oh geez, this fan really needed some help this time! email me your story here: jamariadvice@gmail.com
@aridj1317
3 жыл бұрын
I sent you an email
@coconut412
3 жыл бұрын
@supa hot fire! you enjoy the ps5
@Daouz1
3 жыл бұрын
I like Jamari old vids on that fat lady😆
@seezofficial2043
3 жыл бұрын
Don't think I coulda said it better myself🙌🏾... Dr. Jamari🤓
@seezofficial2043
3 жыл бұрын
@@coconut412 Life advice at 1000%
@jazzvega
3 жыл бұрын
I'm confused, homie saying he loves this chick, but can't be real enough to let her know he's concerned about her weight; if you come from a fit family, wouldn't you have the knowledge to help her out?
@devinbirdsong5444
3 жыл бұрын
You can lead a whale to water, but you can’t make it sink
@marciliojunior4919
3 жыл бұрын
When you love someone you are afraid of hurting their feelings, this girl already has anxiety and probably a very unstable humor, depending on the way he says "youre fat" she might get into real depression.
@jazzvega
3 жыл бұрын
@@marciliojunior4919 yeah well leaving her on some BS bc he couldn't be honest with her will prob lead her into depression anyways so pick your poison
@dongambino5308
3 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t really win either way, it’s hard to tell your girl you want her to workout because she’s gonna assume that you want her to look like another girl. Girls want to be accepted for who they are and the minute you ask them to change they lose confidence and think it’s because you want different. And that can cause resentment etc. trust issues list goes on. It’s a super sensitive topic, a woman’s weight is the equivalent to a mans penis. You really have to be careful and thoughtful with how you do things
@schmeeb7807
3 жыл бұрын
if my man didn’t tell me that he isn’t comfortable with my weight and broke up with me for that reason only i’d be upset. also if he was only worried ab what other people say ab me or him i’d think he’s a wimp lol.
@ekeneemenike4881
3 жыл бұрын
It kinda seems like he wants t9 break up with her because of the weight gain, and he should if it bothers him so much, but don't try and frame it like it's everybody's fault that made you HAVE to dump her. Be a man, say it as it is.
@herrlichee1713
3 жыл бұрын
It is slightly shitty to do that especially since its only 30lbs and she is working on it. It is clear he only cares about his image and not her.
@ekeneemenike4881
3 жыл бұрын
@@herrlichee1713 Couldn't have said it better.
@booty121212
3 жыл бұрын
@@herrlichee1713 30 lbs is alot on anyone man or woman . If she cant lose it within a year he should dump her. Just gonna get fatter.
@hidden1319
3 жыл бұрын
@@booty121212 damn bro that’s messed up, you act like being obese is just a physical thing. It oftentimes comes with a mental problem as well, even if it is like being depressed or something. Eating can very well be a distraction of so many other things. Idk man, I wouldn’t just tell her oh yeah after this year you better have dropped that weight. I’d say, oh maybe we can get healthier together. The point of a couple is to build each other up and support each other in a positive way.
@mitsuhiro1306
3 жыл бұрын
@@hidden1319 Being overweight isn’t healthy it isn’t just about how you look its about being healthy if you love someone and you’re with someone that is overweight or gains weight you should help them lose the weight to a healthy weight. If you are overweight yourself someone should also help you, for example if I was overweight I would hope that someone tells me and helps me lose it.
@REXHERRMANN
3 жыл бұрын
30 pounds? Gotta bump those numbers ups, those are rookie numbers
@dongambino5308
3 жыл бұрын
Facts lmao, difference between a wife and a girlfriend is 50lbs. Dated my girl 4 years ago she was like 140, she sits between 180-205 now, guess I got myself a wife
@ilikeanimals5015
3 жыл бұрын
@@dongambino5308 grats bro, marry her and be happy
@Speedy_Cy
3 жыл бұрын
@@dongambino5308 🤣🤣Love the logic mate
@MozzeeFootball
3 жыл бұрын
WTF
@nicoleredwin4296
3 жыл бұрын
@@dongambino5308 Guess I have to get to 138lbs. Working on it after 5 years lol
@herrlichee1713
3 жыл бұрын
This guy clearly only cares about his image. He is honestly trying so hard to not say “I am embarrassed by her.” 30lbs isn’t a lot, and if she is working on it, then he should be more supportive. She deserves better.
@CrazyFanaticMan
3 жыл бұрын
*IF* shes working on it then yea sure
@CLB134
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@snowyhoops4561
3 жыл бұрын
IF she’s showing improvement and eating healthy. Otherwise time to dip.
@herrlichee1713
3 жыл бұрын
@@snowyhoops4561 then his ass should leave, like I said, she deserves better. Get out of here with trying to be nice and sugarcoating everything.
@321autumn
3 жыл бұрын
@@snowyhoops4561 in the video he said that his girl friend’s weight gain is from a medicine that she’s on, and it’s probably the birth control shot (depo provera). It makes you gain weight like crazy, I used to be on it and gained 30 pounds in one year and I barely ate anything and was active. As soon as I got off of it I lost all of that weight in 2-3 months. Sometimes weight gain is out of your control no matter what you do.
@manwithaplan135
3 жыл бұрын
Being a guy that was once 400 lbs you can leave and it isn't bad that you want to leave since given your upbringing. My girlfriend of 6 years has seen me at my biggest and worse to my best and smallest and I even seen her gain 30 lbs. If you wanna leave leave because that's absolutely fine and will work but you may hate your decision. If she is working out then she is working to fix it and even changing her meds. My girl has lost the 30 pounds she gained but it took her about a year to work up the courage to just go ahead and do it. And now she loves working out. Sometimes it takes a push and pull from the one you love to get you to do it. Don't watch it if you can help just give her some motivation by actively working on it with her. And talk to her about your feelings because it WILL help both of you.
