Preach!!!….i left my ex-husband bc I was miserable. I wanted for NOTHING, but his arrogance and narcissistic attitude was not worth it!! I left and had more peace the first night I left. I slept on the floor of a one bedroom apartment and it was the best sleep I had in years.❤
@alexisagginie4574
10 ай бұрын
Good for you! And I pray Abundance for you as you move forward in peace.
@proudblackwoman4824
10 ай бұрын
Forgive me for laughing but the first sentence you wrote was hilarious lol. I can tell you couldn't WAIT to get away from his behind lol. I'm glad you got out of that. You deserve better.
@Missybella92227
10 ай бұрын
👏👏👏 Like Tony says emotional security over financial security. It’s frustrating how the high earning men claim they want a “good” woman, but it seems like they really don’t. Seems as though they want a doormat that they can treat however they please. Why…because they make money??
@adelante3938
10 ай бұрын
this is beautiful thank you
@lala5061
10 ай бұрын
@missybelle4644 i was with a broke man 18 years, he worked wasn't consistent tho always those temp jobs for electrical and i think he was lying i feel like he was doing something on those jobs and they didn't want to hire him on so i don't know but it was chump change what he was able to give me after everything was taken out so I carried everything basically smh until i got tired...he wanted the same thing tho, they all want the same thing respect and they don't give it when it's the woman doing it because it goes against the order🤦🏽♀️smh... it's just something wrong with men nowadays I don't know the devil got a hold to em...i just want to be single... God gonna have to put a halo around the man and he gonna have to be falling from the sky with prayer hands 🙏🏽 for me to try again...im good 😂 did u get the visual tho bahahahaha 🤣 cracks me up!
@Happinessis_12
10 ай бұрын
A man with CHARACTER is (1) Ambitious (2) God Fearing (Submissive to God’s Word) (Understands life is bigger than him) (3) Emotionally Intelligent (4) He has a Growth Mindset (He wants to get better) (5) He will not yell at you (6) He will not curse at you (7) He will not call you out of your name (8) He will not cheat on you (9) He will not abuse you (10) He will not lie to you (11) He will not deceive you (12) He will not mislead you (13) He will not control you (14) He will not dominate, dictate or domineer
@JermaineThomas4050
10 ай бұрын
" no man's financial level stays the same forever". - TG "Let his character be his currency". - TG
@ieshjust16
10 ай бұрын
🎯
@ericawhitfield7876
10 ай бұрын
I used the second quote for my students last month; Mr. Gaskins has a longer quote with this in it. I help men in a correctional facility obtain their GED. They thought 😮I was mocking them. 🤦🏽♀️
@JermaineThomas4050
10 ай бұрын
@@ericawhitfield7876 🙏🏾. I know what you mean, I have observed women have one word for men who don't listen, follow through, and apply that which can change and save their own life and that is: "men". 🙏🏾 Keep your sanity, trust God for knowledge, wisdom, and understanding for your success and theirs. Trust me, I have always done my best to work hard and apply myself and take the success clues people leave for me. For example, I took the advice of people like Andy Henriquez, Tony Gaskins, Les Brown, Terri Savelle Foy and at least write blogs, self published one book, post monetizable content on KZitem/Instagram/Facebook/TikTok, create products 👕 🍵 on Zazzle - stuff you can't be fired from. Meanwhile, I have cousins and friends who can dance, sing, joke, do sports analysis and won't create the content - they're so good that they would be financially free - but they're too busy shying away, being skeptical, and caring that a future job wouldn't hire them.
@JustDoRight
9 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@TiffanyNicholeCatley
10 ай бұрын
You are correct. Just like men shouldn't expect a woman to be working, doing all the cooking, cleaning, and child rearing. Women shouldn't be expecting to contribute nothing or bare minimum. Teamwork is the best way to go!
@portia547
10 ай бұрын
My Mentor in college once told me, “your income will one day match your character” 🌸
@Intuitivelyspeaking13
10 ай бұрын
I know I'm leaving here with something when Tony on the line 😅😅
@Chinkyeyes49
10 ай бұрын
Yes!
