As soon as he said "Wanted to own the libs..." I laughed immediately! His advice is spot on, and y'all are absolutely adorable! 🥰
@juliannewright9164
3 ай бұрын
What is the libs? 😂
@jayladuncan2854
3 ай бұрын
@@juliannewright9164 liberals
@t-revstastetube8900
3 ай бұрын
I almost typed the same thing word for word until I saw your comment 😂
@x.kuruma
3 ай бұрын
He is such a mood
@itsnotjustaboulder
3 ай бұрын
i thought they were liberal since they follow neoliberalism/capitalism and are for freedom and individuality n crap💀 also sad existence if you get joy from those "owning sjw!!" ive had that phase for a long time and it was out of misery
@caity_bear_570
3 ай бұрын
Brett's smile when he's talking is so cute 😭🫶🏻
@YoutubeKing2772
3 ай бұрын
I know right 😭
@caity_bear_570
2 ай бұрын
@TaifuXanGaming Womp womp
@JSGaming0327
2 ай бұрын
Yesss I know right!!! They are so perfect together!! 😭😭😭🫠🫠🫠🫶🫶🫶❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕
@JSGaming0327
2 ай бұрын
@@caity_bear_570HAHAHA!!! My friend Dalton says that all the time. 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
@galaxyred7
2 ай бұрын
@TaifuXanGamingok lib
@hopperskid381
3 ай бұрын
You guys are so adorable fr😭😭
@jaysea2969
3 ай бұрын
cue the fan edits lol
@ceciliapistorius8321
3 ай бұрын
The way she smiles while he's talking. So sweet!
@KotleKettle
29 күн бұрын
She always smiles
@NoOne-nv6fj
3 ай бұрын
You can tell they just get each other. It’s simple and straightforward. Keep that energy
@DMSProduktions
3 ай бұрын
MANY people NEVER find that sadly!
@DMSProduktions
2 ай бұрын
@TaifuXanGaming * Citation required *
@DMSProduktions
2 ай бұрын
@TaifuXanGaming You're such a CYNIC! How long have YOU been married?
@chrisb7726
2 ай бұрын
@TaifuXanGaming who pissed in your corn flakes bud
@michaelward5302
3 ай бұрын
You two are still in the honeymoon stage of your relationship. May you still feel this way after 10, 20 or even 40 years. I wish you both the very best.
@sitka49
3 ай бұрын
yeah, but it doesn't - throw a few years,and couple kids into the mix. - Sometime the old idiom can really apply to marriage - "the road to hell is paved with good intentions." The difference between what someone intends do, and there outcome of their actions.
@michaelward5302
3 ай бұрын
@@sitka49 You will never be invited to any of my special events because you would give the worst toasts. "To the delusional couple. You didn't really think that it would be happily ever after, did you?"
@sitka49
3 ай бұрын
@@michaelward5302 expect the worst and hope for the best? Say first marriages it's 25% 30% that divorce that's how much the disease extinguishes, but how many more does it maim? ( perspective - just think if covid 25 to 30% of population?) And some just don't divorce for various reasons, but are living as roommates. 20% to 25% of marriages are sexless ,and those are possibly the ones that are staying together.
@lizc.214
3 ай бұрын
@@sitka49I understand what you're saying and it's pretty sad that a lot of marriages end in divorce, but the most unfortunate in my opinion would be living like roomates. I'm glad to see that my parents are flourishing in their marriage; they'll be celebrating 40 years this year and they still hold hands and look at each other lovingly, so I know for a fact that a beautiful, healthy and loving marriage is absolutely possible!
@sitka49
3 ай бұрын
@@lizc.214 I understand the roommate situation - that would be hell - and there is maybe a time to pull that pin on the relationship, But i do think its gone to where people know (too easy of an out?), and don't try or give it enough time
@josephinefranklin1324
3 ай бұрын
Love the avengers music when her husband makes an appearance on FT 👏👏👏 They are too cute 🫶🥰 Also I love how they are both brutally honest together 😂
@ScarletSaysBaba
3 ай бұрын
Boi.
@manuelm5664
2 ай бұрын
honesty is best policy!
@JoshuaOdionson
3 ай бұрын
I think some of the most frustrating advide comes from people who got married to someone they met in school growing up, or someone they met in college in one of their classes. No duh you ran into someone, you were around a lot of people all the time. When you're out of school or in your 30s or later, those social circles get incredibly smaller. Ive had other guys my age, in their 30s, say that theyre glad theyre already married because they have no idea how theyd find someone now, but they think its cool to just give me cliche advice. "Just go out and do things" yeah, I know. A lot easier said than done for that to actually work.
@AJPM802
3 ай бұрын
Facts. Pursuing what you're passionate about is good advice only in so far as that dedication bleeds over into other areas of life and goes toward what makes you interesting. If your hobbies are stereotypically masculine or feminine good luck finding someone directly that way. Also most hobbies and jobs have very little if anything to do with what's actually important in marriage. Would much rather have someone with the same core values and mission who just says "oh, cool, that's nice" about what I do for fun than someone who simply likes the same things and the rest is a crapshoot.
@LovingLifeasEmma
3 ай бұрын
It's definitely harder when you're not in school. But don't give up because it also happens all the time! Met my husband as an adult and I really did have to go out of my comfort zone and consistently get out in order for us to meet, but we did!
@manubishe
3 ай бұрын
Easier said than done? Being an adult gives you freedom to both choose what, and to what extent. Do a bit of everything? Go juggle Drilling that one subject? Guess what, there will be others doing either that, or stuff in the vicinity. If you aren't isolated in your schedule (doing night shifts and/or in a far off place), big chances you'll be in a place adjacent to your passion.