@aserehtaraicalro
3 жыл бұрын
Elegantly written, that was some great advice.
@MytakesUJ
3 жыл бұрын
Great advise bro
@eddienom
3 жыл бұрын
A King Move
@paulwendelboe1867
3 жыл бұрын
hell yeh brother well said
@wutsit2yuhhuh246
2 жыл бұрын
Awesome comment!
@uaenaonce8231
3 жыл бұрын
Looking at this from the girl's perspective: once super fit just gained an immense amount of weight for something that it is out of my control parents hate me bf's parents hate starting to notice bf's embarrassed to go out with me cause of what other people think .....and dumped...this can't be good for her mental health. Maybe it's cause I'm looking at it from a girl's perspective, I feel like I feel a million times more sympathy for the girl despite the narrator being the guy. Obviously, you shouldn't rely on your partner to be your therapist but having no support system would definitely mess with her mental health even more.
@mordddecai
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, poor girl
@thedog4499
3 жыл бұрын
Being fat is not an image thing is a healthy thing. Being fat is not okay and is not sexy.
@purple9030
3 жыл бұрын
@@thedog4499 it is an image thing
@thedog4499
3 жыл бұрын
@@purple9030 if you are 5.5 and 200 pounds is not okay
@purple9030
3 жыл бұрын
@@thedog4499 he didn’t say she was 200 pounds
@jupitershanty
3 жыл бұрын
When I met my husband, my parents tried to say negative things about him, painting him as a loser. I love him so much and know his worth so I stand up for him. 3 years later, he's made them eat their words several times. Love is different and I think it goes past this superficial quandary.
@phillipl5560
3 жыл бұрын
Family can be one of the most toxic people....just because their family doesn’t mean they are the end all
@missflower6142
3 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@AnalyticalChick
3 жыл бұрын
I seriously doubt his family is doing this. It sounds like he wants to blame someone else because he's shallow.
@antpaste
3 жыл бұрын
phillip L they're*
@phillipl5560
3 жыл бұрын
@@antpaste I hope you are a sarcastic grammar troll
@pricklycats
2 жыл бұрын
Family... the most offensive F word
@tajrobinson9438
3 жыл бұрын
He’s going to dump her and she’s either going to get hot again and find someone else or find someone who loves her no matter what size she is, I feel like he has a lot of growing up to do
@Jurra-x
3 жыл бұрын
Not really if he isn't interested in her because of her appearance then he isn't interested
@tajrobinson9438
3 жыл бұрын
@@Jurra-x that’s your opinion, but he claimed he “loved” her🤷🏽♀️
@Jurra-x
3 жыл бұрын
@@tajrobinson9438 it's not an opinion, it's not a big deal if someone no longer finds someone attractive due to their weight
@tajrobinson9438
3 жыл бұрын
@@Jurra-x that is an opinion but okay 🤣
@Jurra-x
3 жыл бұрын
@@tajrobinson9438 you're acting like if someone no longer likes/loves someone because of appearance that's factually incorrect Which it isn't lol which is why I say it's not an opinion it's just something that happens
@gboss2147
3 жыл бұрын
“Girls fall down one time in high school and wear this knee brace for the next four years “ Lmfaoooo😭
@techbiz7287
3 жыл бұрын
See I feel sympathy for the girl, because when most people don't understand weight loss is more mental than physical let me explain see a person will work out because they feel good about themselves or they want to improve themselves but if that person is going through depression or going through some financial struggles or even going through some stress the person may not even want to work out a lot it may even quit. And with stress you won't lose any weight
@dawud7791
3 жыл бұрын
Good call, to be honest, if I was overweight, I don’t know that I would have the drive to get it done. It’s not just “diet” it’s a multidimensional struggle. Life is in general, but we all have different individual struggles.
@PrincessZaire100
3 жыл бұрын
@@dawud7791 sometimes I’ll have the “drive” but it’ll flame out when I don’t get the results I want. I try to keep in my mind that I’m a women and it’s a little bit harder for me to loose weight, but it’ll still upset me when I don’t reach a certain goal at a certain point in time
@115ShockWave
3 жыл бұрын
See that is such bullshit I have to say , fat people will use any excuse about why they are fat rather than the actual truth, it's no one else's fault except their own for stuffing their face and getting fat but they will blame other shit for getting themselves fat , if they really want to loose weight they will do it if they are serious about it but alot of fatties will just make up excuses and just keep shoving food down their throats, nobody forced you to eat all those burgers, you ate your way in , you can make it out too
@rawrxd6311
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a bunch of excuses 😤
@dawud7791
3 жыл бұрын
@@rawrxd6311 sounds more like the truth Drill sarg.
@Skainz69
3 жыл бұрын
always on point with the gameplay in the background
@12038q
3 жыл бұрын
Chowder
@supahcomix
3 жыл бұрын
i remember the first time i got mario 64, i'm still paying off the cost of the game to my mom lol
@kieranm2599
3 жыл бұрын
I love it
@folksnem1855
3 жыл бұрын
Bruh he isnt even doing carpetless
@MikeLhawdsYouTubeAccountHandle
3 жыл бұрын
The 4 year knee brace comment made me spit out my juice. But seriously, how many girls in high-school had knee braces for like 3 plus years?
@felipelovecraft1767
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong in dating a big girl. Screw what anyone thinks. If you truly love the person, you accept them how they are. Of course if you care for the person's health, you work something out with them.
@joshshrum2764
3 жыл бұрын
As long as they aren’t to BIG.
@jonathanxavier2026
3 жыл бұрын
Thing is women never feel like this on the flip, they don't feel this way about men who are big.
@robertasvaicius4437
3 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanxavier2026 or if they lose their job and many more reasons
@bigdrip8316
3 жыл бұрын
Don't be having fat fetishes
@nonomb3079
3 жыл бұрын
im not a kidnapper just a surprise adopter.
