As an oldest child who was also an only child for eight years I know how this shig feels
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
ahh im so sorry you know how this feels I completely understand
@tajinaasgar
Жыл бұрын
Yess the high expectations is sooo real tip like I could have a 94 in math and my litttlr sister could get a C and my parents don’t mind and also the blaming always happens I hate it
@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp
Жыл бұрын
Same, but my parents treat me and my younger brother according to our ages. Sometimes I feel they spoil me too much, like treat me like a child younger than my age (I like it). So as an oldest child I can't relate to this. They treat my younger brother the way they treated me at his age. Btw, this (the way my parents treat us) is common in my country.
@tajinaasgar
Жыл бұрын
@@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp good for you!!
@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp
Жыл бұрын
@@tajinaasgar ikr
@thatsdarkiguess
Жыл бұрын
a quote from my parents: “since you’re the oldest, you have the most expectations…they go down with each child. simple.”
@lara_ballerina
Жыл бұрын
felt
@HazardousBgirl
10 ай бұрын
Oof. That’s though.
@nailzzy-xoxo.
9 ай бұрын
Lucky.
@marvel_stark3000
9 ай бұрын
Bruh I'm the youngest and I completely feel like being the oldest it sucks. Who ever is the youngest child is sooooo lucky
@MeexXD
9 ай бұрын
felt bro
@Wednesday_fan216
Жыл бұрын
This is basically describing me as the oldest
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
ahh im so sorry...
@PreppybyTalluah
Жыл бұрын
Same for me
@TurtleDropZone
Жыл бұрын
Same…
@shadinaneo6452
Жыл бұрын
Same though....
@Tipsbykennedy.
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@kikikiki8381
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, this isn't a representation of an oldest child, it's a representation of bad parenting.
@UrFavBrunetteKyleigh
Жыл бұрын
that’s what i said
@tahiti-themagicalplace7007
Жыл бұрын
Nah I’m oldest and this is true
@Miracle12348
Жыл бұрын
@@tahiti-themagicalplace7007I’m a oldest child and this is how my younger sister is treated. It’s bad parenting it’s just some people don’t accept the fact that some parents are bad. I’m sorry for you.
@MiuMiu_Wony
Жыл бұрын
Nope
@Miracle12348
Жыл бұрын
@@MiuMiu_Wony yep
@OnlyAbriS
Жыл бұрын
this so relatable. especially the getting blamed part. people are always like “you’re lucky you’re the oldest.” no, come on. if this is luck, i’ve been lied to lol
@Shadowdragonz13
10 ай бұрын
Ikr, my brother had a broken toy and he blamed me for when I did nothing about it, I am a teenager I don't want anything to do with the toy! Yet I got blamed, but the thing is, now I have been blaming him right back for stuff that I know he never did and now I am the " rude person", sometimes you never win being oldest 😔
@nadi_ed
Жыл бұрын
Nothing feels worse than getting As all throughout elementary, being exited to tell your parents and them being just as excited, then the reaction slowly fading into ‘well that’s just the expectation’ then the only response you get when you work your ass off in high school to have a 4.0 and they barely blink twice. Then you get another sibling, and the expectation for them is barely Cs because ‘they’re not like you, they’re like I was in high school.’
@user-19jfJd283jdjJ
8 ай бұрын
*The never spoken truth*
@VegetaPrinceofSaiyans1
2 ай бұрын
Listen to this: So my entire elementary and middle school life, I gave my parents straight As, except a couple of times in middle school where they were Bs. I'm going to eleventh grade. A couple of months ago, I got a C. My father got the audacity to start calling me a "C Student." I'm still hurt by this bullcrap. And now my youngest brother uses it on me in arguments, knowing it hurts. No one even cares anyway. I'm "just being too sensitive"
@michelaruggeri5938
Жыл бұрын
This is literally my life: I'm tired of having to go home afraid that someone will tell me something because I got an A- instead of an A/A+. I'm tired of always having to have a thousand responsibilities. I'm tired of being blamed for anything. And I’m not perfect, my sisters CAN’T be like me because my life isn’t the best. Finally someone who understands me. Thanks girl, I respect you 💕
@krisbaskins5773
Жыл бұрын
this is so accurate. being the oldest also ment you had to pick up the whole house cause your siblings "don't do it as good as you" or some stupid reasons like that.
