Also, I think it's because Shakira's ex-fiancé tried to sue her for $300m too, so she doesn't want to deal with that again. NOTE: I already know her boyfriend is, he's Pique a famous football player who plays from Barcelona FC and the Spanish national team, I'm from London so I'm in tune with football culture and keep up with the World Cup/UEFA Euro. However Shakira STILLS have a higher net worth and Shakira can continue releasing money and touring whereas Piqué is already 32, in the next 5-10 years he isn't going to playing/earning the same amount of money he earns now. Also splitting up assets as a famous person just seems tedious, even with a prenup involved.
@lunadexelaju3494
4 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@eon001
4 жыл бұрын
xoxlilchicxox Haha I think that's what Shakira feels deep down, but she's making up some bullshit about keeping things exciting so she doesn't offend her boyfriend lol..
@TRINI818
4 жыл бұрын
@Javi Ruiz So men & women who are super wealthy shouldn't get married👍.
@chubbybunny123
4 жыл бұрын
yeah never even come close to an argentinian man! im warning yall
@BollywoodMediaOnline
4 жыл бұрын
omg!!
@a.c5009
4 жыл бұрын
Let’s be real...Shakira tryna protect that $$$...I ain’t mad at it. Yes, he’s wealthy too but she’s still allowed to protect herself financially in case things go south... Not everyone wants a prenup. And not everyone thinks you need to be married to complete your relationship. If it works as is...then let it work.
@naheeda13
4 жыл бұрын
A. C lool yeah she’s A LOT richer than him but his net worth is like in the 10s of millions
@modona100
4 жыл бұрын
She’s richer than him but pique is one of the biggest athletes in the world who plays for the biggest football team in the world. He has his own money.
@fafajuju9657
4 жыл бұрын
@@naheeda13 Google about it
@danielaachury7095
4 жыл бұрын
No that ain’t it. Most Colombians don’t get married. Google it. It’s true. Living and having kids with someone automatically makes them your spouse . Colombian style. 😊
@glamedsoul1573
4 жыл бұрын
Daniela Achury not really. Most people are married.
@SimplyAMJ
4 жыл бұрын
I see why tamera and Adrienne is seating next to each other. They share some sort of similar views
@Kyethecreator
4 жыл бұрын
Simply AMJ it’s starting to make sense!
@pollyjuma7870
4 жыл бұрын
just had the same realization
@ilovelife3328
4 жыл бұрын
They are both the married ones on the panel.
@fuentesv320
4 жыл бұрын
This makes it into a debate not a conversation when it’s like this
@signalfire15
4 жыл бұрын
Simply AMJ Tamera and Adrienne only agree about marriage. Tamera and Jeannie have the most similar opinions on the show. They are both open-minded, intellectual and bubbly people.
@shenoyaclarke5112
4 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is looking lovely 😘
@jjayguy23
4 жыл бұрын
That BBC works wonders..... LOL.
@nishedapettagam6470
4 жыл бұрын
@Harkeen15 What are you on about? None of that is true. Why are you spreading lies?
@nishedapettagam6470
4 жыл бұрын
@Harkeen15 Yes on her forehead and she got it removed. Clearly you don't know the difference between fillers and botox
@nishedapettagam6470
4 жыл бұрын
@Harkeen15 why do you care so much then? Is it going to affect your day if she had work done?
@nishedapettagam6470
4 жыл бұрын
@Harkeen15 clearly you don't know what fillers look like because Jeannie has always had full lips
@scorpiobabe
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a personal choice. Have we forgotten about it?
@ella.q366
4 жыл бұрын
💯.
@JessicaFallen
4 ай бұрын
Im almost 40 i have no interest in doing that
@Dayamyg
4 жыл бұрын
People should stop to pressuring women! I'm only 24 n ppl judge me for not have a kid or being in a relationship!The pressure it's a nightmare, my question is what you gonna get whether i marry or not??
@jjayguy23
4 жыл бұрын
They need to go F themselves.
@allygrint-potter6550
4 жыл бұрын
@@bnwo Nah, you're just a misogynistic little bitch that's always in the comments.
@sweetpeaj1952
4 жыл бұрын
@@allygrint-potter6550 lol NWA is always on the lurking🙄🙄
@mariahenderson2873
4 жыл бұрын
You have time. 20s is for living, learning. Continue doing you. F society
@Thesilentvoice...
4 жыл бұрын
The best thing to do is not care what they think. To me 24 is too young to have a kid, but its different for everybody. Its best to listen to God and let him choose the guy who will pick you as his wife. Pressure only maked women force themselves into relationships that arent for them just to please others. Let God take control you will be fine.
@paralegalkc
4 жыл бұрын
I adore Tam! I choose to be with my husband everyday!
@tamtamr9081
4 жыл бұрын
yet the other women make it sound like shes basic n its the cool new empowering thing now to be unmarried.. sad.
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
LONA L probably because marriage was originally meant to make women housewives and they were property, it wasn’t about love originally
@neshiableats7411
4 жыл бұрын
For black people it was love honey there were no papers only jumped a broom. That's why black love is the best.
@Danny51394
3 жыл бұрын
You can be with the person you love without getting married, it's just a personal decition.
@reillyrose2474
4 жыл бұрын
I only like Adrienne, Tamera and Jeannies opinions they’re so open minded everyone else sounds like they’re only saying what they feel sounds right
@tyy.3064
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed although Jeanie is the best 🤣😂❤️❤️
@isatounying6353
4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@fathomlessfitness8540
4 жыл бұрын
Its sad when someone doesn’t agree with certain views and then says they “aren’t black” or “they “aren’t for us.” Why can’t she just have her own opinion regardless of race? Not all white people think the same, not all black people think the same, and ect. Honestly I would be pissed if someone told me I had to like certain things or have certain beliefs because of my race. One of my pet peeves is when I hear...”your not black enough or Latino enough” because someone talks proper. Why are white people the only ones labeled to be successful and speak proper? Why can’t black people or Latinos be all those things without being labeled as “acting white!” Freaking sad! That’s like saying...”don’t go to college and speak proper son because that means your white washed and it goes against who we are!” 🧐
@godsonkose2419
4 жыл бұрын
Right!!
@allcreatedbyonegoodgod.156
4 жыл бұрын
this topic is complicated and deep. it has everything to do with God, Vows, Government, Rules, Symbolism, Spirtualism, Trust, Worthiness, etc.
