Most people would think this man couldn’t teach them anything. As a 24 year old black dude from Houston I’ve gained so much perspective and insight watching this man’s videos. You can gain so much knowledge from anyone if you’re willing to listen.
@thecowboy9698
Жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head: "If you're willing to listen." People who don't or who won't listen, they will never grow as people, and you're wasting your time trying to talk to them. Like for example, I was going with this woman a while back, and my truck broke down, it was a major repair and cost me a lot of money that I couldn't afford to spend after buying the parts, so I decided to do it myself, and I explained my situation to her, and yet all she did was criticize me, like when I would update her on how the repair was going, and she just continued to mock me when I told her the certain issues I was running into trying to do it, saying, "you don't know if that's the problem you're not a mechanic," and stuff like that. Well, through diligent research, patience, and with some help from my dad, I was able to get it fixed, in fact when I took it in to have it realigned, they told me they couldn't find a single problem with job my dad and I did. During the course of that time, like Dwayne said: "Pick your battles," I finally realized that with her attitude, her scorn, not just directed at me but also my dad when I talked to her, the latter which is a huge, "HELL NO," in my book, I realized there was no point in dealing with her anymore. The point is, you have to know which battles are worth fighting, and when it's best to just walk away.
@digitalcamaro9708
Жыл бұрын
I'm a black man from NC and I agree. He actually reminds me of my uncles and grandfather with the way he presents information and wisdom. No way in hell someone with his years will go unheard around me. That's a goldmine.
@shanereynolds8651
Жыл бұрын
I'm a 26 year old transsexual from the UK and I watch too. Originally it was because his accent is so exotic to me lol but tbh he usually says helpful stuff as well...my faves were the advices about their marriage. Wish I'd found those in my last rship but oh well. Better luck next time.
@Peakfreud
Жыл бұрын
Welp since this is the thread where minorities check in, Bi Racial inner city Blk,Irish dude from the Bronx here.
@hectorvelazquez9367
Жыл бұрын
I also gain a lot by hearing his videos.
@Arno1911
Жыл бұрын
This man has single-handedly helped so many men I've nothing but respect for you sir 🍺
@usware5240
Жыл бұрын
minus the religious disappointments
@grits_taste_good415
Жыл бұрын
@@usware5240Please elaborate
@PrairieChickenCO
Жыл бұрын
***and women***
@mars4105
Жыл бұрын
@@usware5240 what's wrong with religious people?
@Ouachita.Mule.School
Жыл бұрын
That’s right.
@blessedbackpacker222
Жыл бұрын
"you pick the battle that you can win today". noted sir.
@bronsongross
Жыл бұрын
I began changing recently. Wasn’t particularly even focused on trying. I just was sitting quietly, reflecting on some choices, and habits I don’t like, and just as the snake sheds it’s skin, I put down pot, some other chemicals, and told every “friend” I had, that wasn’t living a clean, healthy life, to lose my number. I’m used to being alone, anyways. It’s no shock to my system, but I’ve been a walking chemical dumpster, for the last two decades. What’s strange, I haven’t craved for anything, but more positive change, and chances to improve my character. I’m not going to dive head first, into the shallow end like I normally allow myself to do, instead, I’m going to make improvement, my lifestyle. I’m going to start my own channel, and be as raw, as I can, and find a healthier support system, than the drugs have left me with. Hope to see y’all, soon.
@samjubran7315
Жыл бұрын
You are awesome! Wishing you all the best...keep it slow and steady...one step at a time!
@ronprice2127
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how its done ....
@helenakurcewiczowna6695
Жыл бұрын
Good luck friend! :-)))
@LuisTorres-zv7vi
Жыл бұрын
Keep on keeping on brother! You got this! May god bless you
@larryjonn1973
Жыл бұрын
Good on you, it makes me think, I hear all the time people saying once an addict always an addict, and that, put simply isn't such a black and white statement, its a statement made by people that dont consider more perspectives it is down to the individual and you can't pool a whole group of people by such a saying, there are better things to life. You know the right decisions to make and it looks like you have, good on you, keep it up.
