As a non-Muslim this was so interesting to watch!! Thank you guys for always being honest about the expectations in your religion and cultures. The respect/fathers expectation and protectiveness is the pretty much the same all over the world and across different religions, but I really admire how you're willing to wait for years for your parents' acceptance of the marriage and the lengths that the future husband will go to in order to marry the woman he obviously loves and adores. From my faith to yours, God bless ❤️
@quilliamattari2772
8 жыл бұрын
What's your background?
@slicenrice
8 жыл бұрын
You guys were on the side of our video as a suggested video! We are in an interracial relationship as well and it's refreshing to see you both creating a video about the topic and answering questions :) Being black and asian you can imagine how contrasty we are!
@zinebbenjelloun697
8 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this video even if not interested in the subject, just because you love those two ❤️
@mouzaalw8717
8 жыл бұрын
+Zineb Benjelloun Wajdi me
@firozadeacon8182
8 жыл бұрын
+Zineb Benjelloun Wajdi meeeeee :) haha
@beigelover95
8 жыл бұрын
me loooool. not interested in an interracial relationship but thryre amazing
@maryamahmad4771
8 жыл бұрын
meeeee
@aisha9154
8 жыл бұрын
+Iqra Dahir we meet again
@Sarapeaches23
8 жыл бұрын
Interracial marriages are beautiful. Two races coming together for the sake of Allah, MashaAllah.
@mash8349
5 жыл бұрын
Never Mind their also haram so why even be a muslim at that point
@maz4488
5 жыл бұрын
@@mash8349 What?
@king-jaffyjoe7724
5 жыл бұрын
Mash I’ve never heard anything about that from a Sheikh or Imam say that. Where is your proof?
@Punicia
2 жыл бұрын
@@mash8349 You’re going to be punished for twisting the Quran’s words by saying that it is haram. That is completely untrue and you will pay.
@iqras1619
8 жыл бұрын
"Just kiss ass... As much as possible" 😂😂
@merhh3
8 жыл бұрын
I think this generation, of 20 year olds will be the ones to break this ridiculous ban on interracial marriages!! insha'Allah, I most certainly will allow my children to marry outside of the culture
@leilakabgrad123
8 жыл бұрын
Inshallah. I'm really young right now but I have a feeling that I will probably marry a non Syrian considering I live in America
@quilliamattari2772
8 жыл бұрын
+Leila Kabbani That's awesome. You don't come across many Syrians who want that. And honestly, I'm 20 now but since a very small age I always wanted to marry a Syrian girl for some odd reason. I don't know why, just been there since an early age haha and I make dua for it nearly every day :p
@leilakabgrad123
8 жыл бұрын
Thats cool. why are you so interested in Syrians? Where are you from? Dua is the best way to go
@leilakabgrad123
7 жыл бұрын
Inshallah you will find the right girl. There are some Syrians in the UK
@reezis1619
5 жыл бұрын
@Khan Hossain Syrian people have europeic DNA from colonisation they are super beautiful, many of them are hard working and well raised aswell, most syrians I know are doctors or dentists. Who wouldn't want that? Superior genetics and intelligent people
@murlyssnippets1964
8 жыл бұрын
I am married to a Palestinian, I'm American/Mexican...crazy household! We get our languages mixed up.."Que quieres..yallah!" : )
@samerkhatib4089
8 жыл бұрын
Lol
@gibrankhan2174
8 жыл бұрын
+Irma E *Arabic + Spanish = Arabish*
@nyancake123
8 жыл бұрын
Aw that's so cute
@nyancake123
7 жыл бұрын
***** arab isnt a race.
@AnnzzLyfe
5 жыл бұрын
Ma’Sha’Allah
@sabahfirdous1742
8 жыл бұрын
your father is a lucky man to have you as a daughter and Sid as a son-in-law
@hijabahmad2813
8 жыл бұрын
I feel like it's much easier for a Pakistani man to convince his parents to marry a girl from a different race than for a Pakistani woman to marry a guy from a different race.
