Finally, an actually decent kind church group. Working with love as they should.
@lindah3803
5 ай бұрын
That shocked me. So used to the stories of the church telling people they can't/shouldn't divorce. Come talk to our counselor. You made a vow to God. Yadda, yadda, yadda.
@ShooberTimber
5 ай бұрын
Shame how rare this outcome tends to be
@zamp_gaming
5 ай бұрын
@lindah3803 you're always going to hear those stories more and more because they're the most shocking and "prove" a point to a lot of people. Vast majority of churchgoers are not okay with what OP's husband did, and a lot of churches see no issue with divorce when vows are not taken seriously.
@Heydodoakskdkdjf
5 ай бұрын
I’m Catholic and there is actually a ministry now that helps women leave abusive homes. It’s recognized by the Church and everything. It’s good to see changes. (In the past there were Catholic women’s homes and shelters, but there hasn’t been an upfront abusive-focused ministry afaik).
@celestialsoldier622
5 ай бұрын
@@zamp_gaming Same with Police. Most of the time Police are doing their job as they should but only when they do something crazy is it talked about. Negative gets more attention than positive because it's expected.
@mamanucht7333
5 ай бұрын
Story 1 : is the husband living in 1500s? Does he know nothing about biology? Technically it’s his fault for not having a boy since the x and y chromosomes
@johhnysorrow
5 ай бұрын
The husband sounds like one of those lovely people who, if they had been triplet boys, would not have said a thing.
@arianebolt1575
5 ай бұрын
That really is not helpful. Men can't change what they produce.
@blueroses4373
5 ай бұрын
@@arianebolt1575 neither can women
@just_apotato
5 ай бұрын
@@arianebolt1575so don’t blame or get mad at the woman.
@tanithschneider3051
5 ай бұрын
@@arianebolt1575and women are? Really? Ok so if your wife doesn’t give you a son, you are ok with telling her she is worthless and spit on her? Nice.
@edifice3947
5 ай бұрын
Story 1: I was “supposed” to be a boy, but here I am rocking my XX chromosomes. My dad wanted me to be a son badly, as his firstborn was a daughter as well. You know what he did? He loved me and treated me very well. Because that’s what parents do? Husband is disgusting as is the MIL and mother for condoning such behavior under that stupid “boys will be boys” umbrella.
@moon7shinev150
5 ай бұрын
Seriously like my mom hoped my sister was a boy since I was a girl but guess what it didn’t change anything. It just means that my mom gets to do girl things with both of us
@JustinAdamson270
5 ай бұрын
Everyone has x and y chromosomes
@Strawberryequine
5 ай бұрын
@@JustinAdamson270no, males have xy chromosomes while females have xx chromosomes
@JustinAdamson270
5 ай бұрын
@@Strawberryequine if males and females had specifically different chromosomes we wouldn't be able to reproduce with each other at all because our DNA would not be compatible enough to actually mix to make a baby
@Too_lazybones
4 ай бұрын
Same for me i was said to be a boy but i turned out to be a girl 😅
@ShontaySmith-kr6th
5 ай бұрын
I'm glad you're getting a divorce because that manchild you're married to seriously needs to grow up before he's with anyone 😡
@smsff7
5 ай бұрын
Agreed, dumbass is fucked up. The Mom is too.
@toriladybird511
5 ай бұрын
He deserves NO ONE EVER
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
5 ай бұрын
I never cease to be amazed how peoples' brains go into the toilet when a bloody kid is involved. not everything works out and unfortunately things go wrong. and this baby boy sperm donor is nothing but an individual who thinks with his little head
@kitsumekat
5 ай бұрын
I have a feeling that if they had a son, OP and those girls will be treated like crap. Also, I'm glad that their church is supportive. I guess they're more modern than most.
@flodoll9800
5 ай бұрын
Not to mention the pressure the son would be under to be what his dad wants him to be 😮
@kitsumekat
5 ай бұрын
@@flodoll9800 yup. They all need a loving place to live.
@luvsavengedsevenfold
5 ай бұрын
The story definitely needs to have an update, especially one in which OP reflects upon and recognizes traits from ex as being red flags from even before the gender reveal of the triplets came up. There's also no suggestion that the brother and BIL attended church with them, so we don't know exactly how modern or progressive the church is. But at least, in this particular instance, they seem to be doing the right thing.
@kaylashinnaberry5970
5 ай бұрын
@@luvsavengedsevenfold it was said that neither her nor her brother went to church that day, which is why her group got ahold of her
@Aslan_Fulgore
5 ай бұрын
Remember guys and gals, when having kids it’s the man’s chromosomes that are responsible for the determining sex of the child. So in this story, it’s literally the husband’s fault.
