I am the same way. I have to be in control of me and my decisions. You are such a amazing person. There is never a end. We are immortal spiritual beings, you have touched so many and have taught us a lot about what a journey with cancer is about. The struggles. The dissappointments...... and so on. Sending pure love to you.
@grandma581
6 жыл бұрын
Not long before my nephew recently passed He said to me,,,,is it ok to cry aunt Ruth ? I said of course its ok to cry if you feel like you need to. Then he told me he trys not to show it when hes sad because he does not want others to feel sad also. i told him that its a very natural thing to cry. At some or another we all cry from time to time. Its our way of releasing painful feelings .And after A good cry it often helps us feel better. He said but everyone is so happy all the time around me. I said Russell , its their way of dealing with whats going on with you . I told Russell if you want to talk any time just pick up the phone and just as we laugh together we can cry together . So please let your loved one who is going through this talk about his or hers emotional feelings through this. Keep open communication . Ask questions. Allow them to show how there feeling. and say what needs to be said. But most of all show your love and listen to what they need and want . God bless
@cindyfrye2660
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge...how is it possible for me to be so incredibly proud of someone that I don't even know personally? That's how I've felt ever since I first started watchibg and now that I've come this far with you, especially with this particular video, I am SO proud to "know" you! I've always had the mindset that we should support and respect the decisions of people we love, when THEY face an illness. Your willingness to share your decision about palliative care, is amazing. Palliative care is a fairly young treatment option and people often confuse it with hospice, so they don't want to think about it. People such as yourself, talking openly about it and helping to educate others on the incredible benefits, is going to help so many others, on both sides of the coin. I'm starting training in palliative care at the end of this summer and I'm really excited about playing a role in letting people know that this is an option. You are amazing. Your honestly and "open book" approach to sharing your journey, are just inspiring. I look forward to continuing the proverbial walk with you. Thank you so much for your willingness to share!
@eyeswideopen2530
6 жыл бұрын
Cindy Frye I feel the same! She’s amazing!
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for such kind words Cindy :) Love and Hugs to you!!
@joanmilano5302
6 жыл бұрын
I'm going to have my daughter watch this, maybe she will "get it". Thank you for this and YOU do YOU!
@TheMayorsDaughter
6 жыл бұрын
Palliative Care is a really good step to take. It gives you a lot more options in many different ways. My Dad was in PC for 4 plus years. I agree with you on what the patience decisions are matter most. I agreed to fight with my Dad as long as he wanted to and I did.. my heart fell in pieces when my Dad made the choice to put his DNR in place. But I stood by his side and fought for his care through the end of his journey. YOU fight as long as YOU choose. You have my thoughts and prayers for all needs to be taken care of! Best wishes! I couldn't agree with what you state in this video more if I were speaking it myself. Well SAID! Kudos!
@TheSneezingSniffler
6 жыл бұрын
i totally respect your choice and on your terms, having lost my father at the age of 54 with cancer. He was so sick from the treatment and with the cost of the treatment he stopped having it. For 3 reasons:- 1 he was very sick from the treatment, 2 it only prolonged his life a little more, and he chose quality of life over quantity 3, his would have been treatment would help a child. i can only imagine what it would feel like if you knew that you was going to die. The mental torture! RESPECT FOR YOU ! x
@iprefersteve
6 жыл бұрын
Love you Sarge and I support you 1000 percent. This is your life and it should always be lived on your terms. ♥️
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you my friend :) Love and Hugs.
@iprefersteve
6 жыл бұрын
24 Paws & Coffee Creamer Love and hugs to you too, babe 💕
@kathleenwaters1139
9 ай бұрын
This video has helped me so much! It was just what I needed to hear to support my sons colon cancer journey. Sarge continues to help people! Much love to you Mrs Sarge
@lauraodle5816
6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and wise advise from the heart and soul of a beautiful woman, and one I am so honored to call friend. Sarge, stay true to yourself, and make decisions that will be in the best interest for you. You have Mrs. Sarge and support of family and friends. May Dan's cancer treatments go well Monday. Much love to you and your family. 💗💗💗
@patsywoolery2556
6 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I refused any treatment for breast cancer and now 3 years later Im healing my way. you have the right to choose.