@ressay01
7 жыл бұрын
i think that's true....sadly
@minasbaguette889
6 жыл бұрын
Three of my cousins married white guys, its pretty chill
@Ali-hc8ns
6 жыл бұрын
@@minasbaguette889 then they are "Baigrat" .. Stick to your people only
@rdflower7025
3 жыл бұрын
@@Ali-hc8ns if they are Muslim why does it matter ? Havent many people been mixing for centuries
@sweetsalara
8 жыл бұрын
I think it's so important for parents to realize once their kid is born in a country, no matter what the parents roots are, the kids associate more with the country they're born in. A kid can be American, UK, Canadian born or wherever but ethnically be Somali, Indian, Russian, Tunisian.. blah blah.. but they'll feel more attached to their country of birth. especially if deen comes first, then it makes it a lot easier to relate to someone of a different background.
@Ubahamina
8 жыл бұрын
+sweetsalara It depends, it can also be that you can be born & raised abroad (& then come to the West) but have similar cultures and then be likely accept interracial marriage more easily than others.
@MsLoverPower
8 жыл бұрын
You're such a cute couple! Man, I follow so many muslims and muslim couples here on youtube :) It's ridiculous to hear people bashing muslims like they know each and everyone of you... If they did know just some of you, their perspective would change. I'm not a muslim and I might disagree with some of muslim practices, but hey, it's a free world, and in the end we're all human beings and we should respect each other! Peace&love to you & your families ;)
@shind2374
8 жыл бұрын
That's such a lovely comment, very thoughtful of you.. Thank you 🙂☺️
@aishu247
8 жыл бұрын
I feel the same, exact way!
@mpistache
8 жыл бұрын
+MsLoverPower Peace & Love to you and your family too :) !!!!
@01251987116957
8 жыл бұрын
Ditto!.... God bless Sid+Dina, love y'all.
@MahamKhan-w8h
8 жыл бұрын
still waiting for the comeback on dina...he's lowkey waiting for her to forget and then he'll attack..watch out Dina..protect your make up😭😩
@Mali.Princess
8 жыл бұрын
Lol
@MahamKhan-w8h
8 жыл бұрын
OMG I CALLED IT xjaiiziaoaoaoa
@vanillaabeanfrap
8 жыл бұрын
DAMN U WERE RIGHT OMG
@AbiGodinha
8 жыл бұрын
+786 Maysun That's exactly what happened hahaha
@AbiGodinha
8 жыл бұрын
+786 Maysun That's exactly what happened hahaha
@aisha9154
8 жыл бұрын
Sid : "his dad will be like ok ok he's got some of that fire" 😂😂😂😂
@HelloSalamNamaste
8 жыл бұрын
I think this is with the majority of Pakistani families, and I only say this because I am one. Pakistani families tend to clash, not mix, clash traditions&culture with Islam, or their religion. It's not right. My family does that all the time and it really annoys me when I provide them with Quranic text /Hadith that support what I say and they disregard it because it's not their 'culturee'. 😑😞 Its gets really frustrating at times so I just do what I believe is right, according to what Allah (swt) has said. #fedup #asians.
@HassanNadeem
8 жыл бұрын
+Zoya Salim I am a Pakistani and I am confused. Could you give me an example of when Pakistani culture clashes with Islam?
@maryamqureshi6363
8 жыл бұрын
+Zoya Salim i totally agree with you!
@sam0307
8 жыл бұрын
+Hassan Nadeem an example would be that the daughter in law has to live with her husband's family, and serve them. in Islam the daughter in law is not obligated to serve anybody apart from her own parents and her husband. it is her husband's responsibility to look afeter his own parents not the daughter in laws. also some pakistani mother in laws put a restriction on how often the daughter in law can visit her own parents, when in Islam it is our duty to take care of our parents and Allah will question us about this. Another example would be some pakistani families don't like their daughter in law working, when islamically she has the right to work. there are loads more examples such as big weddings in some cultures are not allowed in Islam (wasting money etc)
@sam0307
8 жыл бұрын
+Hassan Nadeem also the most dangerous relationship of a wife is with her brother in law. I have seen some many situations where the woman is living with her brother in law, and they are alone in house, or if she needs a lift somewhere then it is deemed acceptable for the brother in law to take her. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) warned us of this relationship because people don't realise that the brother in law is non mahram and he can't be in the same room with his brothers wife without her mahram present. From my experience Pakistanis don't even acknowledge this and some cases i have seen the husband moving in with his brother even though he can afford to live separately, just to please his family and avoid conflicts. islamically if you can afford to live separately then you should, otherwise you need to provide your wife with her own room, kitchen and bathroom.
