wow... straight to my heart. Just walked away from 28 yrs with an alcoholic, and broken promises. This song nails it. I hit the snap line and was done done done.
@tribblegirl2
10 жыл бұрын
Stay strong :)
@serenakarin787
10 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Get what you deserve, which definitely wasn't that.
@deannayoung1612
6 жыл бұрын
shecook62 That is great! I'm happy for you & glad you were able to pick up the broken pieces for yourself. It's not easy! I'm a recovering addict; clean over 5yrs! I'm so thankful! But I also know how lucky I am to still have the people that I did hurt. I've lost 6 loved 1z this year alone! All the best to you!
@destinihaynes2647
6 жыл бұрын
shecook62 I was with my boyfriend for 2years and he broke my heart so this song neiled it big time
@jessicamartin5468
6 жыл бұрын
I'm walking away 6 yrs of lies,broken promises and drug abuse I just can't deal with him anymore ✌
@cjwarner5407
2 жыл бұрын
just left an 8 year toxic relationship 🙃 felt stuck for so long.. this song really hits the nail on the head...finally twisted my heart til something snapped inside
@animeluver4ever911
4 жыл бұрын
Not a romantic relationship but my “best friend” for about 12 years. Just the most emotional exhausting relationship ever and I grew up with a alcoholic who had serious issues.
@viki81754
3 жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience with a "best friend" who really just wanted someone to tear down, dump on, and bail her out financially. I'm so glad that we had to move away and "abandon" her. Poor baby!
@christielee1840
Жыл бұрын
Yeah? Hmm then why do you feel it absolutely necessary to put that in quotes? Do tell. 😂😂😂
@deebuchanan1785
6 жыл бұрын
My Give a Damn's been Busted since long before this song, so I must Thank Jo Dee Messina for recording & sharing it!!!
@cisio64123
9 жыл бұрын
The perfect song for anyone who has had a relationship with someone who hurt them so much that it has totally destroyed any love or feeling they once had. This is the point where it's really over because there is no longer any emotional investment in the relationship. The tears, excuses and emotional blackmail don't work anymore because it's obvious how ridiculously phony they really are. There is nothing left except "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn ".
@amberlawson7867
9 жыл бұрын
cisio64123 so god dam true ,to my ex who i was with for 4 yr no matter how much you cheated because i was to young to know better and cried for so long MY GIVE A DAM IS BUSTED
@PebblesiplierX3
8 жыл бұрын
+cisio64123 That's my profile pic
@cisio64123
8 жыл бұрын
+Pebbles No Unicorn Fucks Will Be Given ;D Gotta love Rhett Butler, he didn't mince words. =)
@cisio64123
8 жыл бұрын
+LoverofHighHeels1 No, it's not weird at all. The song is about a romantic relationship, but the sentiment can be applied to other relationships.
@heatherforman6193
7 жыл бұрын
I don't think it is weird at all.
@crystalrowlandb
12 жыл бұрын
I love this song I think it's great one of the first memories I had my mom listening to this song and us singing... Taught me a good lesson in life never let a man treat you wrong you do not have to give a damn!!
@snail2734
Жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Thank you!!!!!!
@zandjruletheworld617
2 ай бұрын
Yeah 💖
@amandabutcher23
10 жыл бұрын
The first time I heard this song, I thought it said 'my mini van's busted' so that's how my mom and I always sang it. :)
@amandaharbath6364
3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@kerinbot
3 жыл бұрын
Busting a gut on your "my minivan's busted" version Lol would love to see Weird Al Yankovic do a version of the song with that chorus... About a car he just refuses to fix one more time? LOL
@jebsmoak7505
3 жыл бұрын
Lol smfh!!!!!!!!*
@WelcometoMellyville
11 жыл бұрын
"Who's your ENABLER these days", not who's your neighbor.... :) GOOD VIDEO
@katiecopeland8561
3 жыл бұрын
Myself, hello
@pennyrock293
3 жыл бұрын
I was going to say the same lol
@k.g.m.254
3 жыл бұрын
@@pennyrock293 me too 😂🤣😂
@kyndrablankenship1758
2 жыл бұрын
I used to think she said neighbor.
