Exactly, you know I once read something that really touched me (It mentions Christianity but I think that it applies to everyone) and it goes like this: Abortion is the exact opposite of the gospel, the gospel says I'll die for you, abortion says you'll die for me
@fight_or_fightdarwinsshelf6443
8 жыл бұрын
+Anthony Lynch We all have to make difficult decisions, the best we can hope for are people to not cast stones at our hardships. To not prod at our faults. You can have your beliefs, and if you so choose to harp on those who dont follow sue, keep the mean comments to yourself. Your God preaches this. Take heed and follow.
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
Oh I absolutely agree, life is difficult, I'm not casting stones at anyone, it's not even a religious thing, the tragedy is that in a lot of cases such as this one, the murder is out of convenience, and don't let anyone mislead you into thinking that abortion is anything but murder, that doesn't mean it's not a difficult choice and often as in the case of rape victims it's one that seems to be the only alternative, that doesn't change anything, a baby whether born or unborn is a human being
@ekatt2157
8 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's more about speaking up for the most innocent person in all of this; the baby boy or girl who could be anything...and instead is sentenced to death....it's heartbreaking...
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@NatBom97
8 жыл бұрын
people are so annoying... if you want to have an abortion, get one. if you don't want to get an abortion, then DONT. women have a choice to do this or not.
@alexisrojas8635
8 жыл бұрын
Every woman has the choice ! But think about it this way if you have unprotected sex not wanting to get pregnant USE PROTECTION! It isn't that hard ! You have to take the consequences of laying down. If you aren't financially stable to have a kid DONT OPEN YOUR LEGS SIMPLE AS THAT. ( not directing this towards you just in general)
@NatBom97
8 жыл бұрын
+alexis rojas of course! if you don't want to get pregnant, use some form of birth control but birth control doesn't always reliable. so I think, women should have that option.
@donsmith4516
8 жыл бұрын
+LAADI KAY Just because you have freedom of choice DOES NOT mean what you choose to do will be moral or ethical. We ALL have choices in life. You have to make choices every single day. Some people make choices to be complete dirtbags does that make it right? No. Just because something is legal to do does not necessarily make it the right thing to do. Unless of course you are a dirtbag with no morals.
@NatBom97
8 жыл бұрын
+don smith you don't have to agree with anyone's choices because they made the choice for themselves, not for anyone else.
@donsmith4516
8 жыл бұрын
+LAADI KAY Oh I see, so rape or murder is not agreeable OR disagreeable because the offender made that choice for themselves. That's brilliant. Your comment is a morally bankrupt statement.
@chez066
6 жыл бұрын
I am reading through the comments of this video and I think it is interesting how all the hate is directed her. There is no mention of the boyfriend who was quick to mention abortion without making sure she was ok first. He shared equal part in the conception, but he is not held accountable. Nevertheless, I can't imagine what it would be like to be in that situation. I can tell the decision was hard for you and I think you made what you thought was the best decision, and that's all you can do. You are very brave for sharing your story, and I think you will help other women going through similar circumstances.
@jackrags6984
6 жыл бұрын
chez066 - something to think about, if she went through with the pregnancy he'd have to pay child support, so don't say that men aren't held accountable
@ramywiles
6 жыл бұрын
Jack Rags Because men never skip out on their families?
@monkeymind3067
6 жыл бұрын
we have school giving sex education and at home parents and we also have lots of contraception available to us Hence why she got into such situation and fuc*ing up her body
@guitarttimman
6 жыл бұрын
I hope you don't confuse presage and sharing advice as being hate speech! On the contrary, advising others to break away from destructive behavior that causes torment is an act of love.
@dashmatt7445
6 жыл бұрын
I blame her, society, her friend, her boyfriend, and the abortion clinic. Mainly the abortion clinic and society.
@kasdfg776
5 жыл бұрын
NO ONE knows what this is like until they have gone through it. NO ONE knows what anyone else is going through personally. This is a very personal ordeal.
@hayleywood2597
5 жыл бұрын
You are so right everyone says i would never do it untill your in that situation yourself you can not judge as times in your life can be difficult feel for her know exactly what shes going through it sent me wacko for years it took me years to get over it x
@CUTE-tk7xi
5 жыл бұрын
hayley Wood yes but most people actually don’t do it when they do they won’t ever do it I get she felt like she had no other choice some are like that but people who truly don’t believe in that ACTUALLY will not do it
@aaliyahallen-sellers3547
5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, they just need to shut the hell up.
@aaliyahallen-sellers3547
5 жыл бұрын
hayley Wood that’s true. i never in my life thought i would get one but i did. Because it was the best for option for me, and i was using protection and everything. Things happen y’all.
@bellarose9746
5 жыл бұрын
@@aaliyahallen-sellers3547 the reason you had an abortion was it because you thought people would judge you or the fact that you just didn't want to deal with a child birth? "Because you know adoption is an option"
@gracewalter8209
7 жыл бұрын
So she willing killed a child. I'm not sorry to say she was never raped so she willing had sex without protection. That was her own fault. So she killed something that was not apart of her, that baby was something inside her. It wasn't her body. It was the babies. So I'm just saying my opinion on this. It was her fault that baby died.
@HermesChain
7 жыл бұрын
Grace Walter not a baby And she tried to have protection she was on the DPo shot if you actually watched the video It's not her fault she got pregnant
@emmarilieee2966
7 жыл бұрын
Lauryn Hendry she chose to have sex and she knew it wasn't 100% that she would not get pregnant
@HermesChain
7 жыл бұрын
Emma Bury sex isn't illegal She also chose to abort that was her choice and her choice to make as a pregnant female
@HermesChain
7 жыл бұрын
TheComment YouScrolledPassed lol don't comment me He said and I quote "Abortion is a right right and there are bigger things happening" he's all talk he won't do shit
@HermesChain
7 жыл бұрын
Jared Adams children are dying in wars started by man and being abused helps them and stop whining about something that isn't a child but a cluster of cells and not in your body. She's a free girl DEAL WITH IT. "Want to choke me" you pro births are such hypocrites
@michiqc7171
8 жыл бұрын
this is so wrong in so many ways. i am against abortion all the way!!! it isnt the baby's fault she was being irresponsible. if you're not ready for a child then practice abstinence! how would you like if your parent wouldve aborted you? or your brother or sister? there are so many families out there who would love a child but cant have one!! this is sick!!
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@michiqc7171
8 жыл бұрын
+Luke47895 she said herself they weren't using condoms. everybody knows birth control isnt 100% effective so yes she was being irresponsible. if she wasnt ready to have a child then she shouldnt have opened her legs. period. a baby has a heart beat by 6 weeks of gestation. being a mother of a beautiful baby boy and having gone thru 2 miscarriages, i would never consider an abortion. a woman has a special bond with a child from the moment he/she is conceived and for a woman to do such a thing is pure evil. how would you consider hurting an innocent child who has no fault of how he/she was conceived? im not even speaking based on my religious beliefs, im speaking out of morality. so many people want to adopt. so many people that would love to bring a baby home and raise him/her like their own. why not give that innocent child a right to life, why not give him/her a chance to live??? this is pure cruelty!!
@Luke47895
8 жыл бұрын
Michi Q Condoms still aren't a 100% protection against it either, that's the whole point, no form of birth control is a guarantee. People enjoy sex, it's the reason why our species has multiplied so quickly. You can't expect people to go without until they're married and have a stable job, that's unreasonable. I'm not trying to minimise you having a miscarriage, a family friend I know had one a few years back and it was a horrific experience. That being said, her having an abortion isn't her flicking the v's at women who have had a miscarriage or who are unable to have children it's not a personal thing. You talk about it as if it's a child at that stage, it's a foetus, a potential life. It can't think or feel pain. Are you honestly saying that a person who gets an abortion is the same thing as a person who murders a new born baby, or a child? If so you truly a twisted perspective. Okay, so morality, is any more moral to have a child born into a broken home that would possibly suffer abuse, and be unwanted? Then be chucked into a care home for more potential abuse. Then after all that shit be sent to a foster home with more possible abuse to adults who just want the state benefit cheque of raising a kid they don't really want. Don't come at with me nonsense like that's so rare and it hardly ever happens. It happens all the time in the care system. There's already more than enough children in that sorry situation right now, why add more to it? She wasn't in any position to have a child, it wasn't intentional, she didn't get to the clinic with a smile plastered on her face laughing while it happened. You can see from the look on her face it still haunts her. There's no cruelty at work here, the foetus can't feel pain, or even know it's alive at such an early point.
@calebtruth1941
8 жыл бұрын
+Luke47895 OH MY GOSH ABORTION IS MURDERING A FUCKING HUMAN
@calebtruth1941
8 жыл бұрын
+Jim Scalling oh why thank :) you but thats killing it though right
@zanaopacak7799
7 жыл бұрын
She sometimes regrets not having that baby but then she remembers that she travelled the Europe that summer so thats fine wow
@ChloeSanders111
7 жыл бұрын
Leah Germanio Campos cry a river. It wasn't your decision anyway so shut the fuck up
@michellem8760
7 жыл бұрын
D Silva .......she was on birth control, but I guess you didn't listen to that part. Convenient.
@d0ttiej
7 жыл бұрын
and the boyfriends that responded with "Abortion, right?" seriously wake the fuck up and stop just shaming the females.
@michellem8760
7 жыл бұрын
D Silva You're absolutely correct!! It was her responsibility, that's why she took responsibility and terminated her pregnancy. Because she was not ready for parenthood. Hell, I'm not ready, and I'm a married women. My husband and I never want kids, so if we ever have a slip up, you can bet termination is probably going to be what we'll decide.
@egagnon9994
7 жыл бұрын
Leah Germanio Campos, Are you even capable to comprehend that some women just DON'T WANT CHILDREN?!... Because you are born with breasts and a uterus doesn't automatically means you feel the maternal instincts... I never wanted children myself and I knew this even when I was a little girl... I don't hate children but I don't care for them. Don't feel anything when I see a baby... What would have been selfish of me is to go and have children even though I don't have any maternal instincts to "fit in" just because society says a woman MUST feel that urge to have babies, a woman MUST have babies otherwise she is not "normal"... I take the necessary precautions not to get pregnant and I never had, but no birth control method is 100 % safe. So does that mean that I should have never had boyfriends and sex? That I should have stayed single and practice abstinence my entire life?!...
@slcutcher
5 жыл бұрын
I'm sad for you that your boyfriend was so unsupportive and that you felt this was your only option. I hope you aren't still with him. He doesn't sound very nice.
@allydef
5 жыл бұрын
S Sykes That’s what I was thinking too. She deserves someone way better.
@allydef
5 жыл бұрын
Joe Noyes She didn’t do it to be evil. She aborted because she was terrified and felt as if it were her only option. Also, her boyfriend wasn’t supportive and, in a way, coerced her into getting an abortion. So please don’t judge or hate, only wish her the best because it’s obvious she’s sad.
@deanjameson5916
5 жыл бұрын
Most high school boys go from girl to girl ever two or so weeks..... Oh fuck I'm starting to sound like an in cell or a god danm white kight
@treehuggermc1
5 жыл бұрын
@@joenoyes9199 You have a lot of hate and judgment in you. I will pray for you.
@kristilelionis829
5 жыл бұрын
Joe Noyes what you are pointing out is not facts but your opinion. You can disagree with someone without being disrespectful.
@galinilivanov3660
6 жыл бұрын
That boy is not a keeper for sure
@YourBooBooRose
6 жыл бұрын
THEY JUST WANT TO F... BUT NOT TAKE ON A RESPONSIBILITY.
@nialldecourcey2470
6 жыл бұрын
You do realise it's down to both parties involved to make the decision. If you get pregnant because you are too lazy to use contraception then you have no one to blame but yourself in my opinion.
@Uvas83
6 жыл бұрын
@Bri Zack correct!!
@iamcasihart
6 жыл бұрын
@@nialldecourcey2470 Here's the thing: ➡ I don't give a damn *HOW* and/or *WHY* and/or by whom a girl/woman is knocked up/pregnant. ➡ If said pregnant girl/woman wants an abortion, *NO MATTER WHAT the reason(s),* she should have access to a reasonably priced or financed procedure (but preferably, at least partially covered by health insurance). Whether a woman had sex with her long-time boyfriend or her husband...whether a woman had sex with *1* man or *101* men...whether a woman was on birth control, used condoms or sometimes used either/or, or never used either, or if there was somehow a mixup...or if a woman was raped (by a stranger in a violent assault, or a "date rape," in which she clearly indicated she did NOT want to have intercourse & she relented, closing her eyes-holding back the tears-praying it would just *be over soon.* *NO MATTER WHAT THE REASONS - NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES - NO MATTER WHAT, HOW, WHY, WHATEVER: A WOMAN SHOULD ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYSSSSS HAVE ACCESS TO LEGAL ABORTIONS IN A SAFE, COMFORTABLE, COMPASSIONATE ENVIRONMENT!!!* No one "likes* abortion. But it is a medical necessity. I am so damn sick, tired & pissed all the way off at this misogynistic, anti-woman, woman-hating bullshit puritanical rhetoric meant to shame women & control women! Women are entitled to enjoy their bodies, embrace their sexuality & engage in *ANY KIND* of sex that brings them fulfillment, pleasure, joy & more! Men do it EVERY FUCKING DAY. Women deserve the same rights...Speaking of rights, if men could get pregnant, you can bet your sweet ass that this would not even be an issue! Men would have abortions & they'd fight for their rights. Oh, and another thing, if health insurance covers all of these stupid medications to help with lackluster or altogether GONE erections (aka: meds designed to stroke the already fragile male ego), then what in the hell are so many idiots up in arms about having a woman's birth control meds covered??! Or my bio-identical compounded hormone cream, which my insurance does NOT cover, costs me nearly $50 a month. It helps my overall health & it also improves my libido, making for greater desire, better sensation & more satisfying sex with my man. 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
@nialldecourcey2470
6 жыл бұрын
"It's down to both parties involved to make the decision" Ring any bells? Nothing I said was misogynistic. If you accidentally get pregnant because of not bothering to use birth control then why should people be patting you on the back and calling you brave? It make zero sense. Same the man involved, knowing there's a chance that a woman can get pregnant but still going through with it is just naive from both the man and the woman. I believe woman who have medical conditions or rape victims should have a right to an abortion but not woman who can not be bothered to use birth control. Please change my mind by telling me why a woman and man who are having unprotected sex should have the right to abort their child because it was a "mistake". Also as just a side note why turn to abortion when you can put the child up for adoption? At least it can have a chance at life that way.
@eveaunna1494
5 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this when i was about 8 or 9 weeks pregnant after my i got kicked out after telling them i was pregnant and i didn't want an abortion ,i was thinking about them and how they felt and i almost let that get to my head .. knowing i really didn't want an abortion .. this video is the reason i didnt have an abortion. Because i knew how hurt i was gonna be.. my baby is 1 month and I'm so glad and thankful for my desicion .
@monicajohnson3544
5 жыл бұрын
Chula Baby love that 🖤
@jasonwade8066
5 жыл бұрын
great decision and best wishes for you and the baby.
