I was taught you don't quit a job until you have a job to replace it.
@SS-fs3wo
4 ай бұрын
@TheR3alRyan It's always smart to have a job replacement before quitting a job. Employers are not as inclined to hire someone who is not employed. And you can't predict whether someone will hire you in whatever time frame your finances can handle. That being said, you don't have to stay in your miserable job forever but you do need to have a new job before you leave your miserable job.
@audiolego
4 ай бұрын
I teach that to my students but I also told them that once I broke this rule due to two twiddle Dee and dumb bosses. Even you won't be able to handle it.
@YoungnFly09
4 ай бұрын
More to life than work..
@kristinasnyder1409
4 ай бұрын
@YoungnFly09 yes,there is,but you gotta pay the bills. You can't rely on someone else to pay your way,but you can find a good ballance.
@growing.grounds4054
4 ай бұрын
@TheR3alRyan everyone does not have money to take 3-4 months off. Thats not a toxic mentality it’s a survival mentality
@sarita5572
9 ай бұрын
I was a single mother for 17 years....worked several jobs to make ends meet. Met my husband 9 years ago and I continued working until he asked me to be a stay at home wife. We sold our large home, bought a small home and paid it off, sold our second vehicle to only have one payment and now we can live off of one income. My kids are already 26, 23 and 17 now but it takes a lot of hard work to make sure you and your kids have everything they need. If you want to live off of one income you have to he prepared to sacrifice a lot of wants. I cook most meals here at home, we don't go on extravagant vacations. It's doable but you have to learn to be very frugal.
@MikeyPaper
9 ай бұрын
So you met a voluntary cuck?
@annasimons389
9 ай бұрын
I'm always surprised why a man would take on someone else's children... what's the psychology of that? anyone?
@user-mf9yl2pf3v
9 ай бұрын
@@annasimons389 I've heard that a lot of men have a hero complex, which causes some of them to see single moms as vulnerable and in need of help. It triggers the protective instinct in some men, even if they never thought they could seriously consider a single mom before. They can make a man feel useful or needed. Also, some people become a better, more beautiful person after becoming a parent, and others are drawn to that.
@annasimons389
9 ай бұрын
interesting... because as a woman I want nothing to do with someone else's kids. @@user-mf9yl2pf3v
@ArmageddonIsHere
9 ай бұрын
Excuse me if this is off-topic, but why is your username "Sarita"?
@benatural49
8 ай бұрын
My brother used to do that, quit his jobs when somebody does something he doesn't like. Did that until he was 50 years old then finally woke up when family members stopped letting him borrow money.
@matthewphillips5483
6 ай бұрын
Amazing how fast people grow up when there are no enablers around.
@alexisjankowski3281
7 ай бұрын
I have a friend the same way. She earns north of $150K, and has lax responsibilities. She wants to leave because she doesn’t feel fulfilled. I recommended she find fulfillment in her children, not her job. This is not an economy to job hop.
@arreola891
7 ай бұрын
Show her the Bible verse... Colossians 3:23 NIV [23] Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, Implementing this changed EVERYTHING for me because giving up a $150k job? Yikes!! Noooo!😅
@Jenlovescoasters
10 ай бұрын
So, I literally love my job. I'm a roller coaster mechanic, I graduated from college as an an interior designer. When I graduated, I was like, I wanna work in rides because I love them. Here we are, I've been a roller coaster mechanic for 18 years❤
@CF.
9 ай бұрын
You sound rad. Good for you girl.
@gtf5392
7 ай бұрын
That’s cool. Who’d have thought that the one job that doesn’t have its ups and downs is in roller coasters.
@revondamehovic3132
5 ай бұрын
That sounds like an awesome job!
@Jenlovescoasters
3 ай бұрын
@@thomaslastname3070 all the time!
@trackee2024
8 ай бұрын
I quit my job when my third baby was born… it was impulse. Going back to work was too hard. My husband just hugged me and told me congratulations. We made it work and I’m so thankful that my husband supported me during that time.
@jessicab6876
7 ай бұрын
Thats exactly where I am right now. We just had our third and I'm a social worker and the work is too mentally and emotionally hard 12 years in... I'd rather do more part jobs now!
@somethingsaboutmary3134
7 ай бұрын
Same here. I’m an RN and still have not returned to work as my third has turned one year old this month. We are making one income work and I would love to go back to work. However, the only option I have is to work weekends given the nature of nursing shifts. I would love to find work that doesn’t require me to sacrifice sleep and perform logistical acrobatics to get my kids taken care of while I’m away
@trackee2024
7 ай бұрын
@@jessicab6876 When my third turned 6 months-old I started working part time and remote to make the budget stretch a bit more. It was a great balance for me and let me stay close to my babies when I felt they still really needed me. I hope you found something too!
@trackee2024
7 ай бұрын
@@somethingsaboutmary3134 I heard some nurses get a full-time salary just being on-call over night? I think one woman told me she works once per month. She just has to have her family on the ready to step in and watch the kids if needed. Is that still a thing?
@Lilo-A
7 ай бұрын
I would think paying for daycare might make working prohibitive.
@lisaravin7339
8 ай бұрын
Worked all my life, started babysitting at 14. I am a social worker, it's a thankless job. But never once thought about not working. Bills still need paid.
@jefdby
10 ай бұрын
Entry level social work jobs are incredibly intense emotionally, really rough, families with so many problems. It's a job for the few who can handle it. Really, give the woman a break. My daughter does that work at age 23 and after 2 years she's already burnt out, and she LOVES the work. It's hard.
@loracavallindesigns165
9 ай бұрын
I agree!
@wilhoit
9 ай бұрын
I do not agree! She needs to read the book "I never promised you a rose garden!" Suck it up!
@loracavallindesigns165
9 ай бұрын
@@wilhoit haha, but also, we have no other context here, and she never said she wouldn't get a new job. I don't see anything wrong with changing jobs as long as it's not lower paying.
@sherice1730
9 ай бұрын
I had an internship with the county humane services. Those social workers always showed up to the meetings looking stressed out and complaining about lack of resources. It’s not a job for everyone
@musicandpoetry_8
9 ай бұрын
I hear nightmares about that field, I don’t think the comment section gets it especially after she got the degree and expected to like it
@azikoo6526
10 ай бұрын
I want to say my AQ384J bags are full, but I cant stop buying at 3 cents.
@thanosianthemadtitanic
6 ай бұрын
?
