Clarification, petror is amma and appa. Pillaigal is son and daughter. Some may have understood pillaigal as son. That was not our intent.
@krishbalaa01
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family with good health, Maami
@meenakshimeena6998
2 жыл бұрын
Intha mathri content la yarum r yosichatha kuda ila Ana u don’t know how helpful it will be thank you so much Anna . Namaskaram paati
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ushalakshminarasimhan1641
2 жыл бұрын
Well said👍🏻it's also the duty of a daughter to look after her Parents. Still Society has to understand this and change. Imagine the condition of Parents who have only daughters. When ladies claim equal rights..they have equal duties to perform too👏
@subathrashekar3105
2 жыл бұрын
நமஸ்காரம் மாமி! அற்புதமான உரையாடல் (கணேஷ், மாமி, க்ருஷ்ணா) "அருட் பேராற்றல் கருணையினால் உடல் நலம் நீள் ஆயுள் நிறை செல்வம் உயர் புகழ் மெய் ஞானம் ஓங்கி "வாழ்க வளமுடன்!"🙏🙏👏👏🌹
@ks4676
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you all. You just validated my stand in life. Only answerable to our conscience and the divine. Wonderfully wise and broad minded mother and sons.
@jayasrisaravanan4618
2 жыл бұрын
Very honest talk by mami....she talks so sensibly...learning a lot from you mami...your experience is reflected in the way you speak...Anna...mami is fortunate to have sons like you...
@sowmoh1744
2 жыл бұрын
அருமையான கலந்துரையாடல்! பல வீடுகளில் வெளிப்படையாக உட்கார்ந்து பேசாமல் இருப்பதே பல மனக்கஷ்டங்களுக்கும் காரணமாக அமைகிறது! குறைந்த பட்சம் சுமுகமாகப் பேசும் பட்சத்தில் குழப்பம் குறைய வாய்ப்புள்ளது! இனியன பேசி இனிது வாழ்வோம்! நமஸ்காரம் மாமி!
@27462547
2 жыл бұрын
Very well said. பிள்ளைகளுக்கும், பெத்தவாளுக்கும் என்ன பாகுபாடு. எத்தனை மனஸ்தாபமிருந்தாலும், பெத்தவா விட்டுக் கொடுத்துப் போவதுதான் நல்லது. ஏன்னா நாம வாழ்ந்து முடிஞ்சாச்சு. குழந்தைகளுக்கு கல்யாணம் பண்ணி வைப்பதே அவா சந்தோஷமா இருக்கர்துக்கும் அதைப் பார்த்து நாம நமக்கு அப்புரம் அவாளுக்கு ஒரு துணை இருக்கேன்னு சந்தோஷப்படத்தானே. சூழ்நிலையை அனுசரிச்சா வாழ்க்கையில் நிம்மதிதான். Thanks for a very good discussion.
@amudham06
Жыл бұрын
மிகவும் பண்பட்ட மனிதர்கள். ரொம்ப அழகாவும் யதார்த்தமாகவும் இயல்பாகவும் எளிமையாகவும் கிடைக்கும் வாழ்வியல் நெறிகள். மிக்க நன்றி. சிலப்பதிகாரத்தில் யாருமே கெட்டவர்கள் இல்ல, நேரம், விதி இவைதான் அந்த துயர காப்பியத்தின் காரண கர்த்தாக்கள். யாழின் மீது வந்த உழ் என்பர். உங்கள் பேச்சு அழகு 💕
@savithriravikumarravikumar9779
2 жыл бұрын
அருமையான விளக்கம் மாமி. யதார்த்த நிலையை தெளிவாக எடுத்து சொல்லிட்டேள். ரெண்டு பேரும் பெற்றேர்..பிள்ளைகள் பரஸ்பரம் புரிந்து கொண்டு வாழ்கையில் அந்த நீரோட்டத்தில் படியே செல்வதுதான் சிறப்பு. மிக அருமை.