@Stress_._Free
3 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what I say
@drstryker2433
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a murderer I just make people go eternal night night
@vindiesel505
3 жыл бұрын
Too far? Maybe
@user-pv7vc9kp9k
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a fraud, i just make big bonfires.
@jupitershanty
3 жыл бұрын
@@drstryker2433 🤣🤣
@Theloversconjure
3 жыл бұрын
Medication based probably means birth control, which she’s on for his benefit. Leave him sis. Imagine if you had a baby- he’d be complaining about that too.
@mordddecai
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah if he plans to be with her for a long time her weight is gonna fluctuate, its not worth it if hes gonna be always so concerned about how much she weighs. Birth control is a pain, as someone whos been on birth control its more pleasant for the dude than the girl. She deserves better. I honestly cant imagine being in her shoes
@power50001562
3 жыл бұрын
Contraception is immoral anyways
@johnyy09
3 жыл бұрын
combined oral contraception does not cause weight gain its a common misconception. If she's taking the mini pill or nexplanon which is progesterone only there could be some weight gain. However it would cause 5lbs 10lbs max. No was birth control will cause 30lb increase. My guess its an antipsychotic probably clozapine that can cause a significant amount of weight gain. She won't be able to get off of antipsychotics if she needs it. Hopefully it is birth control though cuz she can easily change to a different option like an IUD, hormonal or non hormonal.
@Tmch678
3 жыл бұрын
power50001562 🙄🙄🙄 contraceptives are not always specifically for preventing pregnancy. Women use it for other health conditions as well.
@power50001562
3 жыл бұрын
@@Tmch678 Then you wouldn't be using it as a contraceptive
@wj-s4378
3 жыл бұрын
If you aren't happy with her having extra weight then end it. If you can't accept her with a few extra pounds now. Imagine if you marry her she gets pregnant and gains 50 + pounds can you deal with it? That is the question he needs to answer for himself. If other People's opinions matter to you then go ahead and break up with her. And always wonder what if. As we get older most prefer to have someone that has meat of their bones and not walking skeletons.
@booty121212
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah you make a great point. That also puts baby at harm to. I can see why the family is worried even though they seem like judgmental dbags. Who wants a daughter in law who doesnt even care enough to be healthy for pregancy.
@alb5801
3 жыл бұрын
I doubt that was the point. The point was there will be weight gain with pregnancy and possibly more than the 30 lbs and would that be the point where he would leave.
@onepunch2310
3 жыл бұрын
@@booty121212 uh unless she’s 300-500 pounds and has a large amount of abdominal fat and high blood pressure an overweight woman can give birth to healthy children and have proven to always be capable of that.
@ibis-chan6184
3 жыл бұрын
@@onepunch2310 yeah but 30 lbs gain from someone who used to be an athlete isn’t the same as a 300 lbs girl
@KettleBlacktheBat
3 жыл бұрын
@@booty121212 You soubd like a man who has no clue how the female body works but still try to tell other women on the internet how it works. Gaining 50 pounds during a pregnancy of you were already a healthy weight does not put the baby at risk. You know what puts the baby at risk? Working out then tearing something from over stress causing internal bleeding. It can literally kill a woman within minutes.
@MarshallKnotts
3 жыл бұрын
People change, weight comes and goes. Love what you got and count your blessings.
@jasmineglason1469
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she might be on birth control. I gained weight from birth control.
@MSalvadorStudios
3 жыл бұрын
im a male who took birthcontrol for 2 months by accident
@themuffinman9092
3 жыл бұрын
@@MSalvadorStudios care to explain
@facewrinkles3886
3 жыл бұрын
@@MSalvadorStudios How does one take bc on accident
@DiegoHernandez-tw3vt
3 жыл бұрын
@@MSalvadorStudios pardon?
@Dybz_
3 жыл бұрын
Isn’t that hella bad for a male to take? Or nah?
@MrShazaamm
3 жыл бұрын
Fluffy chicks rock, but fat is a different story.
@nightowl425
3 жыл бұрын
There's thicc, fluffy, DAMN. and then oh hell no
@MrShazaamm
3 жыл бұрын
@@nightowl425 🤣🤣🤣👍🍻
@sociallife5278
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with a little chub, but when your girlfriend can pick you up, then that's different
@Ovoxorose
3 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOO
@Gogo-bu6rd
3 жыл бұрын
They are the most loving I swear ! 😂😂
@inderjitkainth5353
3 жыл бұрын
No he doesn’t love her. If he did he wouldn’t care about what other people think. He has some growing up to do.
@thtboiz9443
3 жыл бұрын
Well the way he was raised and the fact that it’s family and he’s young I see why he has these problems but yeah u right
@callmejosiah_
3 жыл бұрын
Lol she better get her ass in a gym
@UserName-wp1sm
3 жыл бұрын
Stfu
@gajrawmusic8057
3 жыл бұрын
Big big thing to keep in mind in the future worrying about outside opinion isn’t showing you don’t love someone and never will be because you can prove love for someone without giving up outside opinion it can make you better person for not looking at other peoples opinions and it’ll help your mental state but you can love someone and be afraid of other peoples opinions words hurt shit affects you you move on and live life I do however agree that he doesn’t love her for the simple fact of he’s seeking advice from other people rather than confronting his girlfriend and talking it out with her if you worry about others opinions that’s fine but talking about it online isn’t the way to go it should be solved between you and her not you her and everyone that responds on the internet
@emilyannperkins7010
3 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend has done the same thing tho. i gained 60 lbs in like a year and a half and i’ve lost 15 in two months but he’s been supportive through everything the two and a half years we been together :) wish this dude could be a lil less judgmental, meds fucking suck when they mess w your metabolism
@kaywee4200
3 жыл бұрын
I bet you look damn good!!!!
