i feel that personality stuff in my soul dude.. it's confusing to feel like you have to be a kinda consistent type of person online but also grow up and evolve and figure out who you are while everyone watches and (even inadvertently through views and likes) gives you feedback on which parts of you are enjoyable and digestible
@beagillard6694
5 жыл бұрын
this is so true i feel like you will never truly have one singular set personality as that isn't how the human mindset works- its always changing and evolving
@meredithellen620
5 жыл бұрын
Very very true. I struggle with this all the time. Not only my personality but also like what "kind of girl" I am. Like I'm an English major and a big nerd but I also Love doing my makeup and getting full glam and I just don't feel like those go together normally. And same with my style, it's all over the place. I'm just trying to become more comfortable with embracing however I am on each day. Whether that's natural makeup & dressed like a librarian or full glam in a cute dress , just having fun & being kind to people and also to myself.
@aprilplamara1072
5 жыл бұрын
why do i hear ashley's voice,,,????
@phiamoon
5 жыл бұрын
@@meredithellen620 sad how its just natural for women and girls to feel like being smart AND beautiful dont go together :(
@urnervousgf
4 жыл бұрын
i can literally hear ashley saying this through the screen
@itsawildmaya
5 жыл бұрын
girl - just like your style, you don't need to have just one personality!! you don't need to label your personality as anything.
@thienthien444
5 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌👌
@tatianapcs
5 жыл бұрын
it’s weirdly comforting to know that you’re also struggling with this whole figuring out who you are thing cause I’m currently going through it too and it’s sort of really frustrating to see how everyone around me knows exactly who they are and they’re all so confident in themselves while I’m over here all alone and confused over everything so yeah, thanks for opening up about that I guess
@eccentricsunflower
5 жыл бұрын
felt that
@zoeyconn3396
5 жыл бұрын
Just know that we are changing everyday so I feel like we never really feel concrete in who we are as people. I accept the fact that I probably will not act the same tomorrow but I just think that makes me a person.
@dooorthvader
5 жыл бұрын
I’m with you on the “idk who I am and don’t know how to act.” with time, I came to understand that my behavior is situational, with the people and environment. You are not alone in how you feel right now! Many people struggle with this but just don’t talk about it. Something that has helped me understand who I am is to reflect on my behaviors towards diff ppl or situations. I don’t ever comment on here but just felt that I wanted to put this out there :)
@Vanessa-ms9pe
5 жыл бұрын
I see you as chill with a “go with the flow” type personality. I feel like you would be very easy to interact with and I feel like that’s the best personality ever.
@emmafossan2880
5 жыл бұрын
One of the things that I like about your personality is that you aren't just "loud", "cool" or "elegant" or whatever . You are all of these things. I feel like being put in a box like that can be bad too because then people expect this one thing from you. Idk I just don't think you can grow as much as a person when you're put in a box...
@Ashleybmakingvideos
5 жыл бұрын
This is the Gemini aesthetic
@sofk2859
5 жыл бұрын
Avery's personality: chill, humble, and goofy
@briarrose4664
5 жыл бұрын
imagine looking amazing with or without makeup, can’t relate
@Jane-dd2zu
5 жыл бұрын
HeyItsAbby same :')
@emmaahmed777
5 жыл бұрын
“i’ve been listening to lana del rey a lot more recently so that could be why i’m freaking out” same girl😂
@enyasversion
5 жыл бұрын
Emma Ahmed damn. nfr is really hitting us all
@KibbeSiren
4 жыл бұрын
Read again, but in slow motion
@kaydenbladorn117
5 жыл бұрын
Avery: you have a very distinct personality!!! You have a super dry sense of humor ( im the same) and you’re super blunt and honest!!! and nice!!! you definitely are your own person and are unique
@anishaabbaraju7585
5 жыл бұрын
I think this is my favorite video of Avrey's. Although she doesn't know who she is, in a way, I feel like she was her most authentic/honest self in this video.
