I think the most important part when a person grew up in a dysfunctional family is that a person is able to recognise it was disfunctional and recognise the effects it had on them. Trauma in childhood often leads to emotional immaturity but because of that the person is not able to work on their personal problems because emotional immaturity makes that you look for the cause of your problems outside of you. You had the intelligence and insight to recognise what happened to you and although that will not take away the pain, becoming emotional mature and being able to take care of your own needs makes a big difference in life.
@rosaliemixjourney8953
3 жыл бұрын
Can we friends . please visit me
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, recognising that there has been a disfunction is half of the solution. Still it's so dam hard! But it gets better :) Thank you for leaving this comment :)
@emmamackt
3 жыл бұрын
really well said :)
@oenamo1855
3 жыл бұрын
@@emmamackt 🙂 A happy newyear! 🌟
@waseemmaher3454
3 жыл бұрын
@@rosaliemixjourney8953 yes sure
@ranitha1569
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Olga,, ur Face n hair always remains beautiful,, love from INDIA 🇮🇳
@shenalixoxo3832
3 жыл бұрын
Hi im from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I hope it lasts :D
@ranitha1569
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja Sure because you always have a strong concentrate on ur appearance,If Olga is 💯, I am following all ur health videos 90percentage, practicing Face Yoga since 2013.. love from INDIA 🇮🇳
@miramira-ny9zx
3 жыл бұрын
i like u so much.i m from INDIA.
@decemberclouds
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing information about your transformation. I feel like we are going through the same thing!! I grew up in a really dysfunctional family that I'm still trying to deal with now (with lots of self-help books and no therapy for the time being £££). It's so hard to explain to people that you missed so much growing up, there was not only the things that you experienced, but the things you DIDN'T get to experience. I feel like I'm still trying to get to the start line and some people seem so frustrated with me that I'm not half way through the race already. I'm on a big time healing journey myself (it's very woo-woo and somewhat similar to your situation so I won't get into it) so here's to the Beautiful You!
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you say... grieving not only things you did get but didn't want but also things you never got/experienced which should have been there. I think there is some of it still in me even after all the work and therapy etc, I idealise other people's lives sometimes and I have this divide for people from perfect homes and dysfunctional homes as if there was no grey area which of course there is. I'm totally cheering on you and wish you quick and lasting recovery. So glad you took the step to self care and decided to face it all :) Well done!
@gigi121
3 жыл бұрын
Praise God! Your spiritual eyes have been opened with a spiritual revelation!
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@yeshuac2715
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your testimony, I always wondered if you knew Jesus, becsuse you have such a radiance in you, I 've been watching your Videos for a couple of years so nice to know that now! God bless you sister! All the best from Germany! :-)
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I've got the grace of conversion, it was a big part of my healing. I don't know where would I be today without it :) It's interesting you could spot something and suspect it is that even before you knew ;)
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
@Chlarie Peace There are good and bad people everywhere, I don't think generalising is a great thing to do.
@pilarkrol
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you Olga 😘❤🙏🏽✝️ you are such an inspiration! Jesus is real 🤎 i love you! Love from the Netherlands
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@pilarkrol
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja ✝️🤎🥰 never give up, god is on your side! Have a peaceful night 🙏🏽❤
@tayibaislam6195
3 жыл бұрын
Plzz read my comment. 🙋🙋🙋🙏🙏Can u please make a video on lifting eye brows?? Plz plzz. Like i have very short eye lids because my eye brows are too low even my brow bones are covered. But i dont need to pluck them because they ar already very thin.. I just want to lift them up above my brow bones.
@moeezmondal
3 жыл бұрын
Waw
@rithuv.p.2587
3 жыл бұрын
Dear love and Respect from INDIA/ Kerala.You are truly an inspiration to others,And keep going dear.And you are looking like a college girl💃
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much and haha thanks for the complement!
@MUHAMMADARIF-el4cw
3 жыл бұрын
Looking nice
@TSDSdiaries2222
3 жыл бұрын
Hii olga.. Am ur new subscriber... From india🇮🇳 😍... I have a oily sensitive acne prone skin...pls suggest me .. A best sunscreen and facial oil ..... May I use Aloevera for facial Massage?
