It’s also important I think to show that you too have feelings and not just to “stay calm” and get robotic. If you’re frustrated- walking away, modeling deep breaths, etc. is more beneficial than acting like you don’t have the feelings to spare the child. Just my thoughts! Of course you might already do these things :)
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💗
@savsings
Жыл бұрын
agreed!
@annaburke8537
Жыл бұрын
Yes modeling emotional regulation is the best way of teaching
@NKC_DRAWING
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful❤ @NKC DRAWING
@morganwilkinson6526
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video!!! So encouraging for the day I had as a momma.
@sandrameesala6804
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for showing this. This kind of visibility is so important as tools to help us break toxic cycles!
@elliani530
Жыл бұрын
Period! I love you, your honesty and your videos! Keep going your doing great!
@clarissecarrington
Жыл бұрын
It’s always tough being a parent while having our own mental health to deal with. Your effort being his mama isn’t unrecognized. You’re doing a great job
@Klingfamily2023
10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤very wells said sis @clarissecarrington
@jennys2398
Жыл бұрын
I love your honesty & I love how even on your rougher day, you changed your perspective. And that is not something easy to do. You are an awesome mom!
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much!
@joanwood5778
Жыл бұрын
Good for you and your precious little boy. Your doing great
@nataliebonine8942
Жыл бұрын
Says that show your kids emotion so they know how to react 💕
@deanacrane5947
Жыл бұрын
My kids are now 26, 22 and 22 (twins) and looking back the things I did the best with them were the things that my parents never did. Always wanting to be exactly what your parents never were for you honestly is the best thing you could ever do for your child.❤
@sarahbizzz
Жыл бұрын
You are so sweet, such a good mom ❤️
@emmeworcester8226
Жыл бұрын
I love when Deacon started screaming bc it sounded like he was singing 😂 You are doing great Mama ❤
@madmarich.
Жыл бұрын
Wow your strength is impressive. You explain it so well. ❤
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
wow thank you so much 💗
@jessxjxne
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for that statement! You an amazing mother ❤
@samn2695
Жыл бұрын
I feel like letting ur toddler see the times that u are upset and seeing how u calm urself down will be good for him. Like if something happens while u are with him that makes u upset just calm urself down like u usually do, like taking deep breaths or something, and he can see that those emotions are normal and there are healthy ways to deal with them. U can also talk about how “ I felt sad so i asked for a hug or got a blanket and quiet time” or “ I felt frustrated so I took deep breaths”. Idk I interested in what parents think of that idea.
@iteach33
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate watching you and your candor as a work at home mom. You seem to be doing an awesome job and I really enjoy your videos. Plus, Deacon is so adorable.
@Ala.onelove
Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today, thank you 🙏🏻 had a hard day mentally and having a one year old is so wonderful and so hard at the same time
@theresavitale5929
Жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos. I think your a great Mom especially doing it all on your own❤
@ayati801
Жыл бұрын
you're such a good mom and he is so lucky to have you
@ctcocoa
Жыл бұрын
Even if it’s an emotional day it’s a good day because your baby is so lucky to have you 💕 you’re such a sweetheart
@Kr1st1n4.H
Жыл бұрын
❤ I really needed to hear this today.
@MoniVenSmit
Жыл бұрын
That smile when you give him a kiss lol so cute
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
the sweetest little man 🥰
@mmconceicao
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so honest. I am trying to break the cycle and trying to regulate my emotions and depression it's very hard especially with a toddler. I'm a mom of two. And please share more moments of feeling frustrated and how you deal with it. Just subscribed 😊
@zodamaker
Жыл бұрын
what a wonderful mom 🩷 i’ve promised the same thing to myself!
@tatyanagonzalez2180
Жыл бұрын
You’re so inspiring. ❤.
@HelennaRose
Жыл бұрын
Vitamin c helps, and D and B complex helps stress too. ❤
@eamonair
Жыл бұрын
You’re doing great mama! - love, a sahm
@jmsmith1767
Жыл бұрын
I’m 41 my youngest is about to turn 14, you’re doing an amazing job w/ your son!
@User123NZ
Жыл бұрын
It's really tough bieng a single mom but just be strong for him ❤
@gthang1213
Жыл бұрын
Although I'm not a parent but in my opinion your doing an awesome job 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
@Sophie-gb5ko
Жыл бұрын
I have 2 girls (4 1/2 and nearly 2) and they're both red heads. They're fiery but can be very funny with their attitudes xx
@zaina1762
Жыл бұрын
Love it ❤❤❤❤❤
@Preppy_Rem
Жыл бұрын
It’s ok u got this girl! ❤
@charlottepreston1947
Жыл бұрын
You make hard Look easy! We need more new moms caring deeply of how the toddler are impacted by our own emotions. Seriously, Breath into those strong(er) emotiona of yours.
@Mandidzv
Жыл бұрын
One day at a time mama . Don’t hold yourself to any plans just say plans can change and it’s ok
@DevinLogan-z5t
Жыл бұрын
Consider stopping coffee… as much as I love coffee it triggers anxiety severely… I was 💔 stopping coffeee. But it helps so much!
@addison_the_demon
4 ай бұрын
“Noo…” “WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA”
@teeandkids937
Жыл бұрын
You’re allowed to have feelings and it’s healthy to show your kids how to deal with them.