@tranquility9325
6 жыл бұрын
I love you guys, and Tom too. Ty for teaching me the best way to support someone in this situation. I lost my very best friend to cancer. A part of me died when she left. I have yet to meet another female friend as special as her. The ppl who face the tallest mountains have the biggest hearts 💕
@jordantaglioli2714
6 жыл бұрын
I am so blessed my family backs my decisions 100 percent. Especially having a DNR at 31. Fighting cancer has been the hardest thing I have ever done and my family has ever done. Im so thankful my sister and mom are both a RN. I dont want to leave my family especially my little nephews. But, they have seen me suffer for too long. Im so glad Mrs. Sarge has your back 100 percent.
@shellcshells2902
6 жыл бұрын
Prayers going up for Dan (PeeWeeToms).... he's a dear man♡♡♡♡
@LuisaD93
6 жыл бұрын
Shell Cshells and Emily Haywood . God bless you all 🌹❤️
@manilowmeltsme
6 жыл бұрын
I follow them as well. Praying for Sarge, PeeWeeToms & Emily.
@applejellypucci
6 жыл бұрын
Cancer takes away the most awesome people, so sad.
@jay4198
6 жыл бұрын
Prayers for GBM army, So Fia, along with meany others.
@_Gnome.
6 жыл бұрын
Shell Cshells I didn't watch the whole video, did she mention PeeWeeToms? I see she hearted your comment so she knows about him
@CH-ho9vq
6 жыл бұрын
So strong you are..very well thought out ,its your life sarge,you make the decisions you feel is right..i dont think i could ever myself go threw any cancer treatment i watched so many people fight cancer with cancer treatments and suffer tremdosly,and pass away suffering so awful..i couldnt do it and i have decided i will not have chemo ever..god will be my support,when my time comes..much love to you...i support and agree with you 100 percent ....god bless you....sending you so much love....
@inlovewithhealth
5 жыл бұрын
Checking in. I hope Mrs. Sarge looks here from time to time. I am so glad I "met" Sarge through this media. My husband had cancer and he too has passed. It was wonderful to meet Sarge and the family here. Hugs hugs hugs. Thank you for reaching out and becoming a friend. RIP, Dear One and sending loving thoughts to Mrs. Sarge and the kiddos.
@ericalynn4053
6 жыл бұрын
I recently came across your videos and subscribed! You are an amazing person. I support your decision because I want to see you comfortable, and not sick all the time! I used to be a CNA and I cared for a lot of sick people. I could never know how they felt or were going through, but it hurt me to watch them die...my clients became family to me! I look up to you because of your positive attitude. I am the same way you are, I want to do things on my terms, so I understand that part. God Bless you, with all my love!
@ritacooke3175
6 жыл бұрын
You fight so gracefully and the peace within shines!
@emmacahill4624
6 жыл бұрын
Hi gorgeous lady , as soon as I come home from my long hard nursing shift in palliative care. I quickly log onto your channel. Your on amazing lady. With palliative it's your decision when it's right for you. We usually allow people to be with their family. A lot of our work in Australia is palliative care in the home. There people get to do things they normally do and chemotherapy is all done in their home.doctors don't know when only god knows that. Keep up your pain Medication as no use been in pain :: love you girl:: do what your doing and follow your heart. Yes you have cancer but your still the same person . 🌹🌷🇦🇺❤️
@paoaotobs
6 жыл бұрын
My dad has stage 4 stomach cancer and is going thru chemo... thank you for sharing ... I needed to hear this.
@lavenderlady7441
6 жыл бұрын
do it your way your terms....im proud of you!!!!!!! ❤💚💙💛❤💙💛❤💜💛💚❤💜
@heidirobertsonquinn9481
6 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say THANK YOU for allowing us into your life and informing us what it is like with this disease. My father was recently diagnosed with colon cancer and it is in his lungs as well, he has not had a lung biopsy as of yet so we don't know if it is the same cancer or a different cancer. Today he is going in for his port and on June 4th begins his 1st treatment. He doesn't want to watch or listen to anything about his cancer, but I needed to know some of the things to expect. Your videos have helped me tremendously, and I hope that with the knowledge you have left for us that I will be able to help my father better. I wish I could hug you, I seriously do! God bless you, and thank you, thank you,thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your struggle with this disease. I will continue to watch and will be praying for you!