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Hello dear, you can use aloe very just make sure you have the slippery surface on your skin through the whole massage. As for the sunscreen please check the video I did recently on the best sunscreen which I highly recommend for any skin type :)
@TSDSdiaries2222
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja tq dr😍
@mdazk746
3 жыл бұрын
Awe, so nice of u.. Love and greetings from an Indian citizen 😊😊
@fatimafarooqui8082
3 жыл бұрын
😀😀
@rekhakumari173
3 жыл бұрын
U are already much pretty
@archanagr5857
3 жыл бұрын
Hi olga 👋☺
@PRINCESS__SUHANA6
3 жыл бұрын
2:10 your Expression😍
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
haha xD
@Maleblade
3 жыл бұрын
First! Stay safe and healthy. hugs :)
@carolynf384
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your new life with Jesus :)
@surendarkumar4895
3 жыл бұрын
i love you
@littlenagyal15
3 жыл бұрын
Make a video on Gua Sha stone facial massage...
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
I think I've done one a while ago (the massage with gua sha). I prefer using hands though!
@littlenagyal15
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja oh okay...❤️ You are so sweet, thanks for letting me know... ❤️
@darija2308
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Olga, I have 2 amazing books to recommend that you might find helpful; "Toxic parents" by S.Forward and "The body keeps the score" by B. Van der Kolk. So happy for your new chapter, everything will be wonderful! Congrats! Sending you love! 🍀💕🌟
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
So good, thanks very much for sharing I'll surely get my hand on the books! Thanks
@up4itgal
3 жыл бұрын
So glad that everything is going well for you my dear I wish you all the luck in your new flat and can you do two jobs at once LOL
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, I need lots of luck now so very grateful for all your (telepathic) support
@fatemehkazempour1763
Жыл бұрын
hi olga im fatemeh from iran i see your video and love you thanks for your explains that changes my life .im 82 kg and after seeyour channel i try and exercise and become 55 kg and i do your yoga practice. just thanks
@Dandelion_flight
3 жыл бұрын
Ah so lovely to hear that you have received Jesus into your heart. God is 100% real and He gave His Son for us. We may not understand all the suffering on this planet, but God is at work these 6000 years and one day, there will be healing, no more tears no more death. Have faith : And he showed me a pure river of water of life, clear as crystal, proceeding from the throne of God and of the Lamb. In the middle of its street, and on either side of the river, was the tree of life, which bore twelve fruits, each tree yielding its fruit every month. The leaves of the tree were for the healing of the nations. And there shall be no more curse, but the throne of God and of the Lamb shall be in it, and His servants shall serve Him. They shall see His face, and His name shall be on their foreheads. There shall be no night there: They need no lamp nor light of the sun, for the Lord God gives them light. And they shall reign forever and ever. Revelation 22:1-5
@michaeljoyce9732
3 жыл бұрын
Darling Olga Just be patient.. I have moved so many times and boy is it stressful... YOU shall adjust. Believe me... I Wish you very well. Bless you. Carmel 💕 ( Ireland)
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
It is stressful indeed, thank you for sympathy and assuring words, yup the adjustment will come shortly hopefully :)
@laxmikhadka1942
3 жыл бұрын
Hii preety lots of love from Nepal.Please share the winter face care.
@dastgeerrajpoot8733
3 жыл бұрын
Hi how r u niec
@glorialagroon6171
3 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful Olga. Thank you for sharing and updating us about all the goodness happening in your life. So happy for you ! Congratulations on your cute home and your wonderful jobs. Wish you the best ! Take care and sending love and good vibes from Texas. BTW you're looking more radiant than ever ! Don't know if you have a video on how you've lost weight. Would like to hear what you did, if you don't mind. 😉💕
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your kind words and support :) Haha no I didn't lose weight I think it all depends on the angle ;) Although I was working out more than usual during lockdown so perhaps got a bit toned up :)
@nikivable
3 жыл бұрын
Olga, I am so happy for you! And excited as well, now waiting for an update from the new place 😁 cheers from Ireland, from a Polish girl! Najlepszego 😊
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Czesc! Thanks very much for encouraging words and your support, I shall do a vlog from the moving in to the new place, it will be exciting! (and scary for me ;) )
@shahzadaakhter1104
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Mam I am 32 year's old I have white hair problem from last 20 years this is due to being sick for a long time plz tell me the right treatment
@danicaofficial2036
2 жыл бұрын
Happy to listen that you love Jesus Christ as I love Jesus more than anything else. 👌👌👌👌
@gowsalyasegar9491
3 жыл бұрын
What I eat in a day video send please
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Will do when I finally move in to the new flat :)
@simona_petrut
3 жыл бұрын
It’s nice cause from the first minute of the video I thought you can see God is within her, without me knowing you gave your life to Jesus. 💖 he shines through you 🤍
@manonitam6101
3 жыл бұрын
WOW !! Google placement.... awesome....congrats girl. If you are interested in some freelancing work at international level please do forward me your resume. I think you will do great on the platform where I want to refer you. Thanks !
