Reality is, sometimes we are just not what he wants, they keepe us as place holders til who they think is the one comes along, then spin the block when they realize you were the real deal. Walk away and stay away, you deserve someone who sees your worth from the beginning.
@denisemichelle7273
3 ай бұрын
True
@Keke-vs7gm
3 ай бұрын
Facts!
@pattylovely324
3 ай бұрын
Facts
@DanettePeters
3 ай бұрын
Right ✅️
@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5
3 ай бұрын
That part
@juanitagonzalez8333
3 ай бұрын
I finally walked away! & I'm not looking back ! Blocked him from everything! I pray I never ever see him again!
@Maravilhame
3 ай бұрын
Praying for you sis I just left too 🙏🏽 we got this 😩💯💯💯💕
@alogan9502
3 ай бұрын
I pray the same thing with all my heart ❤
@jillwilliams7554
2 ай бұрын
I’m right behind you, Sis. Prayers for all of us.🙏🏿
@ruusathomas2490
Ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@creolachairs1915
3 ай бұрын
I walk away from Disrespect
@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5
3 ай бұрын
With the QUICKNESS
@jillwilliams7554
2 ай бұрын
@@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5😅 For real though!
@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5
2 ай бұрын
@@jillwilliams7554 💪✨️
@valeriebyrd70
2 ай бұрын
“Let him entertain your absence and all those un replied text messages he ignored !””” 😆😆😆😆😆
@amyrowe8014
Ай бұрын
Taste 👅 of they own medicine
@amyrowe8014
Ай бұрын
And what’s good for the goose 🪿 is good for the gander
@marilynbradley8487
3 ай бұрын
That goes for friendships too.
@md9882
3 ай бұрын
My loyalty has kept me in situations my common sense should have taken me out of. I'm an empath and people take advantage of it all the time. Friends, husband, family. I'm tired.
@mcisanta
3 ай бұрын
Me too sis
@Shortee452
3 ай бұрын
So true that's me
@TheJonesy895
3 ай бұрын
👋🏾 me too sis
@user-qu6pf3eb1p
2 ай бұрын
me too
@jillwilliams7554
2 ай бұрын
When are you gonna change the situation?
@amritapatra8534
3 ай бұрын
I’m so heartbroken rn and listening to you helped me so much. Thank you.
@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5
3 ай бұрын
Praying for you mentally emotionally physically and spiritually. Stay focused on YOU self love, and healing. It don't matter how long it takes you to get, as long as you get there
@PlusSizePreggo12
3 ай бұрын
Same 😢 but in therapy and I know God got me
@dreaboo3216
3 ай бұрын
Praying for you beautiful take it one day at a time. Some days it hurt some days you feel it. You should listen to rc Blake’s queenology that’s how I started my healing
@marlinesaint3199
3 ай бұрын
I JUST WALK AWAY I DON'T PLAY WITH MY LIFE NO MORE😊
@veesalas8157
3 ай бұрын
Please do a video on how men envy women when you get the bag and he will play with her due to his envy
@triniwondawoman
3 ай бұрын
yasss! cuz that jealousy is REAL!!!
@mrsbeautiful111
3 ай бұрын
Oooooooh yes please!!! I'm telling you that is a real thing, you just confirmed that to me 💯✅
@btylove1870
3 ай бұрын
Yeeess
@coolcat3452
2 ай бұрын
We talked for 8 years trying for him to change his attitudes towards me not realising “you can’t change him but you have the power to change yourself by walking away”!!🎉🎉🎉
@lisahurst1940
3 ай бұрын
Excuses are like assholes… everybody has one. No more dealing with the: “I’ve always struggled with this, (or) this is why all of my relationships fail, (or) I don’t deserve you!” Not his internship! And as the millionaire matchmaker says: “No sex without monogamy and commitment!”