@whiteowl3190
9 ай бұрын
I'm actually diagnosed and medicated for both general and social anxiety. My anxiety actually makes me want to stay with my job because it's my comfort zone, it's what I'm familiar with and what I know. I don't know how some people can bounce around from job to job, just the thought of that almost gives me an anxiety attack. 😂
@hollystiener16
9 ай бұрын
That is great! you got help for what you needed and that is a huge accomplishment.,
@gorkemcan2365
10 ай бұрын
Omfg! Pbatesltd turned out to be a bloody smart move. I love love love this. I’m the wrong side of 40 so I’m taking this all on board IMMEDIATELY- thank you! Even if I run out of time my kids will benefit from this incredible education. Thankyou thankyou thankyou!!
@pixiepalasmr6881
9 ай бұрын
To be honest, i relate to the wife. It’s not that I think what she does is right, because its not, but as someone who wasn’t allowed to get a job till I was 19, and someone who didn’t know how to drive till I was 21, work was the only life that I had outside of a toxic home life, so I didn’t stick it out as much. I also come to realize that some of the negative scenarios at work were due to an undiagnosed disorder that I’m just now learning about and learning how to cope with.
@rachellea.3728
8 ай бұрын
That last sentence is everything, thank you for saying that. I can relate.
@diamondburke28
10 ай бұрын
I know this sounds harsh but i wouldn't want to have a baby with someone who first thought when she has something go wrong at her job is to just quit. Adults have responsibilities and bills dont pay themselves, children do what they want, good luck to you buddi your in for a long road of being the sole provider, sounds like a road to resentment to me
@boston312
10 ай бұрын
She will be a stay at home mom while he works himself to death. If the divorce come the system will reward her with his pension, assets, alimony and child support.
@AmukaAkuma
10 ай бұрын
Unlike women, men don't have a choice. He messed up.
@WoodyJ98
10 ай бұрын
Adults are indentured servants in America. We just work so that the problems don’t apply to us
@calebhenderson6507
10 ай бұрын
Thank you! And she wants to go into more debt... but she doesn't have a plan to pay off the first degree...
@madscientist3665
7 ай бұрын
My ex-wife went through a ridiculous amount of jobs within a couple of years, claiming "stress" and "depression" were the causes of her quitting. Me, trying to be supportive but realistic, told her that we would make it financially BUT that's going to look like crap on a resume. Well, the "stress and depression" continued, even while unemployed and watching TikTok and screwing around on Snapchat during the day and doing NOTHING to help upkeep the house. The moral of the story is 1. No matter how stressed and depressed you get, you still have to make a living and 2. If you have someone willing to support you, don't bite the hand that feeds with lazy, self-entitled behavior. Dave is right. SUCK IT UP.
@jennierobinson5655
5 ай бұрын
I worked for my parents for 13 years before quitting. I quit 2 jobs within a year, because I had no idea what I wanted to do. Each time I wondered if I was quitting because I was weak, or if it really was a bad fit. My current job I absolutely love! And quite frankly I don't regret taking those other jobs. It helped me progress a lot. But yes I agree most people who quit often is because it's too hard or their boss criticized them.
@jennierobinson5655
5 ай бұрын
And honestly what made me realize I wasn't a quitter is when my boss completely chewed me out. I apologized, expressed how I messed up, how I would do better, and went back to work more determined. Lol it sounds weird but working under my parents seriously made me question my capabilities in the real world. I did make mistakes, I still make mistakes, but I am happy where I am at. Hard work is the best satisfaction. I can't even quite describe it. It sucks and is rewarding all at once. Lol and that is my rant.
@2023Red
10 ай бұрын
He married a kid. At 23 and pregnant, she has you roped in. Plan on getting a 2nd job because this PG honey wants to be a mommy and have you foot the bill. Forever.
@jeff-ds2pr
5 ай бұрын
Yep. Seen that movie a million times. You'd be amazed how many of these women get a Masters Degree with tons of debt, many never even work in their field of study, than end up finding some simp (like this guy) who works himself to death to support her and the kids.
@williamerazo3921
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. These fools want to get marry and be broke
@MrMisanthrope1RBjr
5 ай бұрын
Here's some great financial advice from me, don't get married. Your welcome
@jennpul1015
5 ай бұрын
It's irresponsible of him to impreggnate her when he knows that they can't afford a baby. They're both irresponsible.
@2023Red
5 ай бұрын
@@jennpul1015 I think many of us were unplanned and by unresponsible people decades ago. I just have trouble visualizing a young man and woman sitting around with coffee and then planning a conception. Nope, usually hot pants after drinks. Your thoughts!
@Mr.Boring_Man
10 ай бұрын
She's doesn't want to work now, and she'll likely not work after having the kid. Very few people work in a field that makes them feel good all the time. It serves a purpose. For her, it's paying the student loans she racking up on a degree she likely won't use. He sounds like a very supportive husband who will soon become an ex-husband because "she's no longer happy" and call him a narcissist. Sounds like she's making it everyone else's job to make her feel good. Smh. I hope I'm wrong but this sounds utterly ridiculous and childish and I think he's trying his best to put her in a good light.
@Joenzinator
10 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head. Definitely a future ex with this one. She's not able to put long-term goals over her immediate desire to feel good, which is essentially the mentality of a toddler.
@AmukaAkuma
10 ай бұрын
The timing of the kid is also more than suspicious. These days you can, and should, try and plan when to get serious about having kids. She now gets the pregnancy as an excuse for not doing anything. Hope I am wrong, but he is likely in for a lifetime of hurt.
@mpeugeot
10 ай бұрын
Of course, since he's military, she'll get all the cash and prizes. He's just a starter husband. Ramsey didn't give him anything useful.
@RD24LFG
10 ай бұрын
Yupp. She's 23. If she's decent looking she will have the child then wait a bit, then leave him for a guy who can give her the resources financially she wants without having to work.
@glidkomer
10 ай бұрын
@@mpeugeot 🎰.....💰🏥👶👶👶🍔🌭🥪🍕🍟🍿🍹🍸🍷🛏️💊🛀💅🤳🤧🤒🤕✈️
@tshandy1
10 ай бұрын
Can I say that when Mr. Ramsey talks tough like this, I get chills of delight! His kids are so lucky he was their father.
@PremiumFuelOnly
9 ай бұрын
During the start of the call, I knew a dress down was coming.
@melissachartres3219
9 ай бұрын
Yes... of course you can say it. Just use a question mark at the end of questions... that's all we ask.
