There’s nothing wrong with not sleeping around, sometimes it’s our upbringing (don’t go and get any girl pregnant o), our mindset & self discipline (I need to get my career and finances right) and fear of God. It’s sad that sleeping around has become the norm that that disciplined people are feeling like the black sheep.
@lizzybens
Ай бұрын
It's really scary for me just thinking about how some people can make sleeping around stylish and attractive
@marvellousigu106
Ай бұрын
Like people marketing the wrong thing because it's so popular or everyone is doing it
@oma7698
Ай бұрын
The movie industry glorifies and normalises sexual promiscuity and sex without commitment. One-night stands and waking up from a drunken night out in a strange bed feature in almost every movie now. It is systematic programming. Now, we have people who have grown up in this zeitgeist and think it is the normal way to live, and that sexually discerning people are dysfunctional. One has to consciously resist this programming to escape its power.
@JulietChiamakaIke
Ай бұрын
There’s everything wrong with sleeping around, stop saying trash just to make you look cool…. You actually aren’t
@kiv_daniels
Ай бұрын
@@JulietChiamakaIke Is this one okay? or you don’t understand English, read the comment again. You lack comprehension skills.
@Asianimabong8573
Ай бұрын
Guy to guy affection is not homosexuality. It's brotherhood
@tanitambi7223
Ай бұрын
Story
@ccanft
Ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one ❤
@thatomokoena3173
28 күн бұрын
Like!!!! Louder!!
@josepho.8317
22 күн бұрын
Not according to the toxic masculinity podcasts flying around which are affecting the way men think
@tdad8683
Ай бұрын
I love this guy's SINCERITY. He just mentioned what most guys are DEALING WITH. Kudos to him 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@akinyodetomiwa1565
4 күн бұрын
I'm going through this and I'm loosing my mind and confidence Thank you for speaking for me I need someone to talk to
@ibrahimgalla
17 күн бұрын
This is so encouraging. Him talking about therapy and all! I feel things like this need to be more talked about openly. There are many people who are going through a lot and do not know there are resources out there for help. Oh, the interviewer also did a neat job. Kudos.
@QueenDavidCreative
Ай бұрын
You’re set apart that’s why you don’t like to sleep around, but the world doesn’t see it that way and then you try to fit in to be like everyone else. It happened to me. Hang in there ❤
@marthangafor6414
Ай бұрын
He was in an emotionally abusive relationship. Glad it's over.
@nomsoedy1332
Ай бұрын
Funny enough, people will misinterprete this guys story and think he fought being gay and make it look as if being gay is a choice that you can actually stop or fighy against😂😂. 😂
@VantageYou
24 күн бұрын
Iswr down Being Gay is NOT A CHOICE Ope oo
@nelsonalozie6656
Ай бұрын
This is one thing many guys struggle with including me because of people’s projection. Thank you for sharing your experience. At a time in my life I can’t buy things for people and buy for a guy because people will read meaning into it.
@ccanft
Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤. People are finally saying it.
@Stephan__ox.
Ай бұрын
The enemy will try to steal your identity first & question who you are
@KalambaMusic
Ай бұрын
Which enemy ? 😂
@nomsoedy1332
Ай бұрын
@@KalambaMusice reach to ask ohh
@sktgfk9229
16 сағат бұрын
@@KalambaMusicDevil
@VanSheGoes
Ай бұрын
❤ Thank you for your honesty, stay true to your Creator
@ayeeshagrey
Ай бұрын
People project their own insecurities and feelings too! 📌
@fredcush6031
22 күн бұрын
I think because some men living in the metropolis are closeted gay men. She's just afraid to not end up with one.
@fiveloavesandtwofishes
Ай бұрын
healing is not that automatic. take it easy my bro
@ChekwubeIsaac
Ай бұрын
Hmmmm! Alot to be said. All the best 🙏
@victoriyke8717
Ай бұрын
Confusion 😅
@user-nx4vc6ef5x
27 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this.😊
@yoursjeffery
Ай бұрын
The way Chude talks can make you feel emotional and teary ???😂😂.... Okay oh
@VictoriaJuan-c4y
20 күн бұрын
Brother just dey confuse himself, Because i know that you cannot confuse our confusion that is already existing
@giftedchild9490
Ай бұрын
Lol that his like a serpent dropping silly ideas...some people will make you question your identity...get rid of them. Words are like seeds so be careful of who you let have a say.
@abolajiogundipe
12 күн бұрын
Very eloquent
@femiodunsi542
Ай бұрын
Please share links to therapy providers in Lagos (Nigeria). I don't know any.
