he made the correct decision. there is nothing without trust.
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
Exactly. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and without it, everything else falls apart. He definitely made the right call.
@artisaprimus6306
3 күн бұрын
There's no reason to get married,if one of the partners wants an open marriage. One of them has already cheated.
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
Exactly, if one partner is already considering an open relationship, the trust and commitment needed for marriage are already compromised.
@CharlesMartel-bd5du
Күн бұрын
@@Lie-s5fyeah the second that happened I’d be all over her and her devices. She’d have more trackers and spyware in her than a Soviet bomber in US airspace. Also I’d prolly get a PI. I’m a Silicon Valley guy that ran global scope operations and digital security. That’s why I know my wife’s never even thought about cheating. Also zero chance I’d let my wife do these girls nights out. Sure once a year her Thai friends (she’s Thai) and her do have a night out. But I get them a hotel in the area they want to go. One of we husbands go. Usually me. My wife and I get a room and I get them a room. One of her friends goes to dance clubs but I never allow that. I don’t think her friend cheats. But no way I’d allow that.
@CharlesMartel-bd5du
Күн бұрын
I see no reason why any husband would feel guilt for investigating and spying on his wife, ever. That’s his complete right.
@kylec3150
18 сағат бұрын
Agree privacy is for strangers not your partner. Open phone device account policy.
@kjemma
3 күн бұрын
The "Poly-thing" is so prevelant these days, that I actually include the question very, very early on in a dating-situation. "How do you feel about polyamory? If they dont dismiss it right off the bat there and then, I run for the hills. And our communication abruptly ends. I have nothing but terrible experiences dabbling with those particular type of 304s. Dont care how they live their lives. But I wont waste a milliwatt of energy or a secound of my time on them.
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
Fair enough, it’s important to know what you want and set boundaries early on. Everyone has their preferences, and it’s good that you’re clear about yours from the start.
@phillipsinclaire
13 сағат бұрын
The poly thing is out there! Ask her about that and male orbiters and monkey branching! These are very important! If she is in love with you she will answer these hard hitting questions! But be prepared to answer the same questions! And some women will say they only ever dated five or six partners. But some women being active 304s have or continue to date the same five partners. So the grand total is 5 x 50 or 5 x 100 with the same five.
@EricsonDomingo-yu1ui
3 күн бұрын
She betrayed you, and you're asking if this is really the end. DUMP your two timer wife!
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
Relationships can be complicated, and every situation is different. It's important to take time to think things through before making any big decisions.
@carrollcorder5169
Күн бұрын
@@Lie-s5fWhat's to think about or discus she has chosen another man over her hubby. She's making excuses to leave her hubby and spend time with her AP. A relationship is built on trust and love. The trust is gone and how can you alienate your SO, make excuses to leave the house so you can go spend time with your lover, have a relationship with your lover, including sex all the while avoiding your hubby, lying to him, even going as far to say you love him and actually love him. You know your actions would crush him but you do it anyway, so what's to be savaged, and if you do reconcile she will most likely cheat again but next time be much better at hiding it. And what's the privacy thing you are sharing a life together. When one person in a relationship starts keeping secrets from the other the relationship is circling the drain with little to no chance of reviving it.
@MacDaddy50
17 сағат бұрын
I am 58 years old and always tell young men who are in relationships or married, "Trust your gut, because it will always protect your heart!"
@alihaydaryalnz6118
2 күн бұрын
You're right, there's no excuse for cheating. It's better to remove toxic people and focus on finding someone who truly values you. Life's too short to settle for anything less. A woman stays out until 3 a.m. and claims she didn’t sleep with another guy. The funny thing is, this doormat says he’s fine with it. A "girls' night out"? Any man who doesn’t have a problem with that is headed straight for betrayal. In fact, this guy already dug his own grave long ago.
@Lie-s5f
2 күн бұрын
Trust and boundaries are essential in any relationship. While some people may be okay with a 'girls' night out,' others might see it differently. It's important to communicate openly and ensure both partners feel respected and valued. Everyone deserves a relationship built on honesty and mutual understanding.
