Hey there! In this video, I'm sharing my experience wearing the Xhosa Makoti outfit. It was rough there for a second, but I would not change my experience for anything. Watching this back, I noticed that I was not looking into the camera. Will defs work on that! Enjoy! See ya! ❤
@ntombindzeku54
2 жыл бұрын
No Dear bebejonge ubuhle Bomakoti sana♥️🥰
@zoliswabuneli7270
Жыл бұрын
The people looking at you were admiring how beautiful you are with those clothes on. Mhle umakoti omtsha mntase
@sesethud
Жыл бұрын
Lol. Kutshiwo. It got less awkward towards the end.
@ThandyN
6 ай бұрын
New subbie here🎉 I enjoyed this video 😂
@sesethud
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for subbing! 💗
@NomondeMketshane
2 жыл бұрын
Yhaa the expectation thing is real...I once went emcimbini without wearing a cardigan🙈and that is the day I learned about the cardigan😂
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
🤣 It's sooo real and you WILL learn!
@sinazopalaza133
2 жыл бұрын
Bro we learn everyday on this Side Thanks 😊
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
❤ ❤ ❤
@og_media_za
Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊 I think people stare because of ukufaneleka yhaz. I love the outfit on others, not kum 🙈🙈🙈🙈, andifaneleki tuu mna kuyo
@sesethud
Жыл бұрын
lol mhlambi ubungaziva it does take some getting used to, but uzofika abanye abant bekubuka nje wena ungazboni. Can't wait to see on your channel kemna💗
@og_media_za
Жыл бұрын
@@sesethud 🙈🙈 there's a video scheduled for this Thursday. I shall await your comment 😂😂😂.
@Bideksjoi
2 жыл бұрын
just came across your channel..you have a new friend here from nigeria.i just turned on ur bell notification.i willl be coming here more often
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel! Thank you!
@pumzandziweni8434
5 ай бұрын
Ziyadika ezampahla, yuuuuu, uvele uzive umbi, after sometime😅
@sesethud
5 ай бұрын
Injalo😂😂😂
@Bideksjoi
2 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful 😍🥰 sending much luv from Nigeria 🤍❤️🤍❤️
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You are gorgeous yourself!
@Bideksjoi
2 жыл бұрын
@@sesethud we are now family ❤️
@authenticallygee
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate everyone stare yho
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
LOL. The stares are the worst!
@AllThingsLindo
2 жыл бұрын
I actually think nibahle kanjan in your attire❤️
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
I also looove new Xhosa Makotis!
@AllThingsLindo
2 жыл бұрын
Xhosa 'Makoti' tradition seems intense hey. Its scares me, I don't know how I'd cope if I were married to a Xhosa guy. Especially not being a Xhosa girl myself. Is it easier if you are Xhosa?
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's easier because I grew up seeing other Makoti's and it's familiar to me. It would probably be more intense for someone who is not a Xhosa girl. However, it's still an enjoyable experience and I think most families do try to make the process easier for the Makoti, nowadays.
@bassies6573
2 жыл бұрын
It wasn't easy for me especially because I'm not xhosa and I've never seen anyone experience it before. I'm Tswana speaking and most people around me thought ukuthi ngishonelwe and I'm a widow. I had to wear the blanket for 2 months while living with my inlaws and I wasn't allowed to take it off at all even when cleaning. I'm still traumatized to this day 😪 😞 😔 In my experience most xhosa speakers lapha e Gauteng would lilizela when then see me but majority of the people advised me on how to move on from my dead husband or some would just stare
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
@@bassies6573 Oh my! I'm so sorry you had such a traumatic experience. ❤
@MrsResi356
Жыл бұрын
Lol I'm so terrified for this day... Been married for three years but we haven't done the traditional stuff (family politics) so I learn everyday... And I wonder what I will do for utsiki coz I'm vegetarian and red meat makes me sick
@sesethud
Жыл бұрын
@@MrsResi356 Lol I don't know how you are going to work around having to eat utsiki. Perhaps, if your in laws know you are vegetarian, they will be understanding. Hopefully, if there is no way around it, they will give you a few pieces, like I got, instead of the whole arm. Hope your day comes soon.💗. Kuzobamnandi and it will pass so quickly, you have nothing to be afraid of.💗
@AllThingsLindo
2 жыл бұрын
Hey girla 🥰 here from Gugu's channel ❤️
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
Hey hey! ❤️
@og_media_za
Жыл бұрын
First time i hear ngeye panti hose
@sesethud
Жыл бұрын
First time ndiyobona kum nam sana
@og_media_za
Жыл бұрын
@@sesethud mele uzinxibe oko, or it was just ngokuya wawunxitywa?
@AllThingsLindo
2 жыл бұрын
So you have to wear this outfit even if you are at home and nobody is seeing you besides your partner?
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have to wear it at home too. I did have days where I defaulted kodwa - tried my best wethu.
@AllThingsLindo
2 жыл бұрын
You are so gorgeous 🥰❤️
@sesethud
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@AllThingsLindo
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe they were staring coz you are so young? 🤣🤣 It doesn't make sense though coz its a common attire esiXhoseni nje?
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