@Up0408
2 жыл бұрын
First of all Thanks for picking this topic which is a practical one. I appreciate all your comments which was straight from the heart. ஒழிவு மறைவு இல்லாத conversation. Much appreciated. Everyone spoke your mind and heart and it was great and practical to the current era from a material perspective. I love the way aunty says Lord Krishna or Lord Rama stories. I am a big fan of Thaayaar and Perumal for THEIR mercy. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️ I don’t deny any of the pointers discussed as everyone spoke from your perspective which was the whole intent of this discussion (not debate) was. My only other point (again my perspective) is that anyone (all souls) should follow the instructions from the scriptures as much as possible. Only that’s approved to pave way to Sri Vaikuntam. Otherwise the souls will be wandering in these material worlds with baggages of karma as they may (when not done for Bhagwad Preethi) or may not (when not followed by scriptures). 🙏🏻🙏🏻An old age parent, even though you book executive flight for them, traveling for 16+ hours is a big deal (if they are of 80+ years or so). That’s why instructions should be always followed as mentioned in scriptures (and here I am not talking about practicality). Unfortunately, due to whatever reasons, most (if not all) people including me, think from a material perspective and think that things should be done in a certain way (which may not align with our scriptures). :( This is just my humble opinion. No intent to criticize anyone. Kshamikkanum if it sounded like it. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thanks again for this topic. Ans I loved the way Ganesh spoke about his dad. Both mom and dad are a blessing for any child. Perumal’s calculation never goes wrong. We should be respectful to our parents and show affection to them. Without them we can’t be who we are today. They did lots of sacrifice for us (like you mentioned in this video - with health issue, monetary stress etc). Despite all that they have done their best to make their kids reach this level today to be proud parents today. Overall I feel yours is a blessed family. Stay blessed. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Shaadi10July
Жыл бұрын
Brought tears to my eyes! So much of this is my experience! Thank you for this treasured video!
@RanjuShyam
2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos ! I used to watch all recipe video by mami especially to listen to her special stories that come along with it , but have not commented much ! This video moved me to tears ! Very apt topic as every family moving to US or any foreign country for the betterment of thier children and life style had to leave thier parents behind ! Its a very big challenge for thier sons and daughters to either decide to return back to homeland or stay here ! Very valid points discussed and always mami 's enlighting speech !
@jayanthijagan9916
2 жыл бұрын
Unga 3 Petai yum paarthadhil romba santhosham
@SeethaGopalakrishna
2 жыл бұрын
i am happy your mother was so open to say 'if old people feel they know everything then they should stay by themselves
@L20241
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m pretty sure mami meant if they can’t get along with their dil they should stay by themselves 😊
@SeethaGopalakrishna
2 жыл бұрын
@@L20241 thank you for the intelligent reply
@bhavanikumar8925
2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic topic. Excellent stories by Mami. My Namaskarams to her
@user-rv8jb5mr9v
2 жыл бұрын
Loved the discussion. Your mother is just too good. Love her maturity and simplicity. It's heartwarming to see your mother being so humble and just in her thoughts. I just loved her. I have seen few other videos, thought a bit lengthy I love the energy you all share in the video and the openness and genuinty. God bless you all. Thanks for this insight. I am going through an emotional phase as I recently lost a parent and this discussion just gives me another perspective about things and life. Thank you for uploading this. God bless you and your dear ones.
@sugunaananthalakshmi2206
2 жыл бұрын
My mother in law never stayed with her sons. She had eight sons. She was independent and strong will power lady. I too feel my husband and myself stay alone. My daughter take care whenever necessities comes. As per Bhagavatham Bhagavan says stay alone and think of God always. Ramana Maharishi says stay away from relatives and kids and try to be aloof from all the laukikam. Myself and my husband are with Bhagavatam only. We both are enjoying the life. Performing Saptaham navaham etc. at home. Trying to implement what Ramana Maharishi has said.
@LS-ql6pc
2 жыл бұрын
Namo RamanAya 🙏🏼
@deeparam4264
2 жыл бұрын
Apt topic for this age. I’m facing this challenge in life and I’m so glad to hear all your comments. Your mother’s comments soothed me and liberated me from my internal conundrum. 🙏
@raghunathan68
2 жыл бұрын
Hello, I am visalam from Hyderabad. I have been watching all your recipes and general talks. It's very good. Right now I saw your video with your sons about parents going and staying with sons. It's quite practical. Currently for the last eight months we both have been staying with our only son in Chennai IIT. He is a professor. I liked the way you justified the argument. I am also of probably your age may be a year more or less.
