दोस्तों इन लोगों के साथ कैसे रहें या कैसा बर्ताव करें उस पर ये वीडियो बनाया है- kzitem.info/news/bejne/qYt43a2kkqd5anY
@bambamkumar1609
3 жыл бұрын
to kya sir y log kvi life me kvi feel nai krte apni galti ki or logo pr kiye gye touch or ko buz mere bf y quality h or aaj hum dono 1 yr se dur ho gye use mere ki si v boy se baat krna ya help mangana pasand nai . ab to oo baat v nai Krta or mere ghr wale meri saadi ki baat kr rahe h . usne to saaf manna kr di bolta h ki jaao sabse baat kro puri duniya ko ek kro me tumse saadi nai krungi . 5 yr ki realtion h sir . oo chala gya me bahut depression me hu . me kya kru me to use bhul hi nai paarhi hu sir plz hume way dekhiye
@bambamkumar1609
3 жыл бұрын
sorry sir touch nai toucher kya use kvi feel nai hogi
@max-nx6pl
3 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi bat hai sir, me yahi video ka intejar kar rahi thi, mene ye saha hai, mere pati same aisehi hai,
@jetendrayadav8766
3 жыл бұрын
Bhai saheb namaste main bhi is dour se gujar reha hun mere paas jb seb kuch tha to ghar ke seb log ijjat kerta tha lekin aaj yehi log dekhna nhi chata h
@saurabhbhardwaj8784
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot anubhav,,, meine logo ka emotional blackmail face kiya hei,,,
@ShubhamKhunteOfficial
11 ай бұрын
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था। उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया। बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था। उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ। आज मैं खुश हूँ।
@Allin-dw5vy
Ай бұрын
Mere sath bhi hua h
@vidyarajput6546
3 жыл бұрын
सर बिल्कुल ठीक कह रहे जिनको निभाना पडते है ऐसे रिश्तेदार निभाए वही लाईक करे कितना कठिन होता है ऐसे लोगो के साथ रहना
@m.chandanchandan6842
3 жыл бұрын
Right
@vidyarajput6546
3 жыл бұрын
Ji sir dhanyvad...!!😇
@sarojmalhotra1655
2 жыл бұрын
Dakho khi bar apney bcchey jysy daighter in law uss k bina sukhi hu mujy un ki jrurt hy jo Shanti sy rehy apney liey jeena aana chaey
@pinkigangwar7208
2 жыл бұрын
Mere sath bhi aisa ho rha h.mai kuchh kah du.ki dhyan rha ya galti ho gyi.fir bhi uske mujhe bahut sunna padta h.aur agar btao ki meri galti ni h.to koi sunne ko taiyar ni.pti dev ko btao to bo ghuma firakr mujhe hi galti dete h.
@madhavkdas275
2 жыл бұрын
Ryt ...mere husband ese h ...wo bolte h main kuch galat nhi kar sakta...i m always ryt...wo bolte h ...dusro ko galat sabit kr dete h...bhut mushkil ho raha mera unkey saath rehna...hum bolte h aap bhagwan samjate h toh b bhut chilate h main bhagwan nhi samjta...ryt...sara din dhiyan rakhte h kaise kaam kr rahe...humari galti dhoodtey hi rehtey...yeh koi galati karey..main shout karu inko...apni baar chodo ho jaata h..
@sadhanakumari685
Жыл бұрын
एकदम सही कहा सर.... मेरा हसबैंड भी ऐसा ही था... आपने जो जो बताया बिल्कुल वैसा ही था..2 साल मैंने उसके साथ कैसे बिताया मैं ही जानती हूँ... Finally मुझे ये रिश्ता खत्म करना पड़ा और मैंने डाइवोर्स ले लिया.... अब मैं अकेली ही लेकिन बहुत खुश हूँ.
@anamikafashiontrends3347
3 ай бұрын
Kya akele rehna asan h kya
@nishamahipal6914
3 жыл бұрын
Thx for this video ...... mere husband aapne aap ko perfect mante h because wo bhot smjhedaar h apni family me sab unki bhot respect karte h but wo apne ghr me apni biwi ke sath kese treat karte h wo kisi ko nii pata wo sirf mujhe hi pata h
@archanabhatt3773
3 жыл бұрын
Pta sbko hota h ghr k log sb notice krte h bt kya h na jo apke hsbnd krte h usme sbko v mja ata h isliye koi bolta ni h kuch....kbi khud notice Krna....cheje observe Krna...smjh a jyega apko
@snehamavani5364
3 жыл бұрын
Same here yar
@pujaroy6474
3 жыл бұрын
Let him know he's doing wrong with you...set boundaries.
@dhruvsharma4476
3 жыл бұрын
@@archanabhatt3773 aapne bilkul sahi kaha mere husband bhi aise h but unke gharwale samjhte h ki me hi boht buri hu jabki unhe achhe se pata h ki unka beta kitna bura h
@dhruvsharma4476
3 жыл бұрын
@@MANOJKUMAR-rp8ve mera bhi yahi haal h aapke jaisa
@devyaneechandra6498
3 жыл бұрын
My father. He is an extremely narcissistic person. I just moved away from my hometown and never visited him after wards. Life was hell being in my home.
@hardeepkaur2753
3 жыл бұрын
Forgive him gods gift blessings Father we are all learners one life families many things happen
@shubhrahalder25june
3 жыл бұрын
My mother is same. I have moved out ultimately.