@kaywee4200
3 жыл бұрын
Weight isn't always the issue it's how it lay's. So toning and shit builds muscle which is heavier than fat but don't mean the number makes ya fat ☺️
@emilyannperkins7010
3 жыл бұрын
@@kaywee4200 you’re such a doll, thank you for the positivity!!! YOU MADE MY DAY 🥺🥰✨
@kaywee4200
3 жыл бұрын
@@emilyannperkins7010 good girl :) me and your man both support you're beauty. You're welcome!
@BaC0n78
3 жыл бұрын
The best thing to have in a relationship is communicating. Me and my girl we have been together for 5 years. And I tell her about her weight and she tell me about mine. I’m the overweight person in the relationship. I used to play football in high school I was 250lbs then I got injured and then the rest of my career I was took it easy on myself. But that ended me is back to 300lbs now. She tells me to go and workout and she supports me about my weight loss. There were times people from the outside was talking to my girlfriend about how I look and ask her why she’s with me because I don’t look good or say that I look retarded. I’m neither of those things and I don’t care what anyone says. So the best thing is have a deep conversation with her and make sure it comes out as caring instead of being mean to her. Oh and having car conversations are the best when it comes to hard topics.
@Blackbirdinthedeadofnight
3 жыл бұрын
People said you look retarted to your girlfriend??? What is wrong with people???
@kailacook8319
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly maybe he is worried about what everyone is saying. I feel like he's being superficial. Who cares what everyone is saying? If you have someone that's a good person and cares about you, who cares they gained weight? Try to be understanding. Do the weight loss journey too if you would like. But gaining a little weight isn't a big deal. Since she was an athlete it probably won't be hard to loose it. But if he's going to break up with her over that. Good riddance. She deserves better anyway
@theeggjohnson5930
3 жыл бұрын
People need to understand that its not okay to approve someone that is eating to death
@siunmadness5009
3 жыл бұрын
This will be interesting to see the replies, I'm ready 👁️👄👁️🍿
@musygal2560
3 жыл бұрын
@3 years Ago She started to gain weight because of her medication, if you would lose someone because of the side effects of medication, then you deserve no one and I hope you live a loveless life
@musygal2560
3 жыл бұрын
@@theeggjohnson5930 She gained the weight form medication, it's not "EatInG yOuRsElf To dEath" like jesus why are you people so shallow and stupid
@valoriewriter
3 жыл бұрын
@3 years Ago that’s called fat phobia. Work on yourself.
@mazebean5200
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think what he needs to do is to decide whether to stay or leave. If he wants to leave, he's totally allowed to, but he must be certain of his decision. If he wants to stay, he should commit on supporting her girlfriend, don't give a shit about what others say or think, work out, eat healthy and stay by her side. This ofc doesn't mean she should be baby-sitted, just that, if he decides to stay, he should man-up. With either decision he should stay firmly on it and don't have any regrets.
@liamivarsson
3 жыл бұрын
this
@blaynebaltazar4124
3 жыл бұрын
If all else fails, just tell her how much you love and care about her and that you’re just looking out for her and want her to be healthier and happier
@blaynebaltazar4124
3 жыл бұрын
Honesty is the best
@slicedbread39
3 жыл бұрын
I struggled with anorexia a year into a relationship, my boyfriend stayed and supported me to get healthy and recover again. I cant thank him enough and how he stayed all throughout it even tho he had his own problems. Still together and about to celebrate our third anniversary soon.
@iqqh
3 жыл бұрын
if you love your girlfreind, you would tell her to lose wheight for her health. if you dont help her or encourage her your a bad boyfreind.
@dongambino5308
3 жыл бұрын
This is true, girlfriend has a fatty liver and she has high blood pressure, she’s only 19. She’s not even big, she’s just a thicker girl. Idk how to tell her to be healthier etc, and in all honesty I don’t want her to lose weight but it would be best for her health. What a shame
@hidden1319
3 жыл бұрын
@@dongambino5308 tell her to drink more water, or try to lead by example. Just eat healthier around her, or suggest healthier food options whenever you cook or go out. I was with a girl that literally never ate, and I told her just because she is thin that doesn’t mean she is healthy. We aren’t together anymore, but she isn’t as thin like how she used to be and seems to be healthier, so that’s good for her. We still are sort of friends, but yeah we obviously don’t talk as much as we used too. Just happy she’s healthy.
@aparna2701
3 жыл бұрын
@@dongambino5308 maybe go on a healthy journey yourself, it will encourage her to accompany you! You can keep each other on track and support eachother during tough times.
@dongambino5308
3 жыл бұрын
@@hidden1319 that’s the odd part, me and my girlfriend eat pretty clean believe it or not. I only drink water and she only drinks water, Tito’s and tea. Lately she got into coffee and I feel like that’s definitely not helping her but she doesn’t drink soda at all, she says it’s liquid candy. She’s not into sweets or sugar, she normally cooks chicken or pastas, she doesn’t eat what you would think, it’s all relatively healthy in all honesty. I want to say it’s genetics because her mom has the biggest ass me or any of my friends have ever seen, she used to do track in high school and hockey, and she still runs here and there and will do squats etc, so I don’t know if that’s how she’s meant to be or what. I don’t mind it at all, just fear about her health deteriorating. Also glad to hear your friend is healthy, know exactly what you’re saying when you break up with someone but still care to see them do well. Lot of people can’t do that
@umarb7325
3 жыл бұрын
this comment has no idea how hard it is to tell any woman she's overweight. She's going to cry before admitting it and that's if she's even mature
@ceceliahutchinson939
3 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate you mentioning your old videos and how you changed your perspective. Great work man 💯💯
@sukiBambina
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys. It’s nice to hear guys emphasize with the pressure society puts on women. It’s relentless. We really don’t need to hear it from our man too.
