Manek Iridius how is he lying, and what is he lying about?
@leoleo-tr7oj
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video content! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Lanaleb Peyaria Rule (search on google)? It is a good one of a kind product for clearing self-doubt and achieving success without the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my friend after many years got great results with it.
@johnheuer6540
8 жыл бұрын
"The subconscious does not speak English" That was something I needed to hear, goddamn.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
°Happy to share :-)
@motionista
5 жыл бұрын
Oh lol can't believe I just posted the same comment
@Ssquire11
5 жыл бұрын
same!
@GodBlessDJT977
5 жыл бұрын
John Mode did you HAVE to bring God into it???!!! 😧
@LisaOfShades
4 жыл бұрын
The subconscious mind also doesn't understand negative, only the mental images. So we need to think of what we want instead of what we don't want, otherwise we'll keep going for more... and the universe will send more (in quantum physics, the laws change when there is an observer and his will can affect the outcome) It's the law of attraction. Thoughts become things.
@guzmangarcia1896
7 жыл бұрын
you'll never know how much help you are creating with this kind of videos... from Spain, thank you
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Will definitely work on more!
@celestegrainger1587
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you from Australia as well, I've have had breakthroughs watching your videos. Your work is philosophical gold and you are a magnanimous person. A true philosopher of the future... wisdom that is honest, engaging, as well as accessible to the masses.
@koffz-nl2118
7 жыл бұрын
Guzman Garcia Can someone please explain the last point a bit more? I feel like I don't really get it.
@frannyfaderlake
6 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command THANK YOU FROM THE PHILIPPINES ♥️
@ebalarisuchiang3461
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you from India
@darnellmajor9016
4 жыл бұрын
Instead of ''treating others how you want to be treated'', how about ''treat YOURSELF the way you would treat others''?
@bobbyshallot6219
4 жыл бұрын
Yep. Discrimination against yourself is the worst kind.
@seanfoo4769
3 жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself. And then do that for your neighbours
@iamzay4938
3 жыл бұрын
This beneficial for people who are way too empathetic and people pleasers
@Karno333
2 жыл бұрын
Why do I need to treat me terribly?
@adamgrey268
8 жыл бұрын
"If there is someone that's bothering you... light them on fire". That's what I heard.
@eduard476
8 жыл бұрын
+Adam Hensley Daenerys Targaryen approves
@agentenvironnemental365
8 жыл бұрын
+Adam Hensley What a bad advice, lighting someone on fire. What if he person is not interested into that kind of project
@oplopk
8 жыл бұрын
+Adam Hensley works for dexter.
@snickelllfritzzz1859
8 жыл бұрын
Turn your back and walk away.
@sainttom6785
8 жыл бұрын
+Snickelll Fritzzz after lighting them on fire?
@wimpiebaars7286
8 жыл бұрын
i destroyed myself for about 6 years. i was a complete mental wreck. i smoked weed drank waaay to much energy and i got rly fat. suddenly i felt like changing. i went to the gym i started thinking: what am i worried about. and i tolt myself that nobody gave a single shit about what a looked like. heres a simple tip. listen to advice but dont use it directly. find ur own way
@R.G.962
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@sydneybidney5671
7 жыл бұрын
Wimpie Baars Hearing that from someone with experience really means a lot :)
@CrayonsYummyYummy
7 жыл бұрын
Damn i like that last bit
@chickentendies4395
7 жыл бұрын
good for you man. I'm happy for you!
@wimpiebaars7286
7 жыл бұрын
i just wanted to give people some advice. i wasnt asking for all the good for you's. did u notice btw that in one of his vids he said that you should think of who you want to be. do you want to be like a friend of yours or like someone on tv. well just dont do that. i tried it for like 4 years and it doesnt help. it just makes everything worse. its just like when someone laughs when u make a joke about them that they obviously shouldnt like. your problems just start to pile up and at the end youll feel even worse then before. this channel does have some good information but for real help just visit a psychiatrist. (damn im good at engrish). or talk about your problems with family and friends.
@dissidents1542
8 жыл бұрын
I wrote it down on the 750 words website, printed it out, then burnt it. I feel 10 times better. Thank you so much!!!!!
@LisaOfShades
4 жыл бұрын
Wow you actually set a little part of the world on fire. I should do it too. I keep it in a word file so I don't have to be scared to forget, so I can let it go in my virtual brain.
@cryptoshart5872
3 жыл бұрын
I typed it onto my laptop then smashed the laptop to bits. It worked! I feel so much better now. Need a new laptop tho.