@Copperxx
Жыл бұрын
No I swear it’s first like: “you have to be a good role model, you should be a good example for your younger sibling” Then it’s like: “you should be like your younger sibling” I just don’t understand parents sometimes
@rafiamir6758
Жыл бұрын
it feels like they are making you do it bexause your the oldest, not because your siblings are young or any other reason
@vk2ig
11 ай бұрын
@@CopperxxIt's a fundamental fact that some parents are ... well, I don't want to insult anyone so I won't say it. But it would be nice if they stopped and thought of the adverse impact on their kids for once.
@Memeking_Bob
11 ай бұрын
@@Copperxxtrueee
@Reaper0nYT
Жыл бұрын
me for high expectations: it’s literally impossible in my school to get an a+-
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
yeah isn't it just Im in a media school so its quite easy to get a top grade distinction
@Lefty-1909
Жыл бұрын
I non stop study to make my parents proud as they're always digging into me that I need to work harder so I don't end up like them and I can achieve my dreams. This makes me extremely ambitious and rarely get to do things that I want to do. But they don't realise this. They always call me lazy and say I spend to much time in my room but it's were I do my work and the other bit of time I have left is what I would actually spend in my room. I'm really stressed out alot of the time but they don't think I can be because I'm "just lazy" and think I'm using it as an excuse. I rarely want to eat, I struggle with sleep and sometimes don't, I lack motivation but when I have motivation, I REALLY have it, I have so many procrastinating thoughts, I pull my hair, etc. but they don't realise any of it. However, teachers who barely know me know more of it than them and have even told them but my parents just ignored it and got worse. However, they're always bragging about my intelligence to their friends but then moan because I don't/can't help out with chores as much and constantly compare me to my cousin who always does chores because she doesn't focus on school work like I do and has time but she gets paid for it.
@mysterygalaxykitten4394
Жыл бұрын
fr
@chlooxz
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest child with a younger brother everything on here is true. You just described me... 😭
@randomgachawithvicky8445
Жыл бұрын
I’m not even the favorite child and most of this hasn’t even happened to me. And most likely never will.
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
your lucky
@randomgachawithvicky8445
Жыл бұрын
@@libbyglass wow thanks for replying! 💖🥹
@Miracle12348
Жыл бұрын
It’s because you have good parents. Good for you not everyone is that lucky!
@HH56727
Жыл бұрын
Lucky
@user-uv5ir6nt6m
Жыл бұрын
I can relate a lot to the last one, it’s always like my mum doesn’t even care, she always blaming me for everything that my little brother does, when we get in a argument she blames it on me saying I must of done something to annoy him
@luffy0562
Жыл бұрын
I am the oldest so i can relate a ton. They always blame me for something my sister did. Like if she made a huge mess. My parents would say it’s my fault. Its not fair 😔
@user-tq9vs6fc9u
Жыл бұрын
I’m a younger sister but an older cousin, so I can at least relate a bit when it comes to that. “You’re older so you should’ve stopped him” but when you act older “You’re not his parent, stop that”. You can’t win.
@Miracle12348
Жыл бұрын
That’s called bad parenting it’s terrible how many people relate to this.
@luffy0562
Жыл бұрын
@@user-tq9vs6fc9u yup thats so true
@Elizabeth-jd5te
Жыл бұрын
I am the oldest sibling and I can relate soo much. I also love how you make people understand what problems people around you feel, and what they have to deal with. I will definetly recomend your channel to my friends (even though I have only 1)
@Stormborn-Rose
Жыл бұрын
Honestly you need an award for being so relatable. As an oldest child myself I definitely can agree.