@stephaniemervil5212
4 жыл бұрын
ALL Created By One GOOD God. I don’t think it’s that complicated. I don’t believe living together and consciously choosing to stay together unmarried is the same as marriage. Yes, you make the decision to stay with that person but there is no real commitment, meaning, there is no legal document granting you rights to that person and you can walk away from it without any serious legal ramifications. So legally, you’re not really committed in the eyes of God or the public (whether you believe in Him or not) no matter how many years you’ve been living together or how much you’ve invested. Marriage is a form of protection for the spouse to preserve their rights within their relationship (back in the day it was for the wife because the man made the money and she, as his wife, had rights to his income but these days it’s for both men and women). For example, the spouse has the legal right to make decisions on behalf of their partner if their partner is unconscious. The spouse can legally sign certain documents on behalf of their partner. They have the right to personal information from their spouse, etc. You forfeit those rights and more when you’re just shacking up and raising kids together. So no, it’s not complicated. If you don’t make the commitment on paper, it’s not a real commitment. You can call it whatever you want to call it, you can choose not to give it a label. That doesn’t change the truth of the matter. I do understand that Shakira may have gotten hurt in her last divorce. That is a risk to consider which is why marriage is a solemn decision to make and we (I’m including myself because I learned the hard way too) need to be wise in whom we decide to make that commitment. On a side note @All Things Adrienne you have been killing it with your responses. I agree with you on everything you’ve said these last few weeks. You and Tam! Much love to all the ladies. I’m grateful we’re able to share our opinions peacefully and respectfully.
@user-DianaR960
4 жыл бұрын
Trueee
@lluminascent
4 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniemervil5212 You do realize 1. God has nothing to do with religion? Religion may have been formed on the basis of serving a God but we know from the many religions there are that it's more about humans than God. 2. Spirituality has nothing/very little to do with religion. With that said, don't confuse marriage "a legal commitment" with committing before God. NOw i'm not trying to discredit your opinion but I just thought i'd caution/advise you against using "God" to justify marriage and what it is because "marriage" means different things to different people just like God :)
@gameguy93
4 жыл бұрын
It has nothing to do with God
@cleonalexander253
4 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniemervil5212 well said girl! Marriage has been misused and abused so long ppl don't know what the true meaning anymore.
@Anas-rx1he
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne has some of the worst guy friends in the world. Either she’s referring to her own exes or uses them as an excuse to say what she really thinks lmao
@queenofsheba5846
4 жыл бұрын
Anas that‘s what I thought a while ago lol „ I legit have guy friends that literally told me....“ that‘s how she always starts 🤣 she says that she always wants positive people around her that supports one another but lowkey you „guy friends“ ain‘t your friends or she lying to say what she really feels like ..
@reginam2199
4 жыл бұрын
She said in the past that she never dated anybody she didn't know already. So, if things don't work out with her husband, she'll be dating one of these trash ass dudes that she's always referencing.
@a.harrisxo
4 жыл бұрын
You Tried It! 💀💀
@safucci
4 жыл бұрын
Im just looking back at when she used to say Israel and her were friends for a really long time...
@luluseatowngetdown6251
4 жыл бұрын
Saying that Shakira is afraid of marriage?? 😂😂😂😂😂 get the f out. I bet A’s bored with that husband she never talks about.
@whitecloudov968
4 жыл бұрын
I think if you say this is my wife or husband it warrants a different level of respect socially than this is my boyfriend.
@beverlynoelle6941
4 жыл бұрын
whitecloudov right! No one wants to be walking around for 10 years calling someone their boyfriend! It’s tacky!
@weareuniqueforareason7503
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@GoldenGlam95
4 жыл бұрын
whitecloudov agreed
@cheyennegunn8561
4 жыл бұрын
And this is exactly what they’re talking about right here
@lgonzep3289
4 жыл бұрын
Yo can say partner, love, my man/lady. It makes no difference if that's not what you want.
@annasanoja8457
4 жыл бұрын
If Shakira is happy why should it even be a topic.
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@michaelpalos7378
4 жыл бұрын
True.
@jul.2636
4 жыл бұрын
It’s to promote conversation about the topic. It’s not just about her
@Lil08103
4 жыл бұрын
because even though your low key complaining they knew you'd click, affirming the decision to discuss it
@melissatercero3645
4 жыл бұрын
Right I agree why do you have to marry to be happy
@ec6621
4 жыл бұрын
These are all wealthy women. Each of them with net worths of at least $1M; talking about Shakira, a mother, mega-star whose networth is $350M. They are exceptions, not the rule. For the rest of us average American women, let alone women of color, we will still statistically fare better economically when part of a marriage than cohabiting. This is amplified if we become mothers, which most of us will. It's called the "motherhood penalty" and it affects our bottom line harder than it would Shakira. Their views, while diverse, seem to treat the exception and the rule as if they're equivalent.
@zdh7394
4 жыл бұрын
Excellent point
@alex124241
4 жыл бұрын
How do you fare better when married? Because of a tax break? You’ll fare really well when it comes to an end and you get a cash prize. There’s only one person getting security here. And don’t tell you would never do that. I’m just saying you can do that.
@ec6621
4 жыл бұрын
@@alex124241 taxes? Lol that's small potatoes. I'm not just looking at that, I'm looking at a bigger picture. Numerous studies across the decades have compared married versus cohabiting couples against mostly 2 main categories- health and economics. And these studies have consistently demonstrated that married couples fare better economically (higher household incomes, salaries, and wealth) and health (longer lifespans, rates of diseases, and healthier lifestyles). Similarly married *parents* fare better economically than cohabiting *parents* . And cohabiting parents fare better economically than solo parents. www.pewsocialtrends.org/2018/04/25/the-changing-profile-of-unmarried-parents/
@ec6621
4 жыл бұрын
@@alex124241 Cash prize after it ends? Only one person gains security there? Yes, when it comes to economics, on average divorced men fare better after divorces/long term compared to divorced women. But also fare worse long term in the category of health, compared to divorced women. Though I should highlight that this is not necessarily due to the divorce between husbands and wives, but rather the separation of *mothers and fathers* . www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/
@triggered577
4 жыл бұрын
Esmeralda Carbajal It’s interesting that you acknowledged racial dynamics relative to the status of being single but you completely disregarded it in the context of marriage. “Married couples fare better economically” is true depending on the racial background of the couple. White and Asian women who have white and Asian husbands for the most part fare better economically than when single. But the economics are not the same for Black women and non-white Latinas because their prospective husbands (Black and non-white Hispanics) are at the bottom of the economic ladder. I am African-American (and female) but my income is twice as high as the average income for a Black individual. Also, there are nuances to the health benefits as well. I have read studies on the same subject and have found that the biggest health differences are between married MEN and single men. But those benefits aren’t replicated for women. I’m pretty sure wealth and money has to do with health as well so the racial dynamic is still probably relevant to those health benefits you mentioned.
