Thank you all for the support, and if you're going through something similar just know it gets better.
@ElizabethDohertyThomas
Жыл бұрын
Love your story. There are so many happily dull gay people out there, living their lives! I'm so glad you're witnessing to their lived reality. My upbringing was the exact opposite- super sexual, super liberal, and I was the prudish virgin through it all, not believing having young person sex was enlightened and more mature. It's so interesting how we can come from opposite ends of the spectrum but have much in common as humans in this wildly diverse world. Keep rocking your channel!
@JorgeRicardo540
Жыл бұрын
Hi Amir. You're a good person. That's why I shared the gospel with you. I am praying that God blesses you abundantly. Thanks for your videos.
@Alli_94
Жыл бұрын
amir iam a gay egyptian and i wish to come out but if i did people will kill me over here i really dont know what to do
@TheJoseMTapia
Жыл бұрын
Enjoy listening to your story Amir :)
@PoshPaperCreations
Жыл бұрын
As I’ve told you on IG (because in my head we’re friends 😎) I love you and your honesty, always! From this 53 yo “whitish” 🤭 mostly conservative, southern Baptist, straight mom/wife I wish YOU were the official spokesperson for the gay community! Bravo!❤
@coleperez799
Жыл бұрын
dear god, I have never felt so seen and understood in my life. this was one of the lowest points in my life where no one knows wanted me to be me, but rather wanted me to be "gayer". Amir, you helped me find myself again so i can be me instead of being a part of me.❤❤❤
@amirxodom
Жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of love and hugs, Cole!!!
@Huhhistory
Жыл бұрын
As a 16-year-old lesbian girl who is still in the closet, thank you very much for this video, Amir. You are really an influencer that I admire a lot and I hope that more people discover your videos, which are great ✨✨✨
@heyo80
Жыл бұрын
17, gay and also in the closet (to some people). I feel you, keep going!
@alliea2006
Жыл бұрын
@@heyo80what do u mean in the closet if u don’t mind me asking ?
@iceisnice11
Жыл бұрын
@@alliea2006”In the closet” is a term used when a person who is either gay, bi, lesbian, etc *hasn’t* come out yet. Although I was never really “in the closet”, I think it means that that person has not come out to their parents and friends, and sometimes, “deep in the closet” means they’re not even accepting themselves. There are reasons to why they’re not out, sometimes because they’re unsure, or because they don’t feel safe and it’s not a good time. To those that are “in the closet”, just know that I, your lesbian sister, will support you whenever you decide to “come out of the closet” ❤
@alliea2006
Жыл бұрын
@@iceisnice11 thank you for explaining
@nathanwilson4814
Жыл бұрын
22. Not at all gay but I give you the upmost respect
@sophielesher8002
Жыл бұрын
christian here. I'm really sorry for your traumatizing experience at home, in the church and with the pastor. people dont know how to love others well sometimes, particularly loving the gay community. ive had numerous struggles that most people will never understand but ive never had struggles with my sexuality. so ill never know what that's like, but I presume it must also be a very difficult struggle. and for that, my heart really goes out to you, brother. I hope you experience warm love in the future, the way Jesus loves all of us perfectly.
@Kingofthenet2
Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said honestly
@sophielesher8002
11 ай бұрын
@@Kingofthenet2 thank you
@cheesesteak983
6 ай бұрын
We need more ppl like you. I don’t believe homosexuality is a sin
@dejus_e
4 ай бұрын
@@cheesesteak983Well, you can’t deny it isn’t a sin, but we shouldn’t go harassing others not to be homosexual. I can’t just deny Lev. 20:13 and 1 Cor. 6:9
@joylindadichamounix
Жыл бұрын
As a straight, white woman who has always stood for gay rights, part of their rights is realizing that they do not all fit into one group. You don't have to be a woke, liberal to be gay.
@flowerpot3787
Жыл бұрын
this right here. Hell, many gay people have a problem grasping this concept.
@sayareyes3387
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, many woke morons are too sensitive to look at this from a more objective perspective. So may things that disagree with them are labeled transphobic or fascist.
@anna-gt2mu
Жыл бұрын
A
@sarahconnor9692
Жыл бұрын
@flowerpot3787 as do many straight people who tar us all with the same brush.
@genesisgryphon1582
Жыл бұрын
I'm a straight white male 31yo and I'm way more degen than my gay uncle and his hubby. They go to church lol
@Brad_Polumbo
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for speaking up and sharing your story, Amir!
@the_yung_anunnaki
Жыл бұрын
Amir, you've been through the wringer for your sexuality, and you're badass enough to denounce the flaws in the modern pride movement. Absolute G. Stay strong, brother.
@TheThunderinghammer
Жыл бұрын
I'm a straight Christian, and I got nothing but respect to you, keep up the good work
@Big_bounce_
Жыл бұрын
i don't think ur proud of being christian.
@Goebber15
Жыл бұрын
Why are there so many Christian’s in support of his sinful ways?
@TheThunderinghammer
Жыл бұрын
@@Goebber15 Amir seems like a good guy just trying to live a decent life, I'm not going to condemn him for what he chooses to do with another consenting adult behind closed doors because he keeps it there. The world has LGB people, its just life, but I would rather them be like Amir then the other lunatics and sex fiends out there. So I respect him for standing up to against the madness.
