Personally speaking, I quite "hate" the word 'move on'. It's so painful. In the breakup process, one person has pitilessly moved on. And what about the other heart-broken person who is left behind, and who is still struggling to mend things. That word 'move on' really pierce the heart.
@shea88barbie
4 жыл бұрын
Roshan Nunhuck yes it hurt so bad when my ex and my supporters would tell me to Move On like it was so easy to do. I wasn’t ready to move on or give up. But ultimately I realized I had to move on to be happy & healthy in life. Prayers helps & seeking God
@mireyaluna9073
4 жыл бұрын
Sadly, that's how things are, if someone leave and doesn't wanna come back, why keep them? It's better to let go and look forward the future. I know it's hard, I have three years trying to forget my ex husband but I realize that, now that he has a girlfriend, that I have to let go and use the words "move on"
@Houstonbeach
4 жыл бұрын
I disagree.
@Lora7890
4 жыл бұрын
My current situation.. He is living his life with full happiness.. And i m crying all day & night.. I wont love anyone anymore
@obuyaachieng3827
4 жыл бұрын
You can't reward negative behavior, no matter how much it hurts 😉😉
@ImaQeen37
4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I listen to this as I found myself saying I need to move forward but didn’t understand the concept thank you .
@dennisray8904
2 жыл бұрын
I still love her very much 💔
@MJ573
4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant, Coach Adrian! Very helpful perspective as I've felt this "move on" thing doesn't address the issue well, and hearing it from Ex, she doesn't get it! Moving forward I can do. Moving on, well, to me it's like pretending the past didn't exist, didn't mean anything...
@bananabread888
Жыл бұрын
“Create a new identity that’s separate from the breakup itself” absolutely…. Evolve into something better for yourself
@mihailsashev3679
2 жыл бұрын
Coach you and the rest of the team help me with each day to feel better and better. I don't feel sad or angry or disappointed. I don't blame myself because I know 2 persons destroy one relationship. I try to be more positive and I am. I have my bad days like everyone. But the good days are becoming more and more. We were in LDR. I will see her in 1 month. She is in a rebound relationship that doesn't bother me. I know she is in love with me and I love her..but i need to be better for myself first and then for the others around me. You people here you coach Nat, Alex and the rest...you changed me..so thank you. Keep fighting the good fight coach
@reneevalenzue7a154
4 жыл бұрын
Coach Adrian! I’m sure you’ve given me multiple advices through out each phase of my break up and I just want to update you on where I’m standing in my break up process. My ex came back into my life, she tells me how proud she is of how much I’ve grown and is good with keeping a friendship. What really grew between us is our faith with god and how active we both became individually that ended up intertwining with one another to attend church together. However, as much as I want my ex back and cherished this friendship; I can’t forget how much pain and suffering I went through. I think about how she emotionally cheated on me, how quickly she went into a rebound relationship, how quickly she left me and knew how much it affected me, how i almost failed nursing school, how I mentally lost myself. I was able to heal a bit after 6+ months but now she believes she can all of a sudden come back into my life and keep me only as a friend. I let my emotions affect me again during a church event because I got jealous of multiple guys hitting on her. I knew I had to handle myself and understand she isn’t my gf anymore. So that night I told her I need space and haven’t fully forgiven her. It was a sudden decision and she was surprised that I chose not to see her anymore. She wanted to hug me but I denied; she left saying “I hope you forgive me one day”. I know I’m on her mind because she called her friends about me but apparently she has no plan on trying to fix this. I don’t know what else to do to have her want me, I have continuously worked on myself, worked on being a better me, thought she would want me back at this point, but she strictly wants to be friends. What now?
