Being a mom should make you more valuable...........to your husband, who is the only man you should be having children with.
@dacoldest3896
22 күн бұрын
FACTS
@VibinWithRunnTheSnowman
22 күн бұрын
Just lie to her that she's more valuable for being a mother then pump and dump. Let delusional people stay delusional and keep breeding delusional communities
@JSouth23
22 күн бұрын
Leave the chat now with all that logic! 😂
@edwardmr5852
22 күн бұрын
Boom, thanks for the clarification 🙌🏾
@beaniemac
22 күн бұрын
💯
@carlcwms
22 күн бұрын
Her ability to respond to comments without getting disrespectful is a major plus.
@edwardmr5852
22 күн бұрын
Lmao
@H1GHD3FF
22 күн бұрын
She got caps in her raps
@willdickens7712
22 күн бұрын
That should cover for the 4 yr old child in diapers still+ her making over 6 figures still don't want to pay bills+ military woman (iykyk)
@ludasik06
22 күн бұрын
She was talking gibberish. Sounded nice though
@jayo3074
22 күн бұрын
That doesn't compensate for being a single mother
@drecool85
22 күн бұрын
She is VERY attractive. She didn’t take offense to people’s rude comments… which are REALLY tests of emotional intelligence. She’s fire 🔥.. they can’t find nun wrong with her so they did her best to rile her up anyway 😂… and she stood her ground! Plus she held herself accountable for her failed relationship. She will do well in her life.
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
They don't actually like when women take accountability.
@myronbourne6937
22 күн бұрын
Mid
@jrock7561
22 күн бұрын
Very attractive? You must be in a state where the women are horrible. She is barely a 5.
@loveyourfitnessevolution9166
22 күн бұрын
Exactly. The internet will try to make you feel you’re worthless after a certain age or if you’re a single mom. You go girl!!
@sheambitious29lachelle17
22 күн бұрын
exactly these people in the comments make it seem like that are without ANY FLAW. i’ve NEVER met a perfect person
@problactive285
22 күн бұрын
Your value as a mother is to your child not a man you wish to date.
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
The value a woman has is to literally EVERYONE... that's why you in the comments fighting so hard to disprove it lol
@brandonlongdikjones8117
22 күн бұрын
@@truettadevilThe Bible says that the woman came from a MAN'S rib, it's all in what you believe in, God..Man, wife, a woman is worse than death, the Bible says that, you think you are more valuable than men or God? More fragile, but you wouldn't exist without men,and men wouldn't exist without God , the world propaganda has it backwards.
@brandonlongdikjones8117
22 күн бұрын
@@truettadevil Women fight on the front lines and mostly do all the hard manual labor jobs that keep the world going HUH? lol, and they can have babies by themselves WITHOUT A MAN'S SPERM, huh ? 😏😭
@LOSTGPS
22 күн бұрын
@@truettadevilI hope that helps you sleep at night 🤣
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
@@LOSTGPS the laws of nature don't help me sleep at night... it's just what it is 🤷🏽♀️ I'm pretty sure you would be nothing & nowhere without your mother & grandmother 💅🏾 Meanwhile, what value did your father & grandfather serve?
@sanchoelmatador
22 күн бұрын
He wasn't a provider, didn't communicate, cheated, and had a child with him. 👍🏿
@Christelleee96
22 күн бұрын
Shut the hell up
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
He's the basic Blk man that Blk women have to choose from.
@ZeriocTheTank
22 күн бұрын
He had pretty hair & bow legs
@juniorleslie4804
22 күн бұрын
YES, what do you expect modern black women would do?, Make better decisions!. Lol
@char3365
22 күн бұрын
He didn’t even have to marry her but she thinks she’s gonna raise her price. 🤣
@honeynicolereign5804
22 күн бұрын
I like her. So firm and sound. She and her daughter deserves it all.
@AmberJailee
22 күн бұрын
so give it to her
@A-Thomas
22 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@johnjay3308
22 күн бұрын
Why?
@Fabrizio7171
22 күн бұрын
Well , nobody’s stopping ya.
@Hustle-N-Flow
21 күн бұрын
They don’t deserve anything! Stop the delulu entitlement
@robinrowe1846
22 күн бұрын
This is the best lady I have seen on this show. I hope no one hurt her.
@Mythoughtsin2024
22 күн бұрын
I’m saying!! The Kevin Samuel’s wannabes need to come up with new speaking points. She was beautiful, had a great body, no make up, natural hair, graceful… and they just were being bitter lol
@RockyMaiviaMiami
22 күн бұрын
How? There were a few 9/10’s in the past couple of weeks. Already had two men she chose to commit to her, left them and has a kid. Shes a cool 6
@myronbourne6937
22 күн бұрын
Sarcasm? She's the typical single mom looking for a sucker.
@RockyMaiviaMiami
22 күн бұрын
@@Mythoughtsin2024 ok but let’s say there’s a 27 year old, with no kids, never married, not asking to be provided for that has all the same qualities… does she have a case to say she is a better prospect to man.
@firstbloodwarrior3868
21 күн бұрын
@@myronbourne6937lol... cute. Which century are you from?
@TeeBabyXOXO
22 күн бұрын
I like her. She seems beautiful inside and out. I like how she responded to the comments. I wish the best for her❤️
@Hustle-N-Flow
21 күн бұрын
Since you like her, date her
@TinaB111
22 күн бұрын
That "biological clock" has gotten us women into alot of trouble - procreating with men who aren't husband material because we are scared.
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
No. Replace "biological clock" with "poor judgement".
@TinaB111
22 күн бұрын
@muchaluchagigante6318 the presumed biological clock causes poor judgement. Even though women can have children well into their early 40s, this narrative has been painted that once you hit 30, time is running out. It's a real panic, and I have seen it lead to poor judgement. So, I do understand where she was coming from...