@mypropeller8246
5 жыл бұрын
Literally so gorgeous with and without makeup
@emmafreeman9901
5 жыл бұрын
I go through the personality thing all the time, I act different around people and varies from person to person. I feel like no one will ever really know me. And my anxiety makes me think that I’m being to loud or too quiet and not good enough or that they don’t really want to be with me so then I get really awkard and I can’t really can’t be myself around people and it makes me question what I really am like
@annab4947
5 жыл бұрын
so glad I saw this, I'm exactly the same ! it's nice to know someone else goes through the same thing
@isabelle3015
5 жыл бұрын
that’s exactly how i feel. every class i’m in i feel like i act like a different person
@kylieburk6875
5 жыл бұрын
I love how u actually talk ab things with depth in ur videos, especially videos like this where most would just do a voiceover. u seem so interesting and deep intellectually and I really admire it
@cha9224
5 жыл бұрын
she literally looks so pretty i could never :"
@BLAHthereishope
5 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone, we’re all trying to figure out “who we are”. Some people do have a really good idea of who they are but most people are faking it or are just figuring it out like the rest of us. Love the video 🥰
@jaysociety
5 жыл бұрын
her skin is literally so clear wow who wishes their skin looked like THATTTT?!! 🥺✨💛 love from a smoll fashion youtuber 💛👻
@melodykahuthu
5 жыл бұрын
I love how humble you are in your videos , and down to earth
@bridiestarrise2937
5 жыл бұрын
i think about not knowing my personality literally all the time and its so comforting knowing that you think about it too :( xx
@LovelyDancer92
5 жыл бұрын
You are not bland...You are so down to earth, chill, and genuine ♥️ a beautiful soul
@chiquitaadams8932
4 жыл бұрын
I like your personality. I've literally been binge watching your vlogs. You seem so real. No fake voice or annoying catch phrases. It's just chill. Don't change a thing. Your personality is what keeps me watching
@Nihel19
5 жыл бұрын
You still have so much time to be yourself. You change everyday and if you think about it, you’re never the same person everyday of your life. The chase of being someone will only make your loose your mind but if you stop overthinking it, it’ll flow naturally! I think it’s very normal to have those thoughts and that just means that you’re becoming more self aware! Good luck with everything xx
@renskeubink
5 жыл бұрын
You opening up about things like not knowing your personality is so refreshing. I think many people struggle with this and you talking about this can start new conversations. I love you & your videos
@holly8238
5 жыл бұрын
I would never wear makeup if i had your skin, its so clear and radiant. As somebody with ance and spots as my biggest insecurity, i love that you are confident in your skin
@amcessa1659
5 жыл бұрын
“I feel like I’m not myself around myself “ I fucking felt that!!!!
@sophia5433
4 жыл бұрын
I love how she was using Aspyns palette as a mirror for some if it! So supportive! I love Avery so much 💞💞
@lillir4623
5 жыл бұрын
i think your personality (from how it seems in your socia medias) is really chill and genuinely kind and thoughtful💗
@ansley8366
5 жыл бұрын
"they kind of like, milk it" **pulls out milk product**
@jessicah3108
5 жыл бұрын
wait why am i cracking up LMAO
@islainthecity
5 жыл бұрын
LOL
@colleenjune4632
5 жыл бұрын
thank you for being so honest with us. it’s so comforting to hear someone talk about them struggling with things i’m struggling with too. your openness is the reason why you’re my favorite youtuber
@kirstenkeele
5 жыл бұрын
Life is about learning about yourself. Everybody shows you want they want to, but they still are learning about themselves too. It’s crazy just how much you’ve grown since I’ve watched your channel, and you are yourself. It’s refreshing to watch someone be themselves and be honest about it instead of putting up the “social media” front of having everything figured out, so thank you. Don’t worry too much about trying to find yourself right now, you have a long time to do so.
@Cha0ticCalm11
5 жыл бұрын
I definitely relate to when you talked about feeling like nervous to be yourself around people. I so badly want to be unapologetically myself but sometimes my anxiety gets in the way and I shut myself down. You’re not alone, and I’m sure it will get easier
@laurastojadinovich3029
5 жыл бұрын
I've actually been feeling the same way with the whole questioning my personality thing. It started recently and been getting kinda crazy the more I notice it. I have no clue if its because my personality has expired and I'm looking for a new one because I just haven't felt myself even tho i don't know what myself really is. Its insane to me that we're sharing that experience kinda cause I really thought I was going crazy cause no one else I talk to relates to me rn.