@Danmei_fan.ryy06
Жыл бұрын
No they don't need a reward
@Stormborn-Rose
Жыл бұрын
@@Danmei_fan.ryy06 why not. If I may ask.
@Danmei_fan.ryy06
Жыл бұрын
@@Stormborn-Rose because it's not relatable to a lot of people
@Stormborn-Rose
Жыл бұрын
@@Danmei_fan.ryy06 I was just going of my experience. Sry if ur offended
@asuna6541
Жыл бұрын
As the middle child I basically take care of all my siblings while my parents are gone but my older brother says he’s “the boss”
@niggasgang8784
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest he's sound spoiled asf
@emiliaequestrian
Жыл бұрын
Same
@HealingIsOk
Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Midnight-fy3uj
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest child I have to take care of everyone well everyone screams and complains to me. It just depends on the family really.
@asuna6541
Жыл бұрын
@@niggasgang8784 I mean he has a PS5 he doesn’t even use that he got for Christmas. I had to return a gift or 2 so I could get a laptop, shoulda returned the PS5.
@miracle_d
Жыл бұрын
Bro can’t relate my older sister can do whatever she wants and won’t get in trouble for it, like she stole the rent money once. But I feel bad for every other older sibling they have it rough.❤
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
ahh im so sorry I can't believe she did that how can she get away with that that's crazy! I completely agree with you
@riWeebBee
Жыл бұрын
honestly my brother is the same he is always hitting me and taunting me plus steals mom's money when she isnt here and im too traumatised to tell her
@mirandavillamizar8564
Жыл бұрын
me 2 she get an A they compare every person in the room like you should get an a 2 like she did
@riWeebBee
Жыл бұрын
@@flimedbylia i told her and she just said hit him back and when i did i got a whole lecture about how he is older and my brother and as his sister i should respect him
@Motala_2010
Жыл бұрын
My sisters the same
@sarrthestar.
Жыл бұрын
The "just revise harder next time" is so real, like I did my very best and you guys said you'd be proud of me but when I do my best I just get hit with a "try harder next time" like what?😭
@ayyesh_.h
Жыл бұрын
Can you do life of a youngest child.
@user-tz7ng2bf6c
Жыл бұрын
This is so relatable tysm for spreading awareness abt this
@Stay_4_eva
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest child I'm happy to see finally someone who values the oldest child but Yeah it's pretty accurate we always get blamed for things we didn't do (and the rest is also true
@nittakornnittakornchamrat4986
Жыл бұрын
This is why the oldest child always hides their pain…
@pearlygirly634
Жыл бұрын
as the oldest child with one other sibling, i relate to this... especially being blamed and having to do all the chores..
@little_lilly
Жыл бұрын
I very honestly and truly can relate. It’s really annoying some times
@Thisgirlaudrey
Жыл бұрын
This is the opposite of my older sister life. I love being my little sisters role model.
@Llama_Girl_Slays
Жыл бұрын
This is so true being the oldest is quite hard. I know how this feels and the last one about breaking is the worst one out of all of them.
@Seungmins_nmbr1
Жыл бұрын
As a youngest child, I have been blamed for everything and get compared to others
@MiuMiu_Wony
Жыл бұрын
If you think so you’re lucky you’re not the oldest
@Seungmins_nmbr1
Жыл бұрын
@@MiuMiu_Wony ik every child isn't lucky tbh
@Halt_ichf130
10 ай бұрын
Then see what the oldest people go through
@jabedqureshi782
Жыл бұрын
This is soo true man its so hard being the oldest
@ava.08
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest child in my family, I can relate to this a lot.
@The_MrDuck
Жыл бұрын
It feels so good to have someone who understands me ❤
@gachabrownie
Жыл бұрын
as an oldest child and a middle child I can proudly say I love looking after my siblings there so funny, smart and interesting and also I love kids as long as they're not those kids that keep asking for your phone and then your parents force you to give it to them
@Miracle12348
Жыл бұрын
Then you must have good parents.
