Came across your cannel and I wanted to say something about disordered thoughts. I have been recovered from anorexia for something like 10 years now and I don't have disordered thoughts anymore, so they can go away. Keep up your good work!
@isabellestrickland1139
10 ай бұрын
Hi! How long did it take for the thoughts to go away? I know it’s going to be different for everyone, but I’ve been recovered for 3 years. But I still get bad thoughts daily. I’m starting to feel discouraged, and that I’m always going to struggle. Thank you so much 💕
@manonphs
10 ай бұрын
@@isabellestrickland1139 It took a few years to get them completely go away. But I've had good therapy during my anorexia that really helped me deal with the disorder thoughts, like shifting your thoughts, focusing on the positive instand of the negative, that kind a things. But it must be hard if you feel like it isn't getting any better after 3 years. Stay strong and please know you may always ask for help if you feel it isn't getting better and you get discouraged. ❤️
@ixybc7401
Жыл бұрын
the fact that you can start to trust ur hunger and fullness cues is great!! Im so excited for my psicologist to start to remove my diet, but this goes one step at a time. Youre so strong and persistant, and there is a posibility of recovering 100%, so keep goind, you got this!!
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! And it truly is a big step! My diet is not being removed though. I’m sticking to 3 meals and 2-3 snacks minimum still. The only thing I’m really doing differently is trying to be more aware of the signals my body is sending, and trying to locate a pattern. For one, I’ve noticed that I’m not that hungry between breakfast and lunch, but I get REALLY hungry, before I go to bed. So I’m trying to figure out how to best support those signals ☺️
@gluestickgirlie
Жыл бұрын
i decided to recover today and genuinely it is so freeing. Ive only been struggling with my ed for a year but already i know that im worthy of recovering from this and becoming the best version of myself
@WhamBamImAHam
Жыл бұрын
Just found your channel a few days ago and I just want to say thankyou for being so brave and sharing your recovery. I'm currently going through a period of restrictive eating after only recently recovering from being very underweight. I hope that if I keep watching you I can find the strength to enjoy food again too. Keep going girl, you're doing wonderfully :)
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
YOU. CAN. DO. THIS! It’s never gonna be easy in the beginning but I can imagine you already know that ❤️
@woahhowmediocre3860
Жыл бұрын
I adore the vibe of your videos. Honestly love the comfort recovery content.
@healingourheart
10 ай бұрын
Not only are you doing incredible in recovery but your cinematography and editing skills are amazing!!! I found your account a while ago & just came back to it and am so grateful I did. Thank you for your presence here and all the vulnerability it takes to share a journey like this❤ You are so supported and valued!!!
@itssophielive7096
Жыл бұрын
Came across ur channel 2 weeks ago and i absolutely love watching you recover and I’m so proud of you with how far you’ve come ! Cant wait to follow along your journey and see all the progress you’re going to be making
@samvante
10 ай бұрын
"i want my body to be a product of the lifestyle i wanna live, not the other way around." this is such a good motto and hearing it was so eye-opening. i've been obsessed with maintaining my weight and appearance that i let it affect my overall health, nutrition intake and relationship with food. i recently realized that starving myself wasn't doing anyone especially myself a favor, and that i HAVE to change my lifestyle in order to be able to enjoy life and food again even just for the sake of my health and my family's concern for me. i just started my recovery journey and watching your videos motivates me to keep up with it. thank you for being an inspiration! 🤍
@veronika.p9468
Жыл бұрын
You are my new favourite comfort KZitemr! Binged watched all your videos while having a meal and I loved them ❤🙆🏼♀️
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Your gon’ make me cry 🥹
@michalinapietrzak4175
Жыл бұрын
Hi, Cornelia! Your videos are something I genuinely look forward to every Wednesday morning! I hope the little break you took last week helped you and that you had an amazing time! The video is lovely as well, seeing you on screen always improves my mood; I enjoy your personality and editing so much! In October, I’m back at my Uni and there is this fancy-ish bakery in the building. Due to my ed, I only allowed myself to roam around the place, daydream about what I’d love to “be able” to eat, and take aesthetic photos of the food, without taking any. Perhaps I’ll follow your footsteps and treat myself to some baked goods once I’m there next time! Seeing you enjoy your food, especially fear foods is beyond comforting - enjoying fear foods often leaves me feeling guilty and causes me to question and