@k.cthekittycat6206
5 жыл бұрын
Laura Bobadilla it always gets better, and people change a lot. I really wish you the best💞
@laurastojadinovich3029
4 жыл бұрын
@@k.cthekittycat6206 Thank you luv. I'll try and view it like that :)
@annaregan8781
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like no one can describe their personality perfectly ! As long as you’re genuinely kind to everyone and yourself, isn’t that all that matters ?
@SP-du4re
5 жыл бұрын
Avery looking like a literal goddess
@amilliev.6131
5 жыл бұрын
This reflexion about you personnality : i feel the same way!! Like i ask my self the same things all the time I guess it is just part of the teenage years : finding out who you are but it sucks, like how am i supposed to "be myself" if i don't know who that is. I literally thought I was the only one struggling with that like all my friends seem to be so chill about it while I am here overthinking everything I do
@kimberlycisneros7679
5 жыл бұрын
this is why i love your channel, so authentic and real.
@MyAlyssandra
5 жыл бұрын
Sweet Avrey, I understand what you’re saying. I have always felt the same way about myself. It’s weird, but I think normal, especially for those that deal with mental illnesses. I think you’re a great person, you come off as so genuine and kind
@rebecadiogo7891
5 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing your thoughts and for just being you (even if you dont know who you are yet), you're an actual inspiration for me :)
@missmecriss
5 жыл бұрын
imagine having skin this flawless
@ashleyengel7227
5 жыл бұрын
Your rant literally describes how I feel everyday about myself
@serenalouie87
5 жыл бұрын
I love these sit down videos where you just talk about things going on!
@xainn5948
5 жыл бұрын
Imagine not having to put concealer under your eyes, cant relate.
@shivanibiswal3269
5 жыл бұрын
I love how naturally glowing and clear your skin is ... simply goals
@kissan4inen
5 жыл бұрын
I have always seen you as the go with the flow, relaxed, mature, “the cool cousin” type of a person💓 You’re honest, funny, relatable and chill🎅🏻🖤
@nicoleurquhart3
5 жыл бұрын
i am in the EXACT same situation with this whole personality thing. & literally avry you being open & self reflective and trying to better yourself is a part of your personality!! its hard for me to say because i dont really know your but im sure you’re kind and caring for those you love. not everyone has a loud & crazy personality so it doesnt mean you dont have one if you’re not loud, it just means thats not what your personality is.
@paigem7159
5 жыл бұрын
girl i honestly love you and your content so frickin much! you definitely shouldn't feel any pressure to have a specific personality or anything! keep doing you because i love it xx
@emilyschmemily
5 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure your personality and branding is just AUTHENTICITY. 🧡 That’s why we love you! Also don’t worry, figuring yourself out is just a process, I’m in my twenties and at one point I basically had an identity crisis and partly because it was mixed with some trauma, it sent me into such a crisis/spiral that my mental health declined for a while and I had to take a break from college and talk it through with a therapist. That all just to say that you’re not being dramatic, it can truly be disorienting to feel like you don’t know yourself. I getchu girl, you’re not alone, and you will figure it out with time. You’re great! 🧡
@madisonm.975
5 жыл бұрын
You look so good with and without makeup. Pop off gorgeous
@svinecmilitary
5 жыл бұрын
imo you're chill and calm, and while it's not as bright as other traits like being loud or funny, it's still your personality, not the absence of it
@kylies2948
5 жыл бұрын
Girl it is so hard to find who you are! You are doing so amazing, and you have so many people who love how honest and blunt you are! Keep growing
@nelsonlydia
5 жыл бұрын
rad, authentic, good sense of humor. that’s why you’re my favorite youtuber.
@nelsonlydia
5 жыл бұрын
at least you’re always honest. i really appreciate that.