@ruksathahmed8375
8 жыл бұрын
+Zoya Salim Bengalis do this too and it's actually the most annoying thing ever!
@beautylover40
8 жыл бұрын
"3 secs" "oh they flew out" couldn't help but laugh 😭
@habonali4536
8 жыл бұрын
Am I then only one whose dad does not care too much about who I marry but my mum is the more stern one?
@duskylake3804
8 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, ME TOO ! my dad is cool with LITERALLY EVERYTHING but my mom is the complete opposite
@mahmoodbilal3316
8 жыл бұрын
+Missy Ayy Yes!!!
@elmanasima5371
8 жыл бұрын
+Missy Ayy yyyup
@maz4488
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂 For me I think it's because my dad would be awkward talking about marriage and the opposite sex with his daughter. I'm more than OK with that 😅
@syedhaniraza
8 жыл бұрын
Lol where you from?
@poisonedchalice
8 жыл бұрын
Great advice mA! Now a video re: the first year of marriage, PLEASE!!!!!!! X
@thelightness422
8 жыл бұрын
The thing is if his father does a surprise visit, the father will allow him to enter the house and will be hospitable but he will think that he is extremely rude. I am Egyptian as well, and I can guarantee that any surprise guests are welcomed but they definitely leave a negative impression. Some people might even mention the fact that Islamically you must ask if the person is free or not because they might be in the middle of something. You must ask for permission. I think surprise outings are better. Like "oh, I didn't know you guys go to this restaurant too!" Then you can share the same table or whatever. Dina and Sid are obviously experts on interracial marriage, and marriage in general, but the reason why I am adding this comment is because I am an Egyptian living in Egypt so I thought adding my two cents might help... Anyway, awesome content as usual! Love you guys!! God bless both of you, and Hana inshallah :)
@mpistache
8 жыл бұрын
+Heba Ghoneim Yeah I agree. The surprise outing is a great idea!
@thelightness422
8 жыл бұрын
+Maïssa Pistache Thank you :)
@SohailJafar1
8 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! I've got Pakistani decent
@myusernameisyara
6 жыл бұрын
The Lightness it depends on your family's culture. For some families this happens all the time and it's acceptable. Others, like yours, do not tolerate this act. But, to be fair, the father of the spouse did ask for a meeting so him coming to the house is not too much of a surprise
@saami9606
8 жыл бұрын
As I always say, Deen over culture ANY DAY!! Its fine to have culture but once it clashes with Deen, then why are you still doing it?? We are all equal at the end of the day, so people who strongly hold onto their culture and think its the best shit in town, really need a reality check, cos you're culture isn't what's gonna get you into Jannah mate. Alhamdullilah I come from a family where marrying outside your ethnicity isn't shocking :)
@atlasnaqvi7176
6 жыл бұрын
Found myself nodding along to this 😅 It took me (a Pakistani) and my partner (Afghan) 7 years to convince my dad but there was no movement until the 3 men were in the same room together. It's our Nikah this Sunday Inshallah ✨
@Theshowoffcollector
6 жыл бұрын
Gender?
@arabsoul17
8 жыл бұрын
It's sad that parents these days still are so keen on marrying within the same culture and country. Alhamdulillah for my family, I'm Palestinian Lebanese Sunni and my husband is Iraqi Shia. But he's MUSLIM! I'm MUSLIM. That should be enough! We pray, we fast, and we celebrate Eid on THE SAME DAY. Inshallah parents for those wanting to marry out of their culture or a different sect in Islam will become easier.
@rosykhan590
8 жыл бұрын
well if it takes her 4 years to convince her dad and she is 20 now, its not so bad lol. Marrying at 24 is a good age to be married I think. In the time being families can get to know each other, meet up and understand each others culture, like sid and dina said. The unknown is always scary but once you start to become familiar with different traditions, you are more likely to accept the other person. It will also help reduce any anxiety your father or mother may have about their child moving into a family from a different racial group or culture. It will help them to see, if they can adjust so can their child.