@tidodola7400
2 жыл бұрын
@@cryptoshart5872 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@zukoski1976
8 жыл бұрын
This Channel has helped me to turn my life around. I had a pretty big career setback a few months ago and your videos have given me the tools and reminders I needed to get back on my feet. Thx Charlie!
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Happy you found them helpful
@kheatthr1892
8 жыл бұрын
zukoski1976 i love how Charlie didn't take the credit for your success, because you already have what it takes to succeed you only need reminding of your own potential.
@emanuel9918
7 жыл бұрын
Gonna ask out a girl tomorrow.
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@emanuel9918
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks... ended up i couldnt sort myself out in time and now i dont have the chance to meet her today. But i will try another time.
@ManOnCouch
7 жыл бұрын
Emanuel Don't let yourself hold you back, be confident but calm, be understanding if it doesn't work out but keep in mind that no matter what you are awesome!
@emanuel9918
7 жыл бұрын
Ridiculous Dan Unfortunately since i was gone another guy beat me to it. But it is ok. i won't let it stop me from getting out there more and hopefully finding someone else after i move on. Thanks :)
@taradiddlez2814
7 жыл бұрын
Emanuel did you?
@xIxAmxKh2xI
8 жыл бұрын
I read it as "How to destroy self with doubt."
@theredryuda2721
8 жыл бұрын
+Billy Fishkins That's how you know it's deeply ingrained. :P
@Wipez
8 жыл бұрын
That's the spirit.
@theninjafuckr4109
7 жыл бұрын
Same. I wanted to know if I was doing it right dammit.
@fredrickl9473
6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@shirlaye1181
6 жыл бұрын
That's funny
@burntgrilledcheesie
4 жыл бұрын
I used to write emails all the time when I was angry (especially to my husband, before we were married) and then delete them. Once that anger was all written, it was a very emotional experience to see my words (feel heard) and then I would feel guilty for having irrational thoughts, or overracting. I would delete the email and send a kind and loving reply to my family instead. Its like I gained mental clarity and an ability to objectively assess the situations once the emotion was dealt with and I was at peace. The part about replying to yourself is a great concept I'd never considered....I am going to start writing my replies to people again, and begin replying to myself too. Thanks Charlie!
@flymb3358
6 жыл бұрын
You'll probably never see this but I would just like to thank you. As a young kid I used to be really shy so I would rarely ever talk to anyone. In middle school I wanted to become social but found it really hard since I had never developed any communicating skills and I was really awkward and weird. I struggled for a few years. People made fun of me for acting weird and my confidence and self-esteem sank. I had the 2 worst years of my life. Then I went to high school where I knew nobody (except my best friend) and nobody knew me (embf). I had a clean start. Although it didn't go all that smoothly I proved to myself that I had come a long way. I was respected by my new class mates and I started slowly gaining back my confidence. At this point I acted more like a normal person but I was still really awkward. I recently discovered this channel and it has helped me a ton with social skills. I try to follow your teachings as often as I can and it has brought my confidence up to a level it has never been on before.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ That's awesome! Kudos to you for taking action and glad that you're finding the channel helpful. :-)
@smileyourock
8 жыл бұрын
1. Moooove. 2. Learn from though experience, don't avoid it. 3. Filter the negativity if it's not constructive. 4. Express the self doubt on outside and BURN IT. 5. Get pissed.
@xyz-yg4vr
8 жыл бұрын
Appreciated :)
@Micoolaw
8 жыл бұрын
Start meditating. That's helped me tremendously
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Love that, thanks!
@Mufaz187
8 жыл бұрын
That also helps, in fact i just take a walk around the block or park for 30 minutes to an hour, when i return i'll be down to earth ☺
@cocoarecords
8 жыл бұрын
+Leslie Nyahwa how do you meditate while walking you can't :o
@Micoolaw
8 жыл бұрын
I'd recommend the app Headspace to anyone. It takes 10 minutes a day and the first 30 days are free. They also have mini sessions that you can do while driving / walking (which I'm sure aren't as effective, but still helps)
@cocoarecords
8 жыл бұрын
Micoola thanks alot will try
@princeamir1719
7 жыл бұрын
I'm so impressed that you could predict Donald Trump's win. Brother, you have a wise vision for real.
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Glad you like it Wilson
@hungothanh4913
7 жыл бұрын
but he said hillary won in the last debate and another video showed Hilary used Donald's technique again him successfully so I could say that he changed his mind during the final months of the election- therefore, his prediction is worthless.