@genedove2792
Жыл бұрын
My dear sweet wife of over 34 years (God rest her soul) always said to me when I would get upset with one of our kids, she would say honey you need to pick your battles. It’s gonna be okay. We can deal with this when you’re not so upset. Of course, she was always right. Unfortunately, she was killed while out on an afternoon walk by a hit and run driver who left her in the ditch to die. I miss her terribly and I miss her wisdom. BTW… she loved her horses and we rode trails together often. Thank you Dwayne for your wisdom and soft spoken words of encouragement.
@TashaRansomArt
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for what happened to your wife. A cruel loss. It's nice that you have those good memories of her, thank you for sharing some. It keeps them with us when we remember. ❤
@charlesstepinski9327
Жыл бұрын
Awe. sorry to hear that, sorry for your loss sir. I know it doesn't change what happened please tell me they caught the person? !
@genedove2792
Жыл бұрын
@@charlesstepinski9327 they know who did it but he has not had to go to trial. There’s another hearing coming up in July so I can only hope that the judge will decide to let the case proceed to trial. It’s been 490 days and I’m really starting to lose faith in our judicial system. Thank you for your response….
@genedove2792
Жыл бұрын
@@TashaRansomArt thank you.
@charlesstepinski9327
Жыл бұрын
@Gene Dove i wish you well, and hope for the best outcome. continue being persistent. Even if the court system fails, by not having enough to prosecute. Well then, we're it will REALLY MATTER is when that person has to face the man upstairs. Hopefully he'll find in his heart to wanna answer to the crime
@borderlineguitarguy
Жыл бұрын
I really needed this today. My alcoholic brother is destroying my life with his behavior. Im having to choose between living in my car or being enraged by his despicable actions every night. It's unreal how awful it is living with an addict. You can't ever win the battle with a drunk. It feels like dealing with an elderly person that has dimentia. All you do is repeat yourself and all they do is forget and act confused.. it's sad. He's 42 and drinks 14 beers every night. Everyday drinker for 18 years. Ironically i suffer for his alcoholism more than he does. The irony.
@craigbarnett5992
Жыл бұрын
If something is killing you - stop doing it. I went through a lot trying to help two opiate addicted brothers. I finally realized my problem was self chosen. You can't change someone else.
@GingerBeardMan_
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to let the people closest to you go. It sounds like it would be worth taking steps to move out and get away from the situation. Even “small battles” at a time, gradually getting things in order for you to move, maybe a storage unit to slowly get your stuff out without him freaking out, find work that supports living on your own or with other roommates, then make the move. It may be a good idea to not tell him where, and make it far enough away that you won’t cross paths. If you’ve done everything you can to help him, it’s not right to let his decisions ruin your life too
@FORDLYFAOTEAROA
Жыл бұрын
Put yourself first and you will be better off for it. Learn to love the way you now have to live to get out of that situation,chase all opportunities that assist you in improving your own situation now,good things take time,you can't help those that won't help themselves.
@FukcAUsername
11 ай бұрын
I highly doubt u suffer because of his addiction more than he does. If it's that horrible for u than part ways
@sundarrajrajesh177
Жыл бұрын
I discovered your channel 2 months ago and I love it no fancy editing, music or cameras just a wise man sharing his life and wisdom ❤️❤️❤️
@vivveene
Жыл бұрын
@sundarrajrajesh177: Yes and it is this reason why I love watching his channel so much and am motivated to do the same on mine.
@razzikatta
Жыл бұрын
...No flashy headlines and not pushing anything
@leeannmansfield5254
2 ай бұрын
Battle one battle at a time.Thank you from England 🏴. Wise words .
@VoodooViking
Жыл бұрын
Ego is the problem in most things in life. Drop the ego, and most of everything will sort itself out. If all else fails you won’t have the headaches and frustrations that ensue.
@MattBerryCustom
Жыл бұрын
Sound advice 👍🏻
@burrco3086
Жыл бұрын
I had one horse. He was like my dog. After I broke him in, I didn't even know anything about breaking in horses at all..., I was very slow and easy....took me a week to put a blanket on him..I could be out in the woods , I could jump off , take a pp, never tied him to a tree. He would follow me around like a dog. My buddy said tie your horse up he's gonna leave you out here one day I said nope he won't. Then his horse broke his rope and run off, true story!!! He was more like a buddy than a horse. Great vids.