@ThePOPcultureHashira
3 жыл бұрын
If he really does love her then just sit her down and actually talk to her about it and express how you wanna work with her; how much do YOU weigh buddy?!?! Suggest you both work out together!!! Cook for her!!! Find some healthy recipes and cook it together!
@naomimills7215
3 жыл бұрын
My husband got with me at my skinniest. I gained weight during quarantine.. I mentioned it to my husband and he tells me we both need to work on getting healthier and left it at that. My husband told me when we were 23 first getting together that's he could careless about my weight or my stretch marks. He literally pulled his shirt up, showed me his stretch marks and told me he had no room to say anything to me. Since that day I've absolutely loved him and his honesty. Never has he commented on my weight or size which is something I'm extremely sensitive to. Girls....you can find a man who will love you NO MATTER WHAT. I waited till I was 23 to meet him and didn't marry until I was 29... You have PLENTY OF TIME TO FIND BETTER FR FR
@witchcraftbdo3212
3 жыл бұрын
Idk. When i had relationships in the past I usually told the girl straight away if something bothered me. So look for a solution. Dont just break up so easily if everything else about the relationship is good.
@danny_dan92
3 жыл бұрын
This medication that she is on, could be birth control. Cause I’m aware that birth control can make girl’s gain weight. So can anti depressants. So idk. Either way, he should suggest working out with her since it seems like he knows a thing or two about fitness. I dealt with a relationship where the girl I was with started gaining weight and the best thing to do for helping a girl you’re with to lose weight is to talk about her goals and then tell her you want to help her and tell her you also have goals of your own and then bring up making changes together. Cause if you make it only about them, they get really sad and think you’re judging them
@buckyt70
3 жыл бұрын
Birth control is poisonous. He needs to glove up!
@kat41730
3 жыл бұрын
“iF yOu cAn’T HanDLe mE aT mY wORsE, yOu dOn’T dEsERvE mE aT mY bESt.” 🥀🌹
@Ruby-dc3wp
3 жыл бұрын
And that how toxic relationships are created
@SexyTCAPdecoy4Hansen
3 жыл бұрын
*adds marilyn Monroe pic*
@deciblaze2138
3 жыл бұрын
The advice you gave was actually really empathetic and sweet. Man I LOVEEE when people are kind
@wixie2036
3 жыл бұрын
i gained a good 100 lbs from my medicine that i was taking for 2 years cause i had depression and people saying that is fat peoples fault just makes me shook
@wixie2036
3 жыл бұрын
@Kalia Riveira i believe it's their issue to control but like sometimes they need help not to be brought down ykno
@4LClovr
3 жыл бұрын
3:26 "girls fall one time in highschool and they wear this knee brace for the next four years" yesss ikr!!! i see them everywhere.
@WaltThizzney415
3 жыл бұрын
My ex at 170 was just as hot at 125, she was 5’6, I tried to tell her that but she always tried to keep her weight down.
@Ian-vn9fh
3 жыл бұрын
if she ain't pushing 280 she ain't a real lady
@stephenstarling2578
3 жыл бұрын
She ain't pushing 180 she inst lady
@KiomonDuck
3 жыл бұрын
120 is the max for me mattering on the height of the woman.
@Ian-vn9fh
3 жыл бұрын
@@stephenstarling2578 more cushion for pushin brother, c'mon add another 100
@user-ok8yq6nc6x
3 жыл бұрын
If she can't eat free at the heart attack grill she ain't a real lady
@cxrve2931
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@masteroogway3805
3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend is on anxiety and depression meds that makes her gain weight. She eats healthy and is starting to workout to lose some weight. She isn’t overweight or obese. I love her and still find her very very attractive. I hope those in this situation support their significant other.
@HalfNHalf.
3 жыл бұрын
I gained about 30 lbs and literally nothing changed except my butt😂 she’s huge now
@ImVeryBrad
3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@UsualProdigy
3 жыл бұрын
lemme see
@sweettea3879
3 жыл бұрын
@@UsualProdigy 🤨
@UsualProdigy
3 жыл бұрын
@@sweettea3879 ykwtfgo bro
@choosetolivefree
3 жыл бұрын
Like the man said, pics or it didn't happen
@karenhardie1132
3 жыл бұрын
Birth control does make a lot of women gain weight.
@stephendaly8287
3 жыл бұрын
the word is chubbophobic, not fat phobic, life according to jimmy fans wya?
@xdoxxy
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like subconsciously he also doesn’t like the fact that she’s gained weight. If the only problem you have in is what other people think then you need to reevaluate if you actually love this person or not.
@nathanboone1286
3 жыл бұрын
"most of those videos arent on my page anymore cuz that aint me" *cuts to pic of double chin donna* im weak
@funface33221
3 жыл бұрын
The men in these comments sound toxic 🤢
@Welpdamn
3 жыл бұрын
I'm even looking at Jabari with sideeye
@fine100
3 жыл бұрын
I'm toxic 😈
@Welpdamn
3 жыл бұрын
@@fine100what you really said was "I'm sad, being a good person is too hard." Wah. Broke dick energy.
@core17yt54
3 жыл бұрын
@@Welpdamn mad?
@Welpdamn
3 жыл бұрын
@@core17yt54 now thats a cap response whats the matter baby boy did I read you? It was a children's book.
@dannyanimated8885
3 жыл бұрын
Seems like my wife had a knee injury that prevented her from running for the last 8 years.
@dongambino5308
3 жыл бұрын
My mother and law had both her knees replaced and gained weight since and she really beats herself up over her weight and the fact it hurts to run, Hope you and your wife can figure something out that’ll maybe help her workout with the bad knee
@dannyanimated8885
3 жыл бұрын
TC Talk 💯💯💯
@dongambino5308
3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooo y’all evil 💀😂
@namelesintelect4016
3 жыл бұрын
The fact that women do it to spite you rather than to keep you says it all.