@vani23955
2 жыл бұрын
Brave step
@hardeepkaur2753
2 жыл бұрын
Families journey honour respect one day they will understand journey once only forgive we are souls moving on journey
Meri b.f tha asa akd me rhta tha mai hi uske mente krti thi par jb se mai ase relationship se nikli hu aab sakun h life me bhut jada
@bhawnachoudhary8241
3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ImranAnsari-uv5cw
3 жыл бұрын
Same Mera ex tha aisa hi
@hamirpursaesthetics6411
3 жыл бұрын
i am single though
@anujdimple
3 жыл бұрын
Single life is best....Ye glti ab dubara mt krna......Lekin tm fir se jroor kroge....Isko relationship addiction bolte h
@parveenkhatun6207
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly mera bhi bf था jo khud ko sbse superior smjhta tha usse lag hoke ab m khush hu
@murthuzahussain3101
2 жыл бұрын
Interior Treatment Justify their mistakes Ego@ Extreme Selfishness@ Extreme Superiority complex Never Accept Mistakes Unnecessary Arguments Others 👍👍 Sir well said,
@kanchanlove
2 жыл бұрын
My husband is extreme narcissistic and egoistic and selfish person.he think he is running everyone"s lives and it's his right to rule everyone and everyone should obey him
@manishgautam3115
2 жыл бұрын
Wo Andhkaar mein jee rahe hai....Thakur ji mein vishwas rakho .
@diptisadrani1451
7 ай бұрын
भारतीय समाज में ladko ka पालन eise kiya जाता है कि 80٪He world high narcissism trait ma, she world pahele 10٪thi ab वो भी about40٪
@meenarawat7346
5 ай бұрын
aaj 2 saal baad aapka rishta kaisa hai,sab seh rahi ho ya rishte se baher aa gayi ho.
@rakeshkundal9234
3 жыл бұрын
Bahut logon ki jaan bacha rai o sir jis din suicide karne ki sichi thi mujhe usi din apki video mili aur mainebdecision change kr liye. Sir apko india ki bahut bahut bahut zarurat aa
@reenabhartireena8916
3 жыл бұрын
Mere bhi husband aise hi hai galati bhi vah Karen gussa bhi vahi hote hai, mujhe hi compromise karna padta hai,
@khelendra2
3 жыл бұрын
Jute maroo sale koo
@Witty-n-Wild
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@pragyagautam26
2 жыл бұрын
Same,
@supersarthak19
2 жыл бұрын
Mere husband aise hi h
@jaatkhaap1687
2 жыл бұрын
Koi nhi ldai na ho iske liye compromise bi krna chaiye
@nr7063
3 жыл бұрын
yeah! My brother is like that extremely narcissistic. so much of ego, agression, anger.. khud ko itna mahan samjhta hai jaise khud bhagwan hi hai or baki log uske per ki dhool bhi nahi hai. usko bhi yahi lagta hai that he does not need anybody. everyone needs him.. people should like bow to him.. according to him everyone is foolish.. and he is the greatest person in the world..
@VarunKumar-nm5sk
2 жыл бұрын
Same for me I'm so depressed my younger brother is so narcissistic . he always fight with me.and by mother. Life is hell for me 😔
@philipdsa7907
3 жыл бұрын
Rightly said sir.people encountering such people should remain silent when the rage is on because they have nothing to attack and they loose power over You. answering to them is like adding fuel to fire 🔥. work on the talents God has bless you with,we are answerable to him and not such narcissistic personality.❤️🙏
@viveksonisaini9703
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir pati or Meri sasurral yeshi vo khud ko bhagbhan samajthe isly m unse ab alag hogi bhut bardash ki Maine apni sadhi bachane ke chakar m
@sunitadhende3572
2 жыл бұрын
@@viveksonisaini9703 k
@shagun4651
3 жыл бұрын
Anubhav sir, I never miss any of your vidoes. I started reading your answers on quora and then I found you randomly on youtube. I'm really grateful for all your teachings. 🌟
@AnubhavJain
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shagun :)
@ruchiagrawal2727
6 ай бұрын
Sir, aise logo ke baare me aapne bataya per in logon se deal kaise karen
@vijaykhamkar3957
3 жыл бұрын
Same situation i am also dealing with since from childhood to till now,my father and mother are narcissistic they always treat me like inferior,i am so depressed 💔
@js6628
3 жыл бұрын
Brother same is with me. My father and older brothers and sister are narcissistic too. Aisey logon k saath jeena hell main rehney ki tarah hain.
@js6628
3 жыл бұрын
Aisey log bas doosron ka dil aur vishwas todney ke liye hi hain.
@murthuzahussain3101
2 жыл бұрын
@@js6628 bussss ek kaam karsakhte, be calm,avoid unnecessary talking with them,keep zero expectations from them, develop self, act smartly with no extra sound, never argue,talk,take advice,nor suggestions with stupid people. If continue arguing,never face them,talk politely n leave that place, this is revenge by ignoring them.
@bijendarsahasaha4039
3 жыл бұрын
Right sir 😔mere husband yesa hi karte hai mere sath apni galti kabhi nahi mante hamesha mujhe hi galat kehte hai.