@bookbag6432
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God I just saw the reason for the seating chart. They brought the more conservative ladies to one side and the more liberal ladies to the other side.
@jjayguy23
4 жыл бұрын
U got it!
@allygrint-potter6550
4 жыл бұрын
Loni is the most conservative of them all, so your claim is kind of ridiculous, lol. On this issue, Tam and Ade (and also Jeannie in the past) are just simply more pro marriage and more pro tradition (Loni would've been the same too, if she only had a successful marriage). In any case, no need to be surprised; this is what those of us that have been watching the show for a long time and have a clue about these kinds of things know.
@LavendrSkies
4 жыл бұрын
You're right and Lonis opinions often are on the "fence".
@bookbag6432
4 жыл бұрын
Lonnie is in the middle because she is the main person on the show. She even said that when they hired her they wanted to have a talk so just for her but they brought the ladies on . I think she definitely has more say on where she sits then everybody else.
@stylishjoy
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne isn’t conservative. Tamera definitely is, though. I think they just put the wives on one side.
@bookbag6432
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with Adrianne‘s comment and the last statement Shakira made was she can leave at any time. If you are scared of commitment and you do not fully trust your partner then do not have two kids with him because you can’t leave anytime sweetheart you have two kids. People take marriage more serious than they take having children with someone and it’s ridiculous.
@hollywoodcole4046
4 жыл бұрын
exactly! People are fkn dumb- They are scared of marriage, but will freely bring another human life into the world... This is why some need to not reproduce!
@luvgod927
4 жыл бұрын
It's not dumb, marriage is a very serious commitment, in the bible ur partner comes first bfre your child. They can co parent but they just can't wake up and divorce just like that, atleast for sensible pple, divorce comes with a lot of stress and depression and again marriage is a very serious commitment
@AK33M
4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don't think about the kid until after it's born. That's when reality kicks in.
@jazzh100
4 жыл бұрын
@Javi Ruiz I would think it would be the opposite. If you have 200 million dollars and your ex takes 100 million, you're still fine. You ain't starving lol but if you make $10,000 a year, and your ex wants 5000...then there's going to be some problems lol
@user-nq6um4bs5y
4 жыл бұрын
Book Bag She can leave anytime and raise 2 kids by co parenting, it’s done by many families
@lnm3317
4 жыл бұрын
She just doesn’t want to be married. Lol.
@rachelg6289
3 жыл бұрын
@Hay You it could be a factor but some people just don’t want to be married for personal (not financial) reasons.
@susan-ku5py
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is stepping up and making good points, good for her
@tinajhagraham6704
4 жыл бұрын
susan no she’s not. claiming a girl is afraid of marriage because she chooses to not want to be married is not a point. not all women want to get married. that doesn’t make them afraid of marriage.
@stavrenamikha9475
4 жыл бұрын
it’s so crazy how people are trying to redefine marriage too. the whole “you do you” mentality is disgusting. commitment shows a strong level of maturity. what’s so bad about committing to someone and THEN starting a family with that person. i swear people do things simply for pleasure. someone not wanting to commit because “anything is possible depending on the behavior”... okay please that’s not someone you’re meant to be with. because if you’ve been with this person for 10 years and NOW u think that their behavior will cause you to leave the relationship... then leave rn. what happened to “working in a marriage?” what about committing to a marriage and if your SO’s behavior bothers you, what about working on it together and growing out of your problems? marriage is so sacred and so beautiful... people are trying to take it out of context and taking things out of order. have kids whenever u want... have sex whenever u want... move in together whenever u want... get married if you “feel” like it... or just not get married at all because you’re “too lazy” to commit. this society has been filled with so much B.S. there are no rules anymore. everything’s been based on “my feeling” “my choice” “my wants.” what about your needs? what about not what you WANT... but what you NEED to do to build a more properly structured family. redefining the original traditions of marriage is just the beginning of breaking families apart. breaking families apart leads to individuals making their own rules on their own the way they want. this leads into a God-less society... which is one that will see the end of the world.
@itsmiah2you
4 жыл бұрын
Stavrena Mikha best comment I’ve seen on this topic! 💗💗💗👍🏾 In the Bible it says people would call evil good and good evil.
@stavrenamikha9475
4 жыл бұрын
itsmiah2you thank u! yess that’s 100% true .... this nation which was founded on Christianity is beginning to lose its foundation and becoming a more self-centered society ... so sad :(
@oldhollywoodangels
4 жыл бұрын
oh u brought God into it and lost me
@sheilacampos5246
4 жыл бұрын
Stavrena Mikha I agree. Marriage is sacred.
@cookiesandrainbows3322
4 жыл бұрын
Here come the church Beckys
@ellandecampbell6279
4 жыл бұрын
Woman doesn't wanna get married: "Good for her. She's doing what she wants.". Guy doesn't wanna get married: "WTF?! Stop stringing her along, & commit already!"
@lstarsabb
4 жыл бұрын
woman also get the "don't worry you will find the right guy soon" and the "she's scared of commitment", but I think that if you don't want to get married shouldn't maybe that's why divorce rates are so high because people get married to people they aren't suppose to marry just because it's the next step.
@lexi219
4 жыл бұрын
Really? There are people in these comments (and in the last video) literally saying Shakira is scared, she must be broken, she must have been raised in a broken home, she's lying, etc. There are also people saying that the only reason Amanda doesn't want to get married is because no one wants to marry her. Don't act like women aren't disparaged for expressing these thoughts.
@kd-xp6eg
4 жыл бұрын
Ellande Campbell so
@ellandecampbell6279
4 жыл бұрын
lexi219: Not as much as men (especially by women)
@ellandecampbell6279
4 жыл бұрын
kd: So? The point is that it's hypocritical
@taygyron4484
4 жыл бұрын
Have y’all ever noticed Adrienne always speaks about societies labels on wives and marriages and she’s the one in every chat that reinforces those labels 🤨
@SmoothOpe_
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr 🤦🏾♀️
@JayneAngelinaSkye
4 жыл бұрын
exactly like which one is it adrienne👀
@Diana-wk9qv
4 жыл бұрын
Yes she’s the biggest hypocrite 😂 she’s always been
@daisyyyyw_
4 жыл бұрын
She’s just not judgmental she has her own opinions but she doesn’t force them on anyone else which is how it should be.
@Thesilentvoice...
4 жыл бұрын
And its always in the view of the wife and not the husband. She rarely addresses the husbands in topics like these.
@mercedesgonzalez687
4 жыл бұрын
I see Marriage as a covenant two people are making with God to love and serve each other. I believe that marriage under God is so important to have that Godly blessing & covering for your partnership. For me that is so different than being married on a piece of paper.