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Heidi. I am sorry to hear about your Dad, but it sounds as though he may end up with the same treatments I had. Please email me if you have any questions about the side effects etc..... 24pawsncoffeecreamer@gmail.com
@saracino217
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing ,Sarge! You're looking really great ! Praying for you😘
@dorawilson3986
6 жыл бұрын
I really agree with you about letting ppl make their own life decisions. Some 8 years ago I lost my dad who signed himself into hospice! As tough as it was for me, I respected his decision! I’m praying for you and mrs sarge! And thank you for allowing us into this personal part of your life!
@ellyellepellies7730
6 жыл бұрын
You do not sound hard or cold! Thank you for sharing. So well said. You are such a strong person. I love you.❤
@missdaisy5736
6 жыл бұрын
You are such an intelligent and independent person Sarge. And, you are smart to look into what there is available to help you feel the best you can. I think that is such a wise decision. It is fabulous you have such a strong support system. That is huge for us all. You do what ever you think is best. And that will always be the best decision❣️ You are exactly right about family loving and wanting loved ones to stay alive. And, you certainly have been doing a great job of doing just that. You have great instincts I’ve noticed about what is best for you! I admire that so very much. I am my own person too and relate to you on that level. I do follow Daniel from England, and respect him immensely too. I know he starts chem tomorrow. He says at this point in time he has nothing to lose. A huge decision for Daniel. However, I support him in whatever he decides to do. His life and his choice, right Sarge? I am not going into it here, but 4 people in my family have gone through cancer of different kinds. It is anything but easy! I listen to what you tell us carefully. You know what you are talking about. That is for sure👍🏻 I keep you on my mind and in positive energies I send you. All thoughts of goodness and well being . With respect, admiration and honest caring, have a restful sleep and know you are right🥇⭐️🙋🏻♀️
@jeanettescott2018
2 жыл бұрын
Sarge was a clever very diplomatic Lady. Listening to her today has helped me lot. Xx💜
@kesky88
6 жыл бұрын
Great advice Sarge! I am post (hopefully successful) cancer treatments. I made some decisions that may affect me in the future. Most of my friends and family supported my choices but some did not. It was hard to explain to them that, as you said, I want to fight but I want to fight MY way. Your explanation in this video is much better than I was able to come up with at the time. I hope others going through this will see this video and be able to find your words and they will help them be able to have the conversation with their loved ones.
@shellcshells2902
6 жыл бұрын
Good to see you! This also applies to me with having a life long chronic severe illness. I get so much 'advice'.... well intended but does cause me to isolate. I admire you dear friend. Much love xxxx
@ella-bt8hp
6 жыл бұрын
Your an inspiration to so many people. Thank you for being so open and honest with us all it must be tough putting it all out there. But I hope you get something from sharing your story and thoughts about what you're going trough your so brave. One day when our whole generation is gone completely these videos will still exist and will be there to help and inspire and that is amazing.
@renataloren2384
5 жыл бұрын
Sarge you help more than one person, you help so many. You are truly amazing and I support you 💯 percent, live the best life you can and be happy always. I wish that for you and sending you the biggest hugs possible. We all love you 😍 and I am honoured to have met you. God Bless you always ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
@thalia6731
6 жыл бұрын
An incredibly brave person. I'm so sorry she had to suffer like this.
@TattedTeeOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are sending all of our love to you and Mrs. Sarge. Please know that you have helped change my life in a huge way that you don't even know. I'd love to talk to you to first thank you for allowing us to be apart of your journey as well as tell you what you did for me as a colon cancer survivor. I hope we can talk really soon. I really feel led to share with you how much you've helped me. My prayers are with you always!🙏💙
@craniumlost7694
6 жыл бұрын
I totally get you. You couldn't have said it any better. I was also drawn to Pee wee Toms channel. Thanks for making these videos!