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
@@TinaB111 this nonsense of procreation with non husband-material men is going to be the downfall of the community. Looking for a financial, spiritual, and emotional provider should always be the number one priority for women, why risk being a solo parent over fear of not having a child? The dating market has drastically changed. It's not so easy now to pick up another mate, that's why you need to be extra careful not to mess up something so extremely life changing not just for you but for the man and the life you bring into this world..
@LadyK007
22 күн бұрын
@@muchaluchagigante6318🎯💯 No 💍👰🏾, no 🐈🤰🏾👶🏾. It isn’t easy, but I believe this is the superior way.
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
@@LadyK007 Facts. Men aren't talking this talk because we're incels (maybe some are) but it's frustrating to see so many single mothers emerging, especially on this show. Leave the dusty broke men alone and get a man that can provide!! Date to marry and mate.
@LOSTGPS
22 күн бұрын
Imagine a man saying being a baby daddy makes me more valuable, I don't think a man has ever said that.
@keptbygrace6221
22 күн бұрын
Never!
@honeynicolereign5804
22 күн бұрын
A single father yes, for some! One child is not a dealbreaker especially with no baby momma and baby daddy drama as well as, well mannered kids etc….. While having an opinion is our right. We must only speak for ourselves, our standards and expectations of whom we choose to date. Pretty simple.
@keptbygrace6221
22 күн бұрын
@@honeynicolereign5804 You've actually heard a man say "being a single dad makes me more valuable"? Sincere question bc I haven't 🤷🏾♀️
@LOSTGPS
22 күн бұрын
@@honeynicolereign5804 stop it, being a baby daddy/mama ain’t valuable. Keep lying to yourself though.
@kevinlee9929
22 күн бұрын
If a man ever dared said that this comment section would be filled with women ripping him to shreds.
@halftimehomes
22 күн бұрын
Your value does not increase in the dating marketplace when you have children, period
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
The men in Blk women's dating market have little value as well 💅🏾
@Godsbackhand7
16 күн бұрын
I don’t know why this is so hard to understand.
@LadyK007
22 күн бұрын
Keah made good points. Seems like she has her life in order and she’s handling business. I wish her well!
@TruthSlays
21 күн бұрын
I would say you should marry her but I have a feeling you won't qualify, you broke dusty bum...
@Hustle-N-Flow
21 күн бұрын
If her life was in order, she wouldn’t be repeating what others have said and being a single mom makes it out of order
@MyNameIsCorey
22 күн бұрын
Being a mom makes her more valuable while she has a pre schooler running around in a diaper 🤔
@professionalpookie
22 күн бұрын
Guarantee that diaper is soggy
@emoreeH
22 күн бұрын
That part
@sarahmerriweather5942
22 күн бұрын
Yes sir I thought I was the only one to notice becaus my 4 year old is completely potty trained. But I also have an autistic 3 year old who still wears diapers potty training him is rough considering his condition.
@jeanlola1
22 күн бұрын
Right 😮
@Magixcrafts
22 күн бұрын
I was going to say there’s many autistic children who is passed 4 who aren’t potty trained due to sensory issues
@ludasik06
22 күн бұрын
A mom makes you more valuable?!?! I gots to hear this. 😂 and then disqualified within the first 10 seconds. 😂😂😂
@cocolokoflacco
22 күн бұрын
😂talkin abt "she appeals to both men"😆" & the men who want children will know imma good mom lol. why wouldn't that man just choose a childless woman instead smfh lool....& da delusion continues
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
21 күн бұрын
@@cocolokoflacco Are you married/engaged??
@dreshaft
22 күн бұрын
She is pretty, in shape, has a pleasant demeanor, communicates clearly, held herself accountable and has her stuff together. All of that and there is still a bunch of negativity in the comments. I'm convinced that alot of you just hate black women and like coming here to vent.
@angelacleveland75
22 күн бұрын
All of this.
@pickmeisha
22 күн бұрын
ANY womab who has their ‘stuff together’ wouldn’t be online in the middle of the night looking for dates with a kid in the background disrupting. 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@070911021302
22 күн бұрын
@@angelacleveland75 ...this woman is talking nonsense.....
@tam6011
22 күн бұрын
@pickmeisha any man who has his stuff together wouldn't comment or ven know this show exists. However here you are. How shallow do you have to be because she put herself out there. Give me break
@070911021302
22 күн бұрын
This woman has been married and divorced......and then she had a child with another man who she was not married....she is a single parent with a four year old...talking about she is looking for a provider man....does not really want to work......and thinks being a single parent makes her more valuable to men......she is talking nonsense.....
@davidsejjombwe2313
22 күн бұрын
Men have post-nut clarity. Women have post-child clarity. I see the later at display now.
@TruthSlays
21 күн бұрын
yeah and like post-nut clarity their post-child clarity only lasts till the next Pookie rolls up... hence the common 5 by 5 or 6 by 6....
@SherrieAshleystax
22 күн бұрын
I really love her honesty and I hope she finds the right person that fits her request ❤
@professionalpookie
22 күн бұрын
She gets a pookie
@pickmeisha
22 күн бұрын
Her: ‘Im peacefeul.’ Kid screams in the background. My husband just said…it has nothing to do with money, a successful man in his 50s simply don’t want to be bothered with random toddlers.
@roeweathers
22 күн бұрын
I second that.
@kamariaspeaks
22 күн бұрын
Anyone who describes a child as a “random toddler” doesn’t deserve to be a parent.
@beasonthe
21 күн бұрын
@@kamariaspeaksright that was mad weird, I wouldn’t want a man that speak that way! Thank God for my husband! These men smh
@rahardajohnson6053
21 күн бұрын
Wow! That comment is interesting, to say the least. God will bless her with her happily ever after.