@christiansaravia7865
3 ай бұрын
They’re kinda right though you literally just have to get out and do things and talk to people. If that’s hard for you then that’s a you problem and you need to work on it or just find a way to be happy while single I guess
@hudsonmilbank
3 ай бұрын
Just make sure you meet the love of your life in school.
@mercyihebuzor7220
3 ай бұрын
We finally see how Brett's husband looks like! Great advice btw. I always found people making "I'm single" all there is to know about them has always been desperate imo. Im so happy to know y'all agree
@moon66487
3 ай бұрын
Is always the people who aren't alone telling single people to not be vocal about their feelings. Like, 💩 yeah. I'm desperate because going through depression all by yourself is a heck of a task.
@seanmurray5095
3 ай бұрын
I mean I'm not interested in dating at all goals are my calling
@moon66487
3 ай бұрын
@@DefeatLust having a loving caring family, does are relationships. Listening to them? Have you ever heard then speak? "Oh he's/she's a clever part in my support network". I don't need to hear how their company helped each other to better up. Is almost as if you didn't read my comment. "Than your victim mentality" how exactly? How do I have a "victim mentality" for saying is always the people who have a support network telling those who don't how great is to not be alone? Where there is the victimhood? Because that's an objective truth. You know 💩 about me to be saying, this or that. Shut up instead of running your mouth.
@mikebrase5161
3 ай бұрын
@@moon66487so bringing someone else down is the goal?
@moon66487
3 ай бұрын
@@mikebrase5161 not my goal, but certainly their's is
@aliciamoulton6876
3 ай бұрын
Sometimes a person can be doing all the right things and it just takes time to find the right person. Doing things you enjoy and trying to find people doing and valuing the same things is good advice - but it still can take time and doesn't always seem to work out that way. When you are single for many years, you have to balance keeping a place open for a person in your life and actively doing things to find someone while going on with your life and not waiting around. You have to balance some grief of not having a loving relationship without shutting off your emotions of wanting a loving relationship so that you can be open to it when it comes. That's often not easy. Much love to everyone "chronically single" and working through these challenges to find their person! ❤❤❤
@NikosM112
2 ай бұрын
The fact I have to go through all that just to attract women while all they have to do is just exist to get men. Sorry, I'll rather give up permanently.
@aliciamoulton6876
2 ай бұрын
@NikosM112 Men and women both often have to go through all these things. I was speaking from my own experience, and I am a woman who has not gotten married yet and who has been single for many years. If you're a religious person - I don't fully know why some of us have to wait so long to find our person and why others don't but I know God is aware of us.
@NikosM112
2 ай бұрын
@@aliciamoulton6876 God doesn't exist. Keep coping. Life is based off of luck even if you are trying your best. I gave up. I'll spend my life on other things rather than wasting time and money on dates with women who have a shopping list of men.
@aliciamoulton6876
2 ай бұрын
@NikosM112 I completely respect that you can see things differently (which is why I prefaced the part of my prior comment about God with "if you are a religious person"). But as for me, I have had so many experiences that have shown to me that God does exist and is involved in my life and of those who seek him. And so I choose to have faith in him. There is a lot of luck in life and a lot that is not fair. By believing in God, I don't believe that everything is scripted or meant to be. But there can be great growth and redeeming value that can come out of difficult things and through the process of listening to your intuition (including the times when you need rest and a break), making decisions, having courage, etc. Everyone needs to decide the best ways to use their time and energy. I wish you all the best!
@mightymight365
Ай бұрын
The trick is, you have to do activities that are coed. If guys go fishing all the time with all of his male friends, the chance of you running into a woman that is single who would be interested in you while you’re sweaty and smell like fish would be, not impossible, but be extremely close to zero. Or, if women constantly go to the hair/nail salons or the paint and wine with their girlfriends, again, the chances to find a straight male would be slim. But of course, you guys already know this. I’m preaching to the choir.
@HeroSword_P
3 ай бұрын
Aww that ending was adorable 🥺
@overcomingthat2728
3 ай бұрын
The sparkle in your eyes while talking to him is just so sweet❤
@callie09
3 ай бұрын
her face when he’s talking is everything edit: didn’t expect there to be a war in the replies on this
@meghanhunter982
3 ай бұрын
I said that in my head as her eyes melted! It was so cute
@Corneliaa
3 ай бұрын
Not enough to take his last name though
@beccas4146
3 ай бұрын
@@Corneliaathey’re married
@Corneliaa
3 ай бұрын
@@beccas4146 OK once again. She didn't take his name. Or still using her own name publicly. So she's not as conservative as she pretends to be.
@LacieAnimations
3 ай бұрын
@@CorneliaaShe doesn’t have to change every social media she has to her new last name. Her name is part of her brand. Privately she might’ve, but who really cares? 💀
@KeithOlson
3 ай бұрын
As someone pushing sixty who has been through the worst and is now learning to do my best, the advice I would give is to set your goal to learn to be the best partner you can be as you research what healthy relationships look like, then keep your eyes open for someone who is on the same journey. Neither of you will be perfect, but, as long as you are both seeking to perfect yourselves, you will have a training partner for life.
@TheYoyogelato
3 ай бұрын
Awww the way she said “I love you” is so sweet and gentle. You know they’re in love 🥹💓
@dawndemanda
2 ай бұрын
Your hubby is adorable and you guys are so sweet! May you have a lifetime of happiness, even in the midst of any challenges!
@Rachel-xg7hs
3 ай бұрын
As the chronically single friend, I’m grateful for all the years I’ve had to observe what went wrong in my friends’ various relationships. Doesn’t mean I’ll find the right one on the first try, but I might avoid some huge mistakes by learning from others.
