There is no “poor me” aspect to this. Your feelings are VALID. I got my babies immediately and you had to wait. That is a valid and real, painful feeling. I just wanna hug you. 🥺 I know exactly what you mean about someone prioritizing MAMA over babies.
@nancykabat4089
4 ай бұрын
You go girl! You grew 4 humans within your body by yourself. They should have held the children up, even if for only a second, for you to see. Your caregivers should have been checking on your mood. You are a warrior woman!😊
@patvangordon1888
4 ай бұрын
Don't deny your tears. They do not make you weak, but rather human. Becoming a Mom will grow your heart along with your feelings. Enjoy the entire experience of how your emotions/feelings will take you on a roller coaster ride from time to time. There is NO shame in becoming a woman and a mother. It's a process. The dynamic of your life (in every way) has changed for you, which will require adapting along the way. Enjoy the moments as they come and go, you beautiful Momma of four beautiful children.
@simplythebest2574
Ай бұрын
Hormones are REAL, girl. And you had a lot making all those babies, and the shift to post partum was so much to move through. You are seriously brave and I only wish you had had those babies right by you after birth. The attachment urge is HUGE at that point. I worked with so many NICU families for years at UNMH in Albuquerque, and I hope you know that ALL of your feelings were (and are) appropriate. NICU is such a miracle and a terribly hard experience for parents. I have so much to say about it, but won't here. Sending care. And sooo much care to the Tiny Mighty Team!
@jennyrussi3851
4 ай бұрын
Your feelings are valid and warranted. I didn’t get to see my son for several hours after he was born (also C-section). Logically, I understand why. But it was still hard. I know that must have been so much harder for you with preemie babies and a high risk pregnancy. Sending best wishes to you and your beautiful family.
@marymikehawkins6682
4 ай бұрын
This video is SO important! For you, and for others! I'm so so proud of you for making it! ♥ I have 7 kids, and 17 grandkids. Our youngest grandkids are multiples (they're 4 now) and our daughter went thru so much of what you're describing! Even just the feeling of being robbed of the 'normal' pregnancy and birth experiences! You rock honey, and God bless all 6 of you! 🌹
@PrairieDawnC
3 ай бұрын
Mary, your comment helped me understand why some people who have multiples as their first choose to have more kids. Even though their lives are full (of kids), they may want the "normal" experience of birthing and raising a singleton. Of course, two (or three or four) babies may not be the right family size for them, either.
@ellenritt7667
4 ай бұрын
I’m amazed about your energy and ability to control your anxiety. 4 babies is totally overwhelming. If you’re not lying in bed crying all day, you are doing great!
@marinaseltzer1903
2 ай бұрын
Same here! Megan is incredibly amazing! 🩷
@shellylaw4
4 ай бұрын
Oh bless your heart! I had twins. They were born at 31 weeks. Unfortunately, we lost one of them. I was flown to a big city that was 3 hours away. I gave birth to the first one vaginally but the second was an emergency C section. So I never got to hold my babies either. I understand so many of the things you have experienced. It was just terrible! It has been 31 years since they were born and I still feel those emotions like it just happened. I’ve never been able to talk to someone who experienced it and have the understanding and validation about the trauma I experienced. I’m so glad you have this platform to share. In this, maybe you can get some validation for your experiences and feelings! It is rough! You are a gem! I’m sorry you missed out on so many of the birth experiences but so happy that all of your babies are healthy and you are making all the memories! Thank you for sharing your journey 🩷🩵🩷🩵
@mika72.-Bois
4 ай бұрын
So sorry for your very difficult & sad experiences. Have you considered see a psychologist who specialises in birth loss & trauma?
@snomeemaw2740
4 ай бұрын
I am so proud of your transparency and insight. Wish I was closer to help you physically with those sweet babies. So glad you have allowed yourself medication to help your system "normalize" and stabilize. It's hard work to heal both physically & emotionally. As a MeeMaw I can tell you that the days are long but the years will fly by. Do what you can, when you can to embrace your life. Jesus is there by your side and loves you ALL dearly. Blessings on you and your family❤❤
@TBKN316
4 ай бұрын
You explained it so well. Both my boys had to stay in NICU, and it was everything you said, plus the guilt. God Bless you all. 🙏
@rachelanderson7930
4 ай бұрын
YES!! She is spot on!! NICU life is hard!