@ramanmahadevan2212
11 ай бұрын
Very good advice. Thanks for sharing. I have a quick question - What if the parents are not in a position to travel abroad or to another city due to health reasons and such. What would you suggest the children should do in this situation. Please provide your thoughts Mami.
@dorothygowtham8087
2 жыл бұрын
Truly enjoyed this discussion..admire the lovely and lively bond between the mother and sons ..wish all mothers and sons were like this ...open minded and understanding..God bless your wonderful family..
@anukumar8389
2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video. Ennoda 24 vayasula ennoda pakkathu aathu mami kitta sonnadhu dhaan gnyabagam varudhu. Mami sonnadhu pola, nambalala orutharukku udhava mudiyardho illayo, upadhravama irukkakoodadhu ngardhula romba theliva irukken. Idhanal enakku neraya ava peyarum varum, dont care. Thanks for helping me reinvest in those thoughts which actually strengthened my understanding of my choices and options 🙏
@juliemargarate8825
2 жыл бұрын
Love you amma, always i hear your experiences, which is all true. I follow all your advises. Have learned to live a humble life. Thank you ❤️
@meenakshi2002
2 жыл бұрын
LOT OF THINGS, MAAMI AND SONS SHARED, REALLY VERY INFORMATIVE AND USEFUL FOR PRATICAL LIFE TO NOWADAYS ,THANKS FOR SUCH NICE SESSION 👍💯💯👏👏👏🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@r.ramachandranramasamy418
2 жыл бұрын
What a family...blessed family..we get blessing by you also....
@sasip6854
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the discussion. Everybody struggles to take decision at this stage. Your discussion really gives clarity and guides us. Thanks Amma for sharing your valuable wisdom for real life situations like this. Waiting to watch many such discussions for real life situations. 🙏🙏
@vanishankar5305
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video...valid topic of discussion. Explained it so well. Felt very clear after listening. Thank you so much for sharing. Very true ...father's role is always neglected.
@ponnischannelpriya3758
2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful what a healthy family discussing such sensitive topics iam taking care of my dad with lot of confusions why I ? What am I going to gain out of this? While my sibling is not in a position to worry about anything.Ammas words answered for all these . it's really a difficult task to take care of elders with complicated disorders . But iam doing it. Adhu avaloda perundanmai. Amma's words healed me thankyou Mr Ganesh for this video
@sudhagopalan6551
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Mami ungaluku kodana kodi namaskarangal. Rombha azaghana realistic speech. Enaku only son avan Bangalore settle aanadhal 50 years ku mela naan pirandhu valarndha chennai vittu i have settled in Bangalore for d sake of my son. I am an adjustable type of person and happy with my son daughtet-in-law and my peran. It is only in our hands to lead a happy life. Thank you Ganesh for ur wonderful video
@umabhaktha2514
2 жыл бұрын
The world will be a happier place if we try to understand rather than all judging others and making assumptions. Give people the benefit of doubt and live peacefully
@usha6668
2 жыл бұрын
அம்மா எவ்வளவு எதார்த்தமாகப் பேசுகிறீர்கள்...உங்கள் பல விவாதங்கள் சத்சங்கங்கள் என்னை சிந்திக்கச் செய்தது...மிக்க நன்றி அம்மா...
@sunitham4452
2 жыл бұрын
Wise and practical thinking by Mami. Really appreciate her. Lots of love to her
@vijikrishna8143
2 жыл бұрын
மாமிக்கு நமஸ்காரங்கள்🙏! நல்ல பதிவு.... maami made it interesting as usual by sighting scenarios from ithihasam & puranas..... also from her personal life.... God bless your family.... if you don’t mind.... can I suggest a topic ... இந்த காலத்தில் பெண் குழந்தைகளையும் ஆண்பிள்ளைகளுக்கு நிகராக லட்சங்களை செலவழைத்து படிக்கவைக்கிறார்கள்.... ஆனால் திருமணச்செலவு என்று வரும்போது இரு வீட்டாரும் பங்கிட்டுக்கொள்ளலாமே.... காலத்துக்கு ஏற்ப சில மாற்றங்கள் அவசியம் ஆகிறது... இதைப்பற்றிய விழிப்புணர்வு அனைவருக்கும் வரவேண்டும் என்று நான் நினைக்கிறேன்... என்கருத்தில் பிழை இருந்தால் மன்னித்துக்கொள்ளுங்கள்...
