‘Nervous System, Wounding and Desires’
by Guy Barrington
11.12.23
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Hey there so I was watching a KZitem clip about relationships and this woman was exploring her experience with her nervous system her wounds and her desires and was saying that a very authentic biological level this is what influences her decision making around what kind of relationship what style of relationship she chooses to be in.
It's got me thinking, very interesting right, the relationship between our nervous system our wounds and our desires. Now if you take away society, religion, politics, what you should do, what media books tell you and Hollywood romance. Take all that away and just consider what is authentic and natural to you individually, uniquely based on your nervous system wiring.
People often say ‘you're getting on my nerves’ or ‘something's on my nerves’. What is that what is on the nerves, is it the emotion, the wounding, the perception, the interpretation and how that influences your behavior which is going to influence your desires, which is going to influence your choices.
So let's imagine that you've got lots of wounding, unprocessed wounding, and this is having an impact on your nervous system and the nervous system is speaking your mind. Your body is speaking your mind, the ‘biology of belief’ as Bruce Lipton puts it in his book. The nervous system is really communicating through our thought process, through our Visionary process, through our desires, what we wish and want in the world.
If this is true, consider the reverse engineering of this, heal the wounds, heal the pain, address what's trapped in the nervous system, free it, free energetically, free emotionally, psychically, spiritually, all the different levels, energetically. It's going to influence your desire, it's going to influence your choices. So this is the value of any kind of trauma work, poly vagal work, getting into the parasympathetic nervous system. Just allowing yourself to really heal and rebalance the nervous system so you can get a clear signal through the body to the mind about what you really authentically desire when your nervous system is healed and balanced and integral. Up until that point, it's quite likely that your choices are going to be governed by your trauma body wounding.
What I see is that some people superimpose an idea on top of themselves like I should be polyamorous, in an open relationship, be monogamous or in a particular relationship style like it's a ‘thing’, like it's an object or a club they should somehow belong to, so disregarding completely their own individual nervous system trauma response in their body.
So imagine that you've got traumatic wounding from the past, abandonment issues, fear of connection, anxiety, that sense of isolation, separation and you end up in a polyamorous, open free love Community. You feel that you should be there or peer pressure puts you there, or you want to experiment or explore, but your nervous system is clearly wounded, then you're going to experience tremendous jealousy, insecurity, lack of stability, because the nervous system is going to respond to every interaction.
What was advised in this KZitem clip was, don't superimpose any philosophy, religion, idea or ideal onto yourself, really respect your own nervous system, your own wounding and then listen carefully to your desires, how they rise.
So it's an experiment really a huge experiment, as we go deeper into our own healing and start to clarify and resolve our nervous system issues, our wounding ,just observe how your desires change and how your behaviors change and how your vision for the world changes.
This is a really authentic biology based view, or ‘inside-out approach’, from your authentic experience is how we choose the world.
…interesting, nervous system, wounds and desires. See what you think, what you feel, what you experience and if you want, comment below, I'm curious, I'm fascinated by this and I'm going to keep contemplating and observing myself and others in relation to this distinction. Thanks for listening, Bye
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