doubt the validity of my eating disorder. Your little “skyr” addition is also a topic/matter I’ve been worried about and overthinking. For health related reasons, my body is not on friendly terms with sugar or dairy, so I often choose the “non-dairy” or “no-sugar” options. Unfortunately, for many people they are perceived as “diet-culture”, which often leads to kind-of-unreasonable-kind-of-justified anxiety about being judged based on my food choices or having people question my commitment to recovery. Plus, I grew up in a rural area where vegetables or fruits were the fundamental of my diet and I’ve enjoyed them since childhood without any relation to my eating disorder or diet culture. I wish you a lovely weekend, I hope the weather and your head treat you well. Looking forward to seeing you again, keep taking care of each other and making lovely memories!🫶🏻
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
PLEASE update me if you try the bakery! That’s some real bad bitch energy 😎🤘🏻
@malenehatletvedt3253
Жыл бұрын
came across your channel last week and absolutely love your videos! you are so strong ❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Did I forget to say THANK YOU!! ❤️
@katharinaschneiderr
Жыл бұрын
This is so strong, powerfull and what is going to make you change for real!! You've got this xx
@Emsworld2222
Жыл бұрын
proud of you girll ❤❤❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
🥹🥹
@mini-xs1dq
Жыл бұрын
I overeat and when sometimes I control a crave for food i think my mental health is worst now but my parents don't support me they are toxic and negative everytime till now they never talk sweetly to me never i wanted to be an interior designer but they refused and said if you want to live here just do what we want but seeing your video i feel lighter idk why but you are so sweet and positive i want you as my best friend forever but it is not possible but loads of love.......🤍🤍🌼
@lene-lotte9480
Жыл бұрын
Same here, I had anorexia and now I overeat all the time or I restrict… I just want to eat normal… And no…it’s not extreme hunger… it’s more an emotional thing…because I eat to numb myself kind of the same with restriction… I absolutely HATE it… Cornelia, you inspire me so much to not give up. To work towards a healthy relationship with food.. you inspire me to keep going and push through the guilt… I love your honesty… and I love your way of filming… stay strong lovely… you deserve to be free at some point. You are such a gentle soul.
@mini-xs1dq
Жыл бұрын
@@lene-lotte9480 exactly
@bruisedviolets
Жыл бұрын
full recovery is possible you won’t always carry your illness with you !
@ASMRBarbie
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your commentary as you tried your fear bakery foods ❤everything you say sounds so elegant and thoughtful 💕new subscriber here, I’m orthorexic (unhealthy focus on only eating healthy foods) and I defiantly have many fear foods, bakery items being one.
@marym6733
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey 🩷 your videos are super inspiring and you seem really sweet ☺️
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@helsvenneyao
Жыл бұрын
Hej Cornelia! I'm from Sweden and I want to say that you're one of the most talented new youtubers as of today in my opinion. You're videos are entertaining and very real, I think that you're super talented and very beautiful (not trying to be shallow lmao). You're haircolor is literally divine. Lycka till med allt och kom ihåg att du är en fantastisk människa! (hoppas du kan läsa det där...). //a swede who may have an addiction to imitating Danish people, very poorly at that.
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
You’re to kind, thank you!! I put SO many hours into my editing, so truly from the bottom of my heart. THANK YOU! ❤️ And also thank you for the comment about my hair color I do take a lot of pride in being Ginger 🤘🏻😎 Håber også ALT det bedste for dig ❤️
@maryclark943
Жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say that your english has improved so much over the years and also I like your new content but I really miss your study videos🥲
@gammaminobutyricacid
10 ай бұрын
"the point of recovery is not never having a disordered thought. you're always going to carry your illness with you, it's about learning not to be controlled by them" this is p deep because it applies to so many other mental illnesses too, maybe most of them
@kathryneagle2504
Жыл бұрын
you have no idea how happy I got when I saw you had posted 🤭💗
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
You have no idea how happy I got when I Saw you had commented. Hope you enjoy the video 🤭🥹
@ina9028
Жыл бұрын
Keep going! You are doing great 💪🏼Love your hair - looks AMAZING 😍😍😍😍
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! When taken properly care of, I practically have ringlets 🤭
@l663h
11 ай бұрын
Just discovered you channel and watched all of your videos immediatly! I really hope you post more Videos in the future! I felt really connected to you!!!