@abundantmindset342
3 ай бұрын
Yes, but I blocked him because enough is enough. I am an empath, he is not ready for a woman like me. I am moving on. It is not my job to teach him or talk to him about his tone of voice, emotional intelligence or emotional maturity. There is a coldness about him. This was his second chance. He blew it. I deserve better! It's his loss🤷🏾♀️
@Brownsugar2104
Ай бұрын
He's telling the truth, he's speaking from experience..
@KKP20111
3 ай бұрын
I don't know anybody who is talking more senses than you, D! 💯💯💯
@carmenchapa1
3 ай бұрын
He only does what it takes when I leave. So I'm gone !
@lorenajules4651
3 ай бұрын
I've done all this, my husband is 52 he's not a child! he knows how he hurts me and keeps doing it no matter how many tears, videos, heart to heart talks etc he never cared!
@Allie81218
3 ай бұрын
I’m sitting here thinking, it’s unsafe to date or have relationships, because no matter how hard you try as a good woman they want to see you dead before you have peace!
@youtubeshadowbansme494
Ай бұрын
It’s dangerous to date in 2024 especially with these red pill kool-aide drinkers, it’s all a game to them.
@daniellecowley7922
3 ай бұрын
was alone for 10 years, tried again...wasted time experience and im back to being alone. It only reinforced what I didnt want to deal with.
@ericabelcher8760
3 ай бұрын
I understand exactly what you're talking about! It's draining trying to find balance of "giving ppl the benefit of a doubt" & also not wasting your valuable time! Because God forbid you walk away too fast then you're told, yal women don't give "good guys a real chance"! And when you stay even slightly too long, its still "yal women need to choose better"! Its literally damned if you do and damned if you don't out here! I've accepted the fact that it will ALWAYS be a woman's fault for every single thing that goes wrong in any relationship for any reason at all, no matter what! So at the end of the day, you might as well just choose peace of mind & your sanity! Im praying you continue working on yourself! 🙏🏾❤️
@oliviastar3812
2 ай бұрын
@@ericabelcher8760 the devil hates women, ever since Eve was manipulated
@user-ji1cs5ee8e
3 ай бұрын
Good woman come around not to often and I am A GREAT AND BLESSED WOMAN
@SophiaParker-mc3kg
3 ай бұрын
That is me! I gave him to much of me!😢! And looking to leave a 23 year relationship!!
@unrawcutunityincommunity
3 ай бұрын
Going through that now an I'm fed the f.. up today maybe his last day hearing from me within the 2 years of knowing him at some point we gotta get serious ladies and start holding men accountable
@margaritagomez3490
3 ай бұрын
After one year, if he’s not asking you to marry him, you boss out…..
@robbiereeveswilliams173
3 ай бұрын
He was passive aggressive and narcissistic, too!!
@LeeEll
3 ай бұрын
I did too much. I get it now. Im going to reap a good harvest. I sowed good seed for 42 years. I'll be reaping for me now. Nothing is loss. Those 42 yrs. Are not wasted. Praise God. What a revelation.
@nellymaisonet5293
3 ай бұрын
When you've been by yourself for so many, many years ,you know what you DESERVE!!!!!
@user-sp3sy5zi8i
3 ай бұрын
I missed/chose not to see so many red flags but in his 40s and everyone’s ex and I didn’t ask any questions until it was too late and I was heartbroken and hooked on the hope
@Marie-or8uj
Ай бұрын
I need this! A disrespect is disrespect. What we allow will continue. We need to stop becoming available to people who don’t know our worth.
@ctribbey5
27 күн бұрын
Speak your truth because it's helping more than you know! Don't be concerned about the haters. They know you're telling the truth too!
@realsusan2003
3 ай бұрын
I had to teach him to use soap to wash his hands during covid will never see men again the same ever again. Didn't know the difference between body soap, laundry soap, to dish soap. Found out he used my shampoo as body soap
@denisemichelle7273
3 ай бұрын
True I have my own condo now I can walk away when I want to
@queenog3320
3 ай бұрын
III,I let him go , it’s been 2days! All this is on point! I’m ready to do me now!