@nyctrailrunner8760
6 жыл бұрын
This is an outstanding video. I hope people are listening carefully. I have taken care of so many cancer patients who are undergoing treatments because their family wants them to. When the family leaves the hospital room they just cry and tell me how they want it to be over with. That they don’t want to do this anymore. You explain this very very well. The people who do not have the cancer do not get to choose. The person with the cancer is the only person who should say what is done and for how long it’s done for. I commend you on walking way from treatments and appointments that were not aligned with where you were emotionally or physically at the time. It is a huge leap of Faith to do that. To trust yourself enough to know what is right for you and to advocate for that and be the decision-maker.
@rosemarys2465
6 жыл бұрын
Good video, well said. You do you! Sending hugs and comfort and support.
@HWolfe
6 жыл бұрын
The 3 words that change EVERYTHING, unless one has heard them, they cannot know. Just listened to this for the first tine. Family support influences dealing with the hell of cancer, I am glad that you have that!. Bless you.
@ameliaball9450
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge I want to start out by saying I am sorry you are going through this and how brave and courageous you are for fighting and also sharing your experience publicly.
@fluffyhatesfibro8407
6 жыл бұрын
I love you friend.
@caroles1941
6 жыл бұрын
fluffyhatesfibro I was just wondering if you were ok too since you haven't posted lately...
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you friend. Love you too.
@poodledaddles1091
6 жыл бұрын
Another great video, in my experience with working with hospice patients, the worst aspect becomes dealing with the family and friends anxiety, their "pain" becomes greater than the patient's, it is emotionally draining situation. Good advice from U!
@ophiuchusoversoul1785
6 жыл бұрын
Geez I wish we lived closer so I could give you a hug. I totally understand where you're coming from about the palliative care and needing people to respect our decisions. Im still early in this journey, but its the second time around so I know what basicly to expect. 3 weeks in and Im struggling at times with pain control, sleepy all the time even if not asleep due to med side effects, severe fatigue, anorexia etc. My Mother is thankfully fully on my side, she gets it, she hears me and she respects my decisions. My husband on the other hand just wants me around and he is willing to do anything to make that happen... as though it was him having to survive this not me. He thinks no matter what I should do what my oncologist says and Im worried at some point there is going to be a 'tangle' where Im going to have to put my foot down and say its not your choice. Thank you for putting my thoughts into words. I may at some point ask him to watch this video.
@eyeswideopen2530
6 жыл бұрын
Ophiuchus Oversoul Bless You🙏🏼
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear this. Perhaps it would help for your oncologist to privately explain to your husband, that at some point he needs to understand that this is not his illness, it is yours. Love and Hugs.
@msfaerywing
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words of wisdom. It is so hard to let a loved one go, but I'm with you, just give your support.
@melslate4210
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge, I just love ya! I think this is a very powerful video. I wish everyone facing the journey you are were able to be like this. Able to make the decisions best for them, instead of trying to make everyone else happy! You have my 100% support in whatever decisions you think is best for you! No one knows your body better than you! I'm always sending you so much love, support, gentle hugs and prayers! Keep up the good fight my friend! Your so strong!
