saying anything about what they ate or how much is not ok and how or why they hurt themselves Just anything you wouldn’t tell someone you just met It’s normal to say “hey I’m grey I’m in recovery so please be patient” Not “hey I’m grey I cut myself” It’s normal to say “I don’t handle being yelled at very well” Not “every single time someone raises their voice at me I go cut myself in the bathroom”
@bees_pog2643
Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Windy_Dawg
Ай бұрын
This is so insanely valid. My channel is a safe place to vent AS LONG AS YOU ASK FIRST, but people need to realize that not everyone is comfortable about having people vent to them, in comments AND/OR in real life. Boundaries, guys. We need to learn to respect them.
@scottfinnie.copisamajordf.5758
Ай бұрын
deal with it .... life isn't a safe place
@mango1910
28 күн бұрын
Bro said deal with it how about u deal with it like damn
@scottfinnie.copisamajordf.5758
28 күн бұрын
@@mango1910 u and your one subscriber relax. Just let. It happen. Let the bad man do what he wants....it will be over soon enough... Until next time .......
@Chinese-duck_im-not-racist
24 күн бұрын
@@scottfinnie.copisamajordf.5758bro has 0 subs. You were hyping him up
@Whereisyourdad1
29 күн бұрын
she’s healed guys! if you comment methods, she’s not going to use them!!!! she doesn’t harm anymore so there is not point into venting or putting ur problems on her
@Rawreatpotatoes
Ай бұрын
Off topic but ur eyeliner is 👏🏻E.A.T.I.N.G👏🏻
@dONkEYcARrOT
Ай бұрын
FRRR
@xxbittersweet5356
Ай бұрын
ok unrelated but ur voice is so soothing 😭
@reeseolivero5464
17 күн бұрын
no but fr😭
@TV_boi-ku1kd
Ай бұрын
I think you are so brave for doing that and shining a light on important things
@i_eat_rice_krispys_
20 күн бұрын
im sorry ab thoes ppl- ik i shouldn’t cuz im not responsible for them but yeah- also i love ur makeup 😭
@Urfavsmartbrunnete381
Ай бұрын
To all the people that are venting in their comment section they are still a child or teen and could still definitely relapse so how about y’all that need to vent go find a therapist. They do not need more stress than they already have in theirs. If you get uncomfortable or weirded out by watching her videos don’t watch them. Some people like me find these helpful and show what other people feel like. If you don’t like it don’t watch it. Stop venting in their comments it isn’t a place to vent find a therapist they will appreciate so pls just stop venting ❤ thanks
@bum063
Ай бұрын
Grey actually uses they/them pronouns not hating or anything just correcting
@Urfavsmartbrunnete381
Ай бұрын
@@bum063 okay yeah sorry that was my bad . I was rushing. And I am sorry thank you for the correction
@bum063
Ай бұрын
@@Urfavsmartbrunnete381 oh you're perfectly fine I was just letting you know
@lemonadec0re
22 күн бұрын
I do agree but saying “find a therapist” is a very very privileged take in my opinion
@Urfavsmartbrunnete381
22 күн бұрын
@@lemonadec0re okay I am sorry
@spidermann.iss.brii.
Ай бұрын
you’re extremely beautiful/handsome/pretty grey! i rlly love your hair! but that’s rlly understandable (to me for example)
@Sodastarss
Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that this is happening to you, you don’t deserve this. People need to understand you are a real person and not just some KZitemr that you can tell all your problems to.
@LydiaPlayz14
23 күн бұрын
I agree with u sm on this like it’s ur channel ur comment section ur choice ur body ur choice like if u choose to talk Abt smth or show something that is valid if u feel a certain way that is valid and if u want ppl not to vent In ur comments for whatever reason u have even if u don’t or didn’t have one that is valid and ppl need to realise that is ur choice and it’s not fair for them to try and change that ❤❤also love ur vids btw ❤❤
@arandomperson12371
26 күн бұрын
YES exactly just because you make videos about your experience doesn’t mean that other people can vent about theirs. Btw you are so pretty ❤️
@Vivi_wasneverhere
Ай бұрын
We will do all we can for you grey!! We’re here for you!❤
@5secondasummah_xd
Ай бұрын
people are horrible. i’m sorry you have to deal with that 🫶🏼
@Lex_is_an_icon
23 күн бұрын
U have such pretty hair whatttt….and u have a great voice😭😀
@DEFO_NOTNIYAH
Ай бұрын
This is so true some people just vent without asking THIS IS A SAFE PLACE BUT ASK!!!!!