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds interesting, what kind of work do you have in mind when you say international level freelancing? How about we chat in private, my email address is olgatoja@outlook.com (or you can give me yours in the comment). Thanks!
@educationiskey4553
3 жыл бұрын
Hiii Olga. Can you please suggest some products for dark spots and pigmentation on skin ..
@educationiskey4553
3 жыл бұрын
Hiii Olga. Can you please suggest some products for dark spots and pigmentation on skin ..
@divine20246
3 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍
@mujahidalikhan4301
3 жыл бұрын
hello dear i do some of the remedies u do n i apply the same on my mothers face n alhumdolillah thanksalot dear...i can understand how does it feel to leave one place n bt a change is always good..somany emotions must b going on n on ...u will b happy fr sure
@avinashraj5042
3 жыл бұрын
You r such a kind heart person I will give you 4 million dollars one day 🙂
@gauri5680
3 жыл бұрын
Love from India🇮🇳 I love your VLOG 😘
@streetdancers3026
3 жыл бұрын
Hai face massage video please upload
@AM-jy2yk
3 жыл бұрын
You can see below
@ambikathapa6645
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Olga ! Your inner beauty surpasses your beauty. Congratulations you are so talented. God bless you . Love from INDIA...
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for these kind words, very encouraging! Sending you lots of hugs :)
@lifeisprecious3716
3 жыл бұрын
Hello sweet lady🥰🥰
@falguni1344
3 жыл бұрын
Khub sundor ❤️
@ManojThapa-sp3bw
3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@JosieSchuller
3 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a dysfunctional household too and agree 100% that therapy helps. If someone is thinking they can’t afford therapy please check to see if there’s a therapist that has a sliding scale fee. I found a good, affordable therapist by calling a suicide prevention hotline; they recommended one to me. Thank you for making videos like this. Seeing you happy gives me hope for myself. Congratulations on your new apartment and jobs!
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
That is amazing, I'm so happy you found the way to find the therapist, yes it can be pricy but as you said there are ways to get it for any budget so it doesn't have to be a barrier (e.g. my therapy was for free via charity). I wish you plenty of health and good life :) Hugs!
@danicaofficial2036
2 жыл бұрын
All ur videos are very helpful to remove wrinkles. Love you
@madhukoyyan3497
3 жыл бұрын
Hello.....I always watch your videos....all are good....loves from kerala,India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
@монак-с2з
3 жыл бұрын
May I ask your height in cm and how many kg you have?
@virgostar8278
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Olga ...God bless you🙃😍
@jasmitkaur4151
3 жыл бұрын
Please share video on skin whitening
@maddleen
3 жыл бұрын
Gdzie mieszkasz w Londynie? :)
@shinchan2201
3 жыл бұрын
Not from dysfunctional family but still can feel your pain (a bit)...happy for you that you getting better
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy you never had to experience that! Thank you for your compassion and support :)
@shinchan2201
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja we love u God loves u stay strong n positive
@ferdaoussroussi5374
3 жыл бұрын
Olga how are you?
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Very well, thank you, how are you? :)
@danicaofficial2036
2 жыл бұрын
Love to see all of your videos for skin care
@بكرصالح-ه8ه
3 жыл бұрын
هلو اني من العراق اريد مساج للشعر
@يومياتفتاةبسيطة-ث1ذ
3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@Livinas
3 жыл бұрын
Hi beauty. Love your video. Hope you will wearing black or dark nail polish on your next video soon 💅💅😍😍😍
@mrmidas1398
3 жыл бұрын
Mystical Princess of Edinburgh.
@ComeLJC
3 жыл бұрын
You have such a good heart Olga. Right from the first time I clicked into your videos, there was a sense of lightheartedness in you. It is even more apparent now that Jesus has become the centre of your life.