@genevas
10 ай бұрын
Chasing money in men actually ends up putting women last. I used to chase money primarily out of fear of recreating my upbringing. I ended up in a situationship with a man with money, but who was comfortable lying to me and crossing my boundaries. It’s good to desire to life comfortably with your husband, but your character as a woman should be one of warmth, growth and not entitlement. Yes, he can take care of you, but making him feel like it is a choice for him and not something forced upon him is important too. I was forcing him to spend on me to make me feel secure, little did I know that if he genuinely liked me in the first place, he would have done it on his own, and would have advocated more for me being my own boss. A successful relationship cannot be built on money only. Thanks for this video Tony
@lashlori9287
10 ай бұрын
Men with receding hairlines...E.D and a gut...always judge women the hardest....lol
@NanaLionessofJudah
10 ай бұрын
Broke in spirit is way worse to deal with in a long-term commitment. If you, instead, get with a hardworking man with character, the money will go up. I've experienced it.
@tiffanyavery5121
10 ай бұрын
I love this: “Character brings favor.” I need this quote on something in my office. Thank you Tony. 👏🏾
@vickeyprince3701
10 ай бұрын
Tony Gaskins is a rare voice of wisdom in today’s society. If you truly pay attention to his teachings you will get the message that will truly transform how you live and view life and love. I have so much respect for this man !! may God bless you, Mr. Gaskins
@ITSCRYSTALRENEE
10 ай бұрын
These men have no character and no money 😅
@trinigirl7846
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂girl. Dats a whole other conversation. Out here is rough
@shariahp3321
10 ай бұрын
honestly money is not the problem it’s the character 😅
@Jigglypuffpuffpass
10 ай бұрын
I agree character is more important than money…but why are black women the only ones constantly told we have to take care of ourselves 1st to prove we deserve a provider.
@m3g0mia
10 ай бұрын
I feel like self-love should be a top priority outside of GOD. Overall health is vital. Although black first. I know tony doesn't single black women out. He speaks in regard to ALL WOMEN. He may bring up scenario as you may already know. This seems more in regard to society standards/trends/pandering. That has been a narrative in our culture and towards our culture for years. But the masses arent conforming in order to change that narrative. We are our own worst enemies and still the most hated by many.
@Alpha_apex
9 ай бұрын
Your problem is you believe what you said. ALL races of women wk before a man comes along. The only difference is other races of women build with the men their with. While you complain about doing that very thing.
@marvaedwards1719
9 ай бұрын
Any woman should be able to take care of herself because a man can divorce you, desert you or die on you. If he’s sick, are you going to starve? Worse, what about the children? Come on Sis!
@DaronJonestv
9 ай бұрын
White men are saying the same thing about their women. You need to search KZitem. This is an American issue. Where do you think the MGTOW movement originated? White men.
@socol76
9 ай бұрын
Nah….us white women get that message too.
@Healerslightnlove
10 ай бұрын
PREACH LOUDER!!!! Delusional!!! Some women must understand that the life you want is different from the life you deserve. FOR YOURSELF 💯❤️
@blacksongbird100
10 ай бұрын
It's not so much about the life you deserve as much as you prolly ain't earned it. It's delusional to think you can get what you haven't earned.
@NanaLionessofJudah
10 ай бұрын
I agree. It's not about 'deserve'. There's wonderful, deserving people who haven't been financially successful, but to have that expectation without working for it usually comes from the wrong place@@blacksongbird100
@jj-fe6hz
10 ай бұрын
Hey Tony, you made some very valid points. The dating advice these days is for women to beautify themselves (focus on skin, fitness, beauty) so that men will want to provide for us and that includes a luxurious lifestyle to make women's life easier. That "building" together with men emasculates men or that any men who says they want to "build" with a woman is a feminine man. I have also heard many stories of women who have built together with men, struggled during their lows and worked through everything together only to have the man leave her for another woman ( younger, prettier... like an upgrade). That instilled alot of fear in women these days when it comes to wanting to "build" with men. I mean no malicious intent in my comment, but genuinely want to understand and learn to navigate in this complicated dating world. I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Thank you and God bless
@takeadarko8192
10 ай бұрын
💯
@nawi332
10 ай бұрын
This!💯
@taylorspastpresent1014
10 ай бұрын
That’s when a man’s character comes in to play. It should come before anything else. Who is he when no one is watching? Fear can cause us to make decisions that hinder us. In college I had a mentor tell me fear was False Evidence Appearing Real Fear of a man leaving can’t be the reason for not getting into a relationship. I understand what you’re saying too. ❤ It’s important to involve God in everything we do.