@boxerxx951
4 жыл бұрын
I chose to end the relationship once and then I realized I was wrong and that I loved her so much and she love me so much. I hope one day we can be together again
@bananabread888
Жыл бұрын
I think for me the most difficult part is accepting my toxic traits and the other person’s toxic traits, allowing forgiveness to be present and loving them from afar
@martamanno22
4 жыл бұрын
first step is actually it is about accountability and then resilience thank you Coach Adrian
@sumitasarkar2767
Жыл бұрын
You are the best
@bethrutherford95
4 жыл бұрын
I have a kind of relationship anxiety (ROCD); I've had it for a long time. Initially it appeared in fearing I didn't love my ex, but when he expressed doubts a year in, it then became a fear of being left. He did eventually leave me but came back after 3 months. We were together for another 2 years after that, but he left again just a month ago. I feel like I have no idea how to maintain a relationship. I see my flaws and how my anxiety affected my ability to be happy. It's hard having that sense of self awareness because it causes me to blame myself. I also have a very active inner critic that tells me I'm pathetic for letting him leave me twice and still now considering a reconciliation, and that if we were together again, I could never be happy. He takes responsibility for the break up, saying that he can't give me what I need (never put enough effort in to seeing me, causing my already extremely anxious/insecure state to worsen). He told me also, after I asked if he still loved me, that he did 'in a way', that he wanted what was best for me, but not how he did in the beginning. I feel so betrayed by his inability to be frank with me sooner, I believe he feared my reaction - I lost so much confidence in my perception of the situation. I also, of course, lacked trust in him after the first break up, fearing that it'd happen again and I couldn't trust his commitment. That turned out to be a valid fear, as evidenced by the second break up. I am rejected, confused, betrayed. Angry at myself for still feeling and caring for him. Confused about what it means to move forward, and if it could ever be possible to achieve happiness in a relationship with this person when there are so many problems I feel unable to solve alone. Of course I don't even know if he will come back again, but if he did, I'd want to know where I stand on it all. Sorry this is so long. I know this isn't all the information I could provide, but do you have any insight Adrian?
@bananabread888
Жыл бұрын
This is my motto for the next several years lol MOVE FORWARD/MOVE ON
@christopherbooth9514
2 жыл бұрын
Wow this makes a lot of sense. Thank you so much
@bananabread888
Жыл бұрын
Validating the past is important like yes that happened but it doesn’t have to define your future. For me my biggest downfall is reminiscing which isn’t healthy.
@detmera85
4 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my ex bc he wasn't taking care of his mental health and there were a few instances where I had to call the police bc of his irrational behavior. I have done no contact for a month now and we do have a kid together, we go through his mom. When should I resume talking-to him for our sons sake? He did finally get help and has taken our son for every other weekend. He has reached out to me and saying things like he loves me and misses me. I ignore him.He accused me of cheating for many years. I never did that. He was pretty much blaming me for what his ex did in the past.
@icingprincesstx
4 жыл бұрын
I adore your videos. ❤❤❤ im ready for this topic!
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching Bee! - Adrian
@icingprincesstx
4 жыл бұрын
Adrain I love you!
@andreajauregui2480
4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more. These videos have helped me through this very difficult time. Covid and my whole breakup. (All in the same time) The isolation away from my family and friends it was hard. Breakups and moving on is never easy but these videos HELPED SO MUCH. THANK YOU.
@makenziehernandez7919
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Coach Adrian , My boyfriend and I of 2.5 years just broke up two weeks ago. We are best friends and both parted very emotionally. We can't imagine life without each other but our relationship has been so rocky for the majority of the relationship for a couple of reasons. I have two kids and he has always struggled to commit to the idea of that familial responsibility. He has always said he just isn't sure if he can ever commit to that but that maybe one day he would be able to. We are in our mid and late 20's. The second aspect is that he struggles to trust me. In the first 6 months of our relationship I emotionally cheated and he has never been able to move past it over the last 2 years. While the initial break up was so heartbreaking two weeks ago with a lot of questions and hopes that maybe one day it would work out I received a text message from him a couple of days ago. In the text he stated that these have been the hardest two weeks of his life, that he will always care about me, that he loves me so much, but that we can't be together if we want to be happy. He told me that he just can't move past his trust and jealousy and that it would be hard for him to commit to the family life I want as it is but that he doesn't see it being possible because of the issue with trust. Then he stated that we need to cut off communication and that he hopes one day we will be in a place that we can at least speak to each other. When things don't hurt so much. Coach Adrian, I love this man. I want to do everything I can to make it work. But I wonder if these issues of lifestyle commitment and trust are things we could even work through. Please tell me if I need to let go or if I should work to reconcile.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Makenzie Hernandez, if you want him back, you need to strike a delicate balance. You need to separate the life you used to have with him and the life you're about to have without him. When he tells you the usual words of "i love you but I can't be with you," etc. etc. (something almost every guy does at one point or another), simply smile, and gracefully say "Ok, I understand." Show him how unaffected you are by it, and keep moving forward with your life, showing him that you don't need him to be happy. The goal is to show him that he's not the center of your life, he is something that enhances your life, like sprinkles on a sundae, or salt on steak. YOU'RE the sundae. YOU'RE the steak. Once he sees how great you're doing without him, and once he sees that there is another man willing to step up, he's going to change his tune. TRUST ME! - Adrian
@celenathetrinigirl
4 жыл бұрын
And what does ‘moving on‘ mean? Dating someone else?