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you my friend!!! I hope that you both are doing well :) Love and Hugs sent your way as always :)
@yemayajk594
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Sarge, what a great video! You dove deep into a subject few dare to touch-the absolute bottom line of the one dealing with the illness getting to make the choices...and, more importantly, how others around them need to work thru their own fears so they can be 100% supportive. Good for you! I’ve watched a few loved ones deal with cancer and with little exception, all chose the chemo (with or w/o radiation) route. What I observed was the end of living after the first few rounds. Then it was just existing, and a miserable existence it was too. I saw loved ones beg them not to stop, more in their fear than in their love for that person whose body was being ravaged by chemical and radiation. Horrible, horrible stuff. What I just adore about you is that you choose day to day to LIVE! Yes, some days you need extra rest or to modify in some way. But you are living each moment as fully as you possibly can! HUGE! This is what life’s about. Not about some mark of years on a calendar. And really, it’s not even about a diagnosis, although admittedly it’s a wake up call for any of us. It’s about embracing all the little moments as they come along. Sarge, I’m with you 100% in every way I can be. I love that you keep exploring yourself, updating as you change. Example: palliative care was a no-go much earlier. But you didn’t keep that firm stance w/o review. Nope. You recognize now you’d like to know more, maybe are willing to know more. I think it’s awesome you’re willing to learn more. Maybe there’s something there for you. Maybe not. But I love your opening to new possibilities. So inspiring. Truly. Be well my friend and keep on enjoying, LIVING your beautiful life! From the boat to the PacMobile. Grab on and enjoy! Love, hugs, and peace to you, -Yemaya
@debbiemoeller2169
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge...wonderful advice. I agree with you 100%. Your a very smart and caring person. Take care my friend. Much love to you and your family Sarge.💕
@twolf401
6 жыл бұрын
I think pallative care is a great thing. Wether you live or die it can teach you a lot about life. In my own opinion I think everyone one should have to take life classes and this should be one of them. Sarge, I think kunalini yoga might be beneficial to you also. Look it up on youtube and whatch a video, it teaches you simple exercises to open up your lungs. Always blessings to you woman!
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice my friend! 😊😊
@trophypikehunter
6 жыл бұрын
Greetings, I volunteered in Palliative Care/ Cancer Care for three years and it has changed my life. I think its great that your making the appointment. Journey well my friend.
@dianelarose5933
6 жыл бұрын
Praying for you and sending you goods vibes XXX I, myself signed a DNR on my chart. every one around me support that decision easely cause they saw and see every day what i have to go through.
@Mary-rg4tl
6 жыл бұрын
Your life, your world, your body, your sufferings, your decisions. Great advice you gave to others that may feel pressured to do treatments that they really do not want, but do to satisfy loved ones. God bless you and guide you in all that you do. And if you want to ride a pink pony through town, that's up to you also 😁 And we all love Dan. Dan the man. What a sweet heart! Thank you for sharing what you are going through and for sharing your thoughts. Prayers to you and yours.
@susansanders3231
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Sarge! Another video that’s important, honest and articulate. I appreciate you sharing your journey more than you can know. I also follow Dan, and his family seems very supportive. And I follow Emily Hayward too. Like you, she has such positivity while having come to terms with her disease. Keep fighting the good fight Sarge - your way, Mrs. Sarge by your side. And know your minions love you. 😊❤️
@joanpotanko6351
6 жыл бұрын
It is good to see you Sarge. I agree with you. It is up to you what you want to do. Take care and I am thinking and praying for you. Xoxo
@patriciakarnes9723
6 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I found you and I'm sending you hugs, my brother passed away with Cancer and I wanted to go see him but he asked me not to and I just wrote him a letter as hard as it was but so glad that I did what he thought was best. You have helped me out so much tonight.
@manilowmeltsme
6 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more. Support is everything and I'm so glad you have it. All of us are on your side as well. I want to thank you for sharing your decision with us. We are all behind you, and are here for you always. Kat
@rosethomas5268
6 жыл бұрын
Totally agree, Sarge. You have to walk in someone's shoes before you know what it's really like. You are telling it from someone who knows and now anyone who hears this can benefit from the honesty.
@eyeswideopen2530
6 жыл бұрын
What an absolute wonderful very well spoken video, God Bless your realistic, genuine, truthful self🙏🏼 I’ve met a few younger people who are “wise beyond their years”(mainly women for some reason) and you are definitely one of them that I’ve had the pleasure of meeting you through your videos....If you have never heard that saying....it means, a person that is young, but they’ve got the wisdom of someone with an old soul, they see into things that others normally wouldn’t. God Bless You and Ms. Sarge! ❌⭕️❌⭕️
@B-ch6uk
6 жыл бұрын
You sure are a strong woman. God bless.