@judelag7271
4 жыл бұрын
Mercedes Gonzalez When people don’t understand this, they see the marriage license as a legal document. They do not realize that those in Christ would still get married if there were no government benefits because that covenant is blessed by God. Marriage is to mirror Christ and His bride (the church)-Ephesians 5:23-33.
@mercedesgonzalez687
4 жыл бұрын
Jude Lag Amen!
@keywannabishop4962
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Carnal minds cannot see this and therefore akways marry fir the wrong reasons. If you so choose to never marry then in actuality you're not supposed to have sex, or children, or live together. Periodt!😘
@camillem3915
4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully written.
@ivankacc6741
4 жыл бұрын
Lol but I'm athiest
@American_Boy
4 жыл бұрын
Jesus, I love these women.
@jeanty12345
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne I appreciate your input! Wives can be fun! Don’t get complacent. Dress up for your man! Get cute! Stay cute! Feel cute!
@zariaeda007
4 жыл бұрын
Judith Jeanty Sometimes it's not about being complacent. A lot of men stop treating women a certain way after marriage. The dates tend to stop and sometimes he doesn't do all the nice things he did before marriage. A lot of times women don't feel appreciated so they don't tend to make as much of an effort either.
@puddiesimms2818
4 жыл бұрын
@@zariaeda007 you said it best, also what about the husband staying handsome, staying fit and being on point please that's a two way street.
@sashat3912
4 жыл бұрын
@@puddiesimms2818 Ikr! One of the best groomed man I ever met was never married and he was in his 60s, but damn, he looked so good. He carried himself so well! Don't know why many men let themselves go when they get married... Many women do it too..
@user-nq6um4bs5y
4 жыл бұрын
Sasha T They get used to being taken care of and being fed
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Cheetah 6 marry a guy that puts in the same effort as you
@hiralmakhecha5542
4 жыл бұрын
She literally said that she doesn’t believe that she needs to get married to love her boyfriend
@PureSparkles22
4 жыл бұрын
Shakira is worth 350 million. She can do whatever she wants
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’m not worried about them😂
@CaribGirlBrownSugar
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@TRINI818
4 жыл бұрын
So if her network was worth $35,000 then she can't do what she wants?
@TRINI818
4 жыл бұрын
@Keith MiddletonThen I suppose her boyfriend main goal is to gain financial stability by hoping one magical day she'll get down on one knee and propose.
@latifa4586
4 жыл бұрын
Thats right! She can do and will do whatever she wants! I would do the same!!!
@shashavengesayi6055
4 жыл бұрын
I think unmarried relationships are easier to walk away from. Like Kourtney & Scott who were 2gether for a while and have 3 kids but never got married.
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
Ya but Scott had a lot of personal issues related to alcohol so that’s a little different
@lexi219
4 жыл бұрын
They are, but that can also be a really good thing. Divorces can get insanely MESSY, and the person that you married can easily disappear when they are up in their feelings mid-divorce.
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
Alaam N read her comment, she gave an example of kourtney and Scott and I replied by saying he had other issues, some related to alcohol, meaning that not being married wasn’t the issue
@boparks3204
4 жыл бұрын
@@mayab.1633 she said it was easier to walk away from the relationship because they were not married.
@witchf4ce310
4 жыл бұрын
lexi219 yes definitely. Marriage does make it harder for some people and these ladies can front all they want but they know it too.
@rorozizi9326
4 жыл бұрын
PLEASE LADIES AND GENTS LISTEN!!! Marriage is NOT just a piece of paper... by that logic, a title deed to your car or house, and your ID or drivers' license is just a piece of plastic. All those papers have LEGAL SIGNIFICANCE. It could mean an inheritance, spousal support( this goes for men and women), it means you as a spouse make the decisions if something happens to your other spouse..so please GET REALLY REAL LADIES!!! STOP THIS PIECE OF PAPER CRAP
@-.a9942
4 жыл бұрын
What if your husband disconnects you because he gets money if you die. You never know what will happen.I could leave my sister to be encharged of that 🤣
@bbloodyangel1
4 жыл бұрын
loni really cut of tamera mid sentence huh. "i choose to be with my husband.." loni: "I THINK PEOPLE WEAPONIZE MARRIAGE"
@tayanaliss9713
4 жыл бұрын
Watch the part one and see how Tamera cut off Jeannie.. She's forever cutting off others as well. She couldn't let Adrienne speak in that same clip too. So it's not deep if Loni did the same to her
@chexyface13
4 жыл бұрын
I also hope we stop berating women who WANT marriage saying "Why does a piece of paper matter so much to you" ? I've noticed this more and more. I think we should let grown people do whatever the hell they want to do
@OneLoveRSR
4 жыл бұрын
Eh... nice try, but that's a false argument. The whole "piece of paper" comment is typically in response to women who either are married or want to get married having something critical to say of women who don't. Women who don't want to get married don't just say "Why does a piece of paper matter to you?" unprovoked.
@OneLoveRSR
4 жыл бұрын
Agatha z Ok, dear. Enjoy.
@BATOOLESK
4 жыл бұрын
Yes loni said (if u wanna be married thats fine) as if its the exception
@superash4u578
4 жыл бұрын
I've been getting so much hate for talking about marriage. I'm 19 and in ten years I'll be almost 30 and I want a baby by then so I gotta plan family around my career I cant afford to waste time it goes by so fast.
@jclyntoledo
4 жыл бұрын
@@superash4u578 Thank you! I feel like people are forgetting situations where people make women and young couples feel bad about wanting to get married. I would say if you aren't close to 30, people might not understand or assume it's a rash decision or gun shot marriage.
@donneishawhite9656
4 жыл бұрын
I love adrienne
@kellyfvr1349
4 жыл бұрын
Who doesn’t???
@ShajiraYaniceli
4 жыл бұрын
I'm loving Amanda on the show because its more logic than emotion now, better yet a balance. Appreciate it
@whereyoubeensyn8481
4 жыл бұрын
I was just about to say, I don't like the dynamic of the show now with her on it. I liked the 4 of them. Nothing against her I just seems really flat right now.
@msxeunybunxy
4 жыл бұрын
She’s too loud
@chocolatedreamdoll8444
4 жыл бұрын
They are intimidated by her intelligence and now everybodys trying to give extra smart answers. I think Jeanie and Tam are the only ones staying true to themselves.
@jaydub5616
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t. Not because she isn’t a fabulous host, but the show was great with just the 4 of them. Why fix what ain’t broke ugh
@BATOOLESK
4 жыл бұрын
She is emotional with a stank face at all time
@poohjessi19
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a spiritual union between man and woman; biblically speaking marriage cane from God he established marriage in the beginning. All that other stuff is gibberish
@Jeiyojammeh
4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏 well spoken.