@DarrylTaylor-o7j
2 күн бұрын
You should tell your wife that girl's night out will always include you
@alihaydaryalnz6118
2 күн бұрын
@@DarrylTaylor-o7j My place is very different, man. Our culture is different, of course, and similar things happen here as well, but the rate is still very low. Here, women can’t even go to their mother’s house without their husband’s permission. But when a man is a doormat, even here they walk all over him.
@alihaydaryalnz6118
2 күн бұрын
@DarrylTaylor-o7j Exactly, a doormat's fate doesn't change anywhere. No matter the place, people will always take advantage of them. He who kneels before others will never stand tall.
@rayairey5770
3 күн бұрын
There are three words in this "story" that describe the failed relationship....... .......Mistake, it's never going to help in a conversation about 'infidelity' ........Choice, making a choice to go 'outside' a relationship ..........TRUST, once that's broken it's just NEVER going to come back.....
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
You're absolutely right. Those three words perfectly capture the core issues. Once trust is broken, it’s incredibly hard, if not impossible, to rebuild.
@superbirden57
Күн бұрын
Nicely put.
@tedi3138
Күн бұрын
He waited to long when she came home 3 am, the first time he should have hired a PI Instead waited 2 3 weeks
@JohnHoffman-t4v
Күн бұрын
She never cut it off with her lover. She’s still going out. He needs to dump her. Let her have her open dating.
@Lie-s5f
Күн бұрын
@@JohnHoffman-t4v Thanks for watching.
@johnsinclair8391
2 күн бұрын
When your wife talks about opening your marriage it means she is already cheating or planning to cheat
@coreytaylor9940
2 күн бұрын
It just means I'll file for divorce that day or the next, no questions asked.
@TheCentralScrutinizerAgain
12 сағат бұрын
and she`s already got someone else picked out
@DarrylTaylor-o7j
2 күн бұрын
When you ask your wife about her phone conversations, and she says that it's nothing, let me see that nothing!😮
@Lie-s5f
2 күн бұрын
Exactly! If there’s really “nothing,” then there shouldn’t be a problem showing it. In a relationship, trust and transparency go both ways. If she’s hiding something, it’s a red flag.
@jamesrdang3192
2 күн бұрын
😂😂
@brecklandwarrior
18 сағат бұрын
If one partner asks about an open relationship they either have someone lined up or they've already committed adultery.
@peteremig6244
17 сағат бұрын
9 times out of 10, when your partner wants to "open" the marriage, they've already been cheating.
@Two2thirds23
Күн бұрын
When your partner want a open marriage that mean get away
@WayneWright-c2j
3 күн бұрын
You don't feel BAD for CHEATERS,, REMOVE THEM from your LIFE ,, Find some One who's going to Love You , SIMPLE
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
You're right, there's no excuse for cheating. It's better to remove toxic people and focus on finding someone who truly values you. Life's too short to settle for anything less.
@murdock6273
15 сағат бұрын
Proves that CHEATING IS NEVER A MISTAKE ITS A CHOICE WITH ALL THE PLANNING AND LYING
@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats
Күн бұрын
Put the CHEATER out. YOU stay in the home. She has the AP to go to, although he’s likely married.
@coreytaylor9940
2 күн бұрын
I'd just file immediately. Why play these games or let her drive you crazy?
@eduardogutierrez6111
Күн бұрын
The dumb op that allowed his woman go alone on Girls nigths. Serves him rigth
@Mentallect
3 күн бұрын
Boss move, leave the 304.
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
Totally agree, knowing your worth and walking away from that situation is a power move.
@cskaplan
Күн бұрын
Not another stupid wimp story
@geraldmahoney4856
Күн бұрын
One response could be, give me a few weeks to think about it. Then, hire a lawyer and a PI and a few weeks later, say here’s my answer, give her divorce papers.
