alone. I have been burned too much to care anymore. I am enough no partner can make my life better it’s an illusion.
@Harvesterain
7 ай бұрын
Hookup culture is a plague on our society and I think it'll have strong reverberations throughout the next few generations, creating a deterioration of the relationships between men and women. I was married for seven years, and my ex-husband left me for a woman who calls herself a "she-wolf" and a "brave bitch", a woman with piercings and tattoos, a woman who looks like me but was pagan and not Christian. I gave the idea of marriage up after that, as I realized just how quickly one can lose everything due to the other partner's whims and fancies. I now have a "life partner" who acts like a husband but who is financially separate from me, who lives with me and acts as a husband but also does not want to ever get married. We can be committed without the certificate and legal baggage. We have promised not to financially devastate one another should we part. He is non-religious and I now practice Buddhism. I feel deeply sad for those real, genuine people who are having to date or find a life partner in the environment that exists now.
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Your last sentence is something I say all the time. It’s a very tough environment for those types of people- both men & women.
@Dgb1180
3 ай бұрын
I make six figures and called handsome but every time I try to settle seems like I’m walking on egg shells because one thing wrong and the relationship explodes…it’s the current culture.
@MMiladinovic47
7 ай бұрын
Been binging your channel in the past hour, you are putting out really great content out there! Keep up the good work, mate! 💪
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Appreciate you brother 🤝🏾
@hearanecho
2 ай бұрын
I been abstinent and single for 3 years. I crave intimacy, but i dont have any desire for temporary or purposeless connectjons. My peace is fulfilled being alone, I dont desire kids or a family. I have a good career and like to travel and just be alone... i feel SAFE and STABLE alone... Maybe one day, but being alone actually runs in my family sooo...like...idm
@youtubegarbage4u
3 ай бұрын
finally no teleprompter this time lol...keep 'em coming bruv
@Monoqor
3 ай бұрын
No doubt.
@j4ASM
21 күн бұрын
I think my guy is from my hometown Milwaukee. 414 in the building!!!
@BLVZEE
7 ай бұрын
such a good video man how u edit these,prempro?
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Appreciate it man. I use Final Cut Pro.
@oldblossomdies
7 ай бұрын
I'm out here wanting a partner to build a life with. I fear this person may never come. I tried a long term relationship and put up with a lot of bs for the sake of it... from then on I'm very picky
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Just gotta keep your head up man.
@DavidDavisDH
3 ай бұрын
Save the headache, just be single. I'm sure their is great women somewhere, but its rare.
@Monoqor
3 ай бұрын
No lie.
@clarinetsaxist
7 ай бұрын
Hardcore with Monoqor...Hardqor That one is free, lol.
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
No doubt lol.
@johnd8538
7 ай бұрын
And thoughts written down are powerful... thoughts manifested. Think of government bills and how they talk of having "manifesto's"......in the uk anyway. If you want to manifest something, think of it, write it down and focus on it.
@lifeofkali9999
7 ай бұрын
On the 7/11 strategy- that’s facts. It’s wayyyy more common than some people think. I’m curious- do you think having an “open relationship” is a viable alternative? Cuz I see a lotta people end up getting trapped there too
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Super common, man. Also, I’d never do open relationships. As a man, you’re already at a disadvantage because a woman is more likely to beat you at the numbers game. I’ll do a video on this eventually.
@lifeofkali9999
7 ай бұрын
@@Monoqor for sure! All these celebrities in open relationships don’t seem to be benefiting by them. Especially the fellas
@mantyxxx
7 ай бұрын
Open relationship esentially means being a cuck. Just think about it. Open relationship on mens end would be what you want, but good luck on that if you arent top 5% of man.
@dark_nightwing_xl2797
7 ай бұрын
Im 23 and a virgin and never datée before thé Disney propaganda man🤣🤦♂️ i hâte Disney now
@Monoqor
7 ай бұрын
Disney tricked alot of people lol.
@doodskop89rs
7 ай бұрын
The culture part is from an american perspective, but all in all great video nice truths
@slocrowth
7 ай бұрын
Looks only matter in case of “love at first sight”. You don’t have to have looks to attract girls, but sure it helps and makes things easier. Same for girls. At least for me I have had big crushes to people that I haven’t even seen. So I don’t relate with everything in this video.
@djhwty8725
7 ай бұрын
I would definitely disagree. I would not advise any man to commit to a woman who does not find him physically attractive. Looks matter for long term relationships and short term situationships.
@slocrowth
7 ай бұрын
@@djhwty8725 Ok. You do you. I rarely get physical attracted to others so I don’t expect others to do the same. Of course they need to have decently healthy lifestyle and that will show in their outer appearance, but everything else is whatever. I want the gift inside not the wrap.
@ab76254
7 ай бұрын
I don't think generalizing women into broad categories like this is accurate or healthy. All people are different and it's better to see people as individuals rather than a member of a demographic and then project our expectations of that demographic on each of it's members.
@Nairrrrrrr
7 ай бұрын
If you don't like it,then just shut up and don't comment.
@johnd8538
7 ай бұрын
The word "relationship" is four syllables, too complicated before you even start for me 😂 fuck as many women as you can when you're young fellas...I did, like a couple of hundred...you'll meet the one you have a kid with, as long as you love that child and provide for him/her as much as you can....spend precious time with....whether the woman the child's born to has moved on, had more kids to a different Dad or whatever, the offspring YOU created should be nurtured, loved, taught and encouraged by you.
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