@EmerialynCodeVenice
Жыл бұрын
I know that most already know, but I want to remind people that this song, or rather this feeling, doesn't just apply to romantic relationships - but familial and friendship as well. In my case, my brother (who is almost 40, mind you) has verbally abused me, disregarded my career and opinions for as long as I can remember, and regularly puts my health at risk despite the fact that I have a very dangerous illness that I was finally diagnosed with a year ago. I made him storm off from the family activities tonight because I refused to put up with him joking about me suffocating in my sleep, but all I could feel was relief while watching him drive off "after being so insulted to be treated this way". Seriously, my give a damn is busted 🤷♀ And if anyone has family members or friends who treat you that way too... don't think you're the "Bad Guy" for refusing to put up with such immature, egotistical bull$hit anymore 👍
@Ebs30
Жыл бұрын
Yesss girl
@ericabutler2172
Жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️
@user-hw6no2lp7p
11 ай бұрын
My sister treats me crappy so my give a darn is busted😅
@asbestosfibers1325
8 ай бұрын
shush
@kaydee37
14 жыл бұрын
You know, when you get to this point, IT FEELS SO GOOD!!!!! When you REALLY, REALLY don't care!!!! Thanks for posting this! I love it! Today is the first time I've ever heard of the song, but it's perfect timing 'cuz MY GIVE A DAMN'S BUSTED!!!!
@tammybrook8903
12 жыл бұрын
This is my anthem
@CallMeLoveMuffin
10 жыл бұрын
My anthem at the moment.
@GITH2024
9 күн бұрын
Feeling this, this morning. My brother’s dogs have worked my last nerve.
@rando2face088
8 жыл бұрын
don't know why people are giving this person shit for one word wrong they would thank them for taking the time to make it
@kerinbot
3 жыл бұрын
We like the video so much, we're hoping he could make a little edit, so everybody can enjoy it without learning it with the mistake... instead of going to a different one :-)
@billiebolin1248
6 жыл бұрын
MY GIVE A DAM BUSTED ..YEARS AGO..WHEN YOUR HEART GETS STOMPED ON SO MUCH....YOU START NOT GIVEING A DAM ..ABOUT THINGS.....😊😊💖💖💖
@Novababy790
12 жыл бұрын
I sang this in school to my teacher,i got a question wrong and he was like "no,try again" so i screamed "my give a damns busted!!!" ..He didnt like that too much oh well
@blakelove4702
Жыл бұрын
That sounds like something I would do oh wait I have done it my dad wasn't happy about it but my mom looked proud 🤣🥲
@Joey-fo4og
Жыл бұрын
❤
@ericabutler2172
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@jessicasomers4563
9 ай бұрын
Dude I had a shit day and thisssss was the first smile of the day
@JWalkey
8 ай бұрын
I sang “Before You Accuse Me” for a teacher in Elementary school. It didn’t go over well. 😆😜
@boopsers616
10 жыл бұрын
For my ex who thought he could cheat on me, break my heart, and then get back with me. Sorry darling, but my give a damn's busted.
@tfrazier425
7 жыл бұрын
Baylie Cole amen
@heatherforman6193
7 жыл бұрын
I have the same problem. I went out with this guy. He went out with my best friend.
@chrisscothorne450
7 жыл бұрын
I have that feeling. Lost a friend from my old high school and I used to feel this way
@robertoguerra5979
5 жыл бұрын
Baylie Cole their is one other song by Carrie Underwood before he cheats is another one for you and your ex
@anndavis2920
2 жыл бұрын
I AINT SORRY ABOUT NOTHING BUT THE FACT I bwliwved in a loser, hater, jealous douchebag.
@spinhook888
13 жыл бұрын
I normally don't care for country that much but this song is great!
@MrMarv1985
12 жыл бұрын
An absolutely FABULOUS tune by the irrepressible Ms. Messina, and a much-deserved #1 single.
@wranglerlover95
12 жыл бұрын
"Go ahead and water the lawn, my give a damn's busted." lol!
@Cattlerest
2 жыл бұрын
Great song Thanks for the memories!
@davidhenderson3565
6 жыл бұрын
bout one of the best songs period
@nancyw2981
9 жыл бұрын
My give a damn has been busted for awhile now
@elizabethratnik2621
6 жыл бұрын
nancy w mine too, especially on the front of alcoholics blaming the alcohol for sexual battery and whining and crying when their targets steal their money in retaliation.