@potat04
4 ай бұрын
My dad wanted a son so bad his face hurt, he got four girls. You know what he did to us? Became the most kickass Dad in the world. Learned how to braid our hair, knows exactly what pads to buy for us and taught all four of us how to box, shoot, and fish. My Dads fuckin awesome, take out the trash with that sorry excuse for a man in story 1
@tracisr
5 ай бұрын
Divorce immediately when I heard he spat on you!
@smsff7
5 ай бұрын
Story 2: yeah it sounds like he was planing on cheating or did so.
@smsff7
5 ай бұрын
Yes he did cheat. He tried to gaslight OP too. If he really was faithful he would have brought them back as proof. OP should ask daughter what she saw
@allisonreed3420
4 ай бұрын
Sounds like he's been cheating for a while.
@Twilight24682
5 ай бұрын
"It's natural for men to want sons" that is a load of BS plenty of men have daughters and love them and are happy having them this man is a sexist AH
@JustinAdamson270
5 ай бұрын
No lol a man generally wants sons just like women generally want girls because it's easy to take care of issues when you have the same anatomy
@arianebolt1575
5 ай бұрын
I can't blame him for wanting a son. I can and do blame him for how he handled that want not being met.
@Olimar92
5 ай бұрын
The want is true, but that's not an excuse for his behavior. Dad's want Sons so they can bond over sports, cars or whatever. Fathers and Sons have a connection. But a true Father loves his children no matter what sex, gender or whatever they are.
@Twilight24682
5 ай бұрын
@Olimar92 Girls can like cars and sports not all girls are girly and like clothes and makeup just like not all guys like sports and cars
@JustinAdamson270
5 ай бұрын
@@Twilight24682 that doesn't excuse the truth or what they said stop pretending your views override the truth of the situation
@tawanawatson3052
5 ай бұрын
For the condom story....I would take a photo of 3 of the 5 condoms and send it to the husband and ask him where the other 7 condoms are???
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
5 ай бұрын
takes condoms.? if he was truly monogamous he wouldn't be taking Hudson River Eels at all. and this girl is obtuse despite all the evidence in front of her nose
@longwaydown6959
5 ай бұрын
@develyntwocentshenderson5739 "Hudson River Eels" Ha! Haven't heard them called that since I had "The Talk" as a teenager. Thank you for the laugh.
@Olimar92
5 ай бұрын
That's a new way to refer to rubbers.
@DiDi_aniT
5 ай бұрын
I would love to know what that idiot husband in the first had going on in his mind to act like child 🙃(understatement)
@iseaflames
5 ай бұрын
I'm not even gonna hear the story dude spit on you after you gave birth to his children doesn't matter if they are a boy or girl. That's crazy disrespectful leave and don't look back once
@vidaapplebee8388
5 ай бұрын
Op, your lucky to hsve a village of "Angels". Much love!
@Olimar92
5 ай бұрын
Story 1: at least those girls will have some Male Role Models. I do hope OP succeeds in her life, and that her Brother and BIL are a safety net. Single Mom with 3 Girls? That's going to be something.
@WPFLAWLESS
5 ай бұрын
Taking condoms on a trip and coming back without condoms is not the flex op's husband thinks it is.
@moxee33
5 ай бұрын
Hi SecretVoices. You are my favorite reddit channel 😍. I like the AI voice a lot and no crappy background music. My only suggestion would be to change the condensed font you are using in your thumbnails. It is really hard to read on a small phone screen 🤓. Thanks for the great vids.
@SecretVoices25
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for your kind words, I'll change it as soon as possible❤️❤️❤️
@georgeprchal3924
5 ай бұрын
Is he a King? Then he doesn't need a son.
@LODintheshadows
2 ай бұрын
story 1, nice to hear about a non toxic church group in these stories, actually supporting the woman in need instead of trying to force them to stay with their crappy partner
@NotAnIlluminatiSpy
5 ай бұрын
Dude...BIL is a real one.
@rand0mn33ss
5 ай бұрын
OP#3: oh my fucking god, just divorce
@MistressOP
5 ай бұрын
Err sh should have just hired a PI. Constantly asking him and going on and on about it is stupid. I pack condoms on the trip an extra shampoo extra lotion bottle travel stuff because other people might need it. I always keep an extra pen.
@Cheese_Heel
5 ай бұрын
😂
@kingkongaintgotshitoneme
5 ай бұрын
u pack condoms cuz "other ppl might need it"? ew
@toriladybird511
5 ай бұрын
With the name Mistress oh wow..
@MistressOP
5 ай бұрын
@@toriladybird511 well, I believe in protective sex. And I kinda hate STD's because most of it's preventable. lol so you are kinda right.
@lisabiased7112
4 ай бұрын
story 1 it ain't her fault it was a stillborn bruh spit on me he would have been 10 feet under
@jrobdickson8498
4 ай бұрын
Ain’t no hate like Christian love!