@fizasidd6276
3 жыл бұрын
Haramzada bhugtega apna kiya tension mat lo
@seemakumari932
3 жыл бұрын
Mere sath bhi aisa hi ho Raha hai 2 sal se kya kru bahut pareshan hu 😭😭😭😭
@prwinderkaur285
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@jaatkhaap1687
2 жыл бұрын
@@seemakumari932 ap khud ki ek alag image bnao km km bate kro apne me busy rho
@pushpanjalikumari4296
3 жыл бұрын
Aapke sare topic meri life problem se relate karti hai abhi thanks v aapke liya bolu to kam hai 🙏
@aniruddhabhadra2585
3 жыл бұрын
You are very true and I totally agree with you and your views of tackling these people are very practical and commendable.There are also another kind of people more dangerous than this ,narcissist sadist.Life can turn worse than hell if somebody has to experience them.I have come across such person a long time ago.I did'nt knew how to tackle at that time and it has inflicted a very deep scar in my life.Hoped there could have been anybody like you at that time for me.You are doing an extraordinary thing for the society keep it up.
@vishnujaybhaye2685
2 жыл бұрын
होम।भी।ईसि।परेणिमे।है।भाई
@smrutitripathy3917
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly bhaiya,aisa hi hota hain.Ek dum perfectly samjhaya aapne..🙏🏻🙏🏻.Thank you.
@chandanamaitra5692
3 жыл бұрын
Ekdm satik..... Mene jhela.. Aur ab 20 saal baad smji.... Now i m above it....in my higher self.... Jo preshan nhi hoga usey koi preshan nhi krega
@Skillshakti
3 жыл бұрын
Me itni prshn ho gai thi ek tym pr ki suicide attempt kr chuki apne ap ko physical harm kiya lekin...ek chin sikh gai ki us insan ko frk nahi pdega chahe khoon ka rishta ho Vo insan eaisa hi h uska human nature hi eaisa h vo insan hamesha eaisa hi rhne vala h Isliye meri ek request h Jo b meri comment read kr rha ho please eaise insan se har ka khud ki life spoil mat krna self harm mat krna 🙏
@k.dsinghrajput3705
3 жыл бұрын
Wo hote hi murkh hai jo matlbiyo k liye apni jindgi daw par lgate hai
@Skillshakti
3 жыл бұрын
@@k.dsinghrajput3705 Actuall koi bhr ka insan ho to brdas kr b leta h insan Lekin agr koo ghhr ka hi member ho to Zindagi se ji bhar jata hai ..or insan is trh self harm krta h kyuki vo helpless feel krta h hopeless...koi rasta nahi smjh me aata depression ki situation me hota h
@k.dsinghrajput3705
3 жыл бұрын
@@Skillshakti iske dusre video ko dekho usme sir ne btaya hai aisa lagbhag har ghar k hal hai koi na koi membar hota hai aise aise logo se jyada bat hi mat karo
@archanabhatt3773
3 жыл бұрын
Ap log bolre ho aise logo se bat mt karo meri sas to bat kro to dikt nhi kro to dikt...phle to mje bhut prblm hui bt abto m v ghuma deti hu sbko....bhad me jao aise log kbi khush ni honge inke piche jindagi brbad ni krni chiye...mje koi frk ni pdta ab ki mere bare me kaun kya bolra h kya sochta h or ab m in-laws k sath rhti v ni hu
@Skillshakti
3 жыл бұрын
@@archanabhatt3773 good zindgi ko khulkar zina sikho... chahe eaise logo se dur hone ke liye alg hi Na shift hona pde.
@duediligence1742
3 жыл бұрын
Got to know the meaning of new word today.. thanks for improving my personality as well as my English...
@likeshthakur9073
3 жыл бұрын
आज का जबरदस्त टॉपिक लाया है सर अपने बहुत से विडियो देखे है इस पर सर ये खुद पसन्दगी के शिकार होते है
@nikworm3592
3 жыл бұрын
Sir आपको कभी खुलकर हँसते हुए नहीं देखा please एक बार😊🙏🙏
@Bajnahi
3 жыл бұрын
बिना कारण हॅंसना आदमी को शोभा नहीं देता,आप इसके लिए काॅमेडी शो देख सकते हैं !
@vishalthakur3944
3 жыл бұрын
@@Bajnahi 😂😂
@nikworm3592
3 жыл бұрын
@@Bajnahi गजब बेज्जती है😐
@MomTalentAndlittleStar
3 жыл бұрын
@@Bajnahi hasne hasane wale apko bahut mil jayenge, but aisey serious issue pur apko solutions deney wale bhaut kam milengey, sorry to say, I dnt want to hurt you.but I think we should always remain thankful to him.
@Bajnahi
3 жыл бұрын
@@MomTalentAndlittleStar जी आप बिलकुल सही फरमाते हैं लेकिन, हसने का मुद्दा मैंने तो नहीं उठाया! बल्कि मैंने आप जैसा ही मत पोस्ट किया है ! कृपया चेक कर लिजिए |🙏
@arisasitara8899
2 жыл бұрын
Anubhv aapko itni km umr main ye sab kaise pta chla,mere husband bilkul aise hi hain, Jo main samjh hi nhi paa rahi thi aaj aapne bahot achchi tarah se samjhaya, shayed ab life aasan ho jaai
@kavitasonioffical176
2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@jaatkhaap1687
2 жыл бұрын
Life asan nhi hoti wo humko decide krnaa hota h asan bnae ya muskil
@jayavas2465
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely True Bhaiyya. Randomly came across your youtube channel, but i think it's god's grace. Thanks a lot for your amazing enlightening and inspiring videos.God bless you!
