Det er ingen unnskyldning å drepe noen fordi man har hatt en vanskelig barndom👍🏻
@arabdadgodx69
3 жыл бұрын
Tror du missforstår litt her altså
@nel7441
2 жыл бұрын
of course its not an excuse, but when someone grows surrounded by negativity, guilt and shame, it will develop into selfhatred and trauma. If you dont heal that pain, or never learn to love, your mind will turn to anger, emptiness and that leads to loss of empathy and you just don't feel feelings like a normal person anymore. Not getting love during childhood can really mess everything in your mind up. Of course what he did was so evil and he is a messed up disgusting person. I'm just trying to say, if his childhood wouldve been different, he probably wouldve turned out different
@Othilie33
2 жыл бұрын
@@nel7441 that’s true
@svickyfoxhome7212
Жыл бұрын
ABB hadde sfhiofreni. Var psykotisk alvorlig syk.
@Lskfkksnfdjd
Жыл бұрын
Ikke en unnskyldning nei (nå har ikke han unnskyldt seg heller) men det (vanskelig barndom) kan være en forklaring.
@bjornholmqvist3230
3 жыл бұрын
Very good and well balanced documentary, the NRK journalists did a good job here and just let the dad's tell their stories. Thanks for posting!
@arcsta_rr
3 жыл бұрын
NRK journalists sucked!
@larsheihei3683
3 жыл бұрын
@@arcsta_rr if NRK sucks, what does that make you 😂
@sheilabrressen719
2 жыл бұрын
Åå
@carinaharstrom5628
3 жыл бұрын
Om fadern fått vårdnaden kanske allt varit annorlunda..
@westcoastriderstv6508
3 жыл бұрын
Ingen idé att titta i backspegeln Carina världen är ingen trevlig plats för de finns människor på den.
@user-vd2ff6gz6x
6 ай бұрын
Svårt att tro det hade spelat någon roll då det mest troliga är att han bara självskadat/missbrukat om det var så
@lcclark1307
3 ай бұрын
Father was absent, didn’t see Brievik from age 1 to age 6:( We understand how father was a bz diplomat with financial privledges yet in old age he continues to be self absorbed still blaming his troubled young son for never being in contact w him the adult. The father didn’t try very hard for custody esp after Social Services reports of trouble😢, said there was no reason explained for him losing custody. Father’s self interest about what he’s dealing with bad pr of his son’s murdering spree does not compare to all the deceased victims and their families. Father’s and mothers BOTH should be held responsible for nurturing their offspring into responsible children to adults. No excuse for his violent behavior but Brievik may also have had dyslexia (difficulty reading, taking instructions & knowing Left from Right) as underlying disability, wouldve explained his withdrawal in schools and later serious driving difficulties. Let’s put technology down after this tragic lesson, pay closer attention to our children, help them grow to be healthy responsible adults & enjoy their one beautiful life.
@annefrank7005
3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe how many excuses the 'father' makes for his complete failure of being a parent. Failure would imply he tried, but truthfully he made ZERO effort to connect with his son. The only contact ever made was when he received a letter from CPS or when Anders called him or visited. It's unbelievable. If a close relative of mine had committed an unspeakable act I would be on the first plane to whevever they were, to look them in the eye and understand what happened, at the very least show them they have some support in this world. Monster or no monster, it's his own flesh and blood and till this day he still hasn't spoken to him about what happened. I don't think Anders was ever shown love. The fact he had to write on a sheet of paper instead of feeling secure or close enough to trust and talk to people around him says it all.
@espen4330
3 жыл бұрын
If you would support your son after he committed mass murder there is something wrong with you. The father is in a horrible position and I completely understand his wish to have as little as possible to do with his son
@annefrank7005
3 жыл бұрын
@@espen4330 I would 100% support my son through absolutely anything, whilst *NOT* supporting his actions or crime. I would explain the reasons as to why I disagreed with him and why I believed his actions were wrong. I would try to understand why he would do such a thing and look into ways of helping him change his point of view by putting forward my arguments. If according to you this means there is something wrong with me, then there is also something wrong with any form of rehabilitation centre or initiative. Or should we simply put everyone down the minute they fuck up in your opinion?
