Story 2- Bro married a straight up Karen. He's also just as responsible for the trauma his son's dealing with by not putting his foot down and allowing her to walk all over both of them. Don't be surprised if the son cuts contact when he turns 18.
@RyukinJakka
4 ай бұрын
This guy literally started a life with someone he didn't know
@KiraNazena
4 ай бұрын
Yes he should have intervened sooner. The poor kid is traumatized for sure.
@GallowayJesse
4 ай бұрын
guy is 100% to blame he married a liberal
@jsb1585
4 ай бұрын
OP is just as culpable, imo. "He's not allowed to hang out with his friends". Are you not also a parental authority, where are your balls, man? Put your foot down and check her on that BS. Poor kid.
@BrokenHedgehog
4 ай бұрын
OP in story 2 needs to GTFO. He's teaching his son a VERY bad lesson about relationships. It don't matter if he "doesn't want to divorce her," when you have a kid, what you want don't mean jack shit anymore. You do what's best for the kid.
@MacerXGP
4 ай бұрын
You're wrong
@BrokenHedgehog
4 ай бұрын
@@MacerXGP Elaborate.
@MacerXGP
4 ай бұрын
@@BrokenHedgehog Moms behavior was due to a medical condition affecting her brain and therefore mental health. That's not on her. Same thing happens with brain tumor patients. It can be difficult to process alongside the pain caused by actions while suffering such conditions but forgiveness is necessary. I will say I now have reason to belive this particular story to be fake but I will insist in these situations abandoning the person isn't the right move. While moving forward can be painful it's important to understand in these situations their actions were beyond their control. They do have to own up to them but more understanding than your average a-hole is certainly called for. Just something to keep in mind if and when a formerly nice person suddenly becomes abusive or an asshole.
@BrokenHedgehog
4 ай бұрын
@@MacerXGPRegardless of why the abuse happened, victims don't owe their abusers shit. Forgiveness is earned, not deserved. If the victim decides you will never deserve it? Get over it. It's not your choice to make. Also, speaking as a person with a whole cocktail of mental illnesses? Mental illnesses don't magically make you a racist. They just lower your inhibitions. She has always secretly had the thoughts she voiced to and in front of her son and OP.
@MacerXGP
4 ай бұрын
@@BrokenHedgehog You're welcome to your opinions. Aside from forgiveness earned and not owed, however, I respectfully disagree with all of them. Anything can happen when brain damage is involved, I don't see why suddenly becoming racist would be out of the question. This doesn't seem like a discussion that would stay productive and respectful however, so I'll end it here. Hope you have a nice day.
@UndeadRamen
4 ай бұрын
Second story. This has been confirmed fake, as of 12 hours ago from now. I can't believe I fell for this, OP did a great job at describing a lot of my childhood in NY lol.
@CrystallizedBlood1
4 ай бұрын
It was all a complex ad placement for vitamin B12 😂
@Thaddius0
4 ай бұрын
it worked, ill try anything to fight off karen-ism
@smsff7
4 ай бұрын
It was? Do you have a source for that?
@UndeadRamen
4 ай бұрын
@@smsff7yeah it was a pain but i had to track the original post on the relationships sub, and OP was claiming to also be of Pakistani origin living in London and other crazy inconsistincies and the original post was deemed fake
@legiontepes3474
4 ай бұрын
Op is nta but he is also a doormat. He enabled his wife for years.
@Taveren
4 ай бұрын
How?
@legiontepes3474
4 ай бұрын
@@Taveren she had problems for over 2 years dude.
@FroggyGirlDreams
4 ай бұрын
@legiontepes3474 yeah b12 deficiency doesn't make u a racist
@momoangel9243
4 ай бұрын
Story 2, op should have stepped to intervene a lot time ago, Especially when she was taking their son's electronics and replacing his downloads, with stuff she liked, Seriously it's not unheard of parents telling their kids their not allowed to listen/see certain things, but they don't take, delete and download sht like that, That's not normal behavior at all.
@palamedes4740
4 ай бұрын
Take your vitamins people!
@zackkatian3436
4 ай бұрын
Story 2 sounds like a mental disorder born from a nutritional deficiency. I've known a few vegans who slowly went nutso. Surprisingly when they took supplements or stopped being vegan their issues settled down.