@noushiepants
5 ай бұрын
This is wonderful.
@goopy1000
Жыл бұрын
OMG! I got so excited seeing that these were Danish foods
@Rosesjournal.
Жыл бұрын
I wish I was as strong as you :( I love your videos so much hermosa, strong warrior ❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
It takes time to build up strength. I’ve been in recovery for 7 months now, and at the beginning, doing this… I wouldn’t have believed you. It takes time, but persistance builds STRENGTH. I believe in you ❤️
@kaasiekaas3204
Жыл бұрын
Thank u for sharing your story, this helps me so much. I cant be more thankfull
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
I couldn’t be more thankfull, that it helps you ❤️
@kvistgaard7799
Жыл бұрын
so proud!!
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Me to 🥹🤭
@mollyanna000
Жыл бұрын
i would move to your country just for the pastries! well done for this one i know all the new challenges can be tough but you are doing so well❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Honestly if I lived somewhere else I would to!! The bakeries here are out of this world. Definitely one of the things I missed the most, when I lived in The States 🥲
@mariaguadaluperodriguezfer4244
Жыл бұрын
Tengo trastorno por atracón y pase de obesidad a mi peso ideal y tus videos me ayudan en mi lucha con mi trastorno por atracón ❤muchas gracias 😊❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Glad to be of help 🫡❤️
@mariaguadaluperodriguezfer4244
Жыл бұрын
@@dearcornelia 😘🥰thank you
@erinsmeraldo9008
Жыл бұрын
so proud as always and in awe of your strength. you are more than your thoughts!! also, would you be willing to share more about your treatment experience?
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you that means so much! What where you thinking in regards to treatment experience? Like do you want a more sit down Q&A type of video? Or was it a particular thing you want to know more about? ❤️
@erinsmeraldo9008
Жыл бұрын
A Q&A would be really insightful!!@@dearcornelia
@capharnaumlitteraire
Жыл бұрын
Hi! I almost had the same pastry, the « Danish » when I was on a trip in Cambridge some weeks ago, they called it « blueberries and custard brioche » 🫐🥐 There seems to be so many amazing pastries where you are living!! (and this message is from a French girlie haha) Anyway, you are doing amazing in recovery and you can be really proud of you! Lots of love xxx 🩵
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Uhhhhh sounds wonderful! And yes the bakeries in Denmark do It WELL. Have you ever had a cardamom bun? They are TO DIE FOR!! If you ever find yourself in Denmark you HAVE to try the one from “Juno the bakery”
@capharnaumlitteraire
Жыл бұрын
@@dearcornelia No I have never had one! But they look incredible!! I absolutely have to go to Denmark and try one (or more!!) from this bakery 😃😋🩶
@oatmealgirl56
Жыл бұрын
I hope you enjoyed the foods, cornelia! Thank you for the content :D
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
OH I FOR SURE DID! Pastries and cakes 10/10
@oatmealgirl56
Жыл бұрын
@@dearcornelia That's amazing !!!!! :DD I am so happy for you, maybe one dayI'll be able to enjoy them as well again :') ❤
@marahmulla4106
Жыл бұрын
i love you and i love ur videos thank youuu :)
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!
@LuciaTepperBeauty
Жыл бұрын
WOW!!! You did great🥹.
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥹❤️
@charliepedersen5468
Жыл бұрын
Elsker de her videoer
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Tak! Jeg lægger ekstremt meget tid i dem, så det betyder meget ❤️
@sergusbower1270
Жыл бұрын
Keep fighting. Just wondering is there anyone out there that’s was happy and doing things and now in a deep depression in recovery and gaining so much weight overshot twice. I anorexic exercise addiction 40 years. This “Recovery” for me is much worse it just is my life is passed me by as I know anorexia would of killed me but at least I was living and happy. Sorry for triggers I feel alone in this.
