Holy hell, husband critiques op, and when op does what he wants. He then calls her a spent thrift and says she’s a joke in the family.
@RylieRiddle
7 ай бұрын
Husband basically admits to having a degradation kink without saying it because he doesn't want OP to be able to actually participate knowingly. He gets off on her embarrassment as much as he gets off on her being so thorough.
@MistressSuki92
7 ай бұрын
@@RylieRiddle That's so fuckin gross and would make me feel like such an object if I found out my partner was using me for sexual gratification without me knowing.
@Lloyd_Jane
6 ай бұрын
@@RylieRiddle you put into words my disgust. I can understand people being aroused from their partner being uncomfortable, essentially bdsm, but that’s done with implicit consent… this however is just op’s husband being a perv.
@cavey001
7 ай бұрын
Husband is spineless in not defending his wife. It wouldn't have taken much to set his family straight, but he's a coward.
@erinwessel2195
6 ай бұрын
The second story is horrifying. How could the mom just give up her daughter? She devestated her entire family and if the OP gets custody ( which I hope she does) the adopters will be devastated as well. The poor girl. What a mess!
@trashotaku
5 ай бұрын
Oh absolutely, I hope the adopters are understanding that this little girl still had plenty of family members who love her and are more than willing to care for her
@marqkc
7 ай бұрын
Story 2: Excuse me, the sister wanted to be a BOY MOM??? OP is doing the right thing, get the son away from that woman! Boy moms are disgusting, they emotionally abuse their sons and get brainwashed by other boy moms to think that their "emotional usage" (replace usage with the gross "i" word) is perfectly normal. Hopefully OP can take custody and give all the children a wonderful home. Story 1: erm... Are we seriously brushing over the fact the husband was purposefully trying to make OP uncomfortable and belittling her? Like I get the family situation made him act out of line in terms of being a door mat for MIL, but that's a entirely seperate issue... And then he doesn't even see it as abuse? There's a LOT of therapy sessions ahead for that man...
@TiffWaffles
7 ай бұрын
I tend to find that a lot of the mothers who fall under the umbrella of being a toxic boy mum have an emotionally incestuous relationship with their sons, and it's gross.
@sierrastanley3109
7 ай бұрын
Usually I call Boy Mom's "Emotional Incest" where the moms treat their son's more like a boyfriend or husband and get jealous and territorial of them if any romantic interests come their son's way.
@trashotaku
5 ай бұрын
@@sierrastanley3109 Fr, they're honestly some of the most vile people I can think of for that very reason
@hagnekore
7 ай бұрын
Wow the husband is a sociopath
@CG-yb6zj
7 ай бұрын
Story 2: Yea, OPs Dad is either uninformed or in blatant denial. Adoption isn't quick or really reversable. His niece was gone gone had she not gotten pregnant a second time so soon, and it blew up in her face upon finally announcing where her CHILD was when prompted.
@josephwilliams2406
7 ай бұрын
Story one OP needs to divorce this man, he's ungrateful and not putting anything in the marriage and he's clearly trying to control her(he practically even told her that). She's nothing but an obedient dog to him, she's trying to think about her kids but fails to realize the effects a broken home has on them
@paulorocky
6 ай бұрын
Fkn mummy’s boy. If my parents showed up to our couple time, I’d be just as furious as the missus.
@MegaHarvickFan29
7 ай бұрын
Story 1 husband clearly took wife for granted. You'd be hard pressed to find another woman that would put that much effort into making you so successful. He'd best not screw this up. Story 2 What kinda mother could just throw away their child because it's a girl instead of a boy?
@MinkxiTes
7 ай бұрын
Conservatives and/or Asian mothers.
@Avray-
7 ай бұрын
Omg the husband in story 1 enrages me. The husband and the mil are for the trash. Poor OP :(
@ryangooseling
7 ай бұрын
Gone gone gone That man would be GONE
@MistressOP
6 ай бұрын
story 1 - you need couples therapy and then probably a divorce because men like that never understand how good they have it.
@teresajohnson6157
7 ай бұрын
Omg your husband is awful divorce him before you age out
@blainetate743
7 ай бұрын
You know you’re not talking to the OP, right?
@someguy-sq1kg
7 ай бұрын
@@blainetate743 plus the ending.