@moblack5883
21 күн бұрын
@@rahardajohnson6053 just like god blessed her with having a baby out of wedlock to where she on a dating show
@originaldelta
22 күн бұрын
Now you a single mom 🎵🎵. Stop bringing your babies on your livestreams 😢
@DemonLordMD
22 күн бұрын
I love that song
@demetriusjames9535
20 күн бұрын
🎶Showin' her baby off, Showin' her baby off🎶 😵💫
@gideonwoods8834
22 күн бұрын
Being a single mother makes her more valuable to who & in what reality?
@amilllion1
22 күн бұрын
A pedo 😢
@Christelleee96
22 күн бұрын
Not in yours. Move along
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
Probably a man who has custody of his child(ren).
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
@@Christelleee96 was that supposed to be an insult??😂😂 Aww no taking care of another mans grown up sperm. What will we ever do??!!😢😂😂
@kgreen1549
21 күн бұрын
@@truettadevilDefinitely not..
@dailygrinders89
22 күн бұрын
What can you offer to a man that another man has never had? This chick said longevity 😂
@lcplfrancois
2 күн бұрын
Lifelong Debt
@imfreshfase4568
22 күн бұрын
She held herself accountable !!!👀👀👀… I hope she wins 💪🏾
@blacksource2101
22 күн бұрын
Thinking that you're more valuable as a single mom is what makes you more delusional
@SparkleInYourEyes2024
22 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
We're glad that baby daddies don't overvalue themselves in the dating market. We all know they're just a liability paying child support. Unlike baby mamas, they can't even cook, clean or pay all the bills...
@brandonlongdikjones8117
22 күн бұрын
@@truettadevilbut the ladies love them for some reason 😉, can't say the same for single mothers huh? I don't have any kids but the truth is the truth , I guess the baby daddy's aren't as delusional as the baby mothers then huh lol, you should ask the women why they will date baby daddy's before a man will commit to another man's baby mother lol.
@SpecialK913
22 күн бұрын
Women that end a relationship over infidelity alone often live to regret it years later when they’re still alone😮
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
@@SpecialK913 women who don't end relationships over infidelity often contact STDs and regret not leaving sooner.
@ClassicallyModern
22 күн бұрын
I have to say, she really carries herself well and answered the questions with class, without getting defensive. I commend her for her comportment. Good to see another pleasant lady. Good luck to her!
@traveler7117
22 күн бұрын
She wants to step back and spend his money 😂😂😂
@edwardmr5852
22 күн бұрын
Mind blowing 😅
@slinkiegirl2001
22 күн бұрын
a lot of the SM that come on here that is primarily what they are looking for they say they want to meet a man.but it is too meet his wallet
@Quinten4M
22 күн бұрын
Right 😂 that part 😂
@meloran2571
22 күн бұрын
she don't know math. a man making 70k will not have her, him, her kid and his kids living comfortably
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
The average Blk man makes $45,000 and she makes 6-figures... it wouldn't make sense to think she could just sit back and spend a man's money when most BM are br0ke af 🤔
@sanchoelmatador
22 күн бұрын
DEAR WOMEN - ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD IS NOT A BLESSING TO US.
@tam6011
22 күн бұрын
I same for men
@070911021302
22 күн бұрын
@@tam6011 ...a man who has a child.....is not the same as a woman who has a child....
@sanchoelmatador
22 күн бұрын
@@tam6011 I've never heard a man say or even insinuate that their child is a blessing to another woman because we know it ain't the truth! But women on the other hand will piss in a cup and tell you it's lemonade.
@meloran2571
22 күн бұрын
@@tam6011 but how many men have you seen on here saying they are?
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
DEAR MEN - YOUR OWN CHILDREN AREN'T EVEN A BLESSING TO YOU.
@andraescott7470
22 күн бұрын
Her logic is that if she's more valuable as a single mom with one child, does that also mean a single mom of 5 children is even more valuable than she is 😂
@loyalandkindsunshine3382
22 күн бұрын
ofcoarse not
@jodezod
22 күн бұрын
😂
@Godsbackhand7
16 күн бұрын
Asked on their delusional thinking, THIS is what those mothers believe. This particular woman would be the same type to talk down on a single mother with 2-3 kids.
@GoofyFlan
22 күн бұрын
In Houston, Texas, when a woman says, "There was infidelity," it REALLY doesn't tell you if he or SHE was the cheater.
@kujas
22 күн бұрын
You are goofy, she was not the cheater
@GoofyFlan
22 күн бұрын
@@kujas That's what you all say.
@kujas
22 күн бұрын
@@GoofyFlan and that would be true, women are rarely the cheater in a heterosexual relationship
@GoofyFlan
22 күн бұрын
@@kujas Not in Houston, Texas.
@GoofyFlan
22 күн бұрын
@@kujas 13 to 15 percent of women cheat. 20 - 25 percent of men cheat. I think that's a lot more than "rarely."
@lovette7684
22 күн бұрын
She sounds well-spoken and looks well put together. Good luck sis! You shouldn't have too much trouble at all finding a decent guy.
@user-js9kq3gr7r
22 күн бұрын
Any man should feel honored taking care of her
@jamar8401
21 күн бұрын
@@user-js9kq3gr7rSo why she single?
@Mrhendrixx
22 күн бұрын
From the title I thought this would be a mess, but she seems like a genuine and a good woman. Wasn't mad or combative despite the negative comments. If she's really the way she is she will get what she is looking for, she seems like a great woman.
@Hustle-N-Flow
21 күн бұрын
Definitely not a great woman, maybe a good woman now but not great
@qbizzy37
22 күн бұрын
Four years old and still wearing pampers. Red flag
@professionalpookie
22 күн бұрын
That pamper stank
@willdickens7712
22 күн бұрын
Yeah that's bad parenting their. Maybe she has a mental illness. Who knows
@salishaabdool2497
22 күн бұрын
Wow, judgmental much? maybe she has a disability? Watch your mouth
@1fattgirlmah1
22 күн бұрын
Omg let me rewind.