@michelles22
10 ай бұрын
What a patient and understanding, loving and supportive husband. He'll always carry her and anxieties if he doesn't stand ground more firm on responsibilities.
@hollystiener16
9 ай бұрын
He does sound wonderful. She is lucky!
@Paola-jf2qf
8 ай бұрын
Working during the first trimester is hard. You're so tired, the morning sickness, your brain is mush. I stopped working during my pregnancy. I just got back to work when my son was 3 and my daughter was 1 and a half.
@mominthe209
10 ай бұрын
I just retired from the mental health field. Must of us never did well in math and had to work through our own issues to be effective therapists. She needs to work out her issues with her own therapist. She cannot effectively help others until this happens. Being a therapist can be tough because you may represent the person that your client has the issue with-transference. And clients can be cruel and you learn to develop a thick skin. I also worked with someone that retired and she never worked through her problems. She was a nightmare to everyone including herself. She could just never see it was her most of the time. Encourage your wife to get therapy before any decisions are made. A masters degree will be a minimum of 50k.
@gurgashmire
8 ай бұрын
I have been considering becoming a mental health therapist. I’m thinking I could hypothetically get the masters for it in two more years of school (I have 4 years of college in other things, though related). What is some advice you might have for me in pursuing the education, and also knowing it’s there right career fit for me? (I am a married male)
@wwilliams4743
7 ай бұрын
I've spent the last 20 years as a stay at home mom, and it's been worth every dollar I didn’t earn. Now that my kids are older, I'm excited about starting my second career. I hope this family can make some good decisions and get that mom home if that's her desire.
@rajbeekie7124
10 ай бұрын
This dude is in for a rough ride. The wife is playing him. As soon as the baby comes she will want to be a stay home mom.
@t206kid
10 ай бұрын
100% and because she makes very little, she will use her lack of income as an excuse to stay at home because childcare will cost a lot in comparison to what she makes. He is stuck between a rock and a hard place. Being that he is in the Navy, and I am assuming young like her that he has a trajectory to make a lot in the navy and be taken care of in the future
@Giopowered
10 ай бұрын
That debt will double within a year easy. Good thing he’s in the navy, the government can assist her child needs and they live rent free
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
9 ай бұрын
Isn’t this what most men say they want to go back to though?
@Rahbinah
9 ай бұрын
@@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Exactly. They can't have it both ways
@DobberOT
9 ай бұрын
@@Rahbinahmost guys aren’t opposed to someone being a SAHM… it’s just that the girl has clear mental health issues she needs to deal with and they are not setting boundaries as a couple. She’s clearly trying to avoid working because she doesn’t like it, she’ll twist his arm to let her stay home, and she is never going back to work again. Plus they only make like $80k combined with close to $60k in debt from her SL. He’s shitting himself
@ShaySwag18
6 ай бұрын
Those with mental health issues sometimes make the best psychologists because they can relate to their patients on a personal level. That being said, there are a lot of people that never find meaning in their work. There are going to be mean/rude coworkers, customers, etc. With her quitting jobs the way she does, my mom and a friend of mine both have BPD and do the same thing, so maybe get an official diagnosis and find a treatment plan for her!
@mjax8614
10 ай бұрын
Great joint performance...Dave;s response is great and you can see that Rachel cares.
@slow9573
7 ай бұрын
Take the plunge and support her in being a stay-at-home mom. That's not to say she won't have contentment issues later on (she will), but let her heal at home with children.
@MsWhitneyS2
4 ай бұрын
As a social worker, this is very concerning. Social work is a tough field, underappreciated at times, has a stigma and you need to have tough skin. I don't think mental health field is best for her until she works on her own
@stevenporter863
10 ай бұрын
3:24 She didn't complain at this job until two months ago. But only been there six months! That is only four months, a little longer than the 90 day evaluation.😂😂😂😂
@lyndalamb3221
10 ай бұрын
If I were this man, there's no way I would fund her grad school. He needs to pay for counseling for her not for a degree so she can counsel others.
@hollystiener16
9 ай бұрын
I think the same
@Coolkem1
5 ай бұрын
I agree!
@eroane
2 ай бұрын
I’ve been working for 20 years at my retail job and yes it has its good and bad days and I just keep going whether I like it or not…No job is perfect as perfect doesn’t exist!!!!
@elmarsupial6483
10 ай бұрын
She doesn't want to work.
@MoonFoxASMR
5 ай бұрын
Major red flags in his language- "my plan", "her debt", me/mine/her/hers..... you're MARRIED and a team...
@skyrobin4008
10 ай бұрын
She’s ready to be a SAHM already. I get it’s a dream of many women to be able to stay home with their kids. It just sucks that you don’t prepare for that from the beginning. You go through school, take out tons of debt, and then get married and then leave your husband to cover everything. But yes babies. Yes, be a mom yes wonderful blah blah blah.
@globalreviews6657
10 ай бұрын
Exactly… this country is way too expensive for one income household
@christinebutler7630
10 ай бұрын
But then they still want to howl that they want to be equal. They don't want their husband to be the boss of them, even though he that pays the piper calls the tune. They want "help" all the damn time, like they didn't sign up for the house and the kids to be their job. They think they still should be able to go play and hang with friends whenever they want, like they're still the high school cheerleader. They think they're much too good for scrubbing and cooking, but they want a damn medal for being moms.
@glidkomer
10 ай бұрын
That was the goal from the jump. She already had a plan in place. Be riddled with issues, be a "mommy", keep complaining, cry, wear the badge of "victim" and make excuses not to financially provide. She wanna be taken care of 🙄. Ugh 😒.
@hornetguy9063
10 ай бұрын
@@globalreviews6657 it can be done. Where the caller is from, median home price is $300k. Probably could afford that off of $75k and definitely could off of $100k, income levels he could easily achieve in the Navy. But how does it get impossible? Well, when someone brings in $57k of student loan debt for a degree that they aren’t using and having a man try to take financially care of a home when he’s 23 years old.
@hornetguy9063
10 ай бұрын
@@christinebutler7630 it’s so annoying to hear SAHMs complain about the burden at home for exactly what you described. If it’s so hard, then you go earn all of the money and let the husband take care of the kid and house.
@andrea6053
5 ай бұрын
Social work has a high turnover rate. It’s easy to get burned out.