@jj-fe6hz
10 ай бұрын
@@taylorspastpresent1014 I appreciate your reply. I do agree that the man's character will come to play but I think a person's character when they are still building vs. when they finally are successful is not something we can easily judge until the time has come. I thought I should add to the original comment that what I meant by this line, "that instilled alot of fear in women these days when it comes to wanting to "build" with men," is that because of this fear, more women then chooses to seek out men who are already able to fully provide or are already successful (without having women to build together with them). So it's not that the fear causes women to not get into relationships, but that this fear causes women to then seek men who are already successful and do not require women to build along with them.
@deebow8927
10 ай бұрын
There is a lot of misinformation out there.. Evaluate his character and values first, then money. Ask yourself, is he a genuinely good person who treats people well and is working hard to improve himself? Also reevaluate what you want. Are you seeking a “luxurious lifestyle” because it’s trendy or because it’s what you actually want? I understand not wanting to be poor and struggle but you can live a great , comfortable life without luxury.
@sativadivact9892
10 ай бұрын
This is probably my favorite video of yours… our minds have been so warped by social media .. a real man of character is priceless! Invaluable! And women miss that mark daily …
@mentoringmatters
10 ай бұрын
Crazy that this needs to be explained. Tony has soooooooo much patience.
@businessdevelopment4834
10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@oscarescobar4478
10 ай бұрын
Not every person understands these conversations is definitely not for the ignorant.. great content 🙏🏾
@ieshjust16
10 ай бұрын
🎯
@susanhenderson9739
10 ай бұрын
You’re absolutely correct!!! 👍🏽
@BlancaRosa79
10 ай бұрын
Tony’s videos have been on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. On point on point on point!!!!!! Can’t get enough, keep them coming pleaseeeee
@flyyygirl87
10 ай бұрын
“How about your edges?” I almost dropped my phone 😂😂😂. I enjoyed this video so much. TY for offering this much needed perspective.
@beefaye6861
10 ай бұрын
😂 grl I was on the floor...cuz mine sho snatched...
@flyyygirl87
10 ай бұрын
@@beefaye6861 😂
@christineporter9914
10 ай бұрын
Ikr I laughed so hard myself when he said that lol 😂😂
@LoLoL095
9 ай бұрын
Its TRUE tho!!! I have a friend that looks absolutely cray. Dry skin all the time, hair hardly ever done(crunchy edges) but makes over 100k and says she can not date a man that makes less than 100k. Mind you she says no men approach her. Ok guryl lol keep waiting for the fairytale
@SAnderson54
10 ай бұрын
I love you Tony, but why must we compromise when I know so many women who have character AND money!?!?!
@queenkeesh8660
10 ай бұрын
Because some men with money let’s it goes to their head
@TonyGaskins
10 ай бұрын
The man didn’t always have money.. and if he did, you don’t know what she puts up with behind closed doors. It’s women ready to end it all but showing the world a smile.
@elatquotes7725
10 ай бұрын
I always look at a person character because that is very important in a relationship. A person character speaks volumes. Tony you is on point with this one.
@AVG336
10 ай бұрын
Excellent video. Many of the women that strictly looking for men with lots of money have never had lots of money themselves.
@lorettawhite2790
10 ай бұрын
Im praying that God will pour out a blessing on the Gaskins family, that they will have to make more room to receive it!!!
@millicentstollenwerck5239
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for this message Tony, there's so many young and beautiful women with this mindset that needs to hear this.
@parilynn
10 ай бұрын
Honestly, some women feel like this about men & money because of men's shady character. Women now feel like hey, if he's going to cheat, use, abuse, & mistreat me, I at least need to be living comfortably. Most men aren't like you, Tony.