@migarr6676
Жыл бұрын
@@Goebber15i totally agree. I remember the times when conservatives were against gay marriage. Now we have ppl like Blaire White, Lady Maga (drag queen), Caitlyn Jenner, and a wide acceptance of lgbt people in the conservative movement. What has our movement become?
@peanutmurgler
Жыл бұрын
@@Goebber15Probably because they believe in separation of church and state/government.
@IceTrey04
Жыл бұрын
As a 19 year-old homosexual man, I haven't came out to anyone in my family; mostly because I haven't had a real relationship yet and thus haven't felt the need to come out, but also because I'm a little worried about them treating me differently. (Not in a bad way, more so that they would treat me like the gay family member instead of just simply being Trey.) Thank you for sharing your story Amir and I hope that this video helps anyone struggling with coming out and accepting themselves. 🥰
@genzi78514
Жыл бұрын
Maybe, when you are ready to come out, you need to tell them that you really don't want the label of the "gay relative" and you just want to be treated the same.
@jirehla-ab1671
Жыл бұрын
how would you describe & handle a person who gets jealous if the person doesn't get the attention from a friend. OR The person won't get jealous as long as tthe friend is only devoted to him/her.
@IceTrey04
Жыл бұрын
@@jirehla-ab1671 I'm sorry, I don't think I understand what your asking and how it relates to my comment?
@jirehla-ab1671
Жыл бұрын
@@IceTrey04 just distegard it, & move to correcting conservatives that: White / Whiteness / white supremacy refers to capitalism, NOT skin color.
@iulia.bianca.b
Жыл бұрын
Wow, I was not expecting to get so emotional over a video. Your teary eyes right mid video broke me. You're such a strong man, Amir. You're an amazing person and a great role model for today's youth. Smart, driven, fair, balanced ❤ I'm so glad your grandpa was such an amazing man right when you needed him, you lucked out ❤
@TheWildernessurvivor
Жыл бұрын
As someone who grew up in church, and had a gay cousin come out in middle school, this was a really convicting story for me. I wish I would have done more to support him, and love him, as he was obviously going through a tough time with his identity. Thank you for sharing Amir.
@xoxoxoxoxoxoxo6921
Жыл бұрын
Coming form an outside perspective (a straight man) you are doing wonders for the PR of the gay community. It’s good you’re connecting with your audience by sharing this story I believe you have a bright future on youtube
@TheCegafam
Жыл бұрын
A 35yr lesbian married woman. It does get better, I came out and it was horrible. But I have a great relationship with my family, my parents love my wife. It gets better! Thank you Amir! You’re amazing!
@shaneekabatty-cross
Жыл бұрын
The thing I'm scared of when I get older. Is if a man hits on me, when I'm older. And I say I'm married. And say with a girl, and he starts getting aggressive
@katieflick888
Жыл бұрын
@@shaneekabatty-crossno need to say who you're married to, frankly it's not his business. Just a "Thanks, but I'm happily married." Works for me usually anyways lol
@shaneekabatty-cross
Жыл бұрын
@@katieflick888 Ok,ty
@yourlocallesbian6448
Жыл бұрын
@@shaneekabatty-cross yeah I have the same fear
@shaneekabatty-cross
Жыл бұрын
@@yourlocallesbian6448 Yeah.
@teddypeony185
Жыл бұрын
I have never more wanted to reach into the screen and give a big hug to Amir.
@Tugendd
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Amir for sharing your story, even though it might have been difficult for you to open up like that, thank you for this. You're such an inspiration to so many people, I hope you know it. You're doing a great job, keep it going!!
@marcusdib
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sharing your story! You are so awesome!❤
@iceisnice11
Жыл бұрын
To those who are in the closet, or perhaps not completely out yet, just know I, along with hundreds of thousands of others, are there for you. Coming out will be different for everyone. Some of you might have accepting friends yet hating parents, accepting parents yet hating friends, both hate or both love, but whatever way it is, know that *you* matter, and eventually, you will find something, or someone, that will matter to you.
@Big_bounce_
Жыл бұрын
27:55: "And Lut, said to his people, do not commit immorality against your better judgment!" 27:56: "Do you lustfully approach men instead of women? No, you are an ignorant people."
@Goebber15
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_yes, I don’t know why so many religious ones are in support of being gay.
@leviacronym6770
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_ “There is a difference between you and me. We both looked into the abyss, but when it looked back at us…you blinked.”-Batman “If you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at yourself, and make that change.”-Batman “No miracles…No mercy…No redemption…No heaven…No hell…No higher power. Just life. Just…us.” - Batman “It’s not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me.”-Batman I have learned more on how to be a decent person from BATMAN, and not from bible verses.
@galechicago325
Жыл бұрын
I’m a straight old lady, but I love your videos because you are so clear-thinking. You have such strength, you remind me of my closest friends. We’ve had deep friendships for over 30 years. Multi-faceted individuals, interested in many things, being gay never interfered.
@MichaelAughtman-wf6im
Жыл бұрын
Coming from a hyper conservative Christian family, while I agree with a lot of what my family believes, I'm very supportive of the gay community and they should be allowed to love who they love and are not really any different from anyone else. As always, we all breath oxygen and bleed the same color, a person is a person.