@anthonycampbell97
6 жыл бұрын
He never changed his mind. Assessing who won one debate is not the same as assessing who will win the presidency.
@RenegadeSamurai
5 жыл бұрын
It was pretty clear that this would happen for me too.
@acua3
5 жыл бұрын
@@hungothanh4913 if he placed a bet on Donald and left the bet on Donald his prediction is accurate. Doesn't matter what he did afterwards unless that was to place a counter bet
@tiagovlogandmusic
7 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for two months and they've really helped me out. The honesty in your speech is awesome! Keep up :)
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
That's awesome to hear - glad you're liking it!
@MurtyCZ
8 жыл бұрын
"Doubt is going to be there. But doubt gets out of the way when you express courage. Doubt gets burned off by courage" - Elliott Hulse
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+Martin Nikl Love Elliott :-)
@MrSpicyTits
8 жыл бұрын
Or you can just get drunk
@violets2944
8 жыл бұрын
+Vale Sauce yeah, maybe he is trying to make some money but he also is very helpful and these videos are very convenient. You don't have to buy anything to watch the videos.
@MurtyCZ
8 жыл бұрын
+Vale Sauce I did not need to buy anything nor I did. Yet his words inspired me in so many ways that hepled me to achieve things I thought I would never acomplish. He made 1000+ videos that are for free, it really depends what you find in them.
@xxB4NANAxx
8 жыл бұрын
bro don't listen to haters, you helped me loads :-) this channel is helping me develope my confidence
@schoolforlife7385
8 жыл бұрын
Self doubt is actually one of the worst diseases we have today. It's right up there, next to stress and anxiety. Thank you for trying to help solve, this mayor issue!
@wizart_xander
5 жыл бұрын
7:05 for real was expecting 'if there's someone bothering you, light them on fire'
@alfredlouchard5571
8 жыл бұрын
You should do a video on how comedians like Louis CK can say horrible and offensive things in their shows but still come across as like-able and relatable
@greg1mcintosh844
8 жыл бұрын
+idcaf because they can live in a world of duality. they can live in a world where both are true.
@Mya_water
8 жыл бұрын
Its called black comedy and he is amazing at it
@idcaf
8 жыл бұрын
yeah i sort of liked it at first but then it got just darker and darker, especially the tv show and i stopped watching it. I also watched a few of his specials, even showed one to my friends, but now i've totally grown tired of his stage persona.
@CoronaTheVirus
8 жыл бұрын
+idcaf bc its funny, that's the whole point
@futbol719
8 жыл бұрын
+Cosmos *dark comedy
@stubadoo0407
8 жыл бұрын
I was hoping he'd say "once you've got it all out, write your feelings on their face and set them on fire." That's real advice
@justtiinkin994
4 жыл бұрын
It’s 2020 and this just rang true without hardly thinking about it for 5 seconds because SO much evidence came rushing into my mind. The subconscious mind speaks in experiences, even imagined ones. This means I can imagine my way to happiness. I’ve done it before, in micro doses with friends, family, moments. Think of the grand scale and how amazing that is, about to lay in bed and imagine things 15 minutes every morning and night
@AlaaAli-hq3ip
5 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that keeps looking at his biceps??
@MouthwashTyphoon
5 жыл бұрын
No.
@Rindew
5 жыл бұрын
@@MouthwashTyphoon you too huh?
@coltonfrench6760
5 жыл бұрын
Alaa Ali hell no 😂
@LisaOfShades
4 жыл бұрын
No, I want to draw his hands, and I also stare at his biceps... and the triangle where his arm bend, and his cheeks and jaw line. Perfect eyes too. And teeth.
@MitchLucker28
4 жыл бұрын
Been beeping the whole time
@lits1017
7 жыл бұрын
Let's take a moment and look at that perfect video duration 11:11
@ap3637
6 жыл бұрын
No likes for you as it has exact perfect 11 likes! :)
@goodbeauty222
6 жыл бұрын
i want to like this comment but dont want to ruin the 11 likes
@milk6808
5 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Tikeeeeeeee
5 жыл бұрын
111
@LisaOfShades
4 жыл бұрын
Perfect video duration. Wow, that's like OCD porn!