@KerrifollowerofChrist
4 ай бұрын
I thank God you knew what could happen. I had PPD and took 2 or 3 weeks to bond with my baby.I had read it could happen and gave myself grace.
@jessj9499
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I suffered from PPD with each of my four children and never even realized what was happening. I teared up with you ❤ Such a hard thing to go through and talk about. You are amazing!
@cristinpassmore3944
4 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you were robbed of the opportunity to bond with your babies the way nature meant for it to be. Mourning those lost moments for connection is something I cannot imagine. You are brave to share this very personal part of your story. I got chocked up to hear you say how proud you are of your babies. They will see this someday and know how much you loved them from the moment they were born. A truly precious gift. Congratulations on your beautiful family. 🥹❤
@haleightriplett2119
4 ай бұрын
I’m over here bawling my eyes out. You are so strong! ❤️
@joanneruth1168
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for showing & telling how it was/is for you, thanks for sharing your big emotions, good luck with your future, you rock! ❤️
@rachelanderson7930
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your vulnerability about what YOU went through! I had my first 6 weeks early, 26 years ago and you helped me identify so many feelings I have never really processed at ALL. I want to talk to my daughter about it as well and have her process her emotions that she experienced as a premie that she had no idea she was even experiencing!! Thank you, thank you! OH, and by the way I am a MS ST Bulldog as well! You are brave, strong, a superwoman, equipped, seen, heard and most of all loved! Your children are thankful for your courage and all you went through for them! New to your channel! Thank you for your content! SO helpful!❤
@rhondahudspeth8831
4 ай бұрын
Bless you! I just came across your channel and am binge watching your journey. I don’t know you except through your videos and I want you to know you’re stronger than you think and are a wonderful Mommy to your beautiful babies. Thank you for sharing your family and your story. In the 80’s I had issues getting pregnant and I relate so much to your experience and how that had an effect on you. I had several miscarriages. I was so depressed as all my friends were having babies and I thought it just wasn’t going to happen for me. It took ten years to get my first baby girl. Now I have 3 grown daughters and eight grandchildren. Keep sharing your experience because you never know who needs to hear it. I’m subscribing to all your social platforms and will share with others. I have you and your sweet family in my daily prayers.
@debbiemartin3715
4 ай бұрын
You’re AMAZING!! Many people are being helped & encouraged by your videos. 🤗
@snowbird6855
4 ай бұрын
You did what you had to do to get through and that took tremendous effort and every ounce of strength you had. Congratulations for that and your invaluable help for all other new moms, whether multiple, single and special needs!!
@twink1212
4 ай бұрын
I am discovering that showing emotions and allowing yourself to feel them does not mean you are weak. It's very healthy and allows you to let them go. You have been through some really amazing and difficult and overwhelming things. You're amazing, and I appreciate you sharing your story! ❤
@cheryllytle4955
4 ай бұрын
Wow you are so right! I had 4 kids but not at once. I had healty babies and didn't have to leave them, thank goodness! However no one checked on me either! I did get post partum with my 3rd one and I have depression anyway but I'm take meds now but it is not fun when your head is all messed up and you can't control it! So happy your ok now and you mind is clear and able to enjoy your family.
@snowbird6855
4 ай бұрын
You are marvelous!! Lots of respect and good wishes!