@michaelhawkins3539
6 жыл бұрын
Hell mine to were do I start
@user-lx7du7jf7w
5 жыл бұрын
Yep mine too 11yrs now
@Thumper79
Жыл бұрын
The woman who I loved for almost 9 years recently left me. And when she did, my give a damn didn't bust, it self destructed.
@skylermurray9312
5 жыл бұрын
Perfect song for my ex fiancé that used to manipulate me for 4 1/2 years and everytime he sees me he always tells me that he wants to try and get back 2gether with a promise of gettin married and having a kid ths song gives me a relief to say my give a damn about u is busted
@dragonmastergirl
12 жыл бұрын
gotta love this song. i remember jamming to this song when i was like 7 or 8.
@jsbpdrama8456
8 жыл бұрын
My mum used to play this song in the car when I was like 3... and all I could remember of the song was 'dig a little deeper' so when I was about 8 I tried to explain to her the song about digging mummy and she was like what the hell are you taking about?? And I'm now 14 and just figured out what the hell this song was called and I love it all the same, over again!! 😂👌
@katy20122
12 жыл бұрын
Fits so well. Had so many of these days.. This is the perfect get me up song :)
@lisacaldwell1081
2 жыл бұрын
I NEVER HEARD THIS SONG UNTIL ALMOST 1 YEAR AGO HOWEVER I CAN SAY IT SURE FITS ME!!!
@Goldberry2007
13 жыл бұрын
Dear God, I'm praying really hard that I will get there some day soon. Until then, I will keep listening to this song to keep me going.
@cufan205
13 жыл бұрын
Feels REALLY good to listen to this, exactly the attitude I'm feelin right now, for a friend who whipped me around the curb with her lies, and my mother with her bullsh*t.
@debfan74
13 жыл бұрын
I dedicate this to anyone who ever broke my heart!
@christinehill3773
6 жыл бұрын
She. Has a great video out for this song
@bobbiesands2328
10 жыл бұрын
Hey good job, i just wanted to tell you that she says "who's your enabler now" not who's your neighbor. Other than that good job! Love the font you used!!
@tammydasti-fisher4593
4 жыл бұрын
I thought it was "enabler" as well.
@misspat7555
9 жыл бұрын
After six years apart and over three of divorce, I think my give-a-damn finally busted, due to a couple years of hurting my kid and not just me anymore. Go ahead and declare bankruptcy over your child support obligation, I'm done feeling sorry...
@heatherforman6193
7 жыл бұрын
Patricia Handa I am really sorry about your divorce can I pray for you?
@KimisCat
6 жыл бұрын
You can’t go bankrupt on a child support obligation, that debt cannot be included in a bankruptcy
@KimisCat
6 жыл бұрын
A parent cannot go bankrupt on child support obligation; it cannot be included in a bankruptcy.
@iceluvndiva21
2 жыл бұрын
Rhett Butler: frankly my dear I don't give a damn *years later* Joe Dee: my give a damns busted
@Babycake033
7 жыл бұрын
I honestly thought it was neighbor instead of enabler, everyone makes mistakes stop being so harse people She did a great job.
@LeeWare-xx3yx
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this song! I was trying to find a song that fit my situation a friend of 7 yrs, a good friend who always was respectful, hooked up with this gal, and his whole personality changed, always angry, he stole from me < never had in the past> and the threats and name calling - I am done with trying to help him. May it be a cold ass winter this year for him on the streets,. cuz my GIVE A DAMN IT BUSTED! :) Thanks for the song.
@amirosepoisonheart
2 жыл бұрын
walking away from a narcissistic man is one of the hardest things I've had to do...but I couldn't take the emotional, mental, sexual, and financial abuse anymore. I also couldn't take his tyrant like ways...it really sucks though....but my give a damn is busted when it comes to that relationship
@blueyoshikid329
8 жыл бұрын
This is totally me after working with the public for almost 6 years now.
@amberanderson6229
12 жыл бұрын
i looooove this song
@shakierataylor8680
9 жыл бұрын
this song suits me so freaking much it actually scary..
@Ashleyink1990
13 жыл бұрын
@MrVaginaSaurus Music is emotions with a tune. Everyone needs that perfect song for how they feel sometimes. This is one of the best.