@joewilliams2252
8 жыл бұрын
The part about moving is incredibly true. I have argued with my mum or brother hundreds of times, and if I go walk my dog for half an hour, I feel a lot more positive when I come back
@dots_com1386
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This explains why journaling whenever I'm getting bogged down or overwhelmed by the negative thoughts in my head, always helps me. The way that I write them, it feels like I'm telling my deepest, most inner thoughts to someone, but without the fear of being misunderstood. It also helps me to organize my thoughts because even though it's free writing, the way I write has structure and direction - kind of like an essay. Anyway, I just thought it was cool that you brought it up and it totally is something that has helped me all these years 😊
@YokoshimaOfficial
5 жыл бұрын
Subconsciousness doesn't understand English like we do, I liked that :)
@daximil
8 жыл бұрын
I'd like to see you revisit the Robin Williams Inside the Actor's Studio episode, for two reasons. One, I'd like to see you break down how Robin Williams dominated the show, but also, I'd also like to see you break down how James Lipton lost control of his own program.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+daximil Haha that would be a fun one. I'll have to check out the full length interview
@jordanbrown1997
8 жыл бұрын
that would be awesome
@carlosmartinez5128
8 жыл бұрын
this channel and actualized.org are the best in self-development
@HakonAstrup
5 жыл бұрын
Man, I don't know who you are or what you do, or where you've learned it. I've been searching for answers like you all my life, from psychology, education and other sciences, getting help and trying to grow and learn by helping others, but very few come across as brave, passionate, sensitive and volnurable as you, which makes everything you say a lot more authentic. A lot of what you say comes from cognitive psychology, and neuropsychology, yet you've got such a fantastic way of converting it into speak about it. I'm actually drawing and writing while I watch you to get everything down. Wish I ever could give you something back! Thanks a lot!
@thewisdomcorner-rashidacos1273
4 жыл бұрын
I concur, filtering out negativity is essential to your mental health. It is important to surround yourself with like minded people and consume your time and energy with positivity. A crucial step in doing so is changing your mindset and be vigilant with what you allow into your mental space.
@everydayhustle6641
8 жыл бұрын
You have a great smile man. Awesome vid!
@agentenvironnemental365
8 жыл бұрын
+Greg Small 80$ to repair a laptop at Staples.
@everydayhustle6641
8 жыл бұрын
Only 80 dollars!? Sign me up! Do you need my address and SSN???
@daniellewhitman5900
8 жыл бұрын
+Greg Small lololol
@a.b.3212
8 жыл бұрын
So? They're still teeth. And his smile still looks great.
@airsoftwalrus
7 жыл бұрын
Anthony Ynohtna or he just has great dental hygiene
@Demigodish4o3
8 жыл бұрын
You were very well-spoken in this video. thank you so so much for the tips.
@lm3049
3 жыл бұрын
Many years ago I was affected by someone close to me that abused alcohol. I was in my late teens and decided to try a 12 step program. All of the things you say here are the tools that I learned more than 30 years ago and it’s great to see a younger generation use these tools as well. It shows me that there are some pieces of advice or suggestions that stand the test of time. Writing is indeed a powerful tool. I suggest people write their anger out, reread it a few days later, then breathe a sigh of relief that they didn’t actually post it on social media for the world to see!
@liuhongkun0
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Charlie, you might never read this but I just wanted to give my thanks to you. I had a bad day today and it made me question a lot of stuff about my relationship and my self-worth. This videos really help to make it better, and the ways to deal with it really helps a lot. Keep doing what you do, you help a lot of people like me.
@donktime4448
8 жыл бұрын
Those 86 ppl that clicked the thumbs down are the same 86 ppl that don't like chocolate, puppies and a beautiful sunrise. perception is reality? their perception isn't my reality or yours, it's theirs. I've been binge watching your vids, thank you.
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Glad you're digging it.
@clipdrift
8 жыл бұрын
you are a life saver man. keep up the good work and keep inspiring people!
@ladyoni
7 жыл бұрын
Lack of confidence and self doubt is what has crippled me professionally. Your videos are so helpful. I'm sitting here, watching this, getting ready to go to a networking event with resumes. (fingers crossed) Thank you so much.
@ginanewell356
2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant you are young man. I'm a 54 yr old mother, wife, sister, coworker and I struggle with such issues everyday. Thank you for being Soo real. Glad I stumbled across your video.
@rosskliebenstein8363
8 жыл бұрын
My worse enemy is myself :(
@AskTheAIOracle
8 жыл бұрын
Worst*
@sandimaj
8 жыл бұрын
+jardar westling nordbotten grammar nazi
@AskTheAIOracle
8 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I hate those.
@snickelllfritzzz1859
8 жыл бұрын
+Ross Kliebenstein Me too, for watching crap like this.!
@certifiedmoistman43
8 жыл бұрын
you're not special honey
@emperoriziko4414
8 жыл бұрын
hey charlie....would love to see you do something on "Frank Underwood"......???
