Let's talk about the elephant in the room.... Elder sister's fiance made the right choice 💀
@ahmadradwan5423
24 күн бұрын
Fr lmao
@phantomz0-X6
24 күн бұрын
He dodged one hell of a bullet 💀
@abhabh6896
20 күн бұрын
he was too young for that, that age gap could be an issue even with normal dating... still, he should have ended it before all that.... Its nt that he broke t uo, its where and when.
@experiencedotaku171
20 күн бұрын
@@abhabh6896 by seeing how she manipulated everything on someone else's wedding... I don't wanna imagine how she will act for her own... so I'm assuming she gaslighted him till marriage and he saw no escape so just ran for the hills
@mdirmcmxciv5678
19 күн бұрын
@@phantomz0-X6bullet? He dodged tactical nuke
@skyskynomnom4674
25 күн бұрын
Honestly, the finance isn’t great. He has the strength and resolve of wet toilet paper
@Kninja_Namikaze23
24 күн бұрын
ngl wet toilet paper is strong
@momoavatar4960
5 күн бұрын
we got spongebob in the commentw@@Kninja_Namikaze23
@minutemuse
4 күн бұрын
Don’t insult toilet paper. At least tp can handle shit.
@austinflores2139
28 күн бұрын
Screw this fiancé. “I’m not gonna get into the middle of this” after constantly being in the middle? And not taking his future wife’s side?!! Eff him.
@Iwillroastyourlifeson
17 күн бұрын
That’s your take away ?
@TheLoveepidemic
8 күн бұрын
that literally pissed me off so bad.
@SirMegaManNeoX
3 күн бұрын
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So, we don't.
@zachmedlin2608
27 күн бұрын
OP’s man is a spineless pushover. She needs to ditch him, her mom, and her sister.
@MrKknaap
26 күн бұрын
Totally!!! Op stands alone and will never get any support from her husband. He will just go with the easiest choice.
@mnomadvfx
26 күн бұрын
Not simply spineless, but also disloyal. You don't want someone who will take your family's side over yours unless you are literally showing signs of mentally unbalanced behavior.
@XxTryForcexX
23 күн бұрын
Bruh y'all literally don't know him. From the snippet of info the OP gave, you automatically conclude that he's a "Spineless pushover"? if y'all's are that stupid then you're worst than her sister.
@Terrorrai1
21 күн бұрын
it was her choice how to handle this, he just supported her decision.
@CardiniPanini
8 күн бұрын
@@Terrorrai1 Okay but he was literally about to go against everything she told him once the mom started crying LOL and then continued to try to convince her to change the wedding afterwards.
@Linda_Room
14 күн бұрын
The fiance's behavior is particularly irksome to me. While I understand that individuals can exhibit a range of emotions and passivity, this man seems to lack backbone. His failure to stand up for his partner during an attack and opting to remain "neutral" is troubling.
@animegamer501stthelastyeet8
13 күн бұрын
Yeah I can see that being a problem in the marriage in the future. I don't see original poster being married to him for very long.
@jnicoulakos
28 күн бұрын
Getting the family to admit they where wrong was like pulling teeth! Come-on OP's mom, you should be able to see that there are things you can't kick down the street just because life hits a family member hard. This does not give them the right to drag the other child down by having flying monkeys attack!
@karrinrachelle
27 күн бұрын
And they only gave-in eventually last minute essentially because they had to obviously😹Not because they were really all that sorry in fact🤣They would have been so thrilled had she done more what they suggested just minutes before they gave-in no doubt, and pretended that they had a point finally and ground to stand-on to begin with😂They still clearly want her to be as miserable as them and don’t think it’s fair she’s not😆It’s not hard to see why shit isn’t working out for the sister and mother though typically🙄🤷🏻♀️😹
@marycarlin1911
28 күн бұрын
Tell your sister to get over it, and you are going to get married on the date you chose
@rohanjarande
24 күн бұрын
She has HORRIBLE communication with her new husband.
@julianzamora6837
20 күн бұрын
To be fair, he just sounds like a people pleaser. Seems like he would sacrifice his and wife’s happiness if it meant doing what others wanted
@naptime1900
28 күн бұрын
Boy sister is doing a power play she will keep doing this for the rest of her life. The relatives will see her for what she is and this will not work as the scales fall off of their eyes and she will be isolated. No one wants this controlling their lives.