@sarahcresap
5 жыл бұрын
Chula Baby - That is wonderful. I watched this video about a year ago and it had a profound affect on me as well. So many people are not told how traumatic going through an abortion is. Abortion is not a reset button. It is one of several very difficult options for someone in a difficult position. I appreciate the honesty in the video.
@eveaunna1494
5 жыл бұрын
Jason Wade thank you
@eveaunna1494
5 жыл бұрын
Mom .... very. True it was running through my mind like crazy, its a decision that has to be made quickly witch is also so unfair , but i just kept thinking to myself. I just cant this lil human is gonna be apart of me no matter what .
@isthisthekrustykrab4895
8 жыл бұрын
You are very brave for sharing your experience. I respect you so much for having the courage to make a decision like that. Women should have the a right to their own bodies, it's the woman's decision, it's her body and her life. Sometimes women don't have a choice because of their situation or health. And anyone who criticises women for that should feel ashamed.
@donsmith4516
8 жыл бұрын
+Rose LIFE Real courage is taking responsibility for your actions. REAL courage would be accepting the fact that your actions have led to the creation of a new life and stepping up to the plate and raising that child, no matter how "inconvenient" it might be, to the absolute best of your ability. THAT is courage.
@LogarAcc
8 жыл бұрын
+don smith In medical ethics, we learnt: "Two people can't have the same rights inside one body, without one of them having their rights stripped away". And guess who's the one who SHOULD have those rights.... it's WOMEN. I know, crazy right? How could women ever dare to ask for the right to have autonomy over their own body, and NOT enslave themselves to the misogynistic belief that an incomplete organism has more rights than a full human being?? We're talking for literally a parasitic organism who wouldn't even be able to live without the woman's body. Also, you're treating pregnancy as a punishment for women who dare to have sex for their pleasure.
@donsmith4516
8 жыл бұрын
+Msl LogYt Then explain to me who gets rights and who does not in a case of Siamese twins? Secondly, believing that it's wrong to murder an unborn child is in no way a "misogynistic" belief. Simply because you think it's misogynistic does not make it so unfortunately. Thirdly, I am in no way treating pregnancy as punishment and never said that it was, those are your words and obviously your beliefs not mine. If a woman chooses to have sex merely for pleasure, more power to her but if that pleasure seeking turns into a pregnancy then the woman should show personal responsibility for her actions by not killing her unborn child. You obviously see abortion as a way to escape that personal responsibility.
@alexiahartzell4055
8 жыл бұрын
+don smith Soooo what you're saying is if I get in a car and drive and someone crashes into me it's my fault because I chose to drive that day? That I should then not be allowed to fix my car? And then because of that have my body messed up for the rest of my life? That's reasonable. I'm not saying everyone should have an abortion, I'm just saying that no one period should get to choose what others do with their own body.
@lostleftleg
8 жыл бұрын
+don smith 1) your siamise twin comparison (or analogy??) is way, way out there, vague and sloppy (age/pathology/viability... what kinda med situation are we even talking about here??) I can guess at the kind of argument you might be trying to make, but... man, what a mess. 2) "Simply because you think it' misogynistic does not make it so unfortunately" - this also works on the inverse bub. 3) reproductive coercion and forced pregnancy is traumatic to the mother and this trauma has an incredible impact on the fetus - see the long-term effects of cortisol and other stress-hormones - i dont think its a terrible jump to consider enforced pregnancy/labor as punitive. Also, these unwanted pregnancies are not always the result of "pleasurable" sex. again, the whole over simplification thing (if only this world was so easy, eh?)
@kenyagonzalez1072
5 жыл бұрын
I wonder if she’s okay, it’s been so long.
@ahviwe
5 жыл бұрын
Right....
@kayleighmacdonald4962
5 жыл бұрын
Kenya Gonzalez same here
@cathylovesenglishlabradors5029
5 жыл бұрын
No, that knowledge that she killed her own baby, her own flesh and blood.... NEVER goes away.
@itswaytoomucheffort5424
5 жыл бұрын
Kylie Charboneau and what happens if a woman is raped? Quite frankly your opinion is fucking disgusting. I don’t like how they get rid of the baby in abortions but who are YOU to judge the woman??? You sick fuck
@kyliecharboneau5981
5 жыл бұрын
@@itswaytoomucheffort5424 if you support this, your absolutely a freak and a disgusting human being.
@cirquedefreak7329
8 жыл бұрын
I could never get an abortion. It so wrong
@thelynchpin790
8 жыл бұрын
Why?
@thelynchpin790
8 жыл бұрын
I mean, if you want a kid, that's fine.
@cirquedefreak7329
8 жыл бұрын
+Captain Smog I just don't agree with killing a unborn child. I'm pro life and if your pro choice then fine but I don't wanna get in another fight. Fights between the pros are starting to get annoying tbh lol
@chuggaconzoy
8 жыл бұрын
Say that to the motherfucking republican governors trying to outlaw fucking abortions. Males shouldn't even have a stake in this fight, they will never have to carry a fucking baby.
@keithwilson6060
8 жыл бұрын
+Michelle Ullman males are aborted half the time. Men have a say in this.
@chantalsstalker4402
8 жыл бұрын
"If the anti-abortion movement took a tenth of the energy they put into noisy theatrics and devoted it to improving the lives of children who have been born into lives of poverty, violence, and neglect, they could make a world shine." -Michael Jay Tucker #prochoice #kidsbeforefetuses
@chantalsstalker4402
8 жыл бұрын
***** A world with safe, accessible abortions is a better place than a world without them. Women (in countries with legal abortion) are no longer getting botched abortions, no longer being suspected of 'murder' when they have a miscarriage, no longer being forced to carry and give birth to a severely deformed child with zero chance of living more than a couple of days. Less children are sleeping on the streets or in group homes, less children are abused, less women are tied to their rapist for 18 years, and less women are being forced to risk pregnancy and birth related death. Bodily autonomy is a beautiful thing.
@chantalsstalker4402
8 жыл бұрын
***** It doesn't seem silly when women have to rent out their entire body for 40 weeks. Would you support forced blood, plasma, bone marrow, or organ donation to save a child's life? No. Men are never faced with a situation where they are told their bodily rights have to be put on hold.
@chantalsstalker4402
8 жыл бұрын
***** At least you're upfront about your sexism.
@chantalsstalker4402
8 жыл бұрын
***** We are equal. There is never a point in your life where you have to face the mental and physical health effects of pregnancy. You will never have your entire body stressed for 40 weeks. You always have the right to make decisions for your body. Women having those same rights, which includes abortion, is not unfair or unequal. You're missing the point that there will never be a time where you're forced to do something with your body, so there should never be a time where a woman is either.
@chantalsstalker4402
8 жыл бұрын
***** And that's motherfucking bull shit. But, at that same time, abortion was illegal, so both men and women lost control over their bodies. I support abortion, no draft/drafting both genders. Bodily autonomy for all or none!
@TheVildee
8 жыл бұрын
I think it's so messed up that you have abortion clinics in the USA/Canada. Why on earth don't you have abortion as part of the services given by a normal hospital? You would get rid of the protester problem if you acknowledged that this is a procedure that should be done by the gynecological department at the hospital.
@ttenrabdn
8 жыл бұрын
+TheVildee Calgary is in Canada.
@TheVildee
8 жыл бұрын
Danielle Holbrook Oh sorry, didn't notice! I thought Canada was more liberal though...
@xxxTH3summerS3Txxx
8 жыл бұрын
+TheVildee They are... but America is worse :( *this is coming from an American
@TheVildee
8 жыл бұрын
xxxTH3summerS3Txxx :( I think it's scary how such a developed country as America is so far behind in these questions
@jenniebeez
8 жыл бұрын
+TheVildee They are in the hospital and they also exist as regular clinics too.
@coconutshrimp7919
5 жыл бұрын
I'm curious if this would have gone differently if she was with a man who was excited and supportive when she found out she was pregnant
@alexusdumont951
5 жыл бұрын
123abc it wouldn’t have swayed my decision. I always wanted a life of travel and also a career. I was on birth control to prevent this whole situation. Thankfully I live in a place where I had options. I have now travelled quite a bit and have started a career in EMS. I do want kids one day but only when I am ready to do so.
@coconutshrimp7919
5 жыл бұрын
@@alexusdumont951 wow! Thanks for responding :)
@goldytingz8339
4 жыл бұрын
@@alexusdumont951 Glad you know how to be responsible and think about your future
@kamarassakka9922
4 жыл бұрын
1) I don't think it would have gone any different because society has give women God like power. They choose who dies or not. 2) Its not about men, and not even her ex boyfriend. She didn't love that kid and was just waiting for a push in that direction. She had a choice, she chose to kill. Don't blame men on everything thats wrong with women. She aborted because she wanted to go to Europe 3) I am happy for that other girl who is planning out her life, but she should know it doesn't always go her way.
@johnboehmer6683
4 жыл бұрын
@@alexusdumont951 , I'm very surprised to hear you say that, there were several things you said in the video that mildly or strongly suggest otherwise. You state at one point you have no regrets, but in 4 or5 others you talk about crying a lot, that it's been very hard, that you wished your boyfriend would have responded to the news differently, that looking at the ultrasound of the baby was really difficult, I think a few other things too. A lie that is perpetuated today is that a baby growing in the womb is just a clump of cells, no! If that is true then we are all clumps of cells also, but of course we are so much more. It is natural, the bond between mother and child, natural and instinctive to want to protect and care for that child, and this is what every woman that has an abortion struggles with to one degree or another, consciously or subconsciously. It's what I heard you squirming and trying to deal with just in the video alone, and I do appreciate your honesty in that. But I have no doubt that it's been far more difficult for you than what we saw here. With all my heart, I really hope that the same mistake is not made, that you will come to understand that a precious human life is priceless compared to travel or a job. We all make mistakes, the key is always to learn from them and avoid the same thing.I do wish you a great life.
@RandomPerson-ml8ej
8 жыл бұрын
I'm against abortion but all of the hate comments aren't helping anything. It's already done so it's not like your comments will have any affect. Do you see how upset she looks in the video. We all know that there are tons of arguments that people can give FOR abortion and tons of arguments that people can give AGAINST abortion. BUT IT'S DONE. In the video she looks like she could use support.
@RandomPerson-ml8ej
7 жыл бұрын
Wow! I made a comment about being supportive and trying to avoid endless pro abortion/choice debates and low and behold, a debate about abortion breaks out... ironic
@mrsgoogle7930
7 жыл бұрын
Random Person best response I've seen.
@enchilada9546
7 жыл бұрын
"It's already done" isn't a valid argument. We need to chastise awful shit like this to make it socially unacceptable. When you say "oh well it's already happened no point in trying" you are only making things worse.
@wolfyzenly5191
7 жыл бұрын
she may need "support" but does she rlly deserve it? I mean it seems to me that she had pretty much fun getting laid, so why couldn't she had fun confronting the situation she knew she could had gotten into? there's no excuse. if she was young n financially unstable she should had kept her pretty legs shut.
@Joann5
7 жыл бұрын
wolfy Lyall Howls you must be the same person that don't mind getting laid when legs are open huh? so don't tell someone else what they should do.
@dianawellington731
8 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you. You did the right thing. Don't let anyone tell you different. For those who got something to say under my comment, save it because I will delete.
@dianawellington731
8 жыл бұрын
***** Have you ever heard "diseases can not exist in a Alkaline environment"? If so. That answers your statement about the "cure" to cancer.
@dianawellington731
8 жыл бұрын
***** nope. Never have
@dianawellington731
8 жыл бұрын
Three people post comments and two have been deleted. Anyone else want to try me?
@dianawellington731
8 жыл бұрын
***** It makes me a person who delete comments on my own post.
@dianawellington731
8 жыл бұрын
***** same to you
@Bexinmo
8 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure how I ended up at your video (lost in the youtubes, I guess), but I am glad I watched. It makes me really sad how many horrible people are in your comments. You have to do what you have to do to keep moving forward. Best of luck on your further journeys.
@alexusdumont951
8 жыл бұрын
Thankyou. I really do appreciate it
@charlottesworld4464
8 жыл бұрын
+Becki C but she didn't have to do it!
@simplymercyds4458
8 жыл бұрын
+Penguin Pencil! What, are you going to take care of the child? How are you 100% certain that the child will go to a good home and not just stay in foster care???
@mandyschmidt7164
8 жыл бұрын
+Penguin Pencil! but she did. I fail to see your point.
@missk2559
8 жыл бұрын
+SimplyMercyds My mother could have aborted me, but I was adopted at birth by two amazing parents. I am so grateful to be alive because it could have saved my biological mother so much distress. Foster care and adoption are completely different. There are SO many families looking to adopt babies from birth, it is usually arranged WAY before birth.. during the mother's pregnancy.
@RR-yy2xm
2 жыл бұрын
I got my wife pregnant as teenagers, it was a "tube baby" doctor said she had to abort, we were not ready for a baby. we had already broken up. I prayed in the hospital and said to God let it be his will. Doctors could not explain but couldn't abort, my son is soon to graduate from Chico State and I could have not asked for a better son and a better wife.
@bubulynna9927
5 жыл бұрын
Guys...if youre gonna express your opinion, please do it respectfully without trying to tell her how she feels.
@brandiurban5519
5 жыл бұрын
B U B U L Y N N A she put herself out there. She knew exactly what to expect. No safe room In the real world.
@user-se2nq6vo6j
5 жыл бұрын
@@brandiurban5519 The point is to be respectful, because when you shame the other person, they will obviously not be interested in a conversation... And if the people in the comments want to save lives, they have to talk respectfully.
@skelitalmisfit12
5 жыл бұрын
@@brandiurban5519 lol you are what is wrong with this world. Your toxic attitude is unwanted here. Take it elsewhere.
@Johanna-fq5sf
5 жыл бұрын
Why not both? State your opinion in a respectful way about how you think she feels.
@joenoyes9199
5 жыл бұрын
the psychopath commit infanticide and then gets on KZitem to brag about it. She don't want to take any blame for her actions by crying that her boyfriend wasn't supportive but please note it would have affected her life it would have affected her vacation. Pathetic worthless woman she is a psychopath I hope that the spirit of the child and wish she had murdered visits her nightmares. Hopefully the doctor did a good service and removed her reproductive organs so she cannot have a child in the future.
@xxzetsubouxx
8 жыл бұрын
You got your abortion, you got what you wanted. FINE. But to think that it is "weird" to be congratulated on being pregnant? Please do not ever become a mother.
@IDaisyxD
8 жыл бұрын
it was weird for her because it wasn't good news for her.
@Katie-ww8qk
8 жыл бұрын
That was so rude, you obviously don't understand what she meant by that. You should think through what you say before saying such hateful things.
@Mossylemur
8 жыл бұрын
+Katie Fleming hi love your vids JK XD lol LMAO
@a9029k
8 жыл бұрын
+Shiki Nozomu It's weird in the sense that she was 19 years old and unmarried. Never ideal by any stretch of the imagination. Most doctors would not give the news that way.
@Katie-ww8qk
8 жыл бұрын
+XxMagicSlayerxX 1 what?
