"A third party to mediate"? Yeah..that's a red flag. Doesn't sound like they are anywhere near getting engaged.
@aleinstein3223
Жыл бұрын
Run away as fast as you can from this man. Control freak
@halcyonity
Жыл бұрын
She’s a few months into first year of residency, probably working 80-100 hours/week. Let her breathe for a few more months
@nowie4007
Жыл бұрын
yeah ,he should be more considerate about this
@paulatripodi3989
Жыл бұрын
He's rushing things. They've been "seeing each other" since the beginning of the year, and "dating most of that time." What does that exactly mean? My sense is that she is busy with residency, dating a guy that she likes and is really just getting to know, and he's already on a fast track in his head to marriage and financial committments. What he thought was some kind of "shame" about her debt may have just been uncomfortability about discussing her finances with a guy she is just dating. He is making some big assumptions about where their relationship stands.
@imveryhungry112
Жыл бұрын
he sounds kinda crazy tbh
@charlessnyder9684
Жыл бұрын
I think Ken picked up on that too
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
Жыл бұрын
He sounds controlling--I feel pressured just hearing him talk.
@brendondowdy5651
Жыл бұрын
I had a completely different take. I thought he seem organized and responsible.
@brendondowdy5651
Жыл бұрын
@@imveryhungry112 not in a rude way but how in the world could you possibly come to that conclusion. I think these two completely missed the mark
@JustinCase780
Жыл бұрын
UPDATE: She's now dating a doctor that doesn't over analyze silly expectations of schedules on life.
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
Жыл бұрын
I hope so!
@JustinCase780
Жыл бұрын
@@Elizabeth-yg2mg 🤣🤣🤣
@erickla7796
Жыл бұрын
It seems like the guy so into relationship than his career
@dr_pinna543
Жыл бұрын
And they have $700k in student loan debt combined and call Dave Ramsey when they're done with residency in 5+ years.
@bbeachy3571
Жыл бұрын
3-6 months of being engaged is such a short time frame… like at least give it a year dude, you haven’t even been dating her for a year.
@sierra7534
25 күн бұрын
6-12 is a "normal" time frame
@picadosinferno
Жыл бұрын
Dude is planning this all in his head and she nay not be ready, especially if she's studying.
@littleripper312
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, this guy is assuming a lot about their relationship. He's getting way ahead of himself and they could easily breakup because to her it might just be dating and not marriage.
@AZ_TONY
Жыл бұрын
Yeah shes definitely not there yet, he's going to have to decide if this is something he's wanting to stick around and wait for
@clarifyingquestions
Жыл бұрын
Caller - sounds like a desperate dork not to mention controlling. Run girl run.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
Жыл бұрын
HE needs to get rid of HER.
@linhaton4957
Жыл бұрын
I think he’s more into this relationship than she is.
@blackworldtraveler3711
Жыл бұрын
Yeah seems he has a marriage checklist with time table.
@KennyFromthaA
Жыл бұрын
Yeah he’s a true Simp
@littleripper312
Жыл бұрын
100%
@JP-uy9kq
Жыл бұрын
Beta male for sure.
@misoudeweese7209
Жыл бұрын
@@blackworldtraveler3711 Definitely. And unless she is really crazy in love with him, the moment he puts the timeline out there, she would say, "Forget it. I'm out of here. I don't have time for this."
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
Жыл бұрын
I used to work in a medical school and one of the residents told me that all but one of his fellow residents got divorced that year. That's how busy and stressful it is. This guy sounds like he's going to be a pain in the rear to her.
@kbanghart
Жыл бұрын
Exactly right
@Camie2030
Жыл бұрын
Yup. That “ha ha ha”. Lol
@joechang8696
Жыл бұрын
I would normally say financial responsibility is a big deal, but med school and residents can be exempt, because that's top priority and they will have the resources to fix any issues later, unlike normal people. this could apply to lawyers, but financials should be less stressful for lawyers
@1981lashlarue
Жыл бұрын
@@joechang8696 Lawyers aren't normal people? Why would financials be less stressful for them than anyone else?
@dantebellino9143
Жыл бұрын
This guy sounds like a control freak.
@hestiaa9354
Жыл бұрын
He’s more into it than she is. She’s going to be obsessed with her residency program-three years or longer-depending on the specialty. He needs to slow down and find out that if the relationship is as serious for her as it is for him.