@clairedesu3020
4 ай бұрын
Someone did an update. It was a severe B12 deficiency
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
I'd go one step further given what he said at the end: I think she always had that condition, but the unfamiliarity of a new job and later the lack of B12 in her diet only exacerbated the symptoms. Not saying she has this particular diagnosis, but let's use ADHD for an example. A couple of side effects of the condition are Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (dramatizating any perceived rejection, no matter how minor) and Masking (the subconscious act of mimicking traits from those around you in order to fit in). With a new workplace comes a fear if not fitting in, amplified by the RSD, and leading one into heavy masking. This would lead one to try the common practices (such as ideologies and diets), which will cause a lack of B12, leading to paranoia levels of RSD.... but the issue stems from the RSD and not the lack of B12.
@shadowcollins4589
4 ай бұрын
I saw that there was an update But I will tell you as someone with 7 mental illnesses that's not the only thing it was She sounds like how I was. I don't have a B12 deficiency. What kills me is BPD or borderline personality disorder. And that is the inability to regulate your emotions Even if it wasn't B12 deficiency, it was not the only thing causing this There are other things
@hotice4746
4 ай бұрын
Daily Wisdom: When you walk into a room the amount air equal to the volume of your body moves out of the room
@wednesdayschildfullofwoe
4 ай бұрын
OP is an amazing husband. He knew something wasn't right mentally with his wife and that she needed professional help. He loved her enough to try and figure out the problem and encouraged her, even though it was hard to get help.....instead of just dropping her. Or just complaining and then leaving it up to her, on her own to take care of it. He understood that in a marriage you are a team and that even personal problems are better worked out together. I feel like everybody says they are understanding or empathetic of mental health issues until....they have to personally deal with them.
@VeryGoodDeals
4 ай бұрын
Exactly this. People call it quits so easily these days sometimes
@alisonzunguze8183
4 ай бұрын
Story 2 Our mans married a Karen. Sorry 😐😔😅. Yikes. Her reaction to her son's outburst is crazy and Karen like. She played the victim over ish she started.
@hennigadient4265
4 ай бұрын
Op im mad at you. Nice that you wanna help you karen of a wife but how is there for your son? This is not okay! 💔 Im just sorry for the son
@trashotaku
2 ай бұрын
I cannot stand people that abandoned family, members, friends, or romantic partners, and after sometime get back into contact with these people and try to pick the relationship back up as if nothing horrible has happened. Screw the dad, screw the brother, and screw the rest of OP’s sh!tty paternal family
@peterrj1973
4 ай бұрын
but b12 reserves in the liver last up to 3 to 4 years not months, that story seems kinda fishy, specially since b12 deficency isnt exactly known for mood swings, it can give macrocitic anemia, or vision loss and memory problems but the first one seems fake
@KiraNazena
4 ай бұрын
I have a severe autoimmun disorder and even with supplements I have bad malnutrition, especially vit c and b1 and b12. It's crazy how much it affects you. Especially vit c. You feel like dying. Well, you a WILL die if it goes on for too long. It's scurvy. But once you get a really high dose of it, you will feel like a completly new person within a few HOURS. Frankly if you feel like shit for weeks you should try the shotgun approach and take high doses of multivitamins for a week or two. It might help. High doses of certain vitamins can be quite damaging so don't do it for a longer time without a doctors consultation and blood tests but our modern diet is surprisingly bad.
@priestachristopher3461
4 ай бұрын
In the second story, all OP mentioned was his wife and none about the son. Truly, OP is a shit father.
@HeoBaby24
4 ай бұрын
yah because this story is about the wife not the son? he's explaining everything the wife is doing. which involves his son in some events. that doesn't make him a shitty father for not mentioning his son.
@kevinpotts123
4 ай бұрын
Is that the Bryce Dallas Howard episode of Black Mirror?
@Squirreltasticqueen
4 ай бұрын
Story 2: apparently its fake??? Lmao damn we cant have shit in Detroit
@ryangooseling
4 ай бұрын
Peri-menopause. Crazy wife needs a gynecologist, nutritionist, and therapy.
@LunaP1
4 ай бұрын
A lot of all of that.
@zmac012
4 ай бұрын
I sincerely hope story 2 is just rage bait 🤦♀️
@shadowcollins4589
4 ай бұрын
Not likely As someone with multiple mental illnesses, this is something absolutely that could happen I didn't go as crazy as she did but there were a few times during my marriage that my ex drove me to that by gaslighting me constantly Once I got divorced, it just got worse because of all the mental trauma he put me through I ended up getting diagnosed with seven different mental illnesses. And one of the worst ones is borderline personality disorder and this honestly sounds like a really bad case of that mixed with a few other things I have depression and anxiety and BPD and when the three combined, it's seriously like hell
@religionisevil8850
4 ай бұрын
It is. OP's comment history confirms it.
@RepellentJeff
4 ай бұрын
So the takeaway here is…with vegans, insanity is a feature, not a bug. 🤪
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