@FukaiKokoro
Ай бұрын
This is KZitem Not a therapy circle
@ali_is2cool4u
Ай бұрын
if they want to vent they should go to a vent channel that allows people to vent in their comments, or try therapy (even online therapy or smth). Not someone who is sharing their journey with recovery
@pwqshiiv.
Ай бұрын
@@ali_is2cool4uI'm pretty sure betterhelp is not safe
@ali_is2cool4u
Ай бұрын
@@pwqshiiv. oh fr? my bad I didn't know that
@abcd12548
13 күн бұрын
I understand where you’re coming from and how you’re feeling usually it’s rude to comment your own vent under other people’s vents so I understand :]
@DragonflyPawz
Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that you have to go through comments to show kindness but only get hurt. You really don’t deserve that, and it’s like people don understand that others can relapse. I hope it stops and I hope you have an awesome day full of smiles and support! Love this channel, happy I’ve been a long time subscriber, because you have helped me feel happier and less lonely. Bye bye! ❤❤❤
@Not_Audreyy
Ай бұрын
This is very valid I used to know someone who would dump a lot of trauma on me and I had to tell them at one point that it made me feel uncomfortable. They never really stopped backing off though. And I understand that your channel is strictly for spreading awareness and trying to help people through your videos, not by responding to vents in your comments
@SallowDraws
24 күн бұрын
She just said not to vwnt
@ur.fav.brunetty
Ай бұрын
this needed to be said - i just scrolled upon your channel and already respect you so much 💌
@Pookiebear5678
Ай бұрын
I feel like this shouldn’t even have to be said to go into someone’s comment section and just say horrible things about them and they’re content is so unnecessary and rude and I’m so sorry that people have been doing this I love your channel and you deserve better
@elizabethsandlin885
Ай бұрын
Scars are beautiful it means you went through something and are still alive
@map5199
26 күн бұрын
I agree with this so much, i hope your recovery journey goes well/ went well much love 🧡
@Beachy_Girl101
Ай бұрын
I’m sorry people do that to you! Yall who comment need to learn to stop venting she/he/they can go through a relapse SO STOP (also grey could you please pin me I was the first comment not forcing)
@Markers120
Ай бұрын
They use they/them. :>
@Beachy_Girl101
Ай бұрын
@@Markers120 thank you
@Myaisinlove
Ай бұрын
Hey grey with all due respect I think you need to take a break its taking a toll on your mental health and I'm really scared you might relapsed from what I've observed you seem a lot more stressed please reach out to someone or take a break i m not forcing just advising
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
I promise you I am fine and still clean
@Myaisinlove
Ай бұрын
Ok I love you stay safe (not in a pedo way)
@rainbowunicornprincess.
Ай бұрын
valid af
@AnnoyedLawnmower-qo8bc
29 күн бұрын
You are a awesome person don’t let anyone tell you different.
@Theyluvinayah
Ай бұрын
I so badly want to just 🤏🤏
@hyacinth_loves_stories
Ай бұрын
I really appreciate your videos because they give me hope, it’s so sad to me that people view it as a place to share more negativity or harsh details :(
@Squido07
Ай бұрын
Im so proud of you 🩷🩷 and i just want to say thank you so much sincerely for raising awareness. As someone who struggles with some of the same things as you, i really love how you arent sugarcoating anything and youre being straightforward. And to whoever is reading this i just want yall to know that someone out there loves you so much and if not then i do, and you should keep going because things can get better and can change. One relapse isnt the end. Keep going and stay safe yall, youre loved. 🩷
@cheze-oy7xp
Ай бұрын
It's going to be okay, grey, it's okay. We are all here for you, and it's sad about the people who vent to you.