@fusionreaper
Жыл бұрын
She's hoping to meet a rich doctor during residency before she commits to marrying you
@pattyajones
Жыл бұрын
Hubby and I have been together going on 25 years (I was 34, he was 45) ....NO WAY I would have stayed in a relationship with him had he done ANY OF THIS after 10 months. David, you are just way too intense for dating 10 months.... then add in her residency. The engagement period may be "this much to YOU'...what about her?
@ginoturano6821
Жыл бұрын
I think he's rushing because of his age
@lorys.7105
Жыл бұрын
Or just because her career 😅 he didn’t mentioned how much he is making 😂
@jenniferannfox2316
Жыл бұрын
With all shows we really don't hear the other side of the relationship; however, his occupation and earning potential was not asked. I'm a retired medical provider and I can tell you that spouses especially husbands are threatened by not the debt portion because obviously if you are in medical school you probably have some debt but its the threat of a wife earning more money than he is. It would be interesting to know his own occupation, his expectations from a woman in a marriage, and why he is not honoring the boundaries she has set with him in regards to finances. She probably was uneasy talking about it not due to shame of what she owes but the mere fact he is still pursuing her to discuss highly personal stuff when she has set boundaries at this stage in the dating relationship. He is overstepping his boundaries at this stage of a dating relationship. Sounds very controlling.
@Elizabeth-yg2mg
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@diceportz7107
Жыл бұрын
Whooooaaaa Nellie! Dude! You are rushing things. You are just getting to know someone, you have no right to nose into her finances.
@elchapojr6219
Жыл бұрын
Rachel is so cool, I just like her sense of humor and she gets what’s going on!!!
@mariaesparza2690
Жыл бұрын
Rachel's face says it all.
@taylorsmith9629
Жыл бұрын
What does it say? Can you describe it to the blind listeners?
@tubenachos
Жыл бұрын
I can tell Rachel feels uncomfortable with the caller. It's obvious he's into her way more she is into him. He's gonna scare her away
@eobrien1
Жыл бұрын
So true, she is much more like Dave than I realize sometimes w those expressions 😂. Love it!
@taylorsmith9629
Жыл бұрын
This guy is crazy they have been dating less than a year. Slow down. “3-6 month window” is stupid.
@BKDDY
Жыл бұрын
It's none of your business if she's just a girlfriend.
@HelloWorld-hb7yt
Жыл бұрын
do you ask for price of the car before you buying it?
@Jay-om8gr
Жыл бұрын
@@HelloWorld-hb7yt exactly. Definitely his business. Maybe not every single detail. But a herbal overview definitely
@KennyFromthaA
Жыл бұрын
Shut up clown , it is his business.. the same way a women wants to know a man’s job title and income before they even consider dating you.
@littleripper312
Жыл бұрын
@@HelloWorld-hb7yt She never indicated she was for sale. She literally never said she was marrying him, he's just a boyfriend. If she was serious about him she would be planning just like him.
@jeromesheerin1982
Жыл бұрын
@@littleripper312 maybe you have lots of debt, so dont focus on it.
@Bananamaltastic
Жыл бұрын
My girlfriend didn't want to talk finances because she was hiding income and spending it behind my back. Turns out she was exploiting my charity and legally "embezzling" us. Rather than continuing to enable her, I dumped her
@thegenxgamerr
Жыл бұрын
Did you sue her? "embezzling" is a crime.
@roolyfe
Жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@heathmcconnell3901
Жыл бұрын
@@thegenxgamerr When he says "legally 'embezzling' us", he's probably meaning that she used him to pay for all her dinners, ask for expensive gifts, etc. (or stated another way, she treated him as a meal ticket / sugar daddy).
@AZ_TONY
Жыл бұрын
Beautifully done
@EmpressMermaid
Жыл бұрын
@@heathmcconnell3901 Yes, I understand what she did was bad, but it doesn't rise to the level of embezzlement. Fact is, he chose to give her that money and pay for things when she was still at the girlfriend stage and they lacked true transparent financial ties to one another.
@David-wo9un
Жыл бұрын
David is in his mid thirties, is his biological clock ticking?😂😂
@maxpayne044
Жыл бұрын
That guy needs to grow a pair and walk away.
@lro001
Жыл бұрын
You moving to fast bro….move back, keep your distance.
