Learn how to get your spouse to FALL BACK IN LOVE with you with our FREE Course: bit.ly/3xxDm81
@mynameisglitter2220
3 жыл бұрын
Ridiculous that people would allow themselves to give of themselves emotionally whilst knowing they are in a MARRIAGE. If you’re so unhappy then talk to your spouse and work it out don’t go emotionally connecting with other people. Some people are so selfish.
@thedailyjules_
Жыл бұрын
If only life were that black and white.
@johncoviello8570
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes emotional connections just happen, especially if life circumstances put one in close and often contact with other people. The variables are whether such contact is necessary and what a married person does once romantic emotions with someone outside their marriage begin. People don’t have to pursue romantic relationships that develop outside their marriage.
@emohbrisnicki7648
Жыл бұрын
@mynameisglitter2220 your comment comes from ignorance. As someone's whose spouse connected on a deep emotional level with another who he considered a soul mate but has now reconciled with me I can tell you my own poor actions as a spouse (neglect, harshness, lack of intimacy) left a huge opportunity for someone else to simply show him kindness and desire for him which made him feel loved when he didn't feel it from me. I know better how to love him now (as I truely always loved him but took his love for granted) and always looking for ways to be a better wife. And me being a better wife inspires him to be a better husband, to love me how I like to feel loved, so it is win win.
@bjo313rd
Жыл бұрын
@@emohbrisnicki7648 I’m happy for your situation but as someone dealing with the “found out” stage it is very hard to see why my partner pursued it once it developed instead of letting me know the severity of their unhappiness.
@Siah69251
9 ай бұрын
Social media nowadays is the one reason that ruin or destroys marriages. It happened to me! My wife for 10 years just accepted a friend request through instagram and she is telling me they are just friends and getting to know each other, what i am supposed to do feels like I'm just the option now.
@unimportant4772
3 жыл бұрын
When my spouse is with his lover that "means nothing to him" I don't have the time to waste thinking that this marriage is not over. It's totally over.
@godfreynyantika5102
3 жыл бұрын
True
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????💔
@untamedheart6820
3 ай бұрын
It is over….my ex husband cheated, left & moved on with his affair partner
@vivianamartin3887
4 жыл бұрын
Just came across this video and made me feel way better. Bad person doing bad things... Not good to bring him back. Thank you for your guidance ❤️
@thewrongshoes
4 жыл бұрын
I’m happy I’m not married. Why would I want to get a spouse back after they have an affair and leaves me? Let the b have him
@unimportant4772
3 жыл бұрын
I wish she wanted him!!!!
@waiyingc9169
4 жыл бұрын
I have been through similar things, so painful....Dont try if you dont have kids, it is not worth the pain, there are many other man or woman out there can give you happiness than staying in disrespectful marriages. However when there are kids involved, I dont think it is that simple, try hard for the kids.....
@seangallagher9580
4 жыл бұрын
After the last affair that Debi admitted, she was willing to go to a marriage counselor. On the third or fourth visit, the Doctor asked me how much I was willing to put up with before I filed for divorce. I should have left right then, but we went for two more years with no results, and Debi never quit talking to the lover. Now she has moved in with the latest affair. Saving the marriage has to be the goal of your counselor. So glad a friend whose been through the same thing as I have sent a link to your website!
@janetlevy3512
5 жыл бұрын
Who would want to stay married to someone who does not love them? My god. Let that person go. Well I would run from him.
@Jennifr1966
5 жыл бұрын
Someone who, first, is dealing with kids. Then, the kids grow up, and they find themselves too old.
@yoshercornelious2121
5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Th3lite
5 жыл бұрын
Why are you here?
@Sifat_Rashid
4 жыл бұрын
yea bro
@Maryladudek
4 жыл бұрын
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect and I stopped hurting
@adrip7537
4 жыл бұрын
He did leave, doesn't want to come back because he's in love with her, she's perfect from head to toe according to him. Yes he has threatened to take everything from me. 13 years for nothing
@ecitb3005
4 жыл бұрын
He should leave, but he must give you 50%. That's the LAW
@richardcole2473
4 жыл бұрын
I wasted almost 20 yrs. She left me for no good reason.