@nathanielhaberle638
3 ай бұрын
Everything you’re describing is my wife in a nutshell. She likely has ADHD, it can mask as anxiety, makes her impulsively change careers and look for variety, struggles to find meaning in her life/work, and her instincts always lead to more education (debt) and typically lower paying jobs for some reason. Usually, these sudden changes come from being told she’s not doing something perfect and then she feels like she can’t do anything well and it’s easier to get a fresh start somewhere else. Good news I’ve gone through 14 1/2 years of this so you don’t have to. Get her a behavioral therapist to help her create systems she can use. Men can find meaning in doing the same repetitive task 8 hrs a day Mon-Fri if they see a tangible result. Women do not work like this because she can’t see anything tangible in what she is doing.
@brucesmith9144
10 ай бұрын
She let herself get pregnant as an out to working. Going to graduate school to get another degree will add to her student debt load which the husband will have to bear while she is “happy” at home. This marriage is heading into troubled waters quickly.
@shantaeevans3339
9 ай бұрын
Let herself he got her pregnant 😂
@Euletar
9 ай бұрын
How did she let herself get pregnant?😂😂you funny He impregnated her,so he also responsible for that..Want no child? Then both should not have s*x😂😂
@allhailsunshine052
9 ай бұрын
Dude is also an enabler and an idiot
@yourgooglemeister6745
10 ай бұрын
Who would have thought that helping out parasitic people would not be fulfilling??? Should have called Aaron Clarey
@alimarie67
4 ай бұрын
I bet she would find meaning in her work if she had to pay her own bills 🤣🤣🤣
@deborahd2936
9 ай бұрын
Well the other option is find an office job that you can do more easily, maybe for slightly less pay. If it’s really that bad on her mind, then take a pay cut and keep working. I empathize with her not feeling like she can do the job she went to school for. It’s sad, but maybe that’s not what she can handle now. Needs to take time working doing other things and decide if she wants to return.
@Songbird36able
5 ай бұрын
What in the world do people be thinking about when they get married??? You can't tell me he didn't know she was like this. He's gonna be raising that child alone while dealing with her temper tantrums.
@kessaguillory2841
5 ай бұрын
Love his response!!!!💯💥 Suck it up, butter cup. This is life!!
@a.jpurple6515
9 ай бұрын
Social workers are a godsend. How do you become a psychologist if you cannot handle the stress of a social worker? As an ER nurse, they have so much more empathy and patience than my coworkers. Is this really the correct career path?
@isabellahodge4162
2 ай бұрын
If there's one thing you teach your kids it's not to give in to adversity at the first shaky moment. Pushing through issues makes you more resilient. Of course it does depend on the issues, there are toxic issues in both work and relationships that you should not stick around for. But everyone has bad days at work, days you feel you've let yourself down, days where you feel the pressures are unfair, days you wonder why you're doing this, you're not feeling happy etc etc. My advice was always to have a good night's sleep and see what tomorrow will bring. Also, you're generally not working for happiness, you're working for a pay cheque. Endurance of small irritations is an ability that develops with practice and it's also part of developing maturity. I do have a 23 year old daughter btw, and I'd be very unhappy if she got pregnant at such a young age, with so much debt, and no demonstrated ability to look after herself apart from relying on her partner to do so.
@jeanlaubenthal698
6 ай бұрын
Being passionate in your job has a lot to do with the person …saying I make a difference.
@robr268
10 ай бұрын
Advice from a man who wife NEVER worked
@sharondoan1447
4 ай бұрын
This young husband, soon to be father sounds like such a nice person. I hope he knows his needs and hopes for the future count as much as does his wife’s. She is not being a good partner right now and I don’t see her becoming one anytime soon.
@JoshDeCoster
9 ай бұрын
I have the privilege of working in a job I love and working in music on the side which I love, and I think there is a ton of misinformation going around causing people to think “I have to be happy 24/7 or else I need to find new work.” Most of the time even if you are doing things you love, it’s hard work and not always enjoyable
@just_ro9308
7 ай бұрын
Being allowed to stay at home during pregnancy and my son's first 3 years is the greatest gift my love has given me (after my son and soon to arrive daughter). We do not go out to eat or on holiday, we don't buy clothes (toddlers are second hand or kind gifts from grandma) and we have no hobbies. We do still have debt from renovating our kitchen as well as our mortgage but I am lucky that he agreed with me this was right for us in their first few years.
@SheilahDavisHypnosis
9 ай бұрын
I've worked numerous jobs in my life. The unhealthiest colleagues were in the counseling professions and social work. I always chalked it up to the stress of the jobs.
@jimt6151
9 ай бұрын
If she thinks all those jobs are so tough, she's in for a rude awakening when that toxic, mean, rude baby arrives!
@noona514
9 ай бұрын
Exactly. A baby will bully the heck outta you. And you won't be sleeping for months.
@scottanderson9656
9 ай бұрын
Social workers get paid basically minimum wage and if she wants to be a therapist she needs 2 years of grad school plus 3 years of working for next to nothing until she gets her license, or whatever it's called. If I was him I'd leave now.
@niecybaby1960
2 ай бұрын
She’s never sucked it up! I love it! I’m so tempted to go somewhere else with that statement but I won’t. These mental diagnoses is just another way to keep people from holding them accountable. It’s a difficult field to work in. So that’s what she going to have to accept the job she’s paying all this money for is hard and if she can’t do it she should stop now. Find something else. He shouldn’t support her going back to school and running up more debt with a career she can’t handle. And what’s even scarier is she’s getting ready to have a baby. As if that’s easy.
@barrbarr31u
9 ай бұрын
"I OWN this place, and some days I hate it."- Dave
@elmobolan4274
5 ай бұрын
I've ALWAYS hated wking, I will NEVER find happiness in a job. If I didn't wk, I'd be so happy, but I have to live in the real world...😞
@literology1329
7 ай бұрын
The woman described is not equipped to be a psychologisy or social worker. She needs a different field.
@karenk2409
9 ай бұрын
Wife is work-avoidant. If I was having a life crisis and was faced with a 23 year old therapist, I would have laughed on my way out.
@lisalee8074
3 ай бұрын
I have two daughters that are social workers and it's not unusual that social workers change jobs. I will tell you that social worker jobs are very abundant. She will find her spot in social work it takes time. I do agree sometimes you have to stick out that job until you find another job
@jayjay50444
9 ай бұрын
So glad he was being honest with this man. This guy needed to hear this.
@kristinejackson5522
9 ай бұрын
Wifey has tons of red flags around her!!! Job hopping, everybody’s fault, & too many excuses! She needs help!