@Panwere36
28 күн бұрын
The Op is not the bad person, and honestly the first update proves a lot because there is no justification for calling off or altering her wedding simply because her sister wasn't adult enough to deal with adult relationships and the consequences. When she did the "more than one wedding" dig, she had every right. The sister spent more time with her mother than her ex-husband, and that is a HUGE red flag. If the ex-husband had been doing that, he would have been called everything but human. The sister and mother were gaslighting so hard, because they are the ones who were being so toxic. The sister really needs therapy.
@DungeonsPlayer2312
26 күн бұрын
wait how is it bad to spend more time with your mother than your wife? ive never been in a relationship butstill
@mnomadvfx
26 күн бұрын
@@DungeonsPlayer2312 It's one thing if work prevents you from spending that time without your wife and she seeks companionship while you are at work. It's another thing if she is doing so when you are OFF work. If my future spouse wanted to spend more time with her parents than me in general I'd be out the door.
@RandomTrinidadian
28 күн бұрын
I think i know why OP sister got dumped at tge alter... Also... The fiance needs to grow a pair abd defend OP
@adrieljunu6048
16 күн бұрын
Sorry, not buying the change of heart for mother and sister. They probably don't want to look like the bad guys by the family members. They showed their true colors.
@The_Nightsong
20 күн бұрын
Omg, the dig about planning to only have one wedding had me laughing too hard 😆😆😆
@paulleckner8235
28 күн бұрын
Definitely time to go no contact with mother and sister. You do not need any toxic people in your life. They have two faces and will turn on you when they feel the urge to hurt you. I am glad that I was wrong that the mother was able to put the past behind them.
@user-tr2yh5px7e
13 күн бұрын
OP’s fiancé needs to grow a backbone. If I need to tell my partner not to CALL OFF our wedding that we’ve planned because he “gets carried away” with other people’s emotions then he’s not the one. Like, he seems like a nice person, he was willing to change the location of what was supposed to be one of the happiest days of their lives. There’s going to be problems down the road.
@chelleyroberts
28 күн бұрын
Okay, not the question, but she might want to rethink this groom. He seems a bit…weak.
@mnomadvfx
26 күн бұрын
She didn't ask the question, and that alone shows she is already marrying the wrong person. Any spouse that would taken your families side over yours better have a damn good reason like you just developed a mental illness or something.
@adriane8565
28 күн бұрын
I don't like that fiance, he is taking such a soft stance that I was half expecting to find out he and the sister were having an affair in the update after the dinner.
@ihavenonameforyou1
23 күн бұрын
As a man he can't be too strong. You girls would throw he's controlling or abusive if he did or if she changes her mind he's the scumbag who separated the family to isolate her. It's a lose lose game.
@adriane8565
23 күн бұрын
@@ihavenonameforyou1 There's a difference between being to aggressive in your approach and just straight up ducking into the sidelines so your fiance can deal with the mess on her own. He didn't even really try, and that's the problem
@SinNombreYQueWea
18 күн бұрын
It might be hard to understand for certain people, and it's not a terrible thing since I don't say it from a point of criticism to you, but there are some people that just try to see the best in others and end up being easily manipulated by it, specially if they're averse to confrontation. What he likely was thinking wasn't that his wife was in the wrong or "taking her sister's side", but that he found it sad that there was a falling out in her wife's family and he just tried to rationalize why. When his wife's mom was crying he probably couldn't fathom that she would be so cynical to do that as a form of manipulation so he just assumed it was truthful. The main problem is he lacks some emotional intelligence in understanding just how deeply this affected his wife... and something else you need to understand is that when people write these posts on reddit, it is hardly reasonable to expect them to give an unbiased account even if they try their hardest. Maybe the OP (The wife) conveyed here she was good at communicating this but maybe in real life she wasn't as eloquent in conveying just how betrayed she felt by her own family.
@shalini6939
22 күн бұрын
The last updated was so poetic. Op should write poems❤
@nightwynd5663
2 күн бұрын
that is because it is AI generated.