@rakantopinibl5736
Жыл бұрын
I agree totally ❤ God loves everyone
@Goebber15
Жыл бұрын
@@rakantopinibl5736God loves everybody, but he doesn’t love the sin
@rakantopinibl5736
Жыл бұрын
@HD0W_o8 don't speak of what you don't know. Jesus calls everyone to him, this isn’t up to you to pass judgement on their sins or whatnots. The only thing asks of you is to love others.
@migarr6676
Жыл бұрын
@@rakantopinibl5736in the bible being gay is a perversion
@peanutmurgler
Жыл бұрын
@@Goebber15Whether or not the Bible homosexuality as sinful is actually pretty subjective, I would advise not to push your interpretation onto others as objective truth just because it may be shared by most Christians
@peytonpatrick8577
Жыл бұрын
I came out today, not really my decision but it happened and it was terrible so I appreciate you sharing your story.
@ExploringWithBenandSam
Жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work Amir. As a gay, Republican, veteran, and just all around guy, like you we just want a normal life and it is just the woke crowd that is pushing the agenda beyond reason. I live in the Houston area, but lived all over the country, never felt "at risk" or "in danger", so these claims made a lot of times are ridiculous.
@ABadJokeYT
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your service to our country!
@Dannalasapa
Жыл бұрын
Not in your country, you wouldn’t be in danger bc systematic homophobia has been dead for years in the USA. But in different countries ppl really ARE in extreme dangers just bc they’re LGB. It’s important to have these conversations as privileged Americans/western Europeans for them. Bc sadly, so many of them loose their lives daily if they’re found out
@manuman5319
Жыл бұрын
@@DannalasapaAmerica is a very big country, pretty sure there are places were being an outspoken gay is still dangerous.
@iulia.bianca.b
Жыл бұрын
@@Dannalasapa I'm sure he's talking about the woke lgbtqia+ in the US who act like victims and like they're in constant danger in the US of A. That's what's bothersome. (Jussie Smollett comes to mind suddenly)
@justaturky2890
Жыл бұрын
I feel that way a few kids at my school were attacked for being gay
@jewellier
Жыл бұрын
Hey, just wanted to say that your story is incredible and your content is extremely refreshing. I grew up with the notion that if you're a member of LGBT, it must be a big chunk of your identity, and it honestly was for me for a long time and maaan was it awkward. I'm so happy to see people with similar experiences and especially people who say that being gay is not the most important part of me, I'm much more comfortable now with the clothes I wear and the words I say
@fermenteddetached
Жыл бұрын
Hi Amir! I'm not gay or bi, I am somewhat ostracized and silenced in my country for reasons other than sexuality, but your videos still help me feel more understood while providing some food for my thoughts. I guess it's because all outsiders feel pretty much the same way. Thank you.
@sageof6pandas233
Жыл бұрын
I am currently in the closet and intend to stay there until I turn 18, this video really helps me. There aren't any other words I can say that summarizes my thoughts better.
@iomis2001
Жыл бұрын
I found out I was gay at 15 when I was swimming at a female friends house and her 17 year old brother took his shirt off to swim with us. I was confused, but I could not stop looking at him. Though I got lucky and two understanding parents that never made a big deal about it. I feel really bad for gays who's parents turn their backs on them.
@Goebber15
Жыл бұрын
Holy crap people don’t “find out there gay” everyone is naturally born to breed with the opposite sex end of story period.
@Crawlingdreams418
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you're doing better now. I'm struggling with my identity as well, hope I'll accept myself. Sending hugs.
@user-hm1zb8js5i
Жыл бұрын
The biggest fear I have about being gay is knowing I will never be able to have biological children. Because I am an only child, I am also the only one who can carry on my family legacy. I don't know how my parents would react if they found out I'm gay and their legacy will die out with me.
@alycia-j4790
Жыл бұрын
Anything is possible these days with science! Also adoption is out there and blood doesn't define a legacy. I can definitely understand where you're coming from though, and sending you hugs. You will do great in life just be true to you!
@Micah_Coatha
Жыл бұрын
Of course you can have biological children. There is surrogacy and IVF out there.
@Fantisma7
Жыл бұрын
Just adopt, there’s so many children out there that need a father
@candicantsleep
Жыл бұрын
Surrogacy is helping lots of gay men have children. Women donate eggs just as men can donate sperm. You can definately have biological children and I hope you do!
