You are so compelling and thoughtful with each of your answers. Thanks for sharing, Skylar. Much love
@simonbanks3112
9 жыл бұрын
There was a part of that where I thought you were afraid of running out of tea....yeah, I'm from England.....
@adviceneeded6195
9 жыл бұрын
LOL
@MelissaFmelimcmonkey
9 жыл бұрын
+Simon Banks I thought he meant running out of tea at first as well lol
@kyihsin2917
9 жыл бұрын
+Simon Banks Me too! I thought, "I hate running out of tea too, but I wouldn't call it a fear", and then I realized what he meant...
@literaltrash2043
8 жыл бұрын
Same! I was like, "Tea?" then I remembered he meant T[estosterone]
@bbqsauce6412
6 жыл бұрын
same here..but I am from kazakhstan
@hdavis9951
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being so open and honest.
@ilovebilliejoe35
9 жыл бұрын
And I'm so terrified of my mom passing away. If she's gone for longer than planned I freak out and think the worst. I have to tell her I love her like 10 times before she leaves the house. If she passes I just feel like I won't be able to stay alive anymore. She's keeping me alive. And it's probably my biggest fear ever. I hate it. Like eventually I'll have to move out, I'm 21. But I can't stand that thought. Like I love her so much. Idk what I'd do without her.
@mrsgummibananenable
9 жыл бұрын
Hey name buddy, Jenny :) I can totally understand you!! It's normal that you don't wanna loose your mom, but I love her more than anything and anyone else. I live her more than myself and my own life. If Im just thinking about that she could pass away I'm almost crying. Iam thinking 'im not ready for this couldn't live anymore, I wouldn't have a reason, I don't wanna be without her' But the truth is, you will never be ready- and the day will come, for sure. Hopefully I'm stronger when that day arrives. I wish you all the best, we're not alone!
@selgrosso471
9 жыл бұрын
you're so cute in a hot way but like seriously you're awesome and I love listening to you
@DYM66
9 жыл бұрын
You're a golden being and you are my inspiration. I've started documenting my physical transition because of you and I"ve loved watching you grow for the past 5 years of watching your videos. Thank you for documenting everything, You've helped me.
@MicahsMommi
9 жыл бұрын
You have such a relaxing voice. It's so calming, caring and reassuring. Just thought I'd let you know.
@gerardpritchard657
8 жыл бұрын
I love and resonate with this video so much! You're awesome, Sky!
@gabriellamorales1597
9 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate to the memory thing. Alzheimer's runs in my family and, while I'm only 21, I'm constantly forgetting things. So I'm probably a little more worried than I need to be about being the one in the family that will get it.
@xirtkaeanjax
9 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for about 5 years now, and I have always enjoyed your positivity and openness to sharing your experiences. Thanks for being such a guiding light for so many!
@TheTadghB
9 жыл бұрын
Sky, you are one really adorable person! :)
@alexhaney100
9 жыл бұрын
Dude I have a ton of these same fears, namely the fears about conspiracies around drug cures, running out of T, death, losing people to accidents... not so much sharks though ;) I just had my first experience two weeks ago where my pharmacy didn't have T, and I had my hysto about nine months ago. It was scary. I also worry about the price going up like with the HIV drugs, or even moreso the companies who produce it stopping production because its not profitable (like they did with anti venom, which the world will run out of within a year). I actually have a ton of anxiety about death, which yeah, definitely gets worse in hard times but Im also a single parent so even in the good times, I have a lot of fear of leaving my daughter an orphan. Anyway... SUPER uplifting right? lol just wanted to let you know you are not alone, and sending you love and support. We'll figure it out.
@MewWolf5
9 жыл бұрын
I relate to some of the same fears as you. One of these is the fear of failure. For me it's not necessarily failure of individual tasks, but in life in general. I fear that I will end up too ordinary, not doing what I want to do. A boring, unfulfilling, undesirable job. Not getting any books written and published. Or of just wandering, with nothing done, being helpless and with hardly any money. If I'm not in the right frame of mind when I get these thoughts, I can feel very bad and my mind gets carried away.
@iamJamessss
9 жыл бұрын
bostonian? OMG! we have to meet up and film together!
@punky19761
9 жыл бұрын
I have a major fear of sharks, too.
@jaydcruzdof6573
9 жыл бұрын
What up dude, you're such a inspiration and I love your videos as well. Thank you for everything and striving me to be me.
@WindMageMaster
9 жыл бұрын
I think losing people either by death or loss of acquaintance is one of my biggest fears, because it always leaves a pain you can't ever fully get rid of. Kinda like a wound that heals down to a scar. It's still there when you look at it.