@leilakabgrad123
8 жыл бұрын
Yeah they can spend multiple Ramadans and Eids together
@Suwaiba
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 at the prayer part at the end. #Replaying 🙌 You guys are great! I can only imagine Sid and Dina plotting and shuffling around (#Persistence) to ensure this lovely unity occurred. ❤️
@edwardfaj
8 жыл бұрын
I watched the whole video and it made me feel like the advice was for me😂😂 , im a completely different culture, I'm single, and I don't have a dad... but the concentration I showed for their advice was out of this world. I even started writing notes.
@aryaa3998
8 жыл бұрын
I really want an interracial marriage
@bboykebob
8 жыл бұрын
+mataozil she talkin bout marriage not a drive through
@WhiteOreotastic
8 жыл бұрын
+Grandseeker haha
@bboykebob
8 жыл бұрын
Pashtun Nationalist that makes no sense. Clearly the game is pretty hard for u so good luck. I'm blessed to be Punjabi Pak lol Pashtunistan wtf??
@bboykebob
8 жыл бұрын
mataozil and good better prepare to receive her brothers too they come with the full deal. Good luck fam but it might be too much for u too handle.
@laly2237
8 жыл бұрын
same.
@symkoko1776
8 жыл бұрын
I wonder how many young muslim people have this problem😄 anyone ?
@rizwanarani7061
8 жыл бұрын
Man you guys make the best couple!!!!! Mashallah Hana or (Hannah) is so lucky to have parents like you both. You should totally do some meet ups... I'd be there!
@thaaks.i8859
8 жыл бұрын
"first year of marriage" video pleeeeease!!!
@jihanekasbi6913
8 жыл бұрын
What if both families don't even speak the same language 😭😭 ??
@cieratime389
8 жыл бұрын
The struggle😩😩
@eduardon.289
8 жыл бұрын
+Devotedly Mine amazing :DD
@antariowoods2372
8 жыл бұрын
mine My gf is my translator
@lane928
8 жыл бұрын
+Devotedly Mine im in the same situation heheheh , its funny
@jihanekasbi6913
8 жыл бұрын
lane ghiz the real struggle
@jahmed8963
8 жыл бұрын
YAAY! Highlight of my day 🎉🙌🏽👌🏼
@mahimaquraishi2876
8 жыл бұрын
Love your advices guys. With a good attitude like that where you try and keep your parents on your side too, gives you their blessing and inshaallah you can be happier in your marriage!
@chilbeli27
8 жыл бұрын
I love how you guys give advice. It's like a heart to heart conversation with the person who is asking for advice :)
@amberz.9431
8 жыл бұрын
I literally get more excited for these videos than I do for any tv show; please never stop doing these
@NukiMinnieNona
8 жыл бұрын
the "father talk to father" thing is very helpful. it is basically how I got married to my husband. My father was against our marriage because my husband was "very young" and still in collage. we waited a couple of years and then he got his father talk to my father and uncle. and that is how it happened. :) hope you guys all the best!
@yaseen385
8 жыл бұрын
"They flew out.." Looool😂😂😂
@ohitsaisha
8 жыл бұрын
this is why openly being with the guy first must be so much easier, like it baffles me how people will just get married it's literally 0-100
@ladefuxkingda
8 жыл бұрын
Refreshed my subscriptions box and got excited you guys put up a new video!!! 🙌☺️☺️
@zuairdotcom
8 жыл бұрын
i love how at the end of the video you guys gave useful information and tips to everyone and not just specifically to the lady who sent the email, bc that was so useful!
@Muneerawesome
8 жыл бұрын
My mother is Indonesian and my father is Indian, and while they're both Muslims, they both come from totally different cultural backgrounds. Even after 25 years of marriage, sometimes I can still see them trying to work around the cultural and traditional differences that are already implanted deep within them. So I see why most people choose to marry others of a similar culture. Because it takes a lot of determination and faith to work around these differences. I grew up in Singapore so I'm not very familiar with - neither do I practice fully - both their cultures. I just think that ultimately, while culture and tradition play a role in the type of person you end up being, we are Muslims first before anything else. Just as long as you put Islam (or whatever your faith is) before culture or tradition, I think you'll be okay marrying someone of a different race.