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this comment, great to know and of course the Man above is the reason for this , it's incredible that you could spot something like that ;) Greetings and hugs to you :)
@ComeLJC
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja hugs as well from down under.😘 All things will work together for you Olga as your steps are ordained and guided by the Lord. Trust Him no matter what circumstance you are in. Even in trials and adversities, in joys and much blessings, the Lord is always with you.
@nabilaakhtar818
3 жыл бұрын
How old is she?
@lauralee3218
3 жыл бұрын
Your new kitchen is beautiful!! God has blessed you in many ways ✨🌈✨!!! So exciting a new home great for you!! Ask the best beautiful Olgatoja ❤️!! Happy Thanksgiving 🦃 🍁🍽to you enjoy all your blessings xoxo 🌈❤️🌈
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your sweet comment
@evelinadehitta4471
3 жыл бұрын
Happy for you keep safe always GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS
@PRINCESS__SUHANA6
3 жыл бұрын
HELLOO OLGA SIS HOW R U??
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
I'm very well thank you, how are you doing?
@PRINCESS__SUHANA6
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja I m good
@PRINCESS__SUHANA6
3 жыл бұрын
Wow your kitchen is beautiful 👌
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks ! Technically it's not mine... it's the landlord's flat ;)
@PRINCESS__SUHANA6
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja ok
@ANAM_455
3 жыл бұрын
Love from India Looking cute..😊😊😊
@muhammad.riazkhan1976
3 жыл бұрын
Ur kitchen seems lavish. It is well managed. Thanks to shear ur activity with followers. It is awesome. Wish u best of luck for new accommodation. Regard frm Pakistan.
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much and yes I agree, the kitchen turned out well :)
@niceplayground
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you're a born again Christian ❤️ Church is so awkward for me so it's difficult to talk about these things but you just said it in such a natural way. Thxx
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
I feel you totally, it can be awkward especially when no one from your circle is admitting it. But I realised it is what it is, I'm not here to force anything on to anyone but there is nothing wrong in telling what IS for me in an honest normal way. :)
@annettemartinez9508
3 жыл бұрын
You remain a sweet heart. So happy you found Jesus i did as well. I have some favorites.in u tub Dr gene Kim real bible believers, he has hundreds of teachings, you can go to proving once saved always saved, eternal security, how to rightly divide, how to get saved. How to get my friends saved. So so many. Also I like watchman on the wall 88, so many as well. watchman Jerry Toney. , off the Kirby ministries so many. , Robert breaker go to once saved always saved. He has so many as well. He was a missionary. I also love prophecy unfolding Jesus is coming soon. These guys are from Ireland. I really love to listen to them as well. Watch woman 65. Heal and restore. I can't remember her name. I like two preachers, they show weekly what happening around the world. If I think of any one else I'll let you know. God bless you. I really enjoy your chanle. All those are on u tub.
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome , I'm happy you are my sister in Christ :) Thanks for all the recommendations, I'll check them out in a spare moment :)
@salemdog100
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. EVERYONE comes from a dysfunctional family... everyone! The particulars and the details may be different, but all of us have challenges of one sort or another. Keep moving forward, one step at a time. We all support you. We must support each other, too.
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true, we all have a history of disfunction. The key is to keep going as you said. Many thanks for all your support I can feel it and need it!
@swatianand7263
3 жыл бұрын
Really happy for you Olga... congratulations..... Energy works..... sending loads of positive energy for u
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, I appreciate it and can feel you good energy sent from long distance :)
@mughalcreations4639
3 жыл бұрын
Shit i am late😔 Hey Gorgeous i like the room very much because u r in this room😉😍 i enjoyed the video very much keep sharing also this kind of video 😍 loveable beauty Olga lots of love from Pakistan❤
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Haha thanks, the room is a bit messy but that's the reality! Thanks for your encouraging words, I'll try to make more videos like this :) Sending you hugs!
@NK-ik2fj
3 жыл бұрын
Polish Goddess😍😍
@shiv-qx1up
3 жыл бұрын
Really it happened to me as well, to believe in sprituality kind of bless. Bcoz after this you will get to know how much God is loving you.