@pannabenparmar2508
3 жыл бұрын
Sahi baat hai ase log emotionally down karke apna kam karva lete hai
@manishgautam3115
2 жыл бұрын
Aise logo se door ho jao .thoda struggle hoga ...lekin badi kamyabi milegi 👍
@vinceisgod1547
3 жыл бұрын
Important topic 😀😀😀
@abhilash6354
3 жыл бұрын
Bohot achha motivational topic sir
@sanjaychandrakar2252
3 жыл бұрын
Sir you are very talented you have open all the history of my father **people can tell me **no it is impossible *that no one father can do this type of behave with his son **but it is completely true with me ***very good lot of thanks to you sir **actually I was not understanding my father
@DRxNIKHILTANDON
3 жыл бұрын
I am always with u on this anti narc's mission 🙏
@nishamenon3133
3 жыл бұрын
Sir mere pati starting years me aise hi the jab bi koi ladai hoti ti kehte main aisa hi hu nai jam raha toh chali ha.lekin dhire dhire changes agaye.Shaadi ko 7 saal hogaye ab ,abi kaafi samajte hai batoon ko.Apne jo Kuch bi videos me kaha wo 100% correct hai.
@raniphogat398
3 жыл бұрын
Wahhh bhaiya ek ek point aapka to puri life ko hi smjha deta h har ek vidio me bhot ache se thank you sooo sooo much bhaiya🙏🙏
@shipra9212
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right sir ,my husband is also this type .I'm 45 yrs old & post graduate (.M.Sc). Mere husband meri har need Puri karte h aur bahut pyar karte h but kisi baat ko lekar agar argument hota h to apne aap ko hi uper rakhte h ,na to baat sunte h ,na samajhne ki koshish karte h ,chahe galti unki kyo na ho ..bachche bhi un se koi baat share nahi karte h ,kyoki ipata h ki papa koi baat nahi samjhenge . Bas khamosh rahe kar chupchap sunti raheti hoo. man bahut dukhi ho jaata h .
@rubyyadav6948
Жыл бұрын
Same here...
@joshash123
Жыл бұрын
Exact lines heard from them- Yha rehna hai toh ese he rehna padega, nahi toh samaan pack karo aur jaao.
@parnalidas0
3 жыл бұрын
I wanted this. Wowwww...bhaiya thanks a lot!!!
@AnkitaSingh-sn3vn
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Anubhav :) I can't thank you enough for addressing daily life issues.
@monikagulati1746
3 жыл бұрын
mere pati bhi bilkul ese hai vo kabhi bhi apni galti nahi maante or hamesha mujhe hi baatein sunate rahte hai
@Users-793
3 жыл бұрын
Sir Ji me apne partner se shadhi ke liye ghar me bola to meri mummi aur mera bhai apne aapko bahut bada samjh rahe h
@189_janhvisingh2
2 жыл бұрын
I really don't like this to say but my sister is like this I cannot trust her she always compare herself with other people and even with me She cannot take if someone compliments me. She gets Jealous.... I can see her on her face whenever something happens good to me she try to bring me down in her own ways She thinks that she is perfect but whenever some other person is appreciated she cannot take it -- be it MONEY, CARRER, STUDEIS, and BEAUTY... She wants to be on top in everything Jab usko koi kaam nikalna hota hai to she comes and talks very nicely and jab kaam nikal jata hai tab OMG she will be like who are u ??? She is never grateful for anything
@shwetagupta1887
Жыл бұрын
Aisa sirf husband/bf hi nhi hote aise hmare aaspas ke related person relatives ya even pariwar bhi ho skte h toxic log jo hote h wo apne aage kisi ko kuch nhi smjhte
@shivendraarya7556
2 жыл бұрын
Ha khud k family me hi hai ese log jo muj kuch nhi samjhte jabki mera bhi utna hi contribution hai Edit: after reading all comments I came to know almost every family is narcissistic for them. Some way or other either their own family or their in laws family, many times both, especially girls condition is worst. They face narcissism most, even after doing their best efforts to their loved ones, sacrifice their dreams, they are criticised and blamed for all bad happenings.
@deepadhania5921
3 ай бұрын
Same mri family n to jinda laash bna rkhi hu
@Jyotikumawat15
3 жыл бұрын
Sir.... Meri chhoti behen ka b aisa hi behavior tha...Sab usko bohot laad pyar krte the ...... Lekin Usne maa pitaji Or bhai beheno k against Jake shaadi kar li.... Bohot pareshan kiya hum sabko usne.... Hum sabne bohot koshish ki ye jatane ki ki hum usse bohot pyar krte h par wo hum sab k pyaar ko laat marke chali gayi.. Lekin me ab b usko bhul nhi pa rhi.... Me ab b usko bohot pyar krti hu.... Meri personal life b is wajah se disturb ho rhi h.. Bachche Or pati pe dhyan nhi de pa rhi.... Maa baap ki badnami hui uski chinta hoti h.. Life ka jaise koi maksad nhi bacha.... Sare din uske bare me soch k nikal jata h ki usne ye kyu kiya.. Pariwar k bare me kuch nhi socha... Har ek member ko badnaam kr gayi logo k saamne... Apna maksad poora krne k liye... Shaadi krne se pehle hume bohot jhooth bole or maa baap ka fayda uthaya... Please kuch kahe
@gigasaurusrex7165
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, bhaiya. I am sorry to say but my own mother fits this description. I feel at peace in college but right now I'm stuck at home with her due to the lockdown. It is extremely stressful for me. Looking forward to your video on how to deal with such people.