@djsusiequ2422
3 жыл бұрын
So your gf gaining weight is a problem; how do you expect to maintain a long term relationship with a woman who will eventually gain weight throughout life; pregnancy, old age, menopause; that’s like she dropping your assh for losing hair; it is what it is- accept that as you get older you will gain weight
@theveganvillainess
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@m1zzcutie
3 жыл бұрын
It’s cuz he’s a shallow pos
@djsusiequ2422
3 жыл бұрын
@@m1zzcutie I’m going through the same thing- I’m fat- my bf the other day told me “what would my friends say”- I answered- “what would my friends say if they saw i was dating a black man”- same thing- I don’t give a fk what my friends peers or family have to say about who i date-
@ElmoTinker
3 жыл бұрын
I gained a lot of weight during the time spent with my ex-boyfriend. Not that he broke up with me because of the gain (I think lol), but he did mention a few times that he noticed the change. Anyway, after our split, I lost those pounds and more. It wasnt intentional, my eating schedule was just really off at the time. I looked my best, though! I actually gained 30 lb while with my boyfriend of three years. However, I've been working on healthier habits recently and lost 10 lbs so far. Hoping to reach my goal!
@PimpMatt0
3 жыл бұрын
At least his girlfriend isn't hella mean once a month.
@tracybrown2482
3 жыл бұрын
....that's the definition of a period lol
@mikaylaaa.2966
3 жыл бұрын
@@tracybrown2482 but the “medicine” that’s causing her to gain weight is most likely birth control. and birth control stops your period , so she won’t be mean to him once a month lol.
@tracybrown2482
3 жыл бұрын
@@mikaylaaa.2966 not all birth control "stops your period" and also birth control isn't supposed to make you gain weight. So, that's just ignorant.
@CasualLaxBro
3 жыл бұрын
@@tracybrown2482 no, many birth controls can make some girls gain weight, it happened to my ex. This is also a girl claiming this, so I have a feeling she may know more then you.
@HONGRYYYYYYYYY
3 жыл бұрын
Tracy Brown Birth control can make you gain weight lol YOURE the ignorant one
@SirZachariahlll
2 жыл бұрын
Gotta be straight up with her my guy , if you love her that's the right way
@Mortikus3
3 жыл бұрын
That girl deserves better. Honestly him leaving would be a blessing for her, she'd have dodged a bullet!!! Jamari gives advice saying that the guy should cook for the girl and encourage her to eat better, but the letter says she's been gaining weight not because she's been eating bad but because of her med! C'mon man give better advice.
@Welpdamn
3 жыл бұрын
Dude fr I straight up gave jabari sideeye.
@bigdrip8316
3 жыл бұрын
She works out but doesn't go on a diet even if it's medication you can still reverse the weight loss just cuz his medication doesn't make it impossible but harder Jamari ain't saying nothing wrong
@samratsingh1907
3 жыл бұрын
Imagine the guy hiring a cook to prepare meals for her following Jamari's advice and she ends up banging the cook.😳
@toheeb07
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Jamari said he can try cooking for her himself
@Welpdamn
3 жыл бұрын
In that world she would be doing much better than this superficial little boy she got now
@musygal2560
3 жыл бұрын
@@Welpdamn fr
@buzzlightyear6182
3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend has gained roughly 40lbs since the beginning of our relationship and it's been 11 months, I love him with all my heart and his weight hasn't effected our relationship at all, and kind of like the story his is due to lack of his ADHD medicine and his new anti depressants. He was around 160 when we first got together and I try to boost his self esteem as much as I can because it effects him mentally
@CurrentlyVictor
3 жыл бұрын
Easiest way to get out of this is by getting a gym membership and just try to turn this into an "us" activity and stay consistent with her. Maybe after a few months, she'll pick it up as a habit. If not, just gotta keep going with her. You gotta support people through stuff like this. Working out is a change to your lifestyle. I don't see an easy way to tell a woman outright she's gained weight without some type of backlash especially if she's insecure about her image. Honestly, it's difficult telling anyone on the gender spectrum that they've gained weight.
@mariomagalhaes5193
3 жыл бұрын
i'm a pharmacy student and 30 pounds from just medication seems like a stretch. 10 to 15 pounds is reasonable but 30 is too much. There have to be other factors like bad eating/sleeping habits, genetic conditions, etc...
@AnalyticalChick
3 жыл бұрын
She probably gained 10 and he's inflating it so people will take his side.
@b-mill4306
3 жыл бұрын
Everybody’s different, tho it probably is other factors the medicine’s prolly just the main one.
@Splexsychiick
3 жыл бұрын
I suggest you study more...
@mariomagalhaes5193
3 жыл бұрын
@@Splexsychiick I don't think u get what 30 pounds on the same frame means
@Splexsychiick
3 жыл бұрын
@@mariomagalhaes5193 enlighten me oh wise one. Cuz at this time I dont think it is a stretch that medication can cause a patient to gain 30 or more pounds.
@tessfrocnsifaskj5817
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that you sympathize with her, it is really hard! Just as an FYI, if she is overweight but not obese now that would put her between a BMI of 25-30. For a 5'4" woman this would be 146-175 pounds. If she used to be a dancer, I'm guessing it's closer to the 146. Which would mean she was 116 before. I am usually 110-120, since high school, but during a period of illness I gained more 50-60 pounds, probably in a out a year or so. It was incredibly difficult, especially because I was also sick all the time. It turned out my body had slowly been starting to reject a medication I had been on for a long time. With a combination of diet, and finally finding out what was causing the illness and obviously stopping the medication, I lost all of the weight in less than one year. As a result, I still struggle with body imagine issues, and feel horrifically fat whenever my weight gets above 115, even though I have been able to maintain 110-120. I appreciate that you are being sensitive, but I did want to point out that even if there is no obvious cause it's not necessarily someone's "fault." I'm lucky in that my current husband, then boyfriend, believed me about the illness, and stuck by me. If your partner gains weight, the best thing you can do is just encourage them to be healthy, and offer unconditional love.