@tadeopeyemi5719
19 күн бұрын
I don’t understand why men have to go through this, because as a woman, I can publicly say a lady is sexy and beautiful without being tagged anything. Very sad
@delightgbujie5310
13 күн бұрын
Honestly 😢
@TheChibuogwu
12 сағат бұрын
These says, you cannot say it in certain spaces without them looking at you in a way. It depends on the people around you and how cool they are with you saying it. I told a young woman I love you dear recently and I had days of explaining to them how it's harmless and normal.
@UK-sm4co
Ай бұрын
You have left me so confused now😢😢😢
@gerardamavi5606
Ай бұрын
about his sexuality?
@Liya_Nyengane
Ай бұрын
@@gerardamavi5606Yes! I'm also just as confused. Like, is he homosexual or not?
@michaeladie4582
29 күн бұрын
@@Liya_Nyenganehe isn't
@SpiceandHerbs
Ай бұрын
Our flower man😁
@blessingisa9741
Ай бұрын
Is this from our Dang community?
@meemeescorner
Ай бұрын
You too Sabi👍
@TalesbyIye
Ай бұрын
This is not our flower man oo😂😂
@louisafiadjoe8142
Ай бұрын
I love this guy too much. His IG is interesting to watch😊.
@precioussokwo
Ай бұрын
Power words don't ever underestimate 😢
@theolajola
29 күн бұрын
He doesn't owe anybody all this talk and explanation sha. I get that it can be helpful for people who are in his shoes, too. He might not be gay but he might not be straight also. Anyone he is, that's his business.
@dennisakuetehquaye3970
Ай бұрын
Why do I have a feeling that , underneath all that story there is actually a closet story with the guy .mmmmm he is the only person who really knows who he truly is.
@ccanft
Ай бұрын
There probably is...buh you don't expect someone to pour everything on social media ... He has to have some reserve
@okonkwoifunanya9029
17 күн бұрын
Correct
@ilerilawal
13 күн бұрын
This kind of assumption is EXACTLY what he is complaining about. A straight, woman-loving man can be affectionate, sensitive, in touch with his emotions etc. Men know which men are sexy or not because men are not blind. They may not use the word sexy but if we're being honest, we know what features make a man more attractive. Facts. Finally, if you have suspicions about a person's sexuality, ask the person. Once they tell you who they are (like bro has done in this video), please believe them and leave them alone. Abeg.
@ccanft
13 күн бұрын
@@ilerilawal you get it 😭. Men don suffer. I see situations in Nigeria where some guys are asked their sexuality, if they answer straight, the person that is asking will want to make them accept being gay by all means...like, are you me? Is me you 😂? Funny but disturbing
@quincytommy6754
Ай бұрын
A lot were said and unfinished, this is an edited version I guess ?? But ℹ captured a few things, do try to land before moving to your next
@agoiobunso
Ай бұрын
Amazing video❤❤
@eberechichikezie3571
Ай бұрын
You are who God says you are; A man made in God’s image
@humidg355
Ай бұрын
She was insecure and warped minded
@benedictiondnations3743
Ай бұрын
what the subject im lost
@tgkingsley4380
15 күн бұрын
My Brother, this your story long oo😅
@denatora7142
18 күн бұрын
Not all men sleep around but i would say sometimes, poverty dont make ppl sleep around. I know a 40 year old guy that live is dealing with, he is so depressed that he cant even get his thing up. I think poverty forced celibacy on him tbh.
@charliedior3336
Ай бұрын
Chileeee please 💅🏽💅🏽
@Liya_Nyengane
Ай бұрын
What's tea chile? 😂
@nnamdiohachenu7835
29 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 See!!!
@rohole
10 сағат бұрын
Jesus is the answer for the world today
@Kvieri889
Ай бұрын
She was demonic ...but u didn't know
@tataukok2084
Ай бұрын
If you know you know 😂😂😂💭
@VictoriaJuan-c4y
20 күн бұрын
I swear
@felixpromise001
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@ezeprincess2013
Ай бұрын
❤
@amidoeboh3771
Ай бұрын
Whats the summary of what u are saying. Honestly I don't get it
@rebeccaasiama9812
Ай бұрын
Me too
@user-lo9mj4lk5v
Ай бұрын
Lol 😂 he's just going round a circle . Mixing lies
@o_m8717
Ай бұрын
@@user-lo9mj4lk5vLies? Because of his sexuality?
@user-lo9mj4lk5v
Ай бұрын
@@o_m8717 Not about his sexuality but why he went to therapy.