@crazysilly2914
Ай бұрын
im 24 and never even attempted dating lol. I have Aspergers, im heavily introverted and spend all of my free time in my apartment. Oh and I was homeschooled, so I had no access to girls when I was teen, so I have no experience with talking to women.
@NikkiPhillippi
3 ай бұрын
This whole thing was amazing 👏🏻🥹😭
@cordialpsycho
3 ай бұрын
Yaaaaaaaaay!!!😂🎉🥰 So happy Alex finally made an appearance on your show. You two are so cute. ❤❤❤❤❤
@isenewotheophilus6485
2 ай бұрын
yeah, let's go get him for stealing her
@EvilExcalibur
2 ай бұрын
You're both adorable. And he's absolutely correct. Pursue your interests while being open to meeting new people. Not only does make it easier to find someone with a common interest but it's the perfect ice breaker.
@760Miramar
3 ай бұрын
Wow that's him?! Lucky guy. He needs to be a guest on Brett off the clock. If he's ok with that.
@petrastein2531
3 ай бұрын
You can find their wedding pictures on the internet. :) He reminds me of Marshall Eriksen. xD
@AleXelerate8
3 ай бұрын
Why not she's lucky? hm?
@MasterInHD
3 ай бұрын
@@AleXelerate8Because you would expect him to be better looking because of how good looking and famous Bret is. It's nice too see Bret isn't superficial.
@xWingzTV
3 ай бұрын
@@MasterInHDhe’s probably loaded
@jus4000kicks
2 ай бұрын
@@xWingzTV Whether he is or not you are the one who is loaded... with crap cliche MGTOW brainwashing.
@Muhon86
2 ай бұрын
I’ve never described myself as chronically single, that’s a bit much. Appreciate the advice. I don’t think it’s bad advice but I will say that sometimes you can do “all the above” and you still don’t find anyone. I’ve been single a long time, never been the person to make it my identity, I’m apart of groups where I do what I love, been open to relationships and dating with intent…..still single 🤷🏾♀️ Yall are cute so cute! Btw
@amandaturner4991
2 ай бұрын
I think that's kind of the point. If you say you're chronically single and make that your identity, then you're going to stay single because it's who you are.. I think your situation is different because you're NOT calling yourself chronically single and it seems as though you're actively pursuing a relationship. And, if you want a relationship and are doing the work to find one, you're eventually going to get it. Be patient. It will happen. I wish you so much luck in your journey! Also, yes, Brett and her husband are absolutely adorbs! ☺️☺️
@OxyCleanForYourBrain
2 ай бұрын
65,000,000 abortions since R v W which erased all the children they would have had, not to mention the massive rise of infertility (which is by design). We are in the midst of a population collapse - wouldn’t hurt to have an open mind to finding a spouse overseas.
@thewolfex1
2 ай бұрын
@@amandaturner4991I’m sorry but I feel like you missed the overall point of the comment, and it’s unfortunately the reason people get sick of hearing the same advice of “Improve yourself as person, someone will come.”, which obviously isn’t quite what Brett, her husband, or you or saying, but it’s something that needs to be addressed. Sometimes you really can be doing everything correctly, whether its appealing to what the other gender or your sexual preference wants, or improving yourself so you’re a whole person. You can still wind up alone despite that. Dr.K from HealthyGamerGG put it in a “correct” light. Yes these things and advices tend to work best compared to some others, but it doesn’t mean following it will result in someone finding their other and until collectively everyone can admit that there could actually be fundamentally nothing wrong with someone and they could still be single throughout their life regardless, I don’t know how well the advice can truly be applied.
@crazysilly2914
Ай бұрын
@@OxyCleanForYourBrain or just simply to move overseas, away from this dying country...
@crazysilly2914
Ай бұрын
@@thewolfex1 dude, move to a different part of the country with different values. Whether you find a wife or not can simply come down to which state you live in...
@ericmatthews9894
3 ай бұрын
"Pursue the things in life that you enjoy, and you will probably find someone." I enjoy being alone.
@elaizakaguya4631
2 ай бұрын
Then you'll meet someone who also enjoys being alone and voila😂
@ericmatthews9894
2 ай бұрын
@@elaizakaguya4631 That's not how being alone works
@matthewmelancon
Ай бұрын
The most wholesome short I've ever watched, incredible advice!🎉❤
@AGnorTheChannel
3 ай бұрын
I found my girlfriend through a mutual friend who thought we'd enjoy each others' company - our friend was right! And as with anything else, don't centre your identity on any one thing. Just be honest about your interests and, with luck, you'll find someone whose companionship you can enjoy.
@clevinjack1129
2 ай бұрын
This advice makes me feel so warm and so happy. Thank you
@thomasbsteve
3 ай бұрын
I've been single my whole life. I never described myself as chronically single. Now that I'm 43, I don't want to be in a relationship or married. You just have to mourn the life you can't have and move on. You can live a meaningful life without being married.
@NikosM112
2 ай бұрын
I'm 26 and in the same boat. I don't see myself even kissing a woman ever. Some of us weren't born with the gift to attract women or even be in a relationship.
@crazysilly2914
Ай бұрын
@@NikosM112 you two quit moping and go to Lebanon and get a traditional christian arab woman.
@NikosM112
Ай бұрын
@@crazysilly2914 the "just get the money to go to another country, bro" garbage red pill advice again. As if that's something simple to do anyway. The fact that I have to go through all that to get a woman while all they have to do is just sit around to choose men.
@mkzim91
3 ай бұрын
Advice for a certain section of single people: have a realistic understanding of yourself and your own worth/value. I thought I was awesome, but the people I thought I should have been able to date didn't think so. Eventually I found someone who did think I was awesome and was everything I wanted on the inside.