@1fattgirlmah1
22 күн бұрын
I just rewind. That child should not wear that during the day unless she has an issue.
@RainbowKidd
22 күн бұрын
She wants all these things from a man who is not the father of her child. Why didn't she require any of these things from the father? This is just insane.
@slinkiegirl2001
22 күн бұрын
i thought she came across well but these women needs to realise the manosphere is a thing men are changing there attitudes towards us women
@drecool85
22 күн бұрын
She said he was unfaithful. There is LITERALLY nothing you can do to “make” someone not cheat.
@Flash413
22 күн бұрын
She said he was unfaithful and not a provider. She is the baby mama of a broke Pookie
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
The question is, why are so many Blk fathers not providing for the children they make? Who are you to say what she demanded from him?
@tenzoemury1714
22 күн бұрын
This person right here reply to every comment, just saying stupid shit.
@terrencetaylor7308
22 күн бұрын
I want a man that believes in God while I get divorce and have a kid out of wedlock? Make it make sense!!!
@freethinkingMILF
22 күн бұрын
Believe in God, not man made religion
@BrownSugarNCurls
22 күн бұрын
While I agree that children should be brought into a martial home and not outside of wedlock; you trying to say a woman shouldn’t want a man who believes in God is a reach lol. Should she be an atheist bc of that? You say that as if you follow each and every command and law laid out in the bible. Given that you too are a fallible human being I doubt you do. We all fall short every day. She should still believe in God and strive to improve to follow his law each and every day. We all should.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
21 күн бұрын
*It already makes sense.* Let me help you: Humans are imperfect. One lives and learns. God understands that and He gives grace, mercy, compassion and forgiveness. Do u understand a lil better now ??
@terrencetaylor7308
21 күн бұрын
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eyou clearly misunderstand the Bible and what being a Christian means! God understands everything but He doesn’t excuse or accept Sin! That will never happen! Christ died for us while we were sinners and when we accept Him the Holy Spirit begins the Work of conforming us to the image of Christ!! Sin is not an option for a person that truly has been converted. Sin is an insult to God’s Holiness and by sinning we rebel against God. If we love Christ we would keep his commandments!!! So clearly if you’re sinning on purpose and the Holy Spirit don’t convict you of your sins, you have not been converted. Do you understand! You believe you can sin and live in sin and still be faithful to God? Make that make sense!!!
@rahardajohnson6053
21 күн бұрын
We don’t qualify to judge. God grants grace to all of his children. I often share this when people pass judgment - if God opened your entire life (past) to the public, is there anything that you’d be ashamed of or are you squeaky clean?
@vincentmartin1863
22 күн бұрын
I respect her for taking accountability beautiful woman that humble herself
@Ms.West_ToYou
22 күн бұрын
I liked all her answers she has a strong level head and is very mature and humble.
@Mr.Boring_Man
22 күн бұрын
Marry her.
@Ms.West_ToYou
22 күн бұрын
@Mr.Boring_Man Your handle speaks volumes you must be bored dear, honestly you sound like a jilted ex of hers. I prefer men so be conscious next time with your reply because nothing in my comment says I want her.
@TruthSlays
21 күн бұрын
marry her and pay all her bills... but I have a feeling you don't qualify, you broke dusty bum...
@dredey1971
20 күн бұрын
She all yours!! Go for it!!
@Ms.West_ToYou
20 күн бұрын
@@dredey1971 Give her to your mom
@GreyMann2
22 күн бұрын
Newsflash: Kids have NO business on this show! Plus, it looks like she has very little control over her child. She's pretty tho.
@Laoriginal718
22 күн бұрын
Why don’t ppl focus on raising their children once the relationship with the mom/dad ends? Why do ppl with kids wanna get on the dating market so bad?
@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego
22 күн бұрын
Lonely.
@AmberJailee
22 күн бұрын
Bc they need financial help. Once you realize most of them on this show are looking for help the better
@meloran2571
22 күн бұрын
they want to relax and raise that kid while another man foot the bill. its all hidden in the "men are supposed to provide" argument.
@And1one757
22 күн бұрын
They broke af and need help
@IAMHERE486
22 күн бұрын
Right and then their kids end up abused.I had a friend who’d move in with randoms and she had 2 kids.
@sleektruth8388
22 күн бұрын
🎶🎵🎶You let him hit it raw You didn’t have second thoughts Now you a single mom , Now you a single mom🎶🎵🎶
@sleektruth8388
22 күн бұрын
🎶🎵You said I'ma have this kid Don’t care if he’s here or not Showing the baby off, Showing the baby off 🎶🎵
@Theeorie4393
22 күн бұрын
That's the best kind of mom cuz she's not under a husband's control
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
@@Theeorie4393 🤣🤣🤣 delusional ahh comment
@nikkilove9301
22 күн бұрын
Beautiful lady, wish her well!
@hollymoore5729
22 күн бұрын
Absolutely beautiful! Wishing her all the best! ❤
@zenabeme22
22 күн бұрын
I hope she finds the right guy for her. Keep being Great Sis!!
@readyredd414
22 күн бұрын
If delusional was a person and she really believes that she is a valuable asset because she a mom that only counts to her baby daddy
@Coolsnacker
22 күн бұрын
How long was she with the baby daddy before she found out that he lacked all of the qualities that she wants.?
@perryvillarealestatetravel
21 күн бұрын
But didn't she said it wasn't a relationship
@Coolsnacker
21 күн бұрын
@@perryvillarealestatetravel But still had a baby with him? Fix it black Jesus.
@JSouth23
22 күн бұрын
When a woman has a child she can become MORE valuable to the father. Outside of him, you're just another box men might want to open, then return to sender.