@CharrrN1
10 ай бұрын
I agree with most of what you are saying Tony. Thank you for sharing truths. However, the only thing I want to caveat is that some women just don't want to build with a man/build him up when they are themselves already very successful because of childhood trauma. They may have grown up in a single-parent household where their father was not only absent but did not financially contribute. So, to them building with a man may be a scary idea, as there is a possibility that they may switch up on the woman even though the woman has stuck by them when they were low/ in the trenches and helped them build. I have seen this happen first-hand. Yes, I know a lot of people will say it is not a guarantee a man will do this and it is true, I believe God has better in store for me and my life. But it is absolutely worth mentioning that underneath SOME of these women's 'demands' on a man (when they are well established themselves) is just them trying to protect themselves - that is it!. They may want to trust but are just apprehensive about it, that's all. I am a 30 year old virgin & sometimes I wonder if after all the trauma I have experienced I be able to give it to my husband. - Anyway, I believe God is a healer and a restorer of all wounds!
@m3g0mia
10 ай бұрын
If they are still suffering from childhood trauma, they should be healing, not looking for any man.
@CharrrN1
10 ай бұрын
@@m3g0miaincorrect, some things need to be worked through within marriage. It is very stupid to walk around and thinking a man/woman can be trusted so let me build them up financially if they are not there yet. In the Bible it actually calls us to LOVE people but NOT trust them. - psalm 118:8 - Micah 7:5-6 - Isaiah 2:22 . Pick up your Bible and read it. Trust is built over time, it is not to be given straightaway, and even then a true character of a person may not be known - only sensible people recognise and understand that.
@breonac2343
10 ай бұрын
TG is so blunt and I love it. He don’t sugar coat anything!
@Ms.Peanutthequeen
9 ай бұрын
Plenty of men try to marry women who have money, because they want a certain life style!
@Alpha_apex
9 ай бұрын
Because they are masculine women. Masculine women attract softer men. Just like a masculine man attracts more softer women. Its just mother nature working.
@Ms.Peanutthequeen
9 ай бұрын
@@Alpha_apex , because they are feminine men! Did you read the comment!
@Alpha_apex
9 ай бұрын
@@Ms.Peanutthequeen it seems u didnt read mine. Go back and read
@123gollc9
10 ай бұрын
Tony I look forward to building with a man. But realistically I know so many black woman that elevated a black man, helped his Buissness , gave him ideas, did so much just to get left or cheated on. Black men have because very treacherous to the point it’s getting dangerous. You have to know who you can build with and don’t do anything too soon. I would love a teaching on WHEN to start helping a man build.
@erickalucas5660
10 ай бұрын
Amen !!!! Sad you even have to explain this 🤦🏽♀️real women already know this
@sherryarmstrong4101
10 ай бұрын
I have never desired a man to take care of me, but I desire a man that knows his role in a relationship. I believe in working and having my own money. I have witnessed where the man was the bread winner and that woman got dogged out, disrespect, cheated on and beat up. She ended up divorcing her husband yes she got alimony, but it wasn't enough to sustain her lifestyle. So as a 55 year old single mother of 2 adult children and 1 grand daughter I learn to hold my own. And, if a good man comes in my life and help me, I would consider that to be a bonus. One the other hand if he walks out and leave me, I promise anyone I WILL BE OK.
@lorigovi718
9 ай бұрын
Exactly! I agree. I'm a Mexican-American 51 year old single, childless woman. Growing up and to this day, I have never desired a man to provide for me either. I can't even fathom that. I love holding my own and having my own. However, if a man comes along and wants to sit me down, I will count it a blessing. 😂
@EverJacobs
10 ай бұрын
Thank you Mr Gaskins your advice has literally changed my entire life & I believe God is working on my fiance too! God bless you & keep the videos coming!!!!
@mollesmart
10 ай бұрын
I love how your eyes light up and the smile creeps in when he sees his wife. That is so priceless. That is so amazing.
@Isa-Amor
10 ай бұрын
Building with a man is risky. Once they level up they will go get what they really want.
@freckledfacedbeauty151
10 ай бұрын
Very true
@sbrooks904
10 ай бұрын
marriage is risky. life is a risk. put up or shut up.
@Isa-Amor
10 ай бұрын
@@sbrooks904 yup a risk I'm not willing to take at my big age with a grown man. Been there. I'm good😊
@angelamoore261
10 ай бұрын
Amen Tony I just shared this video with someone who needs it
@lavonnepatterson1327
10 ай бұрын
This is a word today!