@AnubhavJain
3 жыл бұрын
It happens, when some of our loved ones have such a personality. Anyway , the next video will be uploaded in an hour
@Bajnahi
3 жыл бұрын
कृपया मेरी संवेदना स्वीकार करें | आप ईश्वर पे भरोसा रखे,और खुद को संभालें| बिलकुल डरे नहीं, धन्यवाद!
@riturani1119
3 жыл бұрын
Mere sath same problm h
@saramadhukar9178
2 жыл бұрын
Same problm. My mother n my younger sister. They made my life hell since last 10 years
@ayurveda129
2 жыл бұрын
Truee words..,. 😊... I face such person in family... 😁
@lajokumari4880
2 жыл бұрын
Aapka video dekh kr dil ko bahut sukun milta hai nhi to me bahut depression me rahti thi
@suchitadas8563
4 күн бұрын
Most important information mili, thanks sir
@priyagarg9523
3 жыл бұрын
Agree sir ...but how to deal with these type of mentality people ..kindly advice..🙏
@ripsythourani6492
3 жыл бұрын
How to differentiate between a dominating(positive)/assertive/dynamic and narcissist person?
@preetiyadav4281
3 жыл бұрын
Great. Baat toh sahi h yar, parents (especially indian) ptani kyu apne aapko bhagwan samaj k bethe huye hn 🤦🏻♀️, bachho ki b khud ki life me pareshan h (after a certain age wale bacche...like in ur 20's)
@Swati.dumka.2020
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I m facing this frm family Need to go far frm all
@NehaSharma-ek5ol
2 жыл бұрын
A. How to know a narcist people in relationship? Stage 1:-Love bombing & Idealization 1. They show himself as a generous person,helpful person,culture person,religious person.They used their charming personality,inteligence,beauty to trap you in their love.At first they started giving show so much caring,so much love,so much time,attention, started praising your beauty,your qualities.Due to this you started ignoring narcistic people other aspects like their nature, behaviour,personality.If you want to save yourself from their trap then dont fall in love for beauty,attraction or intelligence. 2.When a person try everything very fast..Like meeting,dating,talking,gift giving..They do all this because they don't want to give time to you for thinking and use your IQ to difference what is right or wrong.This is called love bombing. They attached their code in your mind. 3. Stared future faking like show big future of love relationship, always try to attract other person through offering sex,time,costly gift and seductive talk. 4. They started mirroring you that means first they collect knowledge from you what you like and what you dislike.Then they started liking, interest in those things in which you have like or interest to show empath that his mentality and empath mentality is totally same.They can read and copy you and also their behavior change as per people intentions..Their face mask changed people to people.. 5. They always hide their feelings and always show themselves as victim.Like family,friends,society all are against them and they always play victim card.They show themselves as very lonely,in problem,no one is for them.They show themselves such type of victim as they want heeling or support from other person. 6. They always like compliments from you but they dont give any compliments to you. 7. If you ask any question to them they will either delay ,avoid to reply or may change the topic. They never give direct answers to you. 8. During converstaion they always change the focus and topic towards themself. They never give you chance to express your thoughts.Ex-If a narcist go for shoping with his friends if you ask them,how is your shoping? They dont tell you about what they did shoping whereas they may say one of his friend jealous with him for his dress,they may say that in mall some girls stabing them in bad intentions.They create this type of fake story to make attention of other person towards him in every conversation. 9. They always target people who have strong personality, higher status than them or have lower status than them. Most of toxic relationship are comes under narcistic people. 10. They afraid when you talk about marriage with them because they afraid of taking any responsibility of marriage. Stage -2-Devaluation 1. Sometimes available sometimes not available.Avoid,ignore game,late reply,devaluing once they know you are fall in love with him.They ignore you for many reason like to get attention, admiration,energy from you.They also ignore you if you expose them or red handed caught them in telling lie or Cheating.They may ignore you if they found any other person in their life. They may ignore you as a punishment to control you and to make yourself dependent on them. 2. Never admit own fault.Telling lie in every matter. Shift own blame to other.If he red handed caught in telling lie then never admit own fault instead of started criticism to other person.This is called gas lighting.They started prove you that you are over possesive,over sensitive. 3. Used manipulate word,love word to others when he feels other person is far away from him. To hold on you or use you as a option for long time they confusing you showing love sometime. Sometimes show love and affection where as sometimes angry and quarrel with you on sily matters. 4. If you want his help for any situation he ignore to help you or they act like he forget or totally deny. 5. They always fall in love for sex, beauty,status not for love or emotions because they have no emotions at all.They always set a goal in every relationship.To achieve that goal they may go to any extent.They always cheat their partner in relationship. 6. Narcist always try to control you.They try to cut you from your friend circle, family circle.They do this because they want that you only depend on them for talking,visiting and giving time..They dont to see you happy..and ultimately it creates co dependent relationship with them. 7. Sometimes they will like you. Sometimes dislike you.They always try to confused you. 8. After marriage they withhold sex to manipulate you.They used sex as a tool to control you or dominate you as per their will.Sometimes they dont do sex with their partner to control their partner. They are emotionless.Sometimes they show their love with physical touch to your body.If they stop touching your body to show love then you may make sure that narcist got any other person for them. Stage-3-Bring another person Triangular love 1. They bring another person to his life and introduce him with his current partner. 