@heyo80
Жыл бұрын
I understand, I’m gay and also and older sibling so although the pressure isn’t the same older siblings are expected to have kids first which puts me in a difficult space. Just know that there are alternatives for having kids, and I’m sure you would be an amazing dad 🙂
@grih115
Жыл бұрын
Hi Amir thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm so sorry you had a super uncomfortable experience, especially with the church and a pastor. I"m a catholic women and I've been following you for a while now. I can see that some "christians" don't always do or say the best thing and it pains me to see thats the way they handled things. My younger sister a while ago was also feeling confused about her sexuality and instead of being ridiculed and ignored and sent away to "get fixed" my mom was there for her, listened to her, spent more time with her, treated her no different and showed her so much love. In the end she did end up loving and practicing our religion and is no longer having questions about her sexuality. What I'm trying to get across is that I wish more parents did the same thing my mom did, she never even told my sister that she shouldn't be gay or that she was gonna go to hell. I teared up watching you tear up about the experience you had because I couldn't imagine my little sister going trough that. Even if my sister still said she was gay we would love her the same and treat her the same, shes also the one that told me about you and we've been following you for a while. Because of my religion we may not agree with some stuff but what that whole situation with my sister taught me is that it that never means we can't be friends with people just because they have different opinions and that no matter what the person identifies as or is, we should treat them with respect and love. anyways lol love your videos and love you too. you always have me cracking up
@Jayyy_11
Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you talking about your coming out story, I’ve struggled with my sexuality ever since I was 12 years old! This gives me confidence and courage! Appreciate you gang! ✌️
@janealdworth4341
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this video. Both my kids are in the LGBTQ, my son has lost 3 friends to suicide and has had a tough journey but the one thing neither of my kids has had to deal with is not being supported by family especiallly me. I am so sorry you had to go through conversion therapy and your experience of this. NEVER EVER been anyone but YOURSELF. This was brave of you, i wish you love and a happy life in front of you.
@thesaltgrinder8419
Жыл бұрын
It's very interesting hearing what you went through as a full on gay person as opposed to myself who is bisexual because our experiences are VERY different in some aspects yet very similar in others.
@franxz4401
Жыл бұрын
Listening to your story, I realize that I am lucky to have an accepting family. I am grateful for that. Wish you the best. Be excellent to each other.
@kevinsims2876
Жыл бұрын
17:39 There it is👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Glad I found your channel earlier this year. It's really refreshing seeing more gay people coming out saying "this over flamboyant shxt is corny and suffocating"
@S.27-bz5ge
Жыл бұрын
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@mhlengindlovu6577
Жыл бұрын
What an inspirational video. I'm a gay man living in S.A 🇿🇦 It is not easy for me because I grew up in a very conservative family and I honestly don't know how they will react when I come out, especially my mom. I really loved your video. It really gave me hope ❤
@Kurrymiu
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for being a feminine gay male. I don't subscribe to the stereotypes, but I just feel bad for being feminine cause of what conservatives, society, biology, and all the masculine figures in my life may have to say or think about me. I'm afraid of being wrong and being me. So i stayed in the closet for so long, but im "out" and trying to grow confidence. EDIT: Omg Thank you all in the comments😭 I will live life as it was for me and no one else's intentions or standards. I appreciate all the kind words💕
@Crawlingdreams418
Жыл бұрын
Masculine lesbian here. Idk if it will help you feel any better, but I feel like it's just a coincidence in both our cases. If I were feminine or between masculine and feminine, I'd still be sapphic. You're perfect the way you are. There's nothing wrong with being a feminine man. Sending hugs
@Kurrymiu
Жыл бұрын
@@Crawlingdreams418 thank you💕 sending hugs back
@alexalexutzzu600
Жыл бұрын
I don t think it is that bad remember you don t owe anyone anything and just be yourself with whoever you feel comfortable with pretty much, i don t know your situation with your parents and wherè do you live to advise you about it but just surround yourself with accepting people. I am a str8 male for the record but i ve been groped and pretty much sexually assault3d by boys in my childhood so i had tendencies to become a femboy and i did but i ve come to see that was just a social construct and other disturbing things made me want to feel that way
@CR-og5ho
Жыл бұрын
Be confident in yourself. How you feel about yourself has nothing to do with your value as a man. In my experience real masculine men aren't insecure about their masculinity and have been accepting of me as a feminine guy. Those figures in your life aren't Conservative or masculine, they're just assholes by the sound of it. Ignore them. Life would be boring if everyone was created the same.
@sara_4321
Жыл бұрын
As a Christian just do what you want. I know that homosexual practices are forbidden in my religion but you’re not Christian and don’t have to follow what my religion says. I hate seeing Christians saying things like "you can’t do that" to gay atheist people bc it doesn’t make sense, if someone is not part of a certain religion they don’t have to follow the rules of that religion. Plus , its just the practices that are forbidden : BEING gay ( = just being attracted to the same sex ) and doing homosexual practices are not the same. It was just to tell you to be confident. Be safe ✌🏾
@howardmctroy3303
Жыл бұрын
The world needs people like you Amir. People who are good and thoughtful regardless of their race, sexuality, or identity. Because right now, the worst of us are running amok.
@carrie618
Жыл бұрын
The "conversion therapy" breaks my heart. Sounds absolutely horrible at such a tender time in development, like it could crush a person's soul. I was raised in an ultra religious and conservative home. Lots of talk of fire and brimstone. But "gay" & "abomination" always felt wrong to me, so it went in one ear and out the other. We are all made in God's image, and that's enough for me. Thank you for sharing! 💜 I bet a lot of people can relate.