@Whispy_planet
Ай бұрын
I get it but i still think its hypocritical but its your choice
@joshuarangel6349
Ай бұрын
Your a precious gift 🖤
@grace_xplr_thelarry
Ай бұрын
i did this and i apologize i guess i saw someone who related to me and it all came spewing out so i’m sorry about that it was honestly rude of me to not think of other people or ask if i could first
@HaileyOliva
Ай бұрын
Yessss girl people need to stop hating on you for no reason you ate
@abbyisntsleepy4349
Ай бұрын
I don’t know if you’ll respond to this, but I’m curious to know. Would you consider people saying “thank you for this video because it has been helping me through my (problem)” kind of thing. I’m just curious what you consider venting!
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
No that’s not a vent I don’t mind that but saying anything about what they ate or how much is not ok and how or why they hurt themselves Just anything you wouldn’t tell someone you just met It’s normal to say “hey I’m grey I’m in recovery so please be patient” Not “hey I’m grey I cut myself”
@abbyisntsleepy4349
Ай бұрын
@@Greyisdrowning Ooooh!!! Okay! Thank you so much! That all is so understandable and thank you for answering!!!
@amydaniel1691
29 күн бұрын
You are beautiful and you’re scars are beautiful to because all of you is pretty inside and out❤
@Localinternetstalker
Ай бұрын
This is her channel stop making it about you if she doesn’t want it Edit:I’m so sorry if I used the wrong pronouns I’ll change them if so
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
I use they/them
@Hayley605
Ай бұрын
Ok kinda off topic BUT YOUR EYELINER IS SO PRETTY I also 100% agree with you and people can’t get mad it’s your channel
@W3ird0_14
Ай бұрын
People need to understand. This is you're safe space and you're recovery journey. You shouldn't be scared to look in your comments in case of someone leaving a detailed or graphic comment.
@obsessedwithsanrio0
Ай бұрын
thank you so muchh literally SO tired of seeing it! u shouldnt relapse bc of ppls inconsiderate comments
@LeafBug709
29 күн бұрын
Gotchu Grey!! I love your channel❤❤
@chandlerhickman164
Ай бұрын
Your actually sooooo pretty ❤ like it’s crazy how pretty you are
@tourettesteen222
Ай бұрын
I am so sorry if I have done this in your videos if I can find the comment I vented in I will delete it I’m really sorry grey I truly love the channel and would NEVER want to hurt you, and I would feel absolutely awful if my comments had made something bad happen to you or you feel bad
@Vents_byAli
Ай бұрын
Can u please do a hair 360 I really want to get my hair done like urs ❤❤❤❤
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
I made a video showing how I do my hair in another video!! I do it myself so I can’t give you a specific style or anything:(
@Vents_byAli
Ай бұрын
@@Greyisdrowning oh ok.I love ur vids I’m so happy u replied!!!!!
@Sceneboy_06
Ай бұрын
I love you hair so much ❤ it suits you so well and it just looks perfect
@S1LL13ST-RACC00N
Ай бұрын
You’re literally showing people that they aren’t alone and that things get better, it’s genuinely so upsetting how people just decide they can vent under videos without permission etc. your doing enough by showing poeple that very private and touchy part of your life and showing them it gets better, they shouldn’t want more from you it’s unfair especially because they don’t know if you have triggers or not. I hope your doing well ‼️💗 /p
@Vomit-xo8nz
Ай бұрын
FRR, like don’t even go to a vent account to vent, behind a vent account is a real person reading all these comments. Go talk to a therapist or a psychiatrist not a teenager online
@Coy_Razor
24 күн бұрын
Oh, I am so sorry. I belive I did v*nt once in a comment section of yours. But that was before I had known. Thank you so much for telling us.
@brileebrailynn3603
Ай бұрын
STOP TALKING ABOUT HER SCARS THEY SHOW THAT SHE WAS HURT BUT HEALED❤!
@you_rose_tint_my_world
25 күн бұрын
If you see other people’s videos they sometimes say that because they had others talk to them about how they do it, it lets them know how to do it worse
@Ghost-wc6mo
Ай бұрын
this is actually insane 😭 this is a place YOU have made for YOU to talk abt things and ppl take that as an invitation?? there r plenty of spaces online where they can talk abt those things if they need to but somewhere they r not welcome is obviously not one of them
@Mjjk667
Ай бұрын
I’m sorry people r venting, that sucks
@-StayStar-
29 күн бұрын
I’m actually getting therapy tommorow and I actually can’t wait!