@SSCC27
9 жыл бұрын
Guess one of my biggest fears is losing my friends, and it's already happening because we started college this year and barely have time for anything
@PuddingCat101
9 жыл бұрын
I dunno why but watching your videos makes me feel so much better about myself to know that everyone is the same, with fears which may not be always rational! But we're all awesome too :D
@Linn10.31
9 жыл бұрын
I have a fear of sharks, too. It's gotten to the point where I don't like being in the deep end of the pool alone and I don't like being in a lake when I can't touch the bottom, no matter how many people are with me.
@mrsgummibananenable
9 жыл бұрын
Oh sky, the first sentences you said about cancer made me angry, because what you said, is possible. I never really thought of that but youre absolutely right! My Dad died because of cancer a few years ago.. If I just imagine that there would have been a chance to cure it, If this will ever ever become public..I'll freak out. But THANK YOU sky for talking about it.. I don't know why but it feels like we are all close to each other. All the people who has to deal with cancer in theire family or on theire own. Thanks for open up my mind again! You're amazing!
@stevefreedman470
3 жыл бұрын
Sky my darling....I just came across your channel and you are so, so sweet....I too have fears as well....I will be turning 60 in December and I have a fear of getting older and physically decline later on in life. I am afraid of heights and being alone. I also had a fear of losing my mom but the Lord took her away from me in 2009 and I miss her VERY much! My dad passed this year from complications of Covid. All in all, I try to confront my fears when I can and also speak with my therapist about it to get a different perspective. Take care dear, you are certainly a breath of fresh air and I will be subscribing to your channel. XX 😊👍🐻❤
@ljtuggle5067
8 жыл бұрын
I think it would be a huge plus to reveal a cure to cancer. If greed is involved, they would make a fortune on the cure. So don't worry. Also death is something we all do. So there's no use in worrying. You are very young. Just be careful driving and the basics in life.
@BeatrizNielsen
9 жыл бұрын
I have some of these same fears. I have fear of surgery, it's probably my biggest and more irrational fear and the weirdest thing is that I'm not fear of death so i don't really know why I have this stupid fear.
@charlie-sz4si
9 жыл бұрын
Today in common ground people were talking about you and your speaking at the school last year. Also there is a framed picture of one of the posters that was Put in the school for you. It was really cool.
@stephdevorah3267
8 жыл бұрын
Man you're actually adorable, I can't
@oaksong
9 жыл бұрын
No FEAR “I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” ― Frank Herbert, Dune
@Belushi87
9 жыл бұрын
i think its common to fear things that we can't control. like you said, death. we don't know when its our time so we have a bunch of "what ifs" and start to freak ourselves out because of it.
@ericedwards8234
9 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the fear of decision making, as well as the fear of losing people, in the sense that I could do something that would cause them to no longer be a part of my life. To this end, I really, really try to avoid making decisions that could polarize or hurt the people I care about, even if in the process I end up hurting myself. I guess that it all boils down to a fear of being selfish.
@Rid97527
9 жыл бұрын
I actually had a conversation about cancer the other day, & a couple people pointed out that apparently a cure has found & it hasn't been released because of the monetary aspect of it.. Idk if that is true or not, but I certainly hope not )):
@ilovebilliejoe35
9 жыл бұрын
I am the same exact way with sharks. Like in the deep end of a pool I'll freak out that somehow there's a shark under my feet. Lmao it's so dumb cause sharks don't appear from nothing, but it's still freaky.
@GamingNinja77745
9 жыл бұрын
I have a number of fears. The things i fear the most are Heights, Spiders, Injections, Ice covered roads, Dentist and the Dark :(
@GamingNinja77745
9 жыл бұрын
+Sehy3 yeah dentist sucks. and funerals really creep me out :/
@GamingNinja77745
9 жыл бұрын
+Sehy3 ewwwww gross
@hhouseofwolves
9 жыл бұрын
I definitely have all of these fears. Except maybe the one about sharks...
@bridgetsomerville1534
9 жыл бұрын
I really feel you on the balance between my own needs and the needs of others. :(
@Hjw145
9 жыл бұрын
we have really similar fears but I think it's healthy to have a few fears since its part of being human..Thanks for the vid, enjoyed it :)
@TriumphT140
9 жыл бұрын
When I was 14 I got banned for life from one of the city pools for yelling Shark! at the top of my lungs. About 1/5 of the people in the pool started scrambling to get out of the water. Most kind of laughed it off but a couple were so embarrassed and played it like they'd been heading to the snack bar all along. As to my biggest fears, I've got two. I've got 3 syndromes and complex-ptsd - and as a result of that stuff I ended up in bed for 4.5 of the last 6 years. I spent the last 8 months trying so hard to claw my way back from it, I'm still 45 pounds under weight, still no real muscle to speak of, and my stamina is pathetic. I'm terrified that I won't be able to get back to where I was before (which was still only like 2/3s strength of your average healthy guy), especially because of the way the Klinefelter's effects my ability to put on weight and muscle. The other biggest fear is largely wrapped up in the Complex PTSD, because of how I got it I'm terrified of intimacy and freaked out by physical contact. As a direct result of that and some other things I've not been able cuddle, hook up, or have a relationship with any guys for a touch over 15 years now (since I was 16) and I don't know how to fix it, I think I'm going to end up alone for the rest of my life and that scares the hell out of me.