@annaoop
5 жыл бұрын
these are my favorite kinds of videos ❤️❤️❤️
@oodlesofnoodles9320
5 жыл бұрын
I related to this so much. When you said you wanted to be yourself, but you don’t know who that is I felt that so much. That’s pretty much exactly what I had written down a while ago, you took the words straight from my freaking brain.
@k.cthekittycat6206
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Avrey for being so honest it helped and helps me so so much thank you
@douaahasnaoui4726
5 жыл бұрын
Girl you don't have to justify your poses, we love you ❤❤
@Jay-oi6hv
5 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to those people and let them get you down . You are amazing xx
@unimoon3862
5 жыл бұрын
Avery’s personality : *EVERYTHING* 💞💓💗💖💘💕💞💓💗💖💕
@avafrank2198
5 жыл бұрын
i wish she knew that so many people looked up to her (including myself) like she inspires my style, hair and makeup. i love how she pushes natural makeup and helps you realize that less is more. ❤️❤️
@emmajpare
4 жыл бұрын
It feels so good to see that I’m not the only one who think about that personality stuff... When you were talking it felt like it was the voice in my head 😅
@MariaSantos-yc8lw
5 жыл бұрын
I think your "thing" are your eyebrows, they are freakin' iconic!!!! love u!!! please smile as you are reading this!!!! kisses from Portugal!!
@coolgirlronia7594
5 жыл бұрын
I relate to everything you said SO HARD and I am glad I'm not the only one having a crisis!!! like I value authenticity and self expression SO BAD but I don't know if I AM being authentic so i feel like i'm just pretending to be me all the time and uhhhh AHHHH. We'll get through This together sis!!
@ynabautista5811
5 жыл бұрын
So relatable. 🥺 Aaaah, ily, Ave! You even look very beautiful even without anything on your face.
@rafaelasofia6417
5 жыл бұрын
hearing you talk about your existential crisis makes me feel so much better about my weekly ones so please do keep talking about those things :')
@radflyy
5 жыл бұрын
Your face is soooo beautiful with and without makeup 🌼
@fionalyubarsky8807
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for opening up about this because I'm going through the same thing and I have been since I was13/14 and I'm 16. I still don't understand myself. Avery, you helped me realize I'm not alone. :)
@lynnreza
5 жыл бұрын
it’s totally okay to not have things figured out. i feel like no one ever has every single thing figured out. and as you said, we change, so putting yourself into boxes isn’t great at all. much love to you avrey. i hope you’re doing well
@kaitlynwatts689
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been feeling the same way you do! You’re not alone🥰
@marwashhoury66
4 жыл бұрын
Gurl don't go hard on yourself. You are successful, fun creative even if you think you are weird then this is you it is okay. Enjoy who you are today. I am learning that as well.
@aliciawestraat5784
5 жыл бұрын
Your style/personality is growing/always evolving which is why you can’t pin point it 🤗
@alessandracordero4739
5 жыл бұрын
Girl don’t listen to what other people tell you! You’re so freaking beautiful & have such an amazing personality! 💕
@miaeliii
5 жыл бұрын
when you were talking about your personality, I WAS SHAKING YES I RELATE
@hebahamza9916
5 жыл бұрын
Actually I like how that you are taking your time to figure out who you are and to come to terms with yourself. Not everyone is born knowing what their personality is. I totally feel you. You look beautiful in this video ♥️
@carolinemund7885
5 жыл бұрын
I feel this so much. I struggle with my personality and who I am as a person. It frustrates me beyond words. I feel like a bland person, with no ways to really describe myself. I dunno. Love this video though
@allyho2464
5 жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos because to me you’re so relatable. I feel like you and I literally go thru the same problems at the same time and like what you feel or think is similar to the thinking that I have which makes me feel so understood . I wish I knew people like you because I feel so alone✌️. But you’re literally so original and amazing don’t doubt yourself because you are your own personality and have your same views which is awesome💗I hope you feel better soon I knows it’s hard
@Melanie-rf1ml
5 жыл бұрын
I love your vids and u talking about ur mental health and finding ur personality helps me so much bc I feel like I dont even know how to act around friends or myself and I think I'll fuck it up or I just dont know what to say so I just say nothing at all and then that just ruins all my relationships so yeah idk what to do Btw ur sooooo pretty 💖💖❤
@gwensmiling379
5 жыл бұрын
Your branding is your hair and brows. They are beautiful
@eringorog6656
5 жыл бұрын
Hey you're gorgeous and I enjoy your videos! I just wanted to encourage you though and say, I think it's totally normal for late teen/early twenties to be figuring out who they are and you don't have to worry too much. It's somewhat about having grace for yourself to let you be you and be okay with being a little weird or cringey or different in certain senses at different times. Thanks for being super honest with us about your struggles, it's good for us all to know that there are people out there who struggle in the same sorts of ways. I would also add, don't worry about whether or not you're a cool/nice person or anything because you seem really nice and super humble and those are great traits!