@shadowcollins4589
4 ай бұрын
I don't know why people get all in a tizzy how about a story supposedly being fake Why does it matter!?!? You keep reading and you keep listening If you really have a problem with it, just stop listening or reading
@failingartist3524
2 ай бұрын
Man now thats a church group one that makes you believe compared to most groups you hear in these stories
@trashotaku
4 ай бұрын
“At least he won’t mistreat them” this man openly admitted to his pregnant wife that he was going to be emotionally neglecting his children solely because they weren’t going to be boys. Besides who’s to say based off of his temper tantrum that he wouldn’t start abusing them
@ValirianDefiance
5 ай бұрын
It is true what they say that a broken clock is right twice a day but wow Christians acting like Jesus is such a strange concept.
@southernflight5078
5 ай бұрын
To be fair, bad news is more attention catching than good news. So reporters will always overlook the good stories.
@ValirianDefiance
5 ай бұрын
@@southernflight5078 certainly. the problem is that religion is an excuse to not think and this anti-critical thinking skills is what allows and encourages the worst atrocities in human history.
@PGHFilter
5 ай бұрын
confirmation bias
@ValirianDefiance
5 ай бұрын
@@PGHFilter perhaps.
@LODintheshadows
2 ай бұрын
So many things about story 2 just seem odd, I dont even know where to start. Everybody thought process is just so weird
@mikea491
3 ай бұрын
S1: as a man, I'm not overly keen on having children. If I do, though, I'd prefer a girl myself. I can't have a carbon copy of myself, the woman would kill me.
@thousandyardgavri2785
4 ай бұрын
The title is unbelievable. Who would side with someone who spat on their wife who gave birth to triplets and blame her about the stillborn?
@juliawacker
4 ай бұрын
Read the story again, this happened at the gender reveal party when the wife was still pregnant. Doesn't change the fact that he treated his wife poorly and disrespectful.
@nikkiwolfe8488
Ай бұрын
My mother.... When I lost my twins my ex husband hit he the first time 5 weeks later. My parents blamed me. My dad, who was downstairs when he did it and heard the whole thing, told me as soon as he saw me "Unless your son gets hurt, I don't want to know".
@mattypatty1957
4 ай бұрын
Gay brother for the w🎉🎉🎉
@pahhw1533
5 ай бұрын
the condom story sounds strange to me, or maybe i just dont know this as far as i know, condoms stay lubricant and wet inside the packing, only the rubber/latex of older condoms became porous, so using an old condom doesnt keep the seed inside it,
@blender4464
4 ай бұрын
Lol triplets. Staying up until late in the night to plan 'divorce and move here'. Ah, internet stories.
@chloecook4511
5 ай бұрын
The vidio that is played behind the reading is really annoying and distracting.
@artistmaybe3259
4 ай бұрын
Then don’t watch it?
@chloecook4511
4 ай бұрын
@@artistmaybe3259 I am somewhat hard of hearing and read along with the narrator.
@artistmaybe3259
4 ай бұрын
@@chloecook4511 ah fair point. Maybe there’s a transcript you can follow instead
@artistmaybe3259
4 ай бұрын
@@chloecook4511 ah yep! In the description there’s a transcript you can follow, that should help :)
@AI-ch3if
5 ай бұрын
None of the people in the first story appear to be real Christians, except MAYBE for the mother who wouldn't tolerate her son being in a relationship that is abomination to Christ.
@taylorslade8080
5 ай бұрын
Explain
@Dez861
5 ай бұрын
People like you disgust me.
@Lustfullynova
5 ай бұрын
The brother sounds like a saint. The mom ignored her daughters concerns and encouraged her to stay despite the fact the dad made it clear he wouldn't be the father he needs to be. The brother is definitely a man who god would love.
@happilyevernever4289
5 ай бұрын
@@Lustfullynova honestly, the mom and MIL are so backwards and has zero empathy. How is it that they're women themselves and supporting OP's loser husband? OP's brother and BIL are truly her real family and such good people.
@eatmyphatphuckingass
5 ай бұрын
no one on this planet is a real Christian lol
@PoipoleEntertainment1987
5 ай бұрын
I love how the husband was put in his place when the men’s bible group scolded him and made him cry
@TititoDeBologay
5 ай бұрын
" at least he wont abuse them". Sure he won't just love them or care for them. It's so much better.
@k2barnes
5 ай бұрын
Story 1 was never the perfect marriage that OP believed. Somethings is missing or this is fake.
@blender4464
4 ай бұрын
Its fake. Triplets lmfao
@peachesshelton954
5 ай бұрын
Happy you left him you will be happy later
@IsisRenee1
5 ай бұрын
Story 2: your daughter is 21, maybe he gave them to her.
@HexStaria
5 ай бұрын
Considering she’s into girls that’s a no go
@queenluciefer
5 ай бұрын
OP said daughter isn't into men and likes girls.
@eatmyphatphuckingass
5 ай бұрын
if you listened to the story, it says that the daughter is lesbian
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