@joshuakozee5719
3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you didn't use this series to make fun of people for entertainment
@natekelenski7333
2 жыл бұрын
If you truly love some one you should be able to preserver through any negative feed back you get from others about your relationship.
@roepau
3 жыл бұрын
Parents are never to old to change their mind. Get a grip, if they love you they will eventually love her.
@madalynmaxwell5271
3 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend gained 30 pounds since corona started (also had a lot of stress from his family in his life) and he’s become really insecure but i still love him no matter what and i’m not insecure of him i feel like it’s shitty to be debating breaking up with someone you love because of their size if your embarrassed of her break up with her because she deserves better especially since she’s probably on birth control which benefits you.
@chicken_cranberry
3 жыл бұрын
I'm still a virgin..
@sincerelysarcastic1494
3 жыл бұрын
“Congratulations, your a failure!” -The Spy
@PimpMatt0
3 жыл бұрын
Natural selection. You lost. No purpose. Jk. Grow a pair and ask a girl out like a man.
@chickenflaver6191
3 жыл бұрын
@Edgy "women are overated" How can you have a opinion on women if you never had one... (gg on being f*cked by natural selection lmaoo).
@symbiotex1751
3 жыл бұрын
Who give the fuck ???
@symbiotex1751
3 жыл бұрын
And whats your point ???
@MrMannyfresh78
3 жыл бұрын
You a real one mari. New uploads on long ass office days is hard as hell. Keep goin hard. Respect
@keneh9994
3 жыл бұрын
Not jamari posting as i frantically scroll thru his channel trying to find a video to watch :,)
@DasJaegar
3 жыл бұрын
It’s either Jamari spying me or this problem is more widespread than I thought
@killian6901
3 жыл бұрын
I am having this same exact problem... 😞
@German_cookies
3 жыл бұрын
leave homie, sounds like her looks bother you already. I would personally have a serious talk about the weight gain if you feel like staying.
@Dybz_
3 жыл бұрын
It’s the first Time I heard someone say “life is really long” Usually I hear that it’s short.. 🤔🤔🤔🤔 anyone?
@hyxxx1564
3 жыл бұрын
Life is so long, death better come at 30 or ill be pissed
@199popify
3 жыл бұрын
Since when do you have 500k holy shit. I’ve been watching your videos everyday for the past year and I honestly didn’t realize how much you’ve blown up good shit man.
@SobaYatai
3 жыл бұрын
I just love the fact that you are talking about a overweight girlfriend while playing as a fat italian man in the background
@harumskarum3481
3 жыл бұрын
I was pretty narrow minded when it came to being obese for a long time. I realize now how wrong I was and feel horrible for being so judgmental. Prejudice against obese people is so normalized in our society and it needs to be viewed with more compassion. I still work on this but it can be done.
@hiyesiambanana2310
3 жыл бұрын
Quick type something funny
@icrxspy8884
3 жыл бұрын
Something funny
@vexxfulomega9
3 жыл бұрын
Comedy Genius
@iandugger1168
3 жыл бұрын
no
@MrLeMonD3
3 жыл бұрын
FUCK... uhhhh Somethin funny 🤷🏿♂️?
@spicedcoffee9902
3 жыл бұрын
"Booty, getting some booty is more important than eating food. It's more important than drinking water. If I see a man I like, I tell him like this here: I likes ya, and I want ya. Now we and do this the easy way, or we can do this the hard way. The choice is yours..."
@vegandolls
3 жыл бұрын
If you're thinking about dumping someone because they gained a pant size/30 lbs then you don't love them. You NEVER loved them. There's literally no change of appearance that my husband could go through that would make me leave him. He could change into Ricky Berkwick overnight and it wouldn't change my love
@takeachance1509
3 жыл бұрын
Fat Donna got me hollerin 😂😂
@kyrceautumn9637
3 жыл бұрын
You gave wonderful advice Jamari. Making the lifestyle change approach will help her not be defensive and she will be more willing to change herself.
@numero1qw
3 жыл бұрын
Tbh when i got diagnosted with bipolar disorder i started taking really heavy medication, i gained 30kg in 7 months (took me 7 months to fully recover).
@nittygritty2051
3 жыл бұрын
As David goggins said we’re watching people fail because we’re afraid to hurt their feelings
@HeyoitsJay
3 жыл бұрын
If she's working out still then she's still trying to be healthy. Maybe just be like "Hey babe I bought some Gardein vegan meatballs we could try."Or something like that ya know. EDit: He just doesn't like fat girls. He's not a terrible person but he has his own standards and he needs to be honest. Oh and don't JUST make her salads there's plenty of healthy stuff.
@jeremybutcher6418
3 жыл бұрын
im an old man n i def think this is some solid advice. good job breaking down every point n you have solid points each time. i mean, there isnt one answer for everything, but def consider respect and boundaries when talking about relationships, even relationships with family
@ArmandoLopez-xb8ps
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jamari big fan found ur channel during quarantine and I love it keep it up
@Algae555
3 жыл бұрын
If you can’t get over what other people think as a grown adult, then you’re not good for her. She’s the one with the weight problem, she has to deal with the insults from strangers and her boyfriend’s parents, etc and yet YOURE the one with the problem! Just leave if you can’t help her
@beetlejuice2725
3 жыл бұрын
This is the EXACT story of my roomate's ex, the timeline adds up perfectly and everything lol (They broke up 10-11 months ago). Boutta go see if he's been watching any tan superman vids
@vincentsanabria
3 жыл бұрын
Yo for real thank you for the honesty is every situation your a real dude and that’s rare these days
@abelvelazco5450
3 жыл бұрын
5:35 "Stop stop he's dead already 😭😭"
@pastelgasmaskie
3 жыл бұрын
I think its a case by case kinda deal. Like personally I would never ask a partner to lose weight unless they are like obese or something. People go through stuff and gain and lose weight. It honestly hurts a lot to be told by someone you love to lose weight, especially if they arent even huge or obese. I think its better to just encourage better life choices, instead of just telling them to lose weight. Like ask her to work out with you, or start a diet with you. Honestly I probably have a big bias because I used to be obese like 220 ibs and 5'1, but then i lost over 100 ibs and got down to 115 and live a lot more healthier life. I do go thru rough patches and fluctuate between 115 and 130. I just have a lot more empathy for big girls, and I could only imagine how heart crushing it would be if my man told me I was getting fat and to lose weight... but i mean if homie dont like big girls, just break up and dont waste her time lol.