@camillem3915
4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@Jeiyojammeh
4 жыл бұрын
@butterfliesblue1 you're talking about the time of slavery, when ignorant was all other places and there was no believes in religion.
@JusPhucket
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage vs. Dating is like buying a home vs. renting.
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Ash Tonee yea, but marriage was originally meant for women to be housewives and for them to be literal property to men. A lot of women don’t want to just be with one man for the rest of their life, i’d rather be in a relationship where I may wake up every single day and choose to be with that person rather than be with them because I made a contract to do so 30 years ago haha. Plus marriage was literally originally made to make women domesticated homemakers because they couldn’t take care of themselves financially, it originally had nothing to do with love/ romantic love
@JusPhucket
4 жыл бұрын
@@indiaxlovee yea, I get it. Marriage means different things to different people. I'm like if we're together and we're building a family, generational wealth, and there's love involved let's get married because now we're a team and legally bound together so that if anything happens my family is taken care of.
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Ash Tonee true true, especially when the love is genuine. It sad how some people get married because they feel that’s supposed to be whats next in a relationship
@YouYou-sm8tf
3 жыл бұрын
@@JusPhucket You don’t marriage for that
@KenasDanielle
4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad Jeannie checked this fear argument... Too many times, I hear women saying to others women «well, then you are scared, or you are coward». This in itself is so wrong. Because then I could return it on the wives and say that you're not that secure or confident on yourself nor your partner because you needed the people's acknowledgement of your commitment to build what your life and marriage is today. That is why I'm like Amanda and Shakira, I feel like I only need to prove myself to God, my partner and I. I might want it but if it's not necessary, I'll be fine too
@laprietayelguero
4 жыл бұрын
So then marriage by church?
@larenaki5213
4 жыл бұрын
Yassss! I'm with you on this one minus the god part. Same with Amanda, I don't wanna get married unless it's absolutely necessary. And it's not because I'm scared of the stigma of being a wife and all, I just don't see the point. I feel secure with my relationship and we don't need to sign papers for us to choose to commit to each other.
@KenasDanielle
4 жыл бұрын
@@laprietayelguero I thought about it but then remember that even before, way back in history, marriage used to be made within the church without the paperwork. I won't say I know the bible entirely but I'm pretty sure when wedding were mentioned, the paperwork was more of a mankind thing than god's will. So yes, even by church as it the way I personnally believe in 🤗
@joneldaniel4084
4 жыл бұрын
With all due respect, God opposes having sex outside of the perimeters of marriage.
@crystalunique9732
4 жыл бұрын
Sex outside of marriage is fornication if you wanna bring God in this. God honors marriage, no where in the bible does it say it's ok not to marry. Plz, leave God out of it if you have no intentions on marrying the person you're with. I really hate hearing ppl say it's ok and in the same breath expect the Lord to bless it.
@jemimajanvier4706
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne said it best
@martianmoongdds
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jeannie. ”I wouldn’t cast it as a fear because there’s a certain independence and mature understanding when you can be life partners without having to go and actually do the very tradition role of marriage. You can be very loyal life partners and have the same vow.”
@dianam.7518
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like people misconstrue MARRIAGE. Marriage comes from the Bible it comes from God unifying one man and one women to get married and have kids and become ONE. Now every marriage is COMPLETELY different.
@Natirah30
4 жыл бұрын
D. Martinez no it doesn’t. “Marriage” occurred way before the book was actually written, to be technical.
@dianam.7518
4 жыл бұрын
dead1line no it didn’t . It came from God
@Natirah30
4 жыл бұрын
Sigh. It’s a book written by humans - inspired by the concept of a higher power, God.
@Natirah30
4 жыл бұрын
But I DO respect your point of view!
@sherondiacurry6881
4 жыл бұрын
D. Martinez I agree. People don't want to be married but are having sex with boyfriends, that is suppose to be sacred for husband and wife. People make the Bible out of just some regular book, but everything else they read and what they come across on google is held to a higher stature than the word of God. The Bible seems to come in handy only in peoples crisis and when they want something from Him like a promotion or a new house or car. Times and people change but God stays the same.
@kezia-priscillavalentine1274
4 жыл бұрын
This generation is loves playing house and takes pride in that, we shy away from commitments , this is not what God intended
@kiamyal8698
4 жыл бұрын
butterfliesblue1 they are entitled to their opinion just like you
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Marie Safi the bible explains it, and God defines what being a “good” person is, and the bible expands what god cares about and doesn’t care about ❤️ 📖
@canzbleu
4 жыл бұрын
I always love Adrienne's opinions. She's highly intelligent.
@Alexis-ec9cl
4 жыл бұрын
canzbleu lol
@mandys1038
4 жыл бұрын
Preach Loni it shouldn't be looked down upon if a woman chooses not to get married, marriage is not for everybody. Shakira is happy in the commitment she has to her boyfriend, let her be!
@Lola_Monroe
4 жыл бұрын
Ok... Time To Bring Shakira Onto The Show!! #ShakiraShakira 💋💋💋💜💜💜
@REBELLOGIC
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with A. This is why I hate calling my husband “my husband”. I would way rather say my partner .. and then everyone thinks I’m gay lol (not that there is anything wrong with that btw cuz love is love 💛). It’s just bull that being a “wife” is looked at as a bad thing or a nag, annoyance, prison cell and all that crap 😞 marriage is whatever you want it to be .. as long as u marry the right person for YOU
@suzannadrew790
4 жыл бұрын
The one point that they're missing. Is that if you're in a relationship with someone, and you're living with them, you have kids together. That's called living in sin, point blank. #SorryNotSorry #StillAShakiraFan
@niyakimble6589
4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@nancyaneke1346
4 жыл бұрын
I thought Shakira IS married... am I the only who thought she is, and is surprised 😯 to discover she, in fact, is not?
@chimuan1
4 жыл бұрын
Onyi Aneke no you’re not. I’m a huge Barcelona fan and I thought she was married to Gerard Pique.
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
Same! I had no idea
@moomoocachoo9025
4 жыл бұрын
I thought Pique locked it down a long time ago, so I'm surprised to learn that they've never married.
@7ImpossibleThings
4 жыл бұрын
No one ever talks about fornication being a sin to God. Yes you can be in a relationship without getting married but you should also know that having sex with that person is wrong in the eyes of God (he is a forgiving God though hallelujah)
@shannettewatson7869
4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@yacinemerabet762
4 жыл бұрын
not everyone is a christian though
@7ImpossibleThings
4 жыл бұрын
@@yacinemerabet762 very true, I commented this because most of the women on the panel proclaim the faith of Christianity
@pedroluna4353
4 жыл бұрын
Great point but even most Christian's don't care about having sex.