@sidehustlevikki1066
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom! This is what women need to hear bc most of us don’t even understand what we asking for
@profmj7630
10 ай бұрын
Well said... God fearing and good character will always be attractive
@jazminecarson
10 ай бұрын
I think we as people are underestimating the dating phase. This is why we have to TAKE OUR TIME to get to know a person. We cannot lead with one single trait and use that one thing as to why we are deserving to be with someone. We aren’t entitled to people and have to stop dating with an entitled spirit. A lot of people simply want to show up with their lead character but don’t want to contribute any actual value to the other person. I think men and women are a lot more alike than we are different. We all want to be seen, loved, respected, and valued. Character and humanity are not gender specific. Thank you Tony for all you do! 🖤🤎
@brittanyb5942
10 ай бұрын
I agree with this!
@natashiaformley8348
10 ай бұрын
Well stated !
@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely
10 ай бұрын
💯
@TeeW215
10 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this message as always…I really do think the Key is to look for good solid character vs money in a man…Men with poor character have boatloads of money too but abysmal crappy characters and the women that seek men of certain means end up with guys like them and they treat them exactly like Tony said…property and transactional …that’s miserable….
@annettesolomon1347
10 ай бұрын
If they didn't know now they know. This was a much needed message. I'm so glad I understand and know this.
@tiffneykhadijah
10 ай бұрын
Brother Tony, you are making this so plain and easy to digest for us grown mature women of character & love. Thank You. Appreciate you for this message.
@flawcoaching
9 ай бұрын
Thanks Tony for your wisdom! ❤ with growth and time women will come to understand there’s nothing more valuable than character 💯
@roxiwilson4842
10 ай бұрын
I just wonder if they know being “sat down” with children and taking care of a man is ALSO a full time job that not everyone is cut out for? Let me tell you, as a mother, I know for a fact I wouldn’t wanna stay at home all day with no kids 🥴 Saying that to say, sometimes the life that you think you want is actually the life you’d least enjoy.
@blacksongbird100
10 ай бұрын
Tony, thank you for breaking it down even further. I understand this and agree.
@danyellg3079
10 ай бұрын
I appreciate you spitting all the FACTS Tony but your wasting your breath with these very woman who cares less about character! They value money over it and we see it each and every day!! I’m just happy I care less about money and more about character!! Gods Will I be blessed with a man who has character, compassion and who loves God as I do. 🙏🏽💯💯
@NaomiRGlee
10 ай бұрын
You better make it plain!!! If you want a certain lifestyle; then you should create it 💯.
@momma2for2
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing correction cuz these women want the man to bring all this to the table and they can't afford have that crap their self preach teach and tell'em
@carlottaberry6527
10 ай бұрын
That’s it! You be teaching! Holy Spirit, speak! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@itstimefortea4582
10 ай бұрын
Great points! I couldn’t imagine having a husband and not seeing him daily. I hope most men/women develop this same mindset and become realistic for once in love & relationship.
@susanhenderson9739
10 ай бұрын
My dear Tony “Religione”.. “Money doesn’t matter it’s their character.” A rational “Thinker” has a remarkable “Character.” It’s within the heart that matters…Love life with honesty and delight!! 💯🎉😊👍🏽🤗
@lessagrowth6898
10 ай бұрын
I glance every so many months at your messages, I'm married and toss my husband out without blinking. He's chasing, improving and praying to Jesus like crazy. I wasn't easy when he mat me, so what was he thinking after-the-facts. You are so correct it's scary. U got to keep those legs locked 🔒....lock legs, less drama. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.💯....I don't care how fine a brotha is, because he's fine don't mean he's KIND.
@kimberlyturner820
10 ай бұрын
Did y'all wait til marriage to experience your first sexual union?
@lessagrowth6898
10 ай бұрын
@@kimberlyturner820yes.... We basically grown up together. Married young and he was rape by a jezebel at 13 years old and she followed through -out our marriage. God directs me to him to get out the grips of her evil grasp. He better now, but it was hard work and affected our marriage greatly. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. He's was a lot younger than. Sometimes it's the things they entertain before you. I hope that answers your question. 🫂 Praying for our Men. He still is my best friend only, but I won't sleep with him. Allowing God to direct even now.