@bmmk12
Жыл бұрын
Ken & Rachel are honestly my favorite duo. They are the most down-to-earth and able to have a good, fun, and genuine conversation
@therealadamlevine
Жыл бұрын
i miss dave :(
@craighendricks2994
Жыл бұрын
I prefer Dave, but Rachel is a strong second and then Ken at third.
@drazicmilosovic1065
Жыл бұрын
They do have an easy and constructive rapport - I think you’re right.
@kbanghart
Жыл бұрын
@@craighendricks2994 Dave is fine until he gets off on his right wing rants and assumptions
@Trenton.D
Жыл бұрын
@@kbanghart true but he’s old so you just have to take it as ignorance and jokes. Old people are smart but also really ignorant about many things.
@moose11vt
Жыл бұрын
Don't ever marry a spendthrift. Period. Don't do it. They rarely change their ways.
@EricTheRed06
Жыл бұрын
Give this girl some space when it comes to the money convo. She doesn't want to come home from work and school to a man asking about her finances all the time.
@calvinsmyth
Жыл бұрын
The red flag for this guy is his propensity to arbitrarily put life events into boxes in his head according to a calendar year.
@Primitive_Code
Жыл бұрын
setting calendar dates for life events is a big turn off specially if it's a one way street.
@calvinsmyth
Жыл бұрын
@@Primitive_Code A little creepy, too. I wonder what he would be like during stressful times when his partner does not fit the box he checked for her. From the movie 'Dirty Dancing,' "Nobody puts Baby in the corner,"...or, in this case, a box.
@georgewagner7787
Жыл бұрын
I dated a guy who wrote a list of every date we had. Weird
@unelectedleader6494
Жыл бұрын
I think he’s saying the ridiculously long engagements which are often kind of fake is the problem. If you’re going to get engaged it’s like a real thing and you actually set a date and you start planning and inviting people to a real wedding not we are engaged and then like three years go by and you’re still engaged. That’s just fake
@calvinsmyth
Жыл бұрын
@@unelectedleader6494 A lot of time is needed to plan a wedding, plus she is in a busy med. program. Many things that this guy said about their relationship and how he sees it is so odd as to be creepy and off-putting. If it was my daughter, I'd say run from this man.
@jacosisaba
Жыл бұрын
They have been dating less then a year and he’s talking about all this? That’s wild to be talking about that so soon. Slow it down. And wanting a 3rd party to mediate? That’s real weird
@TShirtAndReeboks
Жыл бұрын
A lot of people know early on, but this doesn't seem like one of those situations.
@vashtibascombe701
Жыл бұрын
I respect his question and stance. If you are dating with the intent of finding a marriage partner, why not find out if there are things that are deal breakers sooner rather than later? Why waste people’s time or get them too emotionally involved and then break up b/c you have reached an impasse?
@wichaelmeston1492
Жыл бұрын
Bro… grab your Nike’s & run.. run fast
@ONLY1KUDWE
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@IgoOutlateAtnight
Жыл бұрын
I think he needs a "Rocketeer" jet backpack...
@wichaelmeston1492
Жыл бұрын
@@IgoOutlateAtnight Elon musk should be able to help him with that
@roolyfe
Жыл бұрын
High step! This guy has issues. If a woman doesn’t talk finances bad sign 🪧. Kardashians lifestyle and Instagram has ruined dating
@tubenachos
Жыл бұрын
She needs to run from him...I feel this dude got major insecurities
@dcamnc1
Жыл бұрын
This guy thinks he has caught someone who has a potential "big money" career; he is rushing it so they can be official before she meets Dr. Right. Just imo.
@lorys.7105
Жыл бұрын
Yeahhhhh din din din we have a winner
@Josh_Morales
Жыл бұрын
I think bf/gf couples should talk about their money SPENDING and SAVING habits early on and their thoughts on paying off debts, investing, to see their financial mindset. People have no business knowing specific numbers about their partner’s salary and savings until after the engagement stage where marriage becomes a serious possibility. This is to prevent people from attracting others who just want them for their money and nothing else which are people you don’t want in your life. But it also gives people a chance to be fully transparent before they decide to tie the knot or not.
@itamchi9084
Жыл бұрын
She is not serious about the relationship :v
@betitos11
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha no wonder he's single 😁. Im sure he has a great relationship with his right hand 🤣🤣
@traetonmcglohon4563
Жыл бұрын
Already Off on the wrong foot.