@bludika
9 ай бұрын
lmao "psychology degree"
@liesascott5414
5 ай бұрын
First off - I became a psychologist in Germany where you chose your line of work at age 16 or 18, long before you build up grown up neuroses. Every psychologist or therapist I have met so far in the US is his/her beast own customer, neurotic and screwed up like text book examples. She is 23, hates to go to work, has giant amounts of debt and wants to quit working? Why did you get pregnant now? Don't you see you are setting yourself and the baby up to continue the same circle of misery you have experienced? 23 is very young to have a baby for many reasons. She finally want's a "daddy" (husband)" to take care of her and fix everything. That is as immature as it get's. The poor baby.
@genxx2724
9 ай бұрын
That’s why “work” is a four-letter word.
@noahsgarden7072
6 ай бұрын
That social worker stress is next level yall
@maryestheraustin2505
5 ай бұрын
Military life is not easy. Navy has excellent medical benefits. 23 is very young. Social work without masters is very difficult. Military culture is very difficult. Naval family services.
@stuff1784
9 ай бұрын
This lady needs to suck it up at this job for now and look for a different social work job in the meantime. Knowing she is looking for another job will help her get through the awful one she’s dealing with now. Going back to school is NOT the answer! Especially when you haven’t paid off your undergrad loans yet!
@noelleirina5628
Ай бұрын
She's only 23. It's normal to change jobs a lot when you're a student and that young. what's not normal is having kids that young without even having a stable job. not even being done with studying!
@AlphaAchilles
5 ай бұрын
There is no meaning in work other than making money. It doesn’t matter.
@ccl70x7
8 ай бұрын
I know this woman. She is me. She needs weekly counseling urgently or anxiety will drive her life forever. She does not need a master's degree. She aint gonna like being a counselor.
@ptulip
9 ай бұрын
She cannot put all that student debt on to her husband. That's really tough and now she's pregnant. 57K in debt and she is saving for an advanced degree?
@rosebote8342
9 ай бұрын
She’s pregnant working in a high emotionally stressed and these men are telling her to toughen up 🫠 why can’t this man toughen up and get a higher paying job so she can stay at home and raise the kids
@JJ-nn9de
9 ай бұрын
Girl...that is long gone, lol. Majority of men want "50/50"----but only when it comes to finances. Everything else can fall on the woman's shoulders like usual. Other than that though, this did not seem like a planned pregnancy. Pretty sure this was her plan to justify unemployment.
@IHateNicolasCage
8 ай бұрын
A 23 year old with no work ethic and chronic anxiety will never help anyone as a psychiatrist.
@warrensloan3467
10 ай бұрын
I’ve been working since I was 15, I’m 36 now, and I haven’t found meaning in my work in my entire life. I recognize it for what it is, a means to provide. Find meaning somewhere else.
@RedRider763
10 ай бұрын
Yea having a job that has meaning is a joke it's basically like going to jail for 10 hours a day
@Lon1001
10 ай бұрын
Yes working for a wage rather than to just directly provide for your own basic needs will pretty much always feel meaningless. When I'm splitting firewood I feel that it has more meaning than when I'm slugging through paperwork & engineering dwgs or updating databases even though that pays much more money than I can make chopping my own firewood.
@jackochukpue8365
10 ай бұрын
I totally agree! Some look for validation from doing a good job at work. I dont hate or discpize my work I just dont feel any worse or better after doing it lol
@CarnivoreStork
10 ай бұрын
Thanks you for saying that Warren. And if you can find ‘meaning’ in your work, that is the icing on the cake and not the goal. The goal is to provide your employer with someone who is dependable and that is justified in his wages. All this mental babble that young people are buying into means eventually there will be no one to build a house or apts; No one to cook & teach in schools. The future is bleak.
@maximusdecimusmeridius5438
10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@wwilliams4743
7 ай бұрын
I've told my children repeatedly that they'll rarely find fulfillment in employment. Fulfillment comes from spending time with your family, church, friends.
@ronanhunt88
3 ай бұрын
Great advice
@ezekielgdk
3 ай бұрын
Yep. You need contentment in work not fulfillment
@musicandpoetry_8
2 ай бұрын
Working at a job where you’re miserable is not what I want to do if that’s what you’re implying.
@musicandpoetry_8
2 ай бұрын
Why is it bad to want fulfillment at a job where you’re happy and feel like you’re making a difference? The people in these comments are a stick in the mud
@ezekielgdk
2 ай бұрын
@@musicandpoetry_8 You can enjoy your work for sure, It's more of finding a Job that you can be content with and not hate it. If you can find a fulfilling job by all means go for it but no job is perfect.
@philliprogers2383
10 ай бұрын
She has a history of getting fired and quitting jobs. She can't handle her jobs and gets easily frustrated. She has trouble getting along with people at her jobs. These are not qualities of a good therapist.
@joelplatt2651
10 ай бұрын
My experience is that clinical therapy is the blind leading the blind, so she sounds perfect for the job
@paulatristan8189
10 ай бұрын
💯 percent facts 👍🏽🎉
@christopherpaige406
10 ай бұрын
Not just that but a quality, functional member of society.
@gbear34
10 ай бұрын
Yeahhhhh seems like often shrinks and counselors and such enter those fields to try and better understand themselves.... which doesn't work and is way more expensive than simply going and getting counseling. Lol
@lot2196
10 ай бұрын
@@joelplatt2651Agree.
@nsant
10 ай бұрын
All of her clients when she's a therapist: "Things are getting hard. " Her: "Just quit"
@glidkomer
10 ай бұрын
😆🏃
@jacobmoreno6339
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@rubired123
9 ай бұрын
😂
@bird7464
9 ай бұрын
haha
@jayeleee
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@qhasijamandicw7018
10 ай бұрын
@Hellsing12002
10 ай бұрын
Imagine having over 50k in student loans and not even making $15 an hour.
@samanthat7553
9 ай бұрын
Imagine even more than that, thinking if you sink yourself even further into debt and get a bigger degree that it will be worth it. I'm 31 and I see this with more and more friends everyday. They're not satisfied with their income (lifestyle creep) so they get more degrees and it just keeps perpetuating
@stus2159
9 ай бұрын
@@samanthat7553 yea but 15 an hour full time is not enough to live alone in todays world.
@hollystiener16
9 ай бұрын
She is only 23 and has a husband. She will be fine. Unless he divorces her, which he probably eventually will.
@dorgana225
8 ай бұрын
I don't need to. That was most of my adult life. Only been making more than that for about a year. I also owe 15k more than them. The lie that we've been sold on higher education. I am so thankful someone gifted me FPU a couple of years ago, or my life would look so different now. Edited for typos.