@serkous
8 жыл бұрын
+AnarchyKing ^^^^^^^^^^ yeah, what he said Charlie. :)
@SerialHobbyAbandoner
8 жыл бұрын
+AnarchyKing I second this!
@jdvizcainoarmand
8 жыл бұрын
+AnarchyKing Yes!
@TazbowGMV
8 жыл бұрын
Yesss I fifth this
@NicoAssaf
8 жыл бұрын
And Don Draper, please!
@northatlantic2723
5 жыл бұрын
I write out a couple of pages freehand every morning and then put them into the shredder. BTW, I really like that your videos are done in one single cut, without any of that fast cutting ADHD stuff that so many people do nowadays. Respect!
@MonsieurKonthaar
6 жыл бұрын
Hello, i just wanted to thank you for this video. I've been suffering from crippling depression for over the last 13 years and this video gave me some insight of the subconscience, and made me more aware of its existence. I finally feel like i can take some control back over my life and my mind. This video was probably not intended for this, but it certainly helped me alot. Cheers!
@unknOwnXit3
8 жыл бұрын
your pace, tone, and vocal volume were on point. great video.
@naz0098
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos!! The way you pick on these things just from observation and experience and then being able to analyse and put it into words is truly a gift!! You are helping so many people. Good on you!
@coreyjones4763
7 жыл бұрын
You have your finger on the pulse of emotional conflict and insecurity! Great teacher of how to successfully Conquer its crippling effects on human emotions! GOD BLESS!
@sipapito
5 жыл бұрын
I got rid off facebook, tweeter, and Instagram all at once. Thanks for the positive vibe you give out.
@Mrchum1992
8 жыл бұрын
These techniques are really incredible actually. Especially, Doing exercise really works on me, it makes me release my stress and be more confident about my goals that I can do it. I guess There is a connection between our body and our mind. When we reach a good point when working out, our mind becomes positive as well
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
°That's a good observation. Thanks!
@eliausi9696
8 жыл бұрын
I'm binge watching these videos, they are excellent!
@davidm.caboose1482
6 жыл бұрын
The fact that I'm popping through these videos like a checklist is a tad depressing, but, at the same time, it has been a great help. Thanks, my man.
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Glad you're finding them helpful David!
@mathew1812
6 жыл бұрын
How accurate.!!! I wrote every bit of my negative thoughts and self destructive thoughts. I've also listed my own version of solutions of my problem in my notepad. I seriously feel good and relieved. But I was even doubting my solutions and trying to search for someone whose way to handle such issues like me. I finally found your video and I'm totally feeling really OK. I hope I'll be alright from now on. Thanks man.!!
@llh3025
8 жыл бұрын
It's really nice to see positive, quality content---keep up the good work, you're great!
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Happy to share :-)
@viewerone
5 жыл бұрын
🤯 “subconscious mind speaks in experience”
@benjaminkrause2129
6 жыл бұрын
I listen to those videos, hear great ideas and mindsets. Then I go to the comment section and sees that people down here are just as great. Really happy to see; you all deserve some sort of reward. This channel is the core of world peace
@Charismaoncommand
6 жыл бұрын
~ Thanks for the kind words!
@MeditatewithAbhi
4 жыл бұрын
If you hear a voice within you say you cannot paint, then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced.
@samis8098
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Charlie, ever since last July
@forgeaus
8 жыл бұрын
Some of this stuff is great for depression, like when I had negative thought cycles, I found Affirmations didn't help I simply didn't believe I was a strong confident person (ok so the affirmation needed to be more practical right?)... anyway, what DID work was the opposite... to tell myself this negative thought cycle wasn't helping me... so knowing that I would stop... and its the truth... it links in in some ways, but what I noticed is you mentioned about taking action, action is the last thing depressed people want to do but it also in a sense robs them of spending their time thinking negatively... which actually means its wrong to think that "I thought myself into this depression so that means I can think my way back out..." - that was my first mistake anyway...
@zevongiddings4236
5 жыл бұрын
Bro, i found one of your vids in the suggestions after watching some end game content... 4 hours later, I'm still on KZitem going through your vids one by one. I've subscribed, liked and ready for notifications. You have an amazing craft. Keep it up, very motivational. THANKS.
@carlakool3782
5 жыл бұрын
Same experience here Z 😂😂😂 Over 2 hours so far!
@motionista
5 жыл бұрын
Subconscious doesn't speak (insert your language) - this suddenly made me realize a lot!!! It was so simple yet I hadn't understood!! Thank you!