@carolandefimbavin3905
4 ай бұрын
When I heard your husband you were barely married a year. To me that’s really a challenge. Being a wife and mother are the highest blessings of the Lord. We can only lean on him. I feel your healing just thru your videos. Those babies are so precious. I’d love to see them individually. Love to see the growth. You are a remarkable young woman sometimes when we grow the fastest is when we have challenges in our lives as you both have. Please take time somehow to nurture your relationship in you marriage as well. You’re a blessing❤
@chandracoleman4911
4 ай бұрын
You are such an amazing inspiration for many! Expressing your vulnerability is a strength that will, no doubt, bless many. ❤️
@karenmccabe2371
4 ай бұрын
WOW what an amazing video! You definitely went through an extremely bad a case of severe postpartum depression! Thank God you recognized it!!! ❤
@BlueEyes-ro2rv
4 ай бұрын
Omg! It was over 30 yrs ago with my twins and i can relate basically to everything you are saying. (Omg the pumping taking everything. I had to stop finally) Looking back part of it is that this wasn’t the happy experience giving birth is supposed to be for us. Its exhaustion, extreme anxiety, loss of control etc. For a long time I was very resentful and had a hard time even driving by the hospital. You may be feeling better now getting more sleep and feeling more in control but be forewarned you may not be through it yet. I ended up finally going to a counselor almost a year later and was told it can last longer. I had no idea i was still in it. So do not feel alone, do not feel ashamed, do not feel something is wrong with you. I am certain so many mothers even those with singletons have been through this. Im sending hugs. You’ve got this. Just keep talking about it. That was my mistake, keeping it all in. You’re doing a great job Mama. Wish you all the best! ❤ PS You will run across and be stopped by so many with some of the stupidest things to ask or say. But in my experience if i ever bumped into a mom that had multiples their first question was ALWAYS how are you doing? They knew!
@seawulfblu7869
4 ай бұрын
You should be sooo proud of yourself! You’re doing an amazing job. Sharing your emotions and your story in such a vulnerable way is very brave. May God continue to Bless you and your beautiful family🙏🏼
@tinakercher8768
4 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to you. I am so happy for your outcome. I hope your sharing helps with the healing of all the emotions and hormones that are VERY real.
@christinerowland3785
4 ай бұрын
You got this momma! Sorry you went thru all of your sadness. So glad your are better and your babies are at Home with you and Brandon. Make memories and enjoy each other❤
@angelafleming3328
4 ай бұрын
I am new to your channel and just want to say congrats on your 4 beautiful babies! You are a very strong Momma with very strong babies. Take care and stay safe!
@lelaandrews5439
4 ай бұрын
Thank You for just sharing, even you believing that you're okay this is healthy and healing 💞. Let it out girl!! Love to your little family 💖 Keep making your videos.
@snowbird6855
4 ай бұрын
Doesn't matter how many false runs to the hospital you ever make for anything, its far better to do that than miss something! Keep relying on your great intuition!!
@laurenrager4028
4 ай бұрын
So proud of you!!! One of my favorite mamas!!
@lynnwarren6127
4 ай бұрын
I think this is therapeutic for you to share your feelings and I feel certain there are many who completely understand what you went through. I believe you will also help others who will go through this too.
@user-bt4hq1wd6d
3 ай бұрын
You are so special and such a great loving mom. I really needed someone like you when I had my babies in the early 1970. Happy mothering💕
@kimberbell4238
4 ай бұрын
You brought back NICU life from 20 years ago for me, with my twins born at 33 weeks by emergency csection. Actually all of your videos I relate to sooo much. Your feelings and reactions are very common. Pumping. Feeding. Monitors. Beeps. Tears. Lack of sleep. My twins are in their first year of college now. The fays are long, but the years are short! You hot this!💗
@lesterfager4325
4 ай бұрын
I totally relate to every thing you went through. I did not get to hold my babies right away either. And on top of that they put me in an room with am another mom that got to have her baby All the the time. When ours were even at another hospital. I so feel for you.
@jeannerosen9024
4 ай бұрын
You are so amazing and so honest. So good at expressing yourself. Bless you ❤
@chubigans60
4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you had a bad time. Focus on God. You called and reliedon Him in the beginning, focus on Him now. He has been with you 24/7 even when you felt alone. The babies are gorgeous! You all are truly blessed. You seem to be fantastic parents!