@Animelover34512
11 жыл бұрын
:) surprisingly i was raised in a gheto but i love country music!!!!!!!! :D :) :D
@miss.shannonshealy9967
6 жыл бұрын
Razza hmmmm... tou sound lime the girl that says your not racist bc a have a light skin friend lmao
@miss.shannonshealy9967
6 жыл бұрын
Ghetto is how it's spelled.. I do like to get my 6th grade education out there at times
@kariebuchan
13 жыл бұрын
Love love love it
@patriciatirado2811
3 жыл бұрын
My new favorite song
@brethompson64
6 жыл бұрын
Straight up..best song ever. my give a damn's been busted for whole now 🔨
@ashleykidwell2301
4 жыл бұрын
Listening in 2020 like it's new 🤘🏻
@daddysprincess1692
12 жыл бұрын
love this song
@edee6820
10 жыл бұрын
Gotta love Jo Dee
@rutopia
8 жыл бұрын
Geweldig nummer, beschrijft wat ik voel, just a great nr, love it
@nwendrot
11 жыл бұрын
my give a damn has been busted for so many years its rusted and fallen to pieces!
@silverstrawberrys101
11 жыл бұрын
the original "I have no fucks to give" haha
@mackenziehoward7825
6 жыл бұрын
I was in a horrible marriage with someone who was abusive. And hearing this song, makes me realize that's how I am now.
@CrystalinaCat
13 жыл бұрын
The reason this song, like many others has depth for the simple fact, most Artist's derive their music from some past experiences they have had in their own lives. Now as far as "My give a damn it busted." I can understand the subtly in that song,for the fact, I have been through similar situations with men. My mistake for choosing the dumnasses men to start with, but still the (C)
@camillemize6662
7 жыл бұрын
Took 16yrs for my give a Damn to bust. you know who I'm talking about Allen!
@dddarien
9 жыл бұрын
perfect song for me
@bootsanddaisydukes
12 жыл бұрын
I love this song!(:
@CrystalinaCat
13 жыл бұрын
same principle apply, it's more along the lines of Jo Dee saying "Hey you! Yeah, you. I got sick of you doing me so wrong, so now I just do not care any longer." Basically like she loved the guy, or whatever, but she saw passed her love for the guy and said I need to do what's right for me, that's all it means really. That songs like this are a symbolize of the pain she felt because she loved him,yet could not bring herself to stay with him. Because he was that bad.
@dawnsdhmw1899
27 күн бұрын
Love her songs
@audramikeska2213
5 ай бұрын
this fits soo much right now with what im going through with family drama
@bobbie3082
3 жыл бұрын
My give a damns busted....... priceless...... 10-07-2020
@terriemartinez9989
Жыл бұрын
WOW. I was a Democrat from 1994 until 2020, and I dedicate this song to The DNC as my Good Riddance. This song explains what The Joe Biden Admin has 💯% got me feeling. Afraid and Confident. Men will not dress as women andabuse their weaker body strength. But they do. Men have always abused women and always will because they can. My Fellow Man Helped me to choose my give a damn is busted. ✌️🕊️♥️🇺🇸🤘🎸
@joyd340
4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this! A person at my school loves this song too! And I've used the phrase "my give a damn's busted" :n text messages.
@Craftingwick
11 жыл бұрын
My give a damn's been busted for years!
@billiebolin1248
6 жыл бұрын
Shadow Blaze I FEEL YA...💖💖💖😊😊
@ohmofvape3232
7 жыл бұрын
It's who's your enabler these days..... Not neighbour
@Ashleyink1990
7 жыл бұрын
I corrected myself with the annotations. If youre using mobile you dont see that, but you could of seen the other people posting the same thing and me stating yet the same thing.
@heathervona1780
6 жыл бұрын
Kelly Clarkson
@horsechickz13
11 жыл бұрын
why dont they play good songs like this anymore
@neitajames6029
5 жыл бұрын
Shelby Nicole Thomas down load it then u can listen to it as many times as you want.
@blueangelmetcalf1235
10 жыл бұрын
This song always reminds me of my soon, (not soon enough)to be ex-husband...