@superiorseven4814
8 жыл бұрын
I really liked the speed of this presentation! Using some pauses throughout, not as extreme as how Elliot does though, will surely do much for the video. Also, your hand and body gestures are really captivating.
@cc-tz6kq
8 жыл бұрын
I never watched your vids and I honestly thought you were going to be a douche bag, but this was very elaborate and actually great tips. I like when I anticipate something to be negative and end up appreciating it, because it's rare (not to brag, but I'm usually right). So thanks. You have earned a new subscriber. (I realize that I sound like the douche bag with this comment. Touche Mr. Command. Touche, indeed.)
@JasmineLajeunesse
5 жыл бұрын
Ɗσραмєαη єѕcσвαя σтмιc lol
@kimgibson15
8 жыл бұрын
I read a lot and talk to a lot of friends.... you are REALLY SMART and MATURE. Congratulations!
@MrWindholz123
5 жыл бұрын
I used to write down my thoughts into some unread tumblr blog. This was my most effective tool when battling depression. It makes me happy to see that it helps other people as well
@davidmonroy2509
8 жыл бұрын
Very impressed, it is difficult to find good wisdom and I have an affinity to recognize it. This is definitely worth listening to.
@Jojo-official
8 жыл бұрын
this is a great video, thank you so much! I have many self-doubts but I'm trying to change it and be more positive about myself!
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@giantcat4354
6 жыл бұрын
I like how, when you're giving advice, you talk about how these things used to affect you and how you cope with them now. A lot just post about strategies and criticisms of the way we think but you feel more human and relatable rather than prescriptive. You're "I've been there, this is what worked for me" style speaks of understanding developed through, study, trial and error. I guess I could just say you seem more relatable.
@AnnaPrzebudzona
5 жыл бұрын
I was so confident in my belief that a person much younger than me couldn't possibly teach me practical psychology lessons. And so, here I am, admiring your wisdom...
@Interestedification
7 жыл бұрын
You are Darling! Thanks for what your doing, spreading the love and passing it on.
@wanadriana712
7 жыл бұрын
found your channel. watch a few of your vids and i just think you are the best life coach 😊
@shakaka7027
5 жыл бұрын
Bro I have to let you know that your channel has really helped me so much more than I can explain in words. Also if you look at the difference between the (18000+) likes and the (235+) dislikes how bad can you really be? What that tells me is haters are going to hate & trolls are going to troll. You're doing way better than said trolls that are too self-conscious and/or too lazy/unintelligent enough to do something as awesome and selfless as you. I admire you for trying your best to help out complete strangers for no credit or repayment of any kind (besides youtube ads which suck anyways)! So keep your head up and just know that you really are doing a great job of helping people like me become a better person instead of the empty shell I have been lately. For that reason and many others I would like to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for helping me out with something most other people wouldn't be able to!!! P.S. I live in Vegas too and believe we relate in a few ways and would like to get some lunch or something in that nature with you sometime if you would like.
@Casey-dy2oo
7 жыл бұрын
with the paper thing and lighting it on fire, he said if you want to put that idea on steroids, if you have a person who is making you mad. . . I swear I half though he was gonna say light them on fire too lol.
@sanzidaamin4993
7 жыл бұрын
Me too lmao
@Summileinchen
8 жыл бұрын
Could you do a "20 facts (or more or less) about me" video? I´d love to know why you live in Vegas and maybe there are also some other interesting facts about you. I´m sure many subscribers would like to get to know you as a person better.
@HxH2011DRA
8 жыл бұрын
THIS
@MegaIkkuh
8 жыл бұрын
THAT
@jerrymack95
8 жыл бұрын
+VeganEasy THERE
@MegaIkkuh
8 жыл бұрын
Norman herecy! right there!
@OneWhoDreamsAwake
6 жыл бұрын
AGREED.
@megangoodall2005
7 жыл бұрын
I prefer this video as well as the video about being good enough to a few others because of the humanity you express. At first I found your videos helpful but I was not as open because you seemed too confident or plastic(honestly I was waiting for you to tell me to buy your e-book for the steps). When you speak about your personal experiences and feelings it shows in your body language and tone of voice. It is far easier to relate and it feels genuine. Your confidence is admirable but adding vulnerability and understanding really adds to the advice. You are doing a great job though. Thank you for trying to improve the lives of others. Also the step format is great.