@ericajennings2085
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! I can relate to having the baby blues especially after my first child was born. I think that’s when our lives change the most., I can’t imagine having that times 4! Your story is beautiful and many new moms need to hear it! I love your message and definitely will take it to heart! Your vulnerability is heart warming and an inspiration! Your babies are beautiful! ❤
@rhodaberger7262
3 ай бұрын
You bet mamas' bodies go through such a journey - we are wired so delicately. You are a warrior - your vulnerability was so authentic
@YaYa-lz1zt
4 ай бұрын
When you aren’t able to have the same experiences as all the other moms and sudden emptiness of baby/babies inside your body you experience grief. You’re grieving those experiences and loss of time. Your expectation of carrying a baby for 40 weeks you grieve that loss. Your feelings are so valid and I’m sorry no one expressed/explained that to you. It’s really ok to have that feeling or think those things. Hug yourself often and tell yourself you’re ok to have those thoughts and feelings because that is part of your new normal.
@mht2255
4 ай бұрын
you are amazing! you and you hubby are great parents! ❤
@michellehill5479
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so open about what you experienced and are still experiencing. I have three sons and every pregnancy and birth was different. It wasn’t until my third pregnancy that I experienced post-party depression and it lasted almost two years. Like you, I didn’t know how much I was suffering until I wasn’t anymore. Even though no one around you has gone through what you have specifically. Those that love you can still listen and empathize with what you are feeling. Lean on them and let them know when you just need them to be there whether to listen or JUST BE! You got this, momma!
@karenkaren9526
22 күн бұрын
You are one strong woman. Tears are cleansing and helpful. Trust me ,I’m old now. Great job. 👏
@julieannecottam
4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Glad you’re doing better. Love the check up on the mom message. The baby blues always hit me hard, I can’t imagine that plus nicu babies. Glad they and you are doing great.
@ambramarrs7325
4 ай бұрын
Hi mama, it’s OK to be emotional. It shows how much you love and care about those babies. You are, mama bear, protecting those babies and yourself, so a few tears and showing someone emotion is a good thing.
@DeAnnMEvans1969
3 ай бұрын
I totally understand you. I had my daughter at 34 weeks by cesarean section. I only got to here her crying and she was whisked off to the nursery for a little over 4 hours before I got to see her and hold her. Your babies are precious!😊
@jeanettejackson1315
3 ай бұрын
You're doing a fantastic job. I have never seen anyone manage so well.
@tammymoore9584
4 ай бұрын
PTSD is real! Your body tries to protect you. So there's NO reason to apologize for anything! Your a very strong mama! God only gives you what you can handle. Hard? Extremely. Allow yourself some grace!
@macca02
3 ай бұрын
You are an amazing lady & beautiful mother. No need to feel bad about PPD, you were flooded with harry the hormone!! You're doing a fantastic job, so organised & loving to the babies. Well dobe you. Cut yourself some slack. You're doing great
@cindymcginn9980
4 ай бұрын
You are an AMAZING Mom! Hugs and my love to you, your husband and each beautiful baby of yours ❤❤❤❤
@StephPhoto1996
4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for telling us about your journey. I had so many similar feelings and I just one NICU baby. He was born at 28 weeks and time stood still and I felt in a haze a lot of the time with what I missed out on and anxiety about his health etc. thank you for speaking out it’s so important! ❤️
@janebuteyn2466
3 ай бұрын
You are so right! Mom’s go through so much emotion and physical stress having a baby or babies. It takes a lot out of you. I can only imagine your heartache not being able to bring your babies home with you and the anxiety every moment worrying about them. You have nothing to apologize for, your feelings and thoughts are valid. A good reminder for all of us to take care of the Mom. ❤️
@lynneddy8851
4 ай бұрын
I had severe PPD/PPA with all 4 of my babies. I can’t imagine being as strong as you are right now! Your doing great but please continue seeing your doctor and a psychologist who specializes in PPDz
@careyware4634
2 ай бұрын
You are an amazing woman. I can’t believe all the crap and yet all the beautiful, astonishing moments of grace, strength, I and dignity that you have experienced and survived and are willing to share your journey with the world!!!!!! You are the epitome of the feminine genius never forget who you are!!!❤❤❤
@veganmamafourgirls5370
4 ай бұрын
So sorry you had to go through that incredibly tough time. I wish and your family all the best of health and happiness!
@M2ElviSMuSic
3 ай бұрын
Sweetie, you did a herculean task 4 times over! Bless you for sharing the realities of this. It will save mamas many times over by sharing this. You are doing God's work.