@professionalpookie
22 күн бұрын
OH MY BROTHER TESTIFY!!!!!
@JoyOfZion9
22 күн бұрын
Plenty of wealthy men have found value in women with children. Shaq, Steve, T.d.jakes the list goes on. They will continue to do so. Just say its not for you.
@JSouth23
22 күн бұрын
@@JoyOfZion9 72% of black children are born into baby mama households. 26% of black women will marry. It can't just be me. 😂😂😂
@MichaelJones-ok4yu
22 күн бұрын
@@JoyOfZion9Steve = simp…TD Jakes didn’t claim his stepson when he was caught in the bushes with another man in Kiest Park (Dallas)…Shaq just found out his wife didn’t love him….
@JoyOfZion9
22 күн бұрын
@JSouth23 Okay, that's both man and womans fault. Nobody is stopping their life because it didn't work out because of a homosexual and 3x divorcee like Kevin Samuel said it to humiliate blk women and get attention. Life goes on. She's 33 and desires another husband, which is better than being in sin fornicating or having to fight her flesh because he body is still in reproductive mode.
@ShamiaIrving
22 күн бұрын
I loved her 💕💐🙏🏼 Wishing her the best!!!!
@Theleftycheffe
22 күн бұрын
She’s wonderful. I wish her the best ❤
@keptbygrace6221
22 күн бұрын
If she's willing to date older, she will be fine. She has a lot going for her, is not a gold-digger, well-spoken and only 1 baby-daddy.
@Hustle-N-Flow
21 күн бұрын
No she will not be fine. Older men do not want women with small kids. Stop your delulu lol
@jonathancoleman6482
19 күн бұрын
1 baby daddy is just has bad has multiple baby daddies
@Hustle-N-Flow
19 күн бұрын
I’m older and not interested in her hypocrisy nor her toddler. Older men don’t deal with women with young kids. Keep telling other modern women lis@keptbygrace6221
@DemonLordMD
22 күн бұрын
The next guy has to marry to get a child but didn’t require marriage from her bd. No thanks.
@tuan2u
22 күн бұрын
don't forget, the next man has to provide for the child, but the guy that gave her the child isn't required to give her child support
@jnm-eh6qt
22 күн бұрын
The "last time you were intimate" question carries a LOT of weight to marriage-minded men.
@Hustle-N-Flow
21 күн бұрын
Don’t tell Kendra that! She things you are 🌈 if you hold it against a woman who slept with a friend just a week or two ago
@tinajames7985
22 күн бұрын
There are plenty of guys with kids as well. She didn’t ask for a childless guy, what’s the problem?
@070911021302
22 күн бұрын
The problem is she wants a provider man.....does not want to work.....is a single parent...and thinks she is more valuable as a single parent than as a childless woman,,,,,,that is the problem......
@Renzo_Renzy8op
22 күн бұрын
Most men especially black men; what her target market is don’t have children. I think the biggest issue was the traditional comment. Her actions weren’t traditional but she is requesting someone take on the full responsibility of her young child. A young girl at that. I think she was pleasant in how she responded but the truth is men are telling you right here it’s not the most ideal. Idk why it’s so difficult to accept this is what men think.
@tuan2u
22 күн бұрын
The problem is that she doesn't believe in child support. Hence, she doesn't believe that the man that she had the child with should help provide for her kid, but a new man that had nothing to do with that, should. The kid is 4 years old. The new man needs to help provide for food, shelter, clothing, vacation, college funds, and etc while she doesn't demand the same from the ex. So, does she want the new man, with children, to provide child support money for his other children? She already stated that she does not believe in child support. That means that she's ok with the new man not providing child support for his other children. Does that sound like a good man?
@myronbourne6937
22 күн бұрын
They don't want her either.
@kane99560
22 күн бұрын
But she wants to not have to work. So the new guy needs to take care of his kid/s, her, her daughter and any other kids they may have. You see how quickly this gets crazy🙄
@mitziphillips9889
19 күн бұрын
This young lady will continue to do well in life with her positive attitude and beautiful, calming spirit. I wish her well.
@lionfamlee
22 күн бұрын
She medically retired from the military. That is not the same as a regular retirement and she doesn't make $7k a month from that. I wish her well.
@cinnaminstixx
22 күн бұрын
I was thinking the same thing… retired at 33… girl bye ✌🏾
@_---__
22 күн бұрын
Exactly, she couldn't make the 20-year hitch. If she is 33, she didn't even do 10 years. I can guarantee you she is NOT pulling 7K from a medical retirement (med board)
@lionfamlee
21 күн бұрын
@@_---__ yup. I retired after 21 yrs and am very familiar with the whole process.When you retire at 20 yrs, you will get your 50% of your base pay and if you have disabilities, you may receive VA disability pay. So it would be two separate checks and depending on your military rank and disability percentage, you can see $2k and upwards $12k. Now, with medical retiremets they base everything off of your years back in service and disability aka you get VA disability pay scale. They try to get both close you your time in. So someone who medically retired at 15 years would see about 37% of their base pay aka 2.5% for every year of service. So they put you around 37% disabled. That maybe higher if they have a high disability rating, but you only get one check. Not two like a regular retirement. She is not an officer. She was enlisted so her pay would have been as high. Military folks can tell the difference right away. TDLR. My apologies for the long post, but I had to call this out. She receives no where near $7k a month. The max she would receive is 3 to 4k a month from a medical retirement if she was 100% disabled. The VA is very strict and doesn't hand that high rating easily. So unless she has some major disabilities, then she's sitting close to 10 to 30% disability. So roughly $300 to best case $900 monthly. So she may have meant 7k a year.
@lionfamlee
21 күн бұрын
@@cinnaminstixx lol. Yeah, she should have known people would see thru that.