@TheMSS1977
3 ай бұрын
Your face tells it all. Happiness, contentment. And everything else. Congratulations!
@YasminMahnaz
2 ай бұрын
They just got married . Relax.. everyone is happy in beginning..
@TheMSS1977
2 ай бұрын
@@YasminMahnaz takes work to keep it going. And it's not all gold dust and rainbows ( original rainbows )
@БорисШувалов-щ5л
3 ай бұрын
You're a natural on camera, keep shining!
@FloydRunner2049
3 ай бұрын
Pron bot. See the bio
@marcaveli7791
3 ай бұрын
That is the best advice I've heard in a long time. People follow passion, and they are attracted to people who live passionately
@supremelordoftheuniverse5449
3 ай бұрын
What if their passion is to find a significant other?
@charitysketches
3 ай бұрын
Thisss
@keziaburrows3554
3 ай бұрын
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 while that is admirable, focusing purely on that leaves little room for anything else. Like Alex said, finding hobbies and places that you're passionate about is a great starting point to meet new people who may be similar to you and share your values. Clubs for hobbies, gyms, church, special events, etc. Good luck!!
@kristijan8518
3 ай бұрын
So by this rule if someone doesn't have passions they deserve to be single forever? Despite being an overall good person. Very good message.
@marcaveli7791
3 ай бұрын
@@kristijan8518 who in this world is not passionate about anything?
@isaacchillman11
3 ай бұрын
Brett with the terrible pov lmaoooo
@samanthaorologio6866
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I kept thinking the same thing the twelve times it replayed while I was watering plants and then I realized he’s literally doing the exact same thing lmao. Which is even funnier.
@kyle1598hffgyfv
3 ай бұрын
TBF, he's not the pro his wife is.
@Getout634
3 ай бұрын
@@kyle1598hffgyfvwhat does this mean
@lizlavoie2630
3 ай бұрын
terrible angles on FaceTime is a sign of true love lol
@Mishyou33
3 ай бұрын
Lmaoo I thought the same. Its like trying to video call with your parents
@r.designs
2 ай бұрын
He’s so right!!! I was told my whole life I was nobody without being married, but I’m 31 have never had a steady boyfriend (just dated). I’m to the point that if God wills it then I am happy & if He does not then I am still joyful because my worth is not based on whether or not I’m married 🥹💚 there’s a peace that comes with that! 😊
@jessicaloveridge2759
3 ай бұрын
My advice… Have high standards of substance (not superficial) and never settle Work on making yourself the best you you can be And pray. I know people see this as old fashioned but taking your hopes and dreams for the future to the Lord and asking for his help really works wonders. He led me to my incredible husband.
@TRADITIONALwife84
2 ай бұрын
I just love you both. I am so so glad you found each other and great advice by the way thank you, Alex.
@brandonrgarza
3 ай бұрын
GOSH DARNIT BRETT, and i thought i couldnt love your channel more. Your man is a gem.
@Jonathan-w2p6v
16 күн бұрын
Brett he's so attractive! You lucky goose!!! My advice is not to worry about being chronically single. Just worry about yourself and making yourself the best you can be and the right one will show up.
@chumz80hd
3 ай бұрын
Your hubby is hilarious 🤣 The Avengers music was an adorable touch 👌
@nrg6245
3 ай бұрын
They are so cute! Wow. That was refreshing. Reminds me of me and my wife ❤ two people who have tremendous hearts coming together is a Beautiful thing. ❤
@augiechiavuzzi4907
3 ай бұрын
My identity is Warhammer for the emperor
@ShadowSoccerAddict
3 ай бұрын
We pray to the god emperor that Terra may not fall into chaos.
@PoseidonOversimplified
3 ай бұрын
FOR THE EMPIRE
@ShadowSoccerAddict
3 ай бұрын
@@PoseidonOversimplified Heathen! Tis for the Imperium!!
@wastrelperv
2 ай бұрын
May your passion bring you victory.
@legolaswarrior9400
Ай бұрын
I Love these two!!❤
@RCCrawlerz209
3 ай бұрын
Like....I'm single af! Lol but I don't associate myself as "chronically" single....like.....wtf is that?! 😂
@priscillajimenez27
3 ай бұрын
Same 😅
@RollCallAnnette55
3 ай бұрын
I don't know
@mafiadan
3 ай бұрын
I get I fit that label, but why bother when I can just live my life with joy in a church community.
@lgmmrm
3 ай бұрын
@@mafiadanI can’t even do that because my church doesn’t care, has trash theology, and I can’t leave because I keep getting guilt tripped because no one else will learn the sound or ever care.
@AgileLily
3 ай бұрын
@@lgmmrmOnce you’re old enough you CAN! 🙂 Read the Bible for yourself, I believe in you 🙏🏼🥰✝️
@RaeBehrs
3 ай бұрын
Brett! As much as I love your work and it brings a smile to my face, I hope that someday soon you get the babies and homestead you want and are able to finish out your contract to stay home to raise them right and home educate! May God bless your union!
@christianaguiare544
3 ай бұрын
Careful, we don’t want to be those guys at a wedding
@RaeBehrs
3 ай бұрын
@christianaguiare544 I said some day! She talks about wanting babies all the time lol
@christianaguiare544
3 ай бұрын
@@RaeBehrs Fair point
@ed_Skynight
3 ай бұрын
The man, the myth, the legend that is Mr…cooper? I have no idea how they did the name thing. Either way that’s solid advice, find someone with common interests, you aren’t going to find them cooped at in your room.