@espen4330
3 жыл бұрын
@@annefrank7005 He killed 79 people, there is no rehabilitation to be done
@karinordmann2939
3 жыл бұрын
Millions of people grow up without a father or a mother or both. But they don't go chase after kids with weapons and kill them, absolut horror. And they don't go blow up buildings and kill people. There is NO excuse for doing what he did. That does not take away how useless his father is. But the dead beat father does not have blood on his hands. Anders made this decision all by himself.
@annefrank7005
3 жыл бұрын
@@karinordmann2939 Being an orphan does not mean you are not shown love or have not grown up with love. Many people are raised by grandparents, family members or foster parents therefore from a very young age develop social skills and empathy towards other humans are shown love, acknowledgement etc. What Anders did is detestable 100% agree, but if he was never shown love and empathy he never learnt what it was and is incapable of understanding that what he has done is wrong. For that, his useless parents are very much to blame, not exlusively, but they have a huge accountability and for them to deny this is cowardly and pathetic. We understand his actions are wrong because we were taught to feel emotions. Anders was never.
@mikandersen8632
3 жыл бұрын
The biological father blames the mother and the stepdad blames his biolgical father - his father was weak and his mother was mentally ill🙏
@teejay8258
3 жыл бұрын
He was let down by the people who should have taken care of him. I will never understand a father who doesn't seek contact with their child.
@marsukarhu9477
3 жыл бұрын
Right. I thought it was weird that it seemed that the son was the only one reaching for contact. The dad didn't seem to be taking any initiative to be in contact at all, it was all on the son. Strange.
@Inkenjoyahhhhhhhhhhh
3 жыл бұрын
dosent justify anything tho
@kihella2658
3 жыл бұрын
@@Inkenjoyahhhhhhhhhhh exactly
@Juuk-D
3 жыл бұрын
Same with me and my brothers, but we couldn't hurt a fly. It's inexcusable he knows right from wrong, and now is where he deserves to be the rest of his life.
@marsukarhu9477
3 жыл бұрын
@@Inkenjoyahhhhhhhhhhh Understanding and analyzing are not the same as justifying and excusing.
@erikbeijleveld3636
3 жыл бұрын
The interview with the father was extremely weak. 15 times more or less the same question. How he feels about it. A missed opportunity.
@gertlindanger8124
Жыл бұрын
Man skal aldri ta ut problemer på andre mennesker
@steiningarpettersen9489
9 ай бұрын
Det er ballene til jens sin skyld
@jolinkarlsson8569
3 жыл бұрын
Jag var liten när det hände men jag kommer ihåg det för att my storebror bodde där då och när mamma hörde vad hände hon blev så rädd (ja jag hörde det på tv med hon och jag förstod det)men när han kom hem okej jag gav han den största Björn kramen jag har get nån jag är så ledsen for dom som dog blev skadade och deras familjer jag tycker också synd om hans familj
@fellifellfelli
3 жыл бұрын
Va din bror på utoya?!
@MINA-85
3 жыл бұрын
Oh... det er trist 😞😞😞😢
@Darkfatheroftheuniverse
3 жыл бұрын
Varför blir en man till så ens människa? Jag är tysk, men jag var mycket irriterad om hans galen handling. Jag var ledsen med alla som drabbades...
@anfang4030
2 жыл бұрын
Sie müssen den. Fall recherchieren, da war er noch nicht auf der. Welt, so sehr hat seine. Mutter ihn gehasst...
@anfang4030
2 жыл бұрын
Wenn ich den seh, hab ich schon genug!!!!
@selbst105
4 жыл бұрын
hi! the english subtitles stop at minute 15.15 :( so i can not understand, what the stepfather is saying! can you change that? thank you!
@22JulyArchive
4 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks for telling me. I actually never finished subtitling this documentary past that mark, and eventually just forgot about it. I'll get to subtitling this very soon!
@selbst105
4 жыл бұрын
@@22JulyArchive hey! oh that is very kind! :) thank you! i'll come back soon.
@22JulyArchive
4 жыл бұрын
@@selbst105 All finished now!