@adrip7537
4 жыл бұрын
@@richardcole2473 I'm sorry you are going through this, stay strong
@richardcole2473
4 жыл бұрын
@@adrip7537 thx soo much
@adamwilliams2679
4 жыл бұрын
16 years for me. Raised her kids, just welcomed a granddaughter, finally sold a house we've been under for over a year, and then she comes back home after a trip and tells me she has a boyfriend. 14 years younger, a stranger to personal hygiene, and the kid who I have shown nothing but compassion to since I met him. Now I'm trying to work through a life where the woman I live with thinks it's perfectly fine to treat me like this under some delusion that she's never "chosen herself" before...
@stashahuggins4290
5 жыл бұрын
My husband & I have gone through a lot of stress, including my post partum depression. I’ve never ever expected this kind of activity from my husband, but I also know that he has been there trying to comfort me & a person can only take so much. I have been very bad & not there for him at all. I haven’t been the wife I should be. He recently told me he didn’t love me anymore & that he’s been talking to a girl & really cares about her. I don’t blame him for falling out of love with me because I’ve been a different person & extremely hateful toward him for a long time. I’m in shock & I’m trying to fix myself. This video helps a lot along with a lot of your other videos. I would love to speak to someone about help. I love my husband. We have babies & he’s my whole world. He really is a good man. He’s just doing something bad. & I know he hasn’t tried to hurt me, but he needs the love and affection that I haven’t been able to give him for a long time. Help!
@tyetr9853
Жыл бұрын
Update us please
@deannegrossano8142
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’m going through right now. Did things get any better??
@colleenallison5860
5 жыл бұрын
We went to marriage counseling about 10 years ago and that made my husband much worse towards me. we went to marriage counseling this past year and it was a nightmare. The woman didn’t know what she was doing. It really hurt our marriage.
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@brendanaylor6195
4 жыл бұрын
i listen to friends and family but i had to fine my way to deal with this. he left and i went back to my life. things were hard from the emotion side of things. i worked with a great bunch of guys who took me out and talked to me. one mentioned the value of me. i listened and realize i was just as valueable as he was. my life didnt stop jusr his love did. my love was still there. he wasnt the love i felt, i was. so i let him go. no more tears fell, i stopped asking what i did i was innocent he was the wrong guy i married. exceptability to the end of my marriage hurt like hell. but i was stronger to what i believed. he came to see me, i walked out to my friend and left him there. when i came back he was still there. why where was the woman he could love at. he wanted to talk to me, now it was on my terms. i felt strong and happy now he knows my value. he may never get it back. but we could talk.
@jenniferdunlap5677
4 жыл бұрын
"Marriage counselor" was a bully and blamed my husband for everything. His choice to have an affair but the "counselor" never addressed the marriage problems. My husbands individual counselor told him in his very first session that it "sounds like the affair was a way to get out of the marriage, you should divorce her." Thank God for MH. He still isn't wanting to work on it but he also hadn't moved out. I'm still standing thanks to MH.
@shirleyclark5184
6 жыл бұрын
Nobody shouldn't really sleep around with nobody you can catch bad disease like HIV
@janelaflin5130
5 жыл бұрын
Shirley Clark true
@dynamicjaethought7788
3 жыл бұрын
True
@pennylane5404
3 жыл бұрын
I’m not married but what a great service and advice. I can quite believe you help so many. Talking passionately and from the heart and definitely experience which is just the best help ever ❤️
@erichappiness8816
3 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
@erichappiness8816
3 жыл бұрын
✝2 3 4 9 1 5 2 0 5 2 0 6 3......
@erichappiness8816
3 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him**
@denaqueenbee
4 жыл бұрын
God bless you for taking time to post your video, & the directions to other resources! As far as I'm concerned, well.... I think you're an angel is disguise, and my beloved daughter, going through this situation, was led to you. Your words seemed to confirm our feelings, she has a what seems like a wisdom of loving understanding that her sweet husband is a wonderful person, just doing something totally out of character. Our family looks beneath the actions, it's what is that person hurting from that causes the actions, and our own part in it. It was more than by accident she found you! It was like you were talking right to her, and this mama thanks you!
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@steffiebeffie3468
4 жыл бұрын
What if you are married to a covert narcissist who has no desire to change but refuses to even discuss divorce.
@scottgodkins2017
Ай бұрын
Everyone loves throwing around the word narcissist. Mostly wrong. Many things can mimic that.