@nityaneelakantan9203
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right.
@vanithac5989
2 жыл бұрын
அம்மா நமஸ்காரங்கள் அருமையான பதிவு நிறைய மனிதர்கள் மனதில் எழுந்த கேள்விகளுக்கு பதில் உங்களிடம் கிடைத்தது. நீங்கள் கூறிய அனைத்தும் சத்தியமான யதார்த்தம். குறைகளைக் கண்டு கொள்ளாமல் நிறைகளை கண்டு வாழ அனைவரும் பழகி கொள்ள வேண்டும். தங்கள் அறிவுரைகள் அவசியம் அனைவராலும் கடைபிடிக்க வேண்டியவை. நமஸ்காரங்கள் அம்மா 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rajalakshmirajan8837
2 жыл бұрын
Namaskaram Mami n Mama🙏 Ganesh n Krishna .,. I used to watch all your videos regularly.. The best conversation vedio especially people like me who is having lot of queries about future. I am also having two sons n I am always worrying how I can maintain the relationship after their married life... Mami you are my inspiration.. when ever I see your recipe video I am observing you sharing your knowledge n practical experience n good conversation with Ganesh which is very useful. Credit goes to Ganesh n Krishna too.. even diwali sweets I ordered from varaha foods after watching your video, my co-sister is from kallidaikurichi n I am from Thirunelveli.lovely n useful video. Pray God to bless you and your family 🙏. I need your wishes for my children n my family Mami.Thank you,🥰 வாழ்க வளமுடன்🙏
@radiantnavin8033
11 ай бұрын
That is an amazing discussion. loved the video and the moral.
@lakshmiashok7191
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice video. Ganesh remembering what his Appa did to save his Amma is very emotional. Very nice to see that the sons are willing to discuss such sensitive topics with their parents. God bless us all. Thank you for sharing. When you post videos from Toronto I feel closer to you as my daughter lives there. Now Kalladakjurichi seems so far away from where we live. praying for pandemic to get over soon.
@jothijo5279
2 жыл бұрын
Super sir
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@prabhasundaram838
2 жыл бұрын
Why insist to keep on writting
@VRN320
2 жыл бұрын
Very healthy discussion. Everything depends on situations and understanding level.
@casildarajaratnam9108
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful thought and very valuable for everyone's life. I totally appreciate you three for this sharing of knowledge and opinion. Pls do more like this on different social practices. Vaalga valamudan. love from Sri Lanka
@sreemlucky7310
2 жыл бұрын
Epomey healthy n positive discussion dhan....ganesh Anna, Krishna Anna, Maami wat a synergy..... nangaley anga iruka madri iruku....vazhga valamudan ...God bless
@kalanatarajan7993
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent discussion. Well articulated. Emotionally touching. At the end of the day, my belief is that each and every situation is unique. Therefore, a hard and fast rule may not apply. The conscience of individual will speak depending upon the values with they were nurtured. However, a discussion on this topic is indeed the need of the day. Nice.
@djeamarierayar9405
2 жыл бұрын
வணக்கம் மாமி உங்கள் மூவரின் உரையாடல் சிறப்பாக இருந்தது. முடிவில் பிறரைப் பற்றி பேசாமல் இருப்பது சாலச்சிறந்தது என்ற கருத்து ஏற்புடையதாக இருக்கிறது.மிக மிக அருமை. மூவருக்கும் நன்றி.
@ItsOKBaby
2 жыл бұрын
nice பயனுள்ள வீடியோ... இன்னும் பல பயனுள்ள வீடியோக்கள் எதிர்பார்க்கிறோம். மறக்காமல்.. எங்களுக்கும் ஆதரவு கொடுங்கள். வளர்கிறோம்
@nanand281
2 жыл бұрын
Exceptionally super and most informative. Thank you for everyone who have contributed.