2. They will bring the type of situation where he avoid current partner and say current partner to adjust with his new partner.He may try with manipulate words,silent trick and avoid game. Through this type of work he forced his partner to accept his new relationship. 3. If you ask anything to narc about their new relationship they always tell you that you are over sensitive,over possesive, over caring,you are wrong,your thought process is wrong. Ex- They tell you that one of my friend text me and ask me about my beauty.when you ask who is she? Then they show you his mob screen shot to show himself very clean but hide the other part of conversation to confuse you and show you that you are wrong. 4. Sometimes they knowingly started argue with you till your all energy drain.They may not stop arguing with you till you are accepting your fault or say sorry to him.They want to blame you for everything. Stage-4- Discard When they think that you are over possesive or not go as per their intentions then they will block you, discard you.They suddenly stop talking with you and started boycott,discarding you. Stage 5- Hoovering After 1 month,2 month or 6 month even if after 1 year they suddenly unblock you,started message you or started talking with you,recontacting you. They started all this because at that time they have no option,supply with him,there is no one with him.Thats why they need you. And again they started the same cycle with you till a another person come to his life. B. How to save yourself from narcist? Ans:- 1. Just block him from every social media and never comeback to narcist person life. Go ahead and move on. Never in this life time try to contact narcist. If you try to contact with him they will definitely take revenge with you and will do the same cycle.If in future they text you or call you then dont talk with him or dont reply them.Dont prove them they are wrong and dont criticise them.If you reply them then they will started manipulating talk and their words will destroy your mind and peace.They will attach their code in your mind and you again faceing problem to avoid them.They will comeback to your life only to take revenge.Remeber You are narcistic people big enemy because you escape yourself from their manipulating game.This thing hurt their ego. 2. Don't search love from outside of the world.Connect yourself with god for love.see yourself as Krishna point of view.Love Krishna and serve Krishna.Everything in world is false.Every relationship is false.Love Krishna and do bhakti to krishna. 3. Don't expect love,validation from outside world.Your good work will be reward by god oneday.Became a partner of yourself. Never depend upon anyone. Believe on Krishna and depend only on Krishna.Always focus on your goal. 4. Always stand for your own feeling. Don't go for those people who never respect your self respect. 5. Change the nature of loving others after getting insult or devalue from them. Make self respect your first priority. 6. Set boundaries for yourself. Stop believing what others saying good about you,why others showing good behaviors towards you.Narcistic people may compliment you,respect you or give credit to you as per their need from you.They know that you are hunger of validation.They used it as a weapons to manipulate you or take their work from you. 7. Stop explaining and defend yourself. They will never admit that they have any fault because they don't want to loose control over .so don't waste your time on them. Krishna knows very well who you are and what your intentions is. 8. Don't respond or give reaction to their silent treatment,anger . You may follow silence to their every reaction.If you don't follow silence then your own energy are taken by them and you feeling extreme tense and depression. 9. Never make victimize yourself in front of others to get symapthy from narcist or other persons. Never wants sympathy from others.Work on yourself and get out from your problem without wanting help from others.Believe in Krishna. 10.Never expose your plan infront of themself or expose themselves that you know that he is narcist. 11. Always work up on yourself.Work upon your weak point so that in future no one able to use your weak point against you. Do meditation daily to clean your aura. Balancing your masculine and feminine energy with meditation. 12.Never brings expectations while making any relationship.Never share your expectations with anyone.Just remember people will come to your life as per my karmic account and one day they will go from my life once my karmic account will close with those person.
@harshitgarg4109
Жыл бұрын
Thanku u Totally correct But my question is after she block me Mere dimag m vohi ghumty rheve
@atiyaparbin5799
22 сағат бұрын
u are spitting the fact
@atiyaparbin5799
22 сағат бұрын
i want to talk with you plz
@karanvishwakarma309
3 жыл бұрын
Sir bharat ko aapki jarurt hai good youth probalame solustion thanks sir jay hind indian army
@AnubhavJain
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Jai Hind :)
@deekshabhasin8795
3 жыл бұрын
@@AnubhavJain .bhai..Bharat^ kya all world Har Jajah Kamzor* insane ko log Neeachea deakhtea hi hai bas unka Tarikea alag hota hai..God bless you sir aap logo ko Aware^ kar ka ek bahut aachea kaam kar raha hai
@karanvishwakarma309
3 жыл бұрын
@@deekshabhasin8795 jay hind thanks
@shilpasolanki6531
2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou sir ase hi logo hote he inse to bhgvan hi bchaye jy ram ji ki sir oll the best ✌️👌💯👍
@farzanahussain1737
3 жыл бұрын
Well said sir mai aisa sab kuch barso se khel rahi hun..par aaj aap se mujhe sahi jaankari mili..thank you so much ❤️❤️
@sushilaverma4209
3 жыл бұрын
Very well explained Sir. Is narcissism phycological disorder? Can this be treated ? And how to deal with such people?