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
That's such a good news that you had a similar experience, you are very blessed! I wish you bright walk forward with God :)
@qayyumkhan1900
3 жыл бұрын
Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰
@Trading-Student2023
3 жыл бұрын
SAME DEAR I AM ALSO CHANGING ROOM....... IN THIS MONTH .... REALLY
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome, feels like you are my twin sister in terms of changes! I wish you a smooth move and happy new place!
@missgaia12
3 жыл бұрын
You know, girl.... no matter how much growth one has gone through, keeping the grace going, is the most important thing ever. Be always graceful, which you are :) All the best!!
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
The grace is real and it's our duty and privilege to keep it in grow in it. Thank you for your message and all the support
@myolwin1816
3 жыл бұрын
So beautiful your home ❤️ I love you ❤️❤️
@AM-jy2yk
3 жыл бұрын
Hi dear, may I ask you how did you loose weight? I have been away from your videos for a while and I think I lost something!.... Thank you
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
I actually haven't (I don't think so anyway, not intentionally!) I've been working out more than usually during lock down so I guess I got a bit more toned up but not lost kg ;)
@princessnerd7266
3 жыл бұрын
Olga, you have a beautiful aura about you. God is truly good and may he continue to shower you with blessings.
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much, so kind!
@parisbear6062
3 жыл бұрын
We don't need to hear details of your personal life if it affects you and your family . Just keep doing what you are doing you are lovely.
@loperamid6312
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, gratulacje. Z tego co wiem bardzo trudno się dostać do google
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Dzieki wielkie, nie jest latwo ale jak widac gdy szczescie sie usmiechnie to sie da :D Pozdrawiam serdecznie!
@marilyndubois9209
3 жыл бұрын
So happy for you Olga and thank you for sharing about Jesus ....He is awesome and I've known Him as my personal Savior for 39 years and don't regret it.....He is so faithful!!!!! Bless you in your move it will be wonderful!!!!
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this encouraging comment, He is so good, I'm very happy He is your companion for the past 39 years. I wish you many many more years of this divine friendship :)
@marilyndubois9209
3 жыл бұрын
Awwww thank you Olga you are so sweet!!!!
@mihmdhff184
3 жыл бұрын
Hi olga,you're always amazing
@nairshilpa53
3 жыл бұрын
I am your big fan Mam you are awesome personality, I am from India, kerala love you mam..👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you hun, very sweet and encouraging comment!
@nairshilpa53
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja thank you too❤️ love you mam
@thequeenoflife6236
3 жыл бұрын
Gratulacje!
@-jjc4
3 жыл бұрын
You are an inspiration to me, and I'm so happy for you for the great things that are happening in your life♥ Thank you so much for being so open and humble in sharing♥ xx
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much for these encouraging words, I shall keep sharing these kind of updates :) Hugs and greetings for you!
@lingjellaishram762
3 жыл бұрын
Hii sis... I like ur style
@ahmaddanialmohammad
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you. Continue to fill yourself with positive vibes and transform yourself to greatness. Proud of you, Olga!
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Danial you always have a positive word for me, thanks fo much! Hugs to you and your family :)
@ahmaddanialmohammad
3 жыл бұрын
@@olgatoja You are welcome. Always!
@princemumar6294
3 жыл бұрын
Your so beautiful...
@barbiestargirl1700
3 жыл бұрын
You are so pretty 💖💖💖 Lots of love to you 💗
@bavithixc2997
3 жыл бұрын
So good
@anithaj7579
3 жыл бұрын
love you Olga.
@jiyahanoch7002
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you and stay happy 😇♥️
@lobsangtsering859
3 жыл бұрын
Wow fantastic!👍
@EccoLivingLife
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@jen5093
3 жыл бұрын
❤❤🙏🙏
@imrankhan-bc1qe
3 жыл бұрын
We all these heaps of your fans and followers are here so you need not to feel like this. All our support and love there for you 💐
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
thank you very much for these encouraging words, indeed it feels like a family here so thank you for reminding us about it! :)
@imrankhan-bc1qe
3 жыл бұрын
You are always welcome. See you are our inspiration & such leaders are always more courageous in face of adversities💪
@phoenixtheenchantress
3 жыл бұрын
Aww I'm soo happy for you
@olgatoja
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you :D
@oldgloryfarm_
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, I am so happy to hear you gave your life to Jesus! You have such a sweet spirit about you.
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