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@hildahkageha668
3 жыл бұрын
J
@ncwscmfa4118
3 жыл бұрын
Nana thanks for the motivation
@irennabana3913
3 жыл бұрын
Anywhere I see Nana, I click to watch ......Nana this is soo brave of you!
@peaceatheart101
3 жыл бұрын
This is a story that needs to be shared with everyone, girls and boys, women and men! Silence can no longer be the norm for those who suffer from abuse.
@WanjiruMuya
3 жыл бұрын
This is difficult to watch😢soo sorry for what you went through Nana... If a child tells you they feel uncomfortable around someone be cautious and do your research protect your kids💔🙏
@dianahwanja6701
3 жыл бұрын
Nana my favourite 💓 Nana my hero❤️ Nana my love❤️❤️much love from Europe, nakupnda sana❤️
@pamela_j9199
3 жыл бұрын
This made me shed tears😥😥Nana may God give you the healing you need
@lucymkenya956
3 жыл бұрын
I can't stop crying aki am so sorry Nana,thank u for sharing ur story Swthrt u will heal dear pole sana.....
@kirirocathyjacob7413
3 жыл бұрын
I was 12 when I was raped. My mum had relocated to Kisumu with me and my younger brother and she would go on business trips even for a week and leave me and my younger brother in the house alone. The first time it happened, I told a lady who lived with us .... She told me it's my fault because I have "bedroom eyes". That was the last time I told anyone untill I was 22yrs. It went on for 2 years everytime my mom went away on business and he threatened to kill me and my brother and send my mother to prison if I ever told anyone. Finally I left Kisumu and went back to live with my grandparents and I had changed. I had become angry, rebellious and eventually suicidal. My family just explained it away as "normal teenagehood" . I did a lot of things to hurt other people the way I was hurting. I started stealing, joined a cult and was just outrightly a trouble child. When I was 16 it happened again. But this time it was my cousin and this time I did not even hate my cousin. I had accepted that it was my fault and I thought I deserved it. I have battled with depression and have tried commiting suicide 6 times and my family just know of one. I finally decided to talk to someone after my 6th attempt. By then I was in University and for the first time I started healing. I turn 30 this year and over the last 8 years I have gained the courage to talk about it and to also talk to other people who have gone through the trauma. I have learnt that family do not really handle such things well and I decided to not share with any family member.
@annmureithi9394
3 жыл бұрын
Am so sorry for what you have gone through. It's was not your fault. I hope you find healing.
@osiare
3 жыл бұрын
I know I'm not a prominent person but I now think I should also be called on this platform🥺🥺🥺 We love you nana regardless 🥺❤️❤️
@purejoyke
3 жыл бұрын
I was barely 10 when the rape took place. Also molested by uncles and cousin while mom visited dad in Nairobi, leaving us in Shagz with grandma. Never gained courage to disclose to my parents. The moment I opened up to afew friends last year, my recovery process begun then. I always caution parents who're fond of taking their children to Shagz over holidays while they enjoy life in the city 😥 Personally, I have never trusted my own brother with my children, something that once brought conflict between mom and I. Never trust any man with your children!!
@mercynthemba59
3 жыл бұрын
I thought am the only one, I don't trust no one with my child, for holidays we go together and come back together
@thePrincipalOpiyo
3 жыл бұрын
I have stayed with so many relatives and never molested any
@purejoyke
3 жыл бұрын
@@mercynthemba59 that's how it should be.. you may trust someone but you dn know whom they leave your kids with.
@ndungujoy5777
3 жыл бұрын
Am not yet a parent but what I know is that I will never entrust my kids with anybody
@finebwoy77
3 жыл бұрын
Hi
@shirokarume9464
3 жыл бұрын
Wow these ladies were just smthng else a vibe to work together. As we get to know them better, it's always God's plan for everything under the earth.
@Pst.Patricia
3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭,it also happened to me when I was 8yrs then 12yrs &it still affects me upto now.Vowed to protect my children&educate them on the same.