@EJGentleman
Жыл бұрын
To all the young folks. Listen very carefully especially when this very wiseman speaks about picking your battles and relationships.
@yuval2248
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dewane , for this important reminder, best wishes from the stormy middle east ,near the sea of Galilee where Jesus walked on the water, you too,be logical ,be reasonable , be safe and be kind ❤
@Shayanraj_15
Жыл бұрын
Hello sir. Im from india and i know nothing of cowboys and horses but i appreciate every bit of wisdom from you. Thank you. Please continue to post and blessing to your family.
@elizabethbrehm8996
Жыл бұрын
I live in Huntington Beach,Ca I don’t own a horse but I love listening to this man
@j.ozborne5374
Жыл бұрын
Nice to see a compassionate human being sharing his passion, thanks and good luck with Ra.
@amaranth6174
Жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to get this guy on a podcasts ❤
@jasonayres
Жыл бұрын
This is a modern adaptation of an old, old story. A theme we too often neglect, if anyone has taught us in the first place. Don't get me wrong, that's an interesting lesson about horses, too! I, for one, needed to be reminded of this theme *today* Kind regards.
@drifter50038
Жыл бұрын
Yep. I heard Buck Brannaman one time say something like; If a horse went to bucking he was disappointed. Not in the Horse but in himself. Dissappointed that he had failed to find a way, to see a way around that horses problem, without, a fight.
@illseed83
Жыл бұрын
I can listen to him speak all day. Plus his wisdom is so eye-opening
@debbiechadwick861
Жыл бұрын
I like this. Women always find each other for comfort. Men need this too. But maybe hard to find. ❤
@lalogarcia6811
3 ай бұрын
you are correct
@Kaiukes
Жыл бұрын
you lose all of the battles you never finish, picking a battle gives you a foot ground, one not only so you can walk upon but one you can conquer
@HalfWarrior
Жыл бұрын
Looks like she was saying ‘come on, you know you love me’ when you mentioned that sometimes there’s things you don’t prefer.😁👍🏻Good afternoon Dwayne and RA! Your words of picking one battle at a time certainly ring true for me; as I’m hemiplegic from a stroke; I’m 56 myself. God bless you sir.
@oldblood_eyes
Жыл бұрын
i love this man. he's like a second father to me
@lynnedear8830
2 ай бұрын
Dwayne I’m watching these amazing videos. Have posted before. Everyday empowers me. Pick the battle for the day. NOT in a book or video. One thing you and I can tackle together and fix. When I feel like we have tackled this one thing, then Move on. I have been stressing about everything for 3 years. It’s not working. I have a very primitive herding dog a belgian tervuren. He is absolutely awesome with a quick thinking brain between his ears. wants to be the boss. (Bred for protection and working) before automation and genetic research. Late 1800s Early 1900s. Thank you for this video. Overwhelmed and over powered is too much. One step at a time.
@65stang98
Жыл бұрын
I owe my life to this guy right here and a guy i met and work for thats just like him, just a little older. God bless these old cowboys. They can fix a fence, a truck, a tractor, a hay baler, and even a man. Im gonna live my life to your yalls example and pass it on.
@TheAngryHippie
Жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family Dwayne
@westenpaulsen1665
Жыл бұрын
This man and Bernard Albertsons can talk ANYBODY out of a depression time rest east Bernard🕊️
@egidijad.6119
Жыл бұрын
So true. I was so overwhelmed the other day with stuff I need to fix, I just wrote down the list, and there were around 10 things. So I started tackling one thing at the time, instead of doing it all. Thanks God, I feel in a better place, and things are moving :)
@paulorrotta5672
Жыл бұрын
Hi Duayne, I'm spectator from South Brasil. I used legends for translate. Sorry my English is really bad, but I trying. Thank you my friend. I really appreciate your's videos.
@DMTheLoopGod
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, good sir. Your effort to reach people with these messages is a force of good in this world. We appreciate it greatly.
@SueR825
Жыл бұрын
Love this guy he just cheers me up every time ❤
@CharlesMiller-fu1in
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dwayne. It's good to have a Godly man helping so many others. I wish I could shake your hand an do some choring for you sir.