@babewell433
8 жыл бұрын
I understand your choice and I get that you guys weren't ready to be parents but if you weren't ready why was ya'll having sex? Should've been prepared for everything
@danielab6015
8 жыл бұрын
Agree
@Holligan878
8 жыл бұрын
+babe well You are a moron, people have sex, it's fun and is an integral part of bonding and finding out if you can connect on a physical level as well. She was on birth control, but she had bad luck. Having children should be a choice, neither was she ready for that responsibility nor was she in a good position (not enough money, apparently boyfriend who isn't husband material).
@NumberOneBelieber6
8 жыл бұрын
+Holligan878 i think that maybe you shouldn't have sex in the first place when you know there can be consequences and if you're wanting to have sex then obviously use protection on both women and men? simple. you shouldn't punish the child for your mistakes, its not their fault its yours. its really not that hard not to have sex
@erin5044
8 жыл бұрын
its her body her life her choice now lets say she did decide to keep the baby would you send her money every week for diapers and milk ? i don't think so .. so until you are helping her pay bills you dont have a say so in what she does with her life
@flamboyantflying5981
8 жыл бұрын
+Kasey Renee Shaw Sex is meant to be a part of reproduction, not "fun".
@yvonnelozano20
4 жыл бұрын
Why did KZitem recommend me this video 4 years later
@vegancherry5503
4 жыл бұрын
also for me,! I was looking for how to have a baby in my later years. Then this. As I'm seeking, I see people so easily discarding them.
@purple_amethyst
7 жыл бұрын
unfortunately woman who give their babies up for adoption are judged to. I gave my oldest son up when I was 21. I was treated like shit even though I chose to gave my son life. I was in an abusive relationship and I protected my son from an abusive father. no matter whether you give your child up or keep it or have an abortion people judge you for everything. nothing you do is good enough. but you have to please yourself not everyone else.
@roorooroo368
7 жыл бұрын
Brianna C I'm so sorry you went through that ridicule during such a difficult situation.
@katrand5357
7 жыл бұрын
Brianna, thanks for sticking up for women with compassion. I hope you are no longer abused. People don't understand what goes on in the brains of abusers and those who are abused. You can rewire your brain with methods of neuroplasticity through NLP and other therapies. Sometimes, you can learn how to do so yourself. lilacsinoctober.wordpress.com/2015/09/29/neuroplasticity-changing-my-brain/ talks about her success with it. cryingoutforjustice.com/2013/08/02/neuroplasticity-learning-disabilities-and-domestic-abuse/ gets more specific. It can help explain what happened in your brain and get you started (if you still need to) on creating healthy relationships
@JacobKuba
7 жыл бұрын
Brianna C at least he's alive now
@nancybroertjes5160
7 жыл бұрын
Brianna C I am not condemning you. Thank you for the joy you gave adoptive parent(s).
@lesterspanker
7 жыл бұрын
I personally respect you for making that choice you didn't murder any babies you gave the baby a real chance at life. I'm sorry for the abuse you received no man should ever put his hand on a woman
@alexaw297
5 жыл бұрын
I am personally pro life. However, that does not mean I cannot sympathize with you. I have never had to experience anything like this, but I cannot even begin to imagine what you have been through. I am so sorry you had to go through something this traumatic. You are such a strong and beautiful woman for sharing this video. I will pray for you to find peace, hopefully this video starts you on that journey. Stay strong, you are loved!
@kenyagonzalez1072
5 жыл бұрын
This is such a beautiful comment. I’m pro-choice, though I can see the pain it causes this girl in particular and I’m glad that some people in the comments, even if they disagree with her choice, are still sending her love and well-wishes because it can’t be undone now. She needs the support.
@gortus
5 жыл бұрын
I wish all pro life people were like this.
@alicethefrozenfrog4447
5 жыл бұрын
You are not pro life
@alicethefrozenfrog4447
5 жыл бұрын
A pro life persom think about all babies... Not only their own. So if you think its her choice. You are not pro life.
@alexaw297
5 жыл бұрын
Alice The Frozen Frog I never said that I agree with the choice she’s made. I am extremely prolife.
@KarinaPeabody
8 жыл бұрын
To hear this story it makes me relate to her and I understand her 100%. She wasn't ready to be a parent and at that early age and of course at some point she was going to wonder how her life would be if she would've stayed with it. Hopefully she gets over it, she's still in pain because it's not easy to forget about something like this. What I admire is the support of her mom... I am going through something similar, but my parents don't approve of the abortion, I'm not in a relationship with this guy and unfortunately he's not exalty what you would call daddy material. It kind of comforts me to hear talk about her experience because in a few weeks I could be going through the exact same thing. I really hope that it's all negative, but that won't save me... I'm afraid, I'm terrified, I'm lonely, I'm depressed and so many other emotions that I feel. I prefer to get rid of it, because I'm not ready, and perhaps in the future I would regret it, but I need to sort out my life before I bring another life into this world.
@kaylivargas2695
8 жыл бұрын
Stay strong girl, in the end all you have is yourself. I hope everything turns out okay, I'm going through a similar situation
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
+Kari Grimaldo If you are pregnant, you should go to a Pregnancy Resource Center. They can help. Your friends and family could help. Your unborn son or daughter is not an 'it'. He or she is a human being. Look up fetal development information and read up on it.
@dejahwilliams8041
8 жыл бұрын
the why the bitch had sex
@bekahnuxoll5873
8 жыл бұрын
+myintx she wasn't ready to have a kid, it's the mothers choice. If a woman is getting an abortion they are probably already pretty upset about it, they don't need people like you telling them that they are wrong and that its the worst possible option
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
+Bekah Nuxoll It shouldn't be anyone's choice to kill an unborn child. The girl in this video didn't sound upset. Her mother was willing to help. She wanted to go to Europe. What we need is laws protecting unborn children from being killed.
@madalynlambert9853
5 жыл бұрын
This comment is for all of the pro-life people who are shaming this girl If you don’t support abortion don’t click on a video titled “ my abortion experience” it’s really that simple
@abortedbaby1335
5 жыл бұрын
Hello there.
@kristinapate7604
5 жыл бұрын
Madalyn Lambert I know my rights!!!!!😡 BACK OFF!!!!!! I can have an opinion and state it, it’s called freedom of speech!
@lanaazzo3601
5 жыл бұрын
Kristina Pate I’ve found that people who yell about their rights to freedom of speech are the people who probably should shut up. Just because you can say whatever you want doesn’t mean you should. Saying shitty things still makes you an asshole.
@allydef
5 жыл бұрын
Kristina Pate Rough day?
@camiller958
5 жыл бұрын
Madalyn Lambert period
@skinnylegend1641
6 жыл бұрын
my best friend took a pregnancy test in the school bathroom sophomore year. it came out positive. we kept the secret for a while until she had to tell her mom. fifteen at the time. she was in an abusive on and off relationship. he told her they would keep the baby and he would drop out of school and get a job and so would she. she didn’t want this. her mom took her to the clinic to get an abortion. it was very traumatic she named her child and got a tattoo for it. this ultimately the right decision for her. i was raped when i was thirteen, had never gotten my first period, and found out i was pregnant. my aunt took me to get an abortion. this was the right situation for me. the father would have been a fifty year old man. planned parenthood is very kind. they do a lot more than just abortions. both of these situations are viewed as more acceptable for abortion. but i believe all situations are acceptable. no matter how old or young you are, what your health is, if you were raped or not, you should be able to decide what you want to do with your own body.
@silenceonly4688
6 жыл бұрын
skinny legend how tf can you get pregnant if you never had your period
@dooomeys799
6 жыл бұрын
skinny legend girl listen, don’t agree if you don’t want to, but you killed the baby because the father is bad, why is that okay?
@skinnylegend1641
6 жыл бұрын
halo light you can get pregnant without having your period in certain cases it’s a common mistake girls make where they think they can have sex without protection before they get their period and not get pregnant
@skinnylegend1641
6 жыл бұрын
Model Maker because not only does my age goes into it at the time, but also the fact that raising a child that’s half of the monster who raped you isn’t something i personally could do. i don’t feel regret or remorse for not letting clumps of cell grow into a baby who i wouldn’t want
@dooomeys799
6 жыл бұрын
skinny legend oh well I guess my supporters are evil because I have a rape baby and it was when I was 17 so idk maybe I’m superwoman and you guys Aren’t, no. Stop killing babies they did nothing wrong, you are denying science
@celestialmorpho
6 жыл бұрын
I am reading through the comments of this video and I think it is interesting how all the hate is directed her. There is no mention of the boyfriend who was quick to mention abortion without making sure she was ok first. He shared equal part in the conception, but he is not held accountable. Nevertheless, I can't imagine what it would be like to be in that situation. I can tell the decision was hard for you and I think you made what you thought was the best decision, and that's all you can do. You are very brave for sharing your story, and I think you will help other women going through similar circumstances. The saddest thing is, it's always THE WOMAN who has to go through all these shits, like it's only her fault.. like it's even considered as a fault! Where's the Man? What's he doing? Nobody knows.. It's unfortunate that the "put it up for adoption!" argument is so frequently made. It's as if people refuse to recognize the fact that pregnancy is no small thing to go through, and that it is not always a choice that is free of severe negative side effects on the woman who is pregnant. Nobody ever cares about what the woman is going through. They support birth until they are blue in the face, no matter the cost, but are anti-welfare and totally overlook the reality of the difficulty many women face with pregnancy. It's just "shame on her this!" "Shame on her that!" Think about the dead beat fathers on top of that, the men who totally abandon a responsibility that falls on them just as much as it falls on a pregnant woman. It is disgusting how much people care more about birth no matter what and don't give a damn about the women affected.
@dt05
6 жыл бұрын
Mizz FlaireBeauty oh put a sock in it!!!! “What about the man? What about the man?” The man has no fucking say in whether or not the woman gets an abortion or not, and can very easily be put on hold support. “My body my choice” right? Except when it comes to blame...then all of a sudden that goes out the window. Just stupid....
@notanidiot1527
6 жыл бұрын
Copy and paste seems to be the only argument you morons have isn't it?
@nensg1012
6 жыл бұрын
close dem legs then.
@staceyserfling1225
6 жыл бұрын
You’re right! 😰
@rafi5535
6 жыл бұрын
Wtf say something on ur own.
@nicolerussow
5 жыл бұрын
Your so brave to share your story. Thank you! I too had an abortion. I didn’t realize how much it affected the following 10 years of my life. I met Jesus and he healed me of the experience. He showed me my sweet little baby boy that I had taken out of this world. He showed me a love and forgiveness that was completely unimaginable. He healed my heart and now I can truly love again! I pray you will invite Jesus- the living God- into your heart and experience the same beautifulness of radical grace that I did. It’s not religion! It’s just Jesus! No rules, no bullshit....just LOVE!!!! May God bless you sweet girl! ❤️
@humbertoquintero3731
5 жыл бұрын
You stilled killed someone no healing will bring that baby back
@chula052489
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to say this but GOD dont forgives this situations is on the bible he give you like he should be the one that tell you when to go back
@priestliestarr3012
5 жыл бұрын
The bible says, though your sins be as red as crimson, God will make them whiter than snow. So y'all judging her, u know nothing of the bible. It also says there is no sin God cannot forgive. God's ways are not our ways. So don't come here trying to say what God can and cannot forgive
@humbertoquintero3731
5 жыл бұрын
priestlie starr I never brought religion into this I brought logic no amount of praying will ever change the fact that she killed a baby and that will forever be with her
@alyssakellar297
5 жыл бұрын
I am a Christian and I want to say, for those who had abortions or considering. I get that life it is hard. I feel your pain. I am not condemning you. I do not agree with abortion but I do wrong things all the time and Jesus still chooses to forgive me. Jesus looked at the woman who was caught in adultery (which was a death penalty by public stoning at the time) and said, "He without sin cast the first stone."Not one was free from sin and no one is perfect today. He looked at her and said"where are your accusers?, and she replied there is none. and He said , "nor do I accuse you. Go and sin no more." Jesus loves you and is so do I. There is hope, redemption, forgiveness and healing through Jesus. John 3:16-17. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
@jmoney8630
5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for all the people who seem to have watched this just so that they can criticize you in the comments. I really appreciate you sharing.
@Skarletjonancy
5 жыл бұрын
@Gabriel I watched a silent scream abortion video it was horrible.
@kamarassakka9922
4 жыл бұрын
@malibu I call that selfishness, I dont know your ethics and morals but it is. If you think killing a baby because you want to go to Europe isn't selfishness, I fear for the people around you. Don't get me wrong, I was sympathetic with her till she called a baby a cluster of cells as if she isn't one
@michaelmichael8314
4 жыл бұрын
@malibu So you're saying that unless a baby is born into a financially stable middle class familyz then it should be aborted. You're saying that the life of a baby born to young working class parents who wasn't planned is worth less than a baby born to richer parents? Whether she was ready or not, her offsprings life was intentionally terminated. I do wish her all the best in her future, but killing a human life (regardless of it's stage of development) is never the choice somebody should make. She made the wrong choice
@natural3362
4 жыл бұрын
@Sam Herbst she didn't choose to have a baby.
@natural3362
4 жыл бұрын
@malibu that's true
@Jcluis16
6 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how close I came to doing this to my son.. my best friend the funniest person I know, I’m 28 now and he’s turning 9. I can vividly remember every moment of walking into the room and knowing I was making a huge mistake. His dad and everyone were pressuring me to get rid of him. I protected him, and it was the best thing I will ever do. ❤️
@ramywiles
6 жыл бұрын
It's great that things worked out for you in the end, but consider that it wouldn't necessarily be the same for everyone faced with your situation.
@YoMissyRocks
6 жыл бұрын
Same here girl ❤️ now I have a beautiful baby girl and I don’t know what I would do with out her in my life.
@Jcluis16
6 жыл бұрын
ramywiles when you become a momma you make it work. There are circumstances that abortion is necessary... but wanting to travel isn’t one of them.
@YoMissyRocks
6 жыл бұрын
Janie Heming so true!
@ramywiles
6 жыл бұрын
Janie Heming That's for you to decide for yourself and yourself alone.
@christinevaldez4029
5 жыл бұрын
I found out I was pregnant at 17. I was scared to death and knew I wasn't ready. I worked at Burger King for craps sake! While my friends attended senior parties, I attended parenting classes. I was bound and determined to get ready before he was born. I thought about adoption, but I just knew no one could love him like I did! On 5/8/95, my angel was born. Shortly thereafter I was hired for a CPA firm. With hard work, determination, careful budgeting and a few night classes my career was on track. My friends partied. In my mid twenties I married a wonderful guy who loved my son as his own. We went onto have two more son's. My life was full and happy. I no longer stood out as the teenaged mom. I was the mom who attended every football game and made the best birthday cupcakes. I'm older now, My son is an electrician. I'm proud of him! My friends did not fair as well as I did. One became a heroin addict and died. Another died in a car accident when her boyfriend drove her home from the bar. My angel saved my life! If it weren't for him I wonder would I have become an addict or been in accident after leaving the bar? These things can happen to anyone, but for me, I kept my self out of risky situation for my sons sake. I never realized not only did I choose life for him, I also choose life for me! This is not a judgement, believe me I get the feeling of terror when that test turns positive and your not ready, to poor, too young. But trust me, you can get ready, make more money and inevitably you will get older :(. It can all work out if you try.