@fazilaa786
8 жыл бұрын
sid gives clear and straight up advice should let him participate more as video drags
@smileymariyam
8 жыл бұрын
You've scared me off marriage completely by going on about how scary the first year of marriage can be. Maybe make a video on that and get it done and dusted so it's out of the way? 😂😂
@aykay8721
8 жыл бұрын
Literally in middle of trying all these tips and tricks.. Since past 2 and a half years! NOTHING is working with my dad, and we're both Pakistani.. 😧.. It's just pure ego and it's definitely not the right way to go about from my dad's side.. It's literally all my family and his family Vs Dad.. Duas people =(
@aykay8721
8 жыл бұрын
Oh and ps.. He tries calling and texting dad.. They all get blanked.. How embarrassing ey.
@aerith12final
8 жыл бұрын
+Ay Kay All the best to you. Keep trying.
@astridnuhr3554
4 жыл бұрын
@@aykay8721 did it work out?
@russelindia
8 жыл бұрын
Father himself marries a different culture , but he is preventing daughter , what kind of person he is ? This is just disgusting. Moreover , In Islam there is NO caste or race , its Ummah. Its sad to see Muslims still hold on to the mind set of jahilliya.
@911beats
3 жыл бұрын
Arabs look down on South asians, thats why it was Difficult for her to marry him, whilst him marrying a white woman wasn't an issue, neither was her twin marrying a white man
@sendmemoneythanks
3 жыл бұрын
@@911beats count in Desi Muslims too so effing annoying
@m4lt353r5
8 жыл бұрын
I think the fact that Sid has Hana and is now a dad himself makes him so much more apt at giving out advice on this topic. You guys are such and adorable couple Maashallah 👊
@NadiaAli1
8 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on the first year of marriage and how to know when you're ready for marriage and maybe if you know anything about it, arranged marriages?
@chynafields6989
8 жыл бұрын
Best advice you guys have ever given. Getting a dad to agree on marriage for his daughter, eldest daughter at that, is like trying to build a snowman in the dead of summer. I think this will be great for the two who intend to get married!
@beigelover95
8 жыл бұрын
i love how u said respect your parents and be kind
@obama8452
4 жыл бұрын
I see u on every muslim intercultural vid :p
@myheartttt873
7 жыл бұрын
I'm not muslim, Im European and married another European. My dad didnt allow this since he has another nationality but like Sid said, you have to work with your mom. My mom really helped me to convince my dad and now we are happily together.
@sehrishh8405
8 жыл бұрын
"MUST FEED HIM" ahhahhahahahah so true
@Habibti114477
4 жыл бұрын
I'm Egyptian and Russian and married an American Scottish and Irish man. Interracial relationship has its challenges but it's totally worth it. Love learning about each other and blending the cultures
@AliBanana1493
8 жыл бұрын
my Iranian Muslim dad married my Italian/Spanish mom whos Roman Catholic and my mom didnt convert to Islam. my dad's family at first tried to sabotage the marriage and were horrible to my mom but it was more because they wanted him to marry an Iranian girl, not so much about Islam. most of my family in Iran arent that religious but have to pretend they are bc of the laws. but many Iranians sadly have superiority complexes and look down upon other cultures
@wintervein6086
8 жыл бұрын
salam alaikum sister, I am also half iranian :)
@AliBanana1493
8 жыл бұрын
+WinterVein salam :) cool! whats your other half?
@mrhassanali3297
7 жыл бұрын
Mango Conchile Did your parents marriage happen in Iran or somewhere else?
@Saraet91
8 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS SO GOOD ! love the Iqama and Lead/Imam advice, so funny. All the best to you two InshAllah! and the couple asking for the advice obvs..
@themanecareactor1512
8 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you 😭🙌🏽 I'm loving these advice videos
@Aldsea
8 жыл бұрын
What if your partner is a revert/convert and his/her parents can't really come and talk to your parents? :(
@lovinglife495
8 жыл бұрын
I keep getting distracted by Sid's eyes, it looks as if he's wearing eyeliner....