@vignesh2492
2 жыл бұрын
Atlast krishna in video!!! So happy ❤️
@v.styagarajan3842
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent share & worthy too in these days
@vanajavanaja8480
2 жыл бұрын
Very good discussion. Thanks for guidance
@traditionaltanjorepainting1191
2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great insight you have provided. Probably a conversation in many households that no one initates. As usual Mami is very practical and gives honest analysis. Stay Blessed
@johnson2465
Жыл бұрын
Very nice .Its like a message we use to hear while attending mass in sunday church.Very nice. keep doing 👏.All your receipies we tried many times that was authentic and very nice.I think soon we ( my family) will change from biriyannie to pure vegetarian.👏👏👍Keep doing....
@Sudhamayi
Жыл бұрын
A very matured , thoughtful discussion for the present day
@jayalakshmiramachandran4151
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice and sensitive conversation. We all need to know the values as mami said. I am fan of mami. She is a practical person. God bless you all. வாழ்க வளமுடன்..🙏🙏🙏
@sukanyachandrasekar
2 жыл бұрын
Very truthful talk. Nidarsanam. Instead of blaming, let us become amenable
@revathisampath6933
2 жыл бұрын
A very candid and very high level standing on the ever-intriguing topic. It was very interesting to watch. I like the comfort level and maturity of your interaction and exchange of ideas. Always been a fan of your family. After feeding your fans with authentic food (in recipe form) you are feeding us with ethics and dharmic practices. Please continue these "food for thought" discussions for the benefit of all! Vazhga Valamudan!!
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@anukumar8389
2 жыл бұрын
Nicely put in words. Yeah, food for everyone to think 😇
@poorani1000
Жыл бұрын
ராதே க்ருஷ்ண 🙏🙇♀️🙏
@padmaganapathy3906
2 жыл бұрын
Nicely shared views but I belong to a generation where my in-laws took care of their in-laws and we followed same by Gods grace so stay blessed ma
@anuradhakailash4652
2 жыл бұрын
Well discussion அருமையான தகவல்கள் உங்க மூணு பேருடையை பேச்சும் அருமை tq கிருஷ்ணா அண்ணா சௌக்கியமா ப்ரீத்தி sister also
@anuradhasarathy9167
2 жыл бұрын
Clear thoughts and highly matured talk. Very much required for many 👍
@lakshmilk2883
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Maami. Very practical and open discussion. Really great family!
@nithishdivya4866
2 жыл бұрын
கண்டிப்பாக அண்ணா 100%சரி .. இன்று நான் இதை உணர்கிறேன். அடுத்தது உங்க இரண்டு பேரையும் கள்ளிடைகுறிச்சி வீட்டில் பார்த்தது ரோம்ப சந்தோஷம் இந்த சந்தோஷம்உங்க பிள்ளைகளும் அனுபவிக்க வேண்டும் கள்ளிடைகுறிச்சியில் இது எங்களின் ஆசை
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
நன்றி
@lalithabarguru2360
2 жыл бұрын
Very excellent discussion.....best wishes to ganesh anna and mami...and looking forward forward.many more such topics....
@vijayalakshmisuresh3634
2 жыл бұрын
Super topic, good examples, different approaches...
@mythiliparthasarathy6496
2 жыл бұрын
Soooooooper Geetha Ji 🙏🙏🌹🌹💐 sooooo fantastic 🙏 really u r a genius நடக்கிறஉண்மைகளைத்தான்சொல்கிறீர்கள் Ganesh n krishna 🙏🙏🌹 sooo sweet 🙏வா... ழ்க வளமுடன் வாழ்க நலமுடன் 🙏🙏with lots of love and blessings to my sweet friends 🙏🙏🌹🌹💐🌹🌹🙏🌹💐🌹🌹🦋🦋🎉🎉🌺🎁🎁🌷🎈🎈❤️🌻🌹💐🌹🌹🌹🌹
@KL2023-kl
2 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful discussion. Thank you all for this video.