@mikaeladeleon7128
7 жыл бұрын
so much I could say here. it's hard, at this moment, to keep my thoughts linear. they want to jump all over. I'm a likeable person. I tend to ask genuine questions which has been misconstrued as flirting. my therapist says I have a very strong "apparent competence". it's not a mask in that I'm a different person, it's just the offset if my personality I've learned is safe to express. I think that's part of the reason I've spent most of my life being misdiagnosed with depression. I certainly do suffer from that dreadful disorder but I nearly crumbled under its massive weight. because that had been used as my umbrella as it were. when in actuality I've diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (missed because I'm nice), PTSD (no idea how that was missed, generalized anxiety and agoraphobia, and the ever present major depression (reoccurring). i struggle with the ways in which I've let myself be abused and used and learning the validity that no means no (and giving I'd so they'll eventually leave you alone doesn't count as consent). I loaded all that up so you can understand just how awesome this video is and how many areas of a person's life it touches. as part of my therapy for BPD I'm in a program called dialectical behavioral therapy. believe it or not many of the things you've spoken of are things that the therapy is trying to teach us as skills. skills to help us cope with our intense emotions. "Tip your body chemistry" usually means things like putting an I ice cube in your hand or a cold shower. however intense workout/being physical would also count. 2: check the facts; we are being taught to question why we're feeling the way we do. does the emotion for the situation? does it's severity? which leads into finding what the actual trigger is. 4: is observe and describe. a set of skills to help us "ride out"the emotion. your letter idea of writing to yourself as the other person could be "improve the moment". the last is probably turn the mind. I've not gotten far enough to know that one. and all of these are participation. not once did you say "ignore the feeling", "freak with it later", "what your feeling is wrong" or any of the common things America often tells us. beneath your five ways to cope with self doubt you are saying "your feelings are valid". not that they are right or wrong. you focus on how that feeling is impacting you and making a conscious decision to change it. I don't suppose you know how awesome that is. I've managed to come to terms with my sexuality and then later my gender identity so I've quite a strong sense of self that paradoxically I believe no one wants me around. self doubt is a large part of BPD regardless of how you express it. this video is less about destroying self doubt as it is finding ways to believe in yourself. thank you for sharing. I don't think I can watch any more of your vids currently... if it wasn't obvious it's been rather intense for me. lol so you do you (#criticalrole) and keep sharing your insights. thanks again darlin!
@tskcello
5 жыл бұрын
Wow, I loved the letter from the other person idea. It can help healing when you cant get that apology you need to move forward, for whatever reason that they dont see the pain they might have caused you. What a powerful tool towards self love. To affirm our own pain, without the go ahead from someone who hurts us.
@barbarabardaka6095
7 жыл бұрын
man i hug you together with my laptop! love from greece! my cup of love is overflowing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@everytimesthefirsttime
8 жыл бұрын
I'm downloading this. This is really really helpful, thanks.
@serigotskrila6712
5 жыл бұрын
How?
@dawatseten235
8 жыл бұрын
i am a follower of Dalai Lama but whatever you did you are helping others by sharing your experiences. i really appreciate your deed.
@valcatt5975
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, and remember that doubt is nothing more than projection of unwanted into the future...
@marleoca2644
7 жыл бұрын
In my case, the fact that I am (or just look) too confident about myself in front of the others alienates many people from me, because they feel "threaten". Therefore, I alienate myself from people as well, simply because I can't take their stupid enviousness and jealousy anymore. I'd rather be lonely than in bad company:D
@prannn174
7 жыл бұрын
Marla Ca i feel you!
@aurorasartorialis7092
6 жыл бұрын
"Who has his own why in life can bear almost any how." (Twilight of the Idols: Maxims and Arrows 12).
@ogliara6473
5 жыл бұрын
I have failed my driver's test a couple of times now and it was really getting to me. You are really helping me combat my feeling of self-hatred and sadness, so truely, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for everything
@SalMos7737
7 жыл бұрын
I tried the freewriting tip. I was feeling down because I let self doubt keep me from approaching and speaking with this girl I've known for a while and really liked(on multiple occasions) even while knowing she felt the same way. it was a very eye opening experience. thanks dude!👏
@geordirendum583
8 жыл бұрын
have my sub. Not the kind of talk i watch normally but you are clearly competent in what you do!
@gbossboy
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these techniques Charlie, this is fantastic. Really looking forward to next Monday's video, but does that mean you won't be producing another one for a full week?