@Sealust50
5 жыл бұрын
THIS, . . . YOUR STORY, is the one we should be hearing about on a You Tube video, instead of this vile, selfish video posted by a girl who insisted on the easy way out of a situation she created (with the help of a similarly irresponsible male). I loved hearing your story, and I congratulate you on your decision - the only one God would condone. The Lord knows what you did, and I am sure you will be blessed for it. Thank you for setting an example worthy of praise and respect. God Bless You!
@christinevaldez4029
5 жыл бұрын
@@Sealust50 Thank you, the courage came from the Lord and he has never let me down.
@Sealust50
5 жыл бұрын
@@christinevaldez4029 I knew from the feeling I got while reading your story that your decision was guided by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are SO blessed to have God in our lives to help us through our journey through this brief life here on earth. Non-believers and those who do not know Him have such a terrible road of life to walk. PRAISE THE LORD he is ALWAYS there for us: "For lo, I am with you always, even until the end of the earth."
@arideneros9015
5 жыл бұрын
Christine valdez I'm so scared reading your story is giving me sanity.... I'm on birthcontrol but I don't have a job no support from the bf and family, I'm in my late 20s, lived most my years sick, I live with my father and I'm petrified..... lord knows I'm not ready.
@christinevaldez4029
5 жыл бұрын
@@arideneros9015 I am sorry for the lack of support but thankful you have your dad.
@emilybutz681
7 жыл бұрын
Sorry but at 6w3d a baby is not just a cluster of cells. I'm not even going to finish watching this because I'm so appalled. I believe you telling yourself that is just a way for you to cope with your decision. Before I had my first child at 21 I was pro choice. Now I'm TOTALLY against abortion. It's an extremely selfish act. Put the child up for adoption if you're not ready to be a parent. End of story.
@missmartin2166
7 жыл бұрын
Emily Masucci dude it's not your body it's not your choice good for you. You changed WHO cares watch your kids and not KZitem videos
@seektruth8755
7 жыл бұрын
+Emily Masucci - *Edited due to responding to the wrong post* My apologies!
@nickcage3703
7 жыл бұрын
what does this have to do with anything?
@nickcage3703
7 жыл бұрын
+seek truth
@seektruth8755
7 жыл бұрын
Evan Pete After reading Emily Masucci's comments again I see that I completely misread what she was saying. For some reason I thought she was going the other way and was stating that abortion is only getting rid of a "cluster of cells." Not sure what I was thinking she was saying initially. Maybe I was reading someone else's comments and got them confused with hers. But I am elated to know she changed her thinking and is now against abortion. Yes - I stand and applaud you Emily!!!
@katrinapearson7027
5 жыл бұрын
in video it sounds like she is still dealing with the guilt of her abortion at one point says "clump of cells but through rest of video says my baby or my child" makes me wonder if she regrets and possibly felt this was her only option. feel sad for you and the forever years of wondering as you look at your friends children😟
@laobok
3 жыл бұрын
Because you can only deny so much. See? People who say "clump of cells" have to train themselves to say that when literally, the first thing you think of once you get pregnant is "I'm having a baby," not "There is an organism growing inside me." It's dehumanization, plain and simple.
@teehee5700
3 жыл бұрын
@@laobok “I’m HAVING a baby” not “I HAVE a baby” simply it’s going to BE a baby but not yet
@laobok
3 жыл бұрын
@@teehee5700 And yet here you are, about to prove my point. But whatever, I'm gonna let you win this one. Fine, whatever you say.
@teehee5700
3 жыл бұрын
@@laobok proving your point of what? Lmao
@kenelyon795
7 жыл бұрын
I'm a man. All you guys who may be watching this video I want you to go to the 3:35 mark in the video and listen carefully. And listen to this young woman's testimony. When it mattered the most - her boyfriend completely bailed. Not only did he bail on her - he bailed on his child. Yeh - he bailed on the mother of his child and he bailed on his child. So as a man I want to say something to all you guys out there. The vast majority of abortions are YOUR fault. That's right. I believe with all my heart that this young lady would have kept her child if only the "father" would have stepped up and reassured her that he wanted nothing more than to take on his responsibility and that in no way did he want her to kill their child. Just imagine what would have happened if he had told her that. Instead - the first words out of his mouth were to influence her to get an abortion. So all you people who want to get on here and deride and condemn this young lady for what she did - how about you put some condemnation where it belongs. The dad is the most responsible. Because he had his opportunity to SAVE his child. And he bailed. I can only hope that he understands the gravity of what he did and that he will one day fall on his face and repent and seek his forgiveness. From all involved.
@kenelyon795
7 жыл бұрын
Amilah Amen and well said.
@brookep3564
7 жыл бұрын
100% agree. Though, my sons dad bailed at 6 weeks and I retained the pregnancy (barely, I nearly lost him because of a hemorahge and stress). He's now 16 months and happy as a lark.
@kenelyon795
7 жыл бұрын
Brooke P May the Lord bless you and your baby all of your days. And may the father come to his senses and realize the error of his ways. You are a strong woman. And I applaud you and sing your praises for having your baby and loving him. Children are a heritage and a blessings. They are not a curse. Thank you for sharing your story and please keep on doing it in other places as well. Your testimony has great power to help others. God bless you!!!
@kenelyon795
7 жыл бұрын
I also wanted to let it be known that apparently some losers who read one of the comments above must have thumbs downed it so much that it got hidden. But I can still see it on my end so I wanted to copy and paste what it says: Emily Evans on Jan 12, 2017 wrote, "slx lohocla finally someone blames the guy at least a little bit" Amen Emily Evans the men deserve the vast majority of the blame. Because they have abandoned the women and their own children. They are not worthy of being called men.
@ryanharvey6375
11 күн бұрын
Thank you for including men in the discussion and responsibility of caring for new life. We all should rightly bear God's image by sacrificing our lives for another. ❤
@Dyrtybyrdie
8 жыл бұрын
Well spoken and brave girl to share her story.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
a brave girl wouldn't have killed her unborn child so she could go to Europe
@Dyrtybyrdie
8 жыл бұрын
myintx Dont like abortion? Dont have one. Its not your body. Its not your life. Its not your business.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
"Don't like slavery? Don't own a slave! It's not your back that would be hurt working in the fields all day - it's mine! Slavery is legal. It's not your business" - slave owner from when slavery was legal.
@Dyrtybyrdie
8 жыл бұрын
You cannot compare the two... Enslaving millions of people. To women making a personal and private decision to terminate an unwanted pregnancy. Do you not understand making abortion illegal would help absolutely nobody? It would then become the responsibility of the government to monitor every pregnancy that happens in the whole country. And to force those women to carry the pregnancy to term... Forcing people to have children they dont want. Retraumatizing rape and incest victims by forcing them to give birth is wrong and unamerican. Dont know bout you but thats not how i want my government to spend my tax dollars. There is a laundry list of things that are much more important. ALSO it would only cause women to have back alley illegal abortions that are not safe. Making something illegal doesnt make it go away, it only creates an underground black market for it. And when it comes to healthcare that is not a good situation for anybody, In my beliefs there is only cons to making abortion illegal. And again its nobodys fucking business. People should be allowed to do what they want with their own lives and bodies as long as it doesnt affect other people... and no i dont consider the cluster of cells growing in her uterus a person yet.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
- We already have post viability abortion laws in the US an no one is monitoring every pregnancy... - I don't care how "personal and private" a decision is. If it involves killing an innocent human being, it should be ILLEGAL. - Making abortion illegal would give the many human beings a chance at a full and productive life - you know the ones who had their lives "terminated" because they were unwanted..... - Infanticide, murder and anti-abortion laws are about PROTECTING vulnerable human beings... If you don't want a woman or a man to ever feel 'forced' to do something then you must be OK with getting rid of infanticide laws... if a man alone with a newborn wants to go party, you're 'forcing' him to take his precious time and effort to hand off his baby SAFELY to someone else before he goes to the party.. if he's late it's because the law Is forcing him to give a damn..... You see, it's about PROTECTING... - Ripping a human being to shreds because they are unwanted is what is un-American. - Again, by your own logic, there should be no murder or infanticide laws. Because some people do it anyway.... Well, most people DO obey the laws. And we cannot keep something that is wrong legal just because some might do it anyway. - "People should be allowed to do what they want with their own lives and bodies as long as it doesnt affect other people... " Slaves weren't considered full people in the eyes of the law at one point in our history. Guess we never should have made killing a slave illegal (yes, states could do that - even while slavery itself was legal).... I also guess you're against post viability abortion restrictions as legally an unborn child isn't a human being? Oh, and while we're at it - animal cruelty laws need to go... someone ripping the ears off their own pet doesn't affect other people.... Unborn children are HUMAN BEINGS. They are worth protected.
@Derrako
8 жыл бұрын
I don't really have strong feelings about the abortion issue; I don't do ladies so making unwanted children is just one positive side effect of being a gay male-oh wait a minute-that's _sinful_ too isn't it? Better do what the bible says and just keep on reproducing like mindless sheep? After all, people who literally buy the notion that everything wrong with society is down to a talking snake persuading a naked woman to eat a piece of fruit _really_ inspire confidence...
@rileysteward8551
8 жыл бұрын
You have this all wrong... the Bible does not say to reproduce at all costs. The Bible says that abortion is wrong in any stage. You have no idea what you are talking about, sir
@Derrako
8 жыл бұрын
Riley Steward i'm fifty years old sweet heart I got every idea what I happen to be talking about; have you started your periods yet?
@rileysteward8551
8 жыл бұрын
***** You're so funny. Have you even picked up a Bible? I love how you have to personally attack me to get your point across. You're so mature for someone your age!
@princesslulu5795
8 жыл бұрын
+Riley Steward psalms 139:13-16 Jeremiah 1:4-5 Luke 1:39-41 Jeremiah 20:14-17 Ecclesiastes 6:3-5 Job 3:16-19 Psalms 58:3-8 Exodus 21:22-25 Hosea 9:11-14 Numbers 5 Exodus 11:4-5 Exodus 12:29 Numbers 31:17-18 I Samuel 15:3 Deuteronomy 2:34, 3:6 Joshua 10:28-40, 11:10-12, 14, 15, 20, 21 Judges 21:10-12 Psalms 137:8 Genesis 2:7 Ezekiel 37:5 Ecclesiastes 11:5 Numbers 3:40 Leviticus 27:6 Corinthians 11:7 All bible verses that either support terminating a pregnancy (some even command it) or give a very different definition of what is considered a valued life
@princesslulu5795
8 жыл бұрын
+Riley Steward there is nothing in the bible that specifically says abortion is wrong. In fact most discussion of it, including the verses I provided, condone or mandate it. They also say that life as a person does not start until one takes their first breath (Genesis 2:7). Ecclesiastes 11:5 says we humans do not and cannot know exactly when 'life' begins.
@rgCA_01123
5 жыл бұрын
I am watching this video on 5/29/2019 💔
@waitwhat9776
8 жыл бұрын
it's really interesting how alot of people here are calling her a terrible person but have no idea what she is going through. I get that all life is important but I also think it's amusing that many pro-livers only think about the fetus and not the life it may grow up in once it's born. I mean yea it wasn't aborted but is it worth it if the child grows up without parents in a shitty foster home never to get adopted, move on to drugs or gangs, and die young from being in the wrong crowd or even kill someone else for food or money... honestly I have a challenge for all those extremely Christians and pro-lifers. if you believe abortion is so wrong and must be banned then go to those foster homes and adopt all those children who would never have parents. if you believe they should have a chance to life then it's Ur responsibility to make sure they live a happy and healthy life... or does Ur opinion on the fetus disappear once it's just born? what really disgusts me about this chat is the pro-choice people who only care that a child is born not that it has a chance at happiness once it faces the real world
@alexandralite835
8 жыл бұрын
agreed
@saintcelab3451
8 жыл бұрын
people are indeed adopting those children.
@alexandralite835
8 жыл бұрын
that's not the point. he/she is saying its not always a happy end. I've been in a foster home after being wrongfully taken away fro my mum cause my dad wanted to be back at her. the foster home I was in, the care giver was a drugy, I was ment to be on medication for ADHD she was taking them for herself. she had a boyfriend who was also a drugy, I was starved, abused and the boyfriend use to watch me when I was taking a shower or a bath.
@StewBeefIdiocy
8 жыл бұрын
God that's so stupid. First, the idea that people who are opposed to abortion don't care about the welfare of children after they're born is just a ridiculous attempt to slander people you disagree with. What is it based on? As far as I can tell it's just based on the fact that the political party opposed to abortion is also the party that's for less government spending. That's it. Never mind that the people opposed to abortion also give more money to charity. All that matter is the tenuous political connection. Then you've got this idea, well If you save someone from being killed then you personally must ensure they live a happy life. What is that, some damn ancient proverb? If you save someone's life that doesn't mean that you owe them anything. Last year there were firefighters called to the apartment building I lived because of a fire. If they saved someone's life that night, did that make them responsible for the person they saved? It's a ridiculous idea. And then there's the idea that someone is better off dead rather than in a foster home! Well, I guess he's for emptying all the foster homes by executing the children. I mean if there better of dead, then it'd be a mercy killing, right? Also, the children in foster homes are NOT children who were given up for adoption when they were born. Advocates of abortion never seem to understand this. Kids end up in the foster system precisely because they were NOT available for adoption when they were a baby. There's actually far more demand than there is supply when it comes to adopting babies. That's why so many people are travelling to Korea and India just to find a baby to adopt. Jeez, what a bunch of nonsense.
@halojoe21
8 жыл бұрын
Life is more precious than no life. The number 1 is greater than zero. A shit life is still life. And life is worth living.
@sydney6127
6 жыл бұрын
Okay I’m just laughing at the fact that her friend offered to go check the pregnancy test for her but she doesn’t even know how to read one. 😂
@Sunny-we7uv
6 жыл бұрын
That's how young she is. Shouldn't be having sex.
@lizmowrey9866
6 жыл бұрын
Some people don't want to see it themselves
@guitarttimman
6 жыл бұрын
Never laugh at another person's misfortune. We're all in a bad place. We should be empathetic toward each other, but cautious of the wicked ones who just want to bait more people and cause them harm.
@isabellrodriguez1801
6 жыл бұрын
Sway B. But the thing is she didn’t give birth... she aborted the baby that baby is dead
@guitarttimman
6 жыл бұрын
None of us have a time machine. The point we need to make to her is that she needs to stop and never do this again.
@DominiqueForever
8 жыл бұрын
It's ok Hun and ignore the comments from negative people. But you made a good decision Hun whatever was best for you.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
"whatever was best for me" - that is the pro-abortion mantra.