@thedarkemissary
3 ай бұрын
At the same time, I wouldn't say dating coworkers is good advice either. He's lucky they worked out. Not everyone does. And then, you gotta get a new job.
@Nome_utente_generico
3 ай бұрын
@@thedarkemissary exactly. That's why I dated my secretary and I fired her Just kidding 😂😂
@Parker--
3 ай бұрын
"Find someone." That's useless advice. Also, the idea of asking a married child to give advice to the chronically single is like taking free throw advice from Shaq.
@athenapoe3377
3 ай бұрын
You two are so adorable! ❤ Keep on smiling!
@BryJovi17
3 ай бұрын
I never heard the term chronically single until like a few weeks ago. Despite this, I have been single my entire life since I first started taking an interest in girls, at age 12-13, and I'm now on the edge of turning 36. It does not define me. But equally I have engaged in all sorts of things that I enjoy, but clearly I'm just too physically unattractive to women to be desired as more than a 'friend'. I've known it for some time now, but haven't really accepted it until entering my 30s. The joys of being average looking.
@yanise1625
3 ай бұрын
Let me tell you something, is not about your looks. Many men who are average or not good looking at all are able to find someone. I think men who this has happened to need to work on their personality and the energy that they carry. Men who give off a manly vibe will attract more people from the opposite sex than men who give a shy, feminine, not confident vibe, regardless of their looks. Perhaps is not that you are not good looking, but the energy that you are putting out there. Are you clean, confident, social? Are you able to lead, make a woman laugh? Or maybe you are not funny, so you can't make her laugh, but are you able to make her feel safe and protected? Are you street smart? Are your testosterone levels healthy? There is so much that can affect this, so please analyze your situation and make the appropriate changes before you think it is over for you. This is coming from a woman.
@inkandcaffeine
3 ай бұрын
i think the "chronically single" are the ones who are making bad faith attempts at romance & then decide they have a condition lol or that it's the fault of the Women. i am a firm believer that the best marriages have the foundation of friendship (sure one of them usually has an "oh im gonna pursue this person" attitude) & that is what makes strong marriages last. at the end of the day the initial head turn attraction IS fleeting, easily chased away by personality or even just time as you age; but when you simply enjoy someone for who they are you can build a lifetime of intimacy off that because you value them as a person & actually desire to love & respect them. i think the chronically singles are the ones who only seek gain from a relationship, they dont treat it as a two way street & they're shocked that they get rejected more often than not
@sfappetrupavelandrei
3 ай бұрын
@yanise1625 NOOOOOOO!!!!!!! I can't find someone because I watch too many Chinese/Korean drama so I give a feminine vibe? 😅😅😅
@AgileLily
3 ай бұрын
@@yanise16251,000% you are so right (coming from a female)!!!!!!
@BryJovi17
3 ай бұрын
@@inkandcaffeine good theory, but got any stats or evidence to back that up? As a guy that has tried dating apps on and off for about 10 years, I've been on about TWO dates from them in total, not for lack of trying or having some basic common sense and understanding that any relationship entered into involves compromise and sacrifice. I even had to drive 3 hours to get to the most recent date I had in February, and if that isn't sacrifice then I don't know what is. Women only swipe right (like) a guy's profile in 2 to 5% of times, meaning for every 100 men they look at they are only interested in the look of 2-5 and not interested in 95-98 of them!!! For men however it's more balanced and between 40-60% of women's profiles that men are interested in, pretty much equal to a normal distribution of attractiveness, where factually speaking the majority of people, regardless of gender, are 'average' looking. When women are considering their shopping lists for men, and choosing the ones to go on dates with their selection narrows to just 1 to 2% of all the men they've come across after they've had the conversations. But do still feel that it's about bad faith, despite me having swiped on over 100,000 women at this point 👌🏼
@Hannah-ec2xg
2 ай бұрын
Making anything your whole identity is dangerous territory Just remember BE. YOUR. SELF. it will never fail you even if it feels like it ‼️
@peachy_tea33
3 ай бұрын
I now know what Brett Cooper’s husband looks like lol. I’ll apply this advice thr day I start dating, I’m a little bit too young rn. I’m only becoming a freshman this school year.
@JohnGramer06
3 ай бұрын
I'm a junior in high school. I've never dated and I don't plan to anytime soon. I have close female friends but I'm not investing in a relationship yet.
@kaylahowell4094
3 ай бұрын
Very wise. 😊
@NCO1426
3 ай бұрын
@@JohnGramer06same here
@inkandcaffeine
3 ай бұрын
to the youngins in this thread; dating apps are not a great way to actually find people. it is important to know someone decently well before you engage in any sort of romance so that if you two decide to part ways it's easier to think straight. so many of my friends who have messy breakups are because they can ONLY associate that person with romance not any other qualities or personality traits. also his advice is true; if you want someone you will enjoy spending forever with, you will find them doing things you already like! my husband & i met through mutual friends because we were all very relaxed & outdoorsy in college as opposed to the people who needed substances to have fun, for as much 'work' as it takes to communicate well in intimate relationships, its infinitely easier when you have the foundation of friendship not just quick romance. wish you all the best, dont let the internet make you think there's no one out there for you😉
@krazyfoo10
3 ай бұрын
@@inkandcaffeine well said 👍🤝
@DevinJamalSims
3 ай бұрын
What a great guy. God bless yall!
@tothepoint2519
3 ай бұрын
Best advice I've ever heard, actually. Just focus on your life, and talk to people outside, as a guy, rejection is normal. Have the abundance mindset and understand your value. You'll eventually find someone compatible.