@theresekennedy6320
4 ай бұрын
You are doing great and you are are entitled to all these feelings and it was a traumatic express for you ❤️
@jessbutterfly9801
Ай бұрын
I feel very honoured and grateful that you shared this so publicly. Thank you. I hope you learn to give yourself the grace to feel and show your emotions publicly as you would allow anyone. I’m sure in your life to come to you and express themselves. We are often our own worst critic and hardest on ourselves. You went through horrible old deal and experience as Wellers medical trauma but you did everything in your children’s best interests and no one can fault you for that. I love hearing the children in the background.
@801LOVER
2 ай бұрын
You had trauma. Just the hormones, it messes everything up. I’m so proud of you for taking care of yourself!! Talking about it is going to help a lot of woman. You’re doing great! Just keep it up! Sending love.
@mariajesuscastillo3144
2 ай бұрын
No entiendo el ingles...pero traduzco los comentarios. Me encanta como estructuras los tiempos y los espacios. Eres una gran mamá...todo lo q sientas es natural, no te averguences.
@mamaspatch
Ай бұрын
I had twins 15 years ago, and also was separated from my babies for several hours. Then I had to go home with no babies, not in my belly, not in my arms. They were in NICU for 4 weeks. The heartache of not being with your babies is soul destroying. I am so glad you brought all your babies home in the end, healthy and whole. It took me months to feel like myself again. You are so valid for feeling this way. I have two really strong memories of my time. One was the day after they were born and we had been transferred to a different hospital, I had spent about 15 minutes with them all up in snippets, and wasn't allowed to go in the ambulance with them. It was that night and I was sitting in my room alone and I went down the hall to where my babies were, and the nurses sat me in a chair and put both my babies onto my chest, and that was when I met them. The other memory was when I was discharged a few days later and I was sitting beside them crying and wishing they could come with me, and a nurse came and sat with me and said "it would be more concerning to us if you had no reaction, this is the normal reaction to have. I wish they could go with you too."
@holaf1649
3 ай бұрын
You are adorable. Of course you felt empty. That’s the most natural thing in your situation. What an amazing woman you are!
@lurleen77
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your feelings for others and yourself. I had two preemies, one at 26 weeks and one at 28 weeks. (Weight doesn't matter anymore. Not with the technology they have now.) You are right, they tell you what is going to happen but they don't tell you how YOU are going to feel. I went home without my children and would cry that I wanted my baby. I wanted to hold, no I craved to hold my baby. I felt so empty it was crushing. I was constantly holding a pillow when I slept and also when I was awake. You are right mother's go through the body changes and emotions are up and down with the hormone drop, BUT, I add -when you check in on the mothers, check in on the dads also. They don't have as many outlets as mothers do to express their grief, anxiety, or depression. They are trying to keep their family together and take care of a hormonal wife and most are not even aware that this is part of child birth. You are very lucky you have Brandon. He seems to shoulder his responsibility very well and is very active in taking care of his children and you. He rolls up his sleeves and dives in. Not all fathers are comfortable doing that.
@mtredeker7294
3 ай бұрын
psalms 139 God knitted these babies in their mothers womb. God knows everything about them from beginning to the end of their lives just like you. He knows when they will arise and when they will sit down, he has entrusted you and Brandon with these lives. He loves you he knows what you are going through. He is only a prayer away when you need help, he is only a prayer away when you want to thank Him for these bundles of joy. He is with us. He goes before us, beside us and behind us. Trust him you are a wonderful mom and Brandon is a wonderful dad. I wish I lived closer I would be at your doorstep each day willing to help you in anyway possible. I personally do not know where you find the time to make a video! You are an AMAZING Family! God Bless.
@chesavandertop9169
4 ай бұрын
I also became a first time mom this last year. I can not imagine how hard it was for you emotionally, especially with all your body was going through. I admire your strength and your faith. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. God's got you and is using your story in ways you don't even know! ❤
@anovemberstar
2 ай бұрын
Definitely NOT a 'poor me' - as others have said, your feelings are valid, period. Its quite common for moms of prem babies to experience grief for missing out on so much that cant / doesnt happen with prem babies needing to be in NICU for so long. Its also really traumatizing- being on edge for weeks / months not knowing if your baby / babies were going to make it. As you know, its a massive roller-coaster of emitions. Babies improve, then out of nowhere, crash and be in a life threatening condition.. you had FOUR times that stress. My heart goes out to you 💗. Anf thanknyou for sharing your story - doing so will help other moms who go through this.