@Big_bounce_
Жыл бұрын
i guess chrstians don't read their bible. thank god for islam ,the only monthiestic religion
@Goebber15
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_ as a christian I can confirm these people have never read their bibles
@AoKajii
Жыл бұрын
It's definitely a very inspiring video. Thank you for talking about such difficult moments you went through. I have no doubt it will resonate with a lot of people and help them ❤
@seanhorton925
Жыл бұрын
Amir I usually don’t comment but I had to for this video…I always knew I was gay but I never admit it. Yesterday I just woke up and looked in the mirror and said it out loud and there was a sense of relief. I can now be honest about who I am and know what I like. Thank you for your kind words and support. I wish you much love and happiness. Btw I enjoyed story time. Appreciate you for keeping it real
@amirxodom
11 ай бұрын
It’s an honor to hear Sean. Thank you.
@Heckinghaley25
Жыл бұрын
The part where you mentioned school crushes really resonated with me. All throughout elementary and middle school I never understood the concept of crushes, I literally thought you just chose a random person to pretend to obsess over because the concept of liking someone of the opposite gender was something I couldn’t even understand, boy was I surprised when I found out that was just because I was gay. Keep up the good work, I wish I had a video like this to help me when I was younger. ❤️
@Itslauraokay
Жыл бұрын
Your story reminds me so much of the movie Love Simon. I’m so sorry you went though that but glad you learned to love yourself and embrace who you are as a person. Who you love should never define you !!! I feel like stories and experiences like this are what caused society to move to the other extreme and has caused so many people to now spread hate towards Christians and churches but NO extreme is good. No one should be shoved into a category or box!! Everyone should feel accepted in this world. Character and morals are what ultimately defines a person in the end!! Love your content btw 💛
@Dylan1202_
Жыл бұрын
People who think being gay is a choice are just ignorant and delusional. Nobody would go through the struggles and immense judgement that comes with being gay unless they absolutely had to. I didn’t choose to be straight and gay people don’t choose to be gay. Attraction is biological and even in this video, he TRIED to choose to be straight but it is just something you are born into. I believe there is a possibility that it could be some type of genetic defect that has been made common place over generations but it is in no way wrong. Religious people just can’t cope with their God creating gay people so they claim it is a choice. Imagine a group of people trying to represent a loving/forgiving entity but spreading and embracing hate.
@Dylan1202_
Жыл бұрын
This is not ALL religious people but extremely common. Just value everyone, mind your damn business, and move on with your lives.
@Kingofthenet2
Жыл бұрын
As a Christian I agree and support your take. We are all made in Gods image regardless of our sexual orientation or attraction. I support gay people embracing their attraction but knowing there is much more to them that just that
@liaml.e.5964
5 ай бұрын
Agreed, if I had the choice to be something else than gay, I possibly would. But that's simply not who I am.
@DD-wd7ku
3 ай бұрын
Sexual preference is genetic just like the colour of your eyes and hair, being right or left handed. It should not be termed as a genetic defect, it's just makes us all different.
@bigmeatcoems
3 ай бұрын
I have to disagree, you see sin comes in form of temptation, wether you are being tempted to lust, or lying, homosexual urges count too, nobody said resisting this temptation is easy, but just because it's difficult it doesn't make it okay to do,there is no sin of not being with the opposite sex, there is for being with the same sex. Anyways I'll disregard confrontational comment on Religion and Religious people and remain respectful and loving, stay safe everyone 🙏☦️❤
@eduardomerino8098
Жыл бұрын
My first kiss was with a guy. I never played a straight act because I have always know I was never into women.😂😂😂
@Big_bounce_
Жыл бұрын
in islam if you have lust you fast(like ramadan) to avoid shinanigans like this .
@Jonathan-ju8rf
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_In Islam, you stone your wife to death, if she wants to separate. In Islam, you kill all non-Muslims. Enough is enough! I’m proud to live in the West with western values.
@TheberryY
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_not everyone believes in your religion.
@discussingwithyouisfutile1703
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_no one asked
@shaneekabatty-cross
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_bounce_Who asked? Not everyone believes in Allah.
@dano3803
Жыл бұрын
You’re story is inspirational and similar to mine. Thank you for sharing Amir.
@amirxodom
Жыл бұрын
Always! ♥️🫶
@candicantsleep
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking out. I think yours is a very important voice for people who are just trying to figure out who they are. I'm so glad I stumbled across your page!
@jirehla-ab1671
Жыл бұрын
White / Whiteness / white supremacy refers to capitalism, NOT skin color.
@kopokopo20
11 ай бұрын
im so glad i watched this. literally tearing up rn. still in the closet w my conservative asian parents so this really gave me a lot of courage. really glad ur willing to share ur story! it was so emotional hearing it. i really respect u and i'm so thankful for all u've done for our community
@amirxodom
11 ай бұрын
Keep you head up, you’ve got this ♥️ thank you for your support and I’m thankful for you being here.
@elysebrown9715
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this video, I think it’s important for a lot of people. I’m bisexual, but I rarely identify myself as such just because I just don’t think it’s all that important, it doesn’t define me. I write fan fiction and being in the fan fiction community on social media for many years now, it’s been… interesting. It’s full of young people forcing stereotypes about gay men on everyone, it’s extremely over sexualized and I can’t imagine what it’s like to be a young gay person being subjected to it. On the other side you have the religious people forcing you to try and be straight. It’s so confusing to wade through both sides trying to force their opinions and beliefs on you when all you want is to be a person!