@highercrypto
Жыл бұрын
Lot's of good information. I'm sure many agree. There are some areas to be considered. We're all individuals, we have feelings, standanrds, dreams, and expectations. Lying is one thing, but what it brings to light, are two different and potentially destructive emotions. Trust & betrayal. All of us have different (many similar) reactions to these. Can a spouse be trusted? Has a spouse been betrayed? Hard to separate what our comfort zones, upbringing, ideas of marriage & relationships. One thing that keeps popping up in all these videos, is a lack of clear communication between the couple. It's easy to think something is better because it's new, titillating, exciting, refreshing etc. Have a look at what you have? Do you have the honor and respect you should? Why not? What can you do about it?
@therealdutchjohnsondutchvi2312
Жыл бұрын
Sentiment with marriage seems to be forever ownership. The other person pretty much owns you. This is why we have so many Dateline 20/20 episodes.
@claudiahicklin1073
5 жыл бұрын
Try to save your married God have promises
@ابنا-س7ي
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly❤❤❤
@jahrelmeade8460
5 жыл бұрын
She said its best to be separated. A week later she have a boyfriend. Going on movie and date night. She already moved on Can't see a way back.???
@aohwife
6 жыл бұрын
I attended marriage counseling with my husband and it was not helpful at all. He is quite the charmer and the female counselor aligned herself with my husband and often justified his actions as him "going through a rough period". My mistake clearly was that it was not a Christian counselor who was dedicated to marriage recovery. My husband and I did attend the intensive Marriage Helper weekend and it was amazing. Although my husband is still with the OW, what was learned, during the weekend, planted seeds in him and was immensely helpful to me.
@applepie3800
5 жыл бұрын
How are you 2 now?
@rowdeo8968
4 жыл бұрын
Third marriage was the best: first ended from a head injury he had, second drug use and these were not low life men the third a physician and I married over 47 yrs and eight children later. We are happy together because all relationships are teaching relationships. No one can make you happy but they can make you miserable. That is how we deal with each other commitment, not taking each other for granted and being fifty fifty.
@beberivera7011
5 жыл бұрын
How do you know a marriage is really worth saving?
@angieharrison3935
5 жыл бұрын
My spouse had an affair. It started with the " Im not 'in love' with you comment." We were both dealing with sick parents, demanding jobs, and 4 kids. He has now moved out. After 23 years, I still love him but the pain of him telling someone else that he loves them is unbearable. He says he is taking time and trying to sort out his feelings but I feel he should not have to 'try' to love me. Sincerely, Ready to give up
@navajo237
5 жыл бұрын
Angie Harrison So sorry to hear that Angie. My wife did the same 6 weeks ago. After 24 years together. You and I have a lot in common. Very similar situation. I am thinking of going to therapy to try and process everything. Have you considered talking with someone? How are you getting along on a day to day basis?
@angieharrison3935
5 жыл бұрын
@@navajo237 I have started therapy. It is helping me. It is still hard. I try to continue my daily activities as much as possible but some days I just have to go to my room and let my feelings come out.
@navajo237
5 жыл бұрын
@@angieharrison3935 I understand. I have bad days my self. There are days where I can't bring myself to get out of bed. But I think of my kids and muster the energy to get up. I know things will get better, so I try to see the bigger picture and not get too tied up on how I am feeling right there that moment. Its hard. Thank you for sharing, and I will try therapy. This is a terrible thing to go through. I got the "I'm not in love with you" comment as well from my wife. It crushed me. Still does. Today is only slightly better than yesterday.
@navajo237
5 жыл бұрын
@@angieharrison3935 How are you doing these days?
@angieharrison3935
5 жыл бұрын
@@navajo237 Hanging in there. We got back together for a brief few weeks then he left again saying doesn't love me at all now. He has found someone new. How things with you?
@lalalanddreams1339
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this wonderful advice...in fact,I've already saved our marriage for doing of what you've said.God bless.
@jasonsitz3056
4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now July 5th is our anniversary and she will be in the hotel again this weekend through the Fourth of July weekend I will be alone at home. Any thumbs up or comment will help
@javzav9790
5 жыл бұрын
The Your LovePath book is great. If you don't have it , get it
@debratoofamoustomention8996
Жыл бұрын
Snippets of advice are ok but life isn't an endurance test, especially regarding marriage. .."not necessarily over"only occurs between people with actual shared values along with the willingness to change
@rebeccabul6566
4 жыл бұрын
This is similar, you know what, if a man is in love with other woman, this is a crisis marriage, you give him red card, because love is not simple things, forget everything and move on with your life no matter what happened to you, just do better things for your future.
@rebeccabul6566
4 жыл бұрын
@Richard Oscar no I'm fine, cultural marriage has a lot of problem because of dowries pay back. Just let me struggling for my life.