@Emmaxoxo-cd2gf
Жыл бұрын
This is me fr i love ur vids they r so helpful, especially as an autistic kid with anxiety and bpd and eating disorders/body shame. i have become so much more confident since i subbed so ty
@audanbarotilla1378
Жыл бұрын
as an oldest child, I feel this 💗
@Remy.leona.11
Жыл бұрын
The high expectations one is so relatable especially because I am "smarter" than most people so my parents expect me to do really well even though I am bad at tests
@TurtleDropZone
Жыл бұрын
I’m the oldest child and all of this stuff happens to me. I always get blamed for everything which kinda makes me mad.
@stelladouglas6924
6 күн бұрын
its so sweet sometimes with your siblings wanting to be like you tho-its so cute
@-Summ3r
Жыл бұрын
Have you done youngest yet?
@sharbanibose
Жыл бұрын
Yesss exactly,I wanted one too
@-Summ3r
Жыл бұрын
@@sharbanibose I’m guessing your also a younger sibling
@sharbanibose
Жыл бұрын
@@-Summ3r yup
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
im doing youngest next I promise
@libbyglass
Жыл бұрын
im doing youngest next I promise
@-JustKat-
Жыл бұрын
Story time: So I’m 11, and my older sister Megan is 19. She’s my everything, and I’m hers. We tell each other everything and have that strong sister bond. One day I was just watching KZitem in my room and I heard her crying a little bit. I went into her room and I asked if she was okay, and she just pulled me into a hug. It turns out, she found this video and she started telling me how stressful it is being the oldest despite how much she loves me and just started venting her heart out to me, and I let her because I could tell she was hurting. The things she said she can’t relate to are babysitting, high expectations (she’s a really good student), and the blaming. She said she loves being my role model.
@Yunasteddybear
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to that!
@jabberwocky950
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest child I can confirm this is true It's honestly horrible 😭 you can't get a break no matter which child you are
@UrFavBrunetteKyleigh
Жыл бұрын
no this is called bad parents not oldest child
@hellocorgi6553
Жыл бұрын
My day has felt bad cause of my younger siblings I needed this thank
@I_like_cats666
Жыл бұрын
As an older child myself thank you for doing this now people can feel what we feel
@aleqxiaaa
Жыл бұрын
Could you do one on being a younger sibling? We also share some pain…
@Elmaone
Жыл бұрын
Some people forgot we have feelings and heart too 🥺💔
@itsAyman31
Жыл бұрын
Watching this as an oldest child made me cry idk why
@READ_MY_DESCRIPTIO_N
3 ай бұрын
As a oldest child it made me cry😢
@ItsYaGirlAudrina
Жыл бұрын
Finally someone who understands
@Midnight-fy3uj
Жыл бұрын
This is the most relatable thing ever.
@jeffgreen5439
Жыл бұрын
I am the oldest myself, and I feel all this...i wish we were treated a bit better
@Kayden-fm9cq
Жыл бұрын
omg this just breaks my heart
@shealynnsiataga
Жыл бұрын
Very true I am the oldest and it’s hard bc u try rly hard and shit and you just want to take one break but the u feel like you didn’t do enough or u think u r disappointing ur parents and if u feel like this too just know that ur not the only one out there and it will always get better❤❤❤❤
@TreeBeeTree
Жыл бұрын
The grades one especially hurts when your younger sibling(s) get a higher grade and your parents are all proud of them but say "Its ok. Just try harder next time" to u
@dxo.dxo1
Жыл бұрын
This is so true I’m the oldest of 2 and it gets hard sometimes it’s always so unfair 😭
@user-pb4ln5tk1y
10 ай бұрын
Finally someone understands being a role model is a lot of pressure to be perfect and you feel like you have to hide your emotions 😢
@hockeygirl23
Жыл бұрын
I love and hate being the oldest at the same time. Like the other sibling positions it has it's ups and downs
@artsypuff
Жыл бұрын
When a yt short describes you better than you can 💀
@ElizabethHamato-fz2jt
11 ай бұрын
I have never found something more relatable in my life
@Abbyfofaby
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how it is for me it's perfect tysm for making this
@daileencerritos9540
Жыл бұрын
The funny thing is that I actually relate to this it’s my day to day life of the oldest child and I started to talk back but then just decided that it’s not worth my time
@lexdendunnen8004
Жыл бұрын
I just started tearing up bc it’s sad how this is true- I’m a oldest child to three other kids 😔
@Kayeyuhh
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest sibling in my family, I can say that this is true. Also my brother takes advantage of him being the youngest to blame everything on me and get in trouble. There's more down sides than positive effects to being the oldest.