@OctobersKidd
Ай бұрын
i dont understand why people cant just let grey be- if they need to vent find somewhere where it is safe and welcome- its not necessary to constantly vent to grey when they have repeatedly told commenter that they are not comfortable with it
@Hearts4Kaiden
27 күн бұрын
❤💜
@The_only_ALPHA163
16 күн бұрын
I'm not trying to be a jerk, but would saying "I'm (insert number) weeks clean" be considered not okay? I'm genuinely asking. Or saying "I'm proud of you for recovering". I'm trying to better myself.
@Greyisdrowning
16 күн бұрын
Yes? Did I say it’s not ok? The problem is people saying being minutes/hours/seconds clean when that’s basically saying “BE PROUD OF MY RELAPSE!!” So if you’re making it weeks that genuinely very good
@The_only_ALPHA163
16 күн бұрын
@Greyisdrowning ok thank you very much! You are a very kind person :)
@ventacc17
Ай бұрын
Im so sorry… I believe I’ve vented one here before and I apologize sm I didn’t know it wasn’t ok..
@MHA.Editer117
Ай бұрын
Listen to me guys, even if you have an eating disorder and have scars also, or venting in their comment section, dont do that, its very disrespectful, if you have scars, dont put those vents on their videos, its not kind on what you do when venting on their videos, they are just showing what they went through so please stop doing this.
@Markers120
Ай бұрын
They use they/them pronouns :>
@MHA.Editer117
Ай бұрын
@@Markers120 thank you, I fixed the pronouns
@Sophia_163
Ай бұрын
So u can vent 😭🙏
@Paws1nthef0rest
Ай бұрын
I understand! Sometimes its just easy to vent on videos you can relate urself. And usually if you post vents for others to see they also vent, cause it feels like thats something you can relate to and maybe now i can tell my own experience.
@Th0ught_Bubble
Ай бұрын
I don't get why people do that. Just because someone vents, its not a invite to vent back. Sorry that's happening
@AlexisNoel-or5dn
24 күн бұрын
Then, if we’re willingly watching your videos, why are you willingly reading your comments?
@rixmagi
24 күн бұрын
they should reflect the same content of the video, they always talk about recovery. talking about the polar opposite is 1. not something that they’re trying to cultivate in their audience and 2. very cruel to let someone whose recovered endure.
@AlexisNoel-or5dn
23 күн бұрын
Huh?
@rixmagi
23 күн бұрын
@@AlexisNoel-or5dn what do you mean huh lol
@AlexisNoel-or5dn
23 күн бұрын
What you said made no sense
@ThatSillyHorseGirl._.
Ай бұрын
This is the most valid video ever. I’m sorry people do this. Some humans are so annoying.
@AStarInTheSky1
Ай бұрын
I hate when people start venting on random peoples videos, if you want to vent then go to a vent compilation video (most of them want you to vent in the comments).
@SydneyAndHerArt
Ай бұрын
Fr it's YOUR channel and YOUR comments
@iguess_iexist
Ай бұрын
A vent video or video talking about mental health is NOT a free pass to vent abt ur problems and just is not a free pass to vent in general. Ask if you can vent or find a place you can.
@Marissa-all-4-you
Ай бұрын
hii grey no hate at all i love your channel and it’s a safe space vc or me but you can block words from your comments and if that doesn’t work i get it and i wish the best for you and your mental health ❤❤
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
I’ve blocked over 80 words ❤️ but I can’t block more bc I want people to share their recovery
@Marissa-all-4-you
Ай бұрын
thats so awesome that you care about recovery i’m so happy your the safe space for many other youtube users and i’m so sorry you can’t block more words youtube really needs to fix these issues instead of adding more stupid ass non useful updates
@Sqquidsz
Ай бұрын
Hey!! I apologize if I have ever vented in your comments, I can’t seem to remember if I have or not. But on the chance I did, I’m deeply sorry that I made your own channel an uncomfortable space for you to be in. I will make an unfailing effort to not vent in your comment section (ever again???) ❤❤
@brynn3310
Ай бұрын
Period girliee
@TwoWeirdosOnPaws
Ай бұрын
I don’t know if I’ve ever accidentally done this but I hope I haven’t and if I have I’m so so sorry
@TanksTurky666
Ай бұрын
its youtube not a therapy place guys
@Spxxky_Shark21
Ай бұрын
Hey u prob already know but if certain ppl doing it more then once I think u can block ‘em I’m not sure
@Aspen31909
Ай бұрын
Preach
@lkcool9867
29 күн бұрын
I’m not trying to be rude but how did that happen?