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
He says his girlfriend don't want to talk about her finances. But then he also say's they did talk about it? So which one is it.
@stevenporter863
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Also the problem is probably his marriage timeline in his mind. Sounds like he is rushing to check off items on his mental list.
@dfsw
Жыл бұрын
Dating someone with massive debt is a red flag but a guy whos just dating a girl and wants to know everything about her money issues is a bigger red flag.
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
No it's not.
@littleripper312
Жыл бұрын
@@jimmymcgill6778 Yes it is, she might not even be looking to marry him. He's all up in her finances and doesn't actually know if that's his business or not.
@KennyFromthaA
Жыл бұрын
@@littleripper312 no it’s not shut up 🤡
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
@@littleripper312 I'm talking about dating someone with debt isn't a red flag
@guccithunder6136
Жыл бұрын
That’s not a Red Flag. People need to be Honest about their Debt and Money Situation to their Significant Other
@summerforever6736
Жыл бұрын
How about selling the car?
@dannyk1980
Жыл бұрын
Her finances are NONE of your business unless she says so. What’s wrong with this guy.
@JP-uy9kq
Жыл бұрын
This guy sounds so beta.
@IgoOutlateAtnight
Жыл бұрын
She doesn't want to "Talk Her Finances"?! Oh my. Change title :)
@todd2456
Жыл бұрын
It's a daily thing. Embarrassing.
@cathy7824
Жыл бұрын
I have two 23 year old nieces who are doing great money-wise. I have beat it into their heads about not discussing their finances with boyfriends and friends. This guy is too much.
@maryd1495
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@johnsradios484
Жыл бұрын
They are getting ready to discuss marriage at some point so yea discussing financials is important.
@maryd1495
Жыл бұрын
@@johnsradios484 He wanted to push marriage after less than a year of being together. He wanted to only be engaged 3-6 months. She hasn’t known him for even two years and is expected to be a certain way. He didn’t even know if she was comfortable with that. He just knew his expectations.
@whitneyw.7919
Жыл бұрын
Of all thing/lessons to beat into their heads, this strikes me as really odd Cathy!
@zeropapa900
5 күн бұрын
I broke it off with a girl after almost 2 years when her friends told me things that were deal breakers for her that she’d never told me. Right before that she drained her savings to buy a camper and never told me until she sent me a picture bc “she didn’t want me to tell her it was a bad idea”
@wendyk4565
Жыл бұрын
I think that you just started dating and I can see why she doesn’t want to share. I agree share your values and see what happens
@David-wo9un
Жыл бұрын
He stated at the very beginning they started “seeing” each other at the beginning of the year and have been dating most of that time; it seems too soon to be talking marriage. The manner in which he is rushing things reeks of desperation; usually it’s the female who is pushing for marriage not the guy. She should be running from him.
@mgaming7
Жыл бұрын
I get the feeling he is the issue here. there's no time frames for life. you read the room and go with the flow. sounds like he already picked out his wedding dress and centerpieces and she's like, let's talk about where we should go drinking this weekend.
@cesaravegah3787
Жыл бұрын
If she refuses to talk finances you refuse to commit, simple.
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
He also said that they did talk about it.
@constitutionalstacker5701
Жыл бұрын
It is very wise to ask about debt, mostly because, if you plan to move forward with somebody, it's imperative to know that they have a plan and desire to move forward financially.
@notyourdamnbusiness8795
Жыл бұрын
it is.....but there is a time and a place. dating for less than a year and having decided not to progress for now.....isnt the time.
@jillgott6567
Жыл бұрын
What about enjoying time together? Why rush ? This is a difficult time for her and a lot if stress. So back off, be general in the conversations and just ease into this.
@PurpleRose8725
Жыл бұрын
She's uneasy because you are not her idea if marriage material.
@notyourdamnbusiness8795
Жыл бұрын
dating for less than a year. "TELL ME ABOUT YOUR FINANCES" that girl should run away.
@arh1234
Жыл бұрын
Disagree. Don't give your account passwords, but by month 2 I think it's reasonable to at least discuss ballpark numbers. For example, huge loans and in neurosurgery residency? Probably going to be ok. But it's reasonable for him to want to know the order of magnitude
@notyourdamnbusiness8795
Жыл бұрын
@@arh1234 agree to disagree. thats a talk to have, but not after dating for such a short time and decided together not to progress the relationship from its current stance.