@dorcasmetah5647
3 жыл бұрын
Waaaah hugs mummy
@sophienyoroka3731
3 жыл бұрын
Hugs mrembo
@lucynjuguna9653
2 жыл бұрын
Hugs girl.speaking up puts an end to the cycle
@Nyarwaiworld
3 жыл бұрын
This is so emotional and sad i can't hold my tears ..am so sorry Nana this has to happen to you.. ❤i really love this woman
@banicewambui4979
3 жыл бұрын
Nana I love you one day I will say the truth without judging myself or questioning my decisions
@susankavai2952
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@mercyachieng2554
3 жыл бұрын
Am with you
@njakwamwandila3644
3 жыл бұрын
My story
@sophienyoroka3731
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@winnieadhiambo9948
2 жыл бұрын
I wanna say the truth to but I'm ashamed and scared😔
@wahinyaabiah
3 жыл бұрын
Hugs to everyone (both ladies and gentlemen) who've gone thru this😭 may God heal you from the trauma 🙏🏿 and we still have very ignorant able parents esp mums🤦🏿♀️ it really aches me
@marygoretti3342
2 жыл бұрын
These relatives are rogues,,one of my mother's relatives also did that to me, gave me some coins , threatened me too .I was eight years it's still fresh and painful in my life today, hate that day ever.
@queenezzywanjiru3582
2 жыл бұрын
God bless his seed we will never die untill devil see our God 🙏
@emmanuelmwangi2514
3 жыл бұрын
You are very brave for coming out with this story.you are helping out lots of women out here
@fannyprudent2582
3 жыл бұрын
So emotional 😭😭😭Nana your a heroine indeed;your journey to recovery has started;thankuu so much for sharing this.
@essymsoo4634
3 жыл бұрын
Woiye Nana,akh I love you gal,may God always protect you,this was toooooo much for a babygal 😭😭😭😭😭
@sellahottama6771
3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Help us oooh Lord to be very close and friendly to our kid's may you receive a parmanent healing from above beautiful nana this is a lesson learned aki
@marykiloko9012
3 жыл бұрын
Am a victim too mwikali trust me parents or relatives are not worth sharing the story too coz they take it so easy😥😥😥
@deeshanon9512
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah sure that's why we can't even share with our parents,,,coz they will take it easy ....for me that's why I kept for myself
@mourinebulimo9294
3 жыл бұрын
Ooh Nana,, my favourite... Am glad youve taken this out of your heart and l know you're partly healed. Am sorry you went through this.. l love you
@bancykay4723
3 жыл бұрын
I've learnt a lot as a mum. A lot.
@sylviaharriet
3 жыл бұрын
I love you Nana thank you for sharing ❤
@jedidahmuta7979
3 жыл бұрын
This story made me cry ilove ur passion
@maggiekiki2823
3 жыл бұрын
Nana you are such an inspiration I wish one day I'll get the courage to open up
@shifay
3 жыл бұрын
I hope you do🤗
@Jules_3
3 жыл бұрын
Me too..but I donno who to open up to...exactly
@malvinembaisi3790
3 жыл бұрын
Nana you're teaching me alot, as strong as you are I too will one day be strong 💪
@musauqueen9785
3 жыл бұрын
Jeeez!!!Much love Nana.😘😘
@wambuigrace6907
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry , I faced the same na nliambiwa that I am not special , a man is a man ..I never move on but I know one day I will ...Take heart Nana
@marypaul376
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry 😩
@christinejeptum3207
3 жыл бұрын
Pole
@432hzeverything6
3 жыл бұрын
You are SPECIAL. Your pain/trauma is valid. I hope you heal. Sending you love❤️❤️❤️
@bettymacharia3291
3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful ,wonderful and special probably the most courageous human being I've heard,I don't know you but I feel you are my hero ,God loves you dear ,
@doctorrees4473
3 жыл бұрын
OOOh my that is very sad. How can somebody say that. Be strong and pray, it is well.
@carenreborn
3 жыл бұрын
Watching this from south Africa and I can't stop crying 😢😭
@julietniysh125
3 жыл бұрын
Im in jozi too
@bellaolum9515
3 жыл бұрын
Everytime I hear this Nana's story it brings tears to my eyes because I am a mother of 2 girls, your mum failed you there big time! When my girls were little and even up to their teens, I was very careful about male relatives visiting or even staying over.
@machariachristine7638
3 жыл бұрын
I can feel ur pain dear ..felt the same pain too but the grace of God am healed.
@marykariuki4724
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my,am watching this after 8 months and I can't believe I missed this, Nana I have always wondered where you trained to be this courageous and strong,kumbe life taught you darling,,, you are a real mother, sister, babe, heroine,, mention them,, you are a conqueror and on top of it all you are a gem 💎 a good one lovely
@carrenchepkorir7784
3 жыл бұрын
This is so sad😭 Don't trust anyone when it comes to your children's expecially this behavior of taking your children to ushago to stay with uncle or cousins they are the most dangerous creatures...... Surely God forbid😭😭 😭 I once went through the same situation.