@sockYT
29 күн бұрын
what do you mean?
@Alex-en7hn
29 күн бұрын
You mean her scars?
@Malnxxty
Ай бұрын
valid
@Ella_293
Ай бұрын
This is so ture
@Giggiiiiiii-qt5yr
3 күн бұрын
she is helping people from HER content not yours xxx
@awesomedestroyer2673
Ай бұрын
Hello. New sub here! Can we talk please?
@Creamy_phebe
19 күн бұрын
You gave the explanation of venting just now who thought saying your venting how hypocritical can you get 💀
@jovi-taylors-version
Ай бұрын
what is venting???
@ButterflyLuver
Ай бұрын
It’s like pouring all your emotions into a person. Things you would say to your therapist, not a random KZitemr you follow. Example: “I hate myself so much I want to k!ll myself and I cvt myself because I have no friends I feel like there is nothings left in the works for me”
@jovi-taylors-version
Ай бұрын
@@ButterflyLuver ohhhhh
@MONKEYMAN4987
Ай бұрын
Smash
@obsessedwithsanrio0
Ай бұрын
their a minor…
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
I have a boyfriend
@MONKEYMAN4987
Ай бұрын
Ok and.
@obsessedwithsanrio0
Ай бұрын
@@MONKEYMAN4987 its weird
@MONKEYMAN4987
Ай бұрын
@@obsessedwithsanrio0 and
@Ransomtoday
Ай бұрын
im not joking when i say, not everyone online will or is your friend, nor does everyone care about you having adhd, 100 different kinds of traumas, you shaking when someone shouts, and etc. Sure it’s important but maybe get a therapist or a friend who will listen? Because you obviously don’t trust your parents who MOST LIKEY bought the device your using to vent online..
@adalynnclaire09
Ай бұрын
I’m actually unsubscribing like I can’t anymore you are changing so much. Like what-
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
How is this a change? I’ve never let anyone vent in my comments??!?
@onyxexists
Ай бұрын
oh no! what is this person going to do without your precious subscription?
@adalynnclaire09
Ай бұрын
@@Greyisdrowning idk you’re just acting different? Having to ask if you can say how you feel is not okay.
@adalynnclaire09
Ай бұрын
@@onyxexists and who was talking to you
@Greyisdrowning
Ай бұрын
I mean I have 26.8 thousand other subs so I don’t NEED yours but I never asked for you to ask permission I just said straight up don’t say it I don’t want you to say it at all And saying how you’re feeling isn’t a vent that’s not what I’m talking about What I’m talking about is people who say and I quote “one time my grandma walked in on me with blood dripping down my legs and dug her fingers through my cuts as a punishment” THATS the type of comments I’m talking about
@marylovies13
Ай бұрын
Your vids always get banned
@YourDearAngell
Ай бұрын
I’m sorry that you have to be saying this, people suck. Virtual love 🩷🩷
@ShymmyShimmyAyShimmyAyShimmyAh
Ай бұрын
You tell them! Your channel is really helping me, and it’s really inspiring to see somebody getting better. ❤️🩹 You are very strong, and the haters need to grow a pair.
@ButterflyLuver
Ай бұрын
That’s totally valid and understandable! You are showing your recovery ❤️🩹, not what’s happening in your head at the moment. The shit people are saying is a rlly slay way to make someone relapse, your strong but still a person. People need to realise that :)
@DontTellBristow
Ай бұрын
I subbed to you when you had 632 subs 🥲 (on my old account that got banned 2 months ago)
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