@MaldonadoPR787
4 жыл бұрын
Please make a video of a woman that is seeing someone while in a relationship and leaves u and moves in right away with the other person, monkey branch please it’s so hard to have this in my life
@bananabread888
Жыл бұрын
18:41 breaking up is rough but yeah that happens. Once it comes down to breaking up that’s what I’ve experienced, it’s normal
@destinysmith1282
4 жыл бұрын
It’s been almost a year since our breakup and shortly after our the breakup he was with someone else. We didn’t speak for 4 months, I went into radio silence and now we’re talking again. He’s still with this other person but tell me how much he misses me, tries to take me on dates and tells me he still loves me; wants me to stay at his place but is still doing things, taking trips with this other woman. From videos. its said is good to be friends with an ex to cause some tension in their rebound relationship and build on our attraction and connection but at what point should I start pulling away, I don’t want him to feel he getting the best of both worlds and things just stay like this.
@ThePtballa087
Жыл бұрын
I understand, thank you.
@tanyaturner7452
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@destinysmith1282
4 жыл бұрын
It’s been almost a year since our breakup and shortly after our the breakup he was with someone else. We didn’t speak for 4 months, I went into radio silence and now we’re talking again. He’s still with this other person but tell me how much he misses me, tries to take me on dates and tells me he still loves me; wants me to stay at his place but is still doing things, taking trips with this other woman. From videos. its said is good to be friends with an ex to cause some tension in their rebound relationship and build on our attraction and connection but at what point should I start pulling away, I don’t want him to feel he getting the best of both worlds and things just stay like this. What should I do?
@marieangeltrinidad8492
4 жыл бұрын
Destiny Smith we are on the same paged!
@rheapangilinan8892
4 жыл бұрын
Hi coarch my ex- boyfriend cheated on me, and left me because I was so busy in working and he thinks i have been ignoring him.. please coach give me some of advise.. thank you
@mireyaluna9073
4 жыл бұрын
If he cheated on you, he doesn't deserve you. If he did care about you he would have understand and not leave you behind. Please know your value!!
@maxcollins9320
4 жыл бұрын
Your videos have been such a survival tool for me so first of all thank you. My ex is with back with her ex, they were together for several years and we dated for several months, she broke up with me a few months ago, however after no contact she reached out and we have been talking more and more,hung out a couple times and even flirting and teasing now, she admitted to me she still loves me and that we definitely have somthing special, she is confused about everything. I think things are going in the right direction but she is still with him, what else can I do? Pleas me help me fight for her
@mariahj1425
4 жыл бұрын
Sir good morning I’m from Philippine but now I’m stay in Japan... thank you for ur advice
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hello Mariah J, hello from Florida! - Adrian
@bananabread888
Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done
@taypribb22
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. I’m struggling with a really traumatic experience with my ex and finding it extremely hard to keep pushing forward. I could really use some advice. Do you have a private chat we could talk about things?