@ancarlson7
8 ай бұрын
Just crazy… social workers can make 80k easy.
@reign0ffire88
10 ай бұрын
As I tell my wife I'm a psychologist for 95% of my day and I do eye exams (I'm actually an optometrist). Healthcare is not for the faint of heart if you're not emotionally stable. If his wife just wants to be a stay at home wife then help clear the debt in 2 years and then stay home with the kids. No shame in that.
@hhf4312
6 ай бұрын
Believe me , the pattern is that she can’t handle any stress. She will not like being house wife either.
@pm2886
5 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@j.t.1086
5 ай бұрын
The majority of quality "psychologists" I've met have actually been medical doctors.
@Trysaratop
9 күн бұрын
@@hhf4312flawed, you clearly aren’t a woman or don’t have kids. Being pregnant takes a lot out of a woman especially the first couple of months it’s emotional wreck. He is in the military it’s ok for her to focus on the family first then help clear some debt when the child gets older.
@John-bd9fj4435
7 ай бұрын
I genuinely mean it when I express my stress and concern regarding the market crash and high inflation, particularly in relation to my retirement. I have been experiencing losses for quite some time, and while some may argue that crises can present opportunities, I am feeling overwhelmed. However, I understand that investing is a long-term endeavor, and it is crucial to maintain focus on the bigger picture and the long run.
@handsomebarber424
10 ай бұрын
The types of people wanting to become a psychologist is alarming
@Tehui1974
7 ай бұрын
The lunatics are running the asylum.
@thanosianthemadtitanic
6 ай бұрын
and they all usually got major mental problems themselves😂
@carolynmurphy3697
6 ай бұрын
@@thanosianthemadtitanic and they have therapists themselves
@thanosianthemadtitanic
6 ай бұрын
@@carolynmurphy3697 therapyception
@shawnaaustin3396
5 ай бұрын
Just like ex addicts wanting to be rehab therapists. I always hear people praising those types.
@3ddiEdotcom
10 ай бұрын
She doesn't handle anxiety well? Boy, is SHE in for a rude awakening when that baby shows up. 👶
@matshepherd118
6 ай бұрын
Raising children is in women’s nature. They were not made to slave away at the widget factory. It’s demonic that weak men for their wife to go serve another man.
@heiditate6989
6 ай бұрын
For sure!
@believestthouthis7
5 ай бұрын
She's likely hormonal and emotional because she's pregnant and... a woman. She may be far better at home doing what women were physically designed by God to do. Dave is telling her to suck it up as a 23 year old pregnant woman? The first thing I thought was she needs to go home and stay home to raise her child. For many women that will bring fulfillment above and beyond a career. She wants to help people? She can help her own family. Why is the default to boot the wife and mother out of the house to make an income? That's nowhere in the Bible. Titus 2:4-5 KJV 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. 1 Timothy 5:14 KJV - I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
@Kim-bv3xn
4 ай бұрын
She not gonna work period post partum
@believestthouthis7
4 ай бұрын
@@Kim-bv3xn I wonder why people are so opposed to the idea of mother staying home with her own child? Dave Ramsey has said that his wife was at home raising their children while he was working, but when there are callers that suggest such a thing he tells them to get to work.
@AstaKristjan
9 ай бұрын
Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!
@Erinmills98
9 ай бұрын
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority. I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time.
@simonbad
9 ай бұрын
Exactly. That's my major concern and what kind of profitable business or investment can someone do with the current rise in economic downturn
@Andrian-ch3on
9 ай бұрын
I have been investing in stocks for over 3 years now and I have made nothing less that $400k in ROI. My portfolio has grown exponentially. Will advise you consider stocks inveestment.
@debrab7844
9 ай бұрын
I find this interesting. Could you please provide me with the means to get in touch with your Adviser? I am concerned about my dwindling portfolio.
@Andrian-ch3on
9 ай бұрын
”Michelle Christine Parker” is the lady's name. I first saw her on a goldman sachs' report, then on Smart Advisors, and immediately looked her up on the internet; it was the best decision I've made to stay afloat in these crazy times. She has been outstanding.
@keesanderson
10 ай бұрын
Very few 23 year olds have the emotional maturity, life experience and wisdom to effectively counsel others, and that’s without taking unresolved issues into consideration. Not to mention, the therapy fields teach students to be mindful of their own impairment so as to protect their clients from further harm-it’s even written into their code of ethics. I admire this woman’s desire to help others, but she needs a hard reset on her priorities: self-care, basic responsibilities, then purpose and meaning.
@derekd1510
10 ай бұрын
She's so young. She should focus on therapy for herself and being a mom. There's plenty of time after she figures out her own issues and raises the kid to school age to finish her degree and find a meaningful career.
@davidhale4647
10 ай бұрын
And now she will be a mom at 23 more stress
@TonyCox1351
10 ай бұрын
This is an example of why 23 is too young to get married and have kids for many people. Go live your life, make mistakes, come back and get married in 5 more years.
@chrisrose2690
10 ай бұрын
FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@WiseAilbhean
10 ай бұрын
@@davidhale4647 At 13 I was trying to get a job 😂 By college years was doing so many temp jobs that it lead to my first permante job at age 23 and I kept it for nearly 15yrs before I moved on to the next. Every interview I been on they were shocked I kept a job for so long. I didn’t understand them at all. But for the position it worked in my favor because it showed loooong term commitment. If his wife keeps bouncing around, she will become unemployable. Employers want commitment on some level. She’s better off creating her career that fits what ever it is she is searching for. So I don’t know I guess as they say everyone is different.
@irishboy415
10 ай бұрын
“I own this place and I hate this place sometimes”That had me laughing so hard. True insight from Dave. Life is full of contrast. Embrace it and fall forward.
@timrichmond1161
10 ай бұрын
Crypto scammer
@priscillaperez9214
10 ай бұрын
Work is work.
@rachelcrossen8136
9 ай бұрын
This was the best comment ever!
@calebmallen
10 ай бұрын
She's a 23 year old emotionally volatile teenager right now. She needs to mature and catch up with her current situation.
@glidkomer
10 ай бұрын
Agreed. Get counseling for her issues too.
@davidhale4647
10 ай бұрын
Yikes she is pregnant also
@dorahmulinge3800
10 ай бұрын
Teenagehood ends at 19
@SandraLuz3
9 ай бұрын
Social worker, she must be so stressed. I was a teacher aide for an elementary school. And the children are so broken, and have so many issues, at such a young age. There's only so much you can do to help them.