@sandrabridget7866
3 жыл бұрын
Same here when I was 9 and 21 but the Lord helped me overcome
@catherinemumbua8251
3 жыл бұрын
Oh baby gal I feel you, hugs mum..it is well. Thanks for sharing
@nicoletawambuinjau7546
3 жыл бұрын
This is so sad 😢😢😢At some time its shameful,coz the person was doing her his uncle 😭😭😭😭😭 Ohh my God may you continues healed this young gal 💕 and the way she is beautiful ❤️# ❤️❤️ really loves you gal 💕
@stellanyaga3409
3 жыл бұрын
Nana you are a strong lady... Some traumas live with us.. We just learn to leave with them ❤️
@samsonmutiso48
3 жыл бұрын
So heartbreaking😪💔I can't believe it......take heart and I pray that u will heal completely🙏
@kuimwaura1
3 жыл бұрын
Wow Nana you are strong 😭coming out n talking about it is not easy...
@marykinuthia6067
3 жыл бұрын
"Silence of the victim " true. Pole sana.
@belindamelvine2133
3 жыл бұрын
Bravooo Nanaa, you're so strong💪💪💪
@wasongasusan
3 жыл бұрын
Imagine all these. Take heart ❤️❤️ mum!! Society should standup and listen to girls.
@essynyaseme2405
3 жыл бұрын
Touching story ,,,I felt so bad when I had that story from Nana
@evefinity2
3 жыл бұрын
Aakd
@jemimahgithinji6593
3 жыл бұрын
So Sorry Nana. It's heartbreaking.
@wambuapetronillah582
3 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!!!!!!such a touching story,,,,power 2 u Nana
@agathapaul2285
3 жыл бұрын
I understand you Nana
@lucynmugure2283
3 жыл бұрын
Nana ur such a brilliant woman
@pennymbata6666
3 жыл бұрын
This makes me cry. I rem in 2007 I used to cry like a baby not to be left with a certain cuzo. To date I hate him so badly.
@lucynjoroge671
3 жыл бұрын
Oooh my Nana am so sorry for wat u went through this was so painful I can fill u my dear am sorry my favourite person
@veronicaawinja8080
3 жыл бұрын
This is really sad😭😭😭
@salomemueni100
3 жыл бұрын
I am touched by this Nana story..this have proved how mummy's have failed the families society by not doing,saying the truth and correct words to their children...today I look at the society and see failures on mummy's...Nana and many more out their God heals broken spirit and souls, physical as well as emotional...take heart..
@wambui-njagi4681
3 жыл бұрын
All blame should be aportiond to the abuser, not any other party.
@liliandindi4260
3 жыл бұрын
The same thing l passed through, but up-to now no one knows.That thing hurts me so much coz I don't have someone to talk to.
@wanjikunjuguna8386
2 жыл бұрын
Look for therapy dear.
@marykariuki4724
2 жыл бұрын
Speak it out darling,that thing didn't define the real you,its just something you need face,,you heard of facing your demons,,they are such,speak it out and move on hunny
@Makhtar806
3 жыл бұрын
Wooi I'm so emotional watching this 😭😭😭 Nana you will overcome it one day.This reminds me how lucky I was a friend of mine wanted to rape me but I thank God we fought and it didn't happen later I came to know he was even HIV+ 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️ I was 19yrs old God is always faithful
@monicamwaush5119
3 жыл бұрын
omg sorry ..our mightiest is faithful
@Makhtar806
3 жыл бұрын
@@monicamwaush5119 amen darl
@FrasciaNdichu
3 жыл бұрын
The truth is just too difficult and painful and traumatizing , and a nightmare as we women relive the traumas, with brothers,cousins. I cannot rap my head my heart around the situation. Today I hate almost everything about society that dictates my life. Society wants to be protected and maintained but it does not protect me, not on the list 😢
@Tashmofficial
3 жыл бұрын
Pole sana nana our mentor on switch tv.
@sallyomido6544
3 жыл бұрын
Too sad,l once went through this and up to now,l have never talked about this, wherever l think about it,l feel Soo down
@EvangelicalPoet
3 жыл бұрын
Bring a man who went through it and if he can be honest enough about how it changed his life that would be good
@arikamonica
3 жыл бұрын
There are so many men who have gone through the same but sadly it's not easy for them to come out and speak for the fear of judgement...
@benjindolo1769
2 жыл бұрын
Silence is the weapon oppressors use. Shout out to Nana for such courage, so much abuse in this society,..so much secrecy..King is good peeps and so is she. The best to them.