@RT-cy8xg
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Adrian! I made a mistake breaking up with my ex. I was cold and mean towards him and had him move out on Thanksgiving 2019 got in an argument over nothing and injust wouldn't let it go I was frustrated and so much going on in life that I wasnt thinking about us..we were still together in my mind i saw him mid December had a great weekend with him but then Sunday he went back to his place and I kept being cold and mean. :( he tried to spend time with me etc. Then January 3rd I just told him I was done until he gets his things straightened out...he was devastated..he said if hes not going to be with me hes just going be alone and focus on his stuff. I was mean. Then within 24hours I said I made a mistake I dont want to break up but I was emotional and dramatic blew his phone up etc. He refused to see me as he didnt want to fight etc. He told me on the 7th he still loves me and he needed time to think because he doesnt want it go back to the way it was. I probably pushed him away from being needy and dramatic and freaking out :( now he is seeing someone they started dating or talking the last month he said and she treats him well and cares and loves him and they are going to get married... so then a few days later he told me we could start and take things slow not rush things be friends and see where it goes, he doesnt want to go back to that... I agreed I dont want to either. We have kept in communication almost daily through text. I kept asking and bring up our relationship and how I've been working on changing and I know and acknowledge my faults. I stopped talking to him after he didnt respond it lasted about 48 hours until he reached out to me... i kept that first text back short and sweet. He intiated the following mornings for next 5 days, goodmornings, through the day and in the evening asking how my day was etc. Then he stopped on Thursday I reached out he responded then I reached out again Friday and then I went back to asking him if there was someone else do we have a chance at rebuilding.... he said things like we are on a break so we can both date he said right now hes ok with that. I said I dont want to date anyone else. A few days later I asked him do we even have a chance anymore? He said I'm sure in time maybe I'm just trying to get my stuff straight before I can move out again or I'll end up back in the same spot. He said hes not jumping into anything relationship I have to get my stuff straight. Then the next day I brought over a birthday gift that I already had for him photo engraved watch and pocket knife.. I felt like he needed to see me..so I knocked on his door and we talked for 1.5 hours he was real stressed he looked like he was going to cry we hugged talked he said he doesnt know what to do he doesnt want to hurt this new person she hasnt done anything wrong he doesnt want to hurt me hes not sure we can fix things.. I hurt him. So he texted me good morning the next day and thank u. We talked a bit a few days later he told me his head is a mess he doesnt know what to do doesn't want to hurt anybody. He said he didnt think in would ever change didnt think I liked him or was happy...I said I tried to tell you and he said how was I supposed to believe you changed that fast. He still cares about me doesnt want to hurt me he doesnt know what the future holds he said it's not serious she recently put a title on it he said he isnt going to just hurt her because I changed now I had a few years to do it and then he said I'm asking him to forgive and forget fast and this is his 2nd relationship that he was in that made felt worthless at times which is some emotional damage. The next morning (valentine's day) he said "you keep asking me to make a decision right now I cant just snap my fingers so I dont know what you want me to say right this moment" he bought a 200.00 gift at a jewelers that day :( I have not contacted him since Friday night since he didn't respond to my last text.
@priyankalolljowaheer5036
4 жыл бұрын
What happened afterwards ??? Are you guys together?
@g_waggs85
4 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend broke up with me because she said “she does not deserve me. I am too good for her.” She suffers from depression and told me she thinks she’s bipolar. She told me that she suffers from family codependency. She does have a lot of issues with her family and I can see how much it affects her. I know she needs space but at the same time I want to comfort her because I know how sad she is. I have not contacted her because I want to respect her wishes on giving her space. The last thing I told her was that I love her and I am here for her if she needs me. I think I am doing the right thing by not contacting her, but I also feel a sense of guilt for not trying to comfort her while she is going through hard times. Should I continue to not contact her or is it ok to check in on her?
@weareblackopsiii6368
4 жыл бұрын
I’m in my no contact period but since day 3 she has added other boys on snapchat and she is talking a lot to them.. what does this mean and what kind of influence has this on her feelings for me ? Or will it work against her in the near future ?
@rimaniaoum
4 жыл бұрын
My ex is getting married after 20 years with me. He told me he was dating but In fact he was engaged with this woman. He stopped taking to me completely in March 2019. Will I ever get him back. ...we got a divorce in November 2018😔
@yesno6817
3 жыл бұрын
im sorry about that. that sounds really painful. please stay strong ❤️
@mysterychemical
4 жыл бұрын
I need one advice, I texted someone who used to reply occasionally but friendly. I did ask her multiple messages kinda question or compliment type(not like pickup style)which she did see but didn't reply multiple times and there was so many messages and not replied to. And now she unfriended me. Now her birthday is near. And the question is should I wish her on her birthday and say that this will be last message(really last message) and I will not be annoying her with new messages or should I just not message her anything at all from now on?