@sophiajagan8665
2 жыл бұрын
Anna I am a Christian with all my heart I bless and thank my God for the amount of love knowledge n understanding in your family. If all our parents are blessed with such Godly knowledge we can save a lot of unnecessary tears ... God bless you full family
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@seethalakshmi9900
2 жыл бұрын
@@Agrahararecipes சில இடங்களில் கணேஷ் சார் பேசுவது புரியவில்லை(குரல்). அம்மா அவருடைய அனுபவங்களால் நிறைய யோசித்து தெளிவாக சரியாக பேசுகிறார். இவர் மன அழுத்தம், மன உளைச்சல் மற்றும் விரக்தியில் உள்ளவர்களுக்கு தைரியம்(கவுன்சிலிங்) கொடுக்கலாம். அவ்வளவு மனத்திற்கு நன்றாக உள்ளது. 👌👍🙏
@ushasrinivasan504
2 жыл бұрын
Owsum video... Very candid ofcourse parents should stay with their child... Good information thank Mami Ganesh anna
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lavanyas1355
2 жыл бұрын
Loved this discussion, every family should have such open minded discussions instead of assumptions and perceptions, it would solve many things . Definitely both Mama and Mama are the best , which shows up in their upbringing in both sons . Vaazhga valamudan 🙏
@meenamali6925
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent Mami you are so practical
@vijay36109
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent ❤️ I am in the same situation...Mami advice really gave me a lot of clarity
@skan5996
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice talk Shows a lot of maturity from sons and mom
@suchitrajairus797
2 жыл бұрын
Very much needed and wise discussion. Very enriching.Thank u
@venkataramani001
2 жыл бұрын
Good relationship between mother and sons
@lakshmisubramanian6689
2 жыл бұрын
Sooper Maami.Nice judgement 👍As u said everything depends on mind set (Adjustments)Right 😊🥰
@Eeshow2107
2 жыл бұрын
Very sensible discussion , gives a lot of clarity ..keep posting such videos
@jeyak6045
2 жыл бұрын
Arumaiyana pathivu nandri Amma and Ganesh sir
@santhirengaroa3714
2 жыл бұрын
Very important topic u select n discussed... very very thanks...namaskaras to mami mama...
@malathiraghunath3658
2 жыл бұрын
nice video, mami. Very practical. You have explained the responsibilities of both parents and children very well.
@nagalakshmikrishnan9906
2 жыл бұрын
Even our family had such discussions with within ourselves. My brother, me n amma use to take a topic like this and will not conclude anyways. But these kind of healthy discussion kindle the brain to see the other side the logic in every ones behaviour. This is indeed took me to my old family days. Keep posting these kind of arugemental discussions. Felt like my own brother n amma speaking along with me. Thanks for it. Vaazhga Valamudan
@padmapadma7294
2 жыл бұрын
Agraharam is a name of ur village is it ? Is this close to Kumbakonam?
@thirunavukarasuKannan
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation. I shared the video with my mother. Wishing you do such conversation with different topics ..
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dhanyanainar6013
2 жыл бұрын
Lot of content and depth of knowledge..pls upload more videos like this.
@goodearthbhoomi8041
9 ай бұрын
Amma, if you have only a daughter and only a son, who do you think you will go and be with? IMHO both have same responsibility. Would like to see what your thought is. Thanks!
@Appusmom381
2 жыл бұрын
I wished someone spoke about this.. i am at that age in my life.. its so helpful and cleared my thoughts..
@positiveatheart
2 жыл бұрын
Parents can come and stay with son or daughter or even children can come to Parents place. But few people separated Parents by taking mum with one son and father with another son, which should not be done. Separating a married couple(who loves each other) irrespective of any reason is a sin, it should not be done by their own kids.
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@GGgoldspear
2 жыл бұрын
From Singapore 🇸🇬 , Interesting topic. Our value system changes as we observe and assimilate various cultural values. Just like the Epics like Mahabharatham , Ramayanam and Thirukural etc formed our value systems so did exemplary living by our own elders..in caring for their own elders...This forms today's value system within our society... by the experiences that they observe and maybe analyse and reflect upon. Unfortunately bad examples are also seen from the media, like the explosion of Serials..often portraying negative attitudes and tarnishing trust within the family. Many imbibe the wrong values from the characterisations shown. Families have also become smaller. City living had limited scope for extended families to be as close as in the past where everyone lives within the same village. Also an idea of greater flexibility in Independent living and single-parent families, have as the root cause, elderly citizens living on their own or in an elderly homes more happily..rather than migrate to the country where their children work and live..with the absence of a network of their own friends is limited. It's often a personal choice. We all agree no amount of money will absolve one's responsibility, from looking after their parents when they are old. yet it's is true that we cannot judge families who do so for various reasons. LOVE and Moral values built over years of upbringing, sharing and caring guides our ethos and principles behind the care of our elderly who sacrificed a lot to better our lives. We should cherish and support their decisions as best as possible. As every one will age, one day we too may seek the same care...and concern fir our well being.