@deemoore97
9 жыл бұрын
I think I'm most afraid of failing myself. It's more to do with things that mean a lot to me. Like today I had my final music practical exam for school and I had 3 nightmares about it before I woke up really stressed out this morning. It caught me off guard too because I didn't even think I was stressed about it. It ended up going really well though :)
@ellock1998
8 жыл бұрын
Fear of isolation and abandonment. Both physically, emotionally and for life (all in a different way). I'm not really bothered by many other things (except cockroaches... Those are horrible).
@Jathwon
9 жыл бұрын
Your 100% right about cancer. If you get a chance look up Chris Beat Cancer, also the documentary Forks over Knives, and the book The China Study. I've never looked at the world the same when I found out that I could take my health into my own hands.
@KeithandKaylee
9 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way about sharks! I literally couldn't shut my eyes in the shower when I was younger because I was afraid a great white would somehow come up through the drain!
@jaybird7
9 жыл бұрын
i have the same fears of dying before i've accomplished certain things, or losing my memory because like yours it's not the best.. i'm most afraid of being alone though, as selfish as it may seem.
@rollinround45
9 жыл бұрын
In regard to the Cancer cure fear, I don't think the cure is like clearly known amongst many people that are keeping it hush hush, but I do fear that there are enough tools and understanding to get to the cure easily, but instead they're all going the long route.
@noahtransdude8407
9 жыл бұрын
I surf with the sharks every day( live in Hawaii) and know no one who has ever been attacked. Sharks will almost never attack a human
@olivererickson6138
9 жыл бұрын
I think I am alone in the fear that when swimming in any lake a giant turtle just a few inches smaller than the size of the lake is going to come up and i'm going to stand on a giant turtles back. Not that it will eat me or attack the world, just of its presence beneath me. I've had this fear for no reason since I can remember. XD
@kitenimbus4997
8 жыл бұрын
I have a fear of being on love and forgotten
@Princess_Pixie
9 жыл бұрын
I'm afraid of life sized or bigger robots, balloons, driving, and being suffocated (claustrophobia to an extent). and yeah Alzheimer's runs in my family so that's pretty scary.
@laurahtje
9 жыл бұрын
I have a fear that someone will stab my friend who I love so much. She's told me not to worry about this. But she's so important to me.
@LupinWolfy
9 жыл бұрын
duuude I get that fear of sharks in pools. I haven't been in a pool in years actually, but when I took swimming lessons as a kid the way tiles in pools usually were would look like --| on the bottom and it always looked like a scary hammerhead shark to me >
@JessikaJaye85
8 жыл бұрын
I CAN'T WATCH YOUR FACE WITHOUT A HUGE, STUPID GRIN ON MY FACE lol My cheeks hurt! You just come across as so happy and friendly
@marisaanna
9 жыл бұрын
You do so much good for the world :)
@probablyalex
9 жыл бұрын
I seem to have a fear that I'm going to be killed. Just randomly if I'm trying to go to sleep at night, I get this awful feeling almost take over my body. And I just feel like something terrible is going to happen, and it stops me from getting out of bed even if I like really have to pee or something. This happens to me quite often and it makes me scared to go to sleep. But also spiders 😆
@RenaissanceQueer
9 жыл бұрын
Didnt know you were from Boston! I am 30 miles north of boston, im in Georgetown! :)
@Rid97527
9 жыл бұрын
I have an irrational fear of losing my boyfriend honestly.. He's my favorite person in the world, & idk what I would do if I lost him x
@marcuspmitchell8299
9 жыл бұрын
one fear I have is that ill never be able to transition
@graveyardgh0sts
9 жыл бұрын
When you said your fear of running out of "t" I thought you meant tea. and I was like, shit man, that scares me too. oh ps. yes I am also really scared of sharks and deep water. Even in pools, etc. Some of your fears are very similar to mine
@derekadams9066
9 жыл бұрын
I...Have a fear. I'm afraid of teddy bears. especially the build-a-bear bear. I am afraid they have little cameras watching it the little clear plastic eyes.