@georgew.5639
4 жыл бұрын
My spouse is more in love with her phone, sons, job, and late husband than me. No joke. And I’m blamed for everything that is wrong. 😞
@celiawood6220
3 жыл бұрын
Sure he can help you
@skitzld3386
4 жыл бұрын
Thank u for the wonderful message..saving my marriage life🙏🙏🙏
@millyashby1299
6 жыл бұрын
Well if my spouse is in love and going with someone's else well that's tuff for me because I didn't complete him as a man and life still has to go on and because I have no right to stop him from find love and to have happiness in there life all I can do is to have forgiveness towards him and let him go because he didn't believe and trust me any way my friend one can't cry over spilt milk
@venusrodriguez8047
4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this now
@nthakontsinyi8156
4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@jasonsitz3056
4 жыл бұрын
Me too my anniversary is July 5th they will be in a hotel once again on July 4th through the 5th I will be alone at my house I cry so much did I get thirsty from loss of fluids
@MYJESUS944
4 жыл бұрын
She left me for a rich man,
@rreal9741
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this with my wife right now
@mamodulalizzy4656
2 жыл бұрын
Im also going through this now
@colleenallison5860
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! You are spot on!
@Bells_Ville
4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like what I suspected in my marriage & now I'm in another state
@sylviangei715
Жыл бұрын
It’s really hard. One year down the line am still fighting. And he tells me things will be better.it’s really draining but I believe God will do it for me
@trok90k
4 ай бұрын
Just got the news the other day that my wife cheated. Turned my world upside down. I dont want to leave my kids. Im just tore up. Dont know who to beleive and yesterday she said she liked cheating and shes in love with him. Im not ready to let her go. She keep talking in hypotheticals like" i can picture you with someone that deserves you". Makes me feel like she's trying to push me out.
@gracie12ification
4 жыл бұрын
I love my spouse however we have been having financial crisis and it’s been ongoing for 2 years. With that being said we have two children together. 2 days go he left to go stay with a friend . He said so that he can grow and find himself. But just last night he came to see the kids and told me that he thought about it and that he just doesn’t want to get back together because he was never happy. Which I don’t believe because even with financial issues we have always found time to laugh and enjoy each other...what do I do in this moment ? I am currently praying and just taking care of myself and kids...o still have faith that he will come back to us
@ShareBearChelle
3 жыл бұрын
What happened? Did you reconcile?
@heatherthomas6996
3 жыл бұрын
Yes Doctor Joe Beam you correct I have been going through that and listen to other peoples stories which I have hurt myself. but I want to thank you for sharing. I have been telling my husbands friends, Boss and he's family about what he was doing.
@heretomakehimknown2183
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video it gives me clarification and I know God wanted me to see this video at this time. Your knowledge and information is very much needed. God bless you.
@MarkSummers-g2n
14 күн бұрын
Marriage Counsellors goal is to keep you married because they get paid well if you stay married but if you Divorce the Money doesn't go to them it goes to the greedy Divorce Lawyers
@donnablaney8254
6 жыл бұрын
What about with hidden violence? That is repeated. What about when you've divorced before and remarry and then the violence starts again? When I say violence I mean to the point of broken bones
@yourfriend3523
5 жыл бұрын
Donna you need to get to a safe place and leave.
@suzimonkey345
5 жыл бұрын
Donna Blaney “When someone shows you who they are, believe them!”. I wish I had taken that advise! It’s incredibly hard to change who you are, good intentions are NOT enough...It takes so much work and dedication. Very, VERY few human beings can ever do that. If his ‘instinctive’ reaction to certain situations is violence, it will ALWAYS be violence. An almost religious observance of Anger Management training and self work ‘could possibly’ work. If you’ve gone through the utter devastation of divorce and even that didn’t make him have the strength to dedicate himself to self management I believe nothing will. If you have children you are fundamentally changing who they will be in life by your CHOICES. It’s horrific abuse to expose your children to a family with physical abuse. I know that’s harsh. I’m a weak, sad person but I hope better for you. Please be strong. If not for yourself then for those who love you.