@user-gp6jy8qr2d
Ай бұрын
Same here been 2 days im good on him
@shawnlove4502
3 ай бұрын
Yup, I walked away, too. I was done expeditiously.
@KB-rp7nr
3 ай бұрын
Your videos are in Rare Form!! They never disappoint. Always on time!!Thank You❤
@pushc427
2 ай бұрын
Love you brother from a humble sister 🤗 you are 💯 correct
@patriceberry143
Ай бұрын
Exactly, our mental health and joy is precious we must guard our well being
@evesteelheart
11 күн бұрын
“You don’t try your best. Nuh-uh. You try accordingly” Oof… spot on. Thank you.
@lynnwalker4329
2 ай бұрын
😢I'm guilty but I learned the hard way I'm I'm delivered and healing but the most beautiful thing about this I did not let my heart become bitter I saved a spot for true love in my life
@aprilcobianchi2815
3 ай бұрын
Yes this is true it is painful but I have gratitude and I'm learning to love myself more and more found out he is a player thanks for everything thank you for letting God work through you🙏❤️
@daphneparker73
2 ай бұрын
I need to hear this because my life is falling apart.
@amyrowe8014
2 ай бұрын
Makes Perfect Sense
@queenmimi4966
3 ай бұрын
100% Big Facts!
@erikasanchez8832
Ай бұрын
You is soo on point ! But its torture when ever i try to leave.
@rhondagrant9388
3 ай бұрын
Keep a journal go back after a year. Your own words wake you up. ❤❤be strong protect your 💜 peace
@terrigriffey4846
3 ай бұрын
You speak the 💯 truth every word you have spoke on this matter I’m going through it. It’s took me almost a year to get to where I’m at to cut him off. There is only one ME!! To me iam special yes I have took a fought for so long an I got tired of trying you can only do so much by yourself. God will take care of him because I pray 🤲 for him. When you can hurt someone an not feel nothing or act like you don’t. Sorry when you do try to come back. I won’t be the same. I cried to many tears to fight for my family. But I know god is gonna take care of me. Thank you for speaking the truth. I don’t hurt anyone I just treat them good and know gods got this. ❤💛✨✨🙏🏼
@ebonysoulful32
10 күн бұрын
After 19 years, im more than happy with myself...I LEFT HIM!! No regrets and proved to myself that I can and "AM" doing it by myself as a single mother. My children( ages 9 to 17) and I are now better off.
@vpvy765
3 ай бұрын
WOW! 😅 Derrick, big bro you’re sooo on point! ❤
@belinda8610
2 ай бұрын
You are so correct on everything you said. Especially giving him some sorts of warnings signs to him that things are not looking good.
@brandihalstion145
Ай бұрын
You’re talking directly to me right now!!!
@Nicole-nf4fh
16 күн бұрын
Right on time thank you!!! Just set boundaries 24hrs ago and left. Shocked myself but I’m proud of myself.
@robertastorey2956
2 ай бұрын
Excellent and on point.
@rhondaweller-kc2gy
2 ай бұрын
That's me and my husband sure doesn't see!! Thanks so much for validating my life and that I have given everything and way more than he ever deserved!!
@user-iq5lr8ii5j
Ай бұрын
Everything you speak of is What I Lived ! ! !
@foxyp2471
3 ай бұрын
Continue your teaching’s .. we listening 👂 👂👂👂🙏🙏🙏🙏
@user-zn1eb5vw1s
3 ай бұрын
I am a empath and you are telling the truth I experience everything you are talking about
@msKeysa2u
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for droppin Gems Big Bro!!💪
@user-lk7qh8cd9y
3 ай бұрын
Every time I expressed my needs or wants I would get this, "I'm not in a relationship to see what I can get. I am in a relationship because I want to be."
@ingridwiggins9575
9 күн бұрын
True that’s what I’m doing snatching the control
@meragar5329
3 ай бұрын
You are definitely talking to me! 👍 thank you
@robynsimpson4610
3 ай бұрын
Most definitely on point about issue of teaching him.