@iilovecuteshit
8 жыл бұрын
Do you realize how the fuck you sound? what a fucking dumbass
@krystaljj4163
8 жыл бұрын
go to hell
@DominiqueForever
8 жыл бұрын
+krystal JJ you can go to hell
@heatherariza-parker5395
8 жыл бұрын
I can conceive and won't be mean to her, but abortion is never the right choice. Dismembering a human being with a beating heart, etc isn't a choice
@ESE33
5 жыл бұрын
Abortion is not fun. I'm pro-choice and even I know that. Nobody has an abortion because it's fun or because it's easy. It's not. But I believe that it's important to allow every single person to make their own decision on whether or not to have a baby. Sometimes it's the only option people feel they have. We don't force people to donate blood or organs to save people's lives because it's not legal or ethical to force someone to do that. We can't remove organs from people who have died to save someone else's life unless they had an organ donor card. It's illegal. Just think about that before sending this poor girl hate. You can see she didn't have the time of her life with this experience, nor was it something she did lightly. Pro-choice people are not for 'killing babies'. We're about allowing people to make decisions about their own body, which is how it should be. There are many people who are pro-choice who would never get an abortion themselves but still believe that other people should have a choice to choose differently from them.
@brenoox3
5 жыл бұрын
E S E your comment is spot on. thank you for being a voice for the voiceless❤️
@Samantha28_56
5 жыл бұрын
E S E blood and organs are not a human being. yes humans have organs and blood but it’s not the same as a baby.
@ESE33
5 жыл бұрын
@@Samantha28_56 But the human beings those blood and organs could potentially save are equivalent to what you refer to as a baby. THAT's the point I'm making
@hottea7574
5 жыл бұрын
Ashley K Someone receiving an organ donation is using another persons body and organs fo sustain their self. A fetus is using the woman’s body and organs to sustain itself. It is the same.
@hottea7574
5 жыл бұрын
*to sustain
@CleansedbyHim_co
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being honest. Every can talk all the shit they want but your a strong girl!!
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
Please enlighten me, what is so strong and brave about this?
@CleansedbyHim_co
8 жыл бұрын
Anthony Lynch she made a hard decision. Fuck you you are a boy and don't know shit what girls go through. Have you carried life in you before? So shut the fuck up you stupid bitch.
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of things wrong with your comment, not least of all the atrocious spelling, but I won't get in to that, I completely agree, I haven't the foggiest what women go through in birth, in fact I respect them tremendously to go through it, but how is that an argument for abortion? She carried life therefore it is brave to end it?
@CleansedbyHim_co
8 жыл бұрын
Anthony Lynch yeah it is. That's a hard decision to make when your a woman. I agree everyone women has the choice on what's right for they're child.
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
Of course it's a hard decision! It's murder! How is death what was right for the child? A lot of great people had rough starts, not least of all was a man who started a successful organization that aids rape victims, and he was the product of a failed abortion! Although I have to say, a huge part of the blame in these cases go to the men, unfortunately most men will run the moment the realize the girl is pregnant. P.S. notice how we can have a civilized discussion without you calling me a "stupid bitch"
@Sorvea
7 жыл бұрын
As someone who is Pro-Life... I am glad you were in a nice facility to be taken care of.... Imagine this girl as your daughter, and she is going to go through with terminating her pregnancy... No matter your beliefs, would you rather have a nice clean sterile facility with doctors and staff on hand to handle anything that might go wrong, and live another day.... or.... If there were no abortion clinics.... and your daughter is going through with an abortion, this puts her in a very risky situation of a room in a house or hotel, or even the back of a van, where it's done quickly, and if something were to go wrong, they would abandon her for fear of getting caught.... These scenario's right here are why I don not wish abortion clinics to be closed down, no matter how pro-life I am....
@ramywiles
7 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY it, because no matter how effectively we work to reduce abortion, all we can ever do is reduce it. We can't eliminate it. People who don't want to be pregnant will seek out the means to end their pregnancies, and they deserve to be able to do so safely and legally. If we remove that resource, we put more women at risk of dying, and that's not something I'm ok with. (I'm pro choice to begin with, but this particular point is at the core of my own arguments.)
@kwpp7
6 жыл бұрын
Imagine what it would be like if women actually chose to not murder their babies. Then we wouldn't need abortion clinics. But by all means, keep those "safe" death camps running.
@chrisholtorf9906
6 жыл бұрын
You're not pro-life at all. I couldn't care less about the health and security of the executioner. So you have no problem with babies being torn apart and thrown into the garbage, so long as it is done properly and nicely. Where is your compassion towards the REAL victim of abortion? Oh yeah, you don't have any. Because you're cold-hearted but dress it up as "compassion." I see right through your bullshit.
@sandygonsalves4646
6 жыл бұрын
kwpp7, too bad life is complicated and not every woman makes the exact same decisions.
@sandygonsalves4646
6 жыл бұрын
chris the term "women" isn't a dirty word. you dont have to be afraid to say it "woman" see? easy
@KICLEI_CANADA
5 жыл бұрын
I hate how abortion is the boyfriends first thought. Your not alone to feel bothered. Abortion helps guys more then girls because we live with the guilt.
@gostate009
5 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more. I would raise a child myself if it meant preventing an abortion.
@catshugging
5 жыл бұрын
No, men absolutely live with the guilt too.
@kayleighbohn1042
5 жыл бұрын
Maggie Dingman my boyfriend lives in guilt everyday of his life, I don’t wish this pain on anyone.. but it’s the right thing to do when for me personally I didn’t have anything to my name. I didn’t have a job at the time. But I’m against abortion, although I went through it. It’s sometimes what needs to be done.. an it sucks but we stand tall.
@larissadueck2643
5 жыл бұрын
I think guys can live with guilt too. Not to the same degree, of course, but I don't think anyone involved in the process of abortion comes out unscathed.
@misskelseypaige123
3 жыл бұрын
She said that they had previously talked about what they'd do if they got pregnant and that they BOTH agreed on termination.
@alxrmrz
4 жыл бұрын
this has been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through in the almost 21 years of my life. They don’t tell you how some days will be harder than others. How you will feel completely overwhelmed on Mother’s Day. How you knew it was the right thing to do for you at that moment in your life but you will forever hold on to the what if’s. It’s been very emotionally rough.
@jessicasosa7313
3 жыл бұрын
I pray you repent. You and the creator of this video. It’s not too late to repent, killing a baby is never the right thing for you. I pray you find peace, Alejandra, peace in Jesus. Please don’t do it again. I will literally adopt your child, they are loved. I’m here if you need ANYTHING, please don’t think this is an option.
@Mariah-lm7ok
3 жыл бұрын
I’m going through this right now and it is the hardest... all of these feelings make me feel so alone and evil and sad... and grief... I felt so rushed into getting my abortion and it was the most painful experience I’ve ever felt
@jessicasosa7313
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mariah-lm7ok I am sorry. I pray you find peace in Jesus there is forgiveness. Turn to Him in your time of grief, He will forgive you, comfort you, and reassure you that your child is with Him and in repentance when the time is come you can join them both. It is not too late. God bless you and help you through this.
@rumaleovi3244
3 жыл бұрын
@@firstchoicebidding8160 Do you really care about "babies"? I don't believe it. There are many reasons for abortion and as the girl said in the video, that "child" was not wanted, so why bring him into the world if he is going to suffer all his life knowing that he was a mistake. As a Latin American I have heard my colleagues say it and it's really painful. Here nobody has a little empathy for those who abort, nobody says "We have to improve the adoption centers", "We have to improve sex education" or "We have to present all the options and their consequences" but they say things that invalidate that decision. Have empathy, don't just be logical or speak from your privilege, open your mind.
@hayloplimber
3 жыл бұрын
@@rumaleovi3244 *warning, long response- srry* I think the premise for your argument has a fundamental difference to a pro-lifers. That would be the value of the human soul. While you might think the onus is on our society to increase education, I think this is an issue of the heart. Most people know the consequences of sex. However, people will still refuse hormonal birth control because of the toll on the body, and many people refuse to use condoms simply because they damper the experience. People know they have abortion to succumb to in the event they get pregnant. I dont want to assume this is the line of logic, but we live in a society that argues so heavily on women choices and undermines the personhood of a small fetus calling it a “clump of cells”, “unconscious”, “unviable”. I think this minimizes the idea of abortion to much of our society. In essence, I believe this removes the weight of an abortion for many who go into that decision. A “pro-lifer” emphasizes that at the time of conception a human life is brought into the world. A human with a soul, with the same potential as every other “viable” human whose mothers let them live. A human soul is different from just a human. There isn’t a perception that we live in nothing more than a finite biological world thats guided only by evolution, cultural relativism, and moralism. Its believed that a human soul is hand crafted by a loving God who sees that living soul as a unique identity and made in his image, having its own set of DNA, own dreams, personality, etc. While sex might be the means to conception, the belief is that God gives life through sex, as he sees suite. Sex without a creator would just be sex and would not create life. So when you say the child is “unwanted”, perhaps by its mother, but not by God. Its an issue of the heart. A mother not willing to give up her whole life for her child. Radical, right? There are a proportional amount of unplanned pregnancies that mothers pursue in hardship who pick up multiple jobs, sacrifice their whole life. Many of those women reap a harvest of joy from their children. So if you want to talk about education… We can talk about what our society doesn’t teach. Our “progressive society” emphasizes self over others. Its actually hardens people’s hearts. The entire life of Christ is to give it up for others. To lay our lives down in love and service. Those sacrifices actually lead to inward thriving, harvesting love, and joy, and peace. Our society doesn’t teach that? I am someone speaking from experience. I got pregnant, unplanned, at 21 y/o. I can say that you give up your whole life for your baby. But there is not another experience in my life that has ever filled my heart the way having a child has. The innocent, precious way a baby looks into your eyes, and giggles, and coos. It lights up your heart. Having a baby.. its not a punishment. Its gods way of teaching us the beauty of life. I wish our society taught more on the sacredness of life and the transforming power of a baby and becoming a parent, and equipped mothers for motherhood in the event they get pregnant. Thats what I wish our society taught.
@rameshafrederick3237
8 жыл бұрын
People always bring up extreme cases like rape or incest, but most of the time it's this. Young couples fucking up and getting present, with abortion being the last chance form of birth control.
@cazzawee
8 жыл бұрын
the couple didn't fuck up, their birth control just failed. that's nobodies fault.
@Joyzyii
8 жыл бұрын
+cazzawee They still fucked up. Birth control is not always guaranteed but the reproductive system is, either be ready to take responsibility for your own actions or dont act at all. Way much better decision than to end up killing an innocent life. Then it is the "rights" advocates who go around pointing their fingers at rapists, murderers, and other horrible human beings who make the horrible moral CHOICE of forcing themselves, their violence, and selfish motives on innocent humans. Same shit. You Hypocrites.
@cazzawee
8 жыл бұрын
Joyzyii abortion is taking responsibility. not bringing a child into this world when you're not ready and unable to take care of it properly is responsible as fuck. don't worry your little socks, the thing growing is not a life yet when abortion takes place, so no life is lost.
@Joyzyii
8 жыл бұрын
+cazzawee No, it is not taking responsibility at all. Quite the opposite. Abortion is the action a woman or in some cases a decision a couple makes after they fuck and find out that suprisingly!(because shit what are the odds) they got pregant. They end up wanting to run away from taking responsibility of their actions. Every action has a consequence and theres no way one can justify the stupidity of not knowing the simple fact that putting sperm and eggs together via the action called SEX will result in the creation of a human life (basic ass biology - reproductive system). Aborting that human being's life is called ending a human being's life and ending a human being's life is called killing a human being and those who kill human beings are called killers. So women who abort are killers, like it or not thats a fact and facts regardless of the argument or excuse are immutable. Bye.
@Joyzyii
8 жыл бұрын
+cazzawee FYI go take a bio 101 course at your local college. Life begins at conception in every living thing including Human beings. At the time a woman finds out that she is pregnant that "cluster of cells" is A life. Fun fact, We are ALL. a cluster of cells in all our stages of development. You are a bunch of cells does that mean you are not alive? Idiot. Living cells are alive. The offspring of a human being is a human being. You dont look like an infant today because you developed into whatever you are now, adult /teen? You lack bones that you had when you were an infant. Technically infants are not the same as adults or elders. Our bodies change. Blastocysts already have a mouth that connects to the anal. A BLASTOCYST. Lets not even talk about how fast a blastocyst turns into a fetus. Those are simply names to classify a stage of human development. So yes when she aborted her offspring was alive since the day she conceived.
@EmaAtwell
8 жыл бұрын
you're so beautiful! putting yourself out there solely for the purpose of helping others is AMAZING. i know lots of people in the comments already told you this but you are very brave. anyone that puts this kind of stuff on the internet is so brave. you probably know this too i mean we don't have to talk about all the haters but ya know... it doesn't matter though. because all the girls you've helped with this video are worth so much more than any person that doesn't understand what it means to go through something like that, dislikes this and hates in the comments. helping others is what matters.and you certainly do that. still.we need people like you. you seem like such a genuine person. I hope you're doing good!
@nickwilliams430
8 жыл бұрын
She is dumb she murdererd a baby she should be in jail for the rest of her life
@blakefish1
8 жыл бұрын
+Ema Atwell I'm sorry you feel this way.
@alexusdumont951
8 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for your kind words
@tokoniakosubo6154
8 жыл бұрын
+nick williams don't talk like that. it was wrong but don't you think she's hurt too? have you never done anything wrong before?
@yourmelondy2720
8 жыл бұрын
+Giovanni Valtimo apparently she's not hurt if she said she has no regret of doing it
@DBK9.8
8 жыл бұрын
This was so hard to watch
@AGemini16
8 жыл бұрын
becca kam it really was
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
ConservativeElite it's not a baby till born and it's a fact that a fetus is just a cluster of cells To butcher that person has to actually be a person not forming into one. She got an abortion because she wasn't ready to be a mom and her partner wasn't ready to be a dad why force that on them when they have choices of their own
@DBK9.8
8 жыл бұрын
Lauryn Hendry You have no idea what your talking about? A fetus is a cluster of cells? Not according to Anatomy and science. Honey there is a zygote, and embryo, and then there is a fetus. A fetus is practically developed.....
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
becca kam a fetus is not developed but developing it's a fact that it's a cluster of cells not a baby or a person yet. I still think it's kinda sad people don't want to admit that even if she will keep the fetus in HER body
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
becca kam an embroyo is still a developing cell They are both forming cells and the thing it's trying to get to is a baby and a baby is ready to be born and born not a freakin embroyo
@mariadeleon6954
Жыл бұрын
Europe and money will never fill the empty whole in your heart that killing that baby left you. Your baby and the Lord love you. I pray that you and many other girls like you realize this and come to the Lord for healing and forgiveness.
@magiccheeseball
Жыл бұрын
She's disgusting
@bs-wx5km
8 жыл бұрын
a lot of these comments are very mean. Whether you think it's right or wrong a random stranger getting an abortion has nothing to do with your life. There are all sorts of wrong/evil things in the world that happens constantly but I don't see anyone losing any sleep over it
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
If she had the baby and killed it at birth it would have nothing to do with me, but it would still be wrong.... Abortion and infanticide have the same result - i.e. a new human being is denied a chance at a full and productive life. Abortion needs to be illegal.