@NightCourt1984
28 күн бұрын
People get left at the altar or even before that. I would tell the mother that the only way the wedding would be cancelled is if she reimburses all money lost. If the sister isn't happy tell her to suffer in silence. And trust me when I say that they can refuse going to dinner with the family. The mom and her sister should have been in therapy or a mental asylum.
@dillanschmidt7459
28 күн бұрын
It's nice to see a post that has a genuinely happy ending. And not some 'OP got wronged by someone, made the most of it and turned their life around, and karma came back to bite the other person' type of way either. I feel like genuine healing in these posts is really rare. If mom and sister chose to stick to their guns, my response would've been "mom and sis, I love you both, but I'm not putting my plans on hold because something didnt pan out for someone"
@rambling964
6 күн бұрын
Thanks for letting me know I could watch the full thing! I've been trying to skip the stories by the "things took an unexpected turn" writer because of how often they leave things on such a frustrating note. I get they're going for the redemption narrative, but more often than not it just comes across as 'so I decided to continue being a doormat'.
@JesseRuiz-mh9bn
25 күн бұрын
OP's husband has no backbone
@toniirion5225
27 күн бұрын
I wouldn't of married the guy. There was no support from him what so ever. Just saying.
@moniques9127
24 күн бұрын
The comment section reassured me I wasnt the only one thinking OP's fiance is weak AF. If my fiance wont get into a petty cat fight for me I dont want him. Thankfully mine is a starved mountain lion that I save up for dealing with customer service. 😂
@animegamer501stthelastyeet8
13 күн бұрын
W absolutely a W. I hope you guys have a long loving relationship.
@moniques9127
13 күн бұрын
@@animegamer501stthelastyeet8 Just took his parents to see our forever home today. He is a Win.
@TradeWinds66
25 күн бұрын
Wow, not one but TWO women reversed their narcissistic insanity and took accountability for their atrocious behavior? Color me amazed
@Ninja0fNasaga
28 күн бұрын
The only comment that op made that had me scratching my head was "the last week before a wedding is an emotional rollercoaster for women" ..... it's really for both parties. Not just women.....why single it out lol
@Olimar92
26 күн бұрын
Because Men are emotionless.
@parker901
25 күн бұрын
I smelled the AI in the first 2 sentences lol
@56karenandjim
28 күн бұрын
Do NOT send candlelit lanterns “into the sky”. Where I live, which is a semi arid desert, you will get arrested
@jemase7931
26 күн бұрын
Sounds like mom and sister had been thoroughly reamed bothering other relatives. It also sounds like mom still found a way to make it about herself.
@grandkalbi5331
10 күн бұрын
I'm glad this story ended on the note it did. not a lot of these experiences have a growing moment and thank god it did. that's one thing we don't give credit to in this world and it's refreshing to see people own up to their mistakes and people move on with grace, even with the op showing how much the apology meant to her.
@keanufryer8181
28 күн бұрын
A good ending 💯 glad to see it ❤️
@smsff7
28 күн бұрын
I am surprised this ended well. Though I wish the username was put in the description.
@CBNM1
28 күн бұрын
Yeah i wouldnt forgive them 😂
@jemase7931
26 күн бұрын
The dinner. Why didn't OP and fiancee just leave? Sister has had almost as much time to get over it as she had to know her guy.
@EnvyVGrimm
12 күн бұрын
Wasn't expecting that ending
@crimsonblader-wb3hz
6 күн бұрын
There was so many times in this where I would probably say Womp womp to the fucking womp
@caelanho420
12 күн бұрын
It’s nice to see a happily ever after I hope 🎉
@lariemunoz873
12 күн бұрын
This sounds more like a story from a book than an actual real life happenings.
@saundrahuff5870
12 күн бұрын
My daughter can never complain that she wasn’t the favorite child. She was a single child. So she was always my favorite
@ireniaks
28 күн бұрын
Ai never knows when to stop. It's always so obvious when it throws out the big words.
@Damychad
8 күн бұрын
The titles are the best lmao 🤣
@Larchkty0324
Күн бұрын
Throughout this story, at every point, I lept waiting for OP's fiance to be on her side, stand up for her but it never happens. At several points he says he supports her but that only seems to be when there isn't conflict. He takes the mil's side repeatedly. I'm glad this ended well but I hope in the future he grows a spine and actually stands with his wife.