@thomasmurray3920
2 ай бұрын
You two are so cute, as well as smart and grounded. ❤️
@guacamole7496
3 ай бұрын
The actual advice is: Be tall and handsome. If you can't, get rich.
@swegboy0238
3 ай бұрын
If you're medium-short, poor and like to stay indoors, like me, then work on an education or a career as well as yourself. Working out(rarely weightlifting, mostly body weight), broadening my interests, exploring the political spectrum, and studying to apply to a trade school to restart my career in a field that interests me, all helped to build my character, and now I have a short queen who's fallen in love with my personality, drive, and chivalry. We met on a dating site because I didn't want to have to go outside and hit up bars and things, but using dating sites was some of the most damaging things my self-esteem has gone through. It was torture to get rejected and ghosted for months on end, but once I finally got into talks with this girl we quickly started to talk about what we wanted from a relationship, and the rest is history. The trick is to not be a draining person to be around. Become content in your lifestyle or change it so you can be content with it, and either you will come across someone, or you will have to make small excursions to put yourself out there. Being miserable is not attractive.
@robert4you
2 ай бұрын
Tall, handsome AND rich is also a great combination... ;-)
@027betz
2 ай бұрын
my husband was/is broke and short when I met him. The right one will see past the superficial.
@Skegfromcraigslist
2 ай бұрын
GOT EM
@Hellonerds09
2 ай бұрын
the amount of men in college who told me they were homeless and met their gf's who gave them the money to go to college... is a lot. They were def not tall and handsome either. But they were nice.
@thegenzcompass2526
3 ай бұрын
That's so sweet 😊 God bless them both
@Artem2034
3 ай бұрын
That's also something that I heard from a friend of mine and I think that's the best advice you will ever get. If you want to find someone, just live your life. Do what you love and along the way you'll find people who are compatible with you. They might become your friends group or something more, who knows.
@YasminMahnaz
2 ай бұрын
It's garbage advice..pursue your interests, developers skills, keep going out.. not just dates I mean group activities... join club if sports of social, meet up groups.. you then find what you want write it down and hunt for that person. Some pppl have years on years to grow up or waste.. guys can, girls can't.. choose wisely.. but your mate won't appear out of no where.. he even went out to find someone in places he thought was good place to find girl.. garbage advice he gives, you do need to look and you do need to have skills.
@Artem2034
2 ай бұрын
@@YasminMahnaz I literally wrote the same thing, just in general.
@nickilubra3981
2 ай бұрын
He’s right! Let it go and get a life. Being in a relationship isn’t the end all be all. Live your life and that will just happen naturally. And if it doesn’t you won’t care because you will be fulfilled in different ways.
@I_Love_Starla
3 ай бұрын
He should be in the vids more often, dude has a lot of wisdom for us young men. He married one of the most respected woman of all time.
@Crangaso
3 ай бұрын
God Bless & he's right. Your mental state & attitude make you appealing or not. Always bemoaning being single will perpetuate it.
@piqachu
3 ай бұрын
Off topic but I like the cardigain
@MariaM-wl8ks
2 ай бұрын
Aww you guys are so adorable 🥰 Congratulations Brett!!! 🎊 🎉 I didn’t realize you got married. Wishing you all the best!😊 Mazel Tov!!!
@markjob6354
3 ай бұрын
*People who are happily married forget very quickly what it was like to be single. Criticizing chronically single people is just like blaming the victim and rubbing salt into their wounds. This is the second tragedy of the involuntarily celebrate - To have to live with the horrible, often unfair and generally insensitive comments of others who do not really get where these people are at. Your smug and condescending comments are not appreciated !*
@NikosM112
2 ай бұрын
Ikr. This comment section are a bunch of ignorant folks. They know nothing. Living in a whole different reality.
@wolfie54321
2 ай бұрын
Yep, his first idea was the best advice, don't try to give advice, lol.
@johnc.reynoso6238
Ай бұрын
Absolutely correct!
@johnc.reynoso6238
Ай бұрын
Agreed!
@johnc.reynoso6238
Ай бұрын
@@wolfie54321 wdym?
@robertovillarrealjr.7894
3 ай бұрын
Y’all guys need to have lots of beautiful babies. I hope and wish you happiness and joy.
@omenhdtv7760
3 ай бұрын
Handsome bastard, Eternal happiness and glory to you both
@DMSProduktions
3 ай бұрын
Hey, Brett's NO slouch either!
@omenhdtv7760
3 ай бұрын
@@DMSProduktions i’d never cheat on my wife but that goes without saying
@DMSProduktions
3 ай бұрын
@@omenhdtv7760 NICE couple! Good on them! (Unlike WE plebs!)
@richardgraham7956
2 ай бұрын
So happy for both of you.
@xxr2386
2 ай бұрын
The sexual tension between my car and a tree just reached it's peak
@TheJoeschmoe777
2 ай бұрын
Why tho lol
@yeshrs
2 ай бұрын
Holy shit Andy, I definitely needed this one today. Much appreciated
@babygeneral1985
3 ай бұрын
I love seeing happy couples,God Bless You 2
@dindermufflin7932
3 ай бұрын
So wholesome and truth. Thank you!
@TwilightSagaCullen
3 ай бұрын
That was so sweet! 😂💗💗💗
@jesshallock5346
Ай бұрын
I just really liked a boy, so I decided to make sure I was around to get to know him, became friends, and now we’re married.
@logantidwell7698
3 ай бұрын
Single is the state I'm in, its not my entire identity
@priscillajimenez27
3 ай бұрын
Same
@lilsqueezie
3 ай бұрын
Yeah after being in some long relationships I've been single for several years. At first I didn't like it but now I kind of prefer it. I had good times while it lasted and now I'm too tired to worry about chick's feelings or them cheating lol.