@sylviemae8097
Жыл бұрын
I am so glad that she is with you now. You seem to be the most perfect fit for her! Thank you for your wisdom Dewayne. I have missed her!
@DryCreekWranglerSchool
Жыл бұрын
She’s a great little horse, I’m really enjoying her
@neutrino1543
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom, sir.
@chadwright4183
Жыл бұрын
have not been on a horse in over 25 year but our wisdom is great for all situation in life
@bengray378
9 ай бұрын
sir you are a straight shooter and you don't pull no punches i like that thank you'
@K.Adler1120
Жыл бұрын
You posted this at just the right time I thought that everything was falling apart and I got overwhelmed many times these past few months where I felt like I don’t wanna deal with it at all. I don’t wanna address it. I just want peace and quiet but watching this made me realize that in order to achieve peace and quiet, I have to know that in myself, I can handle these battles that are coming my way one at a time. Thank you for sharing your wisdom
@LibertyDino
Жыл бұрын
Story of my life. Where I live right now there is a lot of hostile stuff going on while a lot of people are ignorant about the realoty lf it. There is a battle to fight but it ain't mine. Thank you for sharing that story.
@DrewAnd-f9m
Жыл бұрын
You always upload after I’m going through something; now I kinda just hear you first before I’m about to do something stupid, or anything. Thank you for just be you, I needed to hear your words today
@jeffamburgey7485
Жыл бұрын
"I decided not to engage in that battle." That applies to many things in this life. "Pick the battle that you can win today." Just following those two quotes will solve a good percentage of all of your problems. Excellent video from an excellent human.
@bennetrussell3567
Жыл бұрын
May I just say your advice gives me peace of mind
@buckeyeblaster
Жыл бұрын
Been watching your videos on and off for some time now. Each time I watch one, I always walk away feeling better and knowing more than I did before.
@charlesstepinski9327
Жыл бұрын
I enjoy things you talk about. Thank you. It be nice to see you do a video on your property. I'd like to see a 200 acre pasture
@AscendantPhilosophy
Жыл бұрын
Knowing how (and when) to strike a compromise is a vital skill. Sometimes you simply have to give in because the world doesn’t revolve around your plans or opinions. A slow step forward is better than a big step back.
@cherylwade264
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes after you know your direction find a way to get there.
@lucidbranch3356
Жыл бұрын
My father lives overseas, and looking for advice online I found your channel. I want to sincerely thank you for the words of wisdom youve made available to so many ❤ godbless
@gigievans395
Жыл бұрын
AMEN BROTHER! PREACH IT!❤
@imranaskayoui6773
Жыл бұрын
I'm 18 yo and I'm learning so much from you! Thank you so much
@marinawilkinson5840
Ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@bribrifantastic
Жыл бұрын
I have no idea how I came across this vid but man the way you break down what you’re saying and your wisdom really resonates with me. Thank you
@Kelly-sl6vz
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing such important words of wisdom and encouragement!!! God bless you!!
@cromulentwords
Жыл бұрын
Found this channel by chance 7 months ago, right after my son was born. As a first-time mom learning on the go and wanting my kid to grow up to be well-adjusted, content, humble, respectful and wise, I very much value what I've learned here. Momma's channel is a goldmine as well.
@TamShar
Жыл бұрын
What is Momma's channel? I assume his wife's channel, but how do I find it?
@DryCreekWranglerSchool
Жыл бұрын
Dry Creek Momma
@TamShar
Жыл бұрын
@@DryCreekWranglerSchool thank you
@skeeterboombaty
Жыл бұрын
Ill tell ya, I really needed to hear this. Like, REALLY needed to hear it. Thank you. Wisdom finds its way to you doesn't it?
@GrandPitoVic
Жыл бұрын
Thank you brother. You are helping me become the man I want to be. I know we aren't born that way. We have to learn the way for us to be that way.
@WeCanSolveThis
Жыл бұрын
This guy rocks! Thanks for the wisdom partner. 🤠
@Xorked
Жыл бұрын
This video came out at the perfect time, thank you
@justinwhite3220
Жыл бұрын
Happy Father’s Day. God bless you & your family
@mammi3577
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤ love and respect for you
@theknight4317
Жыл бұрын
We're so lucky that we can listen to wise people like this man, thanks to the internet, from any part of the world at any time. I'm far away from America and probably would've never been able to listen to this man if not for the internet.