@cristianvilla2633
27 күн бұрын
Wonder why they had a change of heart 🤔
@joshuadavis9216
12 күн бұрын
OP is NTA and the sister needs to get over it. Her feelings are not more important than your wedding.
@janapeterson5967
25 күн бұрын
An outdoor wedding in December? OP is crazy. I bet it was cold.
@animegamer501stthelastyeet8
13 күн бұрын
There are places in the world where it doesn't really snow and the temperature is like a cool spring breeze.
@andruyscha
25 күн бұрын
Favorites are formed through similarities. I have 2 daughters 8 and 5 years old. My older one is super interested in judo, which I do, while the younger one prefers karate, which my wife does. We swap often but both have their favorites, just like we do. Rules apply to both and no one has more rights.
@leopassion1990
Күн бұрын
The fiancé is so weak, the OP would be better off without all of them.
@AtotehZ
28 күн бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="396">6:36</a> Wrong. He is not being empathetic towards the sister, he is supporting OP. He's letting her know that he's behind whatever she chooses. If it was me, I would wanna continue. You'll never be able to please people like OP's mom and sister.
@Reikotsu
28 күн бұрын
Sorry, but that is just NC forever on my part. I would rip the letter in front of her and tell them to never show their faces in front of me again.
@RedditSageTales
16 сағат бұрын
Why would you marry someone that wouldn't even fight for you and stand by your side if things went south?
@inmamata
9 күн бұрын
The sheer audacity and envy of the sister... It's not enough she was miserable, she also wants her sister to be miserable as well...The Mom is manipulative as F and the fiancee would benefit from growing a damn spine. The mom is criticizing one moment then crying the next then arguing the next one... Even Socrates said it: "Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will."
@robertbehof683
28 күн бұрын
Yeah, this one is more than likely not to last (if it is real to begin with which is a stretch lol). Reason why? Groom. Nothing on the bride, if anything she’s the rational one in all of this. The groom however has such a wet noodle for a spine that it will catch up to him and them eventually. Family narcissism is real I’ve had to deal with it first hand with my brother. He wasn’t the golden child, none of us were, we were all treated equally, but it was just unfortunately his human nature to be this way. After my father’s death in 2017 (suicide- he suffered from CTE from a severe brain trauma while on the job back in 2005) not months, or years but hours after his death so when it was still so fresh he walked up to my mom (whom he had a pretty good relationship with until then not going to lie, but he walked up to her in front of everyone and proceeded to tell her that this was all her fault that dad is dead. I get grieving- I’ve had to do it for my dad, favorite aunt (2 weeks after my dad (caught pneumonia at his funeral service actually which made the grieving oh so much worse), my uncle (9 months later), and then my mom in December 2022, so I know everyone grieves differently, but I firmly believe that in his mind which his head stuck so far up his own a$$ that my brother truly deep down believes everything he said, which is truly sad. Now fast forward to today and he’s just insanely jealous that anything/everything of my mom’s is being split 50/50 between my sister and I. He’s more upset about the property lol, as it is a nice 3 bedroom 2 bath house that we’ll more than likely renovate further into one more bed and and bath, in a booming area of the US (rhymes with smashville) and that we will eventually rent (not sell as I know we can get so much more over time with renting givin the area and renting price when if it’s the median number).
@SatvikHunter
10 күн бұрын
Bro i aint reading allat
@robertbehof683
10 күн бұрын
@@SatvikHunter Bro…. don’t give two fucks whether you read it or not. Also, reading a bit might help as allat is definitely not a word!
@SatvikHunter
10 күн бұрын
@@robertbehof683 still aint readin allat
@queenrhubarb1676
22 күн бұрын
All I’m hearing from this sister’s mouth is” me me me me me me me”
@user-iu1eg2pt7i
12 күн бұрын
A story that ends with malicious family turning around? Can’t say I’ve heard many.