@Charismaoncommand
8 жыл бұрын
+Gerald James I might do a Q&A/talking head style Thursday or Friday, but no breakdowns til Monday (those take a long time)
@gabikoyenov
8 жыл бұрын
+Charisma on Command YOU ARE AWESOME!! ive been watching wisdom filled videos for over 4 years, you are one of the best and most unique artists ive come across. i love your charisma breakdowns. you probably improved even the lives of the trolls. the only feedback i have is do a charisma breakdown on the legend jim rohn. i hope you read this, you deserve to know that people appreciate your good work.
@adfggffffffddffd
8 жыл бұрын
When you look straight into the camera your head and neck look like the eraser end of a pencil with ears.
@kapildeoagarwal8639
8 жыл бұрын
This man is honest and genuine.
@zoeylowe3419
7 жыл бұрын
I won't lie - for a while I was super resistant to your videos because I got kind of a pick up artist vibe, but I've been consistently and pleasantly surprised that this has not been the case. I find your videos to be fascinating and helpful; I send them to my friends sometimes. I sent this to my good friend, in fact. Keep up the good work!
@Charismaoncommand
7 жыл бұрын
Will definitely work on more! Thanks!
@emank8137
7 жыл бұрын
love the idea of Free Writing! Thank you for this useful video!
@TwitchRxZ
8 жыл бұрын
Hey charisma on command, would you be interested in adding like a book recommendation or reference on the topics of your videos if u have any? Your content is really interesting and I cant speak for everyone but maybe there are some like myself whom would like to read on it. Keep up the good work too bro! Your videos so far do not fall short on being engaging
@benjaminanthonym
8 жыл бұрын
Go look at his website he has his recommended websites there
@mr.dccomics9018
8 жыл бұрын
get 10Game
@rubyred2874
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. I am so happy I stumbled across your videos. I am an empathic person and have been the target of narcissistic abuse and negativity growing up. I have trouble believing in myself. Sometimes when I get insecure it feels like myself is disappearing like I am nothing compared to others. This selfabuse comes in all ways: I never feel smart enough, beautiful enough, successful enough, a special enough etc. When I have a negative experience or comment from someone I can stew over it for days. Just recently when I was out with my three active boys who are 8, and 7 year old twins a woman i don't know told me in Walmart to take my children and go home because my boys were a but active. I was shocked when she said this to me. But I did defend myself. I told her I am a paying customer and have much right to be there as her. Then she said her children never acted that way out in public and she said my kids acted terribly. I told her i am doing the best I can and that she should not be mean and judge because you never know what kind of day someone is having. Her older daughter or niece called me a dumb''''s and gave me the finger in front of my kids. The older woman also said I am crazy and she feels bad for my kids because they will be crazy too. She was obviously a bully. Was I crazy for standing up for myself? Anyways, I have been feeling depressed 4 to 5 days now because of that incident. I am trying hard to let it go, but I do suffer from anxiety and depression so her comments keep going over and over again in my mind. I wish I could be cool like other people and not care, but the pain resides. She made me feel like a terrible mom. I love my babies so much and she embarrassed me and my kids. After she left the store I was so much in shock I cowered with my head down at the register feeling faint. The manager had to being me water. Luckily the other people around me did care. One woman qho was a customer held me and said I was a good mom. She helped me a lot. I am hoping your videos can help me along with therapy I am going to. Thank you for caring and helping to make a difference in other people's lives. The word needs more people like you, bless you.
@96Yamari
5 жыл бұрын
I have such a strong, angry, and aggressive "YES" for you after watching this video. That and a handshake. Thank you sir.
@AA-pr6xb
7 жыл бұрын
I feel like he should be a movie actor for some reason
@Eitans88
7 жыл бұрын
you totally got a thousand bucks
@peaceatlast8286
7 жыл бұрын
You are so right...social media is depressing. When I got off of Facebook I felt so so so much better! It's a time waster and I have much better things to do!
@saikilaru5581
8 жыл бұрын
I love how your videos have actionable changes that I can implement into everyday life and aren't just motivational speeches. Thanks!
@jgen9452
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Charlie ! Another awesome video with VERY GOOD IDEAS
@cantwakeup4967
8 жыл бұрын
Embrace me, Charlie!
@ashn7446
7 жыл бұрын
when you said burn the paper we write or delete it is extremely great advice. Understanding that our subconscious even self doubt is So obvious to clear out is Amazing. I'm so glad that God made everything so simple and so cohesive in solving things we make so complicated. but that's shows humans are prone to make things complicated and it's great to have people who have gone through life to help other which is more valuable to God
@alyajewellery
6 жыл бұрын
I don’t socialise anymore because of socially clumsy people who make comments about my looks. This video helps thanks!
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