@myopinion9550
5 жыл бұрын
I've made alot of mistakes during the separation before i found videos like this. Can i still get my wife back. She seems to hate me. We were together for 13 years
@Ksollo708
5 жыл бұрын
Me too🤦🏾♂️
@godisgood2675
4 жыл бұрын
Pray to God
@littlemisstwiggy4529
3 жыл бұрын
Did u get her back? I’m dealing with my husband leaving us -using drugs & now with another woman. We have zero communication. He doesn’t even try to visit our son who is only 10. I wouldn’t welcome him back with open arms wrapped around him but I want our family our marriage more than anything. He just met this woman a few weeks ago & now they’re “in love “ I can’t believe that.
@soniakolur9719
5 жыл бұрын
Sir you are asking for comments but ain't replying to any
@63565989
4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend fell in love with someone else. He decided to stay with me instead, because he loves me. Now I have to watch him be lovesick. He wants to get over it. But it is nothing he can change right now. It's crazy hard. I want to leave him and the honeymoon in love part of him just wants me to leave and just be with her. But it's only day 4 of him telling me he fell in love and things are still fresh.
@wojciechmatuszewski3346
2 жыл бұрын
You guys and your advice turned out priceless.... Thank you. It helped to look at things from a different angle and maybe.... Just maybe saved my marriage.
@vanessagregory4528
4 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't bother taking my narcissistic exhusband to a counsellor.
@celmonby
4 жыл бұрын
Always watching you and love your videos about marriage and love.
@gregphillips6434
3 жыл бұрын
The video was informative. Thanks for sharing 👍
@Team1kinc
4 жыл бұрын
If you are in the comments and you wouldn't accept your spouse back then why are you commenting this is for people who want to fight for their marriage don't discourage us just go watch the videos that fit your character. Ps. People say what they wouldn't do until they are in the situation... 😉
@heatherthomas6996
3 жыл бұрын
Yes Doc, friends and family have discharge my marriage. What you a saying is very very true..
@robprice5985
4 жыл бұрын
How does someoene suffering as a manic depressant handle everything while trying to fix and not give up?
@nchakravarty7362
4 жыл бұрын
How does one decide if the spouse was good or bad? If one is good, one will only see the good in the other person and that is not very objective!
@maryamzulfikar7026
5 жыл бұрын
When a guy keeps telling you that you have broad shoulders...may be u had sent him a pic of you what does this mean?
@danabe8888
4 жыл бұрын
she always wants to leave :(
@tonyjones1560
3 жыл бұрын
I will say that this video is far more reasonable and balanced than virtually every other video on this subject that I've seen, 👏👏👏👏👏 That said, if she cheats and leaves because she's "in love" with someone else, she'd do well not to make threats on her way out the door...and to *never* forget, that door only swings one way. "You wanted to be gone. You got gone. You STAY gone."
@SpunkySultry
2 жыл бұрын
👆🏽👆🏽This dude help me to gain access to my partner phone without him knowing about it thanks for everything ✌️
@juliescott1866
2 жыл бұрын
He won't tell her it's over and keeps dragging it out. He says he wants me but won't let her go. What should I do,
@mrindiha4325
2 жыл бұрын
If not why my wife is spoiling her life
@paulinebunce972
2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man| who can heIp you manifest whoever you want to manifest within 2days , He was the one that heIped me bring my ex back
@paulinebunce972
2 жыл бұрын
Wh'tsapp him for heIp
@paulinebunce972
2 жыл бұрын
✛𝟮𝟯𝟰8075547711(☉。☉)!
@paulinebunce972
2 жыл бұрын
✛𝟮𝟯𝟰8075547711(☉。☉)! it really worked I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break up
@MariaLuluGarza
3 жыл бұрын
Is it a hopeless situation when he doesn't want marriage counseling, doesn't want to give you a chance, told you to your face to "Get it through your thick head I don't want you I am not going back to you ".
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????💔
@MysticNinjaSoul
2 жыл бұрын
She said to me while leaving I love you but not in love with you. She filed for divorce and I am about to be served
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????💔
@leeperez66
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice
@francoisegross9437
4 жыл бұрын
Don’t fall asleep yet.
@jeanettelabonte5504
5 жыл бұрын
It's all began with you first you have a lover so that she too are doing the same now if you really loves your wife get together talk n both go to a church n ask God for forgiveness God is the only solution to your problem
@AustinKloud
2 жыл бұрын
these are great videos
@jefflep1
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Joe
@mozhgan8188
5 жыл бұрын
wonderful video, Thanks a lot. my counselor was useless and she was just asking for money and she didn't care about us. She told me if I wanted to divorce during the separation's time came to her earlier!! I didn't like her but my husband was listening to her and we are still struggling :(
@febamethystocanas9282
6 жыл бұрын
Dr. Beam, I am listening to your video right now. I have been with my husband since we were 18, now we are both 41. He is currently living with the other woman. I love him and want my marriage back. I am so depressed. I can barely function. I keep praying for my marriage. We went to lunch on the 3rd. On the 4th, I needed validation and so I texted him if he loved me. He said yes. Then 30 minutes later she texted me. I read something about being me being ridiculous and I only read long enough to figure out it was her and then I deleted the text. I texted him and he had blocked me. There has been no contact since either way. I don’t know what to do.