@mireyaluna9073
4 жыл бұрын
I've been fighting the urge to text him. He has a new girlfriend now, and I know it's not a rebound because we have three years separated. I lost my dignity by begging and pleading. But I have some left and I AM NOT going to contact him. I would like to be friends in the future but I rather focus on the present. Still I've been stalking his profile, I can't stop! How can I kill the hopes that I have about going back or him just wanted to text me? To kill that fantasy. Thank you
@vickyy.9880
4 жыл бұрын
You're not alone. I caught myself begging and pleading with my ex as well. Even worse ive been by his house several times and we work together. I understand that it is extremly hard to kill that urge to text. How have you been dealing so far?
@salomekaldani5861
4 жыл бұрын
PLEASE HELP!! My ex is studying with my two closest friends. Those friends got super close to my es's new girlfriend. They are all the time together and going to places like we used to do.. I didn't only loose boyfriend but also friends... I am super desperate.. I can't function properly.. my friends also believed a horrible gossip about me ( that my ex's new gf told them). I really need your advice.. please help how can I deal with this constant rejection and fear of failure...
@gabbyastacio3261
4 жыл бұрын
Love advice tv, I really need your advice. I hope you can respond back to me soon. So idk if u guys got my last post, but my ex and I haven’t talked in a while. We were in no contact until Friday night that we saw each other. Anyway, long story short, he thought I was blocking him from getting with other girls, telling me he moved on and everything. But I did something stupid. I got drunk and when a girl was like wondering how we know each other, i told her he was my ex and I guess he was trying to get with her. And also we danced on each other for a bit and he says that he wasn’t trying to but I honestly didn’t think much of it. When he got off of dancing w me, I moved on to the next guys. But then at one point, he tells me to be careful and I go like why do you care and he said he wasn’t going to get into it so I moved on. Then today he calls me, just to argue with me about that. Like omg what did I do? I broke no contact because I answered the phone right? Like all we have been doing since the break up has been arguing. He and I haven’t been treating each other well but we give each other space, but every time we talk, we have been arguing. Like he has moved on, I have tried to move on. I haven’t given him any sense that I want him back no matter how much I do. Like what do I do to get him back? Why does it feel like it’s over for good? What do I do?
@Lora7890
4 жыл бұрын
We had several breakup..in june we had a no contact period of 1month..then he reconnected with me..in december 1 i had done a mistake..he told me that i wont change..yes i know i showed him my tears,my neediness, i have also lost my self respect..he told many bad words in 1week ago..then i reached out to him,but he is not interested in me anymore..what should i do know?
@emmajones8792
4 жыл бұрын
My husband had an affair and left. It’s been a few weeks of no contact about our relationship (only about joint finances). We have been civil. Today, After about 2 weeks of this partial no contact, he suddenly wrote me apologizing for what he did and said if he could turn back time he’d change it. He then said he’d always love me. Then thanked me for a great time together. I suspect he is probably still with his affair. What does this mean? How should I respond?
@dannyboy9212
4 жыл бұрын
She broke up with me because she said that she doesn’t trust me anymore and can’t forgive me for lying, and said I should just let her go, and that she still loves me, she is the love of my life..what do I do now?
@brandymb20
4 жыл бұрын
I found out yesterday that my ex of 5 years is engaged to the woman that she cheated on me with last December. It is mind boggling as my ex hasn’t left me alone at all and tells me that she misses me and all that bs. She Contacts me non stop, even blocked she finds ways to contact me. She just called me last night and I answered not expecting it to be her. She said she doesn’t understand why we can’t be friends! I don’t know what to do. I just want to forget about her existence. I thought about sending her fiancé the texts and pics etc but that’s not something I feel comfortable doing and why should I do her any favors when she knew my ex and I were together when she was cheating on me with her. Any suggestions?! I just want to move on with my life!