@alankeperera872
Жыл бұрын
Sincerely thank you for getting on KZitem to share your thoughts in these videos. Your wisdom really inspires young men like myself to be better men. I aspire to be strong, kind and wise like you are. Thank you Dewayne
@oscarwahlstrom5426
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! What you say makes a lot of sense. I would just like to add that sometimes there is a major battle presented to you. Just because it is major doesn't mean you should shy away from it. What I am saying is; pick your battles in the right order but don't be afraid to hold your ground when the war is at your doorstep.
@iancarlson-w8m
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful horse in what looks like a horse's paradise!
@samjubran7315
Жыл бұрын
Welcome, Ra! You are in great hands!
@OneBrightLightTN
Жыл бұрын
I enjoy your very wise words and teachings. I have learned so much from you
@drock7601
Жыл бұрын
Cool, calm, and collective... Dwayne is a true Cowboy! Much respect Sir.
@alibaba0428
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom.
@StackingIron
Жыл бұрын
Your wise brother. 24yrs old don't know anything about horses but I'd go to a class just to share a cigar and talk about life and the word.
@pablogarcesdiaz1151
Жыл бұрын
I like all your videos, but today I really needed some encouragement to keep hanging on and this really helped.
@MattBerryCustom
Жыл бұрын
Bless you Sir. Hang on in there, it gets better.
@theSimpleGeorgian
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video content. I look forward to seeing it on a regular basis.
@Maria-qm9cg
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for your words of wisdom, its serves as a good reinforcement and reminder of the things that deep inside we all know...we have to change.
@extremelydeplorablebodean839
Жыл бұрын
Good advice, sound wisdom, sure enough. As a disabled veteran I had to relearn how to live my life day to day years ago, I still have problems wanting to do more than I am able some days, ALOT of day's, & I have to remind myself tomorrow is another day, & if tomorrow never gets here then I won't need to worry about what I have to do that day. GOD BLESS 🙏 GODSPEED.
@patrickfitchjr
Жыл бұрын
So much respect! What a wise man!
@ryanallison4000
Жыл бұрын
This came at the exact right time for the exact set of circumstances I was facing. I’m a month in at a new job and it’s a start-up. Love the encouragement to fight the battle you can win today. Thank you for your channel and counsel.
@driaw7104
Жыл бұрын
I love your videos & share them with my 3 sons as well. Thank you for the words of wisdom.
@MorsOktober
Жыл бұрын
Very good advice for people of all ages. Great video! Love the podcast btw.
@Errorztx
Жыл бұрын
Not sure if you'll read this or if anyone will, but this is more for me in the end; I didn't get to where I wanted to or at least I thought I wanted career wise, but did land a job that is pretty good. This job carries a lot of responsibility, especially in regards to other people's lives; some times I feel like can't accept the responsibility mostly because I am struggling with my own mental health, and this feel like my job is getting in the way of the work that I am doing to get mentally better. I always wanted to be a hero, now that I am in a position where I can improve the lives of others, I fear the responsibility of it. Mostly the reason of this fear is because I am very unforgiving with myself, and any mistake can impact the lives of people. I recently got a promotion, but the stress & anxiety far outweighs the pay. I've seen this job make people cry, and end up being worn out due to the stress. For the amount of responsibility, and workload you're incurring on, it almost feels like a prison sentence working 20 years into your retirement. Not sure if this is what life is, but I often tell myself that there has to be a better way. I've been looking into learning new trades even though they don't pertain to what I studied which sucks since I am still in debt for my education. How you are supposed to know what you want to do for the rest of your life in your 20s is beyond me. Hope everyone is doing great, and figuring their lives out.
@dougr.6734
Жыл бұрын
My goodness, Wyoming is so beautiful. I, too, want to move from TN to WY. Soon, very soon.
@Original-Juice
Жыл бұрын
Drove through a few parts of TN and that is a really beautiful State too, at least the rural and mountainous parts. I love that part that hugs NC near Asheville, NC.