@christus73
5 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your pain. I'll pray for you tonight. Just hang in there and take care of yourself.
@lordabiabi1964
5 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this. However, you need to move on.
@MariaLuluGarza
3 жыл бұрын
She is controlling him cuz he is weak or he is playing games with both of you which is cruel. I would give myself closure and decide am better than that and move on.
@llard_vonnepoint_blankz2477
2 жыл бұрын
This is what happen to me..sad but true..
@MyCeli_1583
4 жыл бұрын
Yes ur right seems like flashbacks evrything .. I have my faults too I’m not perfect but I guess I just got a help from a wrong person. I’ve seen signs already but I thought she was a great friend but ended up having affair with my spouse. I was super broken n hurt , devastated a lot of pain that I don’t understand.
@captainmarvel3962
5 жыл бұрын
My husband is in a relationship with my sister. He has committed that. But, he does not want to leave me as well. He wants to stay with me, while having relationship with my sister. I getting mad, I don't know what to do now. Please help.
@SimpleLife333
5 жыл бұрын
i thpught i loved you i guess i was wrong??? wth is that about
@benthreadgill1340
4 жыл бұрын
My wife left a year ago to be with another man, we are still in contact but i cant make out where she is at emotionally, no threats of divorce, no nastyness nothing, i have made afew mistakes along the way like begging but i am 100% commited to my marriage and my wife. What can i do? I believe she was manipulated by the other man to make her think the grass is greener and she went for it!
@celiawood6220
3 жыл бұрын
Sure he can help you
@chrischarles4112
3 жыл бұрын
True love never dies, don't give up someone you love, all hope is not lost
@celiawood6220
3 жыл бұрын
+2347056686849
@benthreadgill1340
3 жыл бұрын
@@celiawood6220 hi, who is this number for? Is it the people in the video?
@celiawood6220
3 жыл бұрын
@@benthreadgill1340 It belongs to Dr. Oss. the man who helped me to win my husband back after he ran to another woman. I'm pretty sure he can help you too in your current situation
@cindyzipperer6880
3 жыл бұрын
I know your video was a long time ago but you asked what we know about marriage counseling. I have a family member that was a psychologist that had her own practice. This counselor was on her third marriage and would frequently tell people they needed to end it. This person is also a major Narcissist!!!! She accidentally butt dialed me when she was with a couple. I listened for around 45 min and barely heard the couple at all.....its sad there aren't more competent people in the field.
@LoveScooby
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah we went to our Pastor for counseling and that when I found out why my wife wanted a Divorce. Her and the married pastor was fucking around...
@pamhenry4500
2 жыл бұрын
I am going through that right now.
@michaelallen3390
4 жыл бұрын
Men married for 25 years and my wife wants a divorce she got a DUI DHS got involved and told her that she needs to divorce me and there's a place called the wings of Hope her marriage counseling the one of the worst places ever I believe they I'm not there to help a marriage they're there to break it up I called them a homewrecker so yeah right now don't know what to do I got two beautiful kids have a daughter what's 15 and a son what's 7 and they don't know what to do about all this they tell me and I definitely don't know what to do about all this so you are right about counselors I give you that one they're up to destroy the marriage not to help I don't understand why oh that's how I felt they push my wife even farther away and I told her that why are they telling you that the divorce me I said they told you to go jump off a bridge would you and I said think about that one
@juliamwangi8428
4 жыл бұрын
What if i have already done the things that you said NOT to do. you
@thegamepz
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah i get it. How it went
@ryanconn2761
6 жыл бұрын
Are you guys considering coming to Australia at all? I'd love to see you in Melbourne.
@MarriageHelper
6 жыл бұрын
Hi! Right now, we offer workshops in Tennessee. However, we offer coaching internationally! Call us at 866-903-0990 if you would like more information.