@kshitijapalwekar1899
3 жыл бұрын
Narcissism is a tendency while Narcissist Personality Disorder is a personality disorder. There are many other personality disorders like Bipolar Personality Disorder (Ranbir's character in Tamasha) and most of them are non curable as these are not Disease but Disorder. NPD is also non curable.
@vkkivines6362
3 жыл бұрын
Sir jab aapne kaha ki aap barbad hone k baad 1 lakh se wapas Zindagi shuru ki to mujhme bhi himmat aa gayee warna suicide ka vichar bar bar mann me aa raha tha kyuki 1 saal corona me bahut nuksan ho gaya
@devyaneechandra6498
3 жыл бұрын
I know. I have been through the same
@RamGopal-hz6oz
Ай бұрын
Very nice.Thanku.
@ManishaSingh-jl7sm
3 жыл бұрын
Aisha humesha apne hi kerte hai.I also suffer this problem but I always stand for me.Aapki video se aur bhi strength mili.Thanks Bhaiya 🙏
@madhuriupadhyay7424
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much..love you 😘
@vinceisgod1547
3 жыл бұрын
Superior...😀😀😀Bhagwan ke bhaiyee 5:41😂😂😂space se earth ki photo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@uzmamalik2905
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right beside sir bilkol mere sath me aesa hi hota h ...besss lgai jati hai...apne aapko hmesha correct samjhte hai....kabbi kabbhi meri nii suni..suni sbne aml nii kiya...agr mujhe chota sa bhi kamm bigd jaye ...too pita too alg se jata or bora bhal kaha jata hai hmesha 🙄... I don't know..what they want of me Älways......soch rodivadi...sjha samjha kr thaq gi me ...or abb mene samjhana hi bnd krdiya inlogo ko ekk dm chup...mujhe samjh nii ata aakhir kese log h ye...itna guru hayee Allah ..hd h ...😏😶...tu aesi tu vesi h ....mtlb insan ko bol bol kr hi Mardo or Yhi krte hai ..🥺...lekin ab mujhe samjh aagya h aese logo ko samjhana or bhes krna bekar h chup raho or kuch bda kro pdo ache se or yha se niklo ....mazid bardas nii hote ...!!!!
@JaatJaat-ps4es
8 ай бұрын
Job lgna bi to itna asan nhi h or mr Mr kr kyu jeena isse acha unko ignore kro
@diptisadrani1451
7 ай бұрын
Logical advise superbb ANUBHAVBHAI NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY MATE Thodi wrong, NARSISSTIC PERSON BHAGVAN YA SUPREME SHAKTI KO NAKARATA HAI. KHUD सर्वोच्च HAI EISA मानता है
@renarena4583
3 жыл бұрын
Great sir ji 🙏🙏
@ManojKumar-fr4pq
3 жыл бұрын
Aajkal ladkio ko aise he ladkey pasand hai
@nishabasfore5914
2 жыл бұрын
I am also facing narcissistic people around me , everyday in my life. It is very unbearable to tolerate them and l cannot come out of this situation that is great problem.
@Megha-67t
3 жыл бұрын
100% TRUE 👌👌❤️
@priyankagoswami6774
3 жыл бұрын
Pls make 2nd part also how to deal with such persons becoz mere pass sab aise hi log rehte
@hemanttiwari7853
3 жыл бұрын
Sir ne upar comment section mein hi link diya hai about how to deal with these people.
@NS-id7ff
3 жыл бұрын
One reason could be that your personality is such that you are an easy target for narcissists & attracting on narcissists in your life...so you have to change your personality to attract normal people... there are plenty of videos on KZitem about narcissists..learn n work on changing your personality & befriend normal boring people as they're better than narcissists n your life will be more peaceful
@priyankagoswami6774
3 жыл бұрын
@@NS-id7ff thanks dear 👍yes ur right
@priyankagoswami6774
3 жыл бұрын
@@shubhamvishwakarma3629 wonderful thanx👍
@rameshrekhi6780
Жыл бұрын
So much beautiful and absolutely true
@kalpanakumari1964
10 ай бұрын
Meri saas hai, hamesha mujhe nicha dikhati hai aur apni aur apni betiyo ki badai krti rahti hai. Ab to wo mere bachho ko bhi mere khilaf bhadkati hai.
@homesinghverma4525
3 жыл бұрын
You are great sir
@manjusavanur6669
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou 👌👌
@sweetyvans7193
3 жыл бұрын
Aapki Baate Bilkul Thik Hai
@svsingh8801
2 жыл бұрын
Mera husband aishe h meri life hell krdiya h 😭 meri sari khushiyan sari duniya khatam krdiya h unhone m kiya karun 😭 kabhi kabhi lagta hai m mar jayun koyi mtlb nhi h ish zindagi ki
@JaatJaat-ps4es
8 ай бұрын
mrna jruri nhi hota rista nhi chl rha to alag alag jeo ya apne hisab se jeeo mRNA kyu h
@anjaligangwar4328
3 жыл бұрын
Thank u sir🙏
@nirmalworldcompany468
3 жыл бұрын
kya kam karte ho aap
@NeetuSingh-ew8nc
3 жыл бұрын
Yah! It happens with me, my elder sister do this. 😔
@uttrakhand9
Жыл бұрын
Ajkal aise log jyada hain sir।mujhe is personality type ki jankari 2022me hi mili।kuch salo pahle mil jati to kae bura anubhav dene waley logon se BCH jatey।aap ak achhey pathprdarsak ho jo logon ko niswarth sahi raah dikhane ka pryas kr rahey ho।bhagwan aapko hamesha logon ki buri najro se bcha k rakhey।aur ap hamesha positivity ka amrit is dhara pr brsatey raheyn 🙏
@sanaiqbal1045
Жыл бұрын
My goodness bhaiya, aapki kahi hui ek ek baat sach hai, Aisa lagra hai jaise Maine aapko ye ek ek baat btaayi ho, God I'm shocked aise bhi log hote hai wo bhi aise traits ke saath, Aaj meri confusion door hui 😔
@parnalidas0
3 жыл бұрын
Sir, one question do they regret of who leaves them?? And what is the best way to deal with them?