@deborahundergrace2776
4 жыл бұрын
Also we shouldn’t tempt God !Jesus said so when he was being tempted by Satan (see ref Luke )
@ec6621
4 жыл бұрын
Wait... If there's anything that commits you to someone more than marriage, it's having a child with them. A marriage can end at divorce. Boom. Walk away and forget they existed. But that's not possible with a child in the mix. Hell, you'd even run into your ex at your grandchildren's graduations. So basically, you're connected to each other for the rest of your lives.
@yoreagba
4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! I don't understand why people can justify committing to create a human being with someone they can't sign a marriage contract with if necessary. Having a child invites the government into your life as well so if that's your excuse the moment you book into L&D you start filling out paperwork that will be submitted to the government.
@CaribGirlBrownSugar
4 жыл бұрын
Soo what? As long as you dont need to pay your exhusband because he has less money than you. And usually a divorce ends worse than just seperating.
@yoreagba
4 жыл бұрын
@@CaribGirlBrownSugar so in one instance you can just pack up and leave the next day if you want to and disappear and in the other instance you have to be held accountable for creating a life with someone. Makes sense why you wouldn't want to be married because it's way easier to ditch the commitment you made to someone with no repercussions whatsoever. You can take whatever you want and leave with whatever you want even if it leaves the other person with nothing. Got it.
@ec6621
4 жыл бұрын
@@CaribGirlBrownSugar usually a separation between parents ends up worse than a divorce of the couple if they didn't have a child.
@CaribGirlBrownSugar
4 жыл бұрын
@@ec6621 if you think that giving your exhusband your money when you divorce is worse than just walking away when you have to separate then thats your opinion. I rather have my child or children having my money than an exhusband. And also the time and energy it takes to get divorced. It can be so stressful. Completely agreeing with Shakira.
@jadedperceptions736
4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE being my husband’s wife. He’s my soul mate for sure.
@erynd.9911
4 жыл бұрын
Jaded Perceptions beautiful! I hated being married ! 😩
@starlisejun.from.1799
2 жыл бұрын
Until your husband cheat on u? People think all marriages are perfect they are not especially when it comes to money. Shakira makes way more money than him she does not want to marry him and now that he cheated she definitely doesn’t. I’m glad she didn’t marry him.
@sandrawallaces5494
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is what you make it and if you choose not to get married that’s fine and dandy too.
@YessiMakes
4 жыл бұрын
Amanda’s cheekbones tho 👏🏽🙌🏽⚡️ hahaha
@frenchvanilla7109
4 жыл бұрын
Yes 🌟
@luvgod927
4 жыл бұрын
Shakira is an Aquarius, Oprah is an Aquarius, I'm an Aquarius, we are somehow afraid of overwhelming commitment😂 it's unexplainable
@Ryan-yw8iz
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Same!
@mariecarmen4921
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! My man is an Aquarius and is not into marriage
@creativewithk1002
4 жыл бұрын
Yup
@GabriellaLascano
4 жыл бұрын
I mean, telling him you're NEVER GETTING MARRIED, is pretty much the same as getting married. lol but ok
@aaliyahsmith4465
3 жыл бұрын
you are everywhere you are so arrogant
@AndresLopezZarate
4 жыл бұрын
She just doesnt wanna get married PERIOD. Just like some people dont want kids🙄 whats a paper gonna change? If someone loves you & is loyal you shouldnt need to put it on paper 🙄🙄
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
PERIODT!
@yoreagba
4 жыл бұрын
If they are loyal then why can't they sign the contract agreeing to stay loyal?
@AndresLopezZarate
4 жыл бұрын
@@yoreagba why do they need to? You see my point? You shouldnt need a legal document to remind you to stay loyal or why youre with a person
@yoreagba
4 жыл бұрын
@@AndresLopezZarate they don't need to, but since it doesn't change anything and it's not a big deal then why not just sign it? What does your defiance prove since the paper doesn't really mean anything?
@AndresLopezZarate
4 жыл бұрын
@@yoreagba there is no defiance🙄🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ marriage just really isnt neccesary to a lot of people 🤷♂️🤷♂️
@BATOOLESK
4 жыл бұрын
Amanda u’re cute and all but making a stank face when other hosts are talking is so rude 😫
@charmander1370
4 жыл бұрын
no name 😂😭
@esetababes
4 жыл бұрын
This was a very interesting topic. I agree with both Adrienne and Tamera. I would love to be married. You make the marriage what you want it to be and you keep pursuing the other person and making them happy. You have legal rights in a marriage rather than a partnership. For me personally, I am a Christian and marriage is a spiritual thing where I can make a vow before God to commit to this person for life. In saying that I also think that if people don’t wanna be married they don’t have to.
@erinsmith5326
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, and would love to get married someday as well.
@nunyabusiness3516
4 жыл бұрын
The cold hard truth is all the people saying they don't want to be married because blah blah blah It's because either they haven't been asked or they KNOW deep down they are with the wrong person and are scared to commit to them for REAL (No I don't mean playing house with your baby daddy). If you are with someone you don't see yourself with long term and you're smart enough to recognize it(even if you share children) that's a good thing, but let's call a spade a spade. I agree with Tamera and Adrienne a marriage is what you make it. So many people think the end goal is a wedding when the end goal is a healthy marriage. They rush into a lifetime commitment to someone they truly don't know or fully understand and THAT is why marriage gets a bad rap.
@1DerwinsWife
4 жыл бұрын
That’s a fendi fact ! Just say you haven’t been proposed to yet.. it’s okay lol
@mystery407
4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@-.a9942
4 жыл бұрын
Some people were married and don’t want to go throughout all that again
@alex124241
4 жыл бұрын
Hon you don’t know every persons or marriage situation out there. There can be a host of reasons why marriages don’t work out. At the end of the day marriage is becoming obsolete and not a necessity in society anymore.
@RealAnita926
4 жыл бұрын
What does the bible say? Please ladies don't deceive yourselves.
@americanwarrior974
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn't warranty you happiness tho. There's a lot of married couples that I know that live miserable lives.
@babii17180
4 жыл бұрын
Never lose sleep over the small stuff Ephesians 6:22-33 and Matthew 19:5&6
@lonelion1165
4 жыл бұрын
You only need God to be wed, not the government
@LoveiDora
4 жыл бұрын
Lone Lion you need both even the Bible references a certificate
@phillipayoung10
4 жыл бұрын
Enough said!!!👍👍
@denisewhite3902
4 жыл бұрын
Only a silly girl will fall for that. What benefits will she get from being with you? What happens when you are no more and she is stuck with babies? Shakira is a millionaire it does not apply to her but for the average girl.. there is no need to give a man your all if his scared of signing ‘paper’ 😂 if it’s just paper. Why the hesitation? 😂😂
@leah38521
4 жыл бұрын
Denise White exactly !