@cecygacheru6628
3 жыл бұрын
Nana is so strong God bless
@marthakabugi1935
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry Nana God heal your heart and emotions because he heals the broken hearted and those who are crushed in spirit and sll those who have gone through this.
@meeryneaddipalmer6732
3 жыл бұрын
It is so hurting,, I have seen this I have remembered back 2016,,,I was a young girl. Someone almost damaged my whole life ,,jxt because he is a family friend,,, na kunitishia if I try to tell anyone he will my whole body with chemical no one will be able to know me again,,it is so painful 4 what young girl do go though,, telling you parents they see it is a lie until everything turns the way round is the time they will accept
@arnesyaurio6346
3 жыл бұрын
This story is so painful, sorry nana😭😭
@aragon_wambo1819
2 жыл бұрын
This was fun to watch but very emotional 😥😥..I'm so sorry Nana
@CK-pl4xu
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and that kind of hurt projects to those around us,, especially when you talk about it and no one believes you or excuses the perpetrators. Some wounds need grace to heal. Thanks for sharing...
@christinekawira1175
2 жыл бұрын
My relationship and that of my mum even today has bumps,,she has never been that friend,we are never open on issues,,she has never been there for me at all,,and that really made me go through hell in the hands of people that she trusted me with but made me go through hell
@veronicahndungu4353
3 жыл бұрын
Waaah This is real courage. I am sorry
@valencianjoroge7941
3 жыл бұрын
happened to me to am still healing
@jananingii8112
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, I really have never gone through it but everytime someone talks about such I go through this wave of emotions. I'm currently bawling my eyes out like a baby. Me I catch somebody doing it to someone, I think I will commit my first act of murder then. It angers me. Not for girls alone but for men as well, I will kill for someone. Cos justice is never served in these instances
@wamacharia8970
3 жыл бұрын
So emotional😢
@nardostadesse827
3 жыл бұрын
10q 4 sharing nana&10q 4 having her as a guest
@justinasyokau2020
3 жыл бұрын
Nana I love you
@joycegichuki5726
3 жыл бұрын
Av gone thru the same but with different family members n av never ever spoken about it. Trust issues is what i suffer from.
@pstleilaciku7171
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry ❤️❤️hugs.. Look for someone n share for u to heal
@Nyarwaiworld
3 жыл бұрын
Am so sorry queen ..lots of hugs❤and God will give you the strength that u need to heal from this
@QueenOptimist
3 жыл бұрын
Pole Sana, sending you virtual hugs 💖
@lucynyamai6854
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry about this. I mean it!
@maryannemwangi168
3 жыл бұрын
Look for someone and tell someone
@susanwwn
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nana
@wanyoikeesther5645
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali this is great thanks alot for making this aware. Nana so sorry for what you had to go through as a child,am a single mum and am so protective of my daughter I don't leave her in the house with any male not because I don't trust them but its better to be safe than sorry.I always tell my daughter mtu akikuguza nyonyo,vagina na matako kuja uniambie and she knows that touching her is wrong and she says ukiniguza uko na tabia mbaya. We should teach even our sons about this so that they are also aware of being sodomised.
@mukebezzipurple3761
3 жыл бұрын
Hugs Nana❤️
@wasongasusan
3 жыл бұрын
You are really a strong woman
@maryannemwangi168
3 жыл бұрын
No matter what u went or going or huv already going up open up to someone who trust
@mariakyalo7386
3 жыл бұрын
These wounds never heal. Especially to some of us who have never talked about it because of fear and also because we have no one to share with
@paulinekiarie6215
3 жыл бұрын
It pains but find someone who you close to and share it...that's one way of healing. Take heart mama 💓
@josphinesherry5511
3 жыл бұрын
Silent is what killing us
@sarahnjoki9635
2 жыл бұрын
Love you Nana sooooo sorry that happened to you😟
@esthermutua1287
3 жыл бұрын
Waa God comfort u
@teddgclafe1431
3 жыл бұрын
Am sorry Nana😔
@ashleykhasandi4958
3 жыл бұрын
It happened too....it affects me so much..sometimes i breakdown so bad....may God protect our children and may the wounds heal one day....♥️
@harrietchronicles5707
3 жыл бұрын
You will heal take heart❤️
@kipronoelijahkoech4630
3 жыл бұрын
Just a true demonstration of how much smiles can hide. It is well, Nana!
@miriamnzomo2846
3 жыл бұрын
Break the silence!Dont be imprisoned by fear
@bancynthamba4719
3 жыл бұрын
Oooooh my this is sad😥😥....call a spade a spade ...