@enfynet
3 ай бұрын
@@lilsqueeziethe dating pool has pee in it
@memeeemee214
2 ай бұрын
I’m dying of cuteness ❤❤🥺
@sarvin4471
3 ай бұрын
Honestly what he said is so good to hear! He said he probably wouldn't have wanted to hear anything. Cause his whole mentality was defined by "I'm always gonna be single" and if that's what you wanna believe, you will be closed off to good advice.
@matthewjohnston1400
3 ай бұрын
Wholesome
@cjpreach
Ай бұрын
Amazing - I had this very conversation with both of my daughters yesterday. And they live in different states. Go live your life and do what you need to do, and when you meet someone who corresponds well with the life you are living, they are a possible match.
@KicksandVests
3 ай бұрын
I love how in her video call all he can see is her beautiful forehead 😂 cracks me up, too cute!
@themikecranston
3 ай бұрын
This made me smile this morning! 👍
@mysticseraph2213
3 ай бұрын
OMG, this is so adorable! You're both perfect for each other, and I"m so glad you met each other. Keep owning them libs! 😂
@Roguesaiyan1
2 ай бұрын
That was so heartwarning , i finally found a couple who actually love eachother
@MGN_73
3 ай бұрын
This interaction was so sweet. I love you both! ❤
@jessicabarnett8858
2 ай бұрын
Omg you two are ADORBALE ❤ congratulations
@meljohns7146
3 ай бұрын
Yall are too adorable❤😊
@teatime9649
Ай бұрын
Agree with him! I get so tired all the time of people asking me why I am not in a relationship. Because I don't want to go on the apps, and I don't want to be intimate with anyone except my future husband. So we all walk our own paths, and the right one that God has planned will come along.
@thomashornstein7085
3 ай бұрын
He's right. I hate it when people who already have gfs/wives/husbands/bfs tell me that it'll happen to me and try to encourage me. I know they mean well, but it just fills me with bitterness and hopelessness, because yea, they got hitched, but will that truly happen to me?
@farmgal77
3 ай бұрын
Do you really want it to happen to you? Marriage ain't the be all and end all
@sometimequilter7048
2 ай бұрын
Your eyes sparkling so bright when you talk to him.
@hunterlavish
3 ай бұрын
A lot of people say "I'm just going to work on myself" without really knowing what that means. I remember in 5th grade I had a defining moment when I stopped worrying about why I wasn't popular etc and instead observed why others WERE popular - they had qualities that made people want to get to know them. I decided to "become someone I would want to hangout with". I learned guitar (already played piano), learned popular songs on piano instead of just what I was doing in lessons. Started singing (was horrible) then songwriting - eventually got the point of playing gigs in Nashville even. I learned and studied topics that interested me (ancient history and physics topics etc). I started working out with my dad once I was old enough (insurance) to go to his work gym. I worked on my humor too, I like stand-up but I became more analytical of comedians timing and wordplay etc. It's blended into my songwriting as well. Life became so much easier by 7th and 8th grade though (very early on in the process) and just kept getting easier. I never felt like a victim or like things were just unfair. I'm 30 now and I feel like I've been coasting through life since graduating college (that was the last real time I needed to buckle down and grind - study for grades etc). The irony of it is - if you become someone you want to be around (through hard work and intentional actions) then you will rarely feel lonely even when you are alone. The PLUS side is that you attract people to you with very little effort. Hope this maybe helps some younger people struggling with the same thoughts.
@msjwilde
3 ай бұрын
Awww you guys are so cute!🥰
@psalmsart
3 ай бұрын
While I agree that no one should make being single their entire identity, it can be very difficult not to dwell on that fact. I don't want to get too personal, but I have a close family member who has been wanting to be married for years and dated with intention-telling these partners exactly what she wants/needs-only to be met with men who wasted her time and turned out to be non-committal. I just feel like dating nowadays is extremely difficult and it's easy to say "just know what you want" or "try harder" when there are too many "men" nowadays who are, frankly, cowards and they are afraid of marriage and children. Anyway, just my two cents. I'm genuinely glad you guys are happy 💕
@apurplevelveteen
3 ай бұрын
^^^ THIS! I just got broken up with my bf of over a year 2 days ago. He lost his job and crumbled. Never picked himself up and didn't try that hard. 3+ months and he still hasn't exited out of the pity party. Didn't even try that hard in our relationship. Only so much encouragement and support a woman can give. He ended it as a temporary thing and I responded with, "Don't come back, we are done now and forever." To be quite honest, he was never ready for a serious relationship, and he has a lot of growing up to do. Didn't have to be this way. If he had put in effort to find a job and work through some communication problems between us, this wouldn't have happened. I was more than willing to stick by his side, but I can't grow him up for himself. Sucks, because I did vett and qualify. I was super careful after the breakup I had with the man before my current ex. He sold me a lie of commitment, too. Sucks when I keep ending up with weak men no matter how careful I am about vetting.
@psalmsart
3 ай бұрын
@@apurplevelveteen I'm so sorry to hear that :( You deserved better. It's not easy to find men who are willing to step up and be a good partner. I hope you meet the right guy soon ❤️
@apurplevelveteen
3 ай бұрын
@@psalmsart thank you!
@sara_sofia_1984
3 ай бұрын
Women, listen to "The amazing development of men" from Alison Armstrong. Men go through different phases of development and are only ready for commitment once they reach a certain stage. There is nothing we can do about it, no way to speed things up. So the best thing we can do is learn to identify the different stages in the men we are dating and identify for ourselves if they are at a stage where they might be ready for commitment, independently of his words.