@leah38521
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is from God.
@noorlinabeauty1675
4 жыл бұрын
hwo wants to be just 4 hosts like it used to be? ... idk everytime they talk someone will be left out .always :(
@Purebeautyluv
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a whole other level of commitment. Let’s be real
@-.a9942
4 жыл бұрын
If the couple lives together it requires the same type of commitment. Some people are married paying bills but not being faithful to her wife or husband.
@Purebeautyluv
4 жыл бұрын
A Lara It’s not quite the same. To untangle yourself from a marriage is much more difficult than to do so from cohabitation. Yes, in either instance, the couple is required to be faithful sexually but as far as commitment goes, marriage is much deeper because of the legal ties
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
-. A but you can leave during a lease way easier than divorce
@nic558
4 жыл бұрын
Sure, like how it’s weaponized. You know things get ugly with DIVORCE. I guess it’s a whole other level
@Purebeautyluv
4 жыл бұрын
PrettyPoppin I agree
@sparkle6419
4 жыл бұрын
let's be real if any of these unwed ladies' men popped the question with ring they would be over the moon.
@JeremiahWalton
4 жыл бұрын
How will this go about if the man thought like this?
@vanessam7769
4 жыл бұрын
They also don’t really know how marriage is seen in the country she comes from cause they talking about the USA.
@yeyamusic
4 жыл бұрын
Ummm no being a wife is a huge blessing, and responsiblity, and honor. Why play house?
@mercedesgonzalez687
4 жыл бұрын
Yeya Music exactly, why give a man husband privileges who only has a boyfriend mindset? Like you said, why play house...
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Yeya Music being a wife was originally so women were property and would assist men. Plus all women aren’t comfortable with spending the rest of their lives with ONE man. Marriage benefits men and was sold off as being a status symbol to women so we can be domesticated
@themandinkafamily
4 жыл бұрын
If your mindset is like Shakira then you cannot be saying "God this/Lord that"...for those who believe in Him knows marriage was arrangement by God.
@themandinkafamily
4 жыл бұрын
@Ryann You are wroooooooong. This is wroooooong
@allenpayne927
4 жыл бұрын
The strong Christian views are coming out, which isn't a bad thing, but sometimes you see how shook they are
@witchf4ce310
4 жыл бұрын
Allen Payne how is Adrienne gonna act like she’s such a Christian when she had sex outside of marriage and is married to a divorced man which is a sin according to the Bible? She wants to be a Christian when it fits her lol
@allenpayne927
4 жыл бұрын
@@witchf4ce310 🤷🏾♂️
@MsMak03
4 жыл бұрын
Maria C relax
@witchf4ce310
4 жыл бұрын
Ofentse Makonya I’m relaxed, you seem offended lol
@ms.beautiful
4 жыл бұрын
If Shakira’s boyfriend passes away then his family can come in because she is not his next of kin!! There’s horror stories about that happening to women, all the time!!
@zariaeda007
4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Beautiful He can sign a living will and will if he wanted to. You can put anyone in a will so things like that don't happen.
@ms.beautiful
4 жыл бұрын
Zariaeda 007 Yeah right! I’d rather have the Marriage Certificate that shows me as his NEXT OF KIN!!!
@cutienerdgirl
4 жыл бұрын
Actually, you can go to the hospital and make anyone your next of kin.
@FlexNFly
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly marriage is a huge responsible. I don't knock anyone that take their time with that. Take your time because you're the one that's going to be in that marriage!!!
@hollywoodcole4046
4 жыл бұрын
but letting a man drop his sperm and bring children into the world, are less of a responsibility? Ya'll dummies sound crazy.
@mayab.1633
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Agreed
@CaribGirlBrownSugar
4 жыл бұрын
@@hollywoodcole4046 coparenting will always be an option. And for some women even single parenting is an option.
@AntoniioH
4 жыл бұрын
Like Blake Shelton said once: “No matter what #Shakira says, she’s always right.” PERIODT!!! 💅🏼
@BeeGeeHikes
4 жыл бұрын
Also Shakira is like 10 yrs older than him, and maybe she’s afraid he’s going to start wandering around if they get married.
@dagda3000
4 жыл бұрын
She knows he will replace her before she hits 50 - so why bother to marry? Hot rich guys do not go long term with much older women.
@zora99ny
4 жыл бұрын
Blanca Gonzales It would be easier for him to wander around now that they're unmarried so your comment doesn't really make sense
@walkercomonet8597
4 жыл бұрын
I'm just Surprised No one brought up the Fact that Married is Honorable In the eyes of God!
@allanathomas6977
4 жыл бұрын
For me marriage is *NOT* a necessity in life...
@JackieCaxaj
4 жыл бұрын
If you want to be married cool if not cool. This maybe a unpopular opinion but, something I always find weird is when people "don't want to be married," but then call each other Husband & Wife. If it's just a piece of paper or not your thing or whatever, that's cool, but then that is not your husband or wife.🤷🏽♀️
@crystalunique9732
4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏 I can't stand it either. Doesn't make any sense.
@JackieCaxaj
4 жыл бұрын
@@crystalunique9732 Agreed!
@RickiiTensee
4 жыл бұрын
“A commitment is a commitment as long as it’s a commitment” - Loni Luv 2020....
@noneother5900
4 жыл бұрын
I got married religiously 5 years ago, still haven’t invited the government into my relationship either Amanda. I get you
@officeextras1783
4 жыл бұрын
@Midwest Kandi you wrote that over..thats how scripture gets mixed up.
@ieshahunt1263
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is the first time I agree with Adrienne 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😮
@nessawithsmiles
4 жыл бұрын
iesha Hunt same
@latifa4586
4 жыл бұрын
I always agree with A
@a.sydney5036
4 жыл бұрын
Loni whooooo says “if you are not married, you are not a woman.” 🙄🙄🙄
@MorganBee211
4 жыл бұрын
Amy Zorah a lot of people say that.
@devinmarks8571
4 жыл бұрын
Society has always put a womans value into her being married and being able to have children, let's not be dense to the pressures women go through.
@crystalsnow7293
4 жыл бұрын
I've been called and excuse of a women for not wanting to get married... so more people then you think.
@sammierose1150
4 жыл бұрын
Amy Zorah that’s just what I was thinking! I’ve never in my life heard someone say that to me 🤔🤷🏽♀️
@ElmTreigh
4 жыл бұрын
@@roxjnie9028 🙊 damn! 😂 shots fired! Pun intended
@royalrachy2027
4 жыл бұрын
Went loni the one crying like an idiot in Adrienne's wedding? If you don't look at it as anything special why were u there crying and snotting up the place?