@jasminsacco8214
3 жыл бұрын
What if your spouse run away with affair, and you begged you pleaded you even told your spouse co worker for what he did and you start processing the divorce but after a month of begging you stopped is there still a chance?
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????♠️💖💔👶
@Drew.coggs_ig
Жыл бұрын
Yep…
@Rededow
4 жыл бұрын
What if I did all three of the should not. Is there a way to recover the marriage. She's keeps telling me she's done with me and left to live with another man. She refuses to admit she's cheated but admitted that she let him get to close as a friend. She's mad that I've talked to my mother, siblings, and friends to get my sadness out. I have decided to let her go but I see her everyday so my 7 and 3 year old boys can have their mom. It's killing me because she's told me she's not in love with me over and over. I've been with her for a decade and have loved her unconditionally. Idk what to do to help the marriage. I filled for divorce this weak because she had become so angry about all this she's lost her mind and destroyed things and been violent to me. Im afraid that she will blowup at my children and me again. She really needs help and she's getting it slowly through a councilor but I think my marriage is done.
@israelferrer1286
2 жыл бұрын
any updates on your situation?
@rawmard7178
3 жыл бұрын
I caught my husband but both he and his colleagues denied. I want to walk away but he is refusing to let me go...and making me feel guilty that I'm the one who is ridged and there is nothing between them.
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
Hi friend, there is someone that can help you recover your relationship and get your ex back to you
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
His name: baba Eseohe
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
He helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
+2=3=4=8=0=8=4=0=2=3=9=5=5
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️
@scottpetheram4734
4 жыл бұрын
Wow up to 4:30.... 100%
@mrindiha4325
2 жыл бұрын
Did my wife lover is going to spoil his life by divorceing his first wife and leave his children for my wife
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????💔
@larryrichins7887
3 жыл бұрын
Listen here bud so far no one's had an affair I just found out after 35 plus years of marriage that my wife was molested by her step dad when she was a young girl That had a huge effect on our relationship I feel like I'm being pushed away I was in love with my wife but not anymore I still love her but not in the lover's way and I do feel sorry for her I don't know what to do.. I'm almost to the point of bailimg out of this relationship We have two children that are young adults 37 and 31 and eight grandchildren. But I want out. Even though she said she loves me but the hurt is still there and for me. We've been through marriage counsel but the thing between her dad and her never came up until I was in my early fifties I'm now 60 I felt like I did something wrong here. At one time while Id' would have gave my life for her but not now. According to me my relationship is dead.
@franziskani
10 ай бұрын
If you do not feel compassion and a closer connection to your wife but rejection to your wife that was harmed ! as a girl and could do nothing about it YOU need help and therapy. Your feelings do not make sense and are unjust, nor do they honor the DECADES long relationship. Feelings do not tell you the truth or facts - that is not their function. There is nothing wrong with her and the relationship is not devalued by her having been made a victim long long ago (and by a person that should have protected her).
@franziskani
10 ай бұрын
If you would cultivate anger and thoughts of confronting the step dad (or her mother that let that happen) that would be an understandable reaction (not healthy if it occupies all your thought - and not that you should do anything drastic). But being angry and sorry on behalf of your wife would be appropriate. Your feelings tell you that you have detected a major flaw (of her, not her molester, not the other faimily members that could have protected her). That feeling is untrue and it is not fair towards her.
@an2nx
4 жыл бұрын
my partner and i, we've been living together for 10 and a half years and we had a son but were not married yet. she applied for a job on a cruise ship at got on board for 9 months plus 1 month extension. while shes on board i noticed that some thing is wrong with our communication, her attitude and our chats i felt it in my guts that shes hiding something from me. then when she got to get home on the day of her embarkation when i open up her messenger, a message just popped out from her lover and then a conversation went on. they had been together for months in one cabin, greeting of anniversaries. my partner got so in loved with this married man with kids. what should i do to save our relationship and also the mans family. hoping for your response. thank you.
@marjoriemendonca2471
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! Our stories are so familiar. My husband went away last year on the ship and never came back for more than 9 months. We have four children and was happily married. He started acting really strange after a few months and kept on telling me that he was going to come home the next month. So happened that he fell in love with this 25 year old girl that was working also on the ship. Long story short, he came home and ask me for a divorce without any reason. He refused to admit it and he doesn't know that I know everything.
@marjoriemendonca2471
4 жыл бұрын
@Hamad Jumard what do you mean?