@insidioustrader3924
20 күн бұрын
She is not making $7K from her medical discharge. She's not 100% disabled either.
@emshowupfitness9793
22 күн бұрын
She’s pretty stable lady and articulate herself very well, also her emotional state seems to be balanced well
@MamieGlay
20 күн бұрын
And she took accountability for her actions that’s more than what most people especially women do on here
@raylemar2386
22 күн бұрын
Pooky left her with a baby, now she looking for Carlton to come in and do the cleanup work, she said she looking for a provider like 20 times.
@truettadevil
22 күн бұрын
Why do Blk men keep calling each other Pookie? I'm a white woman and it confuses me. Sounds like you're all Pookies 🤔
@RoblEsquire
20 күн бұрын
Men, please avoid this liar... I am retired military. She is not retired at 33 with an OPM Ret of $7k per month... wth
@TMElement
20 күн бұрын
Maybe medically retired w a rating?
@PragmaticMoves
19 күн бұрын
Neither does she own 4 properties and live in a rental 😂😂
@RoblEsquire
19 күн бұрын
@@PragmaticMoves exactly
@moblack5883
19 күн бұрын
@@PragmaticMoves I fell out when she said that
@RoblEsquire
19 күн бұрын
@@TMElement Nah bro... even medically at 100% is not going to be above $4
@lorenathorpe8909
22 күн бұрын
She's 💯‼️❤️ Smart, intelligent, self-sufficient, pleasantly personable and beautiful!
@tuan2u
22 күн бұрын
she's also divorce, has a child with the man that she wasn't married to, wants the next guy to provide for that child, but doesn't believe in child support from the guy that is the father of her child. What's smart and intelligent about that? What's 100 about that?
@clarencedolan699
22 күн бұрын
More valuable to who?
@edwardmr5852
22 күн бұрын
Her daughter 😎
@dbombnting
22 күн бұрын
Traditional stop the 🧢🧢🧢🧢
@lindseynero1000
22 күн бұрын
Well spoken single mom. She sounds good it something tells me she gone switch up once she gets in a relationship…
@outdoorgq
22 күн бұрын
In my experience a woman who casually describes herself as having "OCD" will try to micromanage everything a man does. Break one of her rules and she'll rip your head off.
@claytonjohnson9218
22 күн бұрын
She's a lot better than most of the women on here and very well spoken but how are you organized and structured with your 4 year old in a diaper......
@asiakayla1
22 күн бұрын
@@claytonjohnson9218some kids wet the bed at night
@claytonjohnson9218
22 күн бұрын
@@asiakayla1 ok; but her little one was up and around and lively while mom was on a dating show, nothing abt that scenario said bed time and I raised kids, you cut off liquids after a certain time before bed and then wake them at night so they can go to the bathroom. I like her too but that's not an excuse ; we have to stop making excuses for people just because we like them.
@asiakayla1
22 күн бұрын
@@claytonjohnson9218 who is really waking kids up out of their sleep to go use the restroom? Yall say anything on here to try to make a point
@ludasik06
22 күн бұрын
They truly dont understand how a kid, especially an active kid that won’t leave you alone, puts you down. No man making good money wants to do that. You can get you a bum that needs somewhere to stay though. They all for it.
@tam6011
22 күн бұрын
Same us women no kids about men with kids. I don’t care if they with you for 1 day week
@ludasik06
22 күн бұрын
@@tam6011 I agree 100%
@Matthew7.7
22 күн бұрын
Keah was a breath of fresh air for the right person. That right person is another dude with a child. Her energy and peace is a 10. Feminine, classy, well spoken woman and beautiful. I’d wife her if she didn’t have a kid. She’ll be alright eventually!
@valpooh7532
22 күн бұрын
Wayment… Her daughter is 4 and still has a diaper/pull up on??? Yeah.. Nahhh. Mom is not as good as she claims to be.
@mz9540
22 күн бұрын
Could it possibly be a medical thing? Developmental ?
@thebenevolentpatriarch424
22 күн бұрын
Kid is probably being raised by child minders and day care
@edwardmr5852
22 күн бұрын
Big facts 😅
@ruleklw
22 күн бұрын
Possibly special needs
@JoyOfZion9
22 күн бұрын
Maybe it's just for bedtime. Some kids still wet the bed. It's her 1st on only child. She's allowed to learn along the way.
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
22 күн бұрын
She is preety, calm, and sounds like a nice woman. Best of luck! ❤
@The_Ndegwa
21 күн бұрын
I didn’t know traditional women come with kid(s) 😂😂😂 These definitions and roles change everyday
@blacksuccess81
21 күн бұрын
Never trust a mom whose hair is done but her daughter’s hair isn’t together. Either she’s super selfish or a sorry nurturer.
@demetriusjames9535
21 күн бұрын
Likely both!
@SweetTriece
20 күн бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I actually noticed this too 😅, but I also considered that her daughter spent all day in school/daycare and small children NEVER returned back home in the same condition they went out in 🥴. Their hair and clothing typically looks like they came back from a dog fight 😄. But I also considered that she probably didn't play, bath and put her 4 y/o down BEFORE getting on a dating show 🧐. Her priorities aren't all the way together. That's why she wants help.
@Richard-Reloaded
22 күн бұрын
Got divorced to become a baby mother. 🚩🚩🚩
@DefiesAllStereotypes
22 күн бұрын
Only the sistas can be a wife and then a babymomma!
@clarencedolan699
22 күн бұрын
But she’s isn’t called a homewrecker by women for some reason. Men can’t divorce their wives because if we do, we’re accused of created broken homes.
@DanteFortson
22 күн бұрын
Right... extreme stupidity
@ShangHungxxx
22 күн бұрын
Can’t make it up
@salishaabdool2497
22 күн бұрын
🤡🤡🤡🤡
@CosmetologyNFashion
20 күн бұрын
I like her. She's seems to be a well spoken woman and communicate very well. Good luck to her, wish her and her daughter all the best!!