@sylviceland
Жыл бұрын
Full support from Iceland🇮🇸
@MrGaryYT
Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how I found your channel but I’m glad I did. I’m Bi and I agree with everything you have said in your video. I just live my life the way I do. There is nothing wrong with having pride in who your are but people literally take it to the extreme and end up damaging their own reputations. Keep making videos because I’m interested in hearing all your opinions. Much love brother.
@ricileigh88
Жыл бұрын
I know it's not funny, but "a pocket of AIDS?" 🤔😂 I'm glad you are OK now. Thank you for sharing your experience. And you're cute. Of course you pulled the girls back in the day. 😀
@dixonjamesofficial
5 ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@sararichman6612
Жыл бұрын
Wow amir when you talk about meeting the pastor and you get all choked up. I cant imagine how hard that was for you❤ ❤ ❤ you are such an important voice. More power to you. God bless!
@herbprice7286
8 ай бұрын
dear Amir, thank you so much for making this video as a black man who was raised in the church and always being told that homosexuality is an abomination. I know you can understand what I’ve been through. I’m 63 years old and at this point I can finally say that I’m free, and I don’t care what other people thinkand that I can live my truth. Thank you. May the most high continue to bless you and keep you and keep doing what you’re doing. You’re much appreciated much love.❤
@amirxodom
8 ай бұрын
Means more than you know to hear this. Thank you for sharing and for being here.
@romanest8981
Жыл бұрын
I love this!!! This is so important for people to see and know it gets better and that being gay IS NOT your end all, its just part of you. I was raised Christian and am still Christian, I cant imagine going through conversation therapy, and I am so sad people EVER thought that was ok. You're so strong man, thanks for sharing your story!
@sincerelynotme3522
Жыл бұрын
Amir is such an inspiration to so many people. Keep doing you Amir and keep being awesome in your own ways.
@betteresting5351
Жыл бұрын
I have to say, If I see a rainbow anything for pride, its done. But for those who are Gay, Lesbian, or Bi, just continue to be you and support yourself as an individual rather than who you like to sleep with. I have a handful of friends that are gay and I interact and respect them for who they are. Contrary to my religious beliefs, people have the choice to do what they want with their lives and I strongly disagree with pressing that sort of thing on people who do not want to live that way, regardless of how faithful I am to my church. What I do is my issue and what you do is your responsibility. Brother to Brother, I respect the hard work you put forward and your ability to empathize and so on. Keep it going man.
@nikka8106
Жыл бұрын
Ughhh amir I love you so much, I just can tell your soul is so pure and beautiful.
@jackhstanton
Жыл бұрын
I loved hearing your story, Amir! I'm a gay man myself and I've been I guess out for a few years now and at one point, I did try to fit the gay stereotype and have these 'exciting stories' about meeting people online (luckily, I never went through with these or else I would've probably been kidnapped). I sometimes still find myself questioning my sexuality but it has helped to take homosexuality out of my identity, and I never reference being gay unless it's relevant to a topic of discussion, and even then I keep it behind closed doors. People will talk shit, especially because quite a few religions are against homosexuality and tbh I don't care if they are anymore, they have the freedom to live their life and follow their beliefs but I don't need their affirmation or approval, life gives so much freedom when we accept that the only affirmation needed is our own! Love watching your videos, man!
@yazminetenley3933
Жыл бұрын
I love this video so much. Thank you for sharing. People get so caught up in aspects of themselves such as race, gender, and sexuality, when those are the least interesting aspects of them! I’m glad to hear that you’ve found peace. ❤️
@ronnymirabal3746
Жыл бұрын
Your content is one of the most grounded and healthy we can see in the internet. I appreciate your point of view. 👍🏾
@Desenter_7
Жыл бұрын
I almost tear up with your story I'm glad you're being yourself for ever mate
@kaylynwilliams2126
Жыл бұрын
Amir, you are a courageous, articulate, beautiful soul. I'm sorry you had to feel that way. If nobody has ever told you, I'm proud of you! Keep doing what you do and those of us that adore you will always be right here beside you! I love you, my friend! ❤
@stephenstag618
Жыл бұрын
That was an amazing transition to a Surfshark vpn ad amir. 10/10
@YoonahNam
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I am a recent fan of your videos and can relate to the way you think, the things you stand for, and general outlook on life. You really went through so much without compromising your authenticity. Thank you for being you. I’m very glad I came across your channel. Thank you for sharing your story and for all the work you put into making these videos. You are one of the few out there to be sharing some very important messages
@LALA-ur3gg
Жыл бұрын
Amir I admire you so much and I’m so happy that I have found people like you who are brave to voice their opinions. As a bisexual woman I was pressured by my other gay friends to dress bisexual whatever that means so people would know. I remember wearing flannels and cuffing my jeans and listening to girl in red because they told me that I should act and dress like a bisexual whatever that means 😀 but I never liked that and I got so fed up with it. I wear clothes that I want to wear and like things that I want to like. I stoped telling people I’m bisexual and trying to prove through my clothing or the way I act that I’m bisexual. Being bi is just a part of me like you said and I’m not gonna go around flaunting that I’m gay because I don’t need to prove anything to anyone. Some of my gay friends tell me why do I dress like a “straight person” or act so “straight” WHATEVER THAT MEANS and I tell them since when did all gay people have to act the same or be the same. I was never okay at Pride Events or what’s going on with the LGBT movement right now and I’m glad I can find people like you. Love you amir I’m glad to have come across your content.