@JonathanJoestarJuicefest
6 ай бұрын
Typical femoid, encourages the woman to divorce over something minor but would likely shame the guy for divorcing her if she cheated.
@catsncrows
5 ай бұрын
@@blainetate743 Braving reddit itself is an emotional drain. I do it but I have my limits. If someone wants to express themselves second-hand here I'm not going to fault them.
@Black-Rose12
7 ай бұрын
S1: Nah ain't no way redditrs tell OP that abandoning the husband was not a good move, I think she should've left them in the dark and ruined their vacation Edit: Personally, I would not have styed with such a POS husband cause what he did was just manipulation and no counseling can improve that and also what if he did it again. He is a horrible man and OP should've left him. He could not even recognize her efforts and let his b*tch of a mopther intrude on their lives and not go immediately out of contact with her and also OP should've asked him or his family to reimbursh her for the vacay hom and expensive alcohol.
@captaingramcrackergrams5990
7 ай бұрын
Well, Reddit is 90% people. Who've never moved out of their parents basement so wouldn't have any idea how real life works and have this weird romanticized version of the world we live in based on movies and shit and then another 5% of those people are angry and bitter because they failed at life and then 5% who are actual normal people and they're almost never the ones commenting on advice pages on Reddit
@toriladybird511
5 ай бұрын
Long left and now grandmother my SIL is a sweetheart no way woukd I allow him to be treated like OP1 @captaingramcrackergrams5990
@kytheres379
6 ай бұрын
I wouldn't take him back
@vincentcleaver1925
7 ай бұрын
Her mil needs to apologize
@user-tm1oy6ck4t
7 ай бұрын
S1 husband is... Arrogant? Clueless? Cruel? All of the above?
@toriladybird511
5 ай бұрын
All is correct
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
7 ай бұрын
and 'no, kids do not come first' if you really step back and watch this is just a simp many people hide behind, including abusers and toxic narcissists. look at the way granny is behaving. this is toxic. no wonder she wanted to stay away from that creature. and op is confused??? get your head out of the sand girl. this woman is dangerous
@lindalmiller429
5 ай бұрын
BS that this guy is a good husband. He is a wimpy mama’s boy.
@momoangel9243
7 ай бұрын
story 1, Nta op's hopefully soon to be ex husband is so spineless that a gummy bear has more spineless then this man, He took op for granted and allowed his mom to behave this way towards op his wife and the mother of his children, so nope any man that treats his wife and mother of his kids and all others to do the same regardless of who they are, that way don't deserve to be a partner nor parent sorry not sorry people like him deserve to be alone.
@adamb4639
7 ай бұрын
Oop of story 2 (the one I care about) deleted their profile if anyone comes across a new account that may be them please let me know.
@QueenSunstar
6 ай бұрын
OP got custody of both after falsified info was found regarding the adoption. Sister was sent to jail for her deed. I hope.
@laquietagray9323
4 ай бұрын
Story 1 I would divorce him own him in court and send him back to his mommy.
@kgomotsosekonya9435
Күн бұрын
That man does not like you, leave him
@VRDejaVu
7 ай бұрын
Sorry but when the wife says stuff like "harping to have S" about her husband there is nothing more to salvage.
@aking3624
6 ай бұрын
Refered to mil freaking out about her "husband" not son moving away...
@jadesorono6694
6 ай бұрын
Story one damn 😢 it
@Montyandrew45
7 ай бұрын
Husband sounds like he is building his wife for another man
@Mystia642
6 ай бұрын
Stop doing things for him.
@maebell227
6 ай бұрын
Don't leave ur baby w gran bc she's gonna treat the others poorly.
@SpaceMonkey1900
5 ай бұрын
S1 husband failed OP big time . It takes two to tango, and he was busy laying down scratching his ass
@SpaceMonkey1900
5 ай бұрын
OP sounds like a wonderfull wife, she works hard and tries to work with and help her husband. Few women like that these days
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
7 ай бұрын
people get so stupid over sacred dna. it is entirely possible that this family is toxic and doesn't want them to get their hooks into baby
@dead_vibes
6 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ,. How did the husband choose every wrong option in the dialogue tree?? Honestly I'm angered and impressed.
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