@esteeb42
4 ай бұрын
I am so happy for you that you are doing well. A lot of times family will be there for support but you maybe are like me in that you don't want to show your true emotions with family because you don't want to worry them. I'm glad you had that one special friend who checked on you, maybe you felt like you could be vulnerable with her. Everyone needs someone like that. My first grandson was born July 3rd he will be 4 this year, I was very disappointed because my daughter wanted me there during her delivery as it was her first baby but, I couldn't be because of the pandemic.😪 P.S. I have one son and one daughter, my sons name is Brandon 💙
@Mandie...60
Ай бұрын
You are AMAZING . You are brave kind you will offer kindness honesty . I'm 61 in uk and iv got no words you made me cry 😢😢😢 but you are very strong sending love and prayers you are simply special 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👼👼👼👼🏴🏴🏴🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
@Zinnias2go
4 ай бұрын
You are so strong…thank you for sharing your experience…so that others can know it’s ok to get help. Your babies come from strong stock & are beautiful individuals. ❤ Random pop up on my home feed…I have watched every one of your videos. Keep up the great job you are doing & I am glad you are healing ❤️🩹
@texasoutlook60
3 ай бұрын
Megan, I can so relate to your experience because my second son was born 6 wks early. He's lungs were not fully developed and had to be emergency flighted to the same New Orleans hospital and I couldn't go because I had a c-section! I met him for the first time through an incubator right before he was whisked away only to touch his little hand. My husband rushed there to be with him but I can still remember leaving my hospital emptied handed withbout my baby! He was there for two weeks!!! He's a healthy 40 yrs old now and it's still emotional! Back then all I could do is call the nursing station and check in with my husband. Little things like a hospital staff coming in asking what name to put on the birth certificate made me ball my eyes out! Finally my mother would stop anyone going into my room because it was so upseting! Yes, I had PDD also and it was exasperated by having to care for my 2 yr old son. Moms please listen to Megan and get help! Thank you for sharing!
@simplyshannon3478
4 ай бұрын
Your story isn’t a “poor me” story. Your feelings and emotions towards this are valid. With my lady baby, it was a really hard delivery for me. My doctor didn’t show up in time so a midwife that I didn’t know came instead. She had had 8 children naturally. When I would tell her something was wrong, she kind of laughed like “I had 8 kids naturally and you’re complaining about this or that” is what it felt like. I was 9cm dilated before she gave me the epidural which could have paralyzed me. Anyways, I pushed the emergency button because it felt like I needed to push. She didn’t come into the room for 32 minutes. My sons head was out when we started the pushing together. My son would go back in and I’d push harder and nothing was happening. I ripped everywhere!! She didn’t cut me until the end too. (I know all of this because I sued the hospital and the midwife) anyways I started losing a lot of blood and passing out while still trying to push. She was supposed to do an emergency c-section but she didn’t. I remember passing out and coming to with my father and sons father screaming at me to wake up and screaming at the nurse to help me! I don’t remember much but I remember the midwife saying “my job is to get the baby out safely…babies life comes first” she said that to my father while he panicked watching me pass out. My son finally came out and midwife almost dropped him. At that point my dad told her to get TF out of our room immediately. A surgeon came in afterwards because I was still bleeding to sow me ups I ended up having to have a blood transfusion. I remember not being able to sit up. They kept pushing me back down. Since I didn’t know what was going on, I was fighting them on it. I didn’t get those first moments of bliss that I got with my first 2 children. They took my son, and had to work on me. They basically had to fix the mistakes this midwife made because she almost killed me. I didn’t get to have some of the same experiences either. It’s hard. I also struggled with PPD. Now my son is 13. Him and I are so very close. He’s my heart, and my baby. You will get there. You’ll get back to feeling like yourself and find a routine that fits for your new life. Having 4 at one time would be incredibly difficult. You’re doing great. Your babies are doing great. Enjoy this time as much as you can because these times go by so fast. Slow down and enjoy it as much as possible.