@SupaDupaSnoopa
Жыл бұрын
You're the best. I'm closeted Bi to my family, (still love them tho, and they love me) but some friends know. Someday I want peace like you've found. I have it now for the most part, but that final goal of finding myself is what we all strive for. Thank you!!!!
@michaelbailey3299
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the words of confidence, there're so many people who are hunting and need support. Stay strong my brother.
@Davidchavez.
Жыл бұрын
Love your content man. I’ve definitely binge watched most of your videos. Keep it going 👊🏼
@ForgetfulxNeko
11 ай бұрын
Amir, I know I’m just a stranger but from 12:20-12:40, I felt that. ((HUG)) Thank you for all that you do, and thank you for being here and being a beautiful voice of reason in this crazy world. Wishing you and your hubby all the love and happiness. ❤
@darcichambers6184
Жыл бұрын
Amir, I'm so sorry you had to go through with that. I was terrified for years that my parents would put me through conversation therapy. I didn't tell my mom until I was 20 or 21. It's been so long. I don't remember quite when. What I do remember is her silence and her walking away from me. Then, a few weeks later, she handed me a book on praying the gay away. We have never had a conversation in the 25 years since about this and how our relationship has been affected. I was heavily involved in church as a child and teen. I went 4 or 5 days a week for social reasons. I still miss it. I grew up in the UMC, where our message was open doors, open arms, open hearts. We were taught never to hate a person but hate sin. So there were gays and lesbians in my churches growing up. Because of other issues I had, I didn't realize I wasn't straight till I was 19 and in college. I was hoping to find acceptance in the LGBT community, but I'm bisexual. I found out very quickly that I was hated by the community just for being bisexual. I got more hate from gay men and lesbians than from any straight person I knew. It was the gays and lesbians in my church who encouraged me not to go back into the closet. They taught me that sexuality wasn't identity. They were the ones who had lost partners and friends to AIDS. So I know what I like. I'm currently not looking for a partner as I've been married for 20 years. But if something should happen, I'm sure I'll find myself dating both sexs before deciding on the next person to possibly settle down with.
@S.27-bz5ge
Жыл бұрын
As a bisexual man I've gotten the most hate and least acceptance from liberal/woke gay people.
@darcichambers6184
Жыл бұрын
@S.27-bz5ge almost every bisexual I've ever met has faced hate from within the LGBT+ community. I find the woke side screaming that transgender individuals are the most hated within the LGBT+ community to be laughable. It has been and remains bisexuals who get the most hate. Sexuality is something you're born with unless you're bi. Then you must choose to be gay or lesbian. Otherwise, you are a "bad Bi."
@kayhitzler8003
7 ай бұрын
Oh, Sweetie, at 1205 I just wanted to give you a really big hug. I’m so happy that it did get better for you!
@JA-ii7gg
11 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you went through all these things when you were a child. I'm sorry you were outed by someone else instead of when you were ready to come out yourself. I'm also sorry you were forced to attend conversion therapy. You are a great personality and I love watching your videos. You seem like a very intelligent, friendly man who deserves good things.
@Lpp360
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing your point of view, and sharing more truth, than a lot of people, in the world.
@JRedrum
Жыл бұрын
That sponsorship segue was so smooth I didn’t start skipping ahead until it was almost over lmao.
@timpekarek9159
2 ай бұрын
I'm watching, and having a few tears to be honest. I'm so sorry that you went through all that. You spread a lot of good advice to people who really need to hear it.
@flowerlover7271
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooooo much for sharing!! I'm currently in the closet and this reminded me that I'm not alone and that everything WILL be ok.
@TheJungletarzanboi
Жыл бұрын
I’m very happy to have found your channel. Thanks for your amazing work ❤
@liarin2999
9 ай бұрын
I cried. I wanna hug you thank you ♡
@beckbro6585
Жыл бұрын
I'm straight, but thank you for sharing your story. You hit the nail on the head about how some in the gay community makes it their whole identity and it's freakin annoying! That and exposing kids to sexual things. I mean, if it's wrong for straight people to do that then it should be with the gay community as well. Like you said, what is done behind closed doors is no one's business. Just want people to be their authentic self and let the kids be kids.
@CarniBarbie
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for being so open. I have a gay nephew, and I’m the first one he came out to. That made me feel good. Love your content so much! ❤ I’d be so proud to have a son like you!
@Bazroshan
Жыл бұрын
(1) Amir, you are a very engaging speaker. Not too quick, nor too slow, no going round in circles, no unnecessary detail. (2) Trying to be a clone of a fixed ideal is just as silly for gay men as it is for straight men.