@dionhammond8700
22 күн бұрын
This is like the 27 year old Chevy Malibu telling a potential buyer that it’s a better deal than a 3 year old Honda Accord. Sorry beloved but you don’t dictate what the market values you at. SMH. You’re more valuable to your HUSBAND not a random guy.
@AuthenticJoShow
22 күн бұрын
That military income is great! She'll always have a contribution. And 5 properties... the right man will appreciate her! 🙏🏽
@professionalpookie
22 күн бұрын
We don't want her
@DanteFortson
22 күн бұрын
Yeah a broke pookie... us high income earners don't need her assets nor do we want that man's kid. 😂😂😂
@jerryrodriguez3554
22 күн бұрын
haha you believe her that's funny you don't make income from the military unless you did 20 years
@ashmurran
22 күн бұрын
Just because she makes it doesn’t mean she’s going to contribute it!
@Theeorie4393
22 күн бұрын
@@jerryrodriguez3554 Bullsh*t
@CheyallDAY
22 күн бұрын
She is such an Aquarius! The energy of unbothered by the judgement
@vwbond
20 күн бұрын
She kept saying that she wants someone on her program. Here that guys, she wants to lead the house.
@TheAsanijones
22 күн бұрын
Yeah, ma’am you aren’t traditional. A traditional woman doesn’t get pregnant before marriage. But I like you, wish you the best ❤
@23libra79
22 күн бұрын
This the first woman on the show to take accountability.
@tuan2u
22 күн бұрын
Wants a man of god, but is divorce, has a child with another man outside of marriage, and thinks not having premarital sex for 10 months is a long time. And, the kicker is that she thinks all of that makes her a traditional woman. She doesn't believe in child support. So, she doesn't believe that the father of her child should be spending money to take care of the child, but she wants a new man who didn't create the child to provide for that child? Make that make sense. Also, she said that she owns 5 properties, but yet she lives in a rental apartment. You would think that someone with the finances to own 5 properties would have enough to live in one. Someone is playing loosey with facts and numbers.
@jodib2331
20 күн бұрын
I appreciate her calm demeanor. Best of luck ❤
@NubianLion
17 күн бұрын
I like her! VERY classy, well spoken, mature, beautiful inside and out, focused and she has her ducks in a row. I wish her the best!!!!
@slinkiegirl2001
22 күн бұрын
the thing is these SM coming on here demanding a provider, but is the fathers providing for there children, it is very unfair for these SM to expect the next guy to just come in and open up his wallet to her and her kids, they should not say i want a provider it is off putting, and they have a sense of entitlement
@itsruffoutchea6636
22 күн бұрын
Gotta remember also she doesn't believe in child support. Major win for the the father. Major L for the new man.
@slinkiegirl2001
22 күн бұрын
@@itsruffoutchea6636 absolutely, but if a man DM'S her he knows exactly what he is getting
@SmilingDesperado
22 күн бұрын
@@itsruffoutchea6636 Yes, this didn't make any sense. She is bascially setting herself up to be a baby mama all over again. She's basically saying 'if we have a baby and break up i wont go after you for child support' as if that's a plus. Ma'am, you should be holding the father accountable for looking after his child if he isn't doing it. What kind of sense does it make for you to work 80 hours , or rely on the next man to pick up the old man's slack?
@dred9174
21 күн бұрын
@@itsruffoutchea6636That's because her baby daddy is broke. If the man was making money she would have put him on child support.
@yahmadoss6860
22 күн бұрын
She Definitely presents herself Well and Very Mature and Secure with Herself. Any Man that Hits her up will have to Come Correct and Must be Self-Assured himself. You can tell by some of the Comments that there are some who's Obviously Not. Anyway she'll make a Good Wife for Whoever is Blessed enough to have this Peaceful Spirit❤
@Coolsnacker
22 күн бұрын
Why does a man have to come correct to a woman who had a baby by a man who she didn't want. By the way she didn't have a baby with her husband.
@petricejgaskin
21 күн бұрын
@@Coolsnacker Because she's a catch. It's sad that you think being a mother means a woman has no value and has to accept trash off the street.
@Coolsnacker
21 күн бұрын
@@petricejgaskin Why on earth can women not speak on a subject without the hyperbole? Nobody said she has to accept trash off the street. The question always is, does the man you want, want you. Now with that said, you are a woman. You don't determine what a catch is to a man. Why do you think that women can make that determination for men? Serious question.
@obinna202
14 күн бұрын
@petricejgaskin I hate to say it but she would be THE trash on the street to an eligible man with that kid unfortunately. Especially if he grew up with 2 parents.
@ThirdEyeWize
20 күн бұрын
Great answers, Keah! Well thought out. Articulated well. Smart woman. And not one cuss word!! So impressive. Wishing you all the best. May the best man win!
@CharlieVendetta
12 күн бұрын
Awwwww she's a sweetheart🥰. I'm not religious by any means but she sounds very humble and a cool ass person. I hope she finds her love ❤️
@beauteafulnia6722
22 күн бұрын
Lii is a co-host 😂😂😂he always has something to say
@DanteFortson
22 күн бұрын
It absolutely does not make her or any other woman more valuable to bring another man's kid. Single mothers need to understand they are at the bottom tier of women. Us providers will provide for our OWN children. Only childless women and wives with our own children qualify for providers. If you don't like it we don't care. We decide who is worthy of our resources.
@JoyOfZion9
22 күн бұрын
Why are men so ignorant to the fact that what 1 man wont do another one will. 😊 it's so delusional to think a woman w/ a child can't obtain a provider 🙄
@1fattgirlmah1
22 күн бұрын
Lol many providers do not care about that. Especially providers who are God fearing. They will choose a single mother, who has good character, doesn't have time to sleep around with men, work, manages money well, know how to speak respectfully and stay prayed up before he choose a woman without children that run the street, spend up money, probably can't have kids/had abortions, choose school/money over a man daily.