@bs-wx5km
8 жыл бұрын
+myintx I think abortion is wrong, but I don't feel comfortable butting my nose in other people's business.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
Are you OK with laws telling people they cannot kill their newborns, rip the ears off their puppies or killing their unborn children after viability? or is that someone's personal business?
@bs-wx5km
8 жыл бұрын
+myintx I don't give a shit what people do with their children and pets. I'm not out to solve the world's problems, excluding those who know me nobody really gives a shit about my problems or even the fact that I exist. Why should I care about some unborn child somewhere being ripped out of the womb?
@bs-wx5km
8 жыл бұрын
+Lavender chai Blossom people also don't have to be assholes, but they are
@lmsk5178
7 жыл бұрын
You've made a huge sacrifice putting this video up and exposing yourself to public opinion, but I can see that this video means the world to some people. I'm grateful that there are strong people like you in this world.
@Tekton177
7 жыл бұрын
Elle Musoke Truly, it was a huge child sacrifice! Molech must be real proud of her!
@BudSmoke37
7 жыл бұрын
She did not make the decision to have a baby she made the decision to have an orgasm. Of course she took the easy road. She took contraceptives and they failed. All temporary contraceptives on the market are not 100%, this is common knowledge. We live in a time where people have sex before they marry and have multiple sexual partners throughout their lives. On average a portion of a population WILL be in her shoes. Why do you think she should deserves to submit her life to carrying all that extra weight shoulders. when she's only starting college. Because the contraceptives she took fucked up? And if you feel that bad about it enough to have to comment, then so be it but who the fuck are you to judge.
@Tekton177
7 жыл бұрын
BudSmoke37 what if next time not only does her contraceptives fail but she catches AIDS from one of her multiple sex partners, will her orgasm have been worth it? Women who had sex with multiple partners used to be called Whores.
@Rae8Anne
7 жыл бұрын
Chad Swaggins And the strong man in your scenario....where is he?
@jimbritttn
7 жыл бұрын
no, her BABY made the sacrifice; she just pulled the trigger
@laceyrenee9187
7 жыл бұрын
absolutely horrible what you did
@amy3784
7 жыл бұрын
Lacey Williams don't be so judgemental.
@maraofslenderman4909
7 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE
@TL-bi8og
7 жыл бұрын
Abortion isn't horrible. If women don't want to have their child they don't have to. It's their rights
@angelwings723
5 жыл бұрын
First I would like to say that anyone who says your going to go to hell for this is not a Christian! I’m pro life 100% but it’s not my place to judge you my place is to love you. I’m sorry for the things that you have gone through and I hope you do forgive yourself because God is a God of love and mercy and there is nothing we could ever do that would deem us unworthy of his love. I hope you truly have peace and when if ever you have children I hope that peace keeps you going. We all make mistakes and it’s not for anyone else to judge your mistakes if that’s what you somethings feel it was. Keep living no matter what because you matter and you are worth great things and we shouldn’t be judged or weighed by one choice for the rest of our lives. Don’t let this become who you are for the rest of your life.
@angelwings723
5 жыл бұрын
Joe noyes I’m sorry but I have to question is your a stable individual because you sound a bit unwell maybe you should seek some help.
@jen137
5 жыл бұрын
Joe Noyes - Nobody, absolutely NOBODY but God the Father decides who is going to Heaven and who is going to Hell. By you saying that anyone is going to hell is 100% unBiblical. For someone who claims to be a believer, you sure are missing the mark, big time!
@ashleygarcia8752
5 жыл бұрын
Krissy MacInnis AMEN
@thefenerbahcesk4156
5 жыл бұрын
@@jen137 What does the bible say about premarital sex? murder?
@courtneyhorvath7931
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like you messed up your spelling at the beginning?
@GayRiku
8 жыл бұрын
Man, sorry you have to deal with this comments section. Don't let people make you feel guilty for this.
@nayfer7805
8 жыл бұрын
Why I feel so sad to hear it that😯😯 please don't have sex, if not prepare to have a baby 😭😔😔
@cafprune
8 жыл бұрын
Do have sex, but use contraceptives every time :)
@nayfer7805
8 жыл бұрын
+Catherine Turnbull no thank you very much
@cafprune
8 жыл бұрын
why not?
@cafprune
8 жыл бұрын
+Fernanda Cabrita ?
@nayfer7805
8 жыл бұрын
+Catherine Turnbull it's just because I want to wait till I get married and with everthing happening ( staff like this)I think is the best and I'm on of Jehovah's Witnesses and the bible said we should married first , the bible give us really high standard about this aspect , is the same with not lying, stilling etc and I truly believe in that 😊 Thank you
@tranquility9325
8 жыл бұрын
You have balls of steel to put this story out there. I am very sure that you will help someone in the same situation.
@sarahgatens6671
5 жыл бұрын
What breaks my heart the most is the boyfriend who immediately pushed for an abortion. He had no interest in supporting any other “choice”. It hurts because EVERY SINGLE woman I know who has gone through abortion lists an unsupportive or pushy partner as the #1 reason they chose to end the pregnancy.
@michellewessel1369
4 жыл бұрын
My husband is the same. I'm pregnant at 6 weeks and he immediately told me to get an abortion because we don't have the finical standards
@imadinasourperson2468
4 жыл бұрын
Also I do think she regrets it but her saying she doesnt because she went. Europe to me that's not a valid reason to get one in pro choice but I also understanf she wasnt ready for a child but I do think she regrets it in my opinion
@asrapasha3683
2 жыл бұрын
An honest boyfriend is loads better than an absent father.
@fivecardan
4 ай бұрын
The guy wouldn't have been a good father anyway. He at least admits it.
@mikekivlin9278
8 жыл бұрын
So you wanted to see Europe and make money over having a baby. WOW. In time you will regret having the abortion. That is if you are a caring person that has a heart for life.
@user-kd7gi6df1t
8 жыл бұрын
that wasnt the main reason. she said they werent financially stable or even ready to bring a child into the world. And she had things she wanted to do.
@simplymercyds4458
8 жыл бұрын
So you're telling me that she had to chose giving up her dreams just to carry a child? She could end up resenting the baby. Since you don't have a uterus you should just not talk. You will never understand what it's like to be pregnant anyway. Never. It's not just an easy decision. It's not black and white.
@makeupbydidi1
8 жыл бұрын
+SimplyMercyds no mother resents their own child unless they have a mental illness.
@simplymercyds4458
8 жыл бұрын
+Everything Disney Dreams that's not at all remotely true.
@makeupbydidi1
8 жыл бұрын
Then you must not know what a motherly instinct is. That comes naturally unless lie i said, the mom is crazy
@Maggie_Aly
9 жыл бұрын
I am pro-life so I am against the taking of an innocent life, however, I wish you well and I hope you are doing well now. Even tho I am against abortion, I do not like attacking women who get them. Wish you had chosen adoption, as you could have moved on and the child could have had their life. Anyways the past is the past, so good luck to your future and may your dreams come true.
@TheLaur3n
8 жыл бұрын
+Onaga23456 you wouldn't know anyways lmao. Good argument
@Melaniesmakeupbag
8 жыл бұрын
+Onaga23456 If you were to take a fetus out of the womb that early it couldnt live on its own. thats a fact. i love children, i work in a daycare. im studying child development. and i am prochoice. a fetus is not a baby.
@Maggie_Aly
8 жыл бұрын
***** LOL it is a life with their own DNA and heart-being and body yes. Why are pro abortion advocates so hostile and vulgar. Ugh.
@Maggie_Aly
8 жыл бұрын
***** So at the early stages they are not human but later on they magically are? Right. Wel if you abort them early in an abortion they wont ever get to see any other stage in their development so it is terminating a life. And you must be stupid thinking that there isn't pain relief to get a circumcision and also its cleaner and there is studies to support that. Regardless don't even try to attempt to compare a circumcision to ending a child's life. At the end of the day my son is alive and not dead in some horrible abortion and also he doesn't even give a damn lol. He is 2 and doesn't care about it...so there is no trauma there. Nice try.
@Maggie_Aly
8 жыл бұрын
***** Well I am Middle Eastern living in Canada and that is allowed here so you can shove it. :) I love my child and don't need you to lecture me. Abortion is murder. End of story.
@alissamcconnell3614
5 жыл бұрын
Anyone with a brain or any commen sence can clearly see the pain in her eyes and can here her voice cracks. And the fact that she kept the pregnancy test with date she found out written on it and the pictures says way more than her trying to convince herself that she didn't regret it.
@mckinnonbrown8009
5 жыл бұрын
u literally must not have a brain since you can’t spell ‘common’ or ‘sense’
@karenflores4987
5 жыл бұрын
@@mckinnonbrown8009 great counter points you made there..
@mckinnonbrown8009
5 жыл бұрын
@@karenflores4987 im not arguing im just saying people have these opinions but arent educated enough to spell.......seems their points are probably not educated either.
@karenflores4987
5 жыл бұрын
@@mckinnonbrown8009 you had spelling mistakes there too. I still understood your reply. When you are typing from a cell phone at least for me it's annoying to go back and fix every single typo. I disabled autocorrect because sometimes it changes the words and it's not helpful. Anyway, what I am trying to say is that you can have a more productive conversation by focusing on your counter points rather than pointing out spelling errors or typos. That gets nowhere. This is platform for exchange of ideas, opinions, etc. Everyone here is trying to share their comment or point of view. That is the purpose. There is a lot of educated people here. Just because they don't have the same views as you means they are ignorant or uneducated.
@mckinnonbrown8009
5 жыл бұрын
@@karenflores4987 I didn't have any spelling mistakes- I just used 'chat speak'. I will spell out the word 'you' instead of using 'u' since it is apparently difficult for you to understand. I am a lot higher educated than most people commenting on this post and being educated has helped me understand the implications of women's rights opposed to 'i'm christian, so this is murder'. I don't have any qualms against religion- I find that a lot of people blindly follow it as a moral guideline despite the fact it was written thousands of years ago. Anyways, I will not ever have an abortion because I am a responsible adult and I'm tired of arguing with people on this page who don't even have the slightest idea of how women's bodies work. People are so ignorant on here. anyways. have a good day.
@robinwillegal8210
2 жыл бұрын
She is in need of healing. The fact that she kept the test is a flag for a future emotional avalanche.
@mariemoss5946
8 жыл бұрын
It does not sound like you are entirely happy with your decision. I know that you say you are but I am not convinced.
@goodgirlvicki
8 жыл бұрын
Marie Moss agree
@impossibleisjustanopinion9898
8 жыл бұрын
it could effect her if she ever wants kids in the future & if she can't it's something she will have to live with forever
@mariemoss5946
8 жыл бұрын
+WONDERBOY NEW UFC CHAMP THOMSON true
@INTERNATIONALvids
8 жыл бұрын
WONDERBOY NEW UFC CHAMP THOMSON - People don't live forever. Life is extremely short even if one lives to a hundred years old. The only reason it might seem long is because we age quickly and things don't always go smooth.
@scarlettgames6537
7 жыл бұрын
Nobody is "happy" about an abortion. It isn't a fun experience. It sucks.
@hclasen7
8 жыл бұрын
At any point did anyone mention adoption to this poor girl? There are millions of people desperate for a child that would have loved to adopt her baby.
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
Amilah if they really wanted a child they wouldn't be so picky and just adopt one A girl getting an abortion has nothing to do with their problems and calling them whores for taking their right is so wrong
@INTERNATIONALvids
8 жыл бұрын
Hunter Clasen - True. They probably told her that at the clinic but I'm just assuming as it is different from one state to the next, one clinic to the next. Perhaps if someone has anxiety of doing a full 9 months, adoption might not sound so great either. Also, I bet some have a fear if they decide to carry out the term for adoption, they might even change their mind and feel obligated to keep the baby for themselves, which is a lot of anxiety if one is very young, unprepared emotionally, socially and economically for such a life changing event.
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
Amilah lost people are not sexually educated and it should be mostly the guy to be educated about it instead of having sex with random girls knowing there's a chance he can get her pregnant and if she does she can abort and since she's some random girl it's not his business.
@HermesChain
7 жыл бұрын
TheComment YouScrolledPassed are you a dumbass? Abortion will never be banned Abortion justifies for the girl it's what she wanted and it's her right and choice DEAL WITH IT and instead of worrying about someone else's business worry about starving children on the street, kids getting abused, and those kids that will never be adopted To excite that person has to be here and not in a whom it's not yet a person yet and it's life has not started.
@HermesChain
7 жыл бұрын
TheComment YouScrolledPassed I'm not gonna bother reading you don't want to get it's not your body or choice nor business It's an option like adoption and raise it deal with it and worry about yourself or kids on the street starving and being abused not a girl taking her right and dealing with her business
@RAS_1819
5 жыл бұрын
You saved your pregnancy test. That says more than any words. Please, someday when you understand the true magnitude of this moment in your life, remember that we can only make decisions based on where we are at that moment in time. I hope when you do start a family you will be able to use this memory as an impetus to better love your children. And that you have the courage to tell them. Much love to you.
@helenvancevance1407
5 жыл бұрын
Adoption
@justkatebake
5 жыл бұрын
Rachael Ackerman i agree... so much sadnes and epmtiness... poor girl.
@kiyariley3590
5 жыл бұрын
Written beautifully
@november11thh
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao the fuuuuuck??? This whole comment was wild. You dead ass sat there and thought typing this would be a good idea, and that hitting send was an even better one. Ew.
@firelily7790
5 жыл бұрын
@@november11thh you are stupid.
@honesthose
2 жыл бұрын
Sex was created by God for husbands and wives and not for unmarried people...This is what happens when you abuse the gift of God.
@KristinNirvana
8 жыл бұрын
I have lots of sympathy for you, but you have a right to know that the unborn are not just "clusters of cells." Science tells us that the are distinct living human beings, and that the heart starts beating at 3 weeks after conception, the brain is there at 2 and a half weeks, the limb buds are there at 3-4 weeks etc. And I'm an Atheist so I'm not saying at all that you are a sinner and going to hell...but we just can't change facts like that. Technically abortions do murder them. That doesn't mean you are a horrible person or anything, rather that society is wrong for telling women that their children are just "clusters of cells." You can't make informed choices without properly understanding the humanity of the unborn. Plus, making women feel like we have to get abortions if we become pregnant in order to have life goals like travelling or making money, is the real problem. We should fight for the right to not have to choose between our children and our careers and plans for the future. Anyway, I wish you well.
@NowLeavingNormal
8 жыл бұрын
+KristinNirvana I have seen an embryo at 7 weeks, it is not a human. There is not head, there are no limbs, it literally looks like a bean.
@KristinNirvana
8 жыл бұрын
+Now Leaving Normal It absolutely is a human. Science tells us that. I have no idea where you got this insane idea that somehow at 7 weeks it doesn't have a head or limbs. Maybe you saw one of those bad-quality black and white sonograms that don't show any details? (if so should know that that would never mean that they don't have a head or limbs, just like a very blurry photo of you would not mean that you don't have a head or limbs.) Here you can watch a video of it at 4 and a half weeks (yep that's a head and limb buds). www.ehd.org/movies.php?mov_id=21 Here it is at 7 weeks www.ehd.org/movies.php?mov_id=248 (not only does it have a head and limbs and fingers and toes, but it also hiccups by then too.)