@ch42zyb0y
3 ай бұрын
It's a little bit off topic but at least they have dates. Most guys can't get even an answer. That's the truth. Women only date guys who don't have to settle bc they have unlimited options. Meanwhile there are good guys who can't get 1 date in years!
@kp9593
3 ай бұрын
Hes definitely pulling way up. Good for him.
@Mr._Martinez
3 ай бұрын
Is he? What makes you say that.
@Woeisme2
3 ай бұрын
I'm waaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyy up I feel blessed
@Corneliaa
3 ай бұрын
She didn't even take his name though
@kp9593
3 ай бұрын
@@Corneliaa are you basing it on her stage name. If she didnt thats messed up. Red flag
@kevinouellette5316
3 ай бұрын
They are kids. 10 years they will be divorced. Not my wish but I'd bet money on it. Especially in her profession.
@GBONESLY
2 ай бұрын
I’m glad you’ve found someone that can make you happy Brett. I hope I can find someone out there.
@GBONESLY
2 ай бұрын
Not that I’ve been looking, it’s been 6 years since my last relationship. I guess I just found it hard to open up to anyone else. It’s been so long and my heart is cold. I’ll die on the battlefield for my country. That’s where I’ll get recognized. Good luck to everyone on there journey, whatever struggle. I can’t guarantee that you got it this time but maybe the next time, or if you try extra hard this time and push past yourself then you can do anything. And don’t believe what the haters have to say. I know I may have been one myself from time to time. But… who cares.. who’s reading this book 😮
@Veo87
3 ай бұрын
Interesting. They seemed to say at the beginning that they didn't want to give any cliched advice, but then they gave cliched advice.
@JohnTyler-oh5rs
3 ай бұрын
Yes, they did. This was just "Be yourself" with extra steps.
@locgirllifestyle
3 ай бұрын
You can see her love for him from her reactions ❤❤ They are so cute together. I'm so happy for you Brett 🤗 I hope to find the love of my life too, soon.
@jordanupdegrove7879
3 ай бұрын
Do what you love. Plan for the future and work towards something. That will put you in a position to meet someone that wants the same thing as you. If you never find someone (which is a real possibility that you need to make amends with), you will still have direction and purpose in your life. Another note. Community and healthy interaction is a desire we all have. Pursue healthy community and non-romantic relationships. You will likely feel content and satisfied by your community THEN find a partner within that community. The world doesn’t owe you a partner. Make tomorrow better than today.
@TimBrogan
3 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say ThankYou for commenting because it's truly good advice, and made an impact on me : )
@HeatherBDentureDiVa
3 ай бұрын
Omg just love you both!
@gagewesterhouse9558
3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, but this is just absolutely ISHT advice. This is even worse than "JuSt Be YoUrSeLf".
@misekai6396
3 ай бұрын
It is good advice for people who live in a city and are interested in things that other young people do. It's definitely not good general advice though.
@mlgmeistros4278
3 ай бұрын
This is actually good advice. Life is more than relationships and sex. Take it from me, I am a 22 year old virgin. All my friends are either in serious relationships or have one night stands like on a weekly basis (one of them slept with like 8 different girls in 10 days). Sure I get annoyed at the fact it isn't happening for me. I tried online dating, I asked girls out, hell I even went on dates and they went reasonably well. But sadly, something about me just isn't attractive. I don't read people good enough, I miss signals or I see them where they aren't. Also you start to lack confidence with girls because you have no clue what you are doing while experience (at 22) is expected. But at the end of the day I am in medical school and studying to become a doctor. I look in the mirror and I like the way I look (could work out a bit and loose a little weight, but I really like how I look), I have wonderful friends and family, I am never short on money and I can do so many awsome things. And I am sure in time it will work out, and if not I'll get 2 dogs and get to be a doctor and still come home to loving housemates.
@gagewesterhouse9558
3 ай бұрын
@@mlgmeistros4278 cope harder.
@mlgmeistros4278
3 ай бұрын
@@gagewesterhouse9558 okey so what, you disagree? Fine make relstionships your number one priority and see how happy you become. I think all the things I names provide a lot more hapiness than either relationships or sex. If you don't, agree to disagree, no need to be disrespectful about it tough.
@mlgmeistros4278
3 ай бұрын
@@gagewesterhouse9558 you really think it's more fullfilling to have sex and relationships, than build towards a succesful career and other meaningfull relationships. Your youth is about exploring yourself, devloping as a person and having fun experiences. You can do all those things without having a relationship. If you go out there and force relationships you don't actually want or wallow in your sorrow for being single while ignoring everything else in your life you will become very depressed and a very annoying person overal. Or you just assume everybody like me is a total loser anyways and lose any interest in my actual words? Because that would just make you a small minded pathetic person to be honest.
@H.Michele
3 ай бұрын
Agreed! You do you. Shine your light. Love your life. Keep your mind and your heart open.
@seanhosey9009
3 ай бұрын
With all due respect Brett, you and your man are still babies. In your early 20s. You both have no idea what being single is actually like. So those opinions are for the dogs. I wish you and him many years of happiness and love. But for the love of life, please stop commenting on the dating landscape when you are barely in your 20s.
@EnglishandFrenchOnline
2 ай бұрын
I absolutely love this! ❤
@poeticlovee
3 ай бұрын
I never heard of the term “chronically single”.
@priscillajimenez27
3 ай бұрын
Me either
@miraj5569
3 ай бұрын
It's stupid as heck. As if being single is an illness.
@chanmanthegreat1429
3 ай бұрын
@@miraj5569 it is definitely an illness. One that consumes you and destroys you. down to the bone.
@cicionfire
2 ай бұрын
This advice was actually spot on and what I needed to hear🫶🏼
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