@selbst105
4 жыл бұрын
@@22JulyArchive thank you very much for this broadcast and for translating it. so, i could watch und understand it. precious. thanks for the work. :) great. greetings!
@abandonedzombie
11 ай бұрын
@selbst105 learn Norwegian then
@jercool
2 жыл бұрын
Det viktigaste oavsett är att Mor och Far stöttar sitt barn och att man inte bråkar. Barnet ska komma i första hand.
@ramone79
3 жыл бұрын
This leveas me with the thougt. WOULDT i have been a better father ??????? Im mean is it nature or you know the word im to drunk to smell
@TheDorkieman
3 жыл бұрын
Han bør sponses en gratis alternativ behandling ved DPS Moss, der det er snakk om enten MDMA-behandling eller Psilocybin
@Ujuani68
3 жыл бұрын
That dad was so weak! Had he stepped up in an early time.. who knows.. This MIGHT not have happened. We need strong men here in the West.
@Skjeggspir
3 жыл бұрын
The dad stepped up 100% you dork, he went to trial when the kindapped boy was only 4 years, but the judge sentenced 77 people to death by trapping him with the abusive mother. He did more than you would have done, and had 0% responsibility after the judge came with the verdict. The father was strong enough, but Norway’s gender discrimination of fathers was and still is the problem.
@FatherDingo
3 жыл бұрын
My dad is a pussie, but that didn't lead me to kill 50 innocent people.... You can't always blame the parents.
@Skjeggspir
3 жыл бұрын
@@FatherDingo , of course the murderer is to blame, but also the Norwegian court system and the mother who destroyed him are to blame. Because it was very obvious that she was destroying her child and nobody saved him from her, even when there were several reports of abuse and neglect.
@user-vd2ff6gz6x
6 ай бұрын
I would not be surprised if you voted for women to get overpower why this was possible as the custody of Anders go to the mother even though social services suggested the dad instead of the mother
@Nemesios777
2 жыл бұрын
The stepfather looks guilty somehow...
@maridethbridges4587
9 ай бұрын
According to Anders Breivik himself, he was a pedophile!
@TwixEK7
4 жыл бұрын
Jeg er så lei meg
@MINA-85
3 жыл бұрын
🤲😢💝💖😞😢😢😢
@00nice73
3 жыл бұрын
Jens, du virker fraværende
@eiriksagen6042
3 жыл бұрын
Det er faren hans sin feil for det Anders gjorde.
@Skjeggspir
3 жыл бұрын
Ja han bare gikk til rettssak for å få hovedomsorgen da ABB var 4 år og barnevernet anbefalte at far overtok omsorgen, men dommeren dømte i stedet barnet til å bli fanget hos mor og miste far. Pluss 77 mennesker til døden. 0% far sin skyld, 100% mor og norsk domstol sin skyld.
@heidiaamodt5138
3 жыл бұрын
Det at far virker fraværende er jo en måte å distansere seg på for ikke å bryte sammen. Ikke rart i den situasjonen han har kommet i. Men han forteller jo tross alt sin historie likevel selv om det må være vanskelig.
@Skjeggspir
3 жыл бұрын
@@heidiaamodt5138 , han er ett av ABB sin mors 79 ofre. I tillegg til de 77 døde, og ABB selv. Hun er med andre ord den som ødela flest liv i denne saken.
@heidiaamodt5138
3 жыл бұрын
@@Skjeggspir Nå var det jo faren det var snakk om og ikke moren. Det blir en ny diskusjon.
@ninasofiesund5203
2 жыл бұрын
Ingen så nevne ka han har gjort me di stakkarane så e blitt drept :(
@ninasofiesund5203
2 жыл бұрын
Psykopat 1.2
@Ujuani68
3 жыл бұрын
25:01: These men do the same, weird thing with their voice.😖🤦♂️🤮
@smarthd7749
Жыл бұрын
What do you mean idiot
@BoMalki737
7 ай бұрын
Paranoid and schizofreni are called a illness, but could it be demonic, evil spirits? Of course Anders can be forgiven if he repents and ask God for forgiveness, and I would forgive him wholeheartedly as The Lord has forgiven me. 😊
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