@esha2696
2 жыл бұрын
They don't regret if you leave. They become your enemy the second you hurt their ego
@m.chandanchandan6842
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for this useful video ...how to handle such type of personality ??
@AnubhavJain
3 жыл бұрын
The next video is on this topic see the link I'm pinned comment
@RamGopal-hz6oz
2 жыл бұрын
Very good. Thanku sir.
@chandrakalamadhavan5839
2 жыл бұрын
Very true Reading sir bilkul sahi kaha hai aap ne.. wo Apne aap ko supiriyere hi Manta hai
@xm7176
3 жыл бұрын
Sir narcissistic ppl se kese deal kare uspe bhi vdo banaiye bohat dominate karte hai aise log.. mere gharpe meri sas devar dono bhi aise hi hai..mera pati dinbhar ghar ni rehta me akeli in logo se pareshan ho jati hu. Kese deal kare inse? apni koi bat/opinion/point batao inko to ignore karte hai. Please sir make next vdo on this topic
@AnubhavJain
3 жыл бұрын
Banadi hai, link apne linked comment me de diya hai
@seetusamarth1848
3 жыл бұрын
Sir apne husband wife hi aise ho to bada mushkil hota h....sir aise logo ko deal krne ka tarika btao plz..
@jaatkhaap1687
2 жыл бұрын
Ase logo ko hm sir pr baitha lete h to utarna bi to khud ko pdega izzat dena bnd kr do
@rasilapatel3624
2 ай бұрын
My husband is like Narcissist I lived with him for 42 years it was so hard to live with him he is very bed Narcissist you are right he was like you are saying
@DRxNIKHILTANDON
3 жыл бұрын
Ye samaj ke liye bahot bada khatra hai
@DRxNIKHILTANDON
3 жыл бұрын
Good work to aware people about this matter 🙏👍
@krishnsakhi8909
3 жыл бұрын
Sir ,meri life me bhi aisa ek khas insan h use chod nhi shakti bt nibhna bhut uskil ho rha h.....😥
@user-ps4zw2nc6e
3 жыл бұрын
Same sister
@js6628
3 жыл бұрын
Duniya hi narcissist logon se bhari hui hain bhai
@parusharmaofficialvlog6612
2 жыл бұрын
Same problem
@Kushikumarigupta399
2 жыл бұрын
Leave him and stay happy. Trust me i came out of a toxic relationship and now my current partner treats me like his princess.
@homesweethome5441
3 жыл бұрын
So true words... Very very true 👍
@prasadr9577
2 ай бұрын
Thanks sir this video.. I had a GF which I was almost married her... Then I put boundaries to her then she just discarded me and married someone else now.. I was in depression after her marriage now I get to know she was narcissist girl
@priyagarg2762
3 жыл бұрын
Sir ,khte h ki suside paap hota h kya koi valid reason h iska
@ImranAnsari-uv5cw
3 жыл бұрын
Hn di kyuki life hmari h hme aage bdhna chaaahiye and Khush rehna chaaahiye
@priyagarg2762
3 жыл бұрын
@@ImranAnsari-uv5cw bhut katin lg rhi h jindgi ,specially logo k taano se
@ssb3790
3 жыл бұрын
Need this video 🙏🙏
@amitanayak5860
6 ай бұрын
Sir me aise jhel jhel k ayi hoon that's why dur ho gayi hum insaan he aapni galti man kar jhuk jate he par samne wale jhukte nahi galti par galti karte he sari dosh mere upar thop dete he rahi baat hum insaan he bhagwan nahi ego ko leke kya karenge sabse galti hoti he bas fark itna he koi man jate he koi nahi khudko agge rakhte he aise logo me v dur rehti hoon
@mohinderaastropal1240
2 жыл бұрын
🙏आदरणीय जैन साहब भारत में तो एक ऐसा *स्वघोषित अघोषित आरक्षण* वाला **वर्ग और वर्ण** भी है जो अपने आप को को सबसे **श्रेष्ठ और विशिष्ट** समझता है l उन्हीं के रहते हुए भारत **1000 साल तक** गुलाम रहा l
@anamikasaini2147
3 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi sir apki ek ek bat sahi hai pura ka pura mere husband per hi vidio bna h pure aise hi h
@prwinderkaur285
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@swaranginaik2847
2 жыл бұрын
My mother had some of this qualities. Now she's bit changed.
@Kart1137
3 жыл бұрын
Bahut Sahi kha sir aapne 🙏🙏🙏
@vidyadeepsciencetutorial1509
3 жыл бұрын
Apke har video mai khub dekhta hu...aur apne dosto me share karta hu. Mere jivan me bohot kam ate hai apke videos
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