@amandamillard2752
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge I think the world of you and this is such an important vlog, I have cared for people with different illnesses,but for the person that has cancer Or any chronic illness, it’s their wishes that are important. You are so right, that one person to get the confidence to say to their family, no enough.... Wow, I think Sarge that you may touch more people than you think, because families could well be watching this and it means that they may get the courage to talk to their ill loved ones, communication is so important and early conversations within families, it doesn’t have to be kept silent until the illness has progressed to far. As for Dan, yes I have been following him for a long time, what a character and the cancer has hit him so hard in the past few weeks,for the Drs and Professor’s not to understand his cancer must be terrifying and all he wants is to be here for as long as he can (obviously,silly me) but for totally caring reasons,it’s so the Drs can learn the most about his cancer.Dan has said, I’m sure that it was only 20 people that has had or got the strain of cancer that he has. He is a beautiful guy with a great, close family, his Mum is a truly lovely lady, his Dad is funny, his wee bro tries to have a serious face,lol hates the camera..though when Dan is filming! His big bro is a rock Star, in a band called Joy Formidable (I’m too old,to know😉47).Seriously, Dan is a brilliant camera-man.His name on KZitem is peeweetoms. Another one is a lovely young lady, Emily and she just married her wife a month ago,she has a huge amount of viewers, she was on a documentary last year. Emily first got cancer, a melanoma at 17 and she is now 24/25...so very young. Her name on KZitem is emilypts(if I’m wrong I will pop back and correct both KZitem addresses). Sorry Sarge, I’ve drifted off...I hope that you don’t mind🙈 I will speak to you soon, xXx 💜🙏🏻🐝✌🏼🐞(WeeBee)💜🙏🏻🐝✌🏼🐞xXx
@susanshughart8343
6 жыл бұрын
Amanda Millard I watch Dan and Emily Hayward also. Love them both.
@denisereynolds2399
6 жыл бұрын
Amanda Millard loved this hun 🇬🇧👍🦋
@denisereynolds2399
6 жыл бұрын
Susan Shughart I also watch Dan and Emily. What amazing people, and of course the wonderful Sarge xx
@amandamillard2752
6 жыл бұрын
denise reynolds thanks honey, unfortunately I type as if I'm talking, so no small messages,lol. Thanks for liking my message xXx🤗
@wisewillow5731
6 жыл бұрын
This is SUCH an important vlog, possibly your most important this far Sarge 💕 Those that support people they love with cancer, need to have an understanding of what it’s like on the other side. Your point regarding supporting the sick person’s decision, to take treatment or not, regardless of what it is, is vital. You explained this so well. I think most people just want to help you, the patient, in what ever way they want supporting. I am really glad you are seeing palliative care, just inform yourself, make that contact, and keep it up your sleeve for whenever. P.s your brother does know how much you appreciate his support, he just watched a really heartfelt message from you 😘❤️
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words Leah, I appreciate all of the love and support so much!! Love and Hugs.
@holliefarokhi6218
6 жыл бұрын
Palliative care is such a personal choice that only the patient can make not doctors not other family members. Been there with love ones who kept pushing the choice of receiving palliative care off because they weren’t ready for it. I saw how much damage some family members can make by trying that make the choice for the patient. I just love your video and message and it’s important to remember who is living with the illness and respecting your love ones choices 🌺
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Hollie :)
@leelak9763
6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely do things on your terms! My mom is not doing well either and her wish and mine is to do what will make her happy and comfortable...that is amazing advice I support her in all her decisions because at the end of the day it her who has to live with it and go through it!!! You are awesome and your right no one truly understands not even family members who are watching or caring for the person going through it all......I needed this video today. Thank you my friend....much love xoxoxo
@nancyhill6952
6 жыл бұрын
I've been watching you for awhile. I love your attitude and calming demeanor. You seem like a very lovely person. Good luck with your journey. Best wishes! ❤️👍🙏
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Nancy :)
@massarassa
6 жыл бұрын
I know you don't respond to comments now but I know you will see this. I'm praying for you and think you are one of the most amazing people I've come across. Much love to you and the Mrs. ❤️
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sarah. I do try to respond still, it just isn't to every single one as I used to. love and hugs to you!!