@tahersyed2191
4 жыл бұрын
how about my sitaution....got into an arranged marriage cuz of "religious match" oh and we have been married in long distance relationship for 2 yrs since da marriage, ugh......now can I cheat?
@tahersyed2191
4 жыл бұрын
@@madamamanda7773 lol 😆
@corenaroy5884
3 жыл бұрын
I am in it now
@erichappiness8816
3 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
@erichappiness8816
3 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him**
@erichappiness8816
3 жыл бұрын
✝2 3 4 9 1 5 2 0 5 2 0 6 3......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him👇
@chestrockwell7306
4 жыл бұрын
Only reason I hate this guy but I love him is cuz i watched him too late..my ex of 18 years is marrying her affair 3 weeks after a divorce and after he broke my femur..I was a mess and let her know it...it would be nice to touch on weight loss surgery..she had it and timed out family and I know several others who have as well..being left for another man really messed me up..I’m trying daily to improve..but begging and showing my hurt made it worse and everyone in my town knows what she did so she ran to his narcissistic ass
@BlessEkanem
5 жыл бұрын
My husband left me for another woman, got married and a little after 3 years they got divorced cos da other woman turned out to be a cheat and a fraudster. He came back and said we should get back together cos of our two children. I accepted and moved back in, and after three years I found out he is going out with and older woman. I don't know what to do. I want to save my marriage but he does not care.
@leilapaskeldias9804
5 жыл бұрын
@ Bless Ekanem. Visit Rejoice marriage ministries, helping save marriages God's way. Great page, they have a Fb page as well. Worth cheking 😉
@dianaevans7102
5 жыл бұрын
You are an idiot. Never take a cheater back!
@claudiahicklin1073
5 жыл бұрын
Pray God Deuteronomy 28
@pszbrown
5 жыл бұрын
please help me
@MarriageHelper
5 жыл бұрын
Hi, Zain. Please call us at 866-903-0990 or email us at info@marriagehelper.com so we can help!
@dbbarragan
5 жыл бұрын
He's been living with his mistress for a year now. He won't file for divorce although I asked him to do it That I don't believe on divorce. But how much longer should I hold on for him to get his head on straight? As per my daughters, his relationship with her is very toxic yet he stays Should I file?
@Beanieboom
5 жыл бұрын
dbbarragan think about what YOU want. nobody else. what do YOU want
@esemenzume6107
4 жыл бұрын
Not only madly in with love for almost 20 years but also a vicious and pathological liar. Offers herself to him like a sheep going to a slaughter house even on sundays after church service.Thanks a lot. Your suggestions are edifying and timely .For the sake of my kids l have learnt to tolerate the intolerable
@inasbjorklund6917
5 жыл бұрын
I went to see a councellor who kept asking me why you stayed with your husband, why you didnt leave, why are you still with him? I stopped going after few sessions because he didnt help me to make a decision about my marriage, or at least give me hope that things can improve. I ended up not trusting my husband more and asking for divorce. 6 years ago my husband had an affair and wanted to leave the marriage but kept dragging the affair and also holding to the marriage, i was very patient but hurting too much. Now the affair is finished and he wants the marriage back but i lost the trust and my heart not any more in it. Now he is hurting because he is losing or lost me and i feel sad for him but want to leave. Still hurting don't know what to do.
@tersiasnyman5742
5 жыл бұрын
So how did it turn out? I also feel I don’t know what to do and personally I am trying te see that answering that question is wht you need to do. We should know what to do. I realise that now. I still don’t know, but I’m working on myself till I actually figure out why I don’t know, till I know.
@dumpstuntin
4 жыл бұрын
My wife doing this to me now. The guy is a total downgrade loser and I have kids.
@peterchew846
3 жыл бұрын
I want to said pls faster go.and said tq
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
Hi friend, there is someone that can help you recover your relationship and get your ex back to you
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
His name: baba Eseohe
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
He helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
+2=3=4=8=0=8=4=0=2=3=9=5=5
@janewilliam48
3 жыл бұрын
He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️
@bradleydia8065
3 жыл бұрын
This guy is a G
@Nasjen
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve done all three. But we are still together and he is moving his mistress in. 🤦🏾♀️
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
Whats""app him 👇
@rebeccatailor2727
2 жыл бұрын
±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????💔
@janeclermon83
Жыл бұрын
My therapist is helping me with my pies
@MarriageHelper
Жыл бұрын
That's amazing!!! Keep up the good work friend! Don't forget to subscribe if you haven't done so already!
Пікірлер: 354