@paoisy2883
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Coach Adrian, can you make a video on how to know if your ex girlfriend is testing you on social media? One of my friends briefly brought her up today and said that she posted to her snap story “if we used to talk, HMU. I miss you.” And I’m taking it with a grain of salt. I’ve been in no contact for almost 40 days now and that’s the first time I’ve heard anything that could show maybe she misses me.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Paois y, focus on creating good content on your social media for your friends, family, and other connections. It's a good way to stay busy and distracted from thinking back and forth as to whether you should hit your ex up or not. Also, it shows your ex that you have a life, and one that's probably a lot more fun than hers! - Adrian
@paoisy2883
4 жыл бұрын
Love Advice TV Can you make a video on how to get your family to approve of your ex a second time? And vice-versa?
@aarongohr915
4 жыл бұрын
I have been watching a lot of your videos. So I decided to write today. On July 7 2019 my girl broke up with me while I was on vacation with her in Poland. I live in the US and she lives In Ireland. I made a few mistakes after the breakup like texting her and never called her. She deleted everything like Facebook and messenger. And blocked me on everything. I haven’t said a word to her since. I wrote her a letter in October and that was it. I have been working on myself and staying away from social media. I need someone to talk to.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Aaron Gohr, do you need someone to talk to about the breakup or someone to talk to in general? - Adrian
@aarongohr915
4 жыл бұрын
Love Advice TV yes both
@ericdesjardins8363
4 жыл бұрын
My ex split with me because of her ex causing issues I just sent my ex a note saying I need space and build myself up and goodbye was that wrong to do
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey eric desjardins, no it wasn't wrong, but you need to stick to what you said and show her you're a man of your word Sincerely, Natalie
@ericdesjardins8363
4 жыл бұрын
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity thanks I will I feel like a big weight is gone off me I do love her and miss her dearly but she needs to know I am strong and i am looking forward now im doing a bit better
@safiahooda8093
4 жыл бұрын
Hi, please could you advise me on my unique situation, I was with my ex for 1 year and a half but we broke up a few months ago because I am struggling with my mental health and his mum is terminal so he is broken inside. We have said if it’s meant to be it will be but I don’t know what to do, I have tried implementing no contact but he is going through such a tough time I don’t know what to do or how to go about things
@safiahooda8093
4 жыл бұрын
He is still showing interest and I don’t think he wants the pressure of a relationship and he has said if he is in it he wants to give it his all and he doesn’t feel he can right now
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Safia Hooda, how is your mental health? Are you working on that on your own? I think he wants to see you focus on that more than you focus on him. I know that's what I would want - Adrian
@rickishamalone2201
3 жыл бұрын
I got some questions 🤔
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reaching gout, Rickisha. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Adrian
@preethinair6116
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Dan, My ex girlfriend still loves me but she's dating someone else. We are in talking terms, In fact we talk everyday. What am i supposed to do now? I want her back..
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Preethi Nair, what's preventing her from leaving her current partner? - Adrian
@monicak4426
4 жыл бұрын
What does it means when my ex changes his posting behavior? He never posted anything until the breakup. Now he is posting so many storys and sometimes his instagram account is private than public, he change it a few times a week and last week he deleted instagram
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Monica K, I think you're trying to gather too much information (more than there actually is) from your ex's social media. Don't overthink it! - Adrian
@monicak4426
4 жыл бұрын
Oh okey:/ Thank you for your fast reply!:)
@Mrhimanshusrivastav
4 жыл бұрын
Hi coach adrian, need ur suggestion, I m recently got separated from my ex girlfriend, she loves like crazy, she did everything to save our relationship, we are long distance, but is was just not ready to committ to her due to some foolish reason, I hurt her very badly and say her to move on, but now when she moved on I feel like crazy , her separation ripped me apart , I just feel very bad what I have loose . Now even frnds are telling me to move on but I cant , I hate this move on words u r right they dnt understand the feelings . Every day reminds me of her suffering which she has gone through, I wish to god to give her happiness , I know there is no chance for me now but I still hope to have her . I m trying to move forward but move on I hate this word.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hi himanshu srivastav, does she want to be with you? - Adrian
@Mrhimanshusrivastav
4 жыл бұрын
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity hi coach, as I have done enough begging and pledging, from last 2 months, I dnt know her wordings to me are when she was depressed I was not there , she wait for me till September and when she was suffering the new guy was there to take care of her , she has respect for him now and she dnt want him to go from her life , she said to me between me and her is done, only I can be her friend if I wish to, but I am sure she is hurt from me , and she has all rights to say this , but the reality is I really want to be with her and give her the real gentleman love for her entire life . She is telling me it's too late now , but I now she still has some feelings for me. Also need to ask u should I do no contact of 30 days , which honestly I dnt think so as i neglected her before.