@KellieEatsCrayons
4 ай бұрын
Aaawwww, I'm sending you a big 'ol *MOM HUG* from Texas! (not in a weird way) You truly are a remarkable soul .... 💚💚💚
@jt8572
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Amir. I could see the pain of having to go through conversion therapy as you were telling the story and I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
@shyartistry
Жыл бұрын
While im not the most supportive of things like these, I still care about people, I dont hate on anyone, unless they make it their full personality and appearance. My half-brother is bi and recently married a guy and while I dont know how to react about it still, I still care about him obviously, but I just dont want or like to focus on that sort of thing, cause when people focus on those things the more uneasy I feel about people, I have a lot of trust problems with people and when my anxiety flares up and topics are leaning around things it does affect my perspective on the person. But I will say this and I do mean it, I appreciate you for who you are as a person, and I'm glad you help give people like me another perspective on things, and Im glad your not close minded on life and society the way it is now. I'm still growing up as a person as I'm only 18, but thank you for sharing your story.
@lucassggabriell
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting on the hookup culture topic , I got in into it and it destroyed me . And it’s so hard to leave , you feel like you will never find anyone outside of Grindr
@larcenystation
10 ай бұрын
realizing i was gay was a whole rollercoaster for me too. i first thought i was bi (still think i may be), then i thought i was non-binary and trans )i thought i needed to change myself because, yeah, i was lost), and im starting to come to terms with it now. im still figuring it out, but thanks Amir for making this video as it makes it clear for a lot of us. love u babes 🫶.
@MG________
Жыл бұрын
You're a good dude, Amir. Just sharing this will help others. All the best.
@zelxcdqgssui
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully with your mom she comes around, and if you ever decide to have a kid or kids she can meet them, I hope whatever the case she eventually comes to love and accept you fully and maybe even comes on to make a video with you.
@torylynne
5 ай бұрын
My nephew went thru what you went thru with conversion therapy. It's crazy. I'm a Christian.God loves his people, gay and straight.
@DeezeeBreezee
Жыл бұрын
Our stories are very similar... thank you for sharing Amir. I was forced to come out twice... this is inspiration to me to share my story as well. Tha k you so much for everything you do for our community.
@Harrow567
10 ай бұрын
Oh my God, I’m so happy that you spread your story to help other people that need to hear it. You’ll be alright and I hope you get through it and I hope you help other people in the future. You’re not alone. There are other people out there that are dealing with the same problems as you we’re all in this together we’re all human.❤
@Mimi_life_x3
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story, I’m sorry your mom couldn’t come all the way around to love you unconditionally. Big hugs 🤗 I stumbled onto your channel a few months back and I liked you immediately (probably left comments on some of your videos also) you remind me so much of my nephew in how you handle yourself. As far as I know my nephew never came out. He’s 25 now, but we always knew. He is my sisters oldest and I remember her and I having conversations when he was still little and she always said he’s just (insert name here) to me regardless of who he ends up loving. None of us ever pressured him to either come out officially or to pressure him into liking girls. He’s always just been himself. When he went away to college I think is when he finally discovered himself, he came home that Christmas with a boyfriend and that was that. That for a lack of a better term was his “coming out”. So for my nephew it will always be love is love ❤️ My motto is there is someone for everyone 😊
@jirehla-ab1671
Жыл бұрын
White / Whiteness / white supremacy refers to capitalism, NOT skin color.
@Mutnojdet
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for telling your story. It was clearly tough to verbalise it all at points but thank you. I’ve watched a few of your videos now and I adore your message of individuality. Humans are a beautiful, complex and vibrant tapestry. No person is just one part and I love how this message / philosophy underpins all your rationale. Much love.
@BigKat96
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your courage for sharing your life experiences in coming out and your journey to find your voice in life, and it is good to see you with a community of subscribers (myself included) that like,care about, and respect you for who you are and wish the best of success in life.
@smcallah1
Жыл бұрын
I love this video, so heart felt and raw. I am someone who remembers the normal gays and tries to defend you whenever the need is there. My best friend is gay and like you most people find it hard to believe, because that isn’t his focus of his life. Keep it pushing Amir, you are going to make a change and help people going through something similar
@dinosaurwoman
Жыл бұрын
My friend, it took me many years to accept myself for who I am. I have diagnosed severe clinical depression and anxiety, I don't get along with people in general because I'm too intelligent (and I know how arrogant and weird that sounds), I have had medical problems that nearly killed me when I was 12, and I have hated myself and my body since I started puberty. I know it might not sound like much compared to what you have gone through, but I have learned that parts of me are bad yet I can still live with them. I also have learned to focus on the good parts of me--activism for animal welfare where I have literally saved animals' lives and got an animal abuser into court, publishing books by authors who don't get chances in the current woke market, speaking up for the centrists of the world. It's realizing that I can acknowledge and handle my bad while putting my good out there. I am very happy for you that you've come to similar conclusions, and I am sure you will continue to grow and learn more about yourself as you get older. Peace and happiness to you.
@jim9520
4 ай бұрын
Amir what a great video. I agree with the way you think about being gay. You are such a sweet heart. Keep up the great work and please keep making videos.
@paolaaaaaahh
Жыл бұрын
Much love to you Amir, this was a very emotional video. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@jirehla-ab1671
Жыл бұрын
White / Whiteness / white supremacy refers to capitalism, NOT skin color.
@valerierose817
11 ай бұрын
Your story is so relatable
@rivgadeextras
Жыл бұрын
I love this guy!
@DeltaAirlines737
8 ай бұрын
As an 18 year old gay guy, I loved the whole video but especially the end where you talk about the whole “gay community.” Thanks for putting my thoughts into such great words.
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