@DoubtingThomasina
9 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your new found freedom
@nakanomoon8380
6 жыл бұрын
I understand, I grabbed my 8 month old baby girl and ran from an abusive man
@rebeccaj34
6 жыл бұрын
I've been singing this song for 2 days straight. I had a close friend broke confidence deliberately. I pretty much told that my give a damn's busted. We cut contact and it's still busted.
@777chickenlittle
11 жыл бұрын
HELL YEAH! MY GIVE A DAMN'S BUSTED!!!
@katherinerobbins5722
3 жыл бұрын
I looked really really really hard scouts honor.... and my give a damn is so busted it ran away from home!
@SolitaireMasta
12 жыл бұрын
Ely, you have no idea how easy it is for me to relate to this song. I simpley don't care anymore.
@kaylamay7320
Жыл бұрын
I've always ❤ this one 😁🎶😁🎶😁🎶😸.... I've been lucky enough not 2 b n a toxic relationship 🙂
@collegegirl201114
12 жыл бұрын
@Kaysierra way to go! love it! :)
@kaydaniels113
9 жыл бұрын
Karaoke night on my cruise. Gonna get drunk and sing this
@ashleybarger9072
8 жыл бұрын
me and my ex been off on on for 5 years and he really hurt me. he ask me back out and I say no cuz I don't want to get hurt again. he always hurt me when we was together
@dawnard3544
7 жыл бұрын
Hits home making of realization .
@leeleec27
13 жыл бұрын
the guy is an alcoholic, or some other form of codependent, and she's had it! by far the funnest song ever...lol
@PerfectxDisaster7
12 жыл бұрын
haha i love how in this video you put Neighbor then put enabler over it! When i was younger i always thought this said neighbor, yet i thought she messed up and said like neighblor
@CheesusCrust
12 жыл бұрын
she just said she's the only one who gets thumbs up here
@Craftingwick
11 жыл бұрын
Join the Club then! We've got Jackets!
@sharicrocker5841
5 жыл бұрын
Through mine eyes. When they offered mine I figured they were giving away ham... no, man I'm good.hahaha
@scarletteevanova419
12 жыл бұрын
Awesome song!!!! haha Brought my mood up from almost crying to really happy and almost laughin! xD
@joycedevore7862
9 жыл бұрын
My loser spouse went to the bar in another state and didn't contact me for 5 days sayin he just needed some time!!!!! Sorry butthole my give a damns busted!!!!!
@briannacaulkett5883
8 жыл бұрын
Perfect song .
@gardeniaflower1859
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@katygallegos2281
12 жыл бұрын
SO EXPLAINS ME!! Attitude n everythin!!
@jennytadder8913
7 жыл бұрын
Love Ur Music
@LuckItDown
12 жыл бұрын
Anyone can thumbs up whatever they want on here. You can't tell anyone what to thumbs up and what no to.
@thomasbailey2997
6 жыл бұрын
I recently got this way I have been abused by my uncle now for two months but no one wants to help. My give a damns busted!
@thetravelinsagittarian1316
6 жыл бұрын
Ouch! Lol! 🤣
@collegegirl201114
12 жыл бұрын
what's the point of fighting about musical tastes? they're different because everyone is different. let it rest and enjoy the song.
@wdeatonjr
12 жыл бұрын
Great Song
@1996mousegirl
12 жыл бұрын
he wants me bck at the worst possible time and even tho i still feel for him he busted my give a damn and i've moved on to someone who actually cares about me...
@ctom1993
12 жыл бұрын
i mean, she already said in the description that she knows there are a few mistakes. so bringing it up doesn't tell her anything she didn't already know.
@DreamingAngel4life
12 жыл бұрын
oh this song is going to my ex, i'm done giving a damn. lol. loving it!
@katrenewed3639
9 жыл бұрын
i just got out of my relationship and the first song i played was this one----My Give a Damn's Busted
@MsDemonBunny
9 ай бұрын
Neighbor? Guess that answers the "who's your enabler" question?
@CaptchaNeon
6 жыл бұрын
“So who’s your enabler these days” YES!!!! It’s always the person who gets fucked over who has to take the blame for the persons problems. My give a damn’s busted.
@boohawk13
12 жыл бұрын
actually i think the thumbs up goes to Jo Dee Messina. it is her song
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