@robthomas9964
6 күн бұрын
The sister's life is not made better for OPs life being worse
@norafox2803
9 күн бұрын
I had family members like this that are no longer my family. The younger sister sounds superficial af and a child that doesn't understand how real bonding works
@n1rvana_
17 күн бұрын
The elder sister and mother are ill but something about OP screams curious to me. Mainly the way she describes her husband, particularly *how* she instructions him. 😅 And their first argument at home dinner. Sister didn't really say anything too crazy. The first truly wild remark was the "ill only have this event once in my life". I can understand feeling the way OP does. But having justified feelings is not the same as having a justified reaction. I have a sneaking suspicion OP might be her own type of monster. 😅
@render0760
21 күн бұрын
They only apologised because they realised that most of the family and friends realised that OP was right and they were wrong, and also because they know that, in the near future, they may need financial help from OP so it is in their interest to be on good terms with her. In short, they only apologised because things didn't go as planned, not because they were really sorry. OP's emotions clouded her judgement and made her ignore the most logical move, to cut her mother and sister out of her life.
@mirroredoffofme
23 күн бұрын
"I'm happy being the devil" QUEEN
@Terrarules21
21 күн бұрын
The gen z comment....I met my fiance at 18 and instantly knew I was gonna marry him
@lanclincunningham12
18 күн бұрын
Good.Girl do your wedding the way you want to.Your sister will be married by the end of the year with someone else.
@Kamarazalmanx
15 күн бұрын
I love how the mom tried to convince the fiancee of not holding the wedding by saying they should save up the money for it because weddings are expensive like..... ma'am, they already spent the money. actually if they don't hold the wedding they would be LOSING MONEY
@francinetitherington4060
16 күн бұрын
OP's Sister appears to have a diagnosable case of Main Character Syndrome. Mom is only apologizing because she was caught out by the whole family. Mom knows she better step up and keep her nose clean or lose the extended family relationships that are important to her.
@lastraven8575
23 күн бұрын
Im thinking they found the post and were upset they were getting blasted so decided to leave it
@alyzu4755
25 күн бұрын
Yeah, I'd advise OP to tread carefully with her mom and sister from here on out. I cant imagine what stunts their going to pull in the future. What happens if OP has a baby before her sister does? Or gets a job promotion? Or anything that her sister hasnt accomplished?
@gabriellaverdeja
26 күн бұрын
The mother and the sister of the OP should not be mad at her for the sisters failed wedding and the loss of the mothers husband just because the OP was getting married instead just be happy for her because she did nothing wrong in the failed wedding and the loss of their father/husband. Good thing the mother and sister realized their mistake before it was too late.
@marc_frank
10 күн бұрын
last update written by chat gippity
@tdexth
28 күн бұрын
Why am i so annoyed by the fiance? I know people can be emotional, passive and stuffs but this dude feel spineless. He didn't even defended his partner when she was attacked and chose to be the "neutral".
@virtualatheist
27 күн бұрын
Not sure I agree. Getting involved in family drama can backfire. How many times have we heard of someone defending one family member against another end in one being the target of vitriol from BOTH aggreived parties? Somehow one can find oneself blamed for things that are nothing to do with you.
@SatvikHunter
10 күн бұрын
His fiance was a gentleman he proboly thought that this was a personal family matter and that he shouldent interfere with his wife family
@damaijin
21 күн бұрын
Sister wasn't there at the dinner, but then she was there to console mom?
@animegamer501stthelastyeet8
13 күн бұрын
I can tell you all this, if the KZitem comment section is filled with people saying for the original poster should dump her fiance, you can probably imagine how many Reddit comments were saying the same thing. She'll probably divorce that man after she realized that we are all right about him. Edit: I just realized that both the original poster and the sister have horrible taste in men. So they'll both will probably be divorced and single in the end. What a world. 😂
@wplains
25 күн бұрын
It’s obvious sister forced her ex fiancée who abandoned her to a marriage proposal because she was jealous of OP. She’s a horrible person.
@dianasmith8248
21 күн бұрын
So I don’t buy the mothers change of heart. I think she was shamed by the rest of the family, and she has realized that her oldest daughter will probably not get married and give her grandchildren so she has decided to latch onto OP and her spineless husband.
@EmotionsTalesStories
18 күн бұрын
the mother is to blame
@victoriacristina9610
27 күн бұрын
I really want to know what is the name of this game in the background. Does anyone know???