@sharonnasambu6753
3 жыл бұрын
Kisses swtier ❤️❤️❤️nana much love
@Mose887
3 жыл бұрын
Can't stop shading tears have been there,my step dad did it to me when I was 11,but I never had the courage to tell my mom
@QueenofLifeNuggets
3 жыл бұрын
My twin....Same to me aki....Me I told my mom, she did nothing, just cried and I don't speak my things with anyone to date..Even her...I live my life quietly and kill my own snakes...And to me till this day, every person is a suspect...I do not trust any person....
@wambuigrace6907
3 жыл бұрын
You'll be okay girl ..eventually we will heal our wounds ..Hugs
@evamaina2290
3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenofLifeNuggets I am so sorry my dear.😞 sending you love and hugs
@christinekawira1175
2 жыл бұрын
Your better of without telling her,,I never shared with my mum how her brother used to molest me when I was young,you know why because as a kid I realised she would never stand by me by all chances and even today she trusts and listens to her brothers and sisters more than us,her kids,,and now that am a mother am overprotective of my daughters,I listen to them more and they come first,,
@victorinelingo4922
3 жыл бұрын
Some parents are failing at their job shame on you parents that don’t help your kids
@davidmaora692
2 жыл бұрын
I like the topic and really feels nana. Me too am going through at the moment Imagine you your mum sleeping with your brother and the same time she is positives what can I do am confused.
@nansiekate5234
3 жыл бұрын
Nana... I feel you I also hate home.. Coz my mother did not believe me.. Am literally cry watching this.. But all will be well...
@bettymacharia3291
3 жыл бұрын
Don't cry dear,you are wonderful , beautiful and you posses so much greatness that you are a change in your family and your generation ,doesn't matter who believed you or not ,you are my hero for being brave and the strength ,God loves you so much
@nansiekate5234
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much guys... I find myself crying all the time watching this.. Am watching from Saudia Arabia, and for really feel more safe here more than in my own home. I don't miss home at all.. Although I have a daughter, she stays with my mom and my stepfather which gives me chillies anytime I think about it.what I do 'manze' I pray for daughter Sana, because if anything will ever happen to her, I'll kill someone since nobody is listening.
@nansiekate5234
3 жыл бұрын
@Kaye Ti Thank you Kaye.. Will do that.. I talk to her once in a while though.
@christinekawira1175
2 жыл бұрын
I also hate home,I became an angry rebellious girl from a cheerful princess,,and I don't even miss anyone who didn't support me then even my mum,and by the way did I say she has never trusted or protected me in anyway
@nansiekate5234
2 жыл бұрын
Am not alone, but girl, life goes on.. Thats y we are strong today, my home is where I am right now..
@Joyful-gu5bj
2 жыл бұрын
Nana Am so sorry for the past n I pray that the Holy Spirit heals you emotionally and restore you fully in Jesus might name Amen. Many girls n boys are been molested by immediate family members n threated. They should be in prison.
@victoriandeleva8508
3 жыл бұрын
Hugs Nana..
@decoloniz_afro
3 жыл бұрын
Uncles are 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱......many stories like this
@deeshanon9512
3 жыл бұрын
Am really sorry Nana,,,,this happened to me when I was 5years old 😢😢😰,,,I can't it ,,it's bad actually 😰
@idahmuriuki8848
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry
@salomemueni100
3 жыл бұрын
Namko smart on the show..
@MyBlessed83
3 жыл бұрын
I have been there Nana 😭😭😭😭😭😭rape breaks, rape hurts, living with this trauma is the most terrible monster I am fighting each day..
@idahmuriuki8848
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry
@winnersneeddiscipline4926
3 жыл бұрын
Have been there at the same age 9 and my mom told me it's a disgrace I should not tell anyone, ,, I hated myself, living in fear, I tried to commit suicide but it was unsuccessful, I can't stop 😭😭😭
@harrietchronicles5707
3 жыл бұрын
Take heart you will heal with time
@evamaina2290
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 😔😞
@leapoffaith7629
3 жыл бұрын
She is one of the strongest and realest media personality around.
@hellenwanjiku167
3 жыл бұрын
Nana ur good. Self disclosure is a journey. May you heal.
@justinamusyoka4986
3 жыл бұрын
Which is the best way to do it ?
@hellenwanjiku167
3 жыл бұрын
@@justinamusyoka4986 in therapy is the best place to go. And sometimes to tak to God directly thru prayers and cry to Him He listen to us. If the person exist text or cal or send someone. Let him know you never liked what he did. You will heal.
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