@lokilane1261
9 жыл бұрын
I have the fear of losing my memories alzhymers runs in my family
@adviceneeded6195
9 жыл бұрын
Aww :( I hope you'll be okay in the future. I sincerely mean that :(
@lokilane1261
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@kiwiexcat1021
9 жыл бұрын
I also have a huge fear of sharks :
@okimlistening2u
9 жыл бұрын
Skylar, I understand your fears. They are born in your idealism. I share them with you and that is why I love you. Always know that there are many of us that are with you as brothers and sisters in your fears. We are always with you and a part of you. Your trans situation has nothing to do with our love for you, that is eternal. We love you so much, bro........................Ray
@inspectoroftheunusual9147
8 жыл бұрын
Death is nothing to fear. Death is like being born, you don't know when you're born and you wake up on this orb hurdling around a giant fire ball in space lol. I feel it's the same when you die; you wake to your highest consciousness. Running out of tea is way scarier than death! lol What's your favorite tea?
@erwan1355
9 жыл бұрын
well, i have a huge fear of GREMLINS, dude! like, they don't even exist and i just freak out when i think about it, especially a night or when i'm taking a shower bc they duplicate when they're wet so yeah.. haha otherwise i pretty much share the same fears as you
@black_winterr
9 жыл бұрын
I have a fear of being lonely.... um... and a little of heights :p . I'm not really afraid of death.... I wouldn't want it to just come out of now where and take me... but I'm not afraid of it really. I am a little afraid of being Trans also, only because I'm afraid of losing my friends which leads back to being lonely. .... um... yea... I think those are the major fears of mine :p
@adviceneeded6195
9 жыл бұрын
I have the same fear about losing friends which is why I haven't told any of my friends
@black_winterr
9 жыл бұрын
AdviceNeeded Yeah. I have a friend... he's straight and I really love him, and I've actually mentioned to him that I had thought of getting top surgery... he didn't agree with it and tried to show me the great things abt being a woman... I haven't mentioned anything abt being trans to him. I want to, I'm just afraid of losing him, what makes it harder is that he's my first real friend. >_> I want to tell him.... just not sure how. :(
@vampiroyerba
9 жыл бұрын
oh man as a transman to i have a fear of rejection it sucks i also have a fear of never getting to where i want to be in life and such. i always think that theirs no way ill get top surgey and T cause its gunna be so expensive and such but yea. i also have a fear of losing my cat cause she means so much to me so when i think of one day losing her it really freaks me out.
@Faustobellissimo
8 жыл бұрын
Hi Skylar, I am curious to know how much you spent for your transition, in total, hormones + surgery, since the beginning.
@probablyalex
9 жыл бұрын
When you said not having excess to T, I honestly thought you meant tea the drink... To British 😆
@lukaselijahephraimlarkins1467
9 жыл бұрын
My biggest fear right now is getting on T. I am freaking out about it. Some days I want it and others I am like no I don't want to have a shot right now! Cancer, dyeing, putting my head under water, sleeping in the woods in a tent, sleeping alone in a house, eating meat, not knowing if I want kids or not that look like me, getting old, mowing the lawn, never making my friends and family happy with what I want to do. Then my biggest one right now is finding a job that i love and not hate the boss 100%! Can you do a video on what you love and hate about new england please? I'll do it too! Filming this weekend. Please go check out my daily vlogs. I'm funny!
@ajtrans9916
9 жыл бұрын
ive lost few family 2 cancer. i agree w u on this conspiracy. fact u fear the same thing of sharks being in lakes n that aint silly bc i fear the same. like wen I was a kid since i watched jaws even tho i love scary movies i was always creeped out by lakes n stuff. weirdly not so much the ocean since that's were they mainly r lol.
@keel7898
9 жыл бұрын
I agree with the hidden cancer cure lol I mean, who knows?
@jasonmcquillen6073
9 жыл бұрын
lol when you first said you're scared of ruining out of T I thought you meant tea
@noniLaus
8 жыл бұрын
+Jason McQuillen me too xD
@leedaniel2002
9 жыл бұрын
Isn't your first fear a family guy episode
@Ima_robot
9 жыл бұрын
See now when you said you feared running out of T, I was thinking tea and figured you must be secretly British
@od01532
9 жыл бұрын
Once you have a hysterectomy, is it true that you no longer need such a high dosage of T? My endocrinologist told me if I have a hysterectomy I could switch to gel or patches because my body will no longer produce so much estrogen and I won't need nearly as much T to overcome the estrogen. I've been on T for almost 15 months and have been at 100 mg every 14 days since I started. It would be nice to be able to use gel once I have a hysterectomy and no longer have to give myself injections. But will I still see desired changes if I switch to gel or patches?
@StoneyySam
9 жыл бұрын
I'm so attracted to you, ugh. You have the best personality, and you're so damn cute.
@derekmn5179
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Sky, just so you know the word "cripple" is considered a slur (in different contexts obviously), and casual use like that could feel to someone like... I don't know how to phrase this- I guess like you're not acknowledging everything that it means to people who have had to live with that word. Just a thought (from a non-disabled person who could be totally out of line).
@Muamuakiiis
9 жыл бұрын
Omgg i feared sharks all my life, i geat you so much hahhaha
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