@Epicgtuy13
Жыл бұрын
You eating the pizza for lunch without cutting it up is such a vibe. xD
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
All hail laziness! I’ve never eaten the pizza/focaccia from there cut up. Never have and never will ✌🏻
@Epicgtuy13
Жыл бұрын
@@dearcornelia 😆😆
@ditz3nfitness
Жыл бұрын
God onsdag! 🙏🏼✨
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Tak! I Lige måde 😍
@MeGogo-db2wg
11 ай бұрын
You're a vegetarian and you're also wearing the same glasses I wear , is there a soul sister ish, friend , type of thing happening?
@rubysky6567
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@aco6119
Жыл бұрын
hey cornelia ! i absolutely love your videos and your personality, and good job for this challenge. I was just wondering, if that is okay (u absolutely don't have to answer if this is out of line), how can you trust your judgment on fullness cues, and being sure the illness doesn't take advantage of the fact you are feeling full ? Because i'm as well trying to trust when my body says it's full, but i struggle to know whether i should actually listen to it or if i am lying to myself. i am so sorry this message was a bit of a drag... i hope it's okay i'm asking this ! anyways thank you for your videos, take care
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Not at all out of line! In terms of trusting my hunger and fullness cues again, It’s not really a one and done deal. It will happen gradually, and just because I can TRY to lean more into it doesn’t mean I HAVE to. I still have the minimum amounts that my dietician provides and I’m still gonna listen to that, cause I quite frankly don’t trust my body enough yet. But I have to start somewhere so slowly I’m trying to be more aware of my body’s cues, where as before I would do my best to ignore it, and just eat what my dietician recommended (unless I was more hungry obvs.) I’m kinda figuring it out aswell, and I am also still in a weight gain process which requires eating past fullness. I think it’s really just about figuring it out. One thing I’ve kinda noticed about MY body is that I don’t really have a need for an AM snack, but I do get rather hungry in the evening so I just chose to do a larger evening snack, as supposed to an AM snack. And kinda slowly just try and figure out, what works for my body. I just gotta mention though I’ve been eating mechanically (every 2-3 hours) for the past 7 months, and have not had a single drop in weight, and alongside that I’ve eaten extra here and there when I felt the need. That’s kinda also part of the reason why they trust me to lean more into my fullness, cause I’ve proven that if my body is asking for more I will give it, so thus if it’s asking for less I will most likely listen when it asks for more later.
@aco6119
Жыл бұрын
@@dearcorneliawow thank you so much for this answer!! i really like your take on this. Wishing you the absolute best !🫶🏼🫶🏼
@mirchen01
Жыл бұрын
SO PROID ❤❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
ME TO 😍🤭
@LydiannaBella
Жыл бұрын
Would you recommend a psychiatrist or a dietitian? I’m trying to get help but not sure which way to go ! Take care ❤ all the pastries look soooo good omg !
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
I have both actually. 2 therapists and a dietician who all works together! I Think they are equally important and one can’t go without the other. My dietician has taught me SO much about proper nutrition. There’s so much miss information out there, and through my ED I feel victim to believing a lot of it, and honestly I was so confused, because everything you read and hear feels so contradictory. So having someone who GENUINELY can be trusted has been tremendous for me. But my therapists/psychologists have been able to talk me through more of the emotional side, and has helped me work through some of the things that me ED has kinda been masking/hiding. They help me contextualize my emotions, and I almost have this vision that before I started therapy my head was like a trash can, where every single paper (memory/thought) was crumbled. But through talking with them about it, we’ve taken out each piece of paper, un-crumbled it and then folded it back up NICLY. So now there’s SO much more space in my trash can (brain)
@actgirl1234567
Жыл бұрын
❤
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
❤️
@angiedazzle3352
Жыл бұрын
YOU LOOK SOOOO HOT WITH THE GREEN TOP AND THE GLASSES OML
@kamrankamran8863
Жыл бұрын
Weish to have a wife like you
@kayla.1519
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos,they help me a lot I normally watch your videos when I’m struggling and somehow they always help. I hope nothing but the best for you,you deserve the world because I know others may feel the same.🫶
@dearcornelia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Oh did I forget to say, THANK YOU?? 🥹❤️
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