First op should have went NC a long time ago , but you know you can’t do that because it’s “family”. I hope this story is fake.
@Echo_9
7 ай бұрын
I hate when people don't go nc because of family bullshit like that an excuse
@wickedashley
7 ай бұрын
You can’t expect people to just cut off family because of trauma. Shit don’t work like that. The world isn’t black and white.
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
6 ай бұрын
because the sacred family crap bs is far too of a brainwashed societal mindset. it it is a normal healthy family it is the strongest unit out there. when it's toxic? it's evil
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
6 ай бұрын
OP is more concerned about her lousy sister than her husband. She is far too enmeshed with her crappy family
@Shadriand
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, this isn't just SA this is the much more serious one. Cops should be involved in this, not reddit.
@littlemisstink921
7 ай бұрын
What’s so disturbing is that the same thing happened with me and a guy I had considered a friend. Only…he wasn’t drunk and I partially blame myself for going against my gut feeling.
@Shadriand
7 ай бұрын
@@littlemisstink921 You should probably go to the police if you haven't already, and I hope you're in a better place now. There's nothing that you should blame yourself for, no one deserves to be put in that position.
@littlemisstink921
7 ай бұрын
@@Shadriand I tried but they didn’t do anything at the time because “there was no evidence or witnesses.” It took him stalking me and my neighbors calling multiple times to report him for suspicious activity for them to do shit. This was a few years ago but surprise…I wasn’t his first or last victim and those kind officers are no longer employed.
@Shadriand
7 ай бұрын
@@littlemisstink921 I'm sorry you went through that, I can't even begin to imagine what that must've been like. I'm glad that those officers are no longer employed, and I hope that he was charged.
@littlemisstink921
7 ай бұрын
@@Shadriand He finally was after he successfully did to another girl what he had originally been trying to do to me before I woke up. We live in a small town so it wasn’t long for word to get around and other women to come forward and is now serving 30 years in prison.
@abubarrie88
7 ай бұрын
So OPs gets SA”d and her response to her attacker is be a better person ? GTFOH with this fake story.the fact that who ever wrote views that telling her sister is something she needs to do cuz she needs to share this burden as if her sister has any complicity in what her BIL did. Smh
@samoea19
7 ай бұрын
I know someone who (as of the last time I talked to her) still has not told her sister she was SA'd by her BIL but the whole family knows. I almost thought this was her but she has more siblings and her sister has only been with 1 dude.
@MistressOP
7 ай бұрын
same. I think men sometimes don't understand or get it. How overlooked women are in there own family. I know men and women who still go to thankgiving and sit next to there SAers, and more. Have childern by SA'ers and everyone knows to not be in the room with that uncle alone. The amount of itme and effort they will go through to protect entertain and shower love on Sa'ers is always gonna be nuts. I also think she gave up on her sister to fast. She's basically trap and trying to understand it. The man is a damn time bomb she's with because god knows what else he did to who. Her sister is probably in a depression herself. Yes, vic is the vic. But the sister is grieving two different ways. Plus she has a SA modeling behavior to her kids that is just........ god knows what. @@samoea19
@samoea19
7 ай бұрын
@@MistressOP don't open up the can of worms that is "that uncle". Giiirrrrl.
@MistressOP
7 ай бұрын
truthhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. ima be honest her sister is a hot mess but im also proud of her for being the only one with a real answer for that poor woman. @@samoea19
@develyntwocentshenderson5739
6 ай бұрын
when my narcissistic egg donor started after an up the street neighbor she started acting like a brain dead teenager. although I think teenagers were more mature than she was imo. but it was a mask. I could not warn him as he would have tattled. in the end, as I expected, she finally drove him off. as she did to anyone else significant in her life
@Emil_LLscpfan
7 ай бұрын
Day 121 of commenting to help secretvoices
@SecretVoices25
7 ай бұрын
Day 121 of commenting thankyou for your support ❤️❤️❤️
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