@lylarosee
Жыл бұрын
I'm the middle child and get treated like this. Gotta love being the middle kid.
@morganjohnson7007
Жыл бұрын
As an oldest child I'd like to say that this happens alot and it feels bad tbh it lead me into deep depression! SO ALWAYS KEEP UR HEAD HIGH AND NEVER LET SOMEONE MAKE U FEEL SMALL! ❤❤❤
@jaelynnelson3455
Жыл бұрын
Legit the most relatable thing ive ever seen
@thedj3737
10 ай бұрын
Ok but I found the role model cute it shows the relationship between the siblings and show how much they care about each other
@jaycee_eq
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest girl of 3 I know how this feels, and the worst part is this isn’t where it ends, there’s so much more stuff
@arunakashi5555
Жыл бұрын
This is sooo true the oldest child always gets the blame like me but it is not our little sisters falt it feels like that our parents don't even care about us only the youngest child
@Pen1312
Жыл бұрын
I rarely see oldest child POVs. It is always middle children. Middle children have it bad, but it always makes my day to see the oldest child ones.
@daphneofori4130
Жыл бұрын
I'm the oldest child and this is honestly so true
@Cr1ms0nCann1bal
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest this really is how it is, not able to go out because of siblings and babysitting, the role model, the blame, and (for me personally) the not being helped for personal issues because no one realizes
@abigailgarcia6995
Жыл бұрын
Someone who finally understand how, hard it is to be the life of the oldest sibling. Km literally the oldest and some of the things happen ti me🥺😢
@Sunny_days4eva
Жыл бұрын
As the youngest the looking up to the older sibling part made me cry it was too accurate
@LilyMartinez-i2m
Ай бұрын
As an oldest child, I understand it. Something u have to remember, is that u can't do it alone. In middle school, I never hugged, talked to, or spent time with my little sister; bc I was afraid. She used to say she wanted to grow up and be like me, but I was anxious and depressed, and was afraid that she'd have to go through that hell too, if it rubbed off on her. I'm going into hs now, and I spend time with her now. I cry everytime I think about the amazing little person I forgot to watch grow up. I still feel the constant pressure for perfection, but I no longer am depressed. Remember, life is so much better if u choose not to do it alone. Pls don't do what I did. 💚
@Mf.09_marie
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest I can very much relate.
@Aqua_anaabellaa
Жыл бұрын
i HATE it when they blame me for something i didn't do
@SophiazDragonz101
Жыл бұрын
As an older child with 4 lil brothers, this is so relatable!!
@user-ts1bk1rv5x
Жыл бұрын
As an oldest child I know what it feels like being blamed for stuff you didn’t even do….
@BeRealWithMeOrGoAway
Жыл бұрын
As a middle child this is describing me so hard rn…
@goldpurpleflower
Жыл бұрын
The first one being the babysitter is so relatable as the 2nd child
@Ki__ten
Жыл бұрын
As an oldest child i relate to this my parents have high expectations on me 😢
@Kochuu11
10 ай бұрын
This is so relatable 😢
@sarandabaftiu5274
Жыл бұрын
I can relate as a older child im responsible for everything 😅
@UrFavIsabellaa
Жыл бұрын
This is basically describing me as the oldest..I’ve been dealing with this for 9yrs, I know how this feels
@Miracle12348
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for you.