@IntrustGames
Жыл бұрын
Move on my friend and find someone who will get with the program.
@littleripper312
Жыл бұрын
Yea, he clearly is looking to be the breadwinner, dating a doctor isn't going to work for him.
@todd2456
Жыл бұрын
Dave needs to hire a proofreader or fire the person who writes the titles. It's embarrassing. Yesterday they misspelled 'separation'. SMH
@alleykeosheyan4779
Жыл бұрын
Agree -- the other day Deloney had a byline that misspelled "disappoint."
@Trenton.D
Жыл бұрын
They live in Tennessee. Not known for elementary and secondary education…bad schools.
@summerforever6736
Жыл бұрын
Stay single best advice! And life is beautiful
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
Here comes all the woman hating comments.
@eobrien1
Жыл бұрын
The timeline to me isn’t the biggest problem; it’s that he is rushing this with the plan being only what *he* wants, and he isn’t thinking about what she wants at. all. Even tho she’s voiced that she needs everything to chill for a bit. The pushing after that point is the red flag to me.
@ginolatino6046
Жыл бұрын
He is "getting ready to be married" and she is just trying to survive her residency. He needs to back off or end the relationship and get someone else who is ready to get married. IMHO, it is fine to ask about the other's finances if they have been dating for 10 months and are getting serious. If you are in a serious, long-term, committed relationship, you should know each other's finances.
@TheChocoboWhisperer
Жыл бұрын
Would she want to put things on hold for her first year of residency if you were Henry Cavill proposing marriage? No. You're not the one.
@imveryhungry112
Жыл бұрын
hes living in a fantasy
@tubenachos
Жыл бұрын
This guy is a red flag himself. She's probably feeling of losing her independence and getting pressured into marriage. "So uhhh not yet...."
@eugenawoodson3816
Жыл бұрын
First time I've heard a man say he wants a short engagement...
@brooke86
Жыл бұрын
It takes 8-12 months just to have a dress made , enjoy each phase on its own. No need to rush.
@I_like_turtles_67
Жыл бұрын
So where's your husband?
@luckylib
Жыл бұрын
I got my dress of the mannequin of David's Bridal. It was the only dress in my size and I wanted it.
@georgewagner7787
Жыл бұрын
My college roommate got hers for 25 bucks at Sears. A long time ago
@brooke86
Жыл бұрын
@@I_like_turtles_67 That’s a long story….😂
@brooke86
Жыл бұрын
@@georgewagner7787 good for her, that’s a great price if she was happy with it 😊 I don’t see sense in spending an arm and a leg now. I had spent $1500 on mine and it was ruined before the reception from my now ex husband stepping on it and ripping. It was a waste of money looking back. Learned my lesson.
@tyco5250
Жыл бұрын
My guess is that they've already had a conjugal relationship so talking about finances later is irresponsible it's supposed to be the other way around which in most cases it isn't
@imveryhungry112
Жыл бұрын
Culture is different now. Now people hook up the day they meet and maybe have a relationship. It sucks but that's the way out culture is now.
@cindy_lou_loves_to_stitch
Жыл бұрын
Her career comes first (and thats ok, for her) and if you are ok with being 2nd or 3rd in her list of priorities, keep up what you are doing. You are blinded by her looks...
@maryd1495
Жыл бұрын
So you’re saying that she should completely set aside all of her goals, all of her dreams and become a wife/mom? Yikes. He sounds like a man who then he would expect her to have a kid within a year and put aside her residency goals for him. That is not OK. She has a lot on her plate.
@Jay-om8gr
Жыл бұрын
@@maryd1495 may not be compatible. I definitely wouldn’t want a career focused woman. Id need her to put me and the kids first. If she’s focused on career goals first, she’s not my type
@cindy_lou_loves_to_stitch
Жыл бұрын
@@maryd1495 not saying that at all! She isn't the one who called in. She should follow her goals. Facts are, her career is her priority and he needs to accept that! He needs to find someone who is ready to put a relationship first. Then talk about all of the important stuff after a few months of dating.
@jimmymcgill6778
Жыл бұрын
@@maryd1495 She said the exact opposite.