@Coolsnacker
22 күн бұрын
@@JoyOfZion9 We know that what one man wont' do, another will. That's not the point. The point is that most of the women on the show seem to think that the man they want is just dying to put his resources into Pookie's seed. That's madness.
@Coolsnacker
22 күн бұрын
@@1fattgirlmah1 That's fine. And as long as women stay in their lane, no problem. The problem comes when average at best women think they are some kind of prize and that they would be settling if they got with an average man.
@user-cv5bi6vi5m
22 күн бұрын
Ya'll so selfish it's a wonder if you'll provide anything other than misery. The complaints and the grouchyness, tells yall ain't really about nothing but talk. Most of you don't deserve a good woman doing nothing for you, rather she has a child or not because you're disrespectful, unloyal and full of negativity. The only thought you have is knocking a woman up with a bunch of kids to try to disable her and get her to serve you. Somebody that's unappreciative. Trying to call these women low because the have kids because you are low down and empty.
@datruth470
19 күн бұрын
Why do I get the feeling that she just says all the right things? Her answers are too perfect.
@KweenP_2_Trill
21 күн бұрын
She's beautiful well spoken educated seems like she has patience and understanding. I think she'll find a quality man💖👑
@ghariiscool
22 күн бұрын
More valuable to who? Your kids?
@factsunloaded4808
21 күн бұрын
Valuable to her child and her baby daddy
@djymbelpow
22 күн бұрын
being a mom makes you more valuable.. TO YOUR HUSBAND... about the diaper, the kids might have some conditions requiring him to wear diapers at a later age.
@loyaltohisthrone7696
19 күн бұрын
Well spoken. Loved this interview. 🫶🏾
@raheemjones3237
22 күн бұрын
Man comes in and provides for someone else child and may get one.. crazy
@Ghostpill1711
22 күн бұрын
“Traditional woman” but had a child of wedlock 🤔definitely makes sense. Most women don’t know what a good traditional woman means😅
@GodmadeJesussaves
22 күн бұрын
Best of luck to her!!! Talk that talk 🤩
@MalevolentElephant
22 күн бұрын
I’m at not sure why she got so much hate. She said she wants a provider but clearly said she is willing to contribute. She seems feminine
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
That provider should have been the baby daddy.
@kujas
22 күн бұрын
@@muchaluchagigante6318 that’s not true the provider is any male in the relationship
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
22 күн бұрын
She seems like a nice woman, and bringing in some good income...
@muchaluchagigante6318
22 күн бұрын
@@kujas first and foremost it should have been the man she made the child with. He's supposed to be a provider financially, spiritually,and emotionally. Not every man can and/or will do that. Let's stop moving the goalposts and normalize getting the provider man and keeping him and leave these dusty pookie and ray ray men alone.
@kujas
22 күн бұрын
@@muchaluchagigante6318 men are the providers since the test of time. This would mean all men in this world should have the same opportunity to be a provider and provide in the relationship between a male and female
@omarceesay9528
22 күн бұрын
As a man myself I feel so embarrassed that a lot of men on this channel will attack women instantly when they said they want a provider. Yes she has a child with cheat, a non provider and not so good communicator. That’s not something you can fault her for life is a learning process and because of those experiences she want to set these standards for herself to avoid being abused and treated they way she was treated. She knew she deserved better that’s why she left the previous man. If you don’t want a woman with a child, you don’t want to be man because not being a provider means not being a man enough to take care of your own family just remember that the only woman you can have in your life is your mom. Don’t come here try to disrespect women just because they have child with a wrong person.
@bernardtalbert6729
22 күн бұрын
Only a woman or a simp would say you're not a man unless you're willing to take care of another man's child?
@The1GeminII
21 күн бұрын
@@bernardtalbert6729-I didn’t see where the person said you need to take care of someone else’s child. Did I miss it?
@TheAtm149
20 күн бұрын
Well spoken, Go Queen!!!!!
@thetruecrimeconnoisseur
14 күн бұрын
She is classy, graceful, has self respect and can communicate her boundaries clearly! This is a healthy woman! I hope she finds a man that sees and appreciates her value ❤
@tlove14u
20 күн бұрын
33 "retired' from the military with 7k a month bullshit!!!! ahh Bullshit!!!
@Chazzabox1
22 күн бұрын
My only concern is the woman who all thought the men’s question’s made them sassy, or rude. They asked logical questions which this woman gave good answers to. We woman have to stop believing if you’re against it you are rude or a bad person and definitely not sassy.
@Ressa9
22 күн бұрын
Big ups to the retired military community❤ best wishes to you sweetheart!
@jibrealyaaseen
22 күн бұрын
She is too young to be retired if she was 38 that would make since .you have to be in 20 years to retire
@Ressa9
22 күн бұрын
@@jibrealyaaseen she might have been medically discharged, that would explain her receiving a monthly check.
@OnlyFactsAllDay
22 күн бұрын
Beautiful lady. Handled the questions with class. With that being said, other women and media have really lied to single mother's with higher standards for stepfathers than biological father's. The desirable men with more options are more skeptical and less willing to give all their resources to another man's children. It's usually a thankless risky endeavor. Unfortunately, women don't seem to want to change the behavior so they attempt to change the narrative. This lady is genuinely confused. Smh
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
21 күн бұрын
What makes ya think a man needs to "give all his resources to another man's child" lol 😅 The child ALREADY has a father (and mother) that's takes care of em.
@kane99560
22 күн бұрын
Nothing to see here. More delulu nonsense🙄
@pdennis6237
22 күн бұрын
I like her. Hopes she finds what she is looking for.
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