@sabrinab.3028
8 жыл бұрын
He's not wearing any, but even if he was its sunnah in Islam (i.e practices of the Prophet Muhammad PBUH) for men to wear eyeliner.
@fullafulla4102
8 жыл бұрын
Sabrina B. not eye liner but real kuhl
@user-zn6yp3md6k
8 жыл бұрын
+fulla fulla it is haram because it was first intended for women
@lovinglife495
8 жыл бұрын
+Sabrina B. It looks good on him, was what I was trying to get at lol
@sabrinab.3028
8 жыл бұрын
+fulla fulla yeah, Kuhl. I said eyeliner just in case anybody wouldn't understand what Kuhl meant.
@o0OHermioneO0o
8 жыл бұрын
Oh dear :D My boyfriend and I are of different cultures and even religions (Christianity and Islam), but it would never get that complicated, thank God! My mum even got informed about how we could marry in a religious ceremony, because a civil marriage just "is not enough" (according to her). :D
@sherwetmhd39
8 жыл бұрын
I thought Sid was going to say something wise at 18:19 and I leaned forward for this really awesome advice i'll save too for when I have a daughter inshallah then he said 'basically.. just kiss ass' and I leaned back and loled
@M95007
8 жыл бұрын
It's nice how you both always use your own experiences to give advice. Very inspirational.
@naseerahvj
7 жыл бұрын
Egypt and Pakistan actually have A LOT in common. Even my egyptian husband says he always feels a closeness to pakistanis. I'm from n American/Anglo/Desi backround, my husband is egyptian. both cultures are strong and not going away lol, so yah our family is weird.
@salimyasini3100
Жыл бұрын
I was having a challenge. Met someone Indonesian, and I'm African. Desperately needed guidance on how to combat this narrative. Strangely, Alhamdulilah im seeing guidance and so many vids like this pop up
@MahamKhan-w8h
8 жыл бұрын
FINALLY...ANOTHAAA ONEEEEE❤️❤️
@jeremyh9213
8 жыл бұрын
hahahaha! Ma sha Allah! You guys are awesome. Guys, please make dua that we all can get married and have joy! May Allah grant y'all Jannah and righteous children! ameen!
@aichanoor
8 жыл бұрын
I didn't understand one part. Dina your dad married an English woman. If he's against to interracial marriage than why he married your mom ? I would never thought your dad will think like this. He knows it can be work. That's my question mark 😁
@aichanoor
8 жыл бұрын
Ooh maybe because Sid is Pakistani ? Would English man be okay?
@UndercoverMuffinz
8 жыл бұрын
im guessing you didnt finish watching the video before commenting? lol
@aichanoor
8 жыл бұрын
+Mel O I did 🙈 oh my English is poor
@Rachel-su3ir
8 жыл бұрын
+Mel O I watched it all but it didn't make sense. I don't understand what she means. Can u explain
@wardabaten6339
8 жыл бұрын
+Rema Sa it's because Sid is Pakistani. Most south Asian Muslims are so stuck with their own culture that they are very difficult with marriage with another culture, even if they r Muslim. I mean I know people have been disowned by their parents because of it as well as them being accepted.
@BushraYusf
8 жыл бұрын
"all o' you... GANG UP ON 'IM.... GANG UP ON 'IM INNIT and be like WHAT THE HELL is your PROBLEM!!!"
@oreoss196
8 жыл бұрын
"that's dads in general". Sid you do know your a dad as well
@loreleiletslivetogether3767
8 жыл бұрын
I am in USA, and I never had this problem. When I got married, I just took my birth certificate to the county recorders office and got married. My father found out I had been married four months later. There was no "sales" presentation.
@umelkayeryusuf496
7 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but that's very veryyy sad! 😥 Your dad doesn't deserve that. But I don't know the situation so I can't be talking
@syedhaniraza
7 жыл бұрын
Laurel Anderson In Islam father's permission is required for marriage except if he is mentally disturbed. Since you are non muslim, so you did fine on your side.