@im2Oldddd
8 жыл бұрын
+KristinNirvana That's the same video I saw in my anatomy and physiology class lol. I'm not religious and was originally pro choice till I watched it. Way more people should be informed about fetal development as it can really open your eyes when it comes to topics like this.
@NowLeavingNormal
8 жыл бұрын
***** I saw the one that came out of my body, dumbass.
@KristinNirvana
8 жыл бұрын
+Now Leaving Normal Well it definitely wasn't at 7 weeks with no head or limbs, unless it was decapitated and had it's limbs cut off. Was it an abortion (because this would happen)?
@ashleygwynn516
8 жыл бұрын
Hi there. I want to thank you for sharing your story. It is so important to let it out, to share, and to relate. I am saddened by the comments coming from both sides on this video. I am Catholic and I want to thank you for speaking up about this because your video helps humanize women who have had abortions. I feel that women who have had abortions rarely speak out. It is very healthy to speak up about this. I am so sorry that you didn't have more support during your decision process. I want to just reach through the camera and give you a hug. You're so beautiful, smart and God loves you, no matter what. I can tell you have a very loving heart. Every breath is a second chance. Keep on breathing... xoxox
@selfcarelove0822
6 жыл бұрын
It seems like a lot of pro-lifers have the notion that women who choose to have abortions are happy about it. That couldn't be further from the case. Speaking from experience, abortion isn't an easy, simple decision. There is so much thought and emotion that goes into making that decision. But ultimately, due to various factors, the best decision for some women really is to terminate the pregnancy.
@emartin1057
6 жыл бұрын
Call it by what it is. It isn’t terminating a pregnancy, it’s ending the life of an unborn child.
@selfcarelove0822
6 жыл бұрын
rachel scott most abortions take place early in gestation, when the fetus is far from being developed. you must believe that life begins at conception, and that’s fine. i’m simply stating my own opinion on this matter.
@selfcarelove0822
6 жыл бұрын
Eve Martin most abortions take place early in gestation, before fetal development really begins to progress. i don’t find abortion to be the same thing as murder.
@selfcarelove0822
6 жыл бұрын
Just Me i didn’t make any excuses, and i don’t believe it’s wrong.
@emartin1057
6 жыл бұрын
Erin at what point do you determine life? This “gestation period” that you so call would be considered the embryo (before 8 weeks), which, at that point the babies heart, lungs, and brain waves are developed. I’m sorry but something with a beating heart has life- that is murder
@archeangeluriel
5 жыл бұрын
I remember being younger working for Starbucks I ran a night shift. One of the girls on my shift had an abortion, against her families wishes. What bothered me the most is that my boss wouldn't allow me to let her stay home. She came to work and could barely walk. I let her sit at a table and she just cried. She had to show some paperwork to my boss, and it mentioned she had shingles in the past. My boss fired her for not divulging that info at hire. But to be honest I doubt that girl would have known to mention it. I just remember thinking that was disgusting treatment of a human during the hardest time of her life. Nothing I said mattered though, I was not well liked by my boss either. I later list my first baby to miscarriage and thought of that girl. It's a horribly lonely experience to birth death.
@stephaniemuse
6 жыл бұрын
I was on the IUD when I got pregnant. I considered abortion because obviously, if I had wanted a child at this point in my life, I wouldn't have been on the IUD.... My husband and I ultimately decided to keep the baby because we have the support of our family and friends and we feel stable in our relationship. However, even in my case, there are days when I still question my decision to keep the baby... Like, how different would my life be without this baby? Did I choose to have a baby too early in my life? Will I be a good mother? Will my career suffer because of this decision. Two sides of the same coin. Like you said; it is not regret. You just will always wonder, what if. It is natural. It is an extremely personal decision and you are very brave for sharing your story. I wish you many days of blessings and peace.
@SartriLLe
6 жыл бұрын
Stephanie's Musings are you pregnant now or did you already have the baby?
@stephaniemuse
6 жыл бұрын
So qutrille : I just had my baby ten days ago! :D
@stephaniemuse
6 жыл бұрын
17sunnyhour : My husband and I waited till AFTER we got married to start having sex, and my IUD was already in place on our wedding night... Am I supposed to have a sexless marriage, then? I accept the fact that having sex creates the chance of having a child, even if protection is used. But pregnancy and a child should not be punishment for having sex.
@SartriLLe
6 жыл бұрын
Stephanie's Musings congratulations! 😍. Being a mother has its ups and downs, but it is extremely empowering and rewarding. Make sure you form a support group around you. I don't have a lot of family so I had to look for that. Don't forget to still be you!
@kristenjohns8498
6 жыл бұрын
Shut the fuck up 17Sunny.
@leshia1anna
8 жыл бұрын
I honestly needed this so much. thank you ❤
@leshia1anna
8 жыл бұрын
+Thomas Sheridan yea what's it to you?
@Bffae4539
8 жыл бұрын
+AnNa BeLlA if your baby could hear the things you have said It would try to fight for its chance to live. your mother gave you life, its your turn to give life to your own.
@emilyemilyyyyyy
8 жыл бұрын
Ignore the comments, it's your body and its your choice! Only you know what the right thing to do in your situation is, stay strong 💞
@leshia1anna
8 жыл бұрын
+Emily Summer thank you that's so sweet
@centerfoldbrat
8 жыл бұрын
+Thomas Sheridan I agree with you she is beyond stupid under here making comments about hows she's going to do it
@Naomi-wm3ft
8 жыл бұрын
why an abortion why not just leave the baby into adoption. Why KILL a LIFE?????
@ashtonbluerose
8 жыл бұрын
Why leave her with thousands a'pon thousands of dollars in doctor bills, why let her body go through one of the most traumatic it could ever endure, why add to our ever growing population, why force her life to be miserable, why not just end the problem before it truly begins
@Naomi-wm3ft
8 жыл бұрын
+ashtonbluerose so just kill it to save you some problems? okay. You are the type of person I pray to never meet in my life. The way that you think is disgusting.
@Katdelaluna
8 жыл бұрын
okay in that case lets talk about the baby? How are you so sure that she would never find a couple able to adopt a child? After all there most be a ton of rich( or well off) couples willing to adopt! oh wait- there aren't. oh well there is always foster care, but wait lets not forget the physically, mental, emotional, and sexually abuse the kid would be subjected to.Oh but that doesn't matter at least its ''alive''.
@ashtonbluerose
8 жыл бұрын
***** You are a special kind of stupid if you actually believe that our population is not growing fast and that it is actually a good thing....
@anaskies1988
8 жыл бұрын
+ashtonbluerose it's selfish to say are population is bad what If your mother aborted u..u would feel to good would you but then u can't feel BC you would be rottening and burning at a clinic
@theresawebb1447
5 жыл бұрын
Im pro-choice but watching this broke my heart...it doesn't sound like this is what you really wanted...
@NinaZuccaro0824
5 жыл бұрын
Theresa Webb She said it’s what she wanted several times. Just because the boyfriend wrongly assumed that she’d make this decision doesn’t mean he forced her at all. Please don’t be so quick to remove all responsibility from the woman and place it on the man. In this type of situation, no one “wants” any of the options they have to be honest.
@theresawebb1447
5 жыл бұрын
@@NinaZuccaro0824 ....I literally said nothing about the boyfriend. I said it doesn't seem like SHE really wanted to do it.
@amylouava5134
5 жыл бұрын
Just because someone wants it doesnt mean they feel good about it. It's a very difficult decision.
@alexusdumont951
5 жыл бұрын
Theresa Webb I didn’t want to experience any of it to begin with. That is why I was so sad. I used birth control to prevent this situation.
@Andshewasafairy
5 жыл бұрын
Alexus Dumont I watched your video about a year after you posted it, afraid that I was going to have to make this choice. But at the same time I was so relieved and grateful that I found someone that had experienced it and I could kind of understand what I was going to possibly go threw. I ended up not being pregnant but I did feel more confident leading up to that point since watching this. And I know that's what you intended this video to be for. So thank you so much for being so brave!! Thank you for sharing your story 💜 I hope you're doing good and I hope good things have happened to you since this. I can tell you're a very genuine, caring, good person and you deserve it
@cozmickitten5757
6 жыл бұрын
This video makes me so sad. I got pregnant at 17 (had my daughter at 18) and almost had an abortion. I went to the clinic, paid the fee, and then they told me that I needed to have an ultrasound beforehand. After that I just couldn’t go through with it. I told my boyfriend and he was surprisingly super supportive. So thankful we ended up keeping her because I can’t imagine life without her. I’m 28 now, and everything turned out ok for us thankfully, but I know that’s not always the case. So sorry you had to go through this.
@sagala40
6 жыл бұрын
good for you Lara.
@amandajean8394
6 жыл бұрын
I have had the same situation. I'm the same age. Now However, I am planning to terminate my second pregnancy. It is a very hard decision...
@natc1008
6 жыл бұрын
Harley Quinn just trying to understand why you, someone who is already a mother with a child.... why are you terminating your second pregnancy? Out of convenience? Did birth control fail? Did you have a one night stand or something? Ending ones life is something you can never undo... Why would that be a better choice than the alternative, letting the person live? You're already a mother. You know a fetus is a person. You're not ignorant. Why would you choose to kill an innocent person?
@Anna-kp9te
6 жыл бұрын
Harley Quinn You could put it up for adoption. If you live in the U.S. it won’t live on the foster care system, it will be adopted immediately because there are more people who want to adopt infants then infants in the system.
@ramywiles
6 жыл бұрын
Nat C I mean... adding a second child to the mix isn't something you should do lightly. It's not a question of convenience; it's a question of whether or not you can afford (physically, mentally, financially) to support not just one, but two tiny people who are dependent on you for literally everything. Or, if it's not that, it's a question of whether or not you can afford (physically, mentally, financially) to carry a second pregnancy to term while also going through everything involved in giving it up. Sometimes abortion is what's necessary and responsible to all parties involved, and that's fine. Also, if you're genuinely "just trying to understand"... using loaded language like "why would you choose to kill an innocent person" is a phrase that inherently casts judgment on someone's choice; you're no longer trying to understand them, you're just going after them. I'd suggest being careful with that kind of language.
@Ilovewashers18
8 жыл бұрын
I remember that I always said that if I got pregnant I wouldn't have the baby surprise is when I got pregnant and I saw my baby (I was 11 weeks at the moment) I saw his feet and his hands moving on the monitor and I was crying I decide to have my baby it was really hard since I had to work until my last month of pregnancy sometimes I was so tired working more than 10 hours and with a huge belly but he used to give me strength, now he is almost 2 years old and I know I made the best decision I love my baby to death I would do anything for him and now I can't imagine my life without him❤️ (sorry English is not my first language)
@juhill8172
8 жыл бұрын
+Arianna Lizeth So what? If you had 10 kids you wouldn't regret having them because nature makes you fall in love with a child when it's born but it's just an illusion. Your life you'd be better without a child that came at the wrong time.
@conycortescony2823
8 жыл бұрын
+Ju Hill i see how much of a negative person you are... society doesn't need people like you.
@conycortescony2823
8 жыл бұрын
i had the same experience. i am glad i took the decision to my baby i am already 36 weeks :)
@laurenhageman20
8 жыл бұрын
+Ju Hill it's just an "illusion" ?? um no .its blood its a child that literally grew inside you, that's literally a little you , its another human sou and its fucking beautiful.and not anywhere near a fucking illusion it is so fucking real maybe the realest thing out there. there is no wrong time btw. and i bet arianna has an amazing ass life just like me and my son. fuck off . don't put your dumb ass opinion in if you've never even fucking experienced having a child.
@Ilovewashers18
8 жыл бұрын
+Ju Hill oh well I'm not planning on having more babies I learn of my mistakes in already 26 and when I had him I was 24 and no there's no ilusion I've never felt so in love with any guy the way I'm in love with my son it's like I was never in love Before him even though I thought I was so everyone has their own opinion I have mine you have yours and that's it I don't regret the decision I took
@haleesander4177
8 жыл бұрын
I'm 13 and was raped and abortion never even went trough my min and I'm not even old enough to get a job I have people supporting me tho... if worst comes to worst put the baby up for adoption!!!! Abortion is murder
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
Halee Sander a lot of raped victims have said it was like being raped all over agin when giving birth and a lot have commuted suicide after giving birth It's not lifer if it's a fetus and not even a human being yet. I know it won't help but sorry for what happened to you but not everyone is you and wants to go through forced pregnancy
@misscinrose
8 жыл бұрын
Halee Sander, YOU are brave and wonderful.
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
you are incredibly brave, I know there is nothing that anyone can say that will make your situation better but for what it's worth I offer you my best wishes and hope for your life, who knows what's ahead :)
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
Amilah it doesn't matter if she was raped or not abortion is abortion it's the exact sale procedure She is telling other idle her she to risk their life it's s very small chance of survival for a little girl. It's brace to have an abortion and then tell your story and it's also brace to keep it.
@HermesChain
8 жыл бұрын
Amilah it's not being selfish if you want the actual pregnant person to be happy and safe and make her own decisions not take it away from her
@chanting_germ.
Жыл бұрын
Let's not get it sideways: you didn't "abort your pregnancy." Say it like it is: you killed your child. You don't get to go from "I got rid of a bundle of cells in my body" to "I wonder whether if it were a boy or a girl sometimes." Either you got rid of a bundle of cells, and it's not made the leap from amorphous, meaningless, blob of jelly to living human, thus requiring no intrinsic second guessing or crying, or its more than just its material constituency *from the beginning.* Ofc it's hard sometimes; your child was surgically murdered. And you did that to him/her. You brought life into this world, likely by (tragic?) accident, life that was beautiful, healthy, and innocent, and decided to end it. Of course you have been damaged - it will likely follow you for the rest of your life. How could it not? This has obviously been hard for you, so stop calling your dead child a bundle of cells. If it's a bundle of cells and nothing more valuable than that, then there's no reason to have felt anything at all about the process. But you did. Did you do what was best for you? Not for me to judge. You seem to think so. But let's not mince words here. Your child is dead. And on some level you know it. No matter how hard you try to psychologize it away.
@phuck8627
8 ай бұрын
You know sperm determines if it's a male or female right? The fact that it's male or female doesn't make it a baby
@braveheartcrew88
8 жыл бұрын
you're not over it
@dinaatjuh
8 жыл бұрын
+braveheartcrew Of course she is not. Would you be over it, so soon?
@Sarahmint
8 жыл бұрын
+braveheartcrew she never will perhaps a post-abortion support group would help?
@braveheartcrew88
8 жыл бұрын
+Sarahmint nothing is going to help
@aproxamillionwasps474
8 жыл бұрын
This happened in May 2015, she hasn't had very long, not to mention this isn't something you "get over" in any specific amount of time anyways.
@tonyboy4334
8 жыл бұрын
+braveheartcrew , and you can never get "over it" when you have an unwanted child.