@thelittleworldofshree3601
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent conversation.. really enjoyed.. made my day. Thank you.
@meenagmail298
2 жыл бұрын
It is very heartening to see a mother discuss such topics with her sons. Your mother is a fair and just woman. Her advice is simple and sensible . She is indeed blessed to hv kids like you both and you as sons are greatly blessed tohave a mother like her.May you all be blessed and happy always!🌹💝
@priyas9763
2 жыл бұрын
What an insightful discussion! As mami rightly said, it depends on the individual's outlook in life. Seldom do we come across people with the wisdom and practicality like mami. The close family bonding comes across clearly in your video. Best wishes to all of you. Looking forward to many more of such videos.
@Silent...beauty
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Ganesh, mami,n Krishna.... How are you all? where is mami 's hero?🤔😀 Beautiful n useful conversation 👏
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@shalinees254
2 жыл бұрын
Super.iam very happy always true.thanks for video....
@gomathikrishnamoorthy8484
2 жыл бұрын
True ,, for choosing a very interesting topic and thanks to the whole family members .👆👍👏👏😊😊🙏🙏🙏
@tyamunadevi5220
2 жыл бұрын
தெளிவான உரை!!!!! நிதர்சனமான விளக்கம் அம்மா!!!!🙏👏👍
@PriyaS-ng8hh
2 жыл бұрын
Super mammi, how many parents & in laws have this type of thoughts- this world would have been a wonderful place to live
@kiruthikasaptharishigadira9438
2 жыл бұрын
What a discussion. Namaskaram and Love to Maami and two Anna's🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sethulakshmihariharan7245
2 жыл бұрын
Mami! Romba sari. Unga vayasukaraloda feelings correct aga snnel.
@perundevianandan1093
2 жыл бұрын
ரொம்பவே பிடித்திருந்தது அண்ணா. நிதர்சனமான உண்மை.
@Agrahararecipes
2 жыл бұрын
நன்றி
@jayanthisekar5113
2 жыл бұрын
Superb very thoughtful discussion for the present time vow a reasonable conclusion 👍 bcos many indian parents go through this
@vanithanarasimman355
2 жыл бұрын
அருமையான கலந்துரையாடல் மூவருமே தங்களின் கருத்துக்களை அழகாய் எடுத்து கூறினீர்கள் கருத்துக்கள் அனைத்தும் நிதர்சமான ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளும் படியான உண்மை வாழ்க வளமுடன் 💐👌👍👏👏
@rajeswari77
2 жыл бұрын
Parents bless and wish to study, go abroad and earn money. Mami’s speech is so good with clarity. I feel you anna when you told about appa. He told me that I remind him of his daughter when we met. Such a nice person. 😊
@kumariyer3853
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice discussion with appropriate examples and stories. God bless everyone and keep them safe and happy, where ever they are meant to be 🙏
@padmachari560
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent and very relevant, while the children listen to parents, I would say that when parents are aged and live with adult children, they should let go of their expectations, perhaps listen to the children as well. Speaking from personal experience
@LChiti
2 жыл бұрын
A topic that's running in most homes with children settled abroad. Nice to hear and see(comments) different perspectives. Though we all mature with age and try to let go of our prejudistic attitudes, there are always circumstances that makes things unconducive for elders sometimes. Nobody is at fault, these circumstances are the way of life when you have 3 generations inside the same house. I sometimes tell my mom , "amma be prepared to live with us , one thing is you can not just walk out when you want to get some air to feel better after a disagreement with -5c outside". In an ideal situation, I would have lived in India staying closeby taking care of my parents. Unfortunately there is no right solution here, mostly the elders have to compromise and live with their children and grand children. Myself and my paati who lived with us were so close to eachother, the best granddaughter she can ever have but all drama started when paati started fighting for TV to watch Ramayanam and I wanted to watch some other show. See what I mean by 3 generations?!
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