@roshannunhuck7170
4 жыл бұрын
Time is a great healer bro. Keep courage and have patience. I can understand your situation and feelings. I've been through that recently. Got separated from my better half about 9 months ago after 8 years of togetherness. But healing comes gradually. Let go. If she is meant to be yours, she'll come back. I know it's painful. But have faith. Love unconditionally.
@Mrhimanshusrivastav
4 жыл бұрын
@@roshannunhuck7170 I know time will heal me but she is a very honest lady , and you know once u hurt a lady it's very difficult to change her mind again . I m just keeping hope that she s gonna do it but another side of story is it's almost impossible.
@weareblackopsiii6368
4 жыл бұрын
My ex girl keeps contacting me after a week and even wanted to see and hear my voice while she came back drunk after a party.. what does this mean and how do i get her back ??? HELP
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
4 жыл бұрын
Hey WeAreBlackOps III, take it slow. Court her. Seduce her. Let her make an effort to show you how much she is sincerely interested in getting back with you. Have fun with it! And keep it light :) - Adrian
@weareblackopsiii6368
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. but she broke up with me.. i decided to go no contact but she keeps reaching out during the weekends while being out. She posts quotes about “being strong on your own” etc. I don’t know what to do with it...
@rickishamalone2201
3 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my ex she moved on tht very next day 🤣 she’s mean and disrespectful so I got tired and left she all on social media posting pics acting like she in love after 2 weeks and she blocked me from everything now I just don’t understand we definitely broke up plenty of times because of her but I’m just trying to figure out how and then she act like she just don’t cAre at all my ex very very mean and negative because she’s talking to someone I was reaching out before then I stopped but she just like move on and she in denial about moving on but it’s on social media she like mind your business I don’t owe u and explanation at all we not together after a few days I just don’t understand she gave the new person my Xmas gifts but all this stuff hurt but how to care things with this situation bi need answers
@rickishamalone2201
3 жыл бұрын
Typo I need answers
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reaching out. Please visit kzitem.info/news/bejne/k3-Gp3dqiIWjnYo to understand how to get unblocked. Coach Adrian
@rajisma3199
4 жыл бұрын
He just vanished I cried because I love him now broken heart
@GhillaineCortez
4 жыл бұрын
He broke up with me ,because he said we need to grow,so he left me and say goodbye,after our broke up ,,I found out that he and my best friend have intimate relationships, and now they been together its really suck I feel very painful but what should I do.
@patrickgallegos1435
4 жыл бұрын
Move on never look back. Majority of the time I say you should try to get back with someone but if it was cheating or seeing a close friend that's not right.
@reneevalenzue7a154
4 жыл бұрын
Coach Adrian! I’m sure you’ve given me multiple advices through out each phase of my break up and I just want to update you on where I’m standing in my break up process. My ex came back into my life, she tells me how proud she is of how much I’ve grown and is good with keeping a friendship. What really grew between us is our faith with god and how active we both became individually that ended up intertwining with one another to attend church together. However, as much as I want my ex back and cherished this friendship; I can’t forget how much pain and suffering I went through. I think about how she emotionally cheated on me, how quickly she went into a rebound relationship, how quickly she left me and knew how much it affected me, how i almost failed nursing school, how I mentally lost myself. I was able to heal a bit after 6+ months but now she believes she can all of a sudden come back into my life and keep me only as a friend. I let my emotions affect me again during a church event because I got jealous of multiple guys hitting on her. I knew I had to handle myself and understand she isn’t my gf anymore. So that night I told her I need space and haven’t fully forgiven her. It was a sudden decision and she was surprised that I chose not to see her anymore. She wanted to hug me but I denied; she left saying “I hope you forgive me one day”. I know I’m on her mind because she called her friends about me but apparently she has no plan on trying to fix this. I don’t know what else to do to have her want me, I have continuously worked on myself, worked on being a better me, thought she would want me back at this point, but she strictly wants to be friends. What now?
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