@staceyr8371
6 жыл бұрын
Very well said, Sarge! I know I’ve been silent watch her for a while but I really do enjoy your videos! You do what’s right for you I’m so glad your wife is very supportive of you as well. God Bless you ❤️😘
@angelabonner3758
6 жыл бұрын
Hi just woke to your vlogs. All I have to say is spoken eloquently carefully and deliquetly. Life is for living right to the end because there's love in every part of your days. 👍💓
@toshazachodni6971
6 жыл бұрын
I've told you this before and I'll state it again: You are so strong, courageous and a true inspiration. I am so happy that you always have Mrs. Sarge in your corner always supporting you and the decisions you make about your health. This is about you and your body and only you know what is best for you! Continue fighting and staying positive. You have my number and email address if you ever want or need to talk. I'm sending you tons of positive vibes, loads of prayers and so much love. Hugs to you beautiful lady. 💞
@MsVickster12
6 жыл бұрын
All good things to you, those you love, and the ones who love you!!! Peace and Love every day! 😀
@juliehowman3912
6 жыл бұрын
I had to listen again, it was important for me to hear. My sister is navigating her way through an early, totally contained diagnosis and I've struggled to accept her choices in taking a much tougher pathway than she needs to for a religious reason, I guess in these situations some will turn to faith despite not practicing it. I already had made the caveat that I was only along for the ride but admit frustration over the issue. Thanks for the wisdom...
@aryamanirodriguez6795
6 жыл бұрын
Well put Sarge. I fully agree with your take on life. Keep fishing for the good times! One love 💪🏽💗
@kellyzimmerman2225
6 жыл бұрын
You go girl! Well said.... with everything! Your life, your decisions!
@pattiepoobare16
6 жыл бұрын
Your terms-your life-just know you are being supported with each choice-sending love to you and Mrs. Sarge❤️
@jaynieraindrop4862
6 жыл бұрын
Ive been watching you for a few weeks i find You so courageous I applaud you. sending healthy vibes from the UK
@KealaCarr
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video.
@moonshine9104
6 жыл бұрын
I am with you Sarge 100%!! I know that we all have to make the decision to do what is best for ourself. I know that you are very capable of making that decision. God bless you Sarge and I am always with you my friend. Love you, Joannie ♥️♥️♥️🐶🐾🐾🐾🐾🦊🐺🐱🐈🐕♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Joannie! Love and Hugs.
@stephaniep7566
6 жыл бұрын
I think you are very brave and very strong. You and Mrs. Sarge are in my prayers.
@NosyHausfrau
6 жыл бұрын
When my friend's mother was dying she opted for no further treatment. My friend was pushing her to get a marrow transplant but her mom was 65. The doctor told my friend "You have got to stop treating this like it's YOUR cancer." That stuck with me and I plan to be strong enough to remember that should I ever be in that position.
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
Wise words from her doctor. I am sure they weren't easy for your friend to hear.
@denisereynolds2399
6 жыл бұрын
First and foremost, three dislikes? Miserable gits. Anyway on to the positive stuff. I was watching this and just listening to you and how you put things across was really lovely hun. Your just the sweetest. You must take after your Mum. You were saying she never made a fuss and that you could count on one hand the time you ever heard her raise her voice, and how she was when family etc were in a way, making her feel pressurised into other treatments when she just didn’t want any more. I am so happy you have a wonderful wife and a loving brother and are with you a hundred percent on what ever you decide is right for you. I can totally understand where your coming from hun, when you have had enough and as the treatments were only making you feel worse, I honestly would do the same. It is totally your decision, at the end of the day, it’s you who is living with this shitty cancer. I’m subscribed o Peeweetoms, and what a gorgeous man he is. Yes he’s started chemotherapy and today having the side affects of it with throwing up. His family are all on his side, whatever he decides, their with him all the way. There is another lovely young woman called Emily Hayward who is fighting this awful cancer. She’s a fitness instructor and real little fighter and a fi
@cherylgalleran6602
6 жыл бұрын
Hey love💙💙. I completely get it. Quality of life is everything! I respect whatever decisions are best for you. I have a feeling I'd be the same way. And yes... love Peewee toms (dan). Another amazing person. My love to you and mrs Sarge. ❤️❤️
@rockyourhairstudios8088
3 ай бұрын
This is beautiful🩷you are a true warrior💫🙏🏻😇
@SuperBamamama
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I now understand why my friend had to go when he did. Love and prayers...