@Cra-Z3Pil0X
27 күн бұрын
Minecraft ಠ_ಠ
@od3rfla
26 күн бұрын
I mean as a 21 year old I don’t mind settling down but I need more than a few months to get to know you so probably be bf and gf for at least 3 to 4 years😂
@Radowid_V_Srogi
21 күн бұрын
They will dont have child cuz fiance/husband didnt grow a balls
@AlwaysTehFool
22 күн бұрын
Whats obvious is obvious, but damn I kinda hate her fiance
@cozyGalvinism
10 күн бұрын
I'm gonna be honest here: I don't think that marriage will hold either. There's being soft-spoken and there's being spineless and not defending your soon-to-be wife from her family by "keeping out of it" is one of the most spineless things I've seen a fiance do. Your woman is being gaslit and treated like shit and all you can muster is being annoyed at her being so "stiff" at the worst and keeping out of it at the best? And all of this is about YOUR wedding too? What kind of "support" is that supposed to be? Just makes my blood boil... be a man and defend your damn woman.
@yomuva.
2 күн бұрын
OPs man a punk 😭
@Pittbull13
16 күн бұрын
Manipulation at its best
@virginiamosier9115
24 күн бұрын
Your mother and sister were way out of line. They should be very ashamed after themselves. All their drama didn’t break you. Have a good future. You can forgive them but never forget that you are the most important person in your own life.
@carollykins9475
7 күн бұрын
The background video is distracting.
@cei1948
26 күн бұрын
Everyone sucks here
@TanishqJoshi-jf1ip
26 күн бұрын
Man i am interested in parkor
@ri-rose6965
12 күн бұрын
IDK fiance is giving me sus vibes. He needs to grow a spine and put his fiance first not her entitled sister.
@Cra-Z3Pil0X
27 күн бұрын
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@user-bl2tl8wf6g
13 күн бұрын
the husband of op, i really don't like him. your telling me that cuz your MIL and SIL said it you will cut down on the most important day in your life and console your MIL for it. Nah huge red flag for me, for my fiance i would no contact my family and tell her that i am with you not against you.
@highasheckgaming
12 күн бұрын
God im so happy ive no familial connections, like im incapable of loving my family because they are just like every other person on the planet to me If my mom and sister tried this Sorry not sorry but you're all dead to me, lol
@animegamer501stthelastyeet8
13 күн бұрын
To be honest the original poster's fiance is such a doormat. He sounds so feminine and such a pushover. I don't know what the original poster saw in him but to be honest original poster I don't see you last in long with him and it wouldn't even be your fault. Honestly she needs to divorce him.
@jonathanmartinez8347
28 күн бұрын
Dump the finance. You need a real man who’ll defend you.
@Miz_Velvet
28 күн бұрын
Yea he keep agreeing to the mom when he knows her and the sister is wrong
@jonathanmartinez8347
28 күн бұрын
@@Miz_Velvet well her last update is discouraging. She’s giving her family a pass for the way they treated her. No wonder they thought they could.
@brat46
8 күн бұрын
Your video part causes motion sickness.
@avenger007007
24 күн бұрын
in other words keep your mouth shut and i will do the talking.
@mimiwhite1963
28 күн бұрын
WELL this BS. The mom just wanted to be at the wedding because of the rest of family. The Father was just an excuse. She should have kept them banned. I suspect this channel changed the ending like they do in many of these stories to make it all happy journey. This is it for me. It makes me want to vomit with all the therapy talk with journeys and healing. Real people do not talk like this
@spongeheadred2476
27 күн бұрын
Can yu come up with better background? Are you 12?
@Not_a_flower
27 күн бұрын
Can you come up with a better username spongeheadred2476? Are you 8?
@umagovindarajan4339
28 күн бұрын
Ughhhh!!! 😫 Just dump that god damn spineless of a fiance .. Can't even stand up for his SO nor take any rational decisions letting everything on OP saying, "Whatever the decision u make I will support u " 🙄😏...I'm 99.9% sure as her sister said this marriage won't last ,Call me a witch IDC 🙄
@smsff7
28 күн бұрын
What is wrong with that?
@Cra-Z3Pil0X
27 күн бұрын
Most rational commenter:
@ihavenonameforyou1
23 күн бұрын
If he took action girls will go, he's abusive and controlling. He's trying to separate her from her family to isolate her just like a sociopath. "Just dump him" will be yelled.
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