@SNYhandle
9 ай бұрын
She might have _Asperger’s;_ such individuals rarely function without meaning in their work. She should avoid jobs where there’s small talk, formalities & red tape. Sounds like me before I knew
@whyjordie
9 ай бұрын
Tell her to get a job serving tables, she’ll make WAY more than $30k. I served tables my entire 10 years of my 20s and tbh it was the most rewarding job I’ve ever had. I love talking to people and helping them and that job made me feel very very rewarded. I felt like a psychologist with my tables sometimes
@susiem.2068
9 ай бұрын
I don't know if she will be able to keep an active job where she has to stay up for long if she's already pregnant.
@ludwigvonmiseswasright4380
9 ай бұрын
@@susiem.2068 Working one day and taking two off to rest is very do-able. Just have to work part time.
@nunnunnunyabizzie2345
9 ай бұрын
She has anxiety-that line of work will be torture for her.
@run4cmt
9 ай бұрын
I gave the same advice. Work, it does not have to be in your college major. Teach substitute school.
@analyticalchick3064
9 ай бұрын
I make $17 an hour at a grocery store. It's one of many part time jobs I have. That actually comes to $13 an hour so I wonder if she's part time or something.
@shanawargadhi
10 ай бұрын
Love the AQ384J content. I think this project is just as essential as HBAR and they both will be great movers
@TNFVLOGS
10 ай бұрын
She’s gonna want to be a stay at home mom…I already see this coming everything financially will be on him soon
@Dan16673
10 ай бұрын
Divorce will occur
@alqoshgirl
10 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with that! You men are sick in the head not wanting to work and provide for your family. A woman home can safe a ton of money and in many cases is way better for the family
@nicolcacola
10 ай бұрын
Hes a man who has to have his wife work? Yall can't provide then complain when you have to.
@bornaries7213
10 ай бұрын
Men generally should expect that if they are married and they are having sex with their wives unprotected that she possibly will conceive their child! That is something that men need to factor in before they get their wives pregnant! Its life and it happens in case you didn't know that! Ridiculous!
@christopherpaige406
10 ай бұрын
@@alqoshgirl you're delusional
@Bradleyschaeffer376
9 ай бұрын
We are a 6 figure income couple and had very little saved and not much cash lying around the preverbal". '...don't have $500 for an emergency" that was us. The big thing was debt all kinds of it, cars mortgage (although our home isn't a high price one), student loans for our kids, and of course credit cards. One day we just got sick of being broke and went total scorched earth and became frugal overnight. Paid it all off, it took almost 5 years but now we have no debt and this year our savings rate is 50% on basically the same income that had us perpetually broke. So for us it is mainly staying out of debt and watching our spending, at first it was a real effort to save in our HISA and 401Ks but now it's actually fun watching our money grow. No car or vacation or neighborhood is worth being broke or financially unstable.
@GaryWinstonBrown
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations on taking the steps necessary to get yourself out of the financial bind you were in.
@Seanmirrer
9 ай бұрын
Taking your medicine can be tough. But in the end, if you are committed, you will end up in a very satisfactory position. It's all about what you're willing to do.
@Bradleyschaeffer376
9 ай бұрын
Samuel Peter Descovich that's whom I work with
@Bradleyschaeffer376
9 ай бұрын
I believe everyone could benefit from having a personal financial advisor. They can assist you in reaching your customized financial objectives at any point, ensuring you remain profitable.
@Bradleyschaeffer376
9 ай бұрын
You can glance his name up on the internet and verify him yourself. he has years of financial market experience...‹>
@brettrichards8332
10 ай бұрын
She’s wanting to help people but needs help herself.
@Omar_Zazzle
10 ай бұрын
Sounds like she is just lazy.
@mustangthings
10 ай бұрын
That’s why she got pregnant right around the time she started to hate her job. Darn, time to be a stay at home mom!
@Giopowered
10 ай бұрын
Most therapists lol
@barberjungle
10 ай бұрын
That's why they usually pick that job title.
@paulaqueirosz
9 ай бұрын
Exactly. Put the oxygen mask on yourself before helping others...
@saifullahgamingyt01
10 ай бұрын
You are one of the most sophisticated and brilliant KZitemr/content creator I watch, and 1million percent the very best in finance. I appreciate all of your content thank you for AQ384J much love from Chicago
@staceyculver4892
9 ай бұрын
As a licensed social worker and independently licensed therapist, I cant tell you how many peers went into this field to fix themselves. But front that its to help others. This guy’s wife needs to sort out her own issues. She is going to project all that on her baby and future clients if she even gets that far in her career.
@alizaquintanilla
7 ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking!!!!
@oldandtiredshouldberetired3436
7 ай бұрын
Issues? Have you ever been a social worker. It's very stressful and even dangerous. Not a good place for a pregnant woman to work.
@Tehui1974
7 ай бұрын
I totally agree with what you said.
@jameshetu6885
Ай бұрын
This guy needs to say no to the extra degree. That’s just more money down the drain with no roi. He should find her a good counselor and let her be a stay at home mom. This happens over and over. Women get these degrees and become psychologists and then drop out of the field. There is actually a shortage at the moment. Personally I think that’s because women dominate the field but can’t handle it emotionally and leave. Men a discouraged from entering because it’s portrayed as a “women’s” job. So you get high turnover and shortages. But this guy needs that drain on the family income like a hole in the head. Just say NO!
@saroj-yc5zx
10 ай бұрын
Great video as always. I notice that you display the AQ384J ! I just got some too!
@gvwj
8 ай бұрын
I work in Adult Protection Services for the country. I about spit my coffee out when i heard she sat around for a MONTH "waiting for a phone call" that led to an irreversible action. That girl needs to start working at McDonald's to learn some basic leadership skills first before trying to "help" people's pyche.
@Anatomy134
5 ай бұрын
Honestly I loved working at McDonald’s when I did 😂 it’s a very low stress job and they pay decent with benefits
@susannovak8263
3 ай бұрын
What country are you from? I’m not aware that the United States has an adult protection services department. I could be wrong.
@gvwj
2 ай бұрын
@@susannovak8263 From the USA. Most of my cases are adults who are a danger to themselves and/or neglected by their caregivers- usually adult children or spouses who neglects the client. Other times they have no family and need assistance to handle their cares. We network with other facilities and so "waiting a month for a phones" is unacceptable.