@dougr.6734
Жыл бұрын
@@Original-Juice TN definitely gets prettier as you travel west to east. West TN has very few vistas. The Memphis, Brownsville and Jackson areas have the least.
@erinmariebaker712
2 ай бұрын
Very helpful, thank you!
@tinkerlynch5276
Жыл бұрын
I am very impressed with his prospective on teaching. I have a newly gelded 7 year old who's nature has always been on the gentle side that I have to ready for 2 young boys to take over and in turn teach them that they need to practise patience and self discipline. I want to use a hackamore because of the severe cold weather in the winter and I know that won't stop the more interested of the two from hopping on for an after school ride. I hope I can do this right so both the boys will bond and develope their relationship with Meho and create a bond that will last long into their young adulthood. Even a retired horse craves their time with their people and just like older people there can still be rides, just a little slower and more care at the end of the ride not to put them away without a good grooming, maybe a little linament and a lot of conversation. Thank you for all the lessons you have given us !!!
@Home-Land_Solutions
Жыл бұрын
I love this message. Thank you sir.
@highstrangeness1824
Жыл бұрын
Our young men need mentord like this, not Andrew tate. That story keeps coming up in my life unintended. Wow. Amazing how we get the messages we need right when we need em. Thank you, for for sharing your wisdom with us.
@highstrangeness1824
Жыл бұрын
What an amazing lesson. Had my brother in law still been alive, he would look much like yourself- kind eyes and wisdom. Yes, marriage and parenting arr thr same rules of engagement, so to speak. Thank you.
@highstrangeness1824
Жыл бұрын
My battle has been temperament; allowing God to teach me to abide. Wow. Thank you so much for this.
@primaballerina84
Жыл бұрын
Man! This content adds a great amount of stoic calmness to my life And a great amount of Drive to become the best and most successful version of myself. Thank you for your work 👑🙏🏻
@raysimms427
Жыл бұрын
Man Dwayne your always spot on with your uploads can't thanks you enough for your wisdom
@J0hnBr0wnsB0dy
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Dewayne. Been having a lot of battles at work. This helps me. I'll try to pick my battle each day
@SuperKeithers
Жыл бұрын
was nice to review the pick your battles metaphor, enjoying the many metaphors of your channel good sir o7
@aaronnoffsinger5922
Жыл бұрын
A Men Brother! My back is broken in two places. It can be fixed. I wish I had the wisdom to make my health the battle to win younger. The lord has provided. You are always encouraging.
@aileenrose1651
Жыл бұрын
I needed this today- so much. Thank you!
@marciareeves5752
11 ай бұрын
She is pretty and nice. She wants your attention.
@tylerpagel9630
Жыл бұрын
Love the analogy, thank you Dwayne.
@otd2808
6 ай бұрын
Best advice I’ve heard in a minute…
@phantomfrom11
Жыл бұрын
The backgrounds always make me wanna visit a place like this, really makes it feel like your in the 1800s
@KingMinionDemon
Жыл бұрын
It's great to see you again. I enjoy your channel and updates all the time.
@bishoppoole1234
Жыл бұрын
Love your videos man. Just started training horses a few years ago and having a blast doing it couldn't ask for a better life
@destinyor8382
Жыл бұрын
Can't wait to get my horse. 1 year from now. Bakersfield Antelope valley will share his settings. Destinyor venture
@alexsmith-ob3lu
Жыл бұрын
That was beautiful! Thank you so much for this wonderful video!
@woodsinme
Жыл бұрын
Good word. Thanks.
@miguerys9503
Жыл бұрын
This can be extrapolated to sooo many aspects of life, great advice.
@virusO1OOOOO1
Жыл бұрын
Even if your attention span is 1 min imagine the things you can accomplish 60 seconds at a time.
@jimnjele.bean-dayone3505
Жыл бұрын
Whenever I get stressed, I try to remember the elephant...One bite at a time...Thank you Dewayne
@DTX_AEther_Diamond_214
Жыл бұрын
This man has the best insight to so many things 😎
@auzzie4435
Жыл бұрын
The horses faces had me cracking me up 😂 I was trying to pay attention but the faces had me laughing
Пікірлер: 368