spot on, healthy mental talk is so key to how I perform
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
100%. Your mental talk also makes you delightful to play with 😃
@ageclipse
Ай бұрын
Ugh... the timing of this vid is on point. My last two rounds, my expectations were much higher than my score card was showing. (for me it was off the tee issues) and I had to scramble big time for 18holes. you're 100% right about We're the biggest critic of our own game.
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
We totally are! But the great thing about that is it's totally in our control to fix, and it takes way less time than we think. When I learned this, I changed overnight - it was awesome. Did you change your expectations after those rounds?
@brenmcf
Ай бұрын
You have helped me so much, thankyou for this!!
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
My pleasure! So glad it's helpful 😃
@gerdamarsh
Ай бұрын
thanks. I needed this.
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
You got it! Glad you found it helpful!
@gerdamarsh
Ай бұрын
@@upbeatgolfer super helpful - went out today and applied your ideas and had one of my top 10 rounds of the season. And had more fun not pouting and being mad at myself.
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
Whaaaaaaat! That is awesome! Did you have any key things that stood out, that you're going to do again next time?
@gerdamarsh
Ай бұрын
@@upbeatgolfer that's easy - the "yelling at your inner child" really struck a chord with me in the anger segment. This past week I've been quietly talking to myself after a poor shot in a soothing way, no more anger or yelling. It definitely helps me.
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
That is amazing! Love hearing that. Personally I've found it really helps in other parts of life too (maybe you have the same experience?). My life overall got a lot more chill once I decided that every part of me was on my side. Would love to hear more about your experience if you'd like to share but no pressure!
@JLeeGolf
Ай бұрын
My + handicap playing partner is the cockiest golfer I know. Before he hits a bunker shot he will always say hes going to put it super close, but then will proceed to put it super close. He's super confident in his game and I am not. I've started forcing myself to be confident and forgetting about bad shots and the small tweak to my attitude shaved a minimum of 3 shots
@robertalford3896
Ай бұрын
Super helpful! Absolutely love your content
@JLeeGolf
Ай бұрын
@@robertalford3896 thanks! Haha but I'm assuming you meant upbeat golfers content!
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
I'm glad he rubbed off on you! I have a buddy who's super self-deprecating but once in a while he'll say "watch this" and hit a ridiculously good shot. I'm like "why don't you say that every time?!" It's almost like being cocky can turn on a different mode in our heads (as long as we turn down the volume on the doubting voices in there...)
@matthewkelly2634
15 күн бұрын
Great video! I’m realizing that this is the part of my game I need to work on most. I have definitely been that pouty playing partner that nobody wants to be around. I get so hung up on the technical things that sometimes it paralyzes me and makes it almost impossible to make a good swing. Good rounds have turned into really bad ones after a bad shot or two sends me into a spiral. I’ve realized that the times I’ve played the best is when I was enjoying myself and who I was with. If you’re not having fun playing golf, then what is the point?
@upbeatgolfer
14 күн бұрын
1000%! It's called PLAYing golf right?! Also, big kudos to you for the self-awareness that you might be the pouty playing partner - that is huge. Re: the one or two bad shots that send you into a spiral - if you don't mind sharing, I'd be interested to hear what you're thinking after those shots that you think gets the spiral going?
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Ай бұрын
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@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
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Ай бұрын
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Ай бұрын
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@charliebrown3597
Ай бұрын
Hey everybody, it's Tony Robbins.... Tommy Boy
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@AbdulRahim-cu7y
27 күн бұрын
Hey Manu! Do you edit videos by yourself, or have you hired someone? I can help if you’re interested.
@upbeatgolfer
26 күн бұрын
Hey Abdul - I do them myself but would love to chat about how you could help! Do you mind dropping me an email (upbeatgolfer at Gmail)?
@AbdulRahim-cu7y
26 күн бұрын
@@upbeatgolfer Cool! I just dropped you an email.
@BidenIsKing
Ай бұрын
3 words to stop saying: shank yip blade
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
True dat. Though it's ok if you're saying them to your opponent 🤪 I kid I kid
@BidenIsKing
Ай бұрын
@@upbeatgolfer no you don’t, and that makes you a man! A true friend would say those things to me and pass me a beer!
@upbeatgolfer
Ай бұрын
Haha you caught me! I definitely mess with my friends, especially if there's a game on 😃
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