@Casey3-P-O
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Jamari on pretty much everything he said, except for "life is long". Life isn't that long dude. I'm thirty and I feel like I turned 20 only a couple years ago. Life is short, and I'm pretty sure the older I get, the shorter it will feel. Just my fofty cents.
@SoggyCig
2 жыл бұрын
People really don’t understand being in love. It’s not a simple answer as in he’s right or she’s right in the situation, it’s about compromising man. It’s great to love someone for personality but obviously appearances is the reason why they even got together in the first place. It’s the harsh truth and EVERYONE fucking does it. Everyone has standards! The whole reason they were attracted to each other was because they were BOTH fit. The girl/ guy wouldn’t be with each other if one of them were fat. No matter what you say. That’s the sad reality. There’s a reason people don’t prefer fat people, amputees, a certain race, a certain gender, it all revolves around someone’s preference and there’s nothing wrong with that. Obviously he’s confused about the situation but he shouldn’t be asking a bunch of random strangers off the internet who aren’t involved in HIS relationship. We don’t know any better man, that’s up to him to figure out. He has to talk to his gf about this and find a compromise to work with TOGETHER. Motivate her to work out, help her eat good healthy food, etc. And of course she wouldn’t be down to do it at first, but it’s literally just the patience and and the ability to continue pushing her. If she completely doesn’t even want to then yes, it’s your sign to leave. If she doesn’t take the talk well, then leave. It’s a 50/50 thing on both ends. I think he’s a great guy, and she’s a great woman, but it literally depends on how open they are towards each other, how supportive, and how much they actually love each other. If he sees the effort in her, he’ll love her without a damn hesitation. If she sees he’s really trying to encourage her to get fit, without insulting her, then she’ll see the dude really cares about her. Fuck these people in the comments saying he’s fucked up. You’re fucked up. You live in such a fake reality where you haven’t really experienced a good relationship. You don’t have a say in this. You let the couple figure their shit out.
@SSJHarvey
3 жыл бұрын
The EDP shots tho!!! 😂😂😂
@anthoyeet782
3 жыл бұрын
dude he’s so right. they get hurt like 4 years ago and then where the brace and act disabled for attention
@calebdonaldson7044
3 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna say what I always say to people dealing with fat girls if she’s a whale just bail
@KiomonDuck
3 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a whale of a tale! I'd bail to tell that tale! I hate myself too.
@quiahjohnson5871
3 жыл бұрын
@@KiomonDuck 😂😂😂 Chyort
@KiomonDuck
3 жыл бұрын
@@quiahjohnson5871 👍
@ayemelitha2600
3 жыл бұрын
hey it's nobodies but gods fault ya dck don't reach
@calebdonaldson7044
3 жыл бұрын
@@ayemelitha2600 awrite feminist it was a joke also learn to spell. I bet your one of those cows that support fat acceptance in fact no I take it back I’m insulting cows by calling you one your way lower.
@CieraMychele
2 жыл бұрын
Bro med changes can be the craziest thing. I took a med that made me so sick I couldn't eat but at the same time made me gain like 20 lbs in a couple months. Couldn't eat more than soup, was so tired i slept all the time kept calling out of work. I clearly gained weight people asked if i was pregnant. Didnt even realize because I was so busy being sick. Only realized once I was off the med, started feeling better, and lost all the weight again. Hindsight is like "OMG why didn't you realize sooner??" So I feel bad for her and it sucks his family is like that, and also she may just need time to change to a new med and she'll be back to her desired weight im sure. My whole ordeal was like 10 months total, before I finally felt back to "normal" again, haven't gained significant weight back since. Just gotta wait it out sometimes
@Eric_Cartman1
3 жыл бұрын
0:29 Hodgetwins Approved.
@kajal6585
3 жыл бұрын
If a dude ever told me I had to lose weight and implies it's because his parents are shallow, and that I might be damaging to his reputation - I'd break up with him immediately. The girlfriend has a lot of patience to deal with that. Especially when the weight gain is brought up by a medical condition / medication. That's not the kind of guy you'd want long term. This is the kinda mentality that could push her to stop taking her medication, developing an ED, and/or mental illness. If she's perfect in every way possible, then her weight really shouldn't be a issue. Even trying to be "supportive" might end up having a negative effect. Just let her be, it's her body and if you don't like it then find another suitable body??
@sundaysalau8653
3 жыл бұрын
That 70s show
@00Dawggg
3 жыл бұрын
From what I've seen with people obtaining their weight/physique goals, it comes from a drive within that person. If they don't really want it, they won't stick to it..
@andreshead25
3 жыл бұрын
That’s Donna from that 70s show. Just watched that a couple minutes ago
@noahmatthew6658
3 жыл бұрын
No shit
@IronMike212
3 жыл бұрын
Some women make up and pretend they have injuries as an excuse so they don’t have to workout...and so everybody in their inner circle don’t think they’re lazy. It’s a nice plan
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