@kelleyanne4372
6 күн бұрын
can’t thank you enough for all your words of wisdom! I’ve shared many of your videos with women in my life who need to hear these words as well as claiming it for myself. It’s been such a strength for me to rid my life of men who waste my time and energy. Thank you ❤
@NinaBrown-hf9ko
2 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 You never lied 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@johnnettebaker6985
3 ай бұрын
U ain't never lied.
@Emma-kk9nq
Ай бұрын
Definitely agree. It is so difficult for women now days . Men seem play non stop games . I love your content and your delivery thank you
@wandawaters1928
2 ай бұрын
The story he say true Derrick Jaxn was their words likes other men see this point offered know the knowledge of her true 2024🥰💯💯💯💯💔
@user-ji1cs5ee8e
3 ай бұрын
You knew when Broke my Heart you knew when you played games that hurt me and I was understanding caring loving and you DISRESPECTED ME IAM GONE Staying in prayer and my peace ❤❤❤🙏🙏
@brilliantgenius5550
6 күн бұрын
Yes, you are. Yes, you are. Yes, you are. I am working from a green screen. That’s how much I wanted to type. Yes, you’re nailing it on the head. You’re outstanding really respect what you’re doing
@kimj5457
3 ай бұрын
I have definitely reached the no more talking point.
@cristinaalvarado8775
Ай бұрын
You really opened my eyes. I've been so done. I'm finally done giving chances and looking for change. I'm ready to wait for the one.
@chamiltonmgb
Ай бұрын
I I had to remind him to shower after work, especially if we're going outside.
@no.commonsense
2 ай бұрын
This is my first time coming across ur messages I'm shocked at everything u no my word this is confirmation for me thank u so much❤❤watching from south Africa 😊
@natashia3222
2 ай бұрын
Right Short Bus He Had A Whole Mask On And It Done Fell Clean Off With The Dam Mind Games.
@sherjah1605
3 ай бұрын
This is a powerful message. Thank you!
@shellyzepeda
2 ай бұрын
❤
@valeriebyrd70
2 ай бұрын
You telling the truth Derrick !!!
@pauletterodgers2936
3 ай бұрын
(I) released negativity and disrespect because , I know my worth. Healing and not ever looking back at what broke me. I just love how on point you are! Thank you, and God Bless…❤️🎯💯
@User4god04hate
3 ай бұрын
Iiiiiiii n everything is so toxic n its been a long time n I'm tired of going back to the same place i left from for myself n God knows how much i did to much n its not worth it praying for peace n get back to me when i tune in to u it's the truth thanks again for your help i appreciate u for your mentorship council luv ya bro thanks again for u being u keep teaching n know its my time to show me that i love me more cause my god love me best even when I'm not at my best
@xoxobutterfly
3 ай бұрын
Yup he broke up with me just because I told him I use to be depressed 😔
@user-bw7gg4xh3x
23 сағат бұрын
Your talking directly to me
@sophiasimon4442
3 ай бұрын
💯 you really got it ! So clever- thank you
@Queen-sw8zp
3 ай бұрын
I love you and God loves you for helping good women....Thank you so much......Many blessings to you and family.....
@acsimpson7030
Ай бұрын
Yezzzzzz I! I'm right here. You're preaching now!
@patrinakaka3270
2 ай бұрын
Hey lovely from Aotearoa New Zealand , i really love listening to you i find you a crack up and i needed to hear you today n thank you so so much for your truth, thank you. Love n Light
@kassiawarsawski1033
Ай бұрын
Yes I in that currently. Know keep speaking truth please I need to hear this thank you. I love with a hard
@sheilamccoy7036
2 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick so much wisdom it's amazing
@ggwithpurpose7954
3 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🙏🏾 This message was confirmation for me 😔
@snupjohn
3 ай бұрын
Your wisdom is valued and appreciated.
@anniehawkins1907
Ай бұрын
I I I. 3x! Yes . actually said he knows exactly what he is doing. But he is broken!
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