@kurtschmidt6779
12 сағат бұрын
These stories they repeat, repeat, get to it as soon as she mentioned it divorced it. They're already in an open marriage
@alihaydaryalnz6118
3 күн бұрын
The woman this guy describes at the beginning of the story and the one after the open marriage conversation seem like two completely different people. But in reality, she was always like this the poor guy was just too blind to see it from the start.
@Lie-s5f
3 күн бұрын
Sometimes people can change over time, or we only start noticing things that were always there. It's tough to realize, but it’s part of the learning process in relationships.
@alihaydaryalnz6118
2 күн бұрын
@@Lie-s5f You're wrong, my friend look in the mirror and say that again. When you place a woman on a pedestal and idolize her, it becomes almost impossible to see the truth. People don’t change; you just need to be a very keen observer to notice the little details that reveal their true nature at different points in life. But eventually, they become so confident because they see the weakness in the other person, and their true character is revealed. If you had told me that people can fall out of love, I would agree with you. But this guy asked his wife if she was happy in the marriage and if she still loved him. Yet, a deceiver is always a liar. She told him she was happy and still loved him.
@alihaydaryalnz6118
2 күн бұрын
@@Lie-s5f Just like I'm observing right now whether I'm talking to a bot or a real person. xD
@Lie-s5f
2 күн бұрын
Honestly, relationships are complicated and sometimes we don't see where they will lead, one circumstance or another can reveal different sides of a person.
@Lie-s5f
2 күн бұрын
with a real person
@ABTop123
2 сағат бұрын
Honestly, if one person is asking for an open marriage, it seems like the trust is already broken. Isn't that just another way of saying they've already stepped out of the relationship? What do you all think?
@Lie-s5f
2 сағат бұрын
Yes, I completely agree. If someone asks for an open marriage, it seems like the relationship is already dead.
@CarlosDingli
3 күн бұрын
OP should forgive her once, nobody's perfect so give her another chance. Once she repeats it then the marriage is over. Giving a person another chance can be the best step for changes and rebuilding what has been destroyed. It's what Christ has taught us, right?
@Lie-s5f
2 күн бұрын
While forgiveness is important, it's also crucial to set boundaries and protect your own well-being. Everyone deserves a second chance if they genuinely want to change, but trust is key in rebuilding any relationship.
@Mental_Alchemist
2 күн бұрын
I don't think that most cheaters really understand the psychological hell that they put their partners through. I was cheated on by my ex wife and think I would have rather caught a bullet than to go through that. Long term, It fundamentally changes your ability to actually "be in love" with someone. Sure, you can love someone again, but they take a certain innocence away.
@CarlosDingli
2 күн бұрын
@@Lie-s5f read my comment again it's already in there.
@coreytaylor9940
2 күн бұрын
No. She didn't do it once, she did it for weeks at least and treated him like trash in the meantime.
@MacDaddy50
17 сағат бұрын
Bad advice. Giving someone a second chance for cheating is showing extreme weakness. Your partner knows their calculated decisions to cheat had minimal consequences. No need to have her fix it because as she stated, "She doesn't know what to do!"
@MrSharrutu
Күн бұрын
There has to be clnsequences if he had taken her back she would cheat againg or lost respect for him, love for those kind of women is the man loving the. And forgiving all tveir onfedelity, but for a man love is loyalty,
@billyjamison5265
Күн бұрын
Another story fraught with word salad. This guy is clueless.
@MrSharrutu
Күн бұрын
Those are swingers and both want that, shes forcing her parthner thats not ok, why want women screw around when they are married
@phillipsinclaire
13 сағат бұрын
Many women are monkey branching today! It might be fun if you did the same thing! There is also a thing called male orbiter’s. May I suggest you do the same!😢😮😅😮😊
@alihaydaryalnz6118
2 күн бұрын
What do you think, GPT?
@MrSharrutu
Күн бұрын
Check her phone
@grumpy676
Сағат бұрын
He keeps thinking about it?Just tell her yes or no way in hell
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