@tiffineyena7001
10 ай бұрын
Hey Tony. Thank you for clarity on what exactly a man of good character is. Another great video. 👍🏽 🙌🏽 P.S. Not the fupa & edges. 😂
@LadyAngela678
10 ай бұрын
Amen. Ive always told myself to not expect what I cant give myself or what I am not.
@EvaVas03
10 ай бұрын
Tony is so right my MedTech job just had a merger. New CEO for a month and he got Terminated the day before Thanksgiving and I'm a little person but still have my job. Character is key this will give you insight on to a good man. Character in yourself and children if you have any. Also if your children Character speaks for it self men will see that as well. It gives representation on who the PARENTS are! Blessings
@123-u1x8m
10 ай бұрын
I hear you tony however if women working too ,it does seem like women doing 4 jobs( financial, childcare,house care and support her men)while men doing one(financial) on average. Involved father and men doing doing housework(without being ask) is NEW therefore its not average. However there been massive increase women(in the west) financial aslo provide in the household ( some not by choice as cost super expensive). So thats why many women of today (more educated, more independent, have more rights etc)are not satisfied in reduceing his burden while he doesnt even try to reduce hers.
@aishawilliams5933
9 ай бұрын
I needed this ! Thank you ! I thought my mindset was archaic cause my mother taught me to build with your man don't choose a man that has everything. This is confirmation that she was right.
@ulricka2131
10 ай бұрын
Tonybis 100% correct. Caracter is so so important!!!
@mariahtolliver
10 ай бұрын
Hopefully I’m married by 50, but I would not want to have that mindset about a man at 50, goodness
@lala5061
10 ай бұрын
It don't matter if he a earner or broke they both expect the same thing from a woman...character and his morals and God are the only thing gonna set him apart...that broke dude still gonna want to be in control 😂 and u gonna be like shut up 🙄 I pay for both of us dummy 🤣 don't do this ladies 🙏🏽 just be single and wait but don't sit around waiting go on about your life still u know what im saying?
@alexisagginie4574
10 ай бұрын
Thank you, thank you and thank you for ALL the lessons you share with us. And you know what, all or most of these stories are in the Bible. We are all made with a Brain that Reasons and Calculates. We have eyes to see and ears to hear!
@sp4rkle81
10 ай бұрын
I needed this message, just wrote something about love in my diary and your message resonates. Thank you Toni ✨
@susanhenderson9739
10 ай бұрын
Keep writing and reading… Keep moving forward excellent one…
@sp4rkle81
10 ай бұрын
@@susanhenderson9739 thank you, I will, beautiful soul
@MWisdomWisdom
10 ай бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS. MONEY iSNT EVERYTHiNG.
@manoniemoments
10 ай бұрын
Not endless Tory Burch sandals.😆😬
@tha161
10 ай бұрын
So true, I learned about losing lifestyles after getting a divorce. My whole world changed 😂😂
@ericawhitfield7876
10 ай бұрын
My lifestyle improved after I got a divorce!! I was in debt. I’m almost out of debt now. No, no children; I didn’t ask for alimony either. 😂
Almost broke my thumb clicking to watch this video 😂😂😂 LET ME KNOW TONY!!! 🗣️🤣
@Chelle1Love_
10 ай бұрын
It says in the Word the wife is to be the husband helpmeet. If the husband is doing his work, it gives the wife to do her part. Lastly, we also have to understand there is a difference between character and personality.
@robincain5287
10 ай бұрын
Appreciate this message! GOD BLESS !
@lanam7497
10 ай бұрын
First gotta have a man of character.
@cjrddic3548
10 ай бұрын
❤ ❤ A. PERSONS ACTIONS WILL SPEAK FOR ITSELF (MYSELF ) ❤ ❤
@VirtuousWoman1143
10 ай бұрын
ITS NOT FAIR !!!! BUT ITS OK FOR MEN TO EXPECT US TO SHARE OUR LIFESTYLE. THE DEVIL IS A LIAR !!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sbrooks904
10 ай бұрын
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@tifftalk783
10 ай бұрын
People don't understand sacrifice and that's why they can't get ahead
@JP-hy2ix
10 ай бұрын
Very powerful brother ✊🏾
@minielaurent3285
9 ай бұрын
Absolutely true Tony !!!!!!!! Preaaaccchhhhh ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tulip4169
10 ай бұрын
Money does not mean he’s a good person.