@AnnieRobinson-ne2cd
Жыл бұрын
Being a parent is tough-i understand what you are going through. Question- is his dad involved? If so, he can be an outlet sometimes with help. This is something to consider.
@girlmama408
Жыл бұрын
The most Realistic mom on youtube
@Sarah-hz5xm
11 ай бұрын
Hello ^_^ u and ur baby are sooo cute. I think the carseat base was loose a little. Stay safe.
@Lov3lie
Жыл бұрын
Do you stay close to your family or your fiancé family? Maybe they could help with deacon sometimes. Wfh and having a toddler is extremely difficult but manageable. ❤
@villasenormclaire
Жыл бұрын
what chair do you use I love it
@k.walker4981
Жыл бұрын
Your pjs are so cute! Where are they from? You’re a great mom!!!!
@heyheyitsmelissa
Жыл бұрын
It is so taxing on our own mental health trying to be strong for them
@kaylameason5797
Жыл бұрын
He isn’t fighting the high hair anymore 🥳🤩
@jaidahilton2476
Жыл бұрын
are you going on vacation!? you got a lot of travel size things from target! Also you’re doing so great, the mom guilt sure is hard but just know at the end of the day, our babies think “wow i had the best day hanging out with mom” or at babysitters no matter what they were doing!
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
Yes we leave for Florida on Saturday 🥰
@dawnrosey3771
Жыл бұрын
You are great
@ashishcdbc2469
Жыл бұрын
For a sec i thought it was toy baby 😂 because your baby is sooooooooooooooooo cute 🥰❤
@JesusLovesyou..1John3.6
2 ай бұрын
Babies are so cute 😊❤ God gives us Peace that surpasses all understanding 😊❤ Philippians 4:6-7 “6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Psalm 127:3 “Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from Him.”
@artysplash5969
Жыл бұрын
Watching those videos I always ask one question: where's dad? No dad here?
@makeuplover6852
Жыл бұрын
She is a single Mom. Her fiance, the babies Dad did live with them but they are recently separated. :(
@bobatking7985
Жыл бұрын
Take a deep breath.. conquer your emtions..Children especially babies can feel the energy around them. Believe it. When your relaxed and calm your baby feels it. Also make sure he's always fully fed, clean and rested. That's all they really need.
@giosantos7105
Жыл бұрын
You are an amazing mom ❤ and your child are the cutest thing with this cute blue eyes, I hope you feel better soon love ya ❤Jesus bless your family and your children and the children of your children, by the way, on the bad days , please listens this amazing song called THE BLESSING you can put on in max volume and say this amazing words again and again and again on your home 😘
@normaazar4709
Жыл бұрын
How do you use Vaseline ?
@senior07able
Жыл бұрын
We’re did you get your hamper and does it come with 4 hampers instead of 3?
@YoUr_Therian548
Жыл бұрын
New sub❤
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for being here 🥰💗
@inexcelsisdeo8475
Жыл бұрын
Did you take him to daycare?
@evamarthapacheco
Жыл бұрын
Yes a cool calm parent, but also let him know and see who is the boss….just sayin
@savsings
Жыл бұрын
thank u so much! deacon is gonna thank u one day for breaking generational curses/habits 🤍
@moriahtaylor8216
Жыл бұрын
You live in Ashland?!???
@MandaBean8
Жыл бұрын
What car seat is that?
@alexandriamares1402
Жыл бұрын
How is it babies or toddlers learn the word no so fast and very quickly dont like it . don't worry , don't get stressed . he's just not having it today and doesn't like the word no. Lol now that I think about it I still don't like the word no myself.
@mommyjaslynn
Жыл бұрын
🫶🏼
@Zain-mg8pb
Жыл бұрын
I am new here 😅 is she a single mom?
@jor2653
Жыл бұрын
Are you a single parent?
@emmib1388
Жыл бұрын
she is single and a parent, so yes! I think her fiancee may live with her -- but he works a lot and this is her channel so the shorts are based on her experiences
@makeuplover6852
Жыл бұрын
Yes, she is a single Mom, her fiance did live with them but recently they separated.
@miley2383
Жыл бұрын
Stop giving him bottles he is way too old for them. He needs to be drinking out of a sippy cup.
@emu9520
Жыл бұрын
Stop telling a mother how to parent. Stop.stop.stop
@makeuplover6852
Жыл бұрын
He is NOT too old for a bottle...not even close. That is absolutely ridiculous - he can and does have a sippy cup during the day but he 100% isn't too old for a bottle. YEASH !!!!!
@ChildrenCannotConsent
Жыл бұрын
Hold on a whole ass minute, what car seat is that??? I don’t even have kids small enough to rear face but the way that thing swiveled made my jaw hit the floor under my house.
@lillynbelle
Жыл бұрын
The baby jogger city turn! It goes up to like 60 pounds so he’ll be using it for a while! 🥰
@OofGP
Жыл бұрын
Using your child for views is crazy
@Creatorofdathings
Жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if you already do these things but it’s important to remember you have feelings and thoughts and emotions as well. You are his mother but you are also a human. It’s great to walk away modeling deep breaths it’s beneficial then actually keeping them inside so when you have days like this taking deep breaths walking away, even if it is for a few minutes, that is OK that is your time as well not just his❤
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