@shayp2689
7 жыл бұрын
Anyone who's commenting mean things, you have no idea what you'll do when your back is against the wall. Wether you agree with it or not, she did it. That was HER choice not yours. So why are you so uptight about it? Was it your body or your child? Stop being hypocritical because the same ones yelling she's a sinner are the same ones who sin daily! Everybody sins so stop.
@gothgirlatheart3545
7 жыл бұрын
Shayla Nicole she killed her child!!!!!
@shayp2689
7 жыл бұрын
Vaxil Rae get over it. I'm sure you've done shit too. Stop throwing stones like you're perfect.
@gothgirlatheart3545
7 жыл бұрын
Shayla Nicole i'm not perfect but at least I'm responsible with my birth control, if I ever do get pregnant I won't bring my own flesh and blood! Just because God forgives her doesn't mean I have to! There is no excuse for unplanned pregnancy in This day and age -. People like this stupid girl either don't use birth control or don't know how to use it properly, get pregnant, and then murder thier children
@dingledangle265
7 жыл бұрын
lol.. everybody sins is a lame excuse.. christ almighty.. so I can just go murder someone because everyone sins.. no big deal we all sin! Ted Bundy should have used this as his defense he would have probably been let go.. ur argument is so fucking retarded Shayla Nicole I can't even express.
@practician5730
7 жыл бұрын
yes, everybody sins, but shouldn't we do the best to try not sin, instead of having the mentality "everybody sin daily, so sinning once in a while is alright"
@hannahjones1974
3 жыл бұрын
A baby is definitely not a cluster of cells. An unborn child at 6 weeks has a beating heartbeat and active brain waves. Pro life advocates are wrong to condemn you and I'm sorry for how they treat people. I'm pro life and I promise we are not all Condemning.
@tamarakacy-cornwall5507
5 жыл бұрын
Baby girl you’re phenomenal and brave for sharing your story. We are all sinners and no one in these comments should be judging you period. Just talk to God when your heart feels heavy💖
@murph1329
5 жыл бұрын
actually when you support normalizing a sin then judging becomes fair game
@Skarletjonancy
5 жыл бұрын
Judging? Yes we should be judging her you idiot.
@Skarletjonancy
5 жыл бұрын
So if someone killed a 10 year old then we shouldn't judge right? Fuck you!
@fbfb64
5 жыл бұрын
She's a coward for killing an innocent child who can't defend itself.
@standup2982
5 жыл бұрын
It's nobody else's business what a woman does with her own body. Well done her for speaking out.
@FrancescaVillani13
6 жыл бұрын
I went through a very similar situation. I had an abortion, but a medical one. I wish I did not have to make that choice, but I could not have been able to provide for my baby. I regret it, I miss being pregnant, I will never know their gender, I'll never see their face and I'll never be able to hold them in my arms. It was the hardest decision of my whole life and I don't know how I will ever get over it. But I also know that I could not have been able to give them the life they deserved. And I was also not willing to grow my baby inside of me for 9 months and then give them up. Women have to make the hardest decision of their whole lives, make it quick and take full responsibility for their actions and get called killers by people who will never be able to walk in their shoes. Stay strong women. Only you know what's best for yourselves.
@lorimav
6 жыл бұрын
" And I was also not willing to grow my baby inside of me for 9 months and then give them up." Why not? How could killing the baby ever have been better than giving them up for adoption? If you had to change residences where you can have no pets, would you euthanize your pet or at the very least attempt to place it in a shelter? Most people would take the pet to a shelter and let it live , how much more should one do that with a human being. I am sorry to be so blunt but frankly you are still in denial and rationalizing what you did. "Only you know what's best for yourselves." No, I'm sorry God created humans and He understands what is best for us. That is why there is a prohibition against murder in the 10 commandments. I wish you no harm but you will never find peace until you realize what you have done and cry tears of repentance and call to God for forgiveness. I have a female relative that had an abortion in part because of the conniving of her husband and the gynecologist. She never acknowledged her part in what she did and has developed a fairly serious mental illness. I have another friend who had an abortion, after some years of having no peace she repented and spends her Saturdays in front of Planned Parenthood begging women not to go through with their scheduled abortions. She has peace and forgiveness and she wants to prevent women from going through the hell she went through. Now she has the satisfaction that dozens of beloved children are alive and loved by their parents either biological or adoptive because of her counsel. Unfortunately that one child died but God has prevented the lives of dozens from being lost through her.
@FrancescaVillani13
6 жыл бұрын
4Veritas I don’t believe in God and I don’t let religion rule my life. I am sorry for what I did, but I’m also rational and know I had no other choice. I’m not judging you for believing in God and following his/her rules, but please stop thinking that that is the only way to live and be accepting of other people’s ways of living, just like God teaches.
@ascendednightingale2456
6 жыл бұрын
4Veritas Abortion was practiced in the Bible if a woman was found to be guilty of cheating on her husband. Read your Bible instead of pulling nonsense out of your ass.
@abigailburbridge4957
6 жыл бұрын
Francesca Villani Thank you for sharing your story. 💛
@veronicadiaz8486
6 жыл бұрын
Hornnnnn!
@asiaharchuleta6089
5 жыл бұрын
I got pregnant at 14 now I’m 21 with 2 boys and they are my world so happy I had them 🥰
@inuyashakarin
5 жыл бұрын
That’s not something to be proud of.
@lolahart3113
5 жыл бұрын
inuyashakarin mind your business. It’s HER life. Not yours.. the fuck
@ilovefrankocean7823
5 жыл бұрын
inuyashakarin fr
@inuyashakarin
5 жыл бұрын
Lola Hart mind your own then 😂. You should never be proud that you’re pregnant at 14. You just ruined your life, and that parasites life as well. You’re going to struggle the rest of your miserable life trying to raise a parasite.
@minettequintanilla9677
5 жыл бұрын
inuyashakarin how did she ruin her life if she seems pretty stable and happy but go off I guess 🤷🏽♀️ I’m 18 about to be 19 and pregnant did I ruin my life too ? Because I’m stable and happy as fuck lol weirdo
@catholiccrusader5328
5 жыл бұрын
'He/She who is without sin cast the first stone.' For all have sinned and came short of the glory of GOD; we're all sinners folks.
@sumtuus1229
5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true, but the other part of that is "Go and sin no more." We have to resolve as a society to do better. Women deserve better than abortion. Our society can find a way to love both mothers and babies and not pit them against each other. Not judging does not mean "just accepting" either; we have to do better. This girl is suffering and her baby was killed violently. This is heartbreaking.
@tpham7632
5 жыл бұрын
@@sumtuus1229 that is why fasting and turning to God is so important
@baileybarrett4654
5 жыл бұрын
Fred C. Wilson III And we are all clusters of cells also
@savannahcastellanos4117
5 жыл бұрын
Fred C. Wilson III some sinners are worse than others though...
@natural3362
4 жыл бұрын
The thing is we can't decide which is sin and which is not
@MsDoreen1990
8 жыл бұрын
the only thing i read in btween the lines is if she was to conceive again now either by choice or accident.she would keep it by all means..the pain is evident in her voice.she doesnt regret it coz shes now once more the 19yr living her "norm life..but deep inside there is that part of ripped away that cant b ever brought back...so lets not judge. m anti abortion.but i also knw wat judgmnt can do
@avdashkova
8 жыл бұрын
I am sorry you live in a country where you have to be judged like this (the comments).
@Naderade
8 жыл бұрын
She deserves to be judged. She is an irresponsible immature idiot
@avdashkova
8 жыл бұрын
So this is how witch hunt looks like...
@Naderade
8 жыл бұрын
+natzki spionen yes and you and these pro choice people are the victims.
@Naderade
8 жыл бұрын
+natzki spionen welcome to hell
@avdashkova
8 жыл бұрын
Luckily I don't live in your hell. I live in a country where women aren't judged or shamed for this and there is no pro choice or whatever you call the other position. People where I live have actually evolved. I would laugh at your comments if I didn't feel for other women that are daily targeted by this stupidity.
@stacygaskins1550
8 жыл бұрын
I myself am prolife, but I do not judge the choice of another woman. It is your body and not everyone is in the right place in their lives to take care of a child. You are so so so brave for telling your story.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
if you were truly prolife, you would know that it is not her body that was killed in the abortion. It's not judging to tell someone they cannot kill a child - born or unborn - it is PROTECTING a vulnerable human being. If you are pro-life you'll vote for Trump for President. He will appoint SC justices that will eventually overturn Roe V Wade.
@myintx
8 жыл бұрын
what words did I "twist"?
@fight_or_fightdarwinsshelf6443
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@anthonylynch575
8 жыл бұрын
+Stacy Gaskins, I am pro-life as well but that is the most retarded comment I've seen in a very long time, it's not her body, it's the babies!
@OhItsJustMe2
8 жыл бұрын
so you are ok with someone tearing a babys little body to pieces and killing it. That my dear is not prolife! That is what your mother should have done to YOU!
@ariannagoodman9277
5 жыл бұрын
i’m 3 years late but i just want to say i respect you for sharing your story. i know some people may be hating on you but the fact that you posted this is so brave to me. a lot of people in a similar situation may need something like this to help them make their decision and your perspective will be very helpful. i hope you are doing well, lots of love :)
@christinenewhouse1264
6 жыл бұрын
I wish I can meet you and give you a big hug...Im sorry what you went through...no JUDGING here..God bless you.
@nickc3856
6 жыл бұрын
"no judging you for murdering your child" *DISGUSTING*
@guitarttimman
6 жыл бұрын
You should tell her that she made a mistake, and that she should view it as one. You should tell her that it's not too late for her to change, and that she needs to post another video that discourages others from making the same mistake, and you should pray for her.
@dashmatt7445
6 жыл бұрын
I would discipline her.
@christinenewhouse1264
6 жыл бұрын
1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-8 PRAYERS FOR ALL WHO PRACTICE FORGIVENESS...PEACE AND LOVE.
@guitarttimman
6 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness is great, but people must still do their part to earn it. It's analogous to a convicted criminal who is given a second chance. If he/she goes straight and doesn't repeat their previous crimes, then that is okay. However, if that person is guilty of recidivism, then he/she cannot be trusted. I think forgiveness must be earned. The person has to stop committing the offense and work toward doing better in life.
@annabrandi5461
5 жыл бұрын
I want an update. She is hurting. I want to hug her. She could have done all those things while being pregnant as well.. God is so merciful. I will pray for you
@sumtuus1229
5 жыл бұрын
That's true... And now her baby would be entering preschool, bringing home finger paintings, etc. She missed out on a lifetime of love and the child never got a chance... for a summer in Europe. This is so profoundly sad. Bad advice from mom and boyfriend.
@amara560
5 жыл бұрын
@@sumtuus1229 People with children are statistically speaking less happy. So her life might be even better than what you're describing.
@saylorsmith7428
5 жыл бұрын
sumtuus1229 are you completely unable to empathize at all? this young girl was so brave to share her story, one that so many women go through and never get to speak about out of fear that people like you will completely disregard their feelings and make them feel ashamed on top of the whirlwind of emotions they’re experiencing just living through the aftermath of abortion. also, if you think it was simply for “a summer in europe” you must be stupid.
@imsugar
5 жыл бұрын
sumtuus1229 okay and? Who’s to say she won’t have kids in the future. Let women do what they want with their fetus #prochoice
@thefenerbahcesk4156
5 жыл бұрын
She gave up her virginity. Then she killed her child. What does the Bible say about that?
@musicftw711
8 жыл бұрын
why keep the pregnancy test with the date on it?
@nancybroertjes5160
8 жыл бұрын
musicftw711 kind of like "why did she keep that dress???
@dragonfruit6532
3 жыл бұрын
I can see how sad she is. I’m praying she’s okay. She’s such a beautiful woman and doesn’t deserve this. God rest her baby’s soul.
@dbagdaryl
3 жыл бұрын
If you're getting biblical you should know baby aren't baptized before 12 the baby is going to hell
@peachlife5118
6 жыл бұрын
From someone who is pro-life personally, you seem like a very intelligent and conscientious young lady who knows what she wants out of life. Stay strong and thanks for being brave enough to post this video for young girls who may need guidance and comfort. God bless and always look forward!
@mackenziewalters157
8 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people are commenting saying that she is a child and shouldn't be having sex, but she's 19 right? Yes 19 is young but automatically when you are 18 you are "legal" and can have sex. Also when you turn 18 you have the CHOICE to smoke and vote, but yet some say "oh you aren't ready for sex if you don't want a baby" and suddenly you don't have that same CHOICE anymore. I don't know, I just thinks it's silly. Sex isn't only about a baby, it's enjoying your partner's love or whomever you choose to have sex with. Some are ready earlier than others, some take more time to feel comfortable. It's weird to have someone telling someone else when they should or should not feel ready for something personal and intimate.
@mackenziewalters157
8 жыл бұрын
I get what you are saying but that's why there is protection. Different people have different opinions and this was her choice to do and if at 14 you become a dad, which I have a tough time believing you are ready for a kid at that age, then that's what your choice is.
@Bb-qd3zs
6 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for sharing your story. Don’t let the negativity get to you. At the end of the day, you make your own choices and it’s no one else’s business.
@Bb-qd3zs
6 жыл бұрын
Right Winger worry about yourself
@Bb-qd3zs
6 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Irvin lmao
@elainazimmerman5105
6 жыл бұрын
Amen
@nimrodfilms5104
6 жыл бұрын
well'its'the'dads'business'to
@OnTreader
6 жыл бұрын
Honey Claud Stop telling us to pay for your business.
@philmaliawaits8552
4 жыл бұрын
I can feel the sadness from her & it breaks my heart. 😥
@barbaragroover490
8 жыл бұрын
Frankly, Chuck, it makes me sad she made this choice. I listened intently to her testimony and tried to put myself in her shoes. No matter what, I couldn't get over the fact that no matter who SHE is, yet another baby has been aborted. Another child is dead before it's had a chance to live. Sure, she had fun in Europe and she's "free" of the baby, but at what cost? The cost is too great no matter how I try to view this. The cost is too great. I think it was a selfish choice, despite listening to all her reasons for doing this. It's very sad.
@baileesmith4533
8 жыл бұрын
Barbara Groover She said herself she's not financially stable. Her boyfriend didn't want the baby. he could of possibly left her. That puts her in more financial debt. would you rather her keep the child and both their lives be shit?
@OhItsJustMe2
8 жыл бұрын
There is this thing called adoption. And guess what! The baby does not die!
@barbaragroover490
7 жыл бұрын
Bailee Smith Yes
@barbaragroover490
7 жыл бұрын
abedabun dawn Absolutely correct!
@baileesmith4533
7 жыл бұрын
Amilah That wasn't her situation nor would it be at the time. Let's face it, most guys don't want to commit to a pregnant chick in under 9 months (Since she was already pregnant.) Taking care of an infant is extremely expensive, diapers, formula, clothes since they're constantly growing, and most of all time. When the fetus is under 6 weeks, it isn't a child. It's a fetus, it can't feel. Some people just don't want or need or can't have kids in their situation. (Adoption is an option, but it's expensive and a long process, and some woman may not want to give birth.)
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