@dahliaherrod4301
2 ай бұрын
@@susannovak8263every state has its own adult services department. It's comparable to the children's services department. They mostly handle the elderly and the physically and mentally handicapped.
@ylemowove1235-pq2oj
10 ай бұрын
Great video. Im a huge AQ384J fan and love your videos on it.
@Runningformylife04
10 ай бұрын
It’s so weird listening to this because my husband practically begged me to leave my toxic job I had been at for over 12 years and I had the hardest time letting go because they had a great 401k contribution and other good benefits. I finally pulled the plug and found a new job with a fresh start but I felt like a failure quitting after almost 13 years!
@vianjelos
9 ай бұрын
12 yrs is not the same as 6 months. In your case your job was likely the issue and you shouldn't be ashamed..you tried for 12 yrs!! But lets be honest..SHE is the issue here not her job. 6 months and still training on the computer(at 23, I'm 30 and we were taught basic computer skills in school including the Microsoft suite) her Co workers aren't mean they are annoyed that her mess ups make more work for them. And her track record of bouncing from job to job is a clear indicator that she is the problem. All workplaces have their own issues..you deal with it and move on when you get a better offer. Also she has over 50k in debt but is making only 30k per year and wants to quit this job again despite not knowing if she will find another or even if she wants to work elsewhere...if she wasn't married she'd be drowing.
@Adaawo
9 ай бұрын
It's literally not the same situation. She's a quitter
@katew.176
8 ай бұрын
She's in heavy debt. And who is going to pay for it? Him? I got pregnant in a similar situation and sucked it up and worked. Don't have unprotected sex when you need to work. She honestly sounds manipulative. There's no comparison.
@karlabritfeld7104
8 ай бұрын
I hear you!!
@galaxyglitterlatte4664
7 ай бұрын
😮😮😮I left a company after 24 years due to an extremely toxic work environment. Sooooo many of my coworkers died at in their 40s/50s and early 60s. I'm convinced it was due to the poisonous atmosphere and heavy workload. The company had VERY good benefits and great pay but what good would that do me if I'm 6 ft under??? I found a job that pays much less but I'm not constantly on edge and the workload is a piece of cake. There are regrets I have about leaving the other job but I have to remind myself of how unhappy I was. It was like a black cloud following me around 24/7. I no longer have that black cloud. I was ALWAYS worried about getting fired because it was soooo hard keeping up with the work.
@Error-mx1jk
10 ай бұрын
The meaning in your work is a paycheck. Everything else is bonus
@og6433
5 ай бұрын
Exactly. Especially, when she has a debt of $57K.
@musicandpoetry_8
2 ай бұрын
You’re not working the right job then
@XXnickles
10 ай бұрын
Oh, I used to have her problems...that until I realized I WAS THE PROBLEM. Once I changed my mind set, started developing the actual skills required to perform my job (social ones included, which turns out to be quite important), and understanding why I am being paid and how hard it is to keep a business run, lots of things changed for me and actually I really started to develop my career at that point.
@talyahr3302
10 ай бұрын
Good for you! Proud of you!
@I_Lemaire
10 ай бұрын
I am saving your post, Nickles. It is very inspirational and instructional. Congratulations.
@comment_account2343
10 ай бұрын
A lot of people love to hire women with big dreams to abuse them and feel better about being a middle manager somewhere. But I agree for the social skills, I got let go from an internship once for asking too many questions, and people felt bad about not having answers. I know it wasn't performance related because the other division we worked for had me come back to present because my report was the best one they had seen in 10 years.
@heathermetz6576
10 ай бұрын
Absolutely right. When I changed my attitude and my outlook on life, work, etc things improved. If I wasn’t successful, I was the catalyst and no one else.
@Nmdresser
9 ай бұрын
Excellent comment. Extreme ownership.
@lagarde2011
10 ай бұрын
First jobs are tough because it's when you learn that bosses and coworkers can be awful. Accepting that it will likely be the same everywhere is the key to managing a career. Let things roll off, don't react to annoyances, etc. Make a game out of being overly nice to people who suck. Fighting the system will bring misery. Spare your emotional energy for people in your life who matter. Sounds like this girl isn't cut out for social work. No worries, most of us have no clue about a career at age 23. A bachelor's or master's degree in psychology, whatever she has, can be useful in more analytic careers like clinical research.
@littlesongbird1
10 ай бұрын
Agreed. That's why I am so glad I work remote now. It's easier to deal with that stuff when you are not physically near it.
@chicanoazteca8614
10 ай бұрын
If your life experience is that way then that just means you were sheltered and didn't have a clue as to how life worked until you thrown into the thick of it. These are the snowflake types they talk a lot about on this show.
@elizabethallen4353
10 ай бұрын
💯
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
@@littlesongbird1Dave Ramsey wouldn't like you working from home 😂
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
@@chicanoazteca8614ah yes, It's easy just to throw insults
@chicanoazteca8614
10 ай бұрын
The wife sounds very immature. He messed up getting her pregnant. You effed up, dude. When Dave says "and she wants to be a psychologist!?" and the husband laughs, you know it's because he knows it's ridiculous.
@stevenporter863
10 ай бұрын
Wow! I just fell off my chair. Dave didn't take the wife's side.
@Jane5720
10 ай бұрын
She did that on purpose so she wouldn’t have to work
@AmukaAkuma
10 ай бұрын
Also, she want's to go another $50k into debt for a masters. She has daddy issues, and cannot retain a job. The timing of the pregnancy also just happens as she is unhappy in her current position. This dude is in for a lifetime of hurt.
@summerforever6736
10 ай бұрын
Agree
@TonyCox1351
10 ай бұрын
This is why you don’t get married and have kids at 23. Of course she’s immature. I was still a dumb ass kid at 23!
@Dotthel
10 ай бұрын
He married a mess. Poor man. He’s realizing it now.
@christopherpaige406
10 ай бұрын
And can't do a thing about it if the kid is his.
@ykook7000
10 ай бұрын
Omg stop acting like men are being held hostage! Takes 2 to tango He shouldn't have asked her to get married then or got her pregnant This is on him!
@amitchawla5124
10 ай бұрын
lmao 0 self accountability in women these days. @@ykook7000
@christopherpaige406
10 ай бұрын
@@ykook7000 must not be familiar with family law court systems.
@justinstone4476
6 ай бұрын
@ycook7000 lol say it takes two to tango then turn around and say this is on him. Straight foolish. You’re in the exact some boat as the person you are criticizing just on the opposite side. Zero self awareness
Пікірлер: 3,1 М.