@vickyrogers3690
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge, I am so proud of you and your decisions. Thank you for the advice . My family pushes me constantly. It sucks
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear that Vicky. I truly hope that your family will understand how pushing truly makes us feel. Love and Hugs!
@hairnettv6821
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge, so glad to see u back again, praying for u and hope u have peace about ur new decision. ❤️
@Mikethemac2015
6 жыл бұрын
Get well soon! Do what you think is best and please just please try and live your life to the best potential and always have an emergency plan situated. Love the videos, keep it up please :) Pacman is the best! hehe :)
@SHANNONCHARRIS
6 жыл бұрын
You said all if this perfectly. I have had a few family members that have had cancer and yes I want them to stay but I also feel better about them leaving because they did it on their terms.
@doncash913
6 жыл бұрын
Love and peace to you, thanks so much for sharing your life n struggles with us, may God bless you always
@sandrasassyprice3229
6 жыл бұрын
I have nothing like the support you do I'm alone in this, it's so hard having nobody
@linnmacdonald2246
6 жыл бұрын
Sending you love and prayer. Thank you for this post.
@debbierohde6264
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Sarge. Ty for your video always enjoy listening to you and your thoughts. Take care ☺🐨
@deborahdavidson8105
6 жыл бұрын
Love you Sarge. You are a wonderful human being.
@flowergirlicart3949
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video Sarg, my brother was diagnosed stage 4 liver cancer yesterday, i am scared. My brother is staying positive and actually making jokes. I will respect his journey as he addresses it. (At least ill try) im still trying to comprehend this news..
@24pawscoffeecreamer68
6 жыл бұрын
I will be praying for your family.....I have used humor a lot through my journey as a coping mechanism, so I can understand your brother doing that. Love and Hugs!
@rainbowens4712
6 жыл бұрын
If you have a family member suffering from a terminal cancer and you want them to do all the different treatments basically be a test study for whatever time they have left ask your suffering family member what quality of life would you like to have until you reach you're final resting place it's they're choice if you're terminal all chemo will do is keep you living and suffering longer
@cookingkelly1192
6 жыл бұрын
Im sorry rip
@fionabattrum6259
6 жыл бұрын
Immortal words thank-you gorgeous soul for your gift xxxxxxx
@willettej7988
6 жыл бұрын
Miracles DO happen. There are many cases of spontaneous remission, and you are one! Tried immunotherapy? Sorry, I’m late to your vlog. My husband HAD stage 4 metastatic melanoma. Got into a clinical trial and beat his 7 month prognosis by 11 years. Hope is real!
@tracyhudson1674
5 жыл бұрын
God bless you I feel so sad for you and your wife so sad please do what you have to do much love t to you and your wife ❤do u now feel better without treatment I hope it works for you such a sweet loving couple
@SuperMjennings
5 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋🏼. I found your channel tonight. My husband is 3.5yrs post diagnosis of Stage 4 Colorectal Cancer w Mets to his liver. You’re doing great 👍🏼! Have you heard of RSO (Rick Simpson Oil?
@__33__33
4 жыл бұрын
She's dead
@michellepierce8766
6 жыл бұрын
Sarge you're AMAZING! TY for this video, you made me TOTALLY think different when it comes to my spouses decision in the journey. TY sooo much for this video. I also watch PeeWeeToms videos. Another AMAZING human being! #KeepFightingTheFight (Your Way) 😉 💛
@MichelleWilliams-qh4ku
6 жыл бұрын
Prayers
@claraclogston4039
6 жыл бұрын
Hi there I'm a new subscriber ... Much love you Sarge And you A your family🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸💕💕💕
@sharonplant4578
6 жыл бұрын
you are such a beautifil woman is all we can do is hope and pray for you. i watch peewee toms and emily hayward both have stage 4 cancer there on same jpourney as you/ there from england where i live give them a whirl might help u a bit just watching there videos. sending big hugs from england stay strong. xx
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