@Tayeexplores
Ай бұрын
He's very clear. He is not gay. His girlfriend made him start questioning himself because she thinks as a straight guy he is supposed to be repulsed by gay guys. I personally can't roll with gay guys, but there are lots of straight guys who are not like me. And it does not make them gay.
@bamidelevictor2959
Ай бұрын
Really? 🙉🙉🙉🙉🙊🙊🙊 Bu it's OK though time will tell.This guy is such an amazing person look at what Nigeria did to him.Dnt worry we understand who you trully are and deep down you know the truth you will soon be free and aolpgize even more.We wish you all the very best❤
@TheodosiaOyibo
Ай бұрын
Ah ah 😂
@o_m8717
Ай бұрын
He is not gay. The problem is he has close pals who are gay, and he thinks about it a lot. If he saw a therapist outside the country, I'm sure they would have convinced him that he is gay. These things happen. Your thoughts ARE NOT a definition of who you are.
@tanitambi7223
Ай бұрын
Gay attracts gay simple
@VictoriaJuan-c4y
20 күн бұрын
But talking about this issue getting to a point where you needed a therapist, I would say that there is every possibility that you are bisexual but you are scared and afraid to accept that fact because of the consequences of your conclusion and decision on your sexuality based the kind of country and environment we find ourselves, Anyways i know it not easy to pour and spill everything out to us here on the media. But my advice is just be yourself and that is the only way you can be happiness.
@gaddielogunniyi1748
20 күн бұрын
Men who cross their legs 🤷🏾♂️
@SirDeeKay4
17 күн бұрын
Exactly 😂😂
@gaddielogunniyi1748
17 күн бұрын
@@SirDeeKay4 woo, I taaya. 😂😡
@ccanft
13 күн бұрын
@@gaddielogunniyi1748 ..that's all you picked?🤧😤
@gaddielogunniyi1748
13 күн бұрын
@@ccanft Nah. One of them
@Crystal4ya
3 күн бұрын
My grandfather used to cross his legs and Oga married two wives😂. That’s very gentle manly to cross ur legs bro!😂
@christianokeke1402
Ай бұрын
I don't understand this interview
@ogechiokoro3154
Ай бұрын
This is a clip from the full interview.. you have to subscribe to watch it in order to understand.
@ghbraniac
Ай бұрын
Sounds like insecurity to me. Straight men don’t care because they know what they want
@odiaose5673
Ай бұрын
All this one is just satan whisperimg things. If you have gay friends, help and love them from afar. Those things are wrknv spirits
@nomsoedy1332
Ай бұрын
You know nothing about being gay, so stop stigmatising people's existing for what ever reason that is in your head.
@Oteri03
Ай бұрын
See as she cross leg. Abeg oh. We don try for this ashawo industry. You be Cloro queen. 🤓🤓🤓
@Joyyislight
Ай бұрын
Chude is crossing his legs too sir, try to be calming down
@doubleo-7571
Ай бұрын
You maybe bisexual but scared of the consequences of owning up to who you are. Trying to suppress what you feel is obvious to pple. No straight man or woman ponders over the things that sent you to therapy
@ayeeshagrey
Ай бұрын
Not necessarily! I have never felt jealous of anyone my entire life , till someone close to me mentioned it to me and tried to define me with it. I struggled for months and fought my mind everyday to know I can’t accept anyone’s definition of me. But then , your comment is also valid .
@egbunaemmanuel3681
Ай бұрын
My thouhts too though
@ruth_adewole_o
Ай бұрын
@@ayeeshagreytotally agree with this. That’s what makes a lot of people go into what they are not supposed to. The devil has a way of messing with people’s minds and making them think they are who they are not
@bryangere4433
Ай бұрын
He head is under water, and he is breathing fine.. identity suppression is a coping strategy
@o_m8717
Ай бұрын
I don't think he is suppressing his identity. First he has close pals who are gay, that can bring those issues constantly in his face. Secondly he lives in a society that makes a big deal about men complimenting men on their looks. And since he has been around gay men a lot, he prides himself in being complemented by fellow guys. That alone can mess his perception of his sexual identity especially when his experiences are questioned. Thirdly, he was in an emotionally abusive relationship. I believe he is not bisexual.
@SirDeeKay4
17 күн бұрын
IF WE CAN BE HONEST HERE GUYS THE WOMAN KNOWS THIS GUY MORE THAN WE DO AND SHE SAW A LOT TO END UP SAYING THAT, NO WOMAN CAN QUESTION HER MAN SEXUALITY IF THERE IS NO SIGNS
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