@user-jy7yw5kw3w
Жыл бұрын
I love the fact my woman is more career focused and makes more than I do 😂 if anything ever goes wrong she can’t get me for alimony.
@erickla7796
Жыл бұрын
I love this channel 😂
@PInk77W1
Жыл бұрын
Deal breaker • no hard feelings
@I_like_turtles_67
Жыл бұрын
She doesn't want to get tied down incase she lands a surgeon at work. If she can't. He will be the fallback safe provider.
@maryd1495
Жыл бұрын
That’s presumptuous. Maybe she wants someone who makes her feel safe. Maybe she wants to not be pressured while she has a ton of other pressure on her plate. Maybe you don’t understand how stressful residency is. Depending on the field, it’s a lot of long hours, a lot of work, and a lot of stress. She doesn’t want to add on a wedding, which is extremely stressful, to her plate. She just is setting a boundary. If you don’t accept boundaries, you’re a walking red flag.
@terriesmith2616
Жыл бұрын
@@maryd1495 If he was Henry Cavill she wouldn't care how stressful her residency is, she'd marry him in an instant. Women always want to marry up...and to a Chad. If she lands a surgeon, she'd dump this guy in a heartbeat and you know it.
@BMartinsGamingExpo
Жыл бұрын
@@terriesmith2616 sadly I agree
@I_like_turtles_67
Жыл бұрын
@@maryd1495 Gaslighting & shaming language doesn't work on me. If she wanted this man he wouldnt be calling into the show. The fact she's setting boundaries is a clear indication that he doesn't give her the tingles. Women break rules for men they desire. Women set rules for men they're not attracted to. So don't act like I'm presumptuous about a possible motive on keeping her options open.
@terriesmith2616
Жыл бұрын
@@I_like_turtles_67 💯💯💯💯100% agreed with you and I'm a woman.
@Jay-om8gr
Жыл бұрын
4:08 definitely a red flag. But dude is head over hills in love and won’t see it
@jeromehenry4484
Жыл бұрын
Caller is in love with her earning potential. How much does caller earn? I must have missed that part.
@Jay-om8gr
Жыл бұрын
@@jeromehenry4484 yep and they didn’t ask
@appleiphone69
Жыл бұрын
Dude, at least she is going to have a good income. If she is not a big spender and will work on paying off debt then she might be a keeper. If not, cut bait.
@davidmilhouscarter8198
Жыл бұрын
It’s not about residency. She’s not as serious about the relationship as David is.
@godspeedrr5790
Жыл бұрын
Find a new girlfriend
@Treerootz1
Жыл бұрын
The put a ring on it comment might be the cringiest thing I’ve heard on this channel, and Dave is pretty cringey
@David-wo9un
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, the sad thing is the dude doesn’t realize how cringy.
@glenfordburrell1076
Жыл бұрын
Medical Degrees are extremely difficult, expensive and can take up to Seven Years to complete. Yet his fiancé is only in her first year. At 27 years of age she is also a late starter as most successful graduates do have an advantage of a relative that was or still maybe in the profession. Besides over 40% of American female Medical students - after graduation never ever end up working in the profession at all. This is due to the gruelling hours and the endless days of working grinding shifts back-to-back. I don't think that marriage is beneficial or a sensible choice for this chap.
@AZ_TONY
Жыл бұрын
Run for the hills my guy
@DaddychiLL6
Жыл бұрын
Lol the title 😂
@fernsader9261
Жыл бұрын
She’s planning on taking half of yours just leave it in the streets
@TShirtAndReeboks
Жыл бұрын
She said she doesn't want to even think about engagement yet and she is in residency. She seems like she doesn't want any from him.
@HHHPedigrees
Жыл бұрын
Im sure she’s gonna be making 4-5x the salary than the caller though
@dribs4671
Жыл бұрын
David and his girlfriend needs to talk about money and Finances now and the furture
@HHHPedigrees
Жыл бұрын
Seems like they haven’t been dating all that long
@FrankS111
Жыл бұрын
Ramsey personalities when a Woman calls in to say significant other won’t talk about their finances: “he’s a loser goob and being a big baby” Personalities when a man calls in about significant other not talking about their finances: “you need to talk about their values and don’t push her into it and you seem extreme” God the double standards are nauseating. Now cue the women with cognitive dissonance in the comments 🙄🙄
@I_like_turtles_67
Жыл бұрын
So happy to see men realize the game in rigged. Some of us find out when it's too late.