@darceyvolle4938
4 ай бұрын
When my sister had her twins my first question to her is "how are you doing?" And "How can I help you?". She doesn't live super close, but I would have dropped everything to drive down to where she is if she said she needed anything. Then after ensuring she was okay I checked on my amazing niece and nephew.
@eileensolberg7007
4 ай бұрын
Those babies are strong like their Mama.
@cynthiahermes1416
2 ай бұрын
You are wonderful! While being incredibly grateful for your great outcome, you have had significant trauma in so many different ways. It is *healthy* to grieve and weep and scream and cry about the loss and trauma for you to let it go for true healing. Your response is completely normal and not pathological, so I disagree with the diagnosis! Most Mamas give birth; bond; breastfeed; recover and go home to their private experience of learning how to mother a newborn without the whole world watching. Most Mamas go home to rest and recover, and in a few cultures, the six week postpartum circle of recovery is honored. It is healthy and normal to grieve the trauma for so many reasons. So much of what you say here rings true for me and for many of us, so thank you! All New Mamas need more help!!!! Please consider having your vitamin D level checked and consider a supplement if it is not at least 50-80. Lots of research about vitamin D affecting new Mamas out there! Mama, please be gentle with yourself as you are wonderful! You are doing a great job!! xoxoxo
@nicolenoize7358
26 күн бұрын
Hello Megan, I am à French woman and all what you show and what you share is absoluty amazing. You’ré so brave , courageuse and a ( in French : modèle d’organisation, d’ordre , de simplicité et de gentillesse : on ne peut qu’aimer vos enfants, Brandon and chiefly you. Thanks to God for what you are and your whole family.😊👏🏻🥰
@TheMaryberry153
4 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad about getting emotional while telling this story, you are recounting a TRAUMA. Like seriously that was a traumatic experience on so many levels even before you throw in all the hormone changes. You may not have had the chance to have the birth you wanted with this birth but if you decide to have more pregnancies/children in the future (probably the last thing you're thinking about right now lol but still) you will be able to have a birth plan and feel more in control which will probably lessen some of the shock and traumatic feelings. You are brave and strong and normal. Seriously. Don't feel bad about having these feelings and thank you for being brave enough to share them. ❤
@sonyawaters9133
Ай бұрын
I had twins and would cry for absolutely no reason for 6months!!! The docs said it was post pardum depression. I wanted people around me though even if I was crying. Hang in there. Let people help you. God is with you every step of the way!!! I too had mastitis and was hospitalized. Only one of mine was in the NICU for an additional week and he was the bigger of the two.
@charitypeck2168
6 күн бұрын
Oh I completely understand you! I have my identical twins at 31 weeks and they were 3 lb 8 oz and 4 lb 5 oz. The NICU journey with them was tough emotionally for me as well. So many ups and downs. God was so gracious to us and our little miracles though and they are thriving and doing well. Today is actually their 5th birthday! I totally get the feeling of being alone and empty when you could not be with them. It is so happy to see your story and how you are all doing well now. God bless!!
@harleki5241
Ай бұрын
Ich habe auch vollstest Verständnis für Sie. Es tut mir sehr leid, dass Sie so viel durch machen mussten. Ich habe 2 Kinder und 3 Fehlgeburten gehabt. Das 1. , da war ich mit im 7 Monat. Er ist gestorben. Die Angst war so groß und dann kam der Verlust. Seien Sie froh, dass Sie ihre 4 Babys jetzt gesund und munter Zuhause haben. Ich wünsche Ihnen für Ihre Familie und für die 4 Kinder alles Liebe und Gute. Erholen Sie sich noch von dieser Strapaze.
@annasimonenko7703
4 ай бұрын
Girl! I am so sorry for you!! It is a life of multiples mom.. I haven’t met my boys (twins) until 7 days later as they were rushed in NICU hospital three hours away from me
@annasimonenko7703
4 ай бұрын
It is definitely hits hard to leave the hospital without kids..