@jannatahson2926
Жыл бұрын
As an oldest child,...I can definitely relate to this .....
@Eclypsed_Moon
11 ай бұрын
I also go through this but I’m the youngest and my older sisters get away with everything and than I get yelled at or told I’m lying about something…
@CurrentlyBored-
7 ай бұрын
Y’know, being the youngest, i really want to know what my sister thought and felt when we were at a young age and growing up, although she treated me like shit most the time, she cared for me and i loved those times where she did actually care for me… after i found out she wasn’t leaving for college i bawled my eyes out right in front of her, i was so happy that she wasn’t gonna leave me, we see each other almost regularly now… although she’s probably the reason for my childhood trauma, i still love her.. it’s confusing but i think people with siblings will get it.. ❤
@Its_me_Amiii_2
6 ай бұрын
This was painfully accurate
@Im_bett3rthanu
Жыл бұрын
Ikr like when u have plans everything ruins it... Being the oldest literally SUCKS SO MUCH
@azeleasslimes
Жыл бұрын
I have been an oldest child of 6 for 12 years, this LITERALLY DESCRIBES MY LIFE
@ARandomBxba
Жыл бұрын
As the oldest, the last 2 were very relatable as the first 2 not so much. It’s sad to know people know how it feels :’)
@Yummy_PizzaRollz
8 ай бұрын
The being blamed hits hard.
@violet.m
9 ай бұрын
Also as the oldest, if you had early childhood traumatic experiences they may effect you more since you were old enough to understand or went through more than siblings who weren’t born at the time
@n0t_valll
Жыл бұрын
this is so true if my younger brother or cousins ever curse or do something wrong i always get the blame. if my younger brother hit someone its because i 'taught him' my dad and mom always give their attention to him and never to me but when i confronted them about it they said that im overreacting and that i should go spend time with them instead of staying in my room all day, and why don't i go to spend time with them its because every time i do i get in trouble for some reason and who's fault is that? my brother i might be dramatic for blaming my brother for everything but once he was born eveyone started hating me for no reason and say that he's a little angel and so kind, once he's around others he acts like a cute innocent child but once he's with me he's the most annoying person in my life. im the most hated person in my family and i always get blamed because im the oldest and i taught everyone how to do this and that (curse, hit people, act inpolite) its just messed up, the other bad things about every older sibling is that they are like a second parent for their younger sibling and take care of themselves the worse part is that the parents start overstressing them and since no one will ever care about them anymore once they get a brother or sister the attention will all go to them the older sibling always do chores and are forced to do them meanwhile the younger siblings never do anything- i don't get it our parents always talk to us about things in their lives they need to fix like im not your therapist they only come to you once they need help nothing else this is fucked up i hate it- the part i most hated about this is that everyone wishes to be the oldest in their family because they will be the favorite etc.. but instead its the complete opposite the you gest will always be the favorite for some damn reason im sick of it the oldes goes through so much more trauma then the other siblings i just dont get it why cant siblings be loved equally?
@EnjoyYourMind683
Жыл бұрын
girl that's just so #relatable !
@theinvincibleinvestress
Жыл бұрын
A thousand, percent, relatable ✨✨✨
@dazed_dreams.
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this a lot… Once I was chosen to compete because I got a high score and when I told my mom I was back up because my classmate did better then me she was so confused and questioned, “Someone did better then you?” It didn’t help when my dad heard too. Another was when I was the only one is my grade to get a 100 on a test but instead of congratulating I got, “That’s sad how no one else got a hundred.” Like what about me? I got a hundred? I was the only one with a hundred. And you want to complain how I wasn’t at the top…
@Purple_clouds2014
9 ай бұрын
She just explained my whole life
@avipsha2141
Жыл бұрын
This is so true... Everything I did...i was criticised for it.
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