@a.sydney5036
4 жыл бұрын
Royal Rachy was she not the same one going on and on about how she loves being single and sleeping around with (phantom men) and then later crying about James has changed her life and how she’s no longer lonely. I don’t take anything Loni says about relationships seriously. We’re she to be proposed to, by James, she’d be saying yes, in a heartbeat.
@MajesticMyronn
4 жыл бұрын
Royal Rachy special for herself... if she doesn’t want to get married that’s her choice... but she’s not gonna down somebody else for getting married too... she cares about Adrienne and wants her to be happy so that’s different... that was a special moment for her friend
@dagda3000
4 жыл бұрын
To be honest. Loni is just a regular fat woman. They are always making stuff up to counterbalance their low position in the dating world.
@smartrecords4881
4 жыл бұрын
If a man findeth a wife, he findeth a good thing and obtain favour of the LORD.
@daesanryo
4 жыл бұрын
I just think as a society we should be okay if people don’t want to get married or if they want to. One shouldn’t be more acceptable than the other. It’s your preference and if that’s what works for you then do it.
@LatinaChef1986
4 жыл бұрын
Danayshia MUA Yes girl! Preach! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💗
@EveofPyrite
4 жыл бұрын
Lets be honest though married couples are taken more seriously and longterm couples that have no formal commitment are seen as roomates
@-.a9942
4 жыл бұрын
Alabanza but that’s someone else view. If the person in side that situation are ok. Just let them live
@EleanorJosefina
4 жыл бұрын
Shakira, I feel the same.
@latifa4586
4 жыл бұрын
Me 2
@sashat3912
4 жыл бұрын
Me 3 ;) Nice to know I'm not the only one
@Spitz973
4 жыл бұрын
Loni sounds crazy, I’ve literally heard another episode where she was talking about the family structure importance mainly with black culture but why not support marriage 😐
@barbergurub6830
4 жыл бұрын
Just another episode of women agreeing with women to be feminist or whatever they call it being dumb
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Darryl Mims because not every woman doesn’t want to be with one person for life, and marriage doesn’t be structured.
@HereForFun98
4 жыл бұрын
Barberguru B people are allowed to change their minds.
@la9863
4 жыл бұрын
dee b yeah but she flip flops every other day. Because she doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
@la9863
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@jenisawilson3177
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrienne! You said it perfectly about marriage. Thanks for speaking up and defending the significance of being married.
@eb.1898
4 жыл бұрын
Jeannie sounds like she went rogue. I am sensing a spirit of bitterness in her...🤔
@lonelion1165
4 жыл бұрын
Why don't people just have marriages without the government? You can totally do that. If it's about the vows and in the sight of God and true love, it won't matter if the government is involved or not.
@sweetlistenings3324
4 жыл бұрын
I need Jeannie to stand up so i can see what she's wearing. It looks sharp.
@chimuan1
4 жыл бұрын
One of those topics that highlights just how difficult it is for Adrienne to be the Christian wife of renowned gospel minister Israel Houghton and secular co-host of the Real.
@Sarah3944
4 жыл бұрын
chimuan1 it’s gonna be even harder if she starts her music career and it’s secular music with a husband who is a gospel singer minister.
@crankin21guns
4 жыл бұрын
She works at The Real. If you going to judge at least get the facts correct😂😂.
@agathesafi245
4 жыл бұрын
chimuan1 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i swear to god
@chimuan1
4 жыл бұрын
crankin21guns Lol, you’re right.
@MajesticMyronn
4 жыл бұрын
I understand both Tamera and Amanda’s points because for Amanda it’s nice to want to be married but when you look at the legalistic side of things... if you love somebody and genuinely don’t want to cause imperviousness to their heart , your word should be the only thing that matter... no damn contract that could potentially be broken... because I know for some people having to go through the legal process of being married ruins it... if the ceremony in the House of the Lord is not enough... then what are we doing this for... but on Tameras end I can see why it matters so much to her because of the fact that she loves her husband and is in love with her husband and chooses to be with her husband but doesn’t let the other stuff get in the way of that !
@AbiYah333
4 жыл бұрын
Women can be such hypocrites! They'll stay claiming that marriage doesn't matter, then as soon as a man proposes they say yes. GIRL...BYE!!! 🙄
@indiaxlovee
4 жыл бұрын
Kai Ro what? The said marriage isn’t a necessity for life and its a choice, are we watching the same segment?
@cutienerdgirl
4 жыл бұрын
So?? A lot of things don't matter, but we do them anyways.
@danielaachury7095
4 жыл бұрын
Most of the Colombian population doesn’t get married anyway. Many people live together and to them living together and having kids is being married.
@cookiesncream789
4 жыл бұрын
I love Adrienne's take on this topic.
@tasha8716
4 жыл бұрын
Too crowded.
@mangotango1252
4 жыл бұрын
Laurette Coote to many co hosts!!
@frenchvanilla7109
4 жыл бұрын
I think they need a bigger table or redo the set somehow. The view has the same amount of women and it works fine.
@tasha8716
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone is fighting to speak it looks very uncomfortable. To me.
@Amada__
4 жыл бұрын
These ladies are so inspiring!!
@madisonhartwick8114
4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for speaking on this. My goal is not marriage whatsoever. My future career and children are in mind. I am not tying myself to anyone unless I feel it's absolutely necessary.
@kaynicole2146
4 жыл бұрын
The real reason why Shakira is even against getting married is simply because she’s comfortable. She’s comfortable in the dynamic that her relationship is in and the fact that she can be financially independent if she chooses to. I mean yes she has been with this guy for ten years and has birthed two kids...😐 it’s safe to say that she’s very settled with how things are
@tshiyabatubenge7876
4 жыл бұрын
Jeannie's look is giving me life!!gorgeous!!😍
@lalyndacobb48
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne was preaching!
@theonajohnhope9950
4 жыл бұрын
why does loni love always acts like she is ready to fight with someone. she seems so bitter all the time, and the way she brings her point across is like she is always right. i think she needs to leave the real
@taylorriley5
4 жыл бұрын
People get really offended when someone doesn’t want to get married. Historically, marriage has absolutely nothing to with love.
@ElmTreigh
4 жыл бұрын
As my little brother used to say: KICK THAT KNOWLEDGE IN THEY FACE!
@johnnyc3184
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is Overrated, Expensive then becomes a Buzzkill.... lol My Aquarian Queen Shakira know what it is. She is Unique, Independent and Doesn't Follow Trends.
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