@psaddler2426
2 ай бұрын
Sis, you are so brave for sharing your story. It will help so many people. Thank you for your courage. So glad that you are well now. God bless you and your beautiful family. 🙏🏾
@sharonloomis5264
4 ай бұрын
You're doing fine. Take a deep breath and go on with helping others.
@carolynbasham9749
13 күн бұрын
Sweetheart, this is a very important video. Your courageous honesty will be of such a help to women in a similar situation. Bless you, I was nearly in tears watching this. May God be close to you through all the days and months ahead.
@suewilkinsonmorrobayca6590
25 күн бұрын
You’re doing a great job, thanks for sharing.
@Bebogirl33
3 ай бұрын
You are tremendous. Thank you for sharing so much.
@arantzas.p.4864
2 ай бұрын
Mi experiencia después del parto fue muy triste estaba enfadada con mi marido yo no podía salir de la cama . Estaba todo el tiempo con mi niño pero tuve problemas de dolor de cabeza y de oidos y hasta que encontraron el remedio estuve fatal.Yo escribí todo lo mal que lo pasé y fue una terapia muy buena también tuve unos médicos que me trataron y me apoyaron en todo. Eepero qie te vaya fenomenal,tienes unos niños luchadores como su mamá.Un abrazo muy fuerte ❤
@ashleeS6929
14 күн бұрын
It’s ok momma sometimes We just need to cry you’re amazing!!!!!
@MelodyGoddard
2 ай бұрын
You are simply amazing!
@user-ju9xw3cx1w
3 ай бұрын
You are super sweet !!! And so mature for your age !!! You kids are adorable and amazing !!!!! Thanks for sharing . Keep up the great job . And take care of you mentally and physically !!!!!!!
@melicat6652
Ай бұрын
Postpartum hormone crash is very real. I remember it from my three births...and I had singletons. It wasn't really post partum depression, I don't think. It was just the feeling of all of those hormones crashing and no longer having my babies close to my heart....especially my first was born by C section and I felt like he was literally ripped out of me. I was lucky enough to have them come home with me. I cannot imagine what it would have felt like if they hadn't. I think your body does this for a reason...we are meant to be attached to our babies. Mine are all grown now but I'll never forget how that felt.
@Westiegal
3 ай бұрын
First of all Congratulations to you both. You mom are a Rock Star and dad is a Super Hero. Y’all have an Absolutely Beautiful family and I wish you all much happiness. You take care of you sweet lady. PPD is so real (I totally understand). God Bless y’all 🙏🏻😇
@brilliantbutblue
3 ай бұрын
You are seen, and you are heard. Check on the Mummas ❤
@gaylacrisler9818
3 ай бұрын
You are a wonderful, loving, caring mother.
@debbiesmith5455
2 ай бұрын
Bless you sweet momma❤️❤️❤️
@cindycreateforlife
3 ай бұрын
You need to give yourself a break, a lot of the deep sadness you were feeling after the babies were born is completely normal, post partum depression hits so fast, especially with multiples. You were seeing the world through that hormonal depression and you will forgive your family and friends for not showing up, people are often trying to respect your privacy and not disrupt your routine, it’s not because they don’t care. I only had one baby and I was a mess, I felt guilty about being a mess and I had such anxiety that people would think I didn’t love my baby, it was so confusing! Just be kind to yourself, be honest with yourself and I think you are a hero! You have definitely helped someone with this video1. God bless you and your precious family!💕🙏🏼🇨🇦
@sarawoods7874
4 ай бұрын
You had the babies on my wedding anniversary!
@AyakoTachi
4 ай бұрын
this resonated and touched my heart as a fellow mother of multiples (tho not quads)
@gillianspronk
4 күн бұрын
May you know the blessing of the Lord on your soul. May God help you to become emotionally strong again. He has blessed you both with 4 lovely kids. You must be overflowing with thankfulness.
@aryanegouvea
2 ай бұрын
Be proud of yourself too because you went through a lot to be where you are now ❤ sometimes we need to remember what we endur and celebrate that we are still standing, and that we are in a better place. Thank u for your vulnerability, i wish you the best ❤❤❤
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