@MargueritaLee
10 ай бұрын
I agree with what you’re saying but I also know this goes for men as well who are involved with women who are making more money than them. And to get cursed or called out of your name in either instance should never be accepted just because you don’t agree with the other person’s opinion. If the requirement someone has is not equivalent to the relationship that is best for you, then walk away.
@TynishaTalks
10 ай бұрын
Do you think these dynamics are different for a woman who has her own money wanting a man with just as much or more than she has? Meaning she is self-sufficient and can fund the lifestyle she desires.
@inettawalker9387
10 ай бұрын
I think they are. We women should have our own money, bottom line. A man that doesn't want his woman to work sees her as a threat because she doing what she suppose to do. MEN will tell you that they want to take care of you not knowing you will end up having to quit your job because of his insecurities, get treated cause he's the man now and basically dance to his music. You will be broke but he won't. He'll be out and about like you use to, but you won't. Everything you did for yourself has ended because he lied. He don't give a damn about your feelings or nothing else you got going on cause you're on his time now. His character is what you are left to deal with and he'll say of that's too damn bad.
@m3g0mia
10 ай бұрын
@@inettawalker9387not all men. In many cases, this is true. But there are plenty of homemaker who are living peaceful, healthy, loved, happy and are successfully unemployed without power struggles and financial abuse.
@inettawalker9387
10 ай бұрын
@@m3g0mia I see. I think I want to be single for a while.
@mwright0428
10 ай бұрын
No I don’t think it’s any different. IMO women who want marriage and a family want to work less at some point. And in order for her to be able to do that and be comfortable, she will need a husband with character and the traits that drive him to make more. So its cool that y’all make the same and you don’t need his help per say but in marriage that’s gonna change and both people need to be able to know how to move if money gets funny. Just my thought
@sabriadupree1767
10 ай бұрын
This word is 🔥!! # facts Tony
@gabbymiller9107
9 ай бұрын
I learned this the hard way. The money will come, my ex made 30,000 when we met and 80,000 4 years later and continued to increase. The lesson is to have that mindset of partnership and helping to build and not have your hand out. If you don’t get it, you’ll feel it. Thanks for the videos, painful truths for sure.
@ianmorrison5474
10 ай бұрын
Many well-off, rich men have periods/years of decline in their lives. Their wealth over their lifetimes can look a bit like a wave formation, similar to markets. I guess the best woman is one that will be by their side through the good and bad times, to the end.
@evelynE153
10 ай бұрын
🧏🏽♀️Thank You kindly, for Your Sharing Your Knowledge….freely here🫡🎬
@momma2for2
9 ай бұрын
And some of them tricks are trying to get the man to continue to fund that lifestyle that they don't even qualify for that's dumb
@queenkeesh8660
10 ай бұрын
That’s true I want more time then money more of a family man long as he jus not sittn on the couch comfortably while I’m busting my but workn I’ll be there and I’m stick beside him if he wants to move up n company or make his own business as I’m looking to make my own business for something I love as well
@thebarbieinvestor5428
9 ай бұрын
I so appreciate this talk
@carlottaberry6527
10 ай бұрын
Jesus!!! 🔥🔥🔥
@nomessnostress
5 ай бұрын
Its broke and miserable ppl too
@judithsakala4944
10 ай бұрын
Preach sir! Preach Tony 🗣️🙌🏾
@BlancaRosa79
10 ай бұрын
Agreed 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯.
@victoriajackson6997
10 ай бұрын
This is so true Tony!
@veearies181
9 ай бұрын
This is so true
@tequila1816
10 ай бұрын
Thanks again Mr.Tony
@Jay-i4s7b
10 ай бұрын
😂 I knew tony was gonna follow up.
@reallifetopicsrevealed7295
10 ай бұрын
*My best male friend told me to, "ALWAYS have a man around that cares about you because some men look at women and children as prey." Thank you for your wisdom, I'm praying for us all.*
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