@parmvirdi2336
8 жыл бұрын
"woah, they flew out!" 😂😂😂
@oftroy000
8 жыл бұрын
ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years too. hes african (south sudanese) and im croatian but we both live in Australia. my dad pretends he doesnt exist now but before veins would pop out of his head. im loosing hope that they can ever have a normal relationship..... :(
@NordpolPinguin
7 жыл бұрын
Hi guys, I also need a little bit of advice on this topic. I'm Turkish and my future husband is Pakistani. We both live in Germany, but his family is in Pakistan. We can't do the "bring them all together"-part, obviously....it is going to be really hard to communicate because his family only speaks Urdu... We communicate in English, because his German is not that fluent. Any idea how we could tackle this?
@Theshowoffcollector
6 жыл бұрын
Update?
@teabeans3273
8 жыл бұрын
theyre honestly my favorite youtubers, i strive to have a relationship as open and great as theirs!
@hsp18
8 жыл бұрын
if your dads issues are purely issues with culture, you need to sit down with him and find out what his concerns are. As a non-pakistani your dads views on pakistanis and pakistani culture probably stem from what he has heard or what he thinks pakistani culture is about. He may not actually have any direct contact with any pakistanis or understand their culture at all. which is why he should be allowed to voice his concerns and you or your husband to be, or your husband to be's father can talk to him and put these concerns/thoughts/worries at ease.
@toorkhan9898
7 жыл бұрын
Those who don't know Pakistan is not a country of one people, one race or one culture. Its a multi ethnic, multi-language country having their own distinctive culture. Guy from Peshawar most probably have Pashtun/Pathan/Afghan ethnicity.
@saraahmed695
8 жыл бұрын
I was listening so carefully to the advice like i need it LOL i dont ! i m happily married Alhumdulillah ! Love the videos
@wagwurrn01
8 жыл бұрын
Same I'm married don't know why I listened w full concentration lol
@bilalsardar3570
8 жыл бұрын
+wagwurrn01 We listened because we were curious how are they gonna answer this one :P
@leilakabgrad123
8 жыл бұрын
I'm not even close to getting married in the next 5 years and I was listening closely too
@SumayyahAkhter
8 жыл бұрын
You guys are seriously on fire with uploading videos!!
@remaalawi
8 жыл бұрын
make istikhara and see how things flow
@peacefulvibez8694
8 жыл бұрын
I know, sad they never spoke about istikhara
@a1mz194
7 жыл бұрын
ju mp istikhara shouldn't be used for marriage I feel personally
@remaalawi
7 жыл бұрын
MZ R1 istikhara should be used for any major decisions
@StinisWorld
4 жыл бұрын
It is always good to hear about the experiences of other people. I am a german revert and the man I want to marry is from Yemen, where his family is really traditional. It is so difficult, it comes all together, me just reverted, being german, the language and the distance. Inshallah, they will accept me and allow us to get married.
@Yasmin-mj2rc
8 жыл бұрын
The instructions at the end had me dying 😂😂
@malikahe5003
8 жыл бұрын
MAASHALLAH ...this topic was soooo inspiring on many levels...subahaanallah, like to be honest i dont even look at cultural differences or race when i look at the two of you, i find it silly people that actually takes notice of that jazz, if two people just "click" to me thats already amazing.., like it gets to a stage where its not about "physical appearance" anymore, you just discovering yourself through your better HALF, you guys are just the definition of the whole sentence >>"its meant to be"
@madihahyousaf3293
8 жыл бұрын
Please do a first year of marriage video!!!! Ps love your advice videos!!! Fave couple Mashallah!!!!!
@Mcnat_Jimingurl90
8 жыл бұрын
I'm currently in an interracial relationship with a Muslim from Kuwait and I'm a Christian from Malaysia and we have been together for 1 year 8 months now..We both met in college back in 2010 when he was in Malaysia since 2008 and we only graduated with Degree in 2013 but studied different courses, he's 27 and I'm 25 😊😊😊 No rush into marriage yet but we just want to concentrate on our relationship
@nasrineable
8 жыл бұрын
Mashallah guys you're awesome may Allah bless your little family. Ameen.
@JunaidSalehHayat
8 жыл бұрын
I just came across your channel! It's a fun Muslim family channel! Thank you, and keep it up!! Love and best wishes from Pakistan!