@danielapachova648
5 жыл бұрын
This video sums up all of my emotions right now. I thought I was watching a normal, make up tutorial and I got so much more and that's pretty cool of you, thanks❤
@user-uw1oq5wh9y
5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she talks about this, I'm going through the same thing.
@martinadoley2764
4 жыл бұрын
You know what its part of life tryna understand yourself...you are amazing that's all you need to know.
@valanaaaa
5 жыл бұрын
I know this won’t make the insecurity disappear but I don’t find you bland at all, I find you super insightful, I love to hear your perspective, I think we’re similar in a lot always but also very different in other ways so I adore hearing how your mind works 💗
@TheMaddieInsider
5 жыл бұрын
you’re so pretty with and without makeup!!
@EllietheCatholic
5 жыл бұрын
I had a huge identity crisis similar to yours my freshman year of college. It led to a lot of unneeded anxiety and depression. I want you to know your personality is great & you only need to be yourself. You don’t need a “brand.” Just be you 💜
@carliedanielle
5 жыл бұрын
thanks for posting this bc I relate and that makes me feel better :)
@amyatethecake
5 жыл бұрын
We become ourselves through others, I found when I was going through an identity crisis that mimicking training I admired in others gave me confidence I needed :) exploring things you enjoy also helps with growth and identity
@amyatethecake
5 жыл бұрын
**traits oops lol
@savvykelly6250
5 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the personality thing so much omg I’m so glad I’m not the only one
@rubydalati7093
5 жыл бұрын
HOW COULD U BE THIS PRETTY
@izabelsolis
5 жыл бұрын
dude the whole personality thing is something i genuinely struggle with everyday and it makes me so insecure and i become very introverted. it’s nice to hear someone i “ look up to “ struggle with the same thing
@idkmyname3306
5 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad she posted this cause I’m always confused on what to do for my makeup but this helped haha
@laurendanielle7394
5 жыл бұрын
I love your effortless style.
@mcshelldangelo8008
5 жыл бұрын
My son had mono t3 years ago and he gets flare ups from time to time. We totally understand what you are going through and how you feel! You are not alone in this
@lauren-bh8ld
5 жыл бұрын
your contour lowkey went hard on this girl
@milknight5181
5 жыл бұрын
you're so pretty like HOW?
@elviemariohornejas5728
4 жыл бұрын
you're so close to a million 💖
@alexaanne
5 жыл бұрын
i wish i could relate to the title that blush is soooo cute. i think veiny eyelids are cute
@kerrymurphy4121
5 жыл бұрын
Things you need to remember, that all of your "idols" are also celebrities. Their image, their personality was manufactured by a marketing team. You aren't a "brand", or an "idea", you're Avery. Being 18 means being in progress, don't feel obligated to "BE" anything. Sending love from NY
@capm1lk
5 жыл бұрын
she’s so gorgeous 🥺🥺
@ayxiejosephine9520
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! This is the 5th video i watched in ur channel but idk strangely i feel like relating so much with u even though idk u and even just listening to u talking makes me a little emotional :,) i kno its so random but thankyou for talking ab ur feelings. And i think u rock!✨
@eloiseluffhansen
5 жыл бұрын
holy moly this is the most relatable video i have ever watched, i love u, and u deserve so much 😚
@madmax2k285
5 жыл бұрын
Bruh how do you always look good. Like, even without makeup you’re perfect?!? The heck man
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