@thaimuayshoo1171
Жыл бұрын
That's "Adam bad, Eve good" Evangelical Christians for you. We hold men to higher standards (especially in regards to protection and financial provisioning), but want to claim marriage is a 50/50 equal partnership.
@georgewagner7787
Жыл бұрын
Eve was equally to blame. Don't know who you've been hanging around
@carolynstewart8465
Жыл бұрын
RUN!
@hvaball150
Жыл бұрын
maybe SHE doesn't have daddy's money to fall back on.
@kathryncashner3294
Жыл бұрын
He needs to slow down. First, I don't know the difference between "seeing each other" and "dating," I can tell you that residency is rough, no matter what specialty she is pursuing. Some are rougher than others. It takes 3-7 years depending on specialty. Yes, the maximum working hours have been limited since I did it, but it is still rough. Unless she was one of the lucky ones who fell into just the right category, she probably has a ton of med school debt. That's not scary IF you share the same feelings about paying it off. The key there will be to continue to live like a resident when she finishes and gets a real job--do that, and the debt can be rapidly extinguished. The problem is that most people want to buy the nice car and house when they finish, and that's going to incur more debt. You never said what you do or where you are in your career path. He needs to work on getting himself debt free and perhaps talk to her about why he considers that important....and lose the "time line." Engagement is when they agree it should be, and marriage might be 3-6 months or at the end of residency! Learn what HER live plan is.
@summerforever6736
Жыл бұрын
He sounds like a decent guy!! Find a different girl!
@screwdriver_bandit
Жыл бұрын
“We had a lot of other things going on we were dealing with” a year in?? What possibly could you already be this stressed about.
@OfficerPapi
Жыл бұрын
She’s not that into you bro. I could write an essay, but I’ll leave it at that. You’re in your feminine energy.
@annebebee6764
Жыл бұрын
Man, can't believe how many people are beating up on the guy!
@JMM2479
Жыл бұрын
lol what
@kstar1956
Жыл бұрын
He needs to slow his roll! He's at the age he's ready to marry and I get it but she's 29 and in school focusing on her career. They haven't even been dating for a full year and he's talking about marriage. She may not be that into him to tell her all her financial business. He sounds rigid and needs to chill out!
@jaylenjenkins1696
Жыл бұрын
He’s to poshly and want what he want at a certain time it’s about him not about them.
@setha360
Жыл бұрын
Tinderella no talky about my debt,,,because its yours romeo soon.
@Jim_Curtis
Жыл бұрын
This guy should approach this logical and realize the red flags here. She's not on the same page and he should just pull back. He should not even be thinking about marriage, especially with the debt she's has from medical school.
@jeromehenry4484
Жыл бұрын
Please give examples of what caller has to offer. What's on HIS side of the ledger?
@Lasaro7499
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a headache. Just run away and enjoy your life. There is a good chance she will eventually take everything. If you like putting generalities into boxes, as soon as she says i do, she doesnt. O wait she will. She will take at least half and take it to her next marriage.
@danclapper626
Жыл бұрын
Slow your roll, ask values, later work through everything.
@MikeyPaper
Жыл бұрын
Dont try to justify the situation with values and self righteousness. It looks so pathetic.
@Kevinj36541
Жыл бұрын
Lol typical
@RandomVids519
Жыл бұрын
The song should be first comes fiancés then comes marriage then comes a baby in the baby carriage
@MikeyB_1972
Жыл бұрын
What are you a lawyer or something? Slow down. Tried communicating. If she’s gonna be busy and residency, then you need to back off.
@stevenjustice105
Жыл бұрын
Just get married. Then have a wedding.
@nicholeknight1893
Жыл бұрын
Where's Dave?
@mluterancik
Жыл бұрын
He's probably going to get his heart broken unfortunately.
@David-wo9un
Жыл бұрын
He is so whipped he can’t even see straight.
@christians.1941
Жыл бұрын
3-6 month engagement…..this guy doesn’t know how long it takes to plan a wedding
@1981lashlarue
Жыл бұрын
Actually, it takes a very short amount of time unless you plan some massive gala event that costs thousands of dollars. Engagement should be focused on the marriage, not the wedding. Maybe if people did that, the divorce rates would be much lower.
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