@amberamber100
8 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute. I hope my marriage will be like yours! X
@LaGitana87
8 жыл бұрын
What's fascinating is that if it was the man's family who didn't accept the girl, all this doesn't apply. It's much more sensitive when the situation is flipped (I was the "outsider" culture but only by a small fraction, my father is Latino, my mother is Egyptian and my husband is full Egyptian). For example, it isn't appropriate in Egyptian culture for the future wife to just constantly call her future mother in law who hates her. There's a huge thing in the culture where a girl can't be making the first move with her in laws, they have to come to her family. It's much easier to convince a family of a future husband than a future wife. I imagine if I called my mother in law during the phase where she hated my guts she would have just assumed I was some brash girl moving in on her son. She would not have seen it as a sign of me being friendly. In fact, I did go over to dinner once before anything was formal (at her insistence) and she used that later to show that I obviously must have gone against my parents wishes and was too eager for marriage hence I must have has ulterior motives.
@bintmohammed2873
8 жыл бұрын
woah how unforunate... May Allah swt guide us all Ameen and make Allah swt make it easy for you to get married to who is good for you Ameen if he really likes you he will back you up no matter what...
@sherbanohussain7961
8 жыл бұрын
When dina says BABA soo cute!!!
@dawood_619
8 жыл бұрын
"Your face is annoying me" LMAO Sid's banter though! 😂
@99minty99
8 жыл бұрын
I swear the hat and scarf fight makes me laugh tooooo much in almost every video 😂
@Yasmin-ye8nh
8 жыл бұрын
2 days without a video is too much! Your videos are the highlight of my day! ♡
@milkglassfairy7641
8 жыл бұрын
My problem is my partner is Hazara, his whole family is in Afghanistan and Iran but he has regular contact. I'm a revert. He says his family will accept me if we get married because they want him to choose his own wife, be in a loving marriage. But you know he thinks that but I have a child from a previous relationship (also a Hazara guy), my family isn't Muslim, I don't speak their language... There's just so many things that I don't believe they'll be able to accept and so what are we going to do I mean we can just lie to them since they'll most likely never actually meet me for reals but I don't want to do that. It's actually quite a hard situation to be in.
@wintervein6086
8 жыл бұрын
salam alaikum. I really hope they are accepting of you, you should skype call them or something or talk with them online. Hazaras have a cool culture.
@tengkuain5829
5 жыл бұрын
Ahh you guys reminded me those days when i had to convince my parents that i would like to marry my husband, i am the first in d family to break the tradition to marry someone out of culture and race. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@SohailJafar1
8 жыл бұрын
We can only imagine how Sid is gonna act when they will have to give hanna away in like 20-30 years 😂😂😂😂
@noufissaa
7 жыл бұрын
I just love you guys! Hannah is going to be awesome insha Allah, I mean I am sure she already is but even more when she grows up.
@leemee999
8 жыл бұрын
omg dina i didn't know you're a twin! identical or fraternal?
@aryaa3998
8 жыл бұрын
Fraternal
@user-zn6yp3md6k
8 жыл бұрын
She did a twin tag btw
@yasminh9398
6 жыл бұрын
A.A what's the difference between the two? Sorry if I'm being a bit naïve.
@shawnmendeshabibti1071
6 жыл бұрын
Yasmine it’s just how u look🤷🏽♀️ xx
@yasminh9398
6 жыл бұрын
Shawn Mendes’ Habibti thanks :)
@trichmomma
8 жыл бұрын
Sid said,"They flew out!" #savage #nochill 😂😂
@hpatisseries
8 жыл бұрын
sid had alot of fun on this one ahahaa
@aerith12final
8 жыл бұрын
The ending when you guys were talking about the prayer, Sid made me cry buckets with that "OOOOOOH, He got some of that fire" XD
@AX-dg8iq
8 жыл бұрын
Perfect way to end my day😍👑❤️
@alwayslookingtogrow
8 жыл бұрын
I love how passionate you both were in this video!
@nzstar5740
8 жыл бұрын
I want a interracial marriage...but I know my dad won't let me
@spicerice3383
8 жыл бұрын
I really liked this video, the advice was great. I kind of had to laugh at some parts tho - I'm Arab and I can totally see myself going through this situation. "Arabs are stubborn and protective" tell me about